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I Am Looking Help Support and Advice On Bereavement

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 33 People

    Newly Bereaved

    My beloved husband of 17 years collapsed and died last Thursday, April 8. Family and friends have flown in to be with me, but are all preparing to go back to their lives -- and I'm ALONE. I can't think clearly enough to make any decisions right now; on the other hand, my finances...
    MomPink MomPink 61-65, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    I Miss My Daughter...

    I really need some help and support right now. i am not good at talking about this, but it has got to the point that it keeps me awake at night. It hurts me, but I am not sure how to ask for help anymore. I don't know, it just hurts me more than anything. Okay, so here is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    Some Day's Are Worse Then Others

    It's been 8months since I lost her. How I made it thru the winter I'll never know. Why is it getting harder?
    missmygirl72 missmygirl72 61-65 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Feeling Displaced

    December 12th will be three years since my beloved husband and best friend went in for a routine CAT scan and passed from a pulmonary embolism. Since then I have felt like I do not belong anywhere. I let myself be talked into moving back to my hometown (same state, opposite...
    lostintime4ever lostintime4ever 61-65 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    Weighed Down By Sadness

    My father just died after a brief illness. In the midst of this three week period my father in law died in his sleep. I can't believe how sad I am. They both lived good long lives. They both died peacefully. But I feel like I'm walking through molasses. Everything takes so...
    Maresidotes Maresidotes 51-55 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    I Lost the Love of My Life That I Share 20 Years

    HELLO MY SELF TOO, I AM LOKKING FOR HELP MY HOUSBAND DIE ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO, AND TO ME IS LIKE YESTERDAY, HE BASICALLY DIE, IN MY ARMS, AN IS AND EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE AND MY 5 YEARS OLD, SEEN HIS FATHER SCREEMING THAT HIS HEAD WAS HURTING, AND THE MINUTES CALLING THE AMBULLANCE...
    SESI SESI 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    LOSING Someone You Love!

    I DECIDED TO JOIN THIS WEBSITE TO TRY AND MEET PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED LOSING SOMEONE THAT THEY LOVE. MY MUM LOST HER MOTHER NINE MONTHS AGO, MY GRANDMOTHER WHO I TRULY LOVED TOO. THEN MY HUSBAND LOST HIS SISTER SEVERAL MONTHS LATER. WE HAVE BOTH FOUND THAT DEATH WITHIN...
    chel130879 chel130879 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    My Mother

    i lost my mom 10 years ago i miss her and am struggling to find ways to mourn for her and thrree years after she died i had my first child wich is a girl and i feel so lost.
    aprilk aprilk 31-35 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    My wife passwed away on Boxing day

    so short an illness I cant beleive she has gone every day I shed more tears. My daughter says I have to have the tear to wash the pain so that it can be healed.
    Wjndyridge Wjndyridge 66-70, M Apr 1, 2014

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    Lost My Mother And Abandoned By Friends

    It has been almost two years since my dear mother passed away, and I keep hoping things will get easier, but without the support of friends or family, I just can't seem to get past this. I have tried so hard to "be there" for my friends that their absence devastates me. It's...
    Ellie1972 Ellie1972 36-40 Jul 24, 2012

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    I lost my cousin to suicide in October 2013 &

    three of my best friends children just this Monday, may 26th. I am numb & feeling totally empty. If there is anyone going through this or has done. I would love to talk to you.
    nazkid99 nazkid99 36-40, F May 29, 2014

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    Lost My Husband Of 29 Years

    I have just lost my husband of 29 years, he collapsed and the next day he died, friday 13th july, he died in the uk but we live in spain, he was there visiting his mother, i was there at his death but never got to tell him how much he meant to me, i am feeling so angry, tired...
    cavvylady cavvylady 46-50 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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