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I Am Lonely and Confused

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    there's so much inconsistencies.

    . i need answers.. i miss you so much D.....
    TrueLove213 TrueLove213 26-30, F a week ago

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    It's cold outside and I'm laying in bed trying

    to stay warm. Images of you smiling and looking into my eyes pop into my head. Tears start run down my face and stinging my cheeks. I miss the warm touch of your hand, those comforting hugs, and the way your soft lips touched mine. Most of all I just miss "YOU" I love you...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F Feb 1

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    After running into many people with broken

    hearts I thought this may make them think.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Jan 31

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    I feel like a vegetable.

    Vegetables who are there to be eaten and finished. That's how I feel. My life has no direction right now. I am known as a happy and gay person so I can't even tell people how sad I am. I don't want to tell my friends and family about what I am going through. I don't want to be...
    Sheetalheer Sheetalheer 26-30, F Jan 30

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm just all of the above and then it's heightened by my overactive mind. My main crush doesn't like me back and I know cuz I told him. He's not into guys, but he has an over...
    NobodyLove NobodyLove 18-21, M Feb 11

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    I join this forum because I feel lost, lonely and confused. I just want to talk about me and my experience. I am a single mother of a beautiful baby boy and I am in my late 20s. Ok...
    Afua77 Afua77 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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    If we knew how our life would plan out, would that make it easier or harder? Would we prepare for what's coming, or would we just run? We all get this feeling, this moment of...
    lifeofhope lifeofhope 16-17, F 1 hr ago

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    Could it be that I am just a difficult person to love? I was in a relationship at the beginning of this year, for those of you who read and advised me in my previous post, I want y...
    Love2Express Love2Express 22-25, F 15 hrs ago

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    Still, after all this time, after all that's happened, after all I've done...I am lonely most of the time. I have a very good life with all my needs, and most of my wants met...
    lonesurvivor lonesurvivor 51-55, F 17 hrs ago

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    This day is my classmates birthday and all of us are invited. Why is it that people didn't notice me! Felt like an air in the whole place as if i'm not there. I am absolutely...
    marlounet marlounet 18-21, F 6 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I moved around 7 times since a child, been to 7-8 different school. I've never had any real friends. I've never confided anything important to anyone, and never been able to talk...
    Jacksoncw Jacksoncw 18-21, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I feel so lonely these days... I don't go to work... I don't go out, don't interact with many people... I started avoiding making conversation in real life.... it's so badddd.....
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I started talking to you because you said you were lonely and that you needed a friend. We've been talking for a month now but you post that you are still lonely. Yet you don't...
    namedashley namedashley 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    so I was talking to my long-distance boy friend on the phone, which is hard because he likes to talk mostly about himself, but we got on the subject that my birthday is tomorrow...
    katalina22 katalina22 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Feeling lonely is different from feeling alone.
    LionPrincess03 LionPrincess03 18-21, F Feb 7

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    I met a really nice guy. I didn't really like him at first because he's not my type of guy. However, witnessing the way he loves someone--me particularly--I was drawn to him...
    hastycrew hastycrew 22-25, F 3 Responses Feb 11

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    Ok here goes. I am new here and this is my first post. I would just like to know how long is too long to wait for intimacy? My wife and I have been cold now for over 4 months...
    stronzo stronzo 46-50, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm going to a con in March called zenkaikon and I'm just so lonely and I have a feeling I'll meet nobody and just be a ghost or just another face in the crowd.....I just I don't...
    shammymane shammymane 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    just gotta put this out there. I think sometimes some people get a little confused. there was a point in my life when all I really wanted was a family, one to call my own. I...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am confused with my surroundings, emotions, and feelings. I tend to never know the right things to do or say. My mind is always running on thoughts that I expect myself to follow...
    ohangela ohangela 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I'm really confused and no one knows it except my therapist who I just revealed this to. I've kept things a secret for so long and have been afraid to say anything. I feel so...
    ces588 ces588 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    I'm always just a little bit confused. No special background story, no special reason. I'm just always a little bit confused.
    sile3 sile3 16-17, F Feb 3

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    Feeling confused about things in my life. I just want others to be happy even if it means I hurt. My head and heart are getting so confused about things.
    Uoaman Uoaman 36-40, M Feb 3

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    I am currently in that stage where I have literally no idea what the hell is going on in my mind and heart. I'll try and make this pretty short. Just to say this is going to be...
    themuffintitan themuffintitan 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I'm confused about guy who I ever wrote here, who I loved with someone online from Canada. called he with 'J'. about 3weeks ago his gf msg me in fb. she said I'm so freaking...
    callixtine callixtine 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 7

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    My husband and I have been trying for a baby for a few years. He is a cancer survivor and our difficulties in conceiving are related to his previous treatments. We had gotten...
    perfectlyimperfect2 perfectlyimperfect2 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My dearest love Look at the deepest heart of me Like a river without water As my heart without a lover I was lonely Since happiness had left me And now i am still lonely By the...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M Jan 31

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    I'm a 29 year old Stay at Home Mom and I'm lonely. I'm definitely not planning on being a stay at home mom for long though. I love my son with all my heart but I get cabin fever so...
    KassGreen KassGreen 26-30, F 3 Responses Feb 4

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    I feel so lonely right now. Yet again my husband reminds me that he's depressed every holiday because he misses his Mom. Yes, I married a Mama's boy. I love him so much but he...
    iflsoh iflsoh 36-40, F Feb 14

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