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I Am Lonely and Need Friends

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    Widowed

    I am not sure why but the comment I just wrote disappeared. I am widowed times 4 years now. I am pretty much of a recluse almost never leaving the house. I need to make some friends and am not sure how to meet people anymore. I have two dogs
    sunnie9 sunnie9 66-70 Jul 18, 2012

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    Pretty/bubbly/Danielle

    I wish i had a friend to go to wine bars with and to go out with. Since i moving I have not met anyone who i can say is my friend, someone i can have a laugh with some one who likes similar things to me.
    dgrant dgrant 31-35 Jul 9, 2009

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    I Am Lonely

    I cant do it on my own................................tried but I just feel so empty.............................felt so let down with everyone who has used me..........................................but I know I am not a bad person or a demanding person...
    Isrujik Isrujik 36-40, F 1 Response Nov 10, 2009

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    So I'm cuddled up with my teddy bear

    and cuddle blanket. :(
    KittyMask KittyMask 22-25, F Jun 29

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    NEED Friends

    i AM LONELY AND I WISH I COULD MAKE FRIENDS. i WISH I HAD SOMEONE TO CALL ME AND ASK IF I WANTED 2 GO TO THE MALL OR SOMETHING
    Lenibernard Lenibernard 16-17 6 Responses Aug 10, 2008

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    TRUE Love

    AM LOVELY AND NEED TRUE LOVE.MY GIRL FRIEND LEFT ME BECAUSE I DONT HAVE MONEY.I FELT SHE DIDNOT LOVE ME THAT IS WHY SHE LEFT ME.I NEED TRUE LOVE.
    salemct1 salemct1 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 29, 2008

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    Real-Friends

    They say as you grow older you realize who your true friends are because they stick around. Well I guess i didn't have any because once I got married, had babies, and moved away from my hometown they all lost interest in keeping in-touch. I even had gotten back in touch with one...
    rwilliams356 rwilliams356 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 16, 2013

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    Married And So Very Alone.

    I have been married for a long time. My husband is controlling and I can not remember when the last time he said anything nice to me.My youngest is now in College. She was my light a reason to get up each day. She is independant now and she should be. She is a goodgirl and has...
    ssinger ssinger 51-55 6 Responses May 17, 2011

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    Wishful Thinking

    I used to have some friends before I moved away , became a family man , AND went sober . My wife (for a little longer) doesn't want to hike , explore , hunt , have a few ( only a few! ) drinks . I love taking my 6 y/o son outdoors but ya know its not the same . I miss having...
    Tanengreen Tanengreen 36-40, M 5 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    Yes I Have Known Years Of Lonliness

    I have such empathy and sympathy with all lonely people out there, as I have know many, many years of loneliness, too much detail to put into a short story,, and as it is 2.18am now, I will save  that for anothe time. But I like many thank god for the internet and sites...
    Buxomboobs Buxomboobs 61-65, F 11 Responses Apr 14, 2010

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    Life Turn

    you know how to tell my sad story, i am so lonely and depressed about an year ago i just wonna say to dear friends about my whole life and how i gonna lonely in life my childhood gone modrate i have better life in childhood but another part is my parent they fight each other...
    yash95 yash95 18-21, M May 15, 2013

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    Widowed Man Looks For Assistance To Look After Two Young Kids

    l am a 37 year old  man employed as a  security guard  in zimbabwe.My wife passed away after a short illness and left two young kids aged   4 years and  the younger one was aged one month only and was just breastfed for only a two weeks.mother and l...
    muface muface 36-40, M Apr 7, 2010

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    Billy No Mates!!

    Three bites of the apple but no success. Three very painful relationships which left me deeply hurt but mistake was spoiling my men too much and they bit me hard. I love spoiling and loving people some might say doormat but I do not think so. just like giving pleasure and my...
    libbyloo13 libbyloo13 56-60, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    "lonely In A Densely Populated Planet"

    I have ended my marriage of 10 years a few years ago, and began the loneliest period in my life. I would like to make friends and correspond with.
    Sirkka Sirkka 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 7, 2012

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    Hey You....

    I am lonely and need friends... That seems like a good starting sentence.I am by no means a social butterfly. I have always had a group of friends I could text or call any time, and hung out with regularly. But now? None. I am a college student, surrounded by people. But yet I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 17, 2010

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    A Lonely Guy,,

    most of the people are become lonely,when they passed their valuable life most of all,,,but the shock est things that,,i'm only 21,,most precious time in life.so why i'm alone.i don't know.i want a very good friend who supports me most of my subjects,i also want to be a good...
    mohaimin mohaimin 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    New to This, Want to Help By Sharing...

      Hello,   My name is Michael, and I want to relate something to each of you.  I like to write, so I will try to keep this succinct, but it might be a little long.   Are you as lonely as I am?  Likely, we all have different life situations that make...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    Lack Of Genuine Friends

    I guess I just need to find people that have an honest intention of befriending me. Most of the people I'm acquainted with are nice to my face but then go and share with others what I have confided in them with. It hurts to know that I haven't got one true friend.
    Rachelfriend Rachelfriend 36-40, F 5 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Life Is As Bad As It Gets

    I am just tired. I just realised by wanting to hang on to one guy, my roommate, my best friend, I have given up a lot of people and friends along the way. When we get into an argument, I have no one to really talk to. No one wants to hear my sob stories again. He got mad at me...
    lonelyindy lonelyindy 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 20, 2010

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    In Love & Being Used ..... I Think?

    I met someone. I fell in love. That never happened to me before.  It was great. I think he is a player.  He has many different accounts on the web. ( more then he says he has. . ) I found some of them.  The writing is the same. the wording.....even the dates...
    IamPhantom101 IamPhantom101 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 14, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I really need friends, i feel lonely and im so bored, livin without a friend is a struggle :(
    DessyLove DessyLove 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 29

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    I need friends message me for snap chat. And or kikk
    Hiyourecutteee Hiyourecutteee 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    I'm lonely way too much. I've everything else figured out in my life, but I need people to talk to and share experiences with. All my former friends are married and living their...
    lsmith17 lsmith17 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Are friends suppose to add to your stress, Bcuz one of my friends just made me more upset then I already was.
    feelinghelpless4 feelinghelpless4 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 3

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    I have one bestfriend and a few other friends but I want more but have no idea how to even make friends
    cults cults 16-17, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want someone to talk to. . Preferably of the same age and gender.... I'm sick of having no friends. .
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    if my profile comes as an interest to anyone, totally message me. please be 13-15. :)
    KellySweetzz KellySweetzz 13-15, F Jun 25

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    People from Australia please add me
    Yaroslava Yaroslava 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 10

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    Im really bored. Please someone message me. 😉😎
    ThatJudoGuy ThatJudoGuy 16-17, M Jul 11

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    I'm 20, I have a daughter and a good job and that's about all I have to say about myself. Message me. :)
    BryanAndrew BryanAndrew 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 14

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    I work hard play hard... If anyone knows what that means ;)
    bubbleslove bubbleslove 18-21, F Jul 14

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    Where all my bisexual females at?(: Hmu
    mackayla420 mackayla420 16-17, F a week ago

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    Would like to meet more people :)
    gottabebettertoo gottabebettertoo 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Which is amazing. Considering that most of my close friends are either acting up, going through whatever therefore acting up, Some have just shown their true colours and grown...
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F Jul 13

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    I Need friends I fell lonely :(
    mrami919 mrami919 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 14

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    Feeling very lonely and alone...and heartbroken. Need friends.
    easynuh easynuh 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 6

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    Really lonely need someone to talk to :(
    cece132 cece132 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 1

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    In all honesty I just need friends who are willing to dig deeper into their pockets. They don't have to be "wealthier," but a little more generous would be nice. I get it that...
    AGirl100 AGirl100 16-17 4 days ago

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    I need friends, I have 2 bridges of friendship left, anyone wanna talk?
    abercrombie99 abercrombie99 13-15, M Jul 14

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    Hi :) I'm 14 and need friends my age 😊message me
    fourtris101 fourtris101 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I need friends with open minds that I can talk to about anything NOT SEX and get some good advice
    cakesparklingemdiva cakesparklingemdiva 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    i feel like no one in my life sticks around. relationships never last longer than a month, and friends seem to come and go like seasons. lately i've been so lonely and so sad...
    livelaughlovegs livelaughlovegs 16-17, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I have no friends and I try to change that but nothing works
    wonderlustdreamer wonderlustdreamer 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I get so childish well that happens when I'm sad or gonna leave someone like my friends or when someone I love goes. I feel so empty I just wanna see someone in real life...
    DrowningInPain2 DrowningInPain2 13-15, F 5 hrs ago

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    If it's one sided then I don't wanna know! If I find that I'm chasing someone and putting in so much effort but not getting anything back then bye-bye not friends anymore! I've...
    MilweePetite MilweePetite 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I'm just tired of people as of late...I have enough stress with bills, trying to get a car, and other small stuff..I just do not understand why people keep pushing my friendship...
    shanaflame shanaflame 22-25, F 6 hrs ago

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    Well ladies and gentleman it blew up in my face. We get here and we had a nice afternoon of me giving him exactly what he wanted. We had fun and played. It was nice just the way he...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 4

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    I have been diagnosed with depression and anxiety. I went through basically my whole life not even knowing what I was doing here. I don't have friends. I don't know what it's like...
    beccysamantha beccysamantha 16-17, F 1 Response 29 mins ago

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    After a few visits with certain friends of mine, and some I've know for years, I often sit down and ponder if whether or not I should even consider them friends anymore. We've all...
    ILuvRustyVenture ILuvRustyVenture 26-30, F Jul 5

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