I Am Losing a Friend

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 109 People

    Bestfriend Vs. Boyfriend

    My now boyfriend and I have been friends for 4 years. My now bestfriend and I have been friends for about 2 years now. They use to be somewhat friendly about 2 1/2 to 3 years back. Well I am at a cross roads right now because she hates him. If she ever gets a chance she will say...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Dec 9, 2012

    For The Third Time In A Year

    I'm fading away from my closest friends. The first one, we were just both busy and I felt like I never talked to her anymore. Things are better now with her, but she's leaving for college next year, and I'm worried about what will happen. There's another friend, who I...
    qforconfused qforconfused
    18-21, F
    Nov 2, 2009

    Yesterday

    I had a post about Teen Pregnancy Glorification.In my personal opinion, I see nothing wrong with SUPPORTING a couple who having a child when they are definitely not ready, but I have a problem with the glorification of young people (13-18) or so, being glorified for this.A friend...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Nov 3, 2013

    Things With My Bestfriend Are Now Awkward

    The other day my bestfriend told me what her problem was with my boyfriend. I always just thought she hated him for their past experience when they knew each other. Turns out she doesn't hate him. She is just hurt by what happened. And still cares for him. Even though she's in...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Dec 18, 2012

    Am I Losing a Friend?

    There is this guy whom I met through my trainings. After each session we were going to a pub to hang out and that is how I got to know him. We “clicked” instantly. He is fun to be around, easy to talk to, and a great friend.     We started to text...
    spot spot
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 30, 2009

    We have to put my dog down on Tuesday.

    When I say "we", I mean my mom and my brother. Just them. Just them because I live 3000 miles away. They live in Michigan, I live in California. I moved out here to follow my dreams as an actress. We have to put my dog down on Tuesday. He's 12. He's my best friend. We have to...
    livingwallflower livingwallflower
    18-21, F
    Jul 25, 2014

    Cancer Sucks

    i am losing a friend to cancer and very hurt and sad by this.  maybe it wouldn't be so hard if he wasnt such a great person.  its not fair that he is only 33 and being slowly pulled into heaven.  in the end days i just hope he knows how much he has made an impact...
    wendygurl wendygurl
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 23, 2008

    I Once Knew a Boy..

    i go out of my way to do things for my friends. my friends don't seem to do the same for me. i know there are probably things that happen, but it doesn't seem like they even try that hard. it makes me feel unimportant. like i'm on the back burner for everyone. thats why, when...
    bonjourpanda bonjourpanda
    16-17, F
    Nov 7, 2007

    We

    We were so special, so different...what happened? Is it just because you have her now? Or did I do something? You don't even talk to me anymore! And we used to talk for hours every day. Now you just say hi sometimes. What happened? Don't you need me anymore? Please come back...
    sondosia sondosia
    18-21, F
    Jul 23, 2007

    Heart Broken

    My friend and I became friends because we're big partiers. We became so close he use to stay over my house. He even has a drawer here. No we didn't **** but we did cuddle cause we slept in the same bed. I do a lot for the kid and I love him to death. Recently, he wasn't coming...
    lindsayfirko lindsayfirko
    22-25, F
    Oct 26, 2013

    I am best friends with my ex girlfriend.

    It was originally her idea to be friends after we broke up. And I liked that idea since it was her idea also to break up in the first place. We broke up almost 2 months ago. I am still not over it. Everyday I think about what we had. She was my first girlfriend and now I just...
    Hohjo Hohjo
    18-21, M
    Oct 22, 2014

    I have always been a true friend back then ,

    I never thought we'd end up like this . You were the sister I never had the girlfriend who had my back (or so I thought) I still remember that day , when I told you about "us" what I felt for him . You were so happy. . . I guess I was caught off guard . Days passed I knew...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses May 21, 2014

    Tonight I am worried I have lost my best friend.

    I have been best friends with him for many years and I am so upset with myself for pushing him to the point of being angry with me. I hate how much I push everyone away, he was the only true friend I had and now I am worried I have lost him. I wish I was a better person...
    aimeejane17 aimeejane17
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2014

    From Friend To Frenemy

    We used to be best friends. But her extreme insecurity and jealousy poisoned our friendship, and turned her into a sad, bitter person. Or maybe she was always that way, and it just took time for her true colors to reveal themselves? All I know is that being friends with her feels...
    keepitundercover keepitundercover
    22-25, F
    Oct 26, 2011

    I think I'm losing someone I thought of

    as a good friend. It's over something stupid too. He was drunk and freaked out for no reason but he refuses to admit he was wrong. Now he's just being a ****. I'm tired of losing friends. How do I always end up losing people?
    xxdannixx7 xxdannixx7
    18-21, F
    Apr 28, 2014

    A Friend In A Foregin Country.

    We seem to not get along with each other though. Always fighting and arguing. This happened today. I was IMing him about knowing another guy that's from Sweden. We have many, many fights like this. He always thinks I hate him :/ Him: well then i guess you can spend your time...
    RiuChan RiuChan
    18-21, F
    Sep 29, 2012

    Loseing My Best Friend....

    ok so there was this guy I thought me and would be friends forever... our story being when I was in the sixth grade he was a year older then me. I was a loner I barely talked to anyone because I had a speech impediment. well this one guy from my band class introduce me to the guy...
    sweetgirl95 sweetgirl95
    18-21, F
    Oct 21, 2013

    What Is Going On?

    I have a very close friend I've known since elementary school, a nine year long relationship. I've never lost a friend before and I'm not even sure about where our relationship stands right now. I've been trying to reach out to her to make amends but she remains adamant on...
    KodokuHime KodokuHime
    18-21, F
    May 23, 2011

    Friend Ditched Me

    Scenario: If you and a rather close friend had made plans to hang out for the afternoon. And you are then in the middle of hanging out with them. And another one of their friends comes over and starts convincing the friend to go do something else soon, right in front of you...
    twinker twinker
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 2, 2007

    I remember when he used to be

    that good friend that would protect me and made laugh, I don't know when he became the person he is now. All I now is that I miss him.
    TrustNoOne17 TrustNoOne17
    18-21, F
    Dec 27, 2013

    Awful New Years

    My New Year's Eve was going rather well until about 9/10. My "bestfriend"'s boyfriend started texting me. I usually find this very odd because it is a rare occurance and normally when she is at work. So i assumed she was at work and I was going to ask. Along with this my other...
    ForeverArmyGirlfriend ForeverArmyGirlfriend
    18-21, F
    Jan 2, 2013

    I am about to lose my dear sweet Maui.

    ...he is 16 and the totally best dog that My dad and I could have ever asked for...I will miss you everyday Maui and tell Mom hi and don't pester her too much, Daddy and I will miss you, but mom needs you up in heaven....
    m4389 m4389
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Feb 5, 2015

    Not just one but several.

    My whole life I've always had a group of friends that I can always go to. That is no longer there, we rarely speak at all. We have known each other since preschool. One is married, one is dealing with coming out the closet, another in a serious relationship. Idk if it's me...
    cgarc538 cgarc538
    26-30, M
    Dec 16, 2013
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