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I Am Lonely and Confused

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 16-17, M Jan 13, 2014

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 26-30, F Oct 5, 2013

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    After running into many people with broken

    hearts I thought this may make them think.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M Jan 31

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2009

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    I feel like a vegetable.

    Vegetables who are there to be eaten and finished. That's how I feel. My life has no direction right now. I am known as a happy and gay person so I can't even tell people how sad I am. I don't want to tell my friends and family about what I am going through. I don't want to be...
    Sheetalheer Sheetalheer 26-30, F Jan 30

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    I don't Know where to start,

    My story is for years and years my self loathing caused me to get heavy into Heroin Addiction, and now that I'm clean I feel like the world is still taking a **** on me, I can't every get a girl to want to commit to any form of date I'm getting turn down in my passion of sound...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    there's so much inconsistencies.

    . i need answers.. i miss you so much D.....
    Faith0615 Faith0615 26-30, F Feb 19

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    Everyone's Lonely.

    So I don't have time to be "lonely"  But sometimes I've just got to sit down and feel sorry for myself, that I want someone there. I guess it's my teenage years that just wants a relationship even if it hurts her in the end.       Comment...
    Isabellesheart Isabellesheart 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 12, 2009

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    Parents are always worried about their

    daughters results, but when my sister got bad results my mom got really mad but eventually got over it. However as she planned to go to Cambridge to see colleges, my mom said to cancel it and said not you cant miss classes. However, my sister HAD to go because she couldn't...
    Fluffcloud Fluffcloud 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    It's cold outside and I'm laying in bed trying

    to stay warm. Images of you smiling and looking into my eyes pop into my head. Tears start run down my face and stinging my cheeks. I miss the warm touch of your hand, those comforting hugs, and the way your soft lips touched mine. Most of all I just miss "YOU" I love you...
    candij1983 candij1983 31-35, F Feb 1

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    I feel like ****. Actually for the past week I've felt like ****. I feel like **** because I'm so lonely. Back in elementary school I was a normal kid. I joked, had two best...
    soulCearchin soulCearchin 18-21, M 13 hrs ago

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    "Lonely... I am so lonely. I have nobody..." Only downside to moving 1100 miles away from home.
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    I'm staring at a blank page and I don't know what to write... There's too much on my mind, and so little words. Such a long story and so little time, so little strength to say...
    Arwenn Arwenn 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    And i cant always tell if i am happy or unhappy about it. Some say it is good to cherish and protect the alone time, which i think is an good thing. But what if one already has...
    mirkwood86 mirkwood86 26-30, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I miss my best guy friend from high school so much. he had a big crush on me for over a year, we went to prom together and he treated me like a princess, he always asked me out and...
    swanlet swanlet 18-21, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    A terminal illness is a lonely experience. Watching your friends vanish in to thin air makes even more lonely.
    Kwakwakalanooksiwae Kwakwakalanooksiwae 36-40, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I've experienced this odd pattern. Somebody will really like me and want to be my friend. Then, after doing something together for my birthday, few months later I notice a change...
    WolfBlood9 WolfBlood9 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I told him a few nights ago I was very lonely - he started screaming at me and threatening me... Now a couple days later, nothing. Just dead silence - honestly I don't know what...
    lostinnewengland lostinnewengland 41-45, F 11 Responses Aug 26

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    8 months ago I came out as a transgender male because for the past year or so that's how I've felt and I've been happy with finally being myself. Sometimes I still like to wear...
    virtualricki virtualricki 16-17, T 2 Responses Aug 26

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    I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a had now and we live together everything was ok until recently I've met this guy and I get this feeling about him that my boyfriend...
    donno644 donno644 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I always say that I am confused with what I feel. I stopped say that and decided to be authentic with myself. I just am not sure how I feel. I don't know where I stand yet. what do...
    bigheartsmallworld bigheartsmallworld 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Why do men say at the end of the date "I had a great time, we should definitely do this again!" And then never call? It's so confusing.. I can handle the truth. If you don't want...
    ctina493 ctina493 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    So here is the thing. I am 19 years old, just moved to a new city in a different stae, far away from home. Im here studying in a private university, I don't swim in cash or...
    eliosfu eliosfu 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 25

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    Okay. So there is this guy that I've had a crush on like forever. He is the total opposite of me though. I'm girly and innocent while he's a tough guy who has done some bad things...
    Hannahchristie Hannahchristie 18-21, F 8 Responses Aug 24

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    im all alone, i know i am. i dont really think people like me. it feels so fake all the time. if they really cared, they would notice that I'm not fine, and I'm not the girl they...
    twoface444 twoface444 18-21, F Aug 24

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    I have so many great friends but I feel like so lonely. I have been with a lot of friends ones cuttin up and laughing but I still feel lonely sometimes
    brooklynturner brooklynturner 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 23

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