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I Am Lonely and Confused

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    there's so much inconsistencies.

    . i need answers.. i miss you so much D.....
    Faith0615 Faith0615 26-30, F Feb 19

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    After running into many people with broken

    hearts I thought this may make them think.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Jan 31

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    It's cold outside and I'm laying in bed trying

    to stay warm. Images of you smiling and looking into my eyes pop into my head. Tears start run down my face and stinging my cheeks. I miss the warm touch of your hand, those comforting hugs, and the way your soft lips touched mine. Most of all I just miss "YOU" I love you...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F Feb 1

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    Parents are always worried about their

    daughters results, but when my sister got bad results my mom got really mad but eventually got over it. However as she planned to go to Cambridge to see colleges, my mom said to cancel it and said not you cant miss classes. However, my sister HAD to go because she couldn't...
    Fluffcloud Fluffcloud 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    I feel like a vegetable.

    Vegetables who are there to be eaten and finished. That's how I feel. My life has no direction right now. I am known as a happy and gay person so I can't even tell people how sad I am. I don't want to tell my friends and family about what I am going through. I don't want to be...
    Sheetalheer Sheetalheer 26-30, F Jan 30

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    I feel so alone. I barely have anyone to talk to and it's all my fault. Due to my insecurities, I find it difficult to seem happy (even if I am genuinely happy), and a face that is...
    FrankCCR FrankCCR 16-17, M 1 Response 23 mins ago

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    I guess it is lonely at the top; I am not trying to sound pretentious or whatever, but that is how people see me. I am a college student, and I am most excellent grade - wise, and...
    KingNidas KingNidas 22-25, M 1 Response 37 mins ago

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    I used to have a lot of friends in high school. Then once I graduated. I focused on college and now on my career, while others partied, got married, or had children. Now at 24, and...
    lakerlily lakerlily 22-25, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I want to hug someone who also feel lonely. PS: I know internet does not work that way.
    JohnyKesu JohnyKesu 22-25, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    confused isn't the word I have never been with a woman but I think I have feelings for a woman but I feel very confused
    susananngoga32 susananngoga32 31-35, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    I got a call from my very upset Ex, only 2 days after we had broken up. He says he has mad a mistake and really wants me back and for things to work. I'm just really worried that...
    jjaylee jjaylee 18-21, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    I have people... I have an amazing group of friends. And honesty a wonderful girlfriend. But honestly why do I feel lonely? I feel like running away most of the time.
    CameronPing CameronPing 18-21, M 3 Responses 18 hrs ago

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    What should I do? I've been trying to see this lady and it hasn't been working out I feel like I should just give up. She flys 5 days a week so she's only home on the weekend. The...
    Brasijae Brasijae 22-25, M 1 Response 18 hrs ago

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    Well of course I'm not a lesbian.... But I do get lonely sometimes.... And I sometimes wish I was a lesbian....
    seanbone11 seanbone11 36-40, M 22 hrs ago

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    All right everyone--I need some assistance understanding this one. I met this fella about two and a half months ago from OKC. We had a fun first date: barcade and fun...
    lostinthought17 lostinthought17 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My partner just left to work in alaska for a few months. I feel really sad and lonely without him. Any suggestions on how to get my mind off of it just a little? That way I won't...
    Eve92 Eve92 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    If someone who lives or is in Tallinn-Estonia, feels lonely and wants to spend some time with someone in real life. I would love to meet you. I am lonely and would like to have...
    JohnyKesu JohnyKesu 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    I am so confused and I am older, I shouldn't be! I should know exactly everything because I have been there b4! so was messaging this younger guy, we play games together and...
    LadyValeska LadyValeska 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm so lonely. It's hard to even describe how lonely I am. Never dated. Never even been on a single date. Never laid in the same bed with someone and felt their warm embrace. I...
    rebecky1221 rebecky1221 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Lately I've been having this internal debate with myself that had to a lot with my introverted nature. It was a debate on why I was always craved solitude, why I always wanted to...
    chanelroe chanelroe 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    i am lonely and depressed most days. but im not as lonely as i used to be. ive left most my old friends behind and with my depression state i dont really feel social, when my mania...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I look outside the window & I see a lonely road, I see outside the window & I see a lonely sky, I see outside the window & I see lonely humans, Why is everything I see so...
    sexyrahul2014 sexyrahul2014 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a 21-year-old female who, incidentally, is Catholic. This affects the concept of my sexual orientation greatly. After having dated and had sexual relationships with boy guys...
    jch694 jch694 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Loneliness revisited... Okay we all are lonely in our life, no matter who you are, what you do, where you live ? you are sure to taste this bittersweet fruit of life. I used to...
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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