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I Am Lonely,but Hopeful

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    I Am Lonely

    I am still in love, with someone who I beleive will never come back. We are still together, but he has changed. Some times I dont even know how I feel. I am going through a period in my life where I am unsure about alot of things and have many questions. I guess in a way I live...
    pumkinhead2004 pumkinhead2004 18-21, F Nov 11, 2007

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    Roberta2

    Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages. I think sometimes even in our own time we did not belong. Think part of the problem of not being able to go on with my life and the loss of Roberta is how her death happened and it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M May 31, 2011

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    Why I Am Lonely?

    I am lonely because for the most part I gave up.I go to the same places where I know I won't meet someone different,I talk to the same people about the same things.I don't like people who can't or won't dream.One friends talks about his health problems,another talks about his job...
    notjustme notjustme 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2007

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    Still Lonely

    i am married and still lonly we are seperated but even if he was here i would still be lonely he fooled around so much he was never here and when he was here he was,nt . and this is my second husband! i want to say never agian but i know better i need that soulmate i don,t...
    blueangel01 blueangel01 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2008

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    A Refusal To Give In

    As easy as I know it would be, I refuse to give in to my loneliness. As much as it hurts, I press on... and it has hurt a lot. I make friends from way far away, spend a lot of time alone, and generally am non-social. If I gave in though, I'd let myself and everyone I know down...
    KapitanTripp KapitanTripp 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    Wanted: Friends, Support System

    hi there new military wife here, navy, to be specific. well i have now been in southern virginia since october and so far i havent ment anyone...and when i say anyone i meen not one single new person. i do have some family in the area which is nice but they all live like 45...
    jaysgirl jaysgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Ongoing

    peaceful solitude has turned into isolation. I started today by calling by work counceller and emailing someone i talk to about social things/getting out more. When i contact these people i must remind myself i'm not talking to a freind. Sometimes i simply just think i'm going...
    MsIndependant MsIndependant 19-21, F Jan 17, 2008

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    Can Someone Help Me

    My husband of 8 yrs has been having an online affair for 7 months. We have 6 children together. I found out about a month ago and kicked him out. Which I think was the worst thing I could have done. He refuses to take my calls or texts. He says he loves this women, we live in...
    melissa073108 melissa073108 31-35, F Oct 6, 2013

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    A few months ago, three of my five best friends graduated from our high school. I was a year below them, so I had to stay. Watching them go was probably the hardest thing I've ever...
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    confidentguy confidentguy 41-45, M Dec 9

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    Lonely but not lonely. Lonely because I just wish I had someone amazing in my life but not lonely because I know it isn't the best thing for me right now.
    JessicaTacos JessicaTacos 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I consider myself a strong independent woman, but tonight is hard. Not for any reason out of the ordinary. Maybe it's because he is away tonight. Maybe it's because I just made...
    Luckymomof2boys Luckymomof2boys 31-35, F 22 Responses Dec 6

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    I try to keep myself engaged in some work so that I don't feel lonely.. but now I'm totally helpless :( feeling lonely :(
    amazingmoment90 amazingmoment90 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I am lonely, but I have many friends and family. Sometimes I feel as if I live a double life, some Hannah Montana ****.. when I'm with my friends I'm happy and funny and a sort of...
    Alexcis11 Alexcis11 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    I have moved and lost all my friends, not that i had that many. Then my other half left and now its just me. I see people where i work, but they are not my friends. I dont trust...
    zobenzivs zobenzivs 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 7

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    I am married and lonely, but probably not for the reasons you'd think. My wife has DID and OCD. Not real sure why or where it came from except in the last couple years, they've...
    WtfAmIHearing WtfAmIHearing 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 9

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    feel lonely but I am not alone most of the time.
    listenup listenup 26-30, M Dec 18

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    Do you ever get that feeling of being hopeless or lonely but at random times. You would be having a great day but just as your going to sleep everything gets crowed in your mind...
    skyblue914 skyblue914 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    Hello Ladies and Gentlemen,I am 23 years of age and I was born on December 3 1991. I live in Australia. I will be an elementary/primary school teacher by the time 2016 finishes...
    TrustIsLife TrustIsLife 22-25, M 3 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I just got home..another night of the long lonely walks along the cold streets lit by yellow street lights. I am the only one home so I have my key.I need an outlet. I keep...
    lonewolfneedhug lonewolfneedhug 18-21, M 3 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I hate being so lonely having no friends that care about you I sit in my room jus crying and feeling un loved the days jus get like torture and never end the nights jus seem like...
    willowgirlBeth willowgirlBeth 16-17, F 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Came across an article that may be of help to lonely people, or people overcoming a breakup: http://lifehacker.com/the-science-behind-why-breakups-suck-and-what-you-can-1460495310...
    Taurusedi Taurusedi 31-35, M Dec 5

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    There is some music that affects me phenomenally more than sanely acceptable. One song in particular, called Chameleon Boy by Blue October, speaks the lyrics "The hardest thing I...
    InsaneDane InsaneDane 18-21, M 7 hrs ago

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    Today I went out shopping by myself. I usually like doing that, but about an hour into it I felt like crap. Most of my friends are either busy or out of town so I had no one to...
    warro97 warro97 16-17, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I have learned that in life, if I do not conquer my fear, happiness never will I feel. Also, I have learned that the earth is merely a tiny dot in the ever massive and expanding...
    cptng cptng 18-21, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    My friends and I spend sober nights laughing when we're all really terrified of the tomorrows and our regrets. Im not exactly sure where I'll be in a few years but I hope its with...
    nancypansy nancypansy 18-21 18 hrs ago

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    I have tons of friends and people that loves me here, but not one that I can tell all my problems to.
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F 3 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I have been married 12 years, and have been struggling to keep my marriage together for approx 6 years. Last night (yeah, Saturday) things came to a head (again). I implored my...
    Screamadelika Screamadelika 41-45, M 12 hrs ago

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    Never really noticed how alone I real was till now. I mean I have friends there just not real friends I guess. My best friend moved two weeks ago. We did everything together, even...
    xmoody15 xmoody15 16-17, M 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I'm 25 years old... living in a little unit next to my parents house, my personal life isn't so great - I have no friends and been single for almost a year, My Dad recently had a...
    AstridPhotographer AstridPhotographer 22-25, F 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Mmm Well I actually don't have friends To chat to hang out or anything My dad told me to give it a try So i planned what to say to this stranger who is going to be my...
    hameed123fad hameed123fad 16-17, M 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It sucks feeling so alone all the time. I wish I had friends. Well, I have them but push them away all the time. I wish I knew how to make the crappy feelings go away without...
    mrsusspmadmen mrsusspmadmen 41-45, F 5 hrs ago

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    Why is dating so ******* complicated???? I am 18 and I am in college and I asked many 18-19 year old girls their numbers and all of them said "they sort of have boyfriends" and I...
    mynameispaul23 mynameispaul23 18-21, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My family thinks I'm anti social but really I'm just depressed because the guy I'm in love with hates me.
    bearsgirl03 bearsgirl03 18-21, F 1 Response 56 mins ago

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    I have been feeling alone a lot lately. All my husband seems to be interested in is his video games and when we are intimate, right after, he just gets up, cleans up, and goes...
    Mystery08 Mystery08 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Always so lonely. No friends, no one to talk to. Always by myself in my room on the computer. One day it will get better (maybe), but for now.. always so lonely, lonely.
    wide00awake wide00awake 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Despite my letting him know that I miss him, my bf still chooses to go hunting every weekend of hunting season. When hunt season is over, he still goes to scout for places to hunt...
    pineappleparade pineappleparade 31-35, F Nov 29

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    Ever since I was young, I know there's something with me...I can't socialize with people properly, I would be leaning against the pillar during 1st and 2nd grade during recess and...
    aqphoen aqphoen 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 30

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    Im sick of being lonely all of my life. I allways give fault to others cos they didnt klick with me as friends, but what can i do if im so different? I have different interests, im...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35 Dec 3

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    Hi..I feel so lonely..I have "friends" and I always smile at ppl's face, but I do not smile from my heart. I am so afraid that I will lose it one day and I might never wake up. I...
    hedgehog30 hedgehog30 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    Yup, for the first time in my life (literally), I'm saying it: "I'm lonely. I need people to interact with on an intimate personal level, but I don't have any. So I'm lonely...
    FryyM FryyM 22-25, M 2 Responses Dec 6

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    I've felt lonely all my life. I never fit in when I was a kid and in high school. I had no friends in middle school. I guess I didn't fit in because I was shy and insecure and kids...
    faerieshimmer87 faerieshimmer87 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 6

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    Late at night and feeling lonely... I wake up from the couch and drag myself to my bed. I have a gf but we sleep in separate rooms/beds. I don't want it to be that way...not in my...
    AfterToday AfterToday 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    I'll be honest. I thought that I could go on with life without friends... I can't. I really can't. I'm lonely right now, and never thought I would feel this way. I have come to...
    obscureriddle obscureriddle 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 7

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    so just over a week ago i moved to austria by myself (im 20) and i love it loads but i dont know a single person and im really lonely. i dont even know where i can meet people...
    dansimpson40 dansimpson40 18-21, M Dec 8

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