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I Am Lonely and Confused

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    I'm lonely and hate my looks I think I'm overweight because most people just point at me saying ill nasty fat etc and it stops me from enjoying people and asking a girl out for...
    revolution2018 revolution2018 13-15, M 3 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Being lonely in a relationship is awful. I'd rather just be alone... Period. Then there would be no expectations of companionship. And it wouldn't hurt so freaking bad.
    JustJenn74 JustJenn74 36-40, F 35 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Being alone is a choice, but being lonely is a losing battle :(
    Supershoes24 Supershoes24 22-25, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I am so lonely,going thru a divorce and I know its not a good idea to get involved with some else,what do I do
    brucerobertson brucerobertson 26-30 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I'm soo lonely I feel pathetic I have no one to talk to that I feel would give me a caring and real empathic response...I feel alone with my thoughts I just want someone to listens...
    4u2heed 4u2heed 26-30, F 3 Responses 23 mins ago

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    A while ago I posted an experience saying that said basically asked for a friend. The problem is that my true motive was to find a boyfriend. I talked to a few people and...
    cr1sn cr1sn 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 9

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    I am lonely and I have mixed and confused thoughts about it. I can text, message and email you all day and night. I will smile at our similarities, laugh at your jokes and even...
    SocioNarcc SocioNarcc 31-35, M 3 Responses Aug 11

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    I'm a young girl who doesn't know much. I'm confused about my sexual orientation. I think I might be bi. It might just be a phase. I told my best friend and she said she doesn't...
    carelihed carelihed 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    I recently started spending time with a group of friends that I had been away from for a long time. When I left, their kids were little... now, not so much. One child in particular...
    CrusherKreel CrusherKreel 41-45, M Aug 5

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    I am as lonely as hell... Juz cuz I'm a confused idiot with practically no lgbt friends to talk about this too...
    JessiLin JessiLin 16-17, F 10 Responses Jul 21

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    Lonely , sad , confused and even bitter . My husband took a new job in another state . His job is the most important thing to him. I wish he had that type loyalty and passion for...
    aloneinvegas aloneinvegas 36-40, F 4 Responses Aug 8

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    July 21. Being Is Enough. We are not always clear about what we are experiencing, or why. In the midst of grief, transition, transformation, learning, healing, or discipline - it...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Last night I was lying in bed crying. For the first time in a few weeks after starting anti anxiety medication I lay awake asking myself where I fit. Why I am here and if I'm...
    heyitsabike heyitsabike 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    August 3. Owning Our Power in Relationships. "So much of what I call my codependency is fear and panic because I spent so much of my life feeling abused, trapped, and not knowing...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Aug 3

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    So I don't really feel that way now, but I often do... But so I thought this was interesting... I mentioned that I was broke lately, well I started doing stuff to try to fix that...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    So my boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I love him and would do anything for him. I am confused whether I should stay with him or break up with him and would appreciate...
    lonelynomoe lonelynomoe 22-25, F 12 Responses Aug 11

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    A year ago my best friend and I were having conversation at chow baby with one of our old teachers and she was concerned that she was settling for her boyfriend. Back then I...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Gravitonas - People Are Lonely ft. Army of Lovers Life is a rollercoaster life is a rattlesnakeLost in a crowded place people are lonelyLife is a kitschy poster life is a massive...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Every day I notice more and more how little I have in common with the people around me. I feel so isolated. Almost as if I am a pigeon between a group of parrots. We all get...
    AnomalousEarthling AnomalousEarthling 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I'm lonely and I admit I'm the one at fault. I always thought I was merely being picky with people. I used my introvert personality as an excuse as to why I only have a few close...
    GreyMatter1 GreyMatter1 70+, F 6 Responses Aug 9

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    I'm not lonely for friendship, emotional intimacy, shared laughter, or sweetness. I'm lonely for physical intimacy - not just sex, per se, but the feeling of being desired by...
    Screenwriter66 Screenwriter66 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    I'm a separated Mom of two kids..I have a boyfriend now, I'm a filipina and his Taiwanese.. he meet all my standards so I fall for him..only this one thing that still make me...
    mspokwang mspokwang 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I see a lot of folk's on here write about how lonely they are,(now I'm not a Doctor), but I feel loneliness is a state of mind After my wife passed, I was very lonely, I would sit...
    sweetcharlene41 sweetcharlene41 70+, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    I have a fiance who loves me, treats me well generally....but I seriously doubt my love for him... or I'm so confused. I feel immensely guilty thinking negatively about someone...
    ladymacbeth99 ladymacbeth99 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    My boyfriend of a year and a half has put me second to girls he claims he USED to like. I hate feeling second to someone i put first, always. I never knew how jealous of a person...
    micheller1995 micheller1995 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    i am confused whether to go back to my home town or not... am a single mom, and the father of my daughter left us and lived with a married woman. his support is so insufficient...
    ahho ahho 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    the thing is im lonely when im not alone. when im on my own, i shed the several walls i have up at any time and let my guard down. When im alone, i can wear shorts and a tank top...
    FreeJazz FreeJazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I have always been that friend. The one that you love to keep around because you know they'll always be there. That friend that will listen to all your problems, stick up for you...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder and anxiety. I finally went to the mental hospital, two times in a three month period, after an attempted suicide and a lot of...
    heapograss heapograss 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 26

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    My life has always been lonely thou I was born alone without nothing in life but god gave me family thou in tht family I'm never involved .. Before I used to go everywhere with...
    Maha123k Maha123k 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    Am lonely...no because am alone or have no one around me..hell I get lonely even when am out clubbing with my friends..the main reason as to why am lonely is because am afraid of...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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