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I Am Lonely and Confused

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     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    there's so much inconsistencies.

    . i need answers.. i miss you so much D.....
    Faith0615 Faith0615 26-30, F Feb 19

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    It's cold outside and I'm laying in bed trying

    to stay warm. Images of you smiling and looking into my eyes pop into my head. Tears start run down my face and stinging my cheeks. I miss the warm touch of your hand, those comforting hugs, and the way your soft lips touched mine. Most of all I just miss "YOU" I love you...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F Feb 1

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Parents are always worried about their

    daughters results, but when my sister got bad results my mom got really mad but eventually got over it. However as she planned to go to Cambridge to see colleges, my mom said to cancel it and said not you cant miss classes. However, my sister HAD to go because she couldn't...
    Fluffcloud Fluffcloud 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    I feel like a vegetable.

    Vegetables who are there to be eaten and finished. That's how I feel. My life has no direction right now. I am known as a happy and gay person so I can't even tell people how sad I am. I don't want to tell my friends and family about what I am going through. I don't want to be...
    Sheetalheer Sheetalheer 26-30, F Jan 30

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    After running into many people with broken

    hearts I thought this may make them think.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Jan 31

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    I am lonely indeed. Pushing it down and covering it up or lying about it, doesn't make it any easier or make it go away. I haven't had the best past relationships, and in that I...
    rockerstar rockerstar 26-30, M 37 mins ago

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    With the help of God I'll be cancer free in two years with treatment but I feel lonely now
    patoenano patoenano 36-40 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Hi new here. I have been married for 14 years now and do not know why. I feel as though we have nothing in common and we spend no time together. We have children (none together...
    hpygrl1971 hpygrl1971 41-45, F 4 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm so ******* tired and alone. I don't want a lot, and don't think I deserve it, but I just ******* want a woman in my life romantically, and you know what? its never going to...
    anewman1993 anewman1993 22-25, M 7 hrs ago

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    I have a small family of cousins and aunts. Most of my family have passed on either from Cancer or Natural Causes. I do have friends. But as working adults, we only have time for a...
    BlaiddDrwg69 BlaiddDrwg69 41-45, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    When i say im lonely, i mean that i feel detached from the world. I dont belong anywhere. Im trapped in a cage, waiting to be let out. But it appears i may not be let out. I dont...
    ForgedFromFire ForgedFromFire 16-17, M 16 hrs ago

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    Hello. I get confused with my feelings sometimes. For example, when I'm joyful and having fun I love everything and go against everything bad like cruelty. But when I'm anger or...
    ImConfusedSo ImConfusedSo 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I'm a lonely married woman with 2 children. I'm just coming out of an affair that I ended up in bc my husband & I do not get along & have nothing in common. In sad & lonely.
    Soconfusedgm Soconfusedgm 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    It's weird. I have some friends, yet I still feel lonely. There are times, when I am in a crowded room with lots of people and somehow still feel lonely. The friends I have aren't...
    SmartYetUgly SmartYetUgly 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I have an amazing partner in my life but this long distance thing turns out is tough. I am lonely more often then not and I am so sick of it already, yet it's only the beginning. I...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I don't feel sorry for myself. I don't feel the need to be needy. Do I feel lonely? Yes but it's okay,I can live with this feeling because I understand why I am lonely. Life can be...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 3 days ago

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    I dont know what i m doing ,will it help me in the future, i m totally confused what i will do,will i be single forever, there are so many questions which answers are not so...
    Dreck007 Dreck007 18-21, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Ok, I'm really confused. When I first joined EP about three weeks ago I wrote a experience about my wife and I and how or love life is all but over. There's just no more sparks...
    Peter4546 Peter4546 41-45, M 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    Even when we're sitting in the same room we're so distant. He sits on his phone on reddit, reading and laughing at things he reads like I'm not even there. It used to bug me. I...
    aquiver aquiver 26-30, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    My heart's desires flowed out in my tears Even as I kept faith with you, I remained so lonely. Life became an unquenchable thirst And love stories stayed incomplete. Even as I...
    AsfaqAlam AsfaqAlam 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    Lonely, for me, means abandoned, or one is sad because she is alone. And with my dad telling me to "Change the way I think" and my mom asking me to "Cut the emotional crap out...
    BlackRosesAmongLilies BlackRosesAmongLilies 13-15 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Being alone isn't technically lonely, but when you have no choice BUT to be alone it definitely feels odd and lonely. I feel as if school is the only get away I have. Even my home...
    anon0109 anon0109 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really don know why i joined here and not sure if its going to be of any help at all. But still here i am like always hoping for something if not good or best. I am a very...
    livinglikeaghost livinglikeaghost 26-30, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am alone and lonely and even when I am not alone i am lonely and I'm afraid I won't change and I will stay lonely forever