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    Why Did He Cheat

    Me and my ex were married for 28 years, had three kids that were on their own with their own kids. We got along great, did everything together, without any fighting. Life was good. I thought it was anyways, but I was wrong. My world came crashing around me all in one day. All...
    helpmetoday helpmetoday 46-50 Feb 29, 2012

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    Can Anyone Help?

    Skyler is also known as my sunshine. Skyler is 9 1/2 yrs old and has Asperger Syndrome which is on the lower end of the Autism spectrum. Along with Asperger's Skyler also has PDD, ADD, ADHD,OCD, and a few other learning disorders. All this being said he can be a challenge at...
    angelzevil angelzevil 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 19, 2010

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    Struggling With Society

    I wish to share my story. I'm not really sure why. It's hard to work out if I just need to know if there are others out there who struggle with the same things as I do or if I'm reaching out for help. I do not wish in any way to sound elitist or arrogant. I just want to speak my...
    rs73 rs73 36-40, M Mar 26, 2013

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    Answers, Answers, Answers, Need A Lot Of Them.

    Well, uhm, hello?... I am Adrian...i have a lot to say, and by now, no one to tell those stories to. Hmm, i tend to be angry, i tend to be...weird, i just want to forget and feel less mental the "riddle-o-mess-o-nation" in my mind....xd... Well, first, i have a lot in my mind...
    Adrianlikesham Adrianlikesham 18-21 1 Response Jul 6, 2010

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    Is This World Run By Chance?

    It seems like it, judging by all the random acts of violence nowadays. However, the American experience indicates otherwise; most Americans seem to have a sense of purpose to their lives even if it is purely enojoying every moment of life or trying to make life as comfortable...
    Just0wondering Just0wondering 36-40 Jan 25, 2009

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    I have one friend that i dont know

    why can always make me jealous whenever she is doing something fun together with her bestfriend (something like posting some funny stuff on Facebook or instagram), im just her close friend, not a bestfriend. When the jealousy come, it ruins my mood and makes me to hate her...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517 18-21, F May 13

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    What a Question to Ask........

    What a question to ask.......EVERYBODY IS.!!!!! If you find the answer why keep looking. It's all part of live and learning. I question everything, until I have proof positive. Even then I ask more questions, as there are many facets to each question asked. Each...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 20, 2008

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    But the Question Keeps Changing

    It seems that by the time I find an answer, the question has changed and the moment has passed. Sometimes the answers don't come until you stop looking.
    soonermom soonermom 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 20, 2008

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    Daily

    I'm always looking for answers. Answers to my questions and answers in general. It can be speciffics on business and my job. Or more likely lately, learning more about myself and others who have traveled this road before me. I like answers. I know I'll never know all the...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 2 Responses Oct 27, 2008

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    My Husband Cheated On Me.

    Married for 11 years. We both considered our marriage perfect. But why did he cheat on me. I have been having dreams of him cheating on me with a woman I know. And next to me. I wake up crying. We are trying to fix our marriage. But im still bieng tormented by my dreams. I dont...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5 31-35, F 4 Responses Oct 1, 2008

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    A Half-believer

    I have always dreamed of monsters, but what kid hasn't. As you age you forget about a lot of those things, right? Well, all but one for me: I refer to it as the black shadow, because that's what it is. The first time I saw it was when I was a young boy, maybe not even 4 yet...
    TandemFrost TandemFrost 26-30 Jul 5, 2012

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    Truth

    The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth. —Niels Bohr An Answer should always be true even if it's not profound.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

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    Formula For Predicting Your Child's Future

    Pay Attention, You Only Have Approximately 17 Years To Get This Right, Every Single Second Matters So Don't Screw It Up. Remember, The Day You Decided To Bring This Beautiful Baby Into This World You Committed To Providing The Best Care And Every Ounce Of Your Love And...
    tmajor tmajor 41-45, M Jan 8, 2011

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    Confusion <3

    I have been in contact with my Ex for a few months now, he lives in a shared house with people that are no good for him, they do all sorts of drugs, and he is getting onto them gradually, I have been there while he has done it. I would never do these drugs due to my illness. He...
    lisastacey3 lisastacey3 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 10, 2011

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    How Do You Let Go?

    There's a part of me that thinks you can't REALLY let go of hurt - cause of the whole 'fool me once, shame on me; fool me twice shame on me' idea.  But there's another part that recognizes that if I don't let go I will never move forward.  So if you've been hurt by the actions...
    espressluv espressluv 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 5, 2011

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    Need Some Suggestions On A Feminine Haircut.

    I lost a bet with my wife's friend. If she lost she had to shave her head, if I lost I had to get a feminine cut and color. I lost the freaking bet! I have just above shoulder length hair. It's dark brown and is all the same length. Does anybody have some suggestions on what I...
    Brisco49 Brisco49 36-40, M Nov 10, 2013

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    Answers

    I was looking for answers and I got my answers and more.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 13, 2011

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    I have one friend whom I know

    for the past 6 months. We clicked and get close pretty fast, hanging out and talking like a close friend. She personally had one bestfriend whom she knew for more than 4 years, which I respect their bestfriend relationship on the first place and I know no one can replace her...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517 18-21, F Jan 26

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