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I Am Lonely and Confused

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    After running into many people with broken

    hearts I thought this may make them think.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Jan 31

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    It's cold outside and I'm laying in bed trying

    to stay warm. Images of you smiling and looking into my eyes pop into my head. Tears start run down my face and stinging my cheeks. I miss the warm touch of your hand, those comforting hugs, and the way your soft lips touched mine. Most of all I just miss "YOU" I love you...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F Feb 1

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    there's so much inconsistencies.

    . i need answers.. i miss you so much D.....
    TrueLove213 TrueLove213 26-30, F Feb 19

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    I feel like a vegetable.

    Vegetables who are there to be eaten and finished. That's how I feel. My life has no direction right now. I am known as a happy and gay person so I can't even tell people how sad I am. I don't want to tell my friends and family about what I am going through. I don't want to be...
    Sheetalheer Sheetalheer 26-30, F Jan 30

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    I don't really know who will read this, but I'm mostly writing this for myself (hope it doesn't sound selfish). Well, even if I have lots of loving people around me, I feel like...
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    My husband and I aren't what we used to be. He doesn't give a crap about my feelings or my needs. sometimes I think he is with me because he loves my family so much and he doesn't...
    LonelyMom214 LonelyMom214 26-30, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I don't understand people! Okay so I'm the one who will initiate friendships with people who constantly say they want friends and are lonely on here. I'm not a creep or a weirdo. I...
    IllusionaryGentleman39 IllusionaryGentleman39 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 1

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    I've been married 8 years and feel like I am wasting time every day that goes by. I guess I made the wrong decision in marrying my wife but two kids later I feel like I'm stuck in...
    Stimulatingconvoplz Stimulatingconvoplz 31-35, M 1 Response Mar 7

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    RE: Divorceā€ There is one more thing how dare you ask me to be amiable you messed everything up you have no rights any more you gave all those up when you committed adultery...
    reddwarf1910 reddwarf1910 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    after my breakup with my boyfriend I got confused with my emotions because he said it doesnt feel rite dating me yea it hurts because were far away but still idk how im gonna see...
    eltrakills eltrakills 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I get confused and lost often lately. I am in a state I've never seen before, visited, and know nobody. Except for my boyfriend and roommates. Often ask myself, "where am I...
    PartyGuy21 PartyGuy21 18-21, M Mar 4

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    I am so lonely. I've always been lonely, but I don't think I've ever been as much as I am now. I love being alone, but it's because I can't be left alone that it makes me feel...
    BlueRio BlueRio 18-21, F Mar 2

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    I'm always lonely.too lonely to feel so.. i'm numb. i don't feel i am lonely like other people feels lol But today i..feel lonely very much. if you need company,pm me. nothing...
    Juri0902 Juri0902 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Confused. Oh so very confused. Mixed feelings.. so overwhelming. The good things and the bad things constantly clutter my mind. Which outweighs the other? Are they equal? Not...
    Scoodaloop Scoodaloop 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    recently my bf broke up with me. His reasons were that it seems that I love my friends more than him. That is so wrong and I keep trying to show him that I still want him. He says...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Its another lonely evening In another lonely town But I ain't to young to worry And I ain't to old to cry When a woman gets me down Got another empty bottle In another empty bed...
    pecos666 pecos666 36-40 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I always have.. As I've grown up I've been an only child from my mum and she's brought me up. I have a sister from my dad but i hardly see her. I really have only 2 main friends...
    Ridingtonewyork Ridingtonewyork 13-15, F 14 Responses Mar 15

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    I am so very Lonely. I am a seemingly very social person. At school and at work, everyone thinks I am an extrovert as I am quite loud and laugh a lot and talk to everyone but I am...
    Killme2 Killme2 22-25 1 Response Mar 18

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    My dearest love Look at the deepest heart of me Like a river without water As my heart without a lover I was lonely Since happiness had left me And now i am still lonely By the...
    rogi123 rogi123 36-40, M Mar 18

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    Lonely lonely lonely... :/
    HyperParadise HyperParadise 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I'm really lonely at the moment and I just wish I had a sister around my age or a friend who will always stay by my side. I kind of bitterly accept the reason why I feel so alone...
    Lunan0va Lunan0va 18-21, F Mar 19

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    I am not so sure I want to not be lonely anymore... finding someone could be tragic... It is like finding death... Lonely has a place in my heart now... A constant empty space I...
    nocool nocool 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Isn't this like every introvert ever...we like the space , our " me" time is important to us. It's because when we do spent time with people; bestfriends or strangers we use up...
    hadidamshah hadidamshah 22-25, M Mar 1

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