I Am Losing My Best Friend

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    I have a best friend.

    ..and it's just sad because we're drifting apart from each other now. We live in the same city, we're classmates, we like the same artist, and we basically act and think like each other. We're like twins, until the point when one cannot mention my name without mentioning hers. We...
    samssing samssing
    26-30, F
    Dec 7, 2015

    My best friend and I have been friends

    since we were in grade school and best friends since the start of junior high. We both agree that we're soul mates but in a friend form. We've both been friends with other people before, but at the end of the day we know we're the "only ones" for each other. Now heres the...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 20, 2015

    So my BFF And I were always hanging out a

    package deal type friendship. But she got a boyfriend two years ago and since then it's been drifting. We both realize it and I just feel like she's better than everyone else. Her bf makes a lot of money. And when I ask her to hang out she never does. She is now engaged and I...
    loveyou1114 loveyou1114
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2014

    My best friend has been including her new

    boyfriend in everything. He's a great guy and I'm happy for her, I just feel like I'm losing my best friend. And a lot of the time when he joins us it's when I thought it was a girls night and I find out when we are there that's he's coming, and then they act all couple-y and I...
    Eyeofbeholder Eyeofbeholder
    18-21, F
    Dec 28, 2015

    Soo I think it may be my fault.

    ..but I really don't think this matters in this situation. So I recently got accepted into an internship I've worked months on preparing for, and she knew it. Well I got accepted and I posted it online. Well she disregarded the message, posted a reply to another thread and never...
    analyzing analyzing
    22-25, F
    Mar 20, 2016

    She's been in two awful relationships.

    and I've always been there to help her through them. During the summer I started getting feelings for her more than friends. I tried to ignore them but now I can't. It's been 9 months since I first had them and they won't go away. I know she doesn't feel the same because she...
    deleted deleted
    Feb 23, 2016

    Best Friend Is Fading Away

    Junior year me and this girl started to become close. By the summer time we worked together and became best friends. We were always together and did everything together. By the end of the summer she for her license and we didn't see each other as much cause she had her car...
    lonelygirl543 lonelygirl543
    Dec 26, 2012

    She doesn't care anymore,

    she doesn't talk to me unless there is something very necessary, I always start conversations and she ends them, so I don't talk to her anymore because I've understood that she doesn't want me to. Maybe she thinks I became boring because everyone left me, but I loved her so much...
    LastSunrise LastSunrise
    16-17, F
    1 Response Nov 27, 2015

    My best friend and I are coming to an end.

    She and I are not the same as we were before. We have no connection now and I feel like she's slowly replacing me with someone else. And the worst part is that I don't mind if she does because I think I'm slowly replacing her too. I care about her but truthfully, I don't think...
    SecretPulse SecretPulse
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 25, 2015

    I had a friend named Gabrielle.

    .. She was so happy when I met her. I met her on the first day of freshman yr because we were classmates then we instantly clicked. She loved ATL with all her heart, like I loved Paramore. She was just like me - except she was really emotional. But it never bothered me. We were...
    defi4nce defi4nce
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 13, 2014

    Slowly every day I grow more

    and more distant from him. He's slowly becoming nothing more than just another follower. He's slowly getting to the point that he'll do anything to get on the more popular side. That includes lying to me constantly and keeping alot of **** from me. I don't feel like I'm around...
    TheMasterMan1 TheMasterMan1
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 2, 2015

    So I've known my best friend

    since i was 8 or 9 and we clicked instantly. I was a little awkward at first but she would always make me feel like there was never a need to be shy. We would do everything together, and when she lived about 30 minutes away, i would get up at 7 to go to her house to see her. i...
    Carly177 Carly177
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 14, 2016

    An Unforgettable Bond

                Once upon a time there was a girl I knew, brown hair, blue eyes. When she smiled, I smiled. When she cried, I cried. Every single thing that happened to me that mattered, in some way had to do with her. She was...
    behindthesmile86 behindthesmile86
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Apr 18, 2009

    James is my ex boyfriend

    who I still have strong feelings about . My best friend sent me a text saying this: "I didnt mean for this to happen but James and I have been seeing eachother for the past month. We like eachother, we are honest with eachother and we might have a relationship together. Im so...
    ElsieLavigne ElsieLavigne
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 25, 2015

    I love someone. She loves me.

    We'd die for each other. If I had to choose between the two of us on who could live or not I'd immediately choose her. She is the only reason I haven't killed myself yet. If she died, I'd kill myself immediately. She is the most beautiful person I know. She doesn't judge me. I...
    SierraJay SierraJay
    18-21, M
    Nov 9, 2015

    ...You know when you get really jealous

    because one of your closest friends is suddenly closer to someone else and you just feel them fading away...
    MiraiKuriyama MiraiKuriyama
    18-21, F
    Jul 31, 2015

    I think I'm losing my Best friend

    as a Best Friend. I've known my Best friend since the 6th grade. (Now We're both in 10th grade) and we all go to the same school. But, she met another friend in 7th grade which is totally fine. But now, we have a huge group of friends. But my Best Friend always hangs out with...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 30, 2016

    I'm losing my best friend.

    I remember when it was just, You and I. Three years forth, He came along, And then it was, He, You and I. And now... It's just you and him, And all I can think, Is, How is it so easy for you to just ******* forget the ONE person, Out of 7 ******* billion, And you forget, The only...
    giantpandapoop giantpandapoop
    18-21, F
    Dec 5, 2013

    I'm losing my best friend to the attention of

    someone else. It honestly used to be me and her against the whole world now its just me alone while she gets other friends and does more in life. I don't know what to do any more its like people are slowly creeping in different directions away from me and its like they have...
    lonelydancergirl lonelydancergirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2015

    My Best Friend Is Fading Away...

    My best friend and I have gone to the same schools since elementary years. I was the smart loser then, and we weren't friends, and she thought I was a loser, too. Then we started being friend towards the end of 5th grade. 6th grade passed. It was 7th grade we started really...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2010


    NEED SOME ADVICE PLEASE. I have been best friends with this girl who lives really near me, for about 3YEARS which felt like more. Everything started to go down hill since we went to secondary school. She went to different secondary school from me, she was givin loads of hw and I...
    Abay18 Abay18
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 28, 2015


    She is the second person in my 31 years of life that I can honestly say is my best friend, I waited 16 years for someone like her to come into my life, and last May she did. We met in paradice, last year the company took our husbands and their wives to Cuba and we hit it off with...
    SealedWithAKisss SealedWithAKisss
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 23, 2012

    Only Important To Her When She's Single.

    She cares more about her boyfriend. He's now living with her. She's 17. He doesn't like me. Because I like black people. And because I like women. But mostly because she and I used to fool around. But I don't like him either. He's a stupid redneck. He's turning...
    Merralada Merralada
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jun 13, 2010

    "Best Friends" - Doesn't Mean Forever

    I wrote a poem to sum up the loss of my best friend. After 12 years of genuine friendship, her boyfriend came between us and caused an unfixable fight. He told people he wanted me out of her life and that I was a bad influence and just brought her down. I told her and she didn't...
    behindthesmile86 behindthesmile86
    22-25, F
    4 Responses May 15, 2009

    I'm losing my best friend david ever

    since he moved to California we haven't talked much and then when I went to visit him for a week he wouldn't talk to me or would say he couldn't hang out because of his girlfriend we hung out twice that entire week and now him and his girlfriend broke up its the same I'm getting...
    brenda4696 brenda4696
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 30, 2015

    Soul sisters, to be frank - That's me

    and my bestest best friend, which is what we like to call each other. We've only known each other for about a year and we didn't start of as good friends at all, in fact we fought before around halfway through the year, we became close and discovered we were so very much alike...
    xxxrina xxxrina
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Apr 11, 2014

    That girl,my bestfriend,

    she leave me,she replace another one to be her bestfriend and i hate it.One day we hang out with her new bestfriend and friends and she ask me if who's my new bestfriend,i really really angry that time coz that question is from her!i want to slap her beacause of asking about who...
    Kyrie33 Kyrie33
    26-30, F
    Mar 25, 2015

    I'm Breaking My Promise

    I was really gratefull to God that I was given such a wonderful friend. I've always looked up to him like my own brother. I made a promise to God that I would always be there for him.  We've had a lot of fun goofing around sharing stories and experiences. But lately...
    wolfsbane25 wolfsbane25
    3 Responses Jun 12, 2010

    I'M Just So Lonely.. :(

    My Best Friend just got out of a serious relationship of 2 years, and now nearly 2 months later she's secretly starting to have feelings for her brother's best friend. Whenever he's over her house, its just them two in her room until I show up, she talks about him a lot, she...
    KW24 KW24
    18-21, F
    Jun 25, 2013

    It's been about a month

    since my best friend and I talked. The last time we talked, I was wishing him luck on his big theatre auditions. After that, nothing. He's ignored my calls/texts/dm's. I've seen him on twitter talking to other people, posting on ig, he watches my snaps. I asked him why he was...
    AutumnCarielle AutumnCarielle
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Mar 2, 2016

    Myself I am a gay guy

    and I love a bi guy.. we met through fake Facebook account.. on the first day of chat itself I liked him and asked him for his real name..he was not interested in sharing his real details.. but due to my repeated request he agreed and reveals himself to me.. He was one of my...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 29, 2015

    Well, figuratively, yeah!

    We've studied together for the past 5 years. We've matured together. He was always there to pull me up. I've done all his assignments for him. We are responsible adults now. He's got a corporate job and I'm a struggling artist. He's got his life all chalked out- investment...
    mridulaharihar mridulaharihar
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 7, 2014

    Why is my friendship with my best friend aka my

    person crumbling to pieces?!?! It's like all we do now is fight! I want us to be friends, but I don't know. I'm miss her so much! Granted, we are completely polar opposites. It's like everything I do gets on her nerves.
    baybay2015 baybay2015
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2016

    Should I give up on this?

    (Please read full story) So, I've been with my friend 10th grade since we were 15 (we're both 22 now so that's 7 years), and we were (or still idk, close friends). This year however when she graduated from university she didn't invite me or tell me and when I asked her about...
    Offing Offing
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 2, 2016

    I'm losing 2. I've knows pipes

    for about 7 years.. I've known Annie for about 2. Pipes has already been dealt with. I need help on Annie. Sh has a crush who likes her back. He takes up a great deal of her time. I told her that I felt left out and replaced and she said "that would never happen" but it...
    anon42402 anon42402
    16-17, F
    Mar 26, 2015

    Best Friend To Painful Memory

    It sucks to realize that the friendship doesn't hold the same weight to everybody. Some people can have many friends they're not very close to. I can't imagine that. I can only have one or two friends at a time. To me, friendship is one of the deepest, most important, and most...
    mirrorscantlie mirrorscantlie
    18-21, F
    Jan 13, 2013

    Everything Has Changed

    My best friend has supported me through some of the most difficult times in my life. He looked after me like a father.Recently I moved away. It's hard to stay in touch because a lot of people, especially people at our church, suspected there was something romantic going on and...
    Byebyebabyblue Byebyebabyblue
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jan 27, 2010

    After 5 Years, I'm Loosing My Best Friend

    We met 5 years ago and have been as close as sisters ever since! we went through very rough times.. I supported her throughout all her problems with family, school, drugs and she did the same to me. She basically moved school and met this other girl who they work together AND go...
    CarpeDiem2013 CarpeDiem2013
    2 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    More accurately I am losing two.

    I have a male best friend who I've been close to for three years, and his girlfriend of a year I've been close to for most of that year. And I'm losing them both and it might be my fault I'm not sure. I fell in love with her, but out of respect and just my sheer personality I...
    Paperboyc Paperboyc
    22-25, M
    Jan 31, 2015

    I think I made a few best friends.

    ..and I also think I losing them or did...I have knows them for a year or more...NS ( nickname's nickname aka nickname of username) was my first...I told her everything and she was my cyber mom since we all were in a cyb fam...after a while she left and never can back... I can...
    HeavenlyGrimoire HeavenlyGrimoire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 21, 2016


    Hi, i've been in social limbo for a while, i feel as though i've been abandoned by those i loved and cared about, I never really had alot of friends in my lifetime so far, i move about ALOT, but im done moving and found myself i home here with my family, It was great at the start...
    Carbonic Carbonic
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2009

    My best friend and I have known each other

    for over 10 years. We were so close up until a year ago. She stopped replying to my texts and doesn't want to hang out anymore. I used to share everything with her and now I have no one. I don't know if I should still try to save our friendship or just move on
    Dtea15 Dtea15
    22-25, F
    Jan 26, 2016

    He and I may have been friends

    for only 3 years now but we've been through a lot. Last year he was separated from me because people who had control over my life believed that he wasn't a good friend nor influence to me. This year we reunited but things just weren't complete... He's never serious and he...
    HeyRainbow HeyRainbow
    18-21, F
    May 7, 2015

    The Male Importance

    its crazy to think that no matte how long youve been bestfriends with someone they can find a man and assume that he is whats best for her and completely forget about you.i have a friend who recently met a new mate and has been spending every single day together, they are...
    younggirllost younggirllost
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 10, 2012

    I Think My Best Friend Is Leaving Me.

    I think my best friend is over our friendship. We have been friends for over 10 years. Below is the email I composed to him. I havent sent it yet. Im not sure I will. If I dont send it I can ptetend that we still have something. If your done being my friend, just be honest and...
    Linndsay Linndsay
    1 Response Jun 22, 2013

    Let me just say, that you never lose a friend.

    Because if she/he was a really a friend, they would've never left.
    jordins22 jordins22
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    Bestfriend World Is Dying...

    shaybabie0703 shaybabie0703
    18-21, F
    Nov 29, 2011

    My Best Friend Is Not My Best Friend Anymore.

    My best friend (or just friend now anyway...we're not that close anymore) has a gift. She makes friends with everyone she meets. Not only is she best buds with everyone but she picks up the shy girls and boosts their self-esteem. By the time my friend is done with them they can...
    cashbutterfly cashbutterfly
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2010

    Do You Even Care About Our Friendship?

    Because i'm really feeling like this **** is one sided. We walk two miles to your house and you can't even give us a courtesy call that your leaving? We go to see you ever Monday and your to lazy to get up off your lazy *** and detach yourself from your PS3. You don't do...
    aliceXIONU aliceXIONU
    22-25, F
    Jul 16, 2012

    Depression. Bipolar. Disorders.

    Me and my best friend are both the same. We both get angry and moody alot and have most of the same problems such as purging, broken families and friends we have lost. You might this that me and my best friend are ****** up but that's not the case. We both love each other and...
    MisunderstoodGirl1 MisunderstoodGirl1
    18-21, F
    Nov 18, 2013

    So my friend and i have been really close

    since the 7th grade...we're juniors now and i feel like our friendship is slowing coming to an end. Lately(for the past couple of weeks) she's been all over my ex-bestfriend(she's fake and messy) and i don't know what to do.My ex-bestfriend is slowly making her way into my...
    deleted deleted
    Mar 8, 2015

    I feel like I'm losing my best friend.

    I've known her 20 years. We've been through many ups and downs. I took her in when she separated. I was there for her and she for me. Now she is becoming an inactive friend. She does not enjoy the same things as I do. I used to encourage her to do things with me but I have not...
    Berryqueen Berryqueen
    46-50, F
    1 Response Jan 19, 2015

    I have had my best friend

    since 6th grade, now we are on our las year of high school, we had fought before but always talk to each other again in less than a day. Now there are days she doesn't talk to me and actually she has stop asking me even how my weekend was, I feel so hurt cause she actually cares...
    Paula123E Paula123E
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2015
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