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I Am Losing My Best Friend

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    I'm losing 2. I've knows pipes

    for about 7 years.. I've known Annie for about 2. Pipes has already been dealt with. I need help on Annie. Sh has a crush who likes her back. He takes up a great deal of her time. I told her that I felt left out and replaced and she said "that would never happen" but it...
    anon42402 anon42402 13-15, F Mar 26

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    Best Buds

    Me and my best friend hit a bit of a rough patch over the last year, fortunately we're back on speaking terms, now i feel the only way to progress and bond like we used to is by taking an interest and becoming enthusiastic about the things he loves, this would not be a problem if...
    MarchTowardsTheInfinite MarchTowardsTheInfinite 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 16, 2013

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    I'm losing my best friend to the attention of

    someone else. It honestly used to be me and her against the whole world now its just me alone while she gets other friends and does more in life. I don't know what to do any more its like people are slowly creeping in different directions away from me and its like they have...
    lonelydancergirl lonelydancergirl 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    **** my best friend just told me he loves me.

    ..what am I gonna do now I don't want to lose his friendship :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 Sep 14, 2014

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    Well my friend from high school came home

    for thanksgiving break from collage. I thought we would hang out and do all the stuff we used to. We didn't and now I'm hurt by this. I feel like I'm being a child about it but I still cried :,( idk what to do
    dazedandconfused6666 dazedandconfused6666 18-21, F Nov 30, 2014

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    That girl,my bestfriend,

    she leave me,she replace another one to be her bestfriend and i hate it.One day we hang out with her new bestfriend and friends and she ask me if who's my new bestfriend,i really really angry that time coz that question is from her!i want to slap her beacause of asking about who...
    Kyrie33 Kyrie33 22-25, F Mar 25

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    MissImaginaryy MissImaginaryy 16-17, F Dec 1, 2014

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    I have had my best friend

    since 6th grade, now we are on our las year of high school, we had fought before but always talk to each other again in less than a day. Now there are days she doesn't talk to me and actually she has stop asking me even how my weekend was, I feel so hurt cause she actually cares...
    paoviga paoviga 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 19

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    Everything Has Changed

    My best friend has supported me through some of the most difficult times in my life. He looked after me like a father.Recently I moved away. It's hard to stay in touch because a lot of people, especially people at our church, suspected there was something romantic going on and...
    Byebyebabyblue Byebyebabyblue 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 27, 2010

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    Bestfriend World Is Dying...

    MY BESTFRIEND & I HAVE BEEN FRIENDS FOR 4YRS. . IVE ALWAYS BEEN THERE FOR HER REGARDLESS. I'VE PUT MA FEELINGS AND PROBLEMS ASIDE TO BE THERE AND HELP HER WITH WHATEVER SHE NEEDED. BUT IN THE END IM ALWAYS THE ONE LOOKING STUPID OR FEELINGS ALL HURT. I LOVE MY BESTFRIEND. SHE IS...
    shaybabie0703 shaybabie0703 18-21, F Nov 29, 2011

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    Im more than torn over this.

    ..i didnt think this would ever happen. My best friends name is Freddy. We met our freshman year of high school and have been best friends since. We are now both seniors and the summer before senior year someting started changing. At the begining of summer he would come to my...
    contreras415 contreras415 18-21, F Sep 20, 2014

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    ugh I try to message her

    but she won't answer or read them and whenever I try to talk to my dad about it he says it's your guys problem you guys fix it I'm like I'm ******* trying but nothing is ******* working ! ūüė≠
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 9, 2014

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    "Best Friends" - Doesn't Mean Forever

    I wrote a poem to sum up the loss of my best friend. After 12 years of genuine friendship, her boyfriend came between us and caused an unfixable fight. He told people he wanted me out of her life and that I was a bad influence and just brought her down. I told her and she didn't...
    behindthesmile86 behindthesmile86 22-25, F 5 Responses May 15, 2009

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    Me and Jocelynn have been best friends

    since 7th grade. We did everything together. We became basically one person, we got older and nothing changed. As most teenagers do me and Jocelynn drank and smoked. We never got in trouble for it, or go to a point where we couldn't control ourselves. Jocelynn was also bisexual...
    marisolalexis marisolalexis 16-17, F Jun 30, 2014

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    My best friend and I have been friends

    for 7+ years. We've been to hell and back, we've been each other support systems through thick and thin I was even there we she had her baby and I'm suppose to be her baby's god mother. We've hung around the same people and often lost the same people, I even moved three states...
    SophieBabe20 SophieBabe20 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2014

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    He and I may have been friends

    for only 3 years now but we've been through a lot. Last year he was separated from me because people who had control over my life believed that he wasn't a good friend nor influence to me. This year we reunited but things just weren't complete... He's never serious and he...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow 16-17, F May 7

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    We used to be so close.

    But something is happening to him.. He's been so stressed, always blaming his parents for everything and he's been acting..strange. I just can't figure out what's wrong or how to help. He just keep blaming his parents. I sometimes go over his house but it seems like every time I...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F Aug 20, 2014

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    I'm losing my best friend.

    I remember when it was just, You and I. Three years forth, He came along, And then it was, He, You and I. And now... It's just you and him, And all I can think, Is, How is it so easy for you to just ******* forget the ONE person, Out of 7 ******* billion, And you forget, The only...
    giantpandapoop giantpandapoop 16-17, F Dec 5, 2013

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    We've been best friends

    for over four years now. He's gay so we could honestly talk about everything and anything. We could walk through the mall talking about how cute that guy was how cute that dress would look on me how fabulous those shoes would look on him. We used to do everything together. We...
    kay5262 kay5262 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2014

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    Me and this girl have been friends

    for around 6 years now and she is supposedly my 'best friend'. Recently I feel like we don't see each other much and I'm not sure she likes me anymore (Or ever did). We used to do everything together and there would barely be a day we spent apart, we even managed to make our...
    Minutes2Midnight Minutes2Midnight 13-15, F Aug 13, 2014

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    Lost

     Well it all happened like this.... I've known my Best friend since preschool. We have always been so close like sisters the rarely fought. It all kinda started in 5th grade. Instead of playing by the playground or playing fun games she would sit and...
    yelgdab yelgdab 16-17, F Apr 15, 2009

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    Only Important To Her When She's Single.

    She cares more about her boyfriend. He's now living with her. She's 17. He doesn't like me. Because I like black people. And because I like women. But mostly because she and I used to fool around. But I don't like him either. He's a stupid redneck. He's turning...
    Merralada Merralada 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 13, 2010

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    Best Friend Is Fading Away

    Junior year me and this girl started to become close. By the summer time we worked together and became best friends. We were always together and did everything together. By the end of the summer she for her license and we didn't see each other as much cause she had her car...
    lonelygirl543 lonelygirl543 16-17 1 Response Dec 26, 2012

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    I'm Breaking My Promise

    I was really gratefull to God that I was given such a wonderful friend. I've always looked up to him like my own brother. I made a promise to God that I would always be there for him.  We've had a lot of fun goofing around sharing stories and experiences. But lately...
    wolfsbane25 wolfsbane25 26-30 3 Responses Jun 12, 2010

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    After 5 Years, I'm Loosing My Best Friend

    We met 5 years ago and have been as close as sisters ever since! we went through very rough times.. I supported her throughout all her problems with family, school, drugs and she did the same to me. She basically moved school and met this other girl who they work together AND go...
    CarpeDiem2013 CarpeDiem2013 18-21 2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Best Friend To Painful Memory

    It sucks to realize that the friendship doesn't hold the same weight to everybody. Some people can have many friends they're not very close to. I can't imagine that. I can only have one or two friends at a time. To me, friendship is one of the deepest, most important, and most...
    mirrorscantlie mirrorscantlie 18-21, F Jan 13, 2013

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    I Think My Best Friend Is Leaving Me.

    I think my best friend is over our friendship. We have been friends for over 10 years. Below is the email I composed to him. I havent sent it yet. Im not sure I will. If I dont send it I can ptetend that we still have something. If your done being my friend, just be honest and...
    Linndsay Linndsay 26-30 1 Response Jun 22, 2013

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    Me and my bestie have not been very close

    for the past two years. I have been trying to get closer but she is always so busy and has started hanging out with a new crowd (the people who bully me). She doesn't bully me and I'm okay that she spends time with them but it is time taken away from just her and me. We have...
    GirlInABottle GirlInABottle 13-15, F Oct 10, 2014

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    Do You Even Care About Our Friendship?

    Because i'm really feeling like this **** is one sided. We walk two miles to your house and you can't even give us a courtesy call that your leaving? We go to see you ever Monday and your to lazy to get up off your lazy *** and detach yourself from your PS3. You don't do...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU 22-25, F Jul 16, 2012

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    Let's call my best friend Alex.

    Alex and I have been best friends for the past 4-5 years. Considering the fact that we are basically the same person, we were practically inseparable. We both finished our first year of college this past spring and despite us being hundreds of miles apart, we still texted...
    misunderstoodx10 misunderstoodx10 18-21, F Aug 10, 2014

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    I Think My Friend Is Dying

    I hadn't seen him in about two months, maybe actually a little less......I knew he had been dealing with some health issues, but I didn't think he was going to be this bad...... He asked us to meet him at this club he frequents, right away I was shocked to see how bad he was...
    Oldfool81 Oldfool81 36-40, M Sep 27, 2013

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    An Unforgettable Bond

                Once upon a time there was a girl I knew, brown hair, blue eyes. When she smiled, I smiled. When she cried, I cried. Every single thing that happened to me that mattered, in some way had to do with her. She was...
    behindthesmile86 behindthesmile86 22-25, F 7 Responses Apr 18, 2009

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    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me

    and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as good friends at all, in fact we fought before around halfway through the year, we became close and discovered we were so very much alike...
    xxxrina xxxrina 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 11, 2014

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    Let me just say, that you never lose a friend.

    Because if she/he was a really a friend, they would've never left.
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 30, 2014

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    Depression. Bipolar. Disorders.

    Me and my best friend are both the same. We both get angry and moody alot and have most of the same problems such as purging, broken families and friends we have lost. You might this that me and my best friend are ****** up but that's not the case. We both love each other and...
    MisunderstoodGirl1 MisunderstoodGirl1 16-17, F Nov 18, 2013

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    More accurately I am losing two.

    I have a male best friend who I've been close to for three years, and his girlfriend of a year I've been close to for most of that year. And I'm losing them both and it might be my fault I'm not sure. I fell in love with her, but out of respect and just my sheer personality I...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc 18-21, M Jan 31

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    So my friend and i have been really close

    since the 7th grade...we're juniors now and i feel like our friendship is slowing coming to an end. Lately(for the past couple of weeks) she's been all over my ex-bestfriend(she's fake and messy) and i don't know what to do.My ex-bestfriend is slowly making her way into my...
    jjazmyn1223 jjazmyn1223 16-17, F Mar 8

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    Me and my best friend used to live together

    for 2 years and everyone looked at us as a model for best friends, people even started saying me and him were more faithful to each other than our girlfriends. Lol we got drunk and argued a lot but being angry never lasted. In December we got in a big fight and he didn't talk to...
    TedInstead TedInstead 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 17

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    Slowly every day I grow more

    and more distant from him. He's slowly becoming nothing more than just another follower. He's slowly getting to the point that he'll do anything to get on the more popular side. That includes lying to me constantly and keeping alot of **** from me. I don't feel like I'm around...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    The Male Importance

    its crazy to think that no matte how long youve been bestfriends with someone they can find a man and assume that he is whats best for her and completely forget about you.i have a friend who recently met a new mate and has been spending every single day together, they are...
    younggirllost younggirllost 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

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    Hello

    Hi, i've been in social limbo for a while, i feel as though i've been abandoned by those i loved and cared about, I never really had alot of friends in my lifetime so far, i move about ALOT, but im done moving and found myself i home here with my family, It was great at the start...
    Carbonic Carbonic 16-17, M 2 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    I'm losing my best friend david ever

    since he moved to California we haven't talked much and then when I went to visit him for a week he wouldn't talk to me or would say he couldn't hang out because of his girlfriend we hung out twice that entire week and now him and his girlfriend broke up its the same I'm getting...
    brenda4696 brenda4696 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I was in primary school with her,

    we were like sisters. We did everything together. But then high school came. We didn't do that together. Our high schools were miles away from each other and I barely see her anymore. We don't talk, text or call. It's like I don't even know her anymore :(
    Hdushfieiwidbdhwi Hdushfieiwidbdhwi 13-15 2 Responses Jan 4

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    I had a friend named Gabrielle.

    .. She was so happy when I met her. I met her on the first day of freshman yr because we were classmates then we instantly clicked. She loved ATL with all her heart, like I loved Paramore. She was just like me - except she was really emotional. But it never bothered me. We were...
    defi4nce defi4nce 18-21, F 1 Response May 13, 2014

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    I figure I need an outlet,

    somewhere to post my thoughts and not have anyone judge me so here i go!: Since i was younger i had very little friends, very few. I really usually only keep one or two friends at a time. I am somehow not very good at being friends. Well, the best friend i have now was married...
    dragonheartss dragonheartss 22-25, F Jul 24, 2014

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    me and my best friend were fighting over a

    picture she hated she is the one with straight hair in the picture she said she hated it cuz of her hair but before any of this happened she stayed with my family and I for 3 days and then she decided to not be my friend anyway cuz we fight to much I try to fix the problem but...
    megan1247 megan1247 18-21, F Jul 6, 2014

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