I Am Looking Help Support and Advice On Bereavement

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    My wife passwed away on Boxing day

    so short an illness I cant beleive she has gone every day I shed more tears. My daughter says I have to have the tear to wash the pain so that it can be healed.
    Wjndyridge Wjndyridge
    70+, M
    Apr 1, 2014

    Weighed Down By Sadness

    My father just died after a brief illness. In the midst of this three week period my father in law died in his sleep. I can't believe how sad I am. They both lived good long lives. They both died peacefully. But I feel like I'm walking through molasses. Everything takes so...
    Maresidotes Maresidotes
    51-55
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2012

    Three years ago, last November,

    my elder son, Jon, died of cancer. He died exactly a month after receiving the diagnosis. I have no real support at home. My husband freely admits that he can't cope with my grief. Worse is that I have a degenerative spinal condition that causes constant pain and limits my...
    Megi56 Megi56
    56-60, F
    1 Response Jan 19

    I Lost the Love of My Life That I Share 20 Years

    HELLO MY SELF TOO, I AM LOKKING FOR HELP MY HOUSBAND DIE ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO, AND TO ME IS LIKE YESTERDAY, HE BASICALLY DIE, IN MY ARMS, AN IS AND EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE AND MY 5 YEARS OLD, SEEN HIS FATHER SCREEMING THAT HIS HEAD WAS HURTING, AND THE MINUTES CALLING THE AMBULLANCE...
    SESI SESI
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    Lost My Mother And Abandoned By Friends

    It has been almost two years since my dear mother passed away, and I keep hoping things will get easier, but without the support of friends or family, I just can't seem to get past this. I have tried so hard to "be there" for my friends that their absence devastates me. It's...
    Ellie1972 Ellie1972
    36-40
    Jul 24, 2012

    I Miss My Daughter...

    I really need some help and support right now. i am not good at talking about this, but it has got to the point that it keeps me awake at night. It hurts me, but I am not sure how to ask for help anymore. I don't know, it just hurts me more than anything. Okay, so here is...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    Feeling Displaced

    December 12th will be three years since my beloved husband and best friend went in for a routine CAT scan and passed from a pulmonary embolism. Since then I have felt like I do not belong anywhere. I let myself be talked into moving back to my hometown (same state, opposite...
    lostintime4ever lostintime4ever
    61-65
    1 Response Nov 4, 2012

    My mother passed away 3 weeks ago

    and we are moving the last of her belongings today. I am struck with an unbelievable sadness and can't seem to get up from the carpet under where her bed used to be. This is where she gave me her last kiss and uttered her last breath. The movers are just about ready but I am...
    alexperezbarry alexperezbarry
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 29

    Some Day's Are Worse Then Others

    It's been 8months since I lost her. How I made it thru the winter I'll never know. Why is it getting harder?
    missmygirl72 missmygirl72
    61-65
    3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

    Newly Bereaved

    My beloved husband of 17 years collapsed and died last Thursday, April 8. Family and friends have flown in to be with me, but are all preparing to go back to their lives -- and I'm ALONE. I can't think clearly enough to make any decisions right now; on the other hand, my finances...
    MomPink MomPink
    61-65, F
    1 Response Apr 14, 2012

    Lost My Husband Of 29 Years

    I have just lost my husband of 29 years, he collapsed and the next day he died, friday 13th july, he died in the uk but we live in spain, he was there visiting his mother, i was there at his death but never got to tell him how much he meant to me, i am feeling so angry, tired...
    cavvylady cavvylady
    46-50
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

    Hey everyone, a few weeks ago I lost my

    grandmother to a very late diagnosis of terminal cancer. I was with her the whole journey and was with her right at the moment she passed away. Today I also lost my uncle, and I guess I was just looking for support from anyone who knows what I'm going through at the moment...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 28

    I lost my cousin to suicide in October 2013 &

    three of my best friends children just this Monday, may 26th. I am numb & feeling totally empty. If there is anyone going through this or has done. I would love to talk to you.
    nazkid99 nazkid99
    36-40, F
    May 29, 2014

    My Mother

    i lost my mom 10 years ago i miss her and am struggling to find ways to mourn for her and thrree years after she died i had my first child wich is a girl and i feel so lost.
    aprilk aprilk
    31-35
    4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

    LOSING Someone You Love!

    I DECIDED TO JOIN THIS WEBSITE TO TRY AND MEET PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED LOSING SOMEONE THAT THEY LOVE. MY MUM LOST HER MOTHER NINE MONTHS AGO, MY GRANDMOTHER WHO I TRULY LOVED TOO. THEN MY HUSBAND LOST HIS SISTER SEVERAL MONTHS LATER. WE HAVE BOTH FOUND THAT DEATH WITHIN...
    chel130879 chel130879
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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