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I Am Losing My Mom

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    My mum has Multiple Sclerosis. (MS)It is a very bad brain disease. She go diagnosed with it when I was seven. I'm fourteen now and I am slowly, day by day watching my mum's symptoms get worse and her lose abilities to do different things. She is in a lot of pain all the time. It...
    Prepland Prepland 18-21, F Sep 29, 2012

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    I Lost My Mom

    I had just turned 12 years old. Mom got sick a month before my birthday. She had been sick  6 months earlier, and it was cancer; but, she went through surgery and was ok. They told her there was a 50/50 chance the cancer could spread; but mom was ok. One day towards the end of...
    jiggstrixie92 jiggstrixie92 51-55, F 3 Responses Apr 22, 2011

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    Alone And Drowning

    My mother was diagnosed with stage two lung cancer twelve months ago. And now she is dying. I'm 27, she's 53. We are both too young for this. She wont be there when I get married or see me be a mother myself. I lost a baby to a miscarrage four years ago. I know my baby Hope is...
    ch660312 ch660312 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 15, 2011

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    More Then Half of Her Is Gone

     After her massive stroke in Dec2004 it has been a struggle every day for all of us. She had so much brain damage and it's still a daily struggle for her to do so many things that before came so naturally. She has never been a patient person so she is constantly trying to...
    BeTheBestMe BeTheBestMe 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    For My Mom ....

    As some of you know I have been dealing with many medical/health issues with my mom lately. To give you a brief history she had a pacemaker and last year received a defibulator because her heartbeat would never stay in sync. She has suffered so much lately with massive amounts of...
    snowbunny1002 snowbunny1002 46-50, F 132 Responses Oct 17, 2008

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    Losing Her to the Pain of Reality

    I'm not losing her because she is dying. I'm losing her to the pain of reality. She is divorcing my Dad and now lives with my Gran. Every time I see her, she looks really tired and sad. It hurts to see her that way. When you talk to her, she always seems to be somewhere else. I'm...
    glasgowgirl2k8 glasgowgirl2k8 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2009

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    I'll Miss You So Much, Mom.

    Two years ago in the fall of '07 was probably the most turbulent time of my life. This is when I had to face my mom's mortality. In late October, they found blood clots in her leg. Late November, she had a seizure in her leg.. had tests done.. found out she had brain cancer and...
    flyawayhome flyawayhome 22-25, F 10 Responses Jun 15, 2009

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    A Bit Of Fun

    Yes I am of average height, and she is.............. not ARRRRRRRRRHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHA I LOVE YOU MUM!!!!!!!!!!!! =D
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp 22-25, M 37 Responses Nov 11, 2010

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    I Had Hoped This Day Would Never Happen.... I'M Sorry, Mom

    " The right thing to do and the hard thing to do are usually the same." Steve Maraboli Yesterday was a day I almost couldn't bear. My heart broke as I walked my little Mother up the walk to the care home. In truth, I had even wished she would die in her sleep rather than live...
    Kathieredart Kathieredart 56-60, F 22 Responses Mar 10, 2013

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    I Have A Mom With Stage 4 Lung Cancer..

    I joined this group for support. When you are dealing with losing a parent its hard to face alone. Mom has Stage 4 lung Cancer, inoperable kind, which has metastisized to her bones. We are very close, since she had me when she was 18. She has been my best friend, and its hard to...
    sherrykamphus sherrykamphus 46-50 4 Responses Apr 14, 2011

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    Physically, And Mentally

    My Mom has cancer, but she also has dementia (possibly Alzheimer's). We aren't sure which will get her first. The Mom I knew no longer exists, however, regardless of  which illness she succumbs to.
    teagranny teagranny 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2010

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    Lung Cancer For a Non-smoker Family

    The call was made and I had to fly back home. My mom was fine, and now she's not. She used to be an active woman, 55, non-smoker, working doing what she loved, helping others as a Personal Support Worker, now I am her caregiver. It was just 2 months ago that we realized cancer...
    dolcelina dolcelina 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2009

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    Sad To See My Mom With Dementia

    My Mom is 92, yes, 92.We started seeing signs at about 85.However she is a strong willed person and would never let us help. Or said she didn't need help, her pride. She lived in her own home which was her life and worked in the yard until she fell & broke her hip in March 0f 201...
    djasga djasga 61-65 3 Responses Dec 4, 2010

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    She's Slowly Slippin Away..

     Growing up I remember my mom always being on Drugs.She still took care of me like a Mom's supposed to, we just never got to go out and do the normal things a Mother &Daughter do when they spend time with eachother. She did spoil me to make up for it.When I was 12 I was finally...
    AylEX AylEX 18-21, F Feb 25, 2012

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    If Only This Could Be Simple

    I am not losing my mother to a physical disease, like cancer. Sometimes I even imagine that would be easier. I am losing her to mental illness. Her diagnosis is manic depression, worsened with post partum after each of her four kids. She's turned to suicide. Spending months in...
    HazyyMermaid HazyyMermaid 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2012

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    I'm afraid of losing my father , not least because he is family, but also because I did not want to lose it all , I love my dad , but I love my mom too, both are the best we have...
    ferrer95 ferrer95 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 13

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    My moms ex boyfriend bought her a car,bought us a house (we all lived together),two dogs,i had 2 sisters and 1 brother he gave me,with in the years my mom saw the horrid man he was...
    Wisdombird Wisdombird 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 28

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    Extreme dieting doesn't work. It's painful. If you want to know my plan.... 100cal breakfast - orange juice & 1 or 2 pieces of toast 200cal snack - granola bar OR pretzels OR any...
    BlueIce612 BlueIce612 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    Finding my soulmate has always been my priority in life. I don't want to die alone with no one by my side. I must be willing to sacrifice everything to do what is right for me. It...
    justmeinca justmeinca 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    I come from a well-off Indian family. In our culture, we have large families and we are supposed to value the opinion of even extended family members when making personal decisions...
    IndianViolet IndianViolet 26-30, F 1 Response Mar 26

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    Hmm the wonderful walls of ep.... Where I can be a spastic weirdo lmao. I think I may be losing my mind just a little. I'm not happy but I'm not sad either. Just kind of floating...
    xxmisslynnxx xxmisslynnxx 22-25, F Apr 4

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    Almost a year ago I refused to acknowledge my weight problems. I figured if I avoided mirrors and didn't look at myself I could pretend it wasn't a problem. Slowly I began to have...
    coachsh8205 coachsh8205 31-35, F a week ago

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    I experienced a great deal of stress for the most part of last year. I'm 5'5'' and had always been around 125lbs, but I rapidly started losing weight with no changes in my diet...
    syk939 syk939 22-25, F Apr 2

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    I was "trying" to lose weight but today is my one week mark since starting my new diet! So now I'm just LOSING WEIGHT ;] After one week of my new eating habits and with all the...
    Lapoeta2nv Lapoeta2nv 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I don't know where to start, in my 36 years of existence my life has been complicated ever since. I have an unusual family to start, I have an adopted older sister which had been...
    jopet jopet 31-35, M Apr 4

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    I have this fear of losing you. The fear of not having you beside me. The thought of you being gone and out of a sudden your love towards me change. That one day you decided to...
    Secretdiary92 Secretdiary92 18-21, F Apr 9

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    You know going through these past few yrs have been tough...not one night goes by that I don't lay in bed and cry. And wonder how can I see their smile, how can I get back to them...
    Klynn74 Klynn74 36-40, F Apr 11

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    I am beginning to lose appetite in all the food that I have been eating my whole life, sugars, fat, carbs, processed food all this is making me feel weaker, unhealthy and bad about...
    0silence0 0silence0 18-21, F Apr 12

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    I am losing her... and there is nothing that I can do about it.
    CoolDad59 CoolDad59 51-55, M Apr 12

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    I feel so fed up, it feels like I am losing control of my life and everything. That's all I ever hear is people's problems all the time. I am fed up of uncaring, selfish, hateful...
    galaxy3 galaxy3 36-40, F a week ago

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    My girlfriend and I have been exclusive for six months now. Not saying that we have a particular problem, but things just feel weird. When we started dating she was pretty clingy...
    skatesa207 skatesa207 26-30, M 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been in and out of a relationship since 2010. After 10 months, our first break up occurs. I'm heartbroken to the point where I start to lose sleep. My eyes swell up because of...
    thesecretme11 thesecretme11 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    love for my mother.. begging for her dam attention , no matter what i do its never good enough. im losing hope in my relationship .. waiting for the day he will understand me again...
    surrender713 surrender713 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    She drives me NUTS!!!! I basically raised myself because she sleeps all day. Ever since I was little all she does is sleep all day. Sometimes I think she doesn't even care about...
    DearYou DearYou 22-25, F 3 Responses Mar 26

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    One day i woke up i noticed i had woke up earlier than usual mom said “Heres your report card”she said as i unfolded it i then read: Math: F English: D Science: C and etc i...
    Carlyspnks Carlyspnks 22-25, F 5 Responses Apr 6

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    Long story short..my mom and my bfs mom both are having an issue with letting go. We've been going through this for almost three years now. My bf is living with his mom and Im...
    Slumbergirl92 Slumbergirl92 18-21, F Apr 7

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    I absolutely love and adore my mom!Aside from my shih tzu,she is my best friend.In a lot of ways my mom and I have a lot in common,she is really quiet and a loner so we are very...
    ShyWallflower ShyWallflower 16-17, F 7 hrs ago

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    No Running in The House This happened when I was about 6 years old. I was a hyper kid, so I got bored easy and was always running around playing in the house. This drove my...
    Iceman03 Iceman03 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    It was summer and my mom and I had driven 6 hrs to Utica "Middle of F*cking Nowhere", Mississippi for my first year on lower-staff at an overnight summer camp. Lower staff meets a...
    Amsch95 Amsch95 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hi are there any teen moms or moms in general that are very horny freaky moms that do super freaky stuff and wouldn't mind chatting with a girl ? ^.^ please add me and message me...
    hornyalexandra hornyalexandra 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My mom is my best friend and understands me fully. Only my mom is a little different than other mothers. Ever since my brother and I were young she was always away. As in she...
    Cloverpaschke44 Cloverpaschke44 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    My mom blew up at me because I forgot to pass my student info sheet for school before the school year ended. It was just a small mistake, and she just started yelling at me. At...
    greatmaidensblush greatmaidensblush 13-15, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I got spanked today for getting bad grades at school. I got out my report card last week and as soon as I saw it i knew i will be spanked hard, so i decided to hide it from my mom...
    leaklog leaklog 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I got spanked today for getting bad grades at school. I got out my report card last week and as soon as I saw it i knew i will be spanked hard, so i decided to hide it from my mom...
    leaklog leaklog 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    I have memories of waking up to the sounds and smells of my momz cooking early in the morning. It would still be dark outside and everyone would be sleeping. I'm the youngest of...
    aLadywithoutaclue aLadywithoutaclue 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    My mom psychologically tortured me and my two older siblings growing up. She is an extremist Christian and has borderline personality disorder. She is not diagnosed by I am a...
    SilianRail SilianRail 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    Okay, I'm extremely grateful for my mom, let that be known and I love her but currently I'm mad at her. Recently, about 3-4 months ago my mother was told she had breast cancer...
    okay56 okay56 13-15, F Mar 27

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    I am a mom of 2 wonderful children, a boy and a girl. But most of my friends, not that I havemany, do not have any children. I wish I had more friends with kids around the same...
    texasjo texasjo 22-25, F Mar 28

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    Im a teen mom and a single mom ... I'm 16 and a mom to my son Kaine who's an amazing baby . For my ex and I it's complicated tbh I love and dislike him .He lives with my family and...
    Loving1234 Loving1234 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    yesterday my mom read a conversation with a friend i met online. I dont care if she does, because normally, its a relief so she knows what im upto. In india its not safe to talk to...
    ShybutSweetGirl ShybutSweetGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Hi! My name is Alex and I'm looking for a Mommy. I'm 16 years old and needs a Mommy to take care of me; I'm sweet, kind, and loving. I love to snuggle, cuddle, age play, and have...
    AlexBabyBoy AlexBabyBoy 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    It was usually dad's hairbrush, actually. My mom's implements of choice were a wooden spoon, and occasionally the belt. My dad? He typically gave us hand spankings, and lord, his...
    StarterStar StarterStar 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 8

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