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I Am Lonely and Confused

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I didn't feel lonely until I let someone get close to me. Then it hit me like a ******* train.
    anon5829529 anon5829529 18-21, F 4 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I had always assumed that I was straight. I went to church and listened to my preacher on the issue, like a "good boy", as my mother once put it. I had been taught sexuality was a...
    super563 super563 13-15, M Jan 18

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    Hi dad! Its me I know we never talk or having a real conversation in the past because you were gone too soon! Way too soon! I couldn't even remember how your face was. I was to...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 14

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    This is kind of myself where I want to freak out. Today, I felt happy and somewhat confident but I feel like I had a good damn day... but I guess something was really missing from...
    UniqueFlower14 UniqueFlower14 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have been married for 21 years. For many of those years I have been lonely and hurting and confused. I get brief glimpses of the man I fell in love with. Just enough to keep hope...
    MLH205 MLH205 41-45, F 15 Responses Jan 6

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    in a relationship aren't you not supposed to feel lonely why are we in a relationship if im feeling lonely. I want to be your attention i want you to give it to me every time we...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Jan 19

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    i do always feel lonely and miss someone i haven't met. though i'm in crowded people and my beloved family. what happen to me?
    elvirayy elvirayy 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 4

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    Yes, so it has been a long while since I've been on the site, and remember it has helped me a lot a few years back when I was known as theconfusedhatter. I used to live on a...
    PaulJt PaulJt 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 4

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    Today, once again I feel this way. I feel lonely and left out. Whether it was choice or accident, I don't know. Whether its the right thing or not, I don't know. All I know is that...
    angelcares angelcares 22-25, F Jan 7

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    I do think online relationships are real. But in some relationships the fantasy and real life are so conflicting. I like the online people I talk too, but I'm afraid I hurt...
    Sewmuch2do Sewmuch2do 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 8

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    I am married. Love my husband but am so bored. Have not cheated but almost want to. I don't feel sexy and I'm too embarrassed to ask my husband to go out his way. I had servere...
    ariuri1 ariuri1 31-35, F 14 Responses Jan 8

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    Today I felt really alone and irritated with people. It's like no matter how hard I've tried, I've failed at creating long lasting intimate relationships. I have been in a foul...
    melymay melymay 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 9

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    I am feeling lost all alone though i wanna really to have confidence in myself but i don't know how,i thought i have already let go of the past but i guess i can't run away of it...
    Nyata Nyata 18-21, F Jan 18

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    Seems to be the soundtrack of my life.Lonely Man - Elvis Presley(Words & music by Benjamin - Marcus)It's a lonely manWho wanders all aroundIt's a lonely manWho roams from town to...
    charnwood charnwood 61-65 1 Response Dec 30, 2014

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    I do remember a time when I wasn't lonely, though at the time I had convinced myself that I was. It wasn't until I lost it that I realised I had never known true lonliness. As a...
    PersonalGenesis PersonalGenesis 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 5

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    Hi, this is my very first post. I just would like to share what i have been going through for the last month or so. First, backstory: I met this girl 4 years ago. She was 15, i...
    roobs108 roobs108 22-25, M Jan 3

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    I'm always the third wheel but to a larger ratio. I have only ever had a best friend once but she moved when we were in fourth grade. She was my first friend, I met her in third...
    Newgirl00 Newgirl00 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm not confused!!! I think I know and you know too. So who's confused now??? :-P
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 17

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    I just got into this new relationship.. And I don't know how to handle it.. He's the same age as me which is weird because I like older guys better.. He doesn't have a job.. He has...
    LovingTheNewMe LovingTheNewMe 16-17, F 9 Responses Jan 18

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    I lost my best friend Sept 29/14. He was a great guy. We had a lot in common. We became friends through work. We used to share our stories with each other every morning over coffee...
    nataliavr2003 nataliavr2003 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 19

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    So I've been taught and raised that being nice and a gentlemen was the way to get a girl. But in reality most girls fall for the bad boys, those who treat them like objects, or...
    Storyguy007 Storyguy007 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've had a massive crush on my history teacher for 2 years but he left and moved half way across the world in September, since he left I've been really confused with my feelings...
    anonymous329 anonymous329 13-15, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm so lonely as f. -.- And bored. But mostly lonely. Or maybe I'm lonely because I'm bored. Or I'm bored because I'm lonely.
    alilight alilight 13-15, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'm really confused and no one knows it except my therapist who I just revealed this to. I've kept things a secret for so long and have been afraid to say anything. I feel so...
    ces588 ces588 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My dearest love Look at the deepest heart of me Like a river without water As my heart without a lover I was lonely Since happiness had left me And now i am still lonely By the...
    rogi4u rogi4u 36-40, M Dec 29, 2014

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    I saw this the other day and it was something i could relate to. When i sit at the dinner table with my family i feel like im a stranger. I dont know them, and they dont know me...
    Xychorite Xychorite 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 29, 2014

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    It's funny because every time the sun sets I suddenly feel so alone. I always feel like there's something missing or like the day ended too soon. There's more to do, more...
    Michkay Michkay 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    I've been divorced for the last 3 1/2 years after a 6 1/2 year failed, and miserable marriage. I'm on here because I'm lonely. I'm a little over a month from turning 36, no...
    Sweetphoenix35 Sweetphoenix35 31-35, F 12 Responses Jan 15

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    The break up with the girl I was dating made me realized how confused I am, and I really don't know what to do with my life. I'm in college, pretty close to graduating, but I'm not...
    clixt clixt 22-25, M Dec 29, 2014

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