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I Am Lonely,but Hopeful

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    peaceful solitude has turned into isolation. I started today by calling by work counceller and emailing someone i talk to about social things/getting out more. When i contact these people i must remind myself i'm not talking to a freind. Sometimes i simply just think i'm going...
    MsIndependant MsIndependant 18-21, F Jan 17, 2008

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    Roberta2

    Roberta 2 As many of you know from past post we were different then other kids our own ages. I think sometimes even in our own time we did not belong. Think part of the problem of not being able to go on with my life and the loss of Roberta is how her death happened and it...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M May 31, 2011

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    Still Lonely

    i am married and still lonly we are seperated but even if he was here i would still be lonely he fooled around so much he was never here and when he was here he was,nt . and this is my second husband! i want to say never agian but i know better i need that soulmate i don,t...
    blueangel01 blueangel01 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 30, 2008

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    I Am Lonely

    I am still in love, with someone who I beleive will never come back. We are still together, but he has changed. Some times I dont even know how I feel. I am going through a period in my life where I am unsure about alot of things and have many questions. I guess in a way I live...
    pumkinhead2004 pumkinhead2004 18-21, F Nov 11, 2007

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    Wanted: Friends, Support System

    hi there new military wife here, navy, to be specific. well i have now been in southern virginia since october and so far i havent ment anyone...and when i say anyone i meen not one single new person. i do have some family in the area which is nice but they all live like 45...
    jaysgirl jaysgirl 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 16, 2008

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    Can Someone Help Me

    My husband of 8 yrs has been having an online affair for 7 months. We have 6 children together. I found out about a month ago and kicked him out. Which I think was the worst thing I could have done. He refuses to take my calls or texts. He says he loves this women, we live in...
    melissa073108 melissa073108 31-35, F Oct 6, 2013

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    A Refusal To Give In

    As easy as I know it would be, I refuse to give in to my loneliness. As much as it hurts, I press on... and it has hurt a lot. I make friends from way far away, spend a lot of time alone, and generally am non-social. If I gave in though, I'd let myself and everyone I know down...
    KapitanTripp KapitanTripp 22-25, M 1 Response Oct 14, 2012

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    Why I Am Lonely?

    I am lonely because for the most part I gave up.I go to the same places where I know I won't meet someone different,I talk to the same people about the same things.I don't like people who can't or won't dream.One friends talks about his health problems,another talks about his job...
    notjustme notjustme 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 9, 2007

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    i feel alone but i know that god is with me
    tigradoll tigradoll 26-30, F 50 mins ago

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    I've been with a my husband for a total of 7 years. He would be perfect, but he's shorter than me and although he does everything right, even in the bed he's a great lover, i still...
    meoun1986 meoun1986 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Sigh..what's the point. Highschool friends and my whole family would abandon me if they knew I was an atheist, so I keep them out of my head. But there isn't else inside. I only...
    aeinhardt aeinhardt 18-21, M 15 hrs ago

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    I have an amazing partner in my life but this long distance thing turns out is tough. I am lonely more often then not and I am so sick of it already, yet it's only the beginning. I...
    thereisnothingwrongwithyou thereisnothingwrongwithyou 22-25, F 2 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I don't feel sorry for myself. I don't feel the need to be needy. Do I feel lonely? Yes but it's okay,I can live with this feeling because I understand why I am lonely. Life can be...
    thebustierthebetter thebustierthebetter 46-50, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Even when we're sitting in the same room we're so distant. He sits on his phone on reddit, reading and laughing at things he reads like I'm not even there. It used to bug me. I...
    aquiver aquiver 26-30, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    My heart's desires flowed out in my tears Even as I kept faith with you, I remained so lonely. Life became an unquenchable thirst And love stories stayed incomplete. Even as I...
    AsfaqAlam AsfaqAlam 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    It's funny where life takes you sometimes. You can meet one person who can change the entire course of your life. Would you be willing to give up your future goals, give up seeing...
    Milesaway3 Milesaway3 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Lonely, for me, means abandoned, or one is sad because she is alone. And with my dad telling me to "Change the way I think" and my mom asking me to "Cut the emotional crap out...
    BlackRosesAmongLilies BlackRosesAmongLilies 13-15 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Being alone isn't technically lonely, but when you have no choice BUT to be alone it definitely feels odd and lonely. I feel as if school is the only get away I have. Even my home...
    anon0109 anon0109 22-25, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I really don know why i joined here and not sure if its going to be of any help at all. But still here i am like always hoping for something if not good or best. I am a very...
    livinglikeaghost livinglikeaghost 26-30, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am so lonely at nite I just don't understand why I should be happy but I am not feels like my life is going downhill fast I do miss half my family they were a big part of me when...
    Norman25 Norman25 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    Reading so many of these stories.....so many marriages lacking for one reason or another. As we grow older and life changes us, sometimes we can no longer be the person we were and...
    sillysoo sillysoo 46-50, F 15 Responses 5 days ago

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    For the longest time I've been a loner. I fall in and out of friendships that don't last longer than 3 months. I spend all my time alone. No one ever texts me or calls me and my...
    FightingForRecovery FightingForRecovery 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am lonely, its vacation, and well i have no one, it happiness every year. But im not just lonely becase its vacation, im lonely because i have no one, to an extent im an in the...
    HiIAmHana HiIAmHana 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Ive never really felt lonely, until now. For some reason. I usually enjoy being by myself because its less stressful, but lately Ive been doing things all day long, and havent...
    moretotheeyes moretotheeyes 18-21, F Jul 22

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    When I'm lonely it really hurts cause no one ever feels your pain. I hide this pain cause really no one will ever understand even a graduated psychologist. I swear im all alone...
    kristine1267 kristine1267 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    Hopefully I can meet new ppl on here
    hannahbae95 hannahbae95 18-21, F 6 Responses Jul 20

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    I feel so alone but every time I get a relationship to fix that, I break up with them because they don't respect my need for "me-time". I like friendships because they can still be...
    babalonely babalonely 18-21, F Jul 18

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    I'm just going to run with this. I am lonely but I am married. There is a huge vexation in my spirit. I have no momentum anymore, I'm spinning my wheels. I don't value my existence...
    idleheart idleheart 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    I'm so damn lonely. I have some health issues, I'm not going to go into them cause thats not the point of this post. But I'm mostly homebound, even though I don't look it. I try to...
    anewman1993 anewman1993 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Yes im lonely. But ive come to terms with it. Im used to it and aceapted the fact ill probly be lonely the rest of my life
    Averageguy41011 Averageguy41011 41-45, M 3 Responses Jul 14

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    Oh, boy - where should I begin? I guess I should try to confine this story to the context of my "I'm Lonely and Gay" experience. First of all, I'll tell you where I'm located. I...
    TrafficKook TrafficKook 26-30, M Jul 12

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    Hi! So I am in a new country on a placement for this summer and I am not loving life. I first came with my boyfriend and everything was fine. After he left I felt so lonely and...
    Summarflow Summarflow 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    It's hard. It's just plain hard. We spent a good deal of time together yesterday but something was just missing. I felt like he wasn't totally there, but I wonder if he thought the...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Today was one of those days/fridays that I found myself lonely.. It supposed to be friday but all my friends has personal commitments already. So, I went for dinner alone and...
    Shamdee Shamdee 26-30 1 Response Jul 11

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    I understand that things could be a lot worse; I have friends that I can have a laugh with and talk to in and out of school, I have family that I trust and my stupid dog to spend...
    ViperaStellaris ViperaStellaris 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    I was asked "what went wrong?" tonight. I thought I would share my thoughts on this with those who are feeling lonely. What if nothing went wrong? What if we did all that we...
    Elbellzi Elbellzi 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 8

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    Lonely. Yep. That about describes it. Wish I knew what to do about it. Have tried rekindling, repairing... I'm not seeing the results I'd like to. Still feel like I'm lacking...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 9 Responses Jul 8

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    I like to think I'm OK....… But I really am lonely. I've been single for over a year. I mean, I had a girlfriend for 2 weeks but it didn't work out. I just miss intimacy, though...
    FellidayaFiresong FellidayaFiresong 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 7

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    I have a preteen sister who is really lonely and really despised by her peers in school. She's been very depressed lately. I thought I'd get her a book she can relate to. Any...
    Newuserwhoisauser Newuserwhoisauser 22-25 2 Responses Jul 7

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    I have a preteen sister who is really lonely and really despised by her peers in school. She's been very depressed lately. I thought I'd get her a book she can relate to. Any...
    Newuserwhoisauser Newuserwhoisauser 22-25 Jul 7

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    I have been living with my mum recently, and she is literally making me go crazy. I am an only child, and I had to temporarily move and live in where my mum is temporarily living...
    azurevanilla azurevanilla 13-15 1 Response Jul 7

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    I liked this part of the book cause it really describes me, but the sad part is that it's still me. It took me so many years to make friends but still having those lonely feelings...
    bloodyzombie19 bloodyzombie19 16-17, F Jul 6

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