I Am Looking At Men In a New Way Lately

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    Now that I have admitted to myself that I want to be a girl, I find myself checking out guys as I used to check out women. I was in town today, (first time wearing womens underwear!) and as I walked I looked. I'd always heard about girls liking mens butts so I watched a few to...
    growingfemale growingfemale
    51-55, M
    Jan 14, 2012

    Not Just Sex objects

    I used to only think of guys as something attached to a living *****, but now more than ever, I am looking at guys and thinking that I would like them to hold me, cuddle me, kiss me (Love me!)
    femininityforme femininityforme
    46-50, T
    4 Responses Dec 7, 2009

    New Experience With A Man...1st Time

    Well lastnight I dressed as a woman for my 1st time ever, and went to a gay bar. In my profile I have added 2 new pics I added on here for everybody to see. At the bar lots of men were treating me like a woman. I received lots of free drinks. 1 man I taked with for the majority...
    taniachapman taniachapman
    22-25, M
    13 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    OK! Guilty

    I admit it! There isn't really anything new about the way I look at men! :)
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jul 19, 2009

    Really Looking At Men Differently Now!

    I couldn't wait. I've always had a hard time waiting for things. So, I dressed in my underwear and went out to the ***** store. Of course, nobody could tell what I had on underneath and that excited me and if I chickened out well, I could just go home. I shopped around a bit...
    growingfemale growingfemale
    51-55, M
    10 Responses Jan 15, 2012

    A Gentleman

    I'm looking at men in a new way lately. I'm looking for a partner,someone who appreciates a beautiful woman. Someone to love me,to hold me,and to care for me. Someone who will open doors for me and answer to my whims. Someone who will be there in time of need. I want someone...
    Raeka Raeka
    36-40, T
    3 Responses Sep 23, 2010

    As A Female

    as a man men were men as a woman I see them differently they are still awkward and ungainly but there is something about their roughness that is appealing as well as thier **** that is
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    2 Responses Apr 2, 2013

    Sure. I used to hold a certain view:

    that most were beautiful, stoic yet appropriately emotional, confident, honest... Disney sure did pull a wool over my eyes. Now I see more men who are extremely sensitive, insecure, whiny, and who lack many traits that I find desirable. Unfortunate. But that is who those men...
    RationalCutie RationalCutie
    26-30, F
    Jan 16, 2015

    I Can't Explain It ...

    I can't explain why men, well some men, have an effect on me that ... well I don't know. I've kept the woman inside of me for so long living in my male persona that I thought I'd suffocate or just disappear. However over the last few years I have been noticing that I sense men...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    11 Responses Jul 11, 2008

    Not So Much...

    Perhaps it's not so much that I am looking at them in a new way lately, as that I have finally admitted to myself that I have always looked at them from a woman's perspective.  And i now realize that that is part of being the woman I have always wanted to be, then so be it!
    RoseViolet RoseViolet
    46-50, F
    1 Response Nov 2, 2009

    As Part of Looking At Men ...

    Why is it women can look at a man and not see him naked. While, it seems, every man looks at a women picturing her naked. The wiring is definetly ... different.
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    14 Responses Jul 12, 2008

    READ Below

    I have always liked guys, but in a way where I was a girl. I would never want extra baggage while with a guy, that's not me. I want all the components to fit. I care none for backdoor, I want to greet my guy in the front. I want to experience love as a woman would with a man...
    vanessa34 vanessa34
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 25, 2009

    I in every day life in male role at work

    working with men used to not think of them but normal the more i let my fem side grow stronger and i am with men i know look at them even when working with a desire and inner feeling to be with him and him with me
    alexiswcd alexiswcd
    56-60, T
    1 Response Aug 13, 2015
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