I Am Married and a Transgendered Person

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    What It Is Like Being A Transsexual Woman!

    There is a Native American saying: “Do not judge anyone until you have walked two moons in their moccasins” I am woman, and I am man. I’m every color, every belief, and every size. I am old, young, and everything in between. I have been here longer than you and not as long...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    20 Responses Jun 20, 2011

    I am in a lose lose situation.

    I love my wife more than anything. She can't deal with the fact I am transgender. I see what this doing to her and It's killing me. I haven't even started to transition yet, not sure if and when I will? So if I do move forward and start to transition I will lose my wife. But it...
    DawnR59 DawnR59
    56-60, T
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2015

    Reality

    It's not necessarily a matter of if you get pushed off, but when and for how long. You will find that you stay in that space for less and less periods of time the more that you have accommodated your divinity. Feel it move through and open to the feeling. You may say it in your...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2012

    My Childhood

    CHILDHOOD September 23, 2011 I have often over the many years, tried...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Sep 22, 2011

    Teen Years

    TEEN YEARS September 24, 2011 On of my role models was the...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 23, 2011

    Quotes I Try To Live By!

    Nobody can go back and start a new beginning, but anyone can start today and make a new ending. The mystery of life is not a problem to be solved but a reality to be experienced. Art Van Der Leeuw You may only be someone in the world, but to someone else, you may be the world...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2011

    Fight

    To be nobody but you – in a world which is doing its best? Night and day, to make you everybody else! Means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; And never stop fighting!!!!!! EE Cummings
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response May 26, 2011

    Happily So

    Being transgendered does not make me any different from anybody else. We all have dreams and desires. I am so lucky to find someone who sees me for what I am; his woman, wife, lover and partner , Most importantly I also have his uncondtitional love and support.  He is my...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Mar 8, 2010

    A New Year

    A NEW YEAR January 1, 2011 BECAUSE SHE IS ME! AND I AM HER! SHE IS SOMETHING I HAVE FELT WITHIN MY HEART AND SOUL FOREVER! – JAMIE...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    May 26, 2011

    Well my wife and I talked last night.

    Not that I had intended to. She gone to bed, got up a little while later , came into the room I was in as restarted her conversation from yesterday. And it went as badly as I thought maybe even worse. My marriage is over, she doesn't even want me to sleep in the same bed with...
    DawnR59 DawnR59
    56-60, T
    5 Responses Dec 28, 2015

    Imagine A Woman

    This is a gift from me to all the genetic woman in this Community! This is something I stumbled upon years ago! Question is! Are you that woman? Imagine a Woman Imagine a woman who believes it is right and good she is a woman. Women who honors her experience, and tells...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    Jul 31, 2011

    I Try To Survive!

    First of all I wish to thank everyone for the kind comments! My theory, at this time and place in my life, is this! I lived my life for everyone else! I was in the Military; I was in law enforcement 30 years, protecting the rights of others! I have been married for many...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 30, 2011

    'what Does Love Mean?'

    A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?' We can learn from them! ________________________________________ 'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 10, 2011

    Standing In A Door Way

    Part of the reason I got up so early (4 am) was because I just can't stop thinking about what Wusband, Dee had said to me last night. We'd gone on a GNO, just a little shopping and Pizza with beer at a Flat Breads near us. When we got home after this very lovely evening, we sat...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire
    61-65, T
    6 Responses Dec 2, 2011

    Though I am not married to a transgendered

    person, I am dating one; or so I think. I've been with this guy for about a year and I don't want to jump to conclusions, but I think he is transgender. I want to confront him about it and ill still love him just the same, I just feel like I have a right to know. I've been...
    fixingthebroken fixingthebroken
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    I am just now coming to terms with the fact,

    I am a transgendered woman. Which in an of itself is not a big deal. But what is, is the fact I married to an awesome woman , with two incredible daughters . So the questions is how do I still be the husband to my wife, and father to my girls that I want to be, and become the...
    DawnR59 DawnR59
    56-60, T
    7 Responses Aug 18, 2014

    I am lucky, I have a wife

    who not only supports me and my transition, she is also excited about it and prefers me as a woman (wish the same could be said about others in my life). Sexually, I have always preferred women to men, and lucky for me, so does she (after hiding it for years as I did with being...
    ladyluvel ladyluvel
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jan 23

    Trans Vs Trans

    I recently read a sad comment by a individual who felt they were Transsexual! And she was told that just because she didn't have the surgery she couldn't be! It incited me to write the following story! Problem is, I wanted to send it to her and I can't remember where she was...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Jul 8, 2011

    Effects Of Estrogen

    THE EFFECTS OF ESTROGEN When I made the decision to begin hormones, everyone around me resisted the thought. They resisted because they cared about me. I understood that. It was the most intense decision I had ever made in my life! Their concerns were valid and legitimate...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jan 18, 2012

    Relieved

    So I just confided in my wife of twelve years the other day and she was so calm and cool about it I didn't know how to react other than I love her. She is bi as am I and I don't know if I would ever have the courage to do surgery she is fine with me "doing my thing". She wants...
    chris8079 chris8079
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2013

    Surgery & My Dreams

    SRS-SEXUAL RECONSTRUCTION SURGERY AND MY FURTHER TRANSITION September 25, 2011 People often ask me why I would go to such extreme extent in my transition. Why would I...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 26, 2011

    The Epitomy Of A Gentleman

    He came out to me about a year and a half ago, we were in Wal-Mart and he said "Do you ever feel like a man?" To me this was silly. Of course I don't feel like a man, I am a woman this is who I am. He said to me that he feels like a man, and being familiar with the transgender...
    orangesaresweet orangesaresweet
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 5, 2012

    I am married for now,

    as I've been down here in California away from my wife for three weeks. It's been the best three weeks of my life as I gotten to be myself whenever I'm not at work. It's been wonderful. But it giving me a very heavy heart. As I know I can go back to the way things were, and I...
    DawnR59 DawnR59
    56-60, T
    6 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    A Mannequin !

    THE LIFE OF A MANNEQUIN I have written so many stories about the pain and suffering associated with being Transsexual, and now I will for the first time try to put a smile on your face. Be honest! I have a friend, who is a Trans. Mannequin in a local Boscov’s store. One...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Dec 8, 2011

    Watch this video. This woman gets it,

    her language is a little bit rough but she nails it. https://youtu.be/i94WqqJaxWs
    DawnR59 DawnR59
    56-60, T
    Mar 18, 2015

    Transgender World Science

    This is the closest I have ever come to finding out the answer to the question WHY? February 18, 2012 In 2005 Scientists have found that genes afflict 30,000 men and women...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    1 Response Feb 19, 2012

    I Must Share These Words!

    Sometimes the best things in life happen.....................................AFTER You've done what your "supposed" to do! And you are now free to follow YOUR dreams....................................................... Jamie Lee
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    Aug 16, 2011

    I haven't come out yet.

    I don't think I ever will. Back when I was a kid, I hated wearing girls clothes. My mum would make me wear dressed and tights and shoes for church and I hated them all. I threw a fit when she took me shopping for bras, and when my period started I began self harming. I would...
    bethany1990 bethany1990
    26-30, T
    3 Responses Feb 4, 2015

    Ok So What If I Am

    I am also a human being that has wants, desires, feelings and emotions just like everyone else in the world.  She knows all about me and is not only comfortable with me but also encourages me to find happiness in my life.  She is my soulmate, my confidant, my partner in...
    Michellewhois Michellewhois
    56-60
    3 Responses Jan 10, 2010

    When A Man Puts On Woman's Clothes, Or Is A Cross Dresser, Or Trans Sexual! Is He Gay?

    GENDER VS SEXUALITY GAY VS HETROSEXUAL I have finally reached my toleration point! I am so sick and tired of the educated derelicts in our Society, concerning Transgendered issues. These are people that think they are intelligent and can’t see past their noses. My name is...
    JamieLee1 JamieLee1
    51-55, F
    6 Responses Nov 13, 2011
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