I Am Lonely,but Hopeful

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    Roberta2

    Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages. I think sometimes even in our own time we did not belong. Think part of the problem of not being able to go on with my life and the loss of Roberta is how her death happened and it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    May 31, 2011

    Wanted: Friends, Support System

    hi there new military wife here, navy, to be specific. well i have now been in southern virginia since october and so far i havent ment anyone...and when i say anyone i meen not one single new person. i do have some family in the area which is nice but they all live like 45...
    jaysgirl jaysgirl
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

    I Am Lonely

    I am still in love, with someone who I beleive will never come back. We are still together, but he has changed. Some times I dont even know how I feel. I am going through a period in my life where I am unsure about alot of things and have many questions. I guess in a way I live...
    pumkinhead2004 pumkinhead2004
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2007

    Ongoing

    peaceful solitude has turned into isolation. I started today by calling by work counceller and emailing someone i talk to about social things/getting out more. When i contact these people i must remind myself i'm not talking to a freind. Sometimes i simply just think i'm going...
    MsIndependant MsIndependant
    18-21, F
    Jan 17, 2008

    Can Someone Help Me

    My husband of 8 yrs has been having an online affair for 7 months. We have 6 children together. I found out about a month ago and kicked him out. Which I think was the worst thing I could have done. He refuses to take my calls or texts. He says he loves this women, we live in...
    melissa073108 melissa073108
    31-35, F
    Oct 6, 2013

    A Refusal To Give In

    As easy as I know it would be, I refuse to give in to my loneliness. As much as it hurts, I press on... and it has hurt a lot. I make friends from way far away, spend a lot of time alone, and generally am non-social. If I gave in though, I'd let myself and everyone I know down...
    KapitanTripp KapitanTripp
    26-30, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2012

    Still Lonely

    i am married and still lonly we are seperated but even if he was here i would still be lonely he fooled around so much he was never here and when he was here he was,nt . and this is my second husband! i want to say never agian but i know better i need that soulmate i don,t...
    blueangel01 blueangel01
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2008

    Why I Am Lonely?

    I am lonely because for the most part I gave up.I go to the same places where I know I won't meet someone different,I talk to the same people about the same things.I don't like people who can't or won't dream.One friends talks about his health problems,another talks about his job...
    notjustme notjustme
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2007

    Related Experiences

    Part 2 Second year is an interesting story. So much happened and yet so little. It started well, I returned to Uni and thanks to that final night out we’d all become friends...
    Tobey94 Tobey94
    18-21, M
    Apr 21
    All i want to do is keep in contact with people after this site closes..i know that i can be abit clingy and nnoying but its only because i care
    hotspot1989 hotspot1989
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 21
    EP will be Closing at 4pm tomorrow and i just really want to at least try to keep in contact with people that have similar interest or feel the same way i feel I'm so lonely and...
    spiritualvirgo82 spiritualvirgo82
    31-35, F
    Apr 20
    hey my gf and i just made a grp on k-i-k any girl wanna join send me her username the grp is about everything but mostly its about fun we need girls not boys and from age 13 to 20
    mommyspet mommyspet
    16-17, M
    1 Response Apr 20
    I joined EP three years ago because I was lonely and looking for someone to connect with. I met some great people but sadly no connection ever lasted. I'm upset that EP is shutting...
    chasingMonday chasingMonday
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 20
    Due to having a physical defect I spend most of my days in my room in my parent's apartment and the only things I feel like doing to keep my mind occupied are my computer games and...
    GinourmousHead GinourmousHead
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Apr 20
    So for the past almost five years of marriage it has basically been like living with a roommate. My husband treats me like a maid and nanny and I am so sick of it. Last night he...
    SusanAlexander SusanAlexander
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 19
    Always ...😖 But whatever ... I suppose I'll get used to it after another decade or two ...😅 Either that, or I'll forget about it when I develop Alzheimer's ...😳
    BSTisapain BSTisapain
    46-50, F
    10 Responses Apr 19
    I am trying so hard but there is always something. I have a bad love life. Going to fail a college class. I feel lonely I have no college friends to hang. like wtf at one point I...
    canttouchthisxp canttouchthisxp
    22-25, F
    Apr 18
    It sucks when somebody tells you how well your ex gf is doing with her new boyfriend. I still can't even get a woman to talk to me. I honestly think there is no girl out there...
    Derryodell Derryodell
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 18
    I used to be afraid of walking alone in the school hallway, I held on to my best friend, or whom I thought was my best friend, until one day I found out she never took my as a...
    cuttingdeeperr cuttingdeeperr
    13-15, F
    2 Responses Apr 17
    I fell in love with a drug addict who then got me onto drugs. We dated for over a year. We broke up several times but always got back together. I've been clean and single for a...
    withouttheother96 withouttheother96
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 17
    I don't notice it as much during the week because of being so busy with work. I look forward to weekends, but when the weekend comes I am more aware of loneliness.
    Piano50 Piano50
    46-50, F
    Apr 17
    There is nothing worse than knowing your going to be alone. Knowing that your going to loose that person, but knowing it's probably for the best. Because you can't kid yourself...
    DaddysBabyPrincess1 DaddysBabyPrincess1
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 16
    a broken body and an ugly face. the one whom all can replace. unwanted, alone and unloved. standing on the edge but needing a shove. to fly just once so free, before the end...
    ArnoldJRimmer ArnoldJRimmer
    46-50, M
    1 Response Apr 16
    Just like to find someone to talk to chat it up nothing like that but some type of adult convo and interaction. Hello there how are doing this morning.
    tsolos tsolos
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 16
    There are days when sitting in the same room is lonely . I love my husband with all my heart and soul . when we met the chase his perspective on life dreams ambition morals where...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 14
    Re-posting for people who have not already read this.. I even wrote to EP to confirm this and here is there reply... EP Support replied: Hello, No, we have nothing to do with that...
    Openhonestnudist Openhonestnudist
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 14
    "Cameron's never been in love. At least no one's ever been in love with him. He's gonna marry the first girl he lays. And she's gonna treat him like **** because he's gonna kiss...
    PressingForward71 PressingForward71
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 13
    And it's in the moments I felt most alone.. That I told myself no one was there for me; and little did I know, love was sitting right beside me, I just wasn't listening. At this...
    dodongo55 dodongo55
    18-21, M
    Apr 13
    I know that I'm never truly alone but I feel like I am because I don't have anyone my age who knows what I'm going through and to comfort me so I always feel withdrawn from...
    genesis02 genesis02
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 12
    I want to be able to say I'm not lonely just because I'm alone, but it wouldn't be true. I am lonely. I have not one friend and the three I thought I had stopped talking to me it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 12
    I'll say "Good morning" or "Hello" to her, and I won't hear from her until the end of the day, and all I usually get is a: "Hi. How was your day. Okay." Complete and total apathy...
    MegaManX97 MegaManX97
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Apr 11
    There is NOTHING like being in the same house with someone but feeling so alone!! I expect this on a daily basis! Just sayin'!
    angelpumpkin36 angelpumpkin36
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Apr 11
    The silence of the night is breathlessI feel lost and alonelike floating at the bottom of the seaA lost and lonelyforgotten meThe sky shinesfireflies looking downon a lonely and...
    nocool nocool
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 11
    A site that I have found that I might look into after EP is closed is http://www.supportgroups.com/ . It seems to have categories similar to this one. I may not join, but if...
    Myzery Myzery
    31-35, F
    Apr 11
    Well, not just tonight, but I've felt this way all day. Hell, practically this whole weekend. :/ I wish I didn't. I posted something like this last night as well, but I deleted it...
    Timster91 Timster91
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 10
    I hate to admit it but I'm definitely lonely
    Lexie35 Lexie35
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 10
    I don't know why I'm writing this. EP's closing in a few days, so there's really no point. I just feel really lonely and this is one of my few outlets. :( I don't know why I'm...
    Timster91 Timster91
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 10
    Hi, My name's ---- I'm 16 It began when I was 3rd grade. Me and my parents we're eating Dinner and told me after Dinner to talk to them outside. I finished and went outside. I...
    Nobody1415215425 Nobody1415215425
    16-17, M
    Apr 9
    There's no one close enough I could go to and everyone I talk to id rather just avoid them.. Music won't help except make my mood even worse. Ironic. Funny. Sad.... Really sad...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    11 Responses Apr 8
    I only have one friend that lives in my area and he has other friends. Usually we all Just go together, but he very obviously was hinting he didn't want me to come. Sort of bummed...
    MadAsTheHatter MadAsTheHatter
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Apr 8
    I am so lonely and bored I have nothing to do on the weekends but sit in the house I need someone to talk to
    121rainy 121rainy
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Apr 8
    Everyday I go through the motions of living life. Everyday is the same routine. This morning as I was drinking my coffee in the kitchen my husband walks by and he asks me where I'd...
    NothingToHide NothingToHide
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Apr 7
    It feels like no one cares, no one is there for me when I need to talk to someone, I tried to but it seems that no one wants to listen and think that I am weird and have no friends...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 7
    I'm taking deep breaths, making myself feel okay. Trying not to cry because everything has changed in a matter of months. Trying not to feel sad that everything's fallen apart...
    VioletVivid VioletVivid
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 6
    She still tempts me. She's still sexy and playful and I still look at her breasts and *** when she's near me. I still want to kiss her. I'm not dead yet. But what the hell? What...
    khat99 khat99
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Apr 6
    And it makes me do things that I know I am going to beat myself up over later. Hahaha Current case in point, last October, a guy who I went to high school with started working...
    Myzery Myzery
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Apr 5
    Well, I guess you all heard that this site is going on hiatus or freezing or something. So finally, after many false endings, THIS could possibly be my last post. And maybe one day...
    heywhatsthatguydoing heywhatsthatguydoing
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 5
    I am always lonely, even when I'm with people. Sounds like a disease, but I can't understand why it's like that for me. I don't feel connected to the people around me no matter how...
    lonelylifeindia lonelylifeindia
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Apr 5
    It may not be like me to post something like this, but admittedly I've felt so lonely for a good while now. And when I say lonely, I mean as in ALONE, with barely ANY friends. Why...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
    16-17, M
    2 Responses Apr 4
    Im a lonely person not gonna lie. Everything in my life went **** when i hit year 7/beginning of high school. I went from having lots of friends in primary school and when moving...
    ASpookyGhost ASpookyGhost
    16-17, M
    Apr 4
    The thing about the definition of "Lonely" is- is that it can't be defined. The word itself does not only mean "Solitude" What happens inside our minds are not something a doctor...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 4
    I got her an iPhone for Christmas but she seems to prefer spending time with it than me. Oh sure we talk and take care of kids etc but you can't have any deep meaningful...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 4
    New Home for the ILIASM Community Folks dealing with sexless marriages have -- for years -- sought and offered support at the Experience Project in the experience “I Live In A...
    ILIASMAllie ILIASMAllie
    46-50, F
    Apr 3
    I'm tired, exhausted, habitually lonely. I can't do relationships, authentic friendships. There's a wall I built and trying to scale it hurts, it's uncomfortable. I feel safe...
    Iscarpia87 Iscarpia87
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 3
    Why do I feel so useless when I try to help or do something my parents don't let me I mean I'm the eldest son but they go my brother and ask him even when I was his age I wasn't...
    PositiveStateOfMind PositiveStateOfMind
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 3
    I'm having one of these moments where I miss a certain someone, but they're not there and they don't care and there's nothing I can do about it. It's crazy how much I can miss...
    SkyouInSpace SkyouInSpace
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 3
    I found out that my friend likes my ex...who I still care for and like...and she has been denying it. I also found out that my friends were talking behind my back saying that I cut...
    breatheasy2017 breatheasy2017
    13-15, F
    1 Response Apr 3
    No Oasis For Indigo Children Checking my phone, waiting for that call back, checking my emotions, she had me thinkin’ I was all that, and just when I started to get comfortable...
    AaronLA AaronLA
    31-35, M
    Apr 3
    Just really need to vent I'm feeling really frustrated tonight with my husband. We got married 1.5 years ago and the second we got back from our honeymoon all affection and...
    Oklahomagirl33 Oklahomagirl33
    31-35, F
    17 Responses Apr 3
    It's so nice lying here listening to the wind, but it makes me feel more alone. My husband is sleeping in the bedroom, but I feel like there is nobody here but me. Meet me on the...
    Kellyb1985 Kellyb1985
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Apr 3
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