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I Am Lonely and Confused

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 299 People

    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    It's cold outside and I'm laying in bed trying

    to stay warm. Images of you smiling and looking into my eyes pop into my head. Tears start run down my face and stinging my cheeks. I miss the warm touch of your hand, those comforting hugs, and the way your soft lips touched mine. Most of all I just miss "YOU" I love you...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F Feb 1

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    there's so much inconsistencies.

    . i need answers.. i miss you so much D.....
    Faith0615 Faith0615 26-30, F Feb 19

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    I feel like a vegetable.

    Vegetables who are there to be eaten and finished. That's how I feel. My life has no direction right now. I am known as a happy and gay person so I can't even tell people how sad I am. I don't want to tell my friends and family about what I am going through. I don't want to be...
    Sheetalheer Sheetalheer 26-30, F Jan 30

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    After running into many people with broken

    hearts I thought this may make them think.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Jan 31

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Parents are always worried about their

    daughters results, but when my sister got bad results my mom got really mad but eventually got over it. However as she planned to go to Cambridge to see colleges, my mom said to cancel it and said not you cant miss classes. However, my sister HAD to go because she couldn't...
    Fluffcloud Fluffcloud 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Whether I am alone and lonely or surrounded by friends and lonely, all my dark thoughts and fears form a prison around me. I agitate and thrash inside my self-made prison. I can...
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    What do you listen to when you are lonely?
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    well I have not moved on after many tries. I am working hard by making things right again but my family doesn't support me. I am so lonely that I am becoming crazy. I need love...
    divich01 divich01 18-21, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    well who am I, I'm just a confusing teen going through what life have to offers, grew without a mom, and a dad who is on and off never been for me anywhere in life, graduation...
    tishev210 tishev210 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I really don't know what to do. I think since I've been married my husband hasn't been into me. I catch him looking at other women, ****, and recently I caught him sending...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser 31-35, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am married to a red hair stunning Irish man. he's 9 yrs my senior and was blessed with a beautiful daughter. He has 5 kids prior to our marriage and I had one from my ex. So in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Apr 28

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    I did not think it was so possible to have so many friends but no friends at all. I am so lonely but t the same time I jut want everyone to leave me alone
    Scaredmonster Scaredmonster 16-17, F 1 Response May 13

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    I've been out of my marriage for close to a year, it's been a relief... After all the hurt and cheating... I was so glad to be on my own( I still am) But I'm terrified and lonely...
    kitticat007 kitticat007 31-35, F 4 Responses May 17

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    so confused. like really confused. i don't even know what to write right now because everything is just a bunch of mush. i guess i'll just say that our love seemed so magical and...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I am really confused about my gender Right i would like to start of by saying my sex is male but i don't feel at all like a male. I act like a normal male around my family as i...
    Ashlleigh Ashlleigh 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 25

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    At the beginning I would like to apologize for the long post I'm about to write, and for any mistakes (English isn't my first language you see) I'm going to make, writing this. I...
    Junderbalt Junderbalt 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 25

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    This person has been my friend for half of my life, within the last couple of years, I've realized my feelings are stronger and that i love her; that I want more. She lives 6 hours...
    v30a84 v30a84 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    It has been 5 months since my ex and I broke up. He has a new girlfriend now. I had a much harder time than him moving on. I went through a really ugly period of depression, but...
    LorettaAnn LorettaAnn 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Recently, 4 weeks ago, my boyfriend arrived from Abu Dhabi to meet his family. During 1 week he was with me after his trip, he was so strange and I felt something was wrong. Im...
    sarahvenice sarahvenice 26-30, F 2 Responses May 9

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    Am I the only one in the World who are lonely? It's something you can't talk about It's something that isn't very good to tell others. It makes you feel even more lonely when...
    2greeneyess 2greeneyess 16-17, F 4 Responses May 9

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    I am lonely. I sit and wait for you, I know you text. I know you can't call yet I wait for you. I remember the way it felt when u touched me for the first time. I remember the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 11

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    Lately I've been going through a series of events in my life that have been really hard. I haven't had anyone to talk to about it either so I guess I could just let it out on this...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 3 Responses May 12

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    First and foremost, I would like to admit that I have failings as a human being, like we all do. I have my ego issues, I have my temper issues, I live with the consequences of...
    anarane anarane 26-30 May 16

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    I'm confused about life because I don't have a goal in life right now. I don't know what I'm living for what my aim should be. Everyday I'm basically doing nothing, just read...
    kekehuang kekehuang 36-40, F 2 days ago

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