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    Struggling With Society

    I wish to share my story. I'm not really sure why. It's hard to work out if I just need to know if there are others out there who struggle with the same things as I do or if I'm reaching out for help. I do not wish in any way to sound elitist or arrogant. I just want to speak my...
    rs73 rs73
    36-40, M
    Mar 26, 2013

    Why Did He Cheat

    Me and my ex were married for 28 years, had three kids that were on their own with their own kids. We got along great, did everything together, without any fighting. Life was good. I thought it was anyways, but I was wrong. My world came crashing around me all in one day. All...
    helpmetoday helpmetoday
    Feb 29, 2012

    Formula For Predicting Your Child's Future

    Pay Attention, You Only Have Approximately 17 Years To Get This Right, Every Single Second Matters So Don't Screw It Up. Remember, The Day You Decided To Bring This Beautiful Baby Into This World You Committed To Providing The Best Care And Every Ounce Of Your Love And...
    tmajor tmajor
    41-45, M
    Jan 8, 2011

    Confusion <3

    I have been in contact with my Ex for a few months now, he lives in a shared house with people that are no good for him, they do all sorts of drugs, and he is getting onto them gradually, I have been there while he has done it. I would never do these drugs due to my illness. He...
    lisastacey3 lisastacey3
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 10, 2011

    My Husband Cheated On Me.

    Married for 11 years. We both considered our marriage perfect. But why did he cheat on me. I have been having dreams of him cheating on me with a woman I know. And next to me. I wake up crying. We are trying to fix our marriage. But im still bieng tormented by my dreams. I dont...
    dianaspy5 dianaspy5
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 1, 2008

    A Half-believer

    I have always dreamed of monsters, but what kid hasn't. As you age you forget about a lot of those things, right? Well, all but one for me: I refer to it as the black shadow, because that's what it is. The first time I saw it was when I was a young boy, maybe not even 4 yet...
    TandemFrost TandemFrost
    Jul 5, 2012

    Answers, Answers, Answers, Need A Lot Of Them.

    Well, uhm, hello?... I am Adrian...i have a lot to say, and by now, no one to tell those stories to. Hmm, i tend to be angry, i tend to be...weird, i just want to forget and feel less mental the "riddle-o-mess-o-nation" in my mind....xd... Well, first, i have a lot in my mind...
    Adrianlikesham Adrianlikesham
    1 Response Jul 6, 2010


    I'm always looking for answers. Answers to my questions and answers in general. It can be speciffics on business and my job. Or more likely lately, learning more about myself and others who have traveled this road before me. I like answers. I know I'll never know all the...
    Josie06 Josie06
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Oct 27, 2008

    Need Some Suggestions On A Feminine Haircut.

    I lost a bet with my wife's friend. If she lost she had to shave her head, if I lost I had to get a feminine cut and color. I lost the freaking bet! I have just above shoulder length hair. It's dark brown and is all the same length. Does anybody have some suggestions on what I...
    Brisco49 Brisco49
    36-40, M
    Nov 10, 2013

    How Do You Let Go?

    There's a part of me that thinks you can't REALLY let go of hurt - cause of the whole 'fool me once, shame on me; fool me twice shame on me' idea.  But there's another part that recognizes that if I don't let go I will never move forward.  So if you've been hurt by the actions...
    espressluv espressluv
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 5, 2011

    What a Question to Ask........

    What a question to ask.......EVERYBODY IS.!!!!! If you find the answer why keep looking. It's all part of live and learning. I question everything, until I have proof positive. Even then I ask more questions, as there are many facets to each question asked. Each...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jul 20, 2008


    The opposite of a correct statement is a false statement. But the opposite of a profound truth may well be another profound truth. —Niels Bohr An Answer should always be true even if it's not profound.
    1Babe 1Babe
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Aug 1, 2009

    But the Question Keeps Changing

    It seems that by the time I find an answer, the question has changed and the moment has passed. Sometimes the answers don't come until you stop looking.
    soonermom soonermom
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2008

    Look within. There lies the secret to a happy

    and contended life. Wise men have taught us. But have we learnt that lesson? A lighted candle can burn your fingers. You know that truth by your own experience and if you are a professional person, through other’s experiences. Still have we stopped playing with fires? How...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 1, 2014

    Is This World Run By Chance?

    It seems like it, judging by all the random acts of violence nowadays. However, the American experience indicates otherwise; most Americans seem to have a sense of purpose to their lives even if it is purely enojoying every moment of life or trying to make life as comfortable...
    Just0wondering Just0wondering
    Jan 25, 2009

    Can Anyone Help?

    Skyler is also known as my sunshine. Skyler is 9 1/2 yrs old and has Asperger Syndrome which is on the lower end of the Autism spectrum. Along with Asperger's Skyler also has PDD, ADD, ADHD,OCD, and a few other learning disorders. All this being said he can be a challenge at...
    angelzevil angelzevil
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 19, 2010


    I was looking for answers and I got my answers and more.
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    Aug 13, 2011

    I have one friend whom I know

    for the past 6 months. We clicked and get close pretty fast, hanging out and talking like a close friend. She personally had one bestfriend whom she knew for more than 4 years, which I respect their bestfriend relationship on the first place and I know no one can replace her...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517
    22-25, F
    Jan 26, 2014

    I have one friend that i dont know

    why can always make me jealous whenever she is doing something fun together with her bestfriend (something like posting some funny stuff on Facebook or instagram), im just her close friend, not a bestfriend. When the jealousy come, it ruins my mood and makes me to hate her...
    anonymousme517 anonymousme517
    22-25, F
    May 13, 2014
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