I Am Lonely - Forum & Chat Board | some of you people are a lot more lucky than you even know

some of you people who have dated and broke up are saying your lonely for not having someone around. well you are more lucky than you can even imagine. ive been alone forever. ive had real feelings for one girl in my entire life but we never really dated because she just went with someone else after about 3 weeks.

i just dont know. i try to make friends with but the only people i meet end up doing drugs or smoke. i can never meet someone who is normal. i just dont know. can someone cheer me up? my friends cant cheer me up because they dont understand. my family dosnt understand. i just wish someone would just say something right to me

 I know where you're coming from. I've never had a real relationship.

But as far as drugs go, I am straightedge so I tend to be very strict with who I allow to hang out with me. That's my own fault and I know but it helps me weed (no pun intended)  out people who I don't want in my life to start with.

I've had the same experience to some extent, though I'm now 36 and only had two dates, both from websites, went nowhere. I agree, these people with problems and issues with dating and breaking up and such - I still envy them, they ARE luckier than they know.

I am not trying to push anything on you but a good place to find good people is at church in singles groups

japf001, destai: FYI if you define someone off the bat that they suck because they do drugs or smoke, you are engaging in a premature judgment.