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I Am Lonely,but Hopeful

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    I Am Lonely

    I am still in love, with someone who I beleive will never come back. We are still together, but he has changed. Some times I dont even know how I feel. I am going through a period in my life where I am unsure about alot of things and have many questions. I guess in a way I live...
    pumkinhead2004 pumkinhead2004 18-21, F Nov 11, 2007

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    Why I Am Lonely?

    I am lonely because for the most part I gave up.I go to the same places where I know I won't meet someone different,I talk to the same people about the same things.I don't like people who can't or won't dream.One friends talks about his health problems,another talks about his job...
    notjustme notjustme 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2007

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    Can Someone Help Me

    My husband of 8 yrs has been having an online affair for 7 months. We have 6 children together. I found out about a month ago and kicked him out. Which I think was the worst thing I could have done. He refuses to take my calls or texts. He says he loves this women, we live in...
    melissa073108 melissa073108 31-35, F Oct 6, 2013

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    A Refusal To Give In

    As easy as I know it would be, I refuse to give in to my loneliness. As much as it hurts, I press on... and it has hurt a lot. I make friends from way far away, spend a lot of time alone, and generally am non-social. If I gave in though, I'd let myself and everyone I know down...
    KapitanTripp KapitanTripp 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    Still Lonely

    i am married and still lonly we are seperated but even if he was here i would still be lonely he fooled around so much he was never here and when he was here he was,nt . and this is my second husband! i want to say never agian but i know better i need that soulmate i don,t...
    blueangel01 blueangel01 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2008

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    Roberta2

    Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages. I think sometimes even in our own time we did not belong. Think part of the problem of not being able to go on with my life and the loss of Roberta is how her death happened and it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M May 31, 2011

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    Wanted: Friends, Support System

    hi there new military wife here, navy, to be specific. well i have now been in southern virginia since october and so far i havent ment anyone...and when i say anyone i meen not one single new person. i do have some family in the area which is nice but they all live like 45...
    jaysgirl jaysgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Ongoing

    peaceful solitude has turned into isolation. I started today by calling by work counceller and emailing someone i talk to about social things/getting out more. When i contact these people i must remind myself i'm not talking to a freind. Sometimes i simply just think i'm going...
    MsIndependant MsIndependant 18-21, F Jan 17, 2008

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    I like to think I'm OK....… But I really am lonely. I've been single for over a year. I mean, I had a girlfriend for 2 weeks but it didn't work out. I just miss intimacy, though...
    FellidayaFiresong FellidayaFiresong 31-35, F 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    It's not at night, in the darkness, when I feel lonely. It's the early afternoon, when the sun shines outside, the birds sing their song and the wind is vaguely present. It is then...
    CactusHugger CactusHugger 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I m just crying crying and crying... I don't feel good .. want to talk to people but I m nt able to... everyday is so lonely that i m scared about the next day thinking how will I...
    smile123sush smile123sush 22-25, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel so alone at work. Nobody talks to me. I feel like I'm invisible. I was cleaning up while my coworkers and managers were all chatting to each other and I just felt very...
    Togepi07 Togepi07 18-21, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Send the crowds away, go up to the mountains, and silently commune with trees and flowers and animals and birds, with sea and clouds and sky and stars. Be aware of things around...
    thejuicytriangle thejuicytriangle 16-17, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    So i guess this is my last rant for this day. It hurts when i see how everyone has got a best friend to be there for them and always make them happy, care genuinely about them...
    Sublevarse Sublevarse 18-21, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I married my current wife on the rebound and under pressure from her. I have remained married to her for 20 years because of my amazing son. The relationship is painfully...
    TheLoanranger TheLoanranger 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    For the first time for so long, I'm not. For the past year, I've dreaded the fact that I was a very lonely person. This was due to the fact that I don't have my own group of...
    OddAntics OddAntics 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I guess it is lonely at the top; I am not trying to sound pretentious or whatever, but that is how people see me. I am a college student, and I am most excellent grade - wise, and...
    KingNidas KingNidas 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My partner just left to work in alaska for a few months. I feel really sad and lonely without him. Any suggestions on how to get my mind off of it just a little? That way I won't...
    Eve92 Eve92 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    If someone who lives or is in Tallinn-Estonia, feels lonely and wants to spend some time with someone in real life. I would love to meet you. I am lonely and would like to have...
    JohnyKesu JohnyKesu 22-25, M a week ago

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    Hello, my name is Laurentiu and I'll be 18 next mounth on the 16 of july. My father abandoned me and my mom since my birth, so I grew up without the leading of a father. Since I...
    b16laurentiu b16laurentiu 16-17, M Jun 27

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    Hello, my name is Laurentiu and I'll be 18 next mounth on the 16 of july. My father abandoned me and my mom since my birth, so I grew up without the leading of a father. Since I...
    b16laurentiu b16laurentiu 16-17, M 1 Response Jun 27

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    I'm so lonely. It's hard to even describe how lonely I am. Never dated. Never even been on a single date. Never laid in the same bed with someone and felt their warm embrace. I...
    rebecky1221 rebecky1221 18-21, F 4 Responses Jun 27

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    I have an amazing family. I have all the money in the world (my dad's debit card) to spend and he keeps me like a princess. I love my books and I like to study. The problem is that...
    chocolatesforever chocolatesforever 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 26

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    I don't know why but I'm always the last choice or completely ignored. Me: "Yeah you can come to my house when it's midnight. No problem. I'll make sure you're happy before I...
    Lcy2472 Lcy2472 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    i am lonely and depressed most days. but im not as lonely as i used to be. ive left most my old friends behind and with my depression state i dont really feel social, when my mania...
    ForgetableMe ForgetableMe 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    Loneliness revisited... Okay we all are lonely in our life, no matter who you are, what you do, where you live ? you are sure to taste this bittersweet fruit of life. I used to...
    crazihilary crazihilary 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 25

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    it's eating away at me. I have my son and I'm very blessed but it's not the same as an adult or a girlfriend to confide in. I miss my child's father as he is across the country but...
    kat0514 kat0514 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 24

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    I am a grade 11 student at school. I have friends, I do. But my 'best friends' treat me differently on a day-by-day basis. I'm appreciated and wanted and then I'm used and unwanted...
    Miggley Miggley 16-17 Jun 24

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    Over the past year being a freshman in college I feel like I have found my group of lifelong friends. Hopefully its not just me but I feel like I've never been so close to a group...
    Lytt14 Lytt14 18-21 Jun 24

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    I enjoy solitude, but when I hear the other tenants in the building around me throwing parties and interacting with people, it makes me feel lonely. But, if I'm in a roomful of...
    Lynessence Lynessence 31-35, F Jun 23

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    unsure as to my course of action after 30+ yrs. together. The physical intimacy between us seems to have vaporized over time. I look back and much of the contact had been initiated...
    DidISayThat69 DidISayThat69 51-55, M 2 Responses Jun 23

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    I'm surrounded by friends and family who care for me, and yet I still feel so lonely. I always wondered why and It always made me feel like I was a **** person cause I had all...
    oHDaily oHDaily 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 22

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    I guess that what comes from being an independent women. I have spent SO MANY years alone, that I am comfortable with it! I have my moments, where I think "it sure would feel...
    wanthimtoNEEDme wanthimtoNEEDme 41-45, F Jun 20

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    My husband harps on and on about "buying a house." He's made a great deal of rude comments to me over the years about "our" inability to do so. See it's my fault we don't own a...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 20

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    I have been married for 3 years now and I shouldn't feel this lonely
    lonley1973 lonley1973 41-45, M 11 Responses Jun 17

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    I really need some support right now, I've tried everything the kind people recommend to me but non of it works and I've decided I will just live it through but it's so painful. I...
    fatality500 fatality500 13-15, M 3 Responses Jun 17

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    I've gotten a friend who lives quite far away from me in the end of january, and we became good friends and friends with benefits. In the start we talked (texted) a lot, since we...
    MoonyLoony MoonyLoony 18-21 2 Responses Jun 17

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    I'm 16 and have 0 friends. In the 8th grade my best friend ditched me for somebody "cooler" then me. After 8th grade I was homeschooled I still remained in touch with some of my...
    neverhappyjku neverhappyjku 16-17, T 6 Responses Jun 17

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    I married to my husband seven years ago and have one little child. However we don't have anything in common but our son any more. He is always on his phone, even in the bathroom or...
    summer001 summer001 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 16

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    My wife was a lesbian. We got married when we were both 38. Everything seemed fine to me, maybe I am more stupid than I look. It never occurred to me that she even liked women in...
    commandline commandline 51-55, M Jun 16

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    I feel so alone all of a sudden. I've had this before but now it's the most painful. I can literally feel my heart sinking all the time the feeling is constantly there. Nobody is...
    fatality500 fatality500 13-15, M 4 Responses Jun 16

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    I have my wife's run off with a woman I am in depression my mom gave me hope and she was like a great big hug from her Sting there ever day talk about anything I needed to I live...
    fordguy98 fordguy98 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 15

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