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I Am Looking For the One

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    Be the "One" and You'll Find the "One" and Some Random Stuff

    i found it impossible at first to see "him"... i tried not to search since i might end up empty-handed what i did was i kept myself busy trying to be "her" (the "one" hims or hes are looking for)... anyway, i didn't turn out perfect. who does...
    miss1in6bliss miss1in6bliss 18-21, F May 6, 2008

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    Part Of Me Wants To Give Up On This...

    I am the woman everyone asks this question - 'why you are alone/not hitched/not married/still single? You're attractive, intelligent....blah dee blah dee blah'. Well, here's the thing....I have lots to offer...I understand what the word compromise means without compromising my...
    abby76 abby76 41-45, F 5 Responses Nov 20, 2011

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    Don't Think I'll Ever Find Him

    Someone who shares my interests which are offbeat and strange. Someone complex like me. I think I'm meant to be alone. Call it fate or call it God. ::shrugs:::
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Nov 24, 2009

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    Whitch One???

    Okay, so i really like this one guy. He's so nice its like he gets me because i can easily take to him, and i love that. But the only problem is, that i see im twice a year sometimes not even that. But see, then here's this other guy, i see him every friday, and he's nice too. I...
    Elisha18me Elisha18me 13-15, F Dec 31, 2010

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    I Know I Am You But I Hope And Pray I Find Him.

    I am only 16 going on 17. I have been looking for Mr. Right. I may be young but I know what I want. I want to be able to date and not get into drama. Im looking for the one who can wipe my tears for me, be there when I need them, and make me feel safe. I go to bed everynight...
    Sheree994 Sheree994 16-17, F May 23, 2011

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    There is no such thing

    as the one it's the 21st century. Forever alone :'(
    superabe11 superabe11 16-17, M 6 days ago

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    Yes the one, most of the time Im embarrassed

    because im an NBSB. I'm 24 and dont know much about love or dont even really know what it is, how it feels or how will it change you. I envy those people who found their match. Im always looking forward for the day that love will happen to me! Sometimes I dread that I will live...
    fosselfuel fosselfuel 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 3

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    Seriously Looking For The One Great Hearted Woman To Love And Be Loved By.

    ISO lifelong good gal. Lover/Bestfriend/wife to be. : ) I am a good guy who just ran into difficult times in a marriage that is over now for a long time. She could not stay faithful so For me that's a deal breaker. I moved on. Now I dated some since and had a couple girlfriends...
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M Jan 24, 2013

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    Could It Be

    I am looking for 1. Someone who is the first and last person I want to see every day. 2. Who can make me laugh and I can make laugh 3. Who can deal with my crazy stuff and role his eyes and love me anyways 4. The person who challenges me to grow and needs me to challenge them 5...
    Starbuck82 Starbuck82 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2011

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    Eterrnal Search

    What or who is "the one". Is it me? Is it I? Is it you? Is it everything and everyone? I do not know and that is why I am looking.
    lenny111 lenny111 41-45, M Feb 24, 2012

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    Do You Know Him?

    Have you seen him? 
    Shaylon Shaylon 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2008

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    If It's Possible

    Not many girls take a liking to me, it seems. I'm not sure if it's the things I like or my looks that screw me over every time. Maybe it's because I'm straight edge and refuse to do drugs or drink. It may even be because I'm TOO nice--which I honestly don't understand why that's...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 23, 2012

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    So Much Bad Luck Finding "The One."

    I have always had bad luck with relationships that I have completely given up. Sometime I feel like settling for what is in front of me just so I can have someone I can consider special. But then again, that's why any relationship I get into fizzles out quickly. I also think that...
    mykarma mykarma 36-40 1 Response Jul 15, 2009

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    Once Again

    For the first part of my life, I had "The One". For 35 years. Then. The One decided I was no longer the one for him. I was devastated, but now. I'm ok again. I will know "The One" when I see him for the last half of my life. And if I never see him or find him. I guess that will...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    I Have Been Looking And Not Found The Other Side Of Me.

    All my life I have looked for my other half. Seems like I have made "this will do for now and maybe it will grow" choices. I really want to find something I know nothing about and have felt glimpses of in past relationships. But lo I am a man too, if she has the parts and...
    gadgetsaxman gadgetsaxman 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 3, 2010

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    I Am Looking For The One

    I am looking for the one that will be my soulmate.  I'm 61 and haven't found the soulmate for me.  Eventually  I'll find her I hope.
    aquarius3 aquarius3 61-65 1 Response Jan 21, 2012

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    I Hope I Find Him

    i wanna find the one person that i can wake up next to in the morning and know in my heart that they r the person that  unconditionally loves me back. that loves me for who iam not not for ne thing i have to offer them or benifits they may gain from me. they will stick by me...
    prettylady prettylady 16-18, F 3 Responses Jul 1, 2007

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    I Want Love While Im Young

    So yeah I'm young and i want that love that makes people stupid and giddy i want that feeling when i look at him i know he was meant for me and he would protect me forever some people think its dumb "why fall in love your so young" and "you have so much to do in life" well heres...
    Shawntell Shawntell 16-17, F Oct 7, 2012

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    Just Not Actively

    I have only been divorced for.... 5 months now.  I am not ready to actively search for someone special.  Though, I wouldn't mind a someone for now.  LOL. I want someone who is healthy, but doesn't overdo it.  Someone who cares about their looks, but isn...
    skinnybitch skinnybitch 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 27, 2009

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    You Two Seem The Same

    I was born into a strange world. I live in a world with matchmakers, that means when I want to get married these people find a girl for me. I play this community's game Ive been living with these people seven years they gave me two matches. Both of them where the same girl. It...
    choyars choyars 22-25, M Oct 4, 2010

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    Still Searching....

    Hey, all! Kinda new here. But, anyway, Im looking for the girl for me. I live in Bridgeport, Ct. Its a place thats not so great If your loking for sum1 truly intelectual and good looking all in one. Im not saying im smarter tha every1 that lives here, but I'd say im on a more...
    Joshy23 Joshy23 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 6, 2009

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    Where Are You?

    Someone to take the time to get to know and understand. Then to be patient, learn how to be with complicated and unpredictable. Enjoy being challenged and come back for more. I give. Not gifts; not for the hell of it, but by way of support, emotion, caring and practicality. I...
    hawk2002 hawk2002 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    What I Think....

    A lot of the time, I get lonely and just want to find a good guy to talk to me. I hope that someday soon I might find someone. I like to talk and get to know people. Many of my relationships haven't worked out, so hopefully one day soon I might find someone better. I like to...
    Christian02 Christian02 18-21, F Oct 7, 2012

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    One Look

    One last song for the dreams, something to occupy my mind, empty it and clear it out, leave all those other thoughts behind, and focus on nothing but the melody, One last song for the heartache, let us never repeat this mistake, to think that we could wake, and not remember...
    PhoenixAlpha PhoenixAlpha 22-25, M Sep 6, 2013

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    1 TRUE 1

    Iam looking for that one true love that can give me butterflies in my stomache,the one who will spoil and pamper me
    Augusttwix Augusttwix 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 7, 2013

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    Isn't This Group

    kind of pointless?  I mean, aren't we all "Looking for THE One if we haven't already found him/her?
    SynAnonymous SynAnonymous 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 5, 2010

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    I Am the One (really)

        At about the age of five I became self aware of my existence.    Within a matter of months I also became painfully aware that there was no other intelligent life in my immediate surroundings and I assumed therefore there was none in the world. I felt...
    imagi imagi 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 4, 2009

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    Searching For My Patricia

    In summer/autumn of 2009 I had a profound experience which turned my world upside down.  I had recently given blood and learnt how the black and Asian communities were three times more likely to need a kidney transplant than Caucasians.  I took upon myself to tell as many of...
    childofgod74 childofgod74 36-40, M Feb 28, 2012

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    ~ Who'll Know the Treasure.... ~

       He's found in me. I'm looking for the only one who can prove to me they aren't all the same. The one who'll realize just how beautiful I truly am & be thankful that I'm his. The one who will know what a treasure he has found in my heart & treat it accordingly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 8, 2009

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    Wherever You Are.

    When I was little it seemed like it was only a fairytale. Numerous times have I thought I found that one entity, that one person, that could make my life complete. But as it seems, with each passing fancy the hole in my heart grew, leaving my soul not but a barren waste. And...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 16, 2011

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    Looking For A Family Woman,a Lover-bestfriend.

    I Am Looking For the One Seriously Looking For The One Great Hearted Woman To Love And Be Loved By. By: Me Written on January 24th, 2013 ISO lifelong good gal. Lover/Bestfriend/wife to be. : ) I am a good guy who just ran into difficult times in a marriage that is over...
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M Jan 24, 2013

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    Are You Out There?

    I'm a complicated person with an odd personality and many hobbies. I'm looking for someone like me, with the same opinions and maybe some similiar hobbies. But I've yet to find anyone that comes close to any of this. I feel hopeless.
    fi2060 fi2060 16-17 1 Response Nov 10, 2011

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    The "One"?

    i feel a bit confused because i recently met a really lovely guy on holiday who i am still in contact with and i think i really love him. He is so kind and caring. The only problem is that he lives ages away. i dont know what to do because i feel like i really need to see him and...
    lostgirl29 lostgirl29 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 19, 2009

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    Any "One"

    I think there are many people with whom you could forget a relationship where you might find both of each other to be "the one" for you. I tend to think that anyone, by trying in the enough of the right ways, figuring them out and feeling okay with their...
    penname penname 41-45, F Sep 4, 2009

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    Lost In My On Life

    I am 41 have 3kids been in love what i hought was love 3 times I am with my last childs father now But I hate him he never has anything good to say nor an oppion on anything everything is left up to me an i realy hate my life with him now every one telles me to kick him out but...
    niclost niclost 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 3, 2011

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    Looking For A Girl

    Hi , As i know everyone wants to fulfill there dreams but we cant express others ,off course mee too have the same problem..my opinion is instead of know people unknown people will be the best to express everything like this..so i am expressing my feelings here.kindly let me know...
    south250 south250 26-30, M Mar 20, 2012

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    The Problem Is..

    I already found him. But I screwed it all up, and now I'm alone. It sucks. It really does, because I can't help but blame myself and just sit and make a list of the million times I screwed up and he forgave me. But I never learned, and it ended up ruining everything. I never...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Lost In My Own Life

    Hi all as if things arent hard enough my 18 son lost his father this month He was the love of my life I was never able to fully let him go now he is gone It is hard to understand why these things happen why now when we needed him so much?telling my son was one of the hardest...
    niclost niclost 41-45, F Jul 7, 2011

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    Perfectly~Imperfect

    ..........Im not the perfect girl...i laugh really loud when i think somethings funny,im not gonna be all cute cheering u on from the side lines~im gonna be getn dirty helping u in the game,my baby toe nail curves in an ackward way,im gettn grey hair and have'nt died it yet,i...
    CraziiBeautiful CraziiBeautiful 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2013

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    Still Patiently Waiting

    I've been searching for my soulmate very long time and still waiting for his appreance. My days are always lonely without love, care and compasionate. I dont ask for financial support but emationally i need him. I would giveup anything if i find my soulmate and surrender my self...
    loveceeker loveceeker 31-35, F Nov 24, 2011

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    I Want Love In My Life.

    Are there any other ladies in their 60's and still looking for love? I have such a strong libido and sometimes wonder if it is normal. I need a lover who loves me.
    bjp1943 bjp1943 61-65, F 1 Response Aug 6, 2012

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    I am looking for a slave to train,

    own and dominate... I require those who submit to me to be clean, well groomed, polite, and above all, obedient. Furthermore, I do not tolerate time wasters.
    MistressPrecious MistressPrecious 26-30, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm have changed my name

    and I know you see me posting on here so this goes out to my friend krewlove
    KrzySexyCool KrzySexyCool 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 9

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