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I Am Lonely On Christmas Eve

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    First Sad Xmas

    Not sure how it all started, but worked late on thursday and tried to get into the Christams spirit.  I had hope to have a joyful time with family and my husband...but by 8:30 pm I knew something was wrong.  Husband became very quite and just did not want to talk much...
    tryingtobe tryingtobe 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    Hixx, So Sad

    Me too........ and I am here. It is so empty to me now... I call my ex-boy but hear a feelingless sound... It makes me worser...    How to make me better this season.
    vicky83 vicky83 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    I Miss Being Younger On Christmas Eve

    I never felt lonely on this day before but just knowing the family I celerbrate it with is breaking up before my eyes is hard and other then them I have no friends to speak of so each holiday is just a lonely day.
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F Dec 24, 2012

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    Never Have Been Before.

    My entire family left, I don't know where they are, either.  My aunt and uncle did not come to pick me up before their family party tonight, so I don't really know when they'll be here.  I really hope they did not forget about me.  I was texting my...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    It's a time when my family gets together, watches Christmas shows, and just has a wonderful time overall. Last year, I visited my brother, his wife, and their two kids (they have...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I feel so lonely without you I lay in bed just waiting for you Wishing that you where here with me Holding me closely as I fall to sleep I feel so lonely in everything I do Cause...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Mar 23

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    I feel lonely, I go to school and don't talk to anyone at all. I have a friend I talk to but when he's not there I feel more lonely then ever. I don't talk to any one else...
    jess388 jess388 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 7

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    I can't help it as knowing much and doing nothing in my life, as if you imagined me while been around people and always help all. I never ask anyone to help me and even if i am...
    Egyptianguy34 Egyptianguy34 31-35, M 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    So yeah, I feel lonely. It doesn't mean I am stupid. Lonely means lonely, not a fool or an idiot. I thought that was obvious!
    MissGaga MissGaga 22-25, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I've been travelling for awhile and meeting many people but lately It makes more lonely when we have to go separate ways and everyone has to go back to their lives because of their...
    bblahb bblahb 22-25, M 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    Last year my girlfriend suddenly broke the relation, my parents were away from me, I live in the city alone. Feeling lonely, can't find anyone to talk, make love.
    NuNu71 NuNu71 26-30, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    The last couple of days have been one of those days where I am lonely. It's hard sometimes...
    Findingteesh Findingteesh 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    You know the feeling when everyone around you seems so happy with their lovelife, and yet here you are ******* alone thinking 'am I ugly? Am I not good enough? Is there something...
    usuallyme usuallyme 16-17 5 hrs ago

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    there are some times when you feel down and lonely, sometimes you think that even the best of your friends has stopped caring about you. in such times, tell your soul that all...
    nelshi nelshi 31-35, F 10 hrs ago

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    April 19. Accepting Change. The winds of change blow through our life, sometimes gently, sometimes like a tropical storm. Yes, we have resting places - time to adjust to another...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    *sigh* .-. I just scare everyone away. I try to be optomistic about life, but my brain is so jumbled I just don't know where to start and how.
    foolishlylovingthee foolishlylovingthee 16-17, F 1 Response 14 hrs ago

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    The moral of the story is... The Universe ******* Loves You!, everything will be okay, the goal of your existence is to love, be loved, give love. All this talk of purpose? Your...
    Mcgregor117 Mcgregor117 18-21, M 1 Response 13 hrs ago

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    I have been married for 20 years now. I am the loneliest I have ever been in my life. My marriage started after I found out that my wife was pregnant with my oldest son, when I was...
    boatingJunkie boatingJunkie 46-50, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    On this site, there are so many people feeling lonely already, that means there are much much more people feeling lonely in this world. So actually we are not lonely in feeling...
    OTIOSUM OTIOSUM 18-21, F Mar 31

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    Today I came to the realisation that I don’t matter. I mean people see me and enjoy my company they compliment me. Oh I’m pretty or oh I’m funny, you’re cool they can even...
    AwkwardnessCentral AwkwardnessCentral 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 25

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    hi friends i am lonely and want a friend for ever hi friends i am lonely and want a friend for everhi friends i am lonely and want a friend for everhi friends i am lonely and want...
    kashish0077 kashish0077 31-35, F Apr 10

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    Lonely. Everyday I feel lonely. I do everything by myself and no one understands me. I don't have friends and I just feel so isolated from other people my age. I deserve to be...
    FightingForRecovery FightingForRecovery 16-17, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    I guess Christmas is about family, I love the smell of a real Christmas tree, love decorating it finding those homemade ornaments of years past, love and all the gatherings and...
    robbie1280 robbie1280 18-21, M 19 hrs ago

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    Why do so many people say they are lonely , why do people need other people to make there life happy & what is lonely ? . If something is making you lonely then change it after...
    tom1851 tom1851 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 26

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    It's Rare that I feel this way. I try to notice my emotions. When I feel them, why, if certain people trigger it. I'm trying to notice these kinds of things so I can be happy and...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Mar 31

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    From the day I was born, I started to drift away from other people. In the beginning I didn't have much to say, and toddlers don't tend to care what you wear as much, so social...
    TragicMonkey TragicMonkey 31-35, M 6 Responses Mar 26

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    Actually I am not! I have my family and my friends but I still feel so lonely! I trusted a few but what happened? YES They broke my trust! Its sooooooooo difficult for me to trust...
    HariMi HariMi 13-15, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    I feel so lost and confused. Im studying architecture and i dont like it, even one bit. I want to change my course to mass comm but im afraid. Im afraid that it'll turn out the...
    Llamadelrey95 Llamadelrey95 18-21, F Apr 4

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    flowydresses flowydresses 18-21, M Apr 7

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    its an unending circle. i am depressed because i am lonely and i feel i am alone because i am depressed. I can start any conversation you want online. i feel ok to be me online...
    confused623 confused623 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    I love everything about it! I love what it represents, the music, the cartoon specials, the snow, the time with family and friends, the decorations, and the spirit that seems to...
    JustAnotherHuman34 JustAnotherHuman34 18-21, M Mar 28

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    I don't show it but I am lonely. People think Im weird because I don't socialize and I'm always by myself. People try to talk to me and befriend me but I just push them away. Ive...
    cat1024 cat1024 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    I am lonely because I don't feel that I connect completely with anyone in my life on a mental level. I enjoy mental stimulation, and I like learning about others. I do enjoy...
    misscoffee misscoffee 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm crazy on Christmas!!! Love everything
    EnglishEmpress EnglishEmpress 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 10

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    I don't feel lonely relationship-wise (as in I'm single but not necessarily looking for a boyfriend). I'm lonely because I feel unwanted by my "friends". I'm only close with about...
    mblo2984 mblo2984 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I am always lonely even in a room full of people. Books are my best company but even then the wait for the movies are agonizing. I am always lonely which is dangerous cause that...
    SkitLaberge SkitLaberge 18-21, F Mar 19

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    The last 8 months, I have been separated from my husband. He left the house and lives at the station he's an EMT at. It really doesn't bother me he's gone, I just hate the feeling...
    OneWayHisWay OneWayHisWay 36-40, F 31 Responses Mar 20

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    Very very lonely.. Besides work I have no social interactions with anyone in a face to face setting of any kind. I have a few friends but I haven't spoken to them in months now. I...
    DiosesOscuros DiosesOscuros 22-25, M 5 Responses Mar 23

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    A lonely angel A once innocent child that now has lost their wings Ones rejected by parents if they had ones at all Rejected by ones they love With broken hearts and broken lives...
    L0nelyWanderer L0nelyWanderer 16-17, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I've been debating on posting or questioning anything about my marriage. I've been married for over 17 yrs and I can't say that we've had a bad marriage. My husband is wonderful...
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    I have a girlfriend she helpes me a lot through this but I'm just all out lonely I'm always depressed only a few ppl can put a smile on my face. I have friends but even when I'm...
    Ghrite Ghrite 13-15, M Mar 24

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    Okay so I had to drop out of college because of my mental illness. Now I didn't have many friends there to begin with because I'm a little socially awkward and quiet. Now that I'm...
    Yummylicious4ev Yummylicious4ev 18-21 5 Responses Mar 26

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    Ok, so I'm bi and I'm really lonely and I just want a boyfriend, even though I'm bi I do because I just like guys a little more than girls at the moment I'm 14, the point is that I...
    BiGuyLover14 BiGuyLover14 13-15, M 2 Responses Mar 29

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    Loving someone who didnt love me back. Getting told to go away, move on by someone who meant the world to you. It hurts. Im not the same anymore. I am so lonely. My sister stopped...
    somegirl117 somegirl117 18-21 4 Responses Apr 1

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    i have recently gotten my first full time job. hair dresser of course. 40 hours of hair every week. people haven't been really talkative this week. makes me feel lonely-er than...
    enemyinthemirror enemyinthemirror 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    No matter if I'm with a group of friends or even my best friend, I still feel lonely. It can't be because I don't have a significant other to call my lover, or all of the past...
    UndeadMassacre UndeadMassacre 16-17, F Apr 7

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    I feel lonely. I used to be in great shape everything was great, beautiful women. Then I dated the girl whom is now my ex. It was 3 years of my life that went downhill. A terrible...
    Fury1992 Fury1992 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I'm very lonely and only have a handful friends. The problem is when everybody asks me why I am single and why I don't have any children; people assume it's because of egotism and...
    EmeraldGuitarist EmeraldGuitarist 31-35, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    A Charlie Brown Christmas.
    hmmk hmmk 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    A Year Without a Santa Clause. I love the old Christmas movies
    freeebird freeebird 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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