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I Am Lonely On Christmas Eve

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    Hixx, So Sad

    Me too........ and I am here. It is so empty to me now... I call my ex-boy but hear a feelingless sound... It makes me worser...    How to make me better this season.
    vicky83 vicky83 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    Never Have Been Before.

    My entire family left, I don't know where they are, either.  My aunt and uncle did not come to pick me up before their family party tonight, so I don't really know when they'll be here.  I really hope they did not forget about me.  I was texting my...
    BellasHappyPlace BellasHappyPlace 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2009

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    Me Too

    Nobody's hommmmmme but me..that's why I'm on EP!
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Dec 24, 2009

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    I Miss Being Younger On Christmas Eve

    I never felt lonely on this day before but just knowing the family I celerbrate it with is breaking up before my eyes is hard and other then them I have no friends to speak of so each holiday is just a lonely day.
    MissTori MissTori 18-21, F Dec 24, 2012

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    First Sad Xmas

    Not sure how it all started, but worked late on thursday and tried to get into the Christams spirit.  I had hope to have a joyful time with family and my husband...but by 8:30 pm I knew something was wrong.  Husband became very quite and just did not want to talk much...
    tryingtobe tryingtobe 51-55, F 1 Response Dec 25, 2009

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    I love Christmas music...I love Christmas season! I love Christmas everything :)
    Rayven1997 Rayven1997 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    I have always been that friend. The one that you love to keep around because you know they'll always be there. That friend that will listen to all your problems, stick up for you...
    cemarie128 cemarie128 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I am lonely most every day. I have been all my life. I have a hole in my soul and nothing fills it. I think I will be lonely when I die.
    lonesojourner lonesojourner 46-50, M 2 Responses Jul 29

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    More of the same. Just more of the same. How does he think there's any room for a relationship when he walks in, says hi and heads straight to the study and his computer. He puts...
    starsarenotgreen starsarenotgreen 22-25 8 Responses Jul 21

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    Where's the perfect place to hide? In the middle of a crowded room. I can be in a sea of people and yet I'll still feel lonely. Sometimes, even though I'm surrounded by friends- I...
    cecimaldonado cecimaldonado 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 23

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    These past few days I've been feeling more lonely than ever
    WiseRebel WiseRebel 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    I have been alone for so long it is starting to eat at me. I have no friends and can open up my soul too. I have always been anti social but through 8th grade i went to a catholic...
    screaminsmileout screaminsmileout 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Being lonely in a relationship is awful. I'd rather just be alone... Period. Then there would be no expectations of companionship. And it wouldn't hurt so freaking bad.
    JustJenn74 JustJenn74 36-40, F 4 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I came home this summer to get away from my own home. To actually try and function with my parents. The first 14 days went okay. After that I was miserable. Depressed. Anxious...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M a week ago

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    In dis world No one is yours Everyone use u nd thro u Like dustbin
    prince7777 prince7777 22-25, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    August 21. Detaching in Relationships. When we first become exposed to the concept of detachment, many of us find it objectionable and questionable. We may think that detaching...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I'm so burned out and tired of putting effort in to make things better because it's one sided.  Last night my wife came home late from the bar and I walked in the room, I know she...
    mtns5 mtns5 36-40, M 8 Responses Jul 30

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    Every day I notice more and more how little I have in common with the people around me. I feel so isolated. Almost as if I am a pigeon between a group of parrots. We all get...
    AnomalousEarthling AnomalousEarthling 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    Gravitonas - People Are Lonely ft. Army of Lovers Life is a rollercoaster life is a rattlesnakeLost in a crowded place people are lonelyLife is a kitschy poster life is a massive...
    Faust76 Faust76 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My life has always been lonely thou I was born alone without nothing in life but god gave me family thou in tht family I'm never involved .. Before I used to go everywhere with...
    Maha123k Maha123k 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm lonely and I admit I'm the one at fault. I always thought I was merely being picky with people. I used my introvert personality as an excuse as to why I only have a few close...
    GreyMatter1 GreyMatter1 70+, F 6 Responses Aug 9

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    Need to share my story, guess I'm just getting mad by not being able to talk about it and have to have some feed back, specially from men, just to be able to understand my big...
    tangoandjuliette tangoandjuliette 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am alone in a world filled with people. I have a mask that protects me, saves me, from the criticism and judgments of others. I have a whole in me that reaches far beyond my...
    AlluringDarkness AlluringDarkness 18-21, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    the thing is im lonely when im not alone. when im on my own, i shed the several walls i have up at any time and let my guard down. When im alone, i can wear shorts and a tank top...
    FreeJazz FreeJazz 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I'm not lonely for friendship, emotional intimacy, shared laughter, or sweetness. I'm lonely for physical intimacy - not just sex, per se, but the feeling of being desired by...
    Screenwriter66 Screenwriter66 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    I have been diagnosed with major depressive disorder and anxiety. I finally went to the mental hospital, two times in a three month period, after an attempted suicide and a lot of...
    heapograss heapograss 22-25, M 4 Responses Jul 26

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    I see a lot of folk's on here write about how lonely they are,(now I'm not a Doctor), but I feel loneliness is a state of mind After my wife passed, I was very lonely, I would sit...
    sweetcharlene41 sweetcharlene41 70+, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    Am lonely...no because am alone or have no one around me..hell I get lonely even when am out clubbing with my friends..the main reason as to why am lonely is because am afraid of...
    CurvyandChic CurvyandChic 22-25, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    I feel utterly depressed, because I do feel lonely most of the time. I think it began when I had a disagreement with my parents 2 years ago. I tried writing a letter which I have...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F Aug 10

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    The night before Thanksgiving through Christmas is my favorite time of the year. Everything about it is just so festive and exciting. Love being with family and friends during that...
    sammy0216 sammy0216 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 12

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    I just love Christmas music and being able to spend time with my family!
    tsg96 tsg96 18-21, F Jul 28

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    Elf is my favorite Christmas movie.
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    My best friend left for college..and not just any college, a convent. She hasn't responded to any emails even though she said she would reply every night. Which just makes me...
    londontravella londontravella 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 9

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    What makes it different? What makes this time different? No one will read this, no one will care. Or people will care but no one will change it. Or people will change it but no...
    SomeGuy322 SomeGuy322 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 12

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    I have been lonely from my birth. Family never loved me. Only wanted to make their names shine....and it doesnt matter how many times I do it..i wasnt appreciated much...i never...
    divich01 divich01 18-21, M a week ago

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    So This Year I'm planning to take a vacation during christmas alone. I really deserve it as this year so far has been hard on me.. I can't wait to go!
    Kirsebaera Kirsebaera 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Feeling sad and lonely =( I'm 21 and I haven't even had a girlfriend, whilst some of the other blokes my age are married and have a family, I don't even have a girlfriend, largely...
    IFeelSoLonely101 IFeelSoLonely101 18-21, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm lonely, I can't get a girlfriend and i have been lonely for years and don't know how many more years I will be lonely
    andrewj2014 andrewj2014 18-21, M 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Christmas always reminds me 'Home Alone'
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F 8 hrs ago

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    Growing up as an only child with two full time working parents, feeling lonely is the norm for me so even when I try to reach out to people, I still always end up feeling as lonely...
    hebr0 hebr0 16-17, F 7 Responses Jul 21

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    Hi.I am so lonely and depressed right now. 7 months ago I met a girl.I got to get her with her.I was for the first time happy I have always been lonely and depressed for crying...
    spidergrrr spidergrrr 18-21, M Jul 21

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    I get this lonely feeling too often and it makes me lose focus on other stuff. I have friends, very good friends who are always there to help and hang out, but I still get lonely...
    amanyadava amanyadava 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 21

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    Im lonely right now. A friend just forced a relationship status on facebook and I dont want to blatantly reject him so I left it there without doing anything. But the day before...
    gotawishy gotawishy 16-17, F 8 Responses Jul 23

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    I really am. I can be alone to an extent, but loneliness is a completely different feeling. I'm a writer. It helps a lot actually, but when I'm really lonely I cry. My pen becomes...
    NoMoreTearsToni NoMoreTearsToni 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 24

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    I've had periods in life where I would have deep connections/conversations with good friends, girlfriends, relatives, and feel absolutely confident and social. However I would...
    afinechap afinechap 36-40, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    After realizing that I have been dealing with depression, I begin to feel better about myself and the future. I can say that I can organize myself to at least try to be successful...
    SereneSolidarity SereneSolidarity 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 31

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    Being alone doesn't always mean you are lonely. But feeling lonely even when you are not alone, that's sucks💔
    CloversMoon CloversMoon 22-25, F 8 Responses Aug 2

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