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I Am Lonely and Confused

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    Confused/ Over It

    I'm so f***ed up right now. Idk what to do anymore. I try to be happy and confident, but it never work doesn't matter how hard i try. I'm getting tired of doing this everyday. F*** it, i give up. It'll never get better....
    unknownreverie unknownreverie 16-17, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Damn These Human Emotions...

     Time has past since my last post but I am still lonely and confused. I no longer have a boyfriend ( I knew that wasn't going to work out but it helped for a little bit) and have been trying to keep myself as busy as possible to keep from letting the lonely nights and days...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jul 29, 2009

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    Whereabouts

     We're all lonely souls. My loneliness today won't get fooled by any romantically paranoid justification. I'm not blaming anyone in particular for this solitude. I believe people that suffer from loneliness can be very caring people ;  paradoxically someone that is...
    EarthlingWise EarthlingWise 41-45 6 Responses Sep 27, 2009

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    Can't I Get Pregnant Again?

    when i was 18 in my teenage i had an abortion. after that i asked my bf ( now he's x for me coz i broke up) to be careful. though he showed love and affection and sympathy towards me but he never listened me when it comes about sex. so the consequences was that i got pregnant for...
    anukc anukc 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 5, 2013

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    My Fate??

    It seems loneliness is something that I have been destined to endure since my birth.  I have never really had any close friends, only friends in certain situations, but never anyone to call when I am lonely, bored or feeling low.  "A" works, all the...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 3 Responses Dec 12, 2009

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    I just met a girl this weekend.

    ... She was truly beautiful. We really hit it off and I am now talking to her.... But all I want to do is hold her in my arms. I have never felt this way about a girl before.
    bige513 bige513 13-15, M Jan 13

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    Hell Knows

    There's this woman that I think would've been pretty great for me. We never see each other anymore. When we used to hang around each other I was perpetually confused. I'm very bad at reading women and I felt like I constantly got mixed signals. At times I was absolutely...
    caddisfly9 caddisfly9 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 4, 2011

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    Just Make This Stop

    IF THERE IS A HIGHER POWER I WANT TO SAY IM SORRY ABOUT EVERYTHING AND MAKE IT STOP...I CAN NOT LIVE LIKE THIS ...IF I DERSVED THIS PLEASE LET IT BE ENOUGH .. SHOW ME SOMETHING A SIGN SOMETHING THAT MY LIFE CAN BE COMPLETE DIFFERENT AND I CAN FEEL DIFFERENT... THIS IS HELL...
    sherrants sherrants 46-50 1 Response Feb 17, 2012

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    Idk Ne More... Oh Yeah I Nevr Did

    It's really hard to know where to begin. I have felt almost overwhelmingly alone my whole life... no really. I have never had someone love me, not even my crazy f*cked up parents. I am almost 24 and totally lost in life. My whole childhood was miserable... and I always held...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 29, 2009

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       I'm Lonely...

       I'm lonely but not really confused. I would just like to feel like I can be able to tell someone my deepest darkest secrets and feel loved. But doesn't everyone, wish that?
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jun 22, 2009

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    Not Sure How To Handle

    i am lonely and have no real friends.  i spend all of my time in the house and am often depressed (clinically i think) and have no real motivation to interact with others.  partly because I am single raising a teenager that hates me living check to check.  I feel...
    waitingforsomethingtohappen waitingforsomethingtohappen 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 29, 2009

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    Why?

    Hello, I just needed to vent a little really. No one gets me, they think because I write my feelings on facebookthat I'm trying to hurt someone. Truth is, I have no one to talk to so I simply vent on my wall. I never use names or say hateful things yet ppl judge me. Every time I...
    angeleyezz1975 angeleyezz1975 36-40, F Jul 3, 2013

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    To Be Or Not To Be

    I have been in a relation for 10 years.I was in love and got married and few months later realized that the relation wasn't going any where. Ever since then I have tried to get out of it but there was always something that got in the way.Now I have my financial independence and I...
    longings longings 26-30 5 Responses Jul 22, 2010

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    I'M So Lonely...

    I'm so lonely Lord, why have you put this curse on me. I get good grades, I have good looks, I try to do my best. But, Why Lord, Why, have you put this love-sadness / loneliness curse on pore 17year old me.. I know I have all my life to find the perfect girl. But because you gave...
    Feb 1, 2013

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    Confusion

    I guess you really didn't care about me. You say you do then you leave when I'm at my lowest. You will wait for me to build myself back up and then come back and ditch when I crash again. It's like a cycle. Gah I love you and that's what is holding me back from letting go. What's...
    snickerson17 snickerson17 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    Tons of Emotional Problems, Someone Help Me

    i don't even like sharing my feelings, but maybe that's cuz i do not want to other people to know how i feel, an i have no idea why it is, to others i'm a girl who's always OK, and never complaints, but on the inside i feel like i'm screaming for help... i know i have some...
    voice voice 18-21 1 Response May 11, 2009

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    Husband Divorcing Me Before We Get to Live Together

    Let's just say that there has been way too much drama in my life the last couple of years.  I had been married to a pretty nice guy for over 15 years, when I contacted my highschool sweetheart.  Should have just never done it. Well, I divorced my first hubby, then...
    gardengirl7 gardengirl7 41-45, F 2 Responses Jun 27, 2008

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    I feel so lost and confused. Im studying architecture and i dont like it, even one bit. I want to change my course to mass comm but im afraid. Im afraid that it'll turn out the...
    Llamadelrey95 Llamadelrey95 18-21, F Apr 4

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    These days, I find I am lonely a lot of the time. I say that I want to be alone but that's not the case at all. I stay in my room alone most of the time, waiting for someone to...
    LameyC LameyC 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 15

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    i dont know what to do m confused
    rocky1807 rocky1807 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    March 29. Getting Needs Met. Picture yourself walking through a meadow. There is a path opening before you. As you walk, you feel hungry. Look to your left. There's a fruit tree...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Mar 29

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    I am almost to nine years of marriage and 19 years in my relationship with my wife. We have two beautiful and amazing children together (ages 4 and 2). My wife recently expressed...
    Allboutmykids Allboutmykids 31-35, M 7 Responses Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 7

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 8

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    April 8. Self Care. "I don't precisely know what you need to do to take care of yourself. But I know you can figure it out." —Beyond Codependency Rest when you're tired...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F Apr 8

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    April 9. Giving. Learning to be a healthy giver can be a challenge. Many of us got caught up in compulsive giving - charitable acts motivated by uncharitable feelings of guilt...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I am going through so much right now and I am hurting , sad, lonely and I feel like I am being played like a fool. My situation is so messed up but I am trying to think positive...
    rd2btrme rd2btrme 26-30, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I have been married 1 year and 1 month. However my husband has left me 4 times just in the first year every single time an argument has taken place, bills are overdo, his feelings...
    bubblysunshine bubblysunshine 31-35, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    On this site, there are so many people feeling lonely already, that means there are much much more people feeling lonely in this world. So actually we are not lonely in feeling...
    OTIOSUM OTIOSUM 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Today I came to the realisation that I don’t matter. I mean people see me and enjoy my company they compliment me. Oh I’m pretty or oh I’m funny, you’re cool they can even...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    Why do so many people say they are lonely , why do people need other people to make there life happy & what is lonely ? . If something is making you lonely then change it after...
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    hi friends i am lonely and want a friend for ever hi friends i am lonely and want a friend for everhi friends i am lonely and want a friend for everhi friends i am lonely and want...
    kashish0077 kashish0077 31-35, F Apr 10

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    It's Rare that I feel this way. I try to notice my emotions. When I feel them, why, if certain people trigger it. I'm trying to notice these kinds of things so I can be happy and...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Lonely. Everyday I feel lonely. I do everything by myself and no one understands me. I don't have friends and I just feel so isolated from other people my age. I deserve to be...
    FightingForRecovery FightingForRecovery 16-17, F 14 Responses Apr 12

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    I can't help it as knowing much and doing nothing in my life, as if you imagined me while been around people and always help all. I never ask anyone to help me and even if i am...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Well I don't feel it but it's a fact about me. At school I can't stop talking, not lonely there. BUT!!!! At home, I'm cooped up in my room all day! Because honestly, I like my...
    SparksFly66 SparksFly66 13-15, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am quite confused over a few things that may be relatively difficult for me to explain. In the past few years life has been... odd. I say this not because I am struggling with...
    pneumaGrey pneumaGrey 16-17, T 1 Response Mar 29

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    Hi there, sorry if this post is a bit long, I feel like there's a lot to explain so 1st of all thank you if you take the time to read this! Here goes... So basically i've always...
    pinkdiamondxo pinkdiamondxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I broke up with my bf of 6 years, not because I didn't love him or care about him. But because we went through a lot and I had a lot to get over. So I broke up with him so I...
    feelinglost84 feelinglost84 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Confused confused. I know this is not a good idea. But i even think on marrying someone for visa and to just get far away from my family as soon as I turn 18.
    zhaneylhuv zhaneylhuv 16-17, F Apr 2

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    So a guy I've liked for a long time now wants to kiss me, but he doesnt want to have any commitment. He just wants to kiss me, period. I've never had my first kiss, and he said he...
    defi4nce defi4nce 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am so confused about my ex. We've been separated for just over a year. I left him but I don't regret that decision. He was an alcoholic and it got to the point that he was...
    FreedomtoFly FreedomtoFly 26-30, F Apr 6

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    I'm confused.This one time my friend showed me a picture of Jeff the killer (from creepypasta) I literally freaked out and got paranoid but a few months later now I have lots of...
    BurningPhoenix123 BurningPhoenix123 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    From the day I was born, I started to drift away from other people. In the beginning I didn't have much to say, and toddlers don't tend to care what you wear as much, so social...
    TragicMonkey TragicMonkey 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 26

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    its an unending circle. i am depressed because i am lonely and i feel i am alone because i am depressed. I can start any conversation you want online. i feel ok to be me online...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I don't show it but I am lonely. People think Im weird because I don't socialize and I'm always by myself. People try to talk to me and befriend me but I just push them away. Ive...
    cat1024 cat1024 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    Actually I am not! I have my family and my friends but I still feel so lonely! I trusted a few but what happened? YES They broke my trust! Its sooooooooo difficult for me to trust...
    HariMi HariMi 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I am lonely because I don't feel that I connect completely with anyone in my life on a mental level. I enjoy mental stimulation, and I like learning about others. I do enjoy...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    I don't feel lonely relationship-wise (as in I'm single but not necessarily looking for a boyfriend). I'm lonely because I feel unwanted by my "friends". I'm only close with about...
    mblo2984 mblo2984 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 12

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    So yeah, I feel lonely. It doesn't mean I am stupid. Lonely means lonely, not a fool or an idiot. I thought that was obvious!
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Those of you reading this post, I am just looking for advice. I feel I have tried so much(counseling, books, etc,etc) I am not looking to just chit chat with other lonely men...