I Am Lonely and Looking For Love

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    I am not really looking for a relationship a friendship would be just as good. I have just been really depressed lately. I recently got out a failed relationship which has really hurt me and effected my depression and anxiety really bad. But I think anyone reading this can relate...
    CamisadoD CamisadoD
    Apr 12, 2013

    How To Find Love

    When you are parented in fear and self contempt you might spend the rest of your life "looking for love in all the wrong places" as I have. I am happy to report that at 73, I have finally found the love and self respect my parents robbed from me shortly after birth. For anyone...
    jimrich jimrich
    70+, M
    1 Response Feb 23, 2011

    I really don't like being alone

    and I just want somebody to love
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 23, 2015

    I wish I found Someone

    who loves all of me, my flaws, my happiness, my stubbornness, love my family, and loves animals.
    gizmolover101 gizmolover101
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 24, 2015


    Hi I am looking for someone who likes to have fun in the sun, go to the movies cuddle at home an watch tv or mainly just do things together, taking rides in the country , camping ,fishing, swimming, going out dinner.etc.
    kooky08 kooky08
    1 Response Jun 28, 2008

    So, not having much luck in the "find a

    girlfriend" process. There's likely something I'm doing wrong, but damned if I know what. I've mentioned it before, but I wasn't exactly specific, so let me be clear: I'm not interested in older women nor am I interested in guys. Just putting myself out there.
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706
    22-25, M
    Apr 23, 2015

    He's Out There

    This is half a personal story and half me reaching out to anyone who might share these thoughts/ feelings. I had a dream years ago when I was still a teenager. It's one that re-visits me every 6 months or so in some way or another. I remember it quite clearly because it was the...
    Anglosax Anglosax
    22-25, F
    Feb 5, 2011

    It's Been A Rough 6 Months...

    On June 5, 2009, I went to work, as usual, never suspecting how the day would end.  I was the host of the morning program on an NPR station in Pennsylvania.  And I was dating the woman of my dreams -- we had tentatively decided to get married in about a year.  I...
    Steve3427 Steve3427
    51-55, M
    Nov 21, 2009


    I am lonely too.Never had a boyfriend and I am 30.I am so depressed, hopefully Iwill find someone soon.
    gilfer gilfer
    1 Response Sep 13, 2008

    I Try To Talk To You........

    I try to talk to you, but I don't know what to say. I am afraid you don't want me to say anything. So I don't. But inside of me there are words waiting to come out. And tell you how I feel-like how I miss you. And how I love you despite my broken heart. And how I need you in my...
    senit senit
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 17, 2013

    I'm 21, almost 22, and I have

    yet to kiss a girl. I'm picky, I'll admit, and a little skeptical, having gone through several failed long-distance relationships, but I'm willing to give it a shot again. I'll also admit that I'm attracted to smaller girls (or women, if you prefer that term) and younger, as...
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706
    22-25, M
    Jan 31, 2014

    So, yeah. Looking for a girl that's younger

    than me. Preferably, only about two to four years younger. It'd be nice if she's accepting of unusual quirks and kinks. If interested, inquire within, I suppose.
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Apr 19, 2015

    I'm pretty picky about the girl I'll go out

    with. I don't suppose there's a girl out there willing to put up with that pickiness?
    Wolfsbane706 Wolfsbane706
    22-25, M
    Apr 22, 2015


     i have been dating a woman and i worked hard to love her and avoiding things which would hurt her. I tried to be open to her as much as possible to understand am such a trust worth man,  loving and caring person , she have ever met. Last April this year , i found her in...
    emmalonely27 emmalonely27
    2 Responses Jun 3, 2012

    Time To Move On

    I was with the same woman for 18 years, married to her for 13 and during that time we adopted two adorable little Angels, bought a house and had, as far as I had thought, set ourselves for a happy rest of our lives. The problem was that we lacked in communication skills and this...
    Falcran Falcran
    41-45, M
    Jul 17, 2012

    I've always been a very shy girl,

    especially around guys. I don't know why they never approached me. Was I ugly? Dumb? Boring? Sigh, I don't know. My first (and only) boyfriend I dated just because I wanted a boyfriend before I turned 18. He abused me and I've never actually been in love. I want and need love...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Jan 24, 2016
    coulditbeyou coulditbeyou
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2014

    I am a genuine, down to earth guy with a

    welcoming sense of humor.Anyone who is easy-going, sociable, and loves to laugh will get along great with me.Pls text me and i ll be so glad to hear from you.David
    firstfandave200 firstfandave200
    41-45, M
    Jul 18, 2015

    I Need Someone Serious

    I AM 28 male i can imagine hw much others are@ enjoy in their relationships . i have been lonely for 3 years now my friends will talk about their wives and i have nothing to tell no grilfriend i need someone who will love me and understand me
    mduduzi mduduzi
    May 9, 2012

    Just Want To Have A Funny Virtual Friend To Chat With..

    i think my life is wasted...nothing much to share and nothing much to brag about... just want to have a friend far from what i expect...no matter what color, religion..or any sectors...
    fritzmagz fritzmagz
    2 Responses Oct 2, 2010

    How Does A Loner Find Love?

    I've never been in a serious relationship. I've never walked through the mall holding hands with my significant other. I've never cuddled or kissed someone while watching a movie. I want to experience these things so badly. I want to know what it's like to love and be loved...
    NaNeenah NaNeenah
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Dec 10, 2009

    So Lonely

    I am lonely and looking for love. right now I'm single and wanrt someone who would care about me and stand by me through the good times and bad.
    glamourgirl1980 glamourgirl1980
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2008

    I Am Still Lonely Looking For Love

    Is there an honest loving hardworking guy looking for unconditional love out there?where are you and why havent we found each other yet??
    Unloveablelady77 Unloveablelady77
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Nov 27, 2011

    It's Sad

    i'm so lonely... i'm looking for love, i see people in love everywhere, all my friends are talking only about their boyfriends. i dream about having somebody to love, to share moment with, to spend time with.i imagine he is wrapping his arms around me and hug me and kiss me. i...
    secrloner secrloner
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Jul 21, 2011

    It's Been a Hard Day's Night, and I've Been Working Like a Dog

    Well I'm from the Boston area, and having difficulties making friends and finding a partner. I work alot and don't know anybody here yet :(
    corpses22 corpses22
    May 23, 2008

    Not Desperate, Just Really Lonely

    I have an ideal. When it comes to love, i have an expectation, it's not someone's looks, or what they say, its what they do, and all i'm looking for is chemistry, I have felt it before, and when i had it, i was fine, my life was good, i didn't need anything else, everything was...
    Bitingbullets Bitingbullets
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 19, 2013
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