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I Am Looking Help Support and Advice On Bereavement

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    LOSING Someone You Love!

    I DECIDED TO JOIN THIS WEBSITE TO TRY AND MEET PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED LOSING SOMEONE THAT THEY LOVE. MY MUM LOST HER MOTHER NINE MONTHS AGO, MY GRANDMOTHER WHO I TRULY LOVED TOO. THEN MY HUSBAND LOST HIS SISTER SEVERAL MONTHS LATER. WE HAVE BOTH FOUND THAT DEATH WITHIN...
    chel130879 chel130879 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Lost My Husband Of 29 Years

    I have just lost my husband of 29 years, he collapsed and the next day he died, friday 13th july, he died in the uk but we live in spain, he was there visiting his mother, i was there at his death but never got to tell him how much he meant to me, i am feeling so angry, tired...
    cavvylady cavvylady 46-50 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    My Mother

    i lost my mom 10 years ago i miss her and am struggling to find ways to mourn for her and thrree years after she died i had my first child wich is a girl and i feel so lost.
    aprilk aprilk 31-35 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I lost my cousin to suicide in October 2013 &

    three of my best friends children just this Monday, may 26th. I am numb & feeling totally empty. If there is anyone going through this or has done. I would love to talk to you.
    nazkid99 nazkid99 36-40, F May 29

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    Feeling Displaced

    December 12th will be three years since my beloved husband and best friend went in for a routine CAT scan and passed from a pulmonary embolism. Since then I have felt like I do not belong anywhere. I let myself be talked into moving back to my hometown (same state, opposite...
    lostintime4ever lostintime4ever 61-65 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    Some Day's Are Worse Then Others

    It's been 8months since I lost her. How I made it thru the winter I'll never know. Why is it getting harder?
    missmygirl72 missmygirl72 61-65 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    My wife passwed away on Boxing day

    so short an illness I cant beleive she has gone every day I shed more tears. My daughter says I have to have the tear to wash the pain so that it can be healed.
    Wjndyridge Wjndyridge 70+, M Apr 1

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    Lost My Mother And Abandoned By Friends

    It has been almost two years since my dear mother passed away, and I keep hoping things will get easier, but without the support of friends or family, I just can't seem to get past this. I have tried so hard to "be there" for my friends that their absence devastates me. It's...
    Ellie1972 Ellie1972 36-40 Jul 24, 2012

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    Newly Bereaved

    My beloved husband of 17 years collapsed and died last Thursday, April 8. Family and friends have flown in to be with me, but are all preparing to go back to their lives -- and I'm ALONE. I can't think clearly enough to make any decisions right now; on the other hand, my finances...
    MomPink MomPink 61-65, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    I Lost the Love of My Life That I Share 20 Years

    HELLO MY SELF TOO, I AM LOKKING FOR HELP MY HOUSBAND DIE ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO, AND TO ME IS LIKE YESTERDAY, HE BASICALLY DIE, IN MY ARMS, AN IS AND EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE AND MY 5 YEARS OLD, SEEN HIS FATHER SCREEMING THAT HIS HEAD WAS HURTING, AND THE MINUTES CALLING THE AMBULLANCE...
    SESI SESI 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Weighed Down By Sadness

    My father just died after a brief illness. In the midst of this three week period my father in law died in his sleep. I can't believe how sad I am. They both lived good long lives. They both died peacefully. But I feel like I'm walking through molasses. Everything takes so...
    Maresidotes Maresidotes 51-55 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    I Miss My Daughter...

    I really need some help and support right now. i am not good at talking about this, but it has got to the point that it keeps me awake at night. It hurts me, but I am not sure how to ask for help anymore. I don't know, it just hurts me more than anything. Okay, so here is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Hello everyone!.. I am new to this "new experience" however I have been looking for support for a very long time so I am really hoping that this will help me!..I am a new...
    MissKay6 MissKay6 18-21, F Jul 27

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    I don't even know where to start. I need some serious advice and no jokes ppl please. This sounds crazy and maybe even unbelievable, but I fell in love with a 30 yr old guy and I'm...
    strixerX strixerX 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I really want to help other people because I feel like I owe a lot to the world, I might seem too young to help but I understand a lot more than some people and I don't judge...
    CutieMintDoodle CutieMintDoodle 13-15, M Jul 22

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    I am not a very talkative person. I only have two good friends that I can talk too about anything. My best friend is in the Philippines, so I don't get to talk to my closest friend...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M Jul 29

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    Lately , I have been feeling really down. I feel like I am only good when someone needs something. It seems like most of my family and friends will only bother with me when they...
    doubletees doubletees 36-40, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    Probably the reason why I became a nurse. I love receiving messages here about people asking for help or advice. Keep em coming I'll try to help if I can (≧∇≦)/
    reezaheartdogs reezaheartdogs 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I need help. I am 25 years old African American female, I am enrolled in nursing school I need help supporting myself.
    Fay3000 Fay3000 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have a boyfriend. This is my first relationship. I'm still pretty young. I'm a college student But right now I'm a full time lifeguard and swimming instructor My little job on...
    andreaespe andreaespe 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 27

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    I have been with my boyfriend for a year. At the beginning of our realtionship I was super attracted to him. Like I had never had a single thought of a female I only wanted him...
    jaybayy jaybayy 13-15, F Jul 31

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    Hey everyone, So to start off this isn't about me, but about my best friend. Her mom and brother isn't treating her right (keep in mind her dad is overseas right now). Her mom...
    MizzXD MizzXD 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    Five years a ago I met a woman on an internet dating site called plenty of fish - we got married - moved to an Island - had two beautiful boys - and during our first year together...
    needofadvice needofadvice 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I am in dire need to help someone... I crave the personal amazement it gives me... The enhancement it has on my life is incredible and I've been told I'm a natural at giving...
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    God knows that she's one of my good friends but what she does, makes me **** off especially with her boyfriend!!!! I CAN UNDERSTAND THAT HE WAS YOUR FIRST FOR EVERYTHING!!! BUT I...
    Xmidniteangel15X Xmidniteangel15X 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 28

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    Let's start with i am a 32 yr old female with a problem. Let's start from the beginning. I'm met my husband in the bar I work in 8 yrs ago. We have had our struggles broke up for a...
    jessi977 jessi977 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I don't need advice. Guidance? Yes. But not advice. Most people might say those two are the same thing but it's not to me. I'm young, obviously. But I'm actually really messed up...
    JurkoKD JurkoKD 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I love the man I'm with. He's more than anything I would have ever asked for. He's been talking with a navy recruiter for the past month and he's dead set on this career. I want to...
    wh0isit wh0isit 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Have you noticed all the posts about people who feel suicidal, depressed, feeling lost and alone? Do you ever feel the urge to help them? To say something that will brighten...
    dreadheadgal dreadheadgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 22

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    What's up guys I really need your help.. I work at American apparel the factory. I saw this beautiful lady that works in the sewing department. I can't describe how beautiful she...
    tomhelmy tomhelmy 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 3

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    I don't understand. I just don't understand. I am in love and it's a really very good feeling. Yes I am just 17 years old and am in love with a 41 year old man. He is my first love...
    jerry44 jerry44 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 27

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    I am attempting to recover from cutting, but it's a battle I'm tired of fighting and ready to give in. I need encouragement and advice from someone who has already best this...
    itsawish itsawish 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm 20 years old virgin never had a job, i go to college and i don't know who am i. my years in elementary and middle school, and high school, and now in college, was being the shy...
    spicybuddha101 spicybuddha101 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I really enjoy helping people, I mean when I see i've helped a person to improve and helped their lives to turn out easier for them. I can't help be feel proud of myself for...
    BurntToasty BurntToasty 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I have a friend whose daughter is starting to go through something I have been through. She posted to facebook asking advice but I can't say it where any one can read. Part of me...
    Ldylvlylcks2002 Ldylvlylcks2002 26-30, F 6 Responses Aug 12

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    So I start community college in 2 weeks and deciding on what clubs to join I recently came out of the closet and I wanted to join gay straight alliance club just to get support...
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    Hello. I am Bailey. I am seventeen years old. I started cutting myself when I was fourteen. The first time I did it, I used a key. I carved someone's initials into my forearm...
    Baileywelch12 Baileywelch12 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just realized how ridiculous this experience is. Because surely people who need a "talk" or "advice" will probably never come here. The people who are actually depressed and...
    LightlySaltedSalmon LightlySaltedSalmon 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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