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I Am Looking Help Support and Advice On Bereavement

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 33 People

    Lost My Mother And Abandoned By Friends

    It has been almost two years since my dear mother passed away, and I keep hoping things will get easier, but without the support of friends or family, I just can't seem to get past this. I have tried so hard to "be there" for my friends that their absence devastates me. It's...
    Ellie1972 Ellie1972 36-40 Jul 24, 2012

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    Some Day's Are Worse Then Others

    It's been 8months since I lost her. How I made it thru the winter I'll never know. Why is it getting harder?
    missmygirl72 missmygirl72 61-65 3 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    I Lost the Love of My Life That I Share 20 Years

    HELLO MY SELF TOO, I AM LOKKING FOR HELP MY HOUSBAND DIE ABOUT TWO YEARS AGO, AND TO ME IS LIKE YESTERDAY, HE BASICALLY DIE, IN MY ARMS, AN IS AND EXPERIENCE TERRIBLE AND MY 5 YEARS OLD, SEEN HIS FATHER SCREEMING THAT HIS HEAD WAS HURTING, AND THE MINUTES CALLING THE AMBULLANCE...
    SESI SESI 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    I Miss My Daughter...

    I really need some help and support right now. i am not good at talking about this, but it has got to the point that it keeps me awake at night. It hurts me, but I am not sure how to ask for help anymore. I don't know, it just hurts me more than anything. Okay, so here is...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    My wife passwed away on Boxing day

    so short an illness I cant beleive she has gone every day I shed more tears. My daughter says I have to have the tear to wash the pain so that it can be healed.
    Wjndyridge Wjndyridge 66-70, M Apr 1, 2014

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    Feeling Displaced

    December 12th will be three years since my beloved husband and best friend went in for a routine CAT scan and passed from a pulmonary embolism. Since then I have felt like I do not belong anywhere. I let myself be talked into moving back to my hometown (same state, opposite...
    lostintime4ever lostintime4ever 61-65 1 Response Nov 4, 2012

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    I lost my cousin to suicide in October 2013 &

    three of my best friends children just this Monday, may 26th. I am numb & feeling totally empty. If there is anyone going through this or has done. I would love to talk to you.
    nazkid99 nazkid99 36-40, F May 29, 2014

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    LOSING Someone You Love!

    I DECIDED TO JOIN THIS WEBSITE TO TRY AND MEET PEOPLE WHO HAVE EXPERIENCED LOSING SOMEONE THAT THEY LOVE. MY MUM LOST HER MOTHER NINE MONTHS AGO, MY GRANDMOTHER WHO I TRULY LOVED TOO. THEN MY HUSBAND LOST HIS SISTER SEVERAL MONTHS LATER. WE HAVE BOTH FOUND THAT DEATH WITHIN...
    chel130879 chel130879 26-30 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Lost My Husband Of 29 Years

    I have just lost my husband of 29 years, he collapsed and the next day he died, friday 13th july, he died in the uk but we live in spain, he was there visiting his mother, i was there at his death but never got to tell him how much he meant to me, i am feeling so angry, tired...
    cavvylady cavvylady 46-50 2 Responses Aug 5, 2012

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    Weighed Down By Sadness

    My father just died after a brief illness. In the midst of this three week period my father in law died in his sleep. I can't believe how sad I am. They both lived good long lives. They both died peacefully. But I feel like I'm walking through molasses. Everything takes so...
    Maresidotes Maresidotes 51-55 1 Response Apr 25, 2012

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    Newly Bereaved

    My beloved husband of 17 years collapsed and died last Thursday, April 8. Family and friends have flown in to be with me, but are all preparing to go back to their lives -- and I'm ALONE. I can't think clearly enough to make any decisions right now; on the other hand, my finances...
    MomPink MomPink 61-65, F 1 Response Apr 14, 2012

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    My Mother

    i lost my mom 10 years ago i miss her and am struggling to find ways to mourn for her and thrree years after she died i had my first child wich is a girl and i feel so lost.
    aprilk aprilk 31-35 4 Responses Jul 10, 2009

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    I am having a tough time today. Although I get to talk to him, and FaceTime him constantly. I'm still missing him like crazy. I get to see him again in 7 weeks. and then we will be...
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    My wife has now decided she is transgender and wants to transition. She was my husband, but is now my wife. I have just been processing this and coming to terms with it. A lot of...
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    Help! Final exams begin in exactly ONE week. I have clinical anxiety. I absolutely dread this time of year, as it is extremely uncomfortable to get through to the point where...
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    My fiancée in her last relationship was subject to domestic violence for several years. She has suggested that I could better understand what she went through if I was to talk to...
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    I have suffered from mental health related issues most of my life. I have been diagnosed with depression, social anxiety, OCD, and borderline personality disorder. I have taken...
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    I am a 28 year old gay Muslim. I am an attractive half Pakistani and half black man.I would love to find a Muslim woman, either lesbian or not, who is understanding and wants to...
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    I have to do a project for my science class and show global warming and the greenhouse effect making something edible. I already know how I will show global warming but I have no...
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    Word of advice if somebody keeps on hurting you (mentally) leave them yea it's going to hurt a lot but it's better to be hurt one last time then broken a million more....
    IsMyStory IsMyStory 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    My boyfriend is younger than me. He's 24 and I'm 30. He's still trying to figure out his life and in in the process of opening a coffeehouse. When we first started dating he was...
    megz327 megz327 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I really need advice. Someone please help me out I don't know what to do and I don't know how I feel about this. A couple weeks ago I kept throwing up and I felt sick and depressed...
    JusttSomeonee JusttSomeonee 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I do enjoy helping others very much - hence I recently joined EP. The problem is that I get such crazy messages that I'm not sure if some of them are really true or if they are...
    BeKind444 BeKind444 41-45, F 10 Responses Apr 7

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F Mar 27

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    These last couple of days have been the worst of my life, I found a lump in my underarm, I was worried but enough to go to the doc, but not that much. Cancer goes in my family, but...
    lily449 lily449 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    Because I think I give good advice and if the person listens I think it would help a lot. I like to help others..too bad I don't know how to help myself and give advice to myself.
    gardengirl17 gardengirl17 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I have a difficult time making decisions and deciding what to do..... Maybe you can help me decide.... Three years ago I moved from North Carolina to a small rural town in...
    Orangerocket Orangerocket 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    (My Sexuality) Who am I????? Idk anymore I'm hiding a big part of who I am, but yet I haven't really gotten a chance to prove who I am. Or a chance to explore who I am. But I know...
    Artismylife2011 Artismylife2011 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    I separated from my ex boyfriend 3 years ago.. We had a very intense relationship I moved to another state to be with him but it all went bad and I left and moved back home.. I had...
    ozgirl77 ozgirl77 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    The fact that so many people feel like they're alone, that no one cares about them, I wish to change that. To everyone who feels lonely or unwanted or just in need of a friend, I...
    chasetheweirdo8 chasetheweirdo8 13-15, M 14 Responses Apr 7

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    The reason for that is that I have been exposed to very negative people, who manipulated and made me feel guilt. They exploited my kindness. I wanted to make things right and...
    Somexyz Somexyz 26-30, M 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Let me say this loud and clearly.... I LOVE AND SUPPORT THE POLICE!! I am proud that I support the police. I've always wanted to be a Police Officer since I was 9 years old. My...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Ok: this is very complicated, get ready. First off: I went on a cadet camp with this girl and she was from a detachment from far away :( basically I won't see her until like...
    Patryk56349 Patryk56349 13-15, M Apr 8

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    I love giving advice when I can! I love when someone actually asks what I think or like when someone opens up to me and shares an experience with me and asks what they can do about...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Apr 13

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    So how do you exactly know if you're ready to date someone? like, you're not just being desperate... if you go looking for a potential date, does that mean, you are being...
    kmisfit123 kmisfit123 18-21, F Apr 14

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    People at my school always come to me for advice. And later they thank me for it. If u need some advice hmu. I will listen, and give u my best advice. Happy to help! ??
    randomart4lives randomart4lives 13-15, F a week ago

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    Sometimes I feel it's easier to give advice than to accept it. Looking at a situation from the outside-in makes it far easier to reason when you're not the party involved. Having...
    Pyronova Pyronova 13-15, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    if ever you have more questions or need help/advices about family , relationship or friendship email us at askmorenow1 @ gmail.com ! we will be happy to help. anyone, anything...
    askmorenow1 askmorenow1 22-25, F Mar 29

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    I love giving advice and helping when I can :) I love when someone actually cares enough to hear my opinion and thoughts out and it feels good knowing that I can reassure someone...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M Mar 29

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    Tonight, my little brother was getting on my grandparents nerves again. They have had short tempers lately. Long story short, my mother got a divorce and moved us all with my...
    ComplicatedGirl18 ComplicatedGirl18 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Hello everyone , uhh , how do I say this ... for a long time I've been single , for to long , it's hard not being able to call someone yours . I thought I was ok , but in the last...
    opheliacross opheliacross 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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