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I Am Married and Alone

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    I Really Just Don'T Understand It - its almost as if i married a complete stranger,one minute were in bliss just on top of the world nothing else matter i needed nothing else if i...
    Confusedlo20 Confusedlo20 22-25, M 6 Responses May 4, 2013

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    It feels like we drifted apart. We stay in seperate rooms when hes home from work. At night we lay in bed together but he always falls asleep cause he says hes tired from working...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 21

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    Married A Girl Who Never Really Wanted To Be With Me. - I've been with the same woman for 16 yrs. We have had troubles from the start. I was controlling and posesive. She was a...
    TerryW666 TerryW666 36-40, M 4 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Am I Wrong? - My husband had an emotional affair (that I am aware of) 3 years ago with an old jr high girlfriend that he had reconnected with thru facebook. I took responsibility...
    Scarlettblush Scarlettblush 36-40 4 Responses Sep 11, 2013

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    Sexless Marriages -   If you are not in one you probably know someone who is. I am in one. Before I go on, less than 10 times per year or so is a sexless marriage. The...
    ajatsea ajatsea 31-35, M 36 Responses Oct 23, 2008

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    Is It Still There? - I've been married now for 4 years and I feel like a strange in my marriage. People say it's the way I act because i am strong willed and stubborn. I know i...
    lortricez lortricez 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 1, 2012

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    All Alone - I am married for 27 years yet do everything in my life alone. I cook and eat alone, shop alone, sleep alone, go to events alone....I even go to restaurants alone. I...
    doormat09 doormat09 46-50, F 23 Responses Oct 31, 2009

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    A Strange Twist, Dammit! - I've always been a bit of a horndog. As one of the groups states, I don't have a dirty mind, I have a sexy imagination. I have had some of the best...
    Bfinally Bfinally 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2012

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    Lies Lies And More Lies! - He came home on payday with the same pay he gets every week pays the same pay every month. Please tell me why this sat. which is usually our time he says...
    siema1201 siema1201 41-45 9 Responses May 4, 2013

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    My husband abandoned me 4 months ago and I feel so lost without him. I don't know what was so wrong in our marriage that he would just quit and walk away. I'm left wondering if he...
    IvyDaisy IvyDaisy 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    One Sided Marriage - I am married to a great guy. He works really hard to support me and our child but he is always away. Due to the nature of his job, i see him maybe a few months...
    swagga10 swagga10 26-30, F 13 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    Getting Yelled At Again...shocker! - Here we go again. My mom took the kids for the night and instead of having a nice evening with my husband it turns to another big fight with...
    rantingtofeelbetter rantingtofeelbetter 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 17, 2012

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    Does Anyone's Spouse Dismisses Their Feelings?. - Anyone experience their spouse not allowing them to express themselves freely? My husband refuses to allow me to get angry...
    feistypepper feistypepper 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 30, 2012

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    I Hear And Feel Your Pain - I never could have guessed that there were so many out there in the same situation as I. Married 29 years, 12 were good, the rest... on a downward...
    steelguitarist steelguitarist 56-60, M 4 Responses Jan 20, 2013

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    My Wife Runs Hot And Cold - We will go thre weeks without sex and then for the next week she is all over me. It seems right before her period she gets very horny. Women, is this...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 12, 2012

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    Good Bye! - I was married and alone, but now I am just alone (but spend time with my boyfriend, when we want). I have discovered the difference between loneliness and being alone...
    catcusflower catcusflower 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    When Is The Pain And Hurt Supposed To Go Away? - Each day I feel stronger and stronger as far as standing up for myself and my feelings. I have felt strong enough to tell my...
    MjCj77 MjCj77 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    How Sad Is That - Someone asked me the other day if I was married and I actually had to stop and think before I answered. I have been feeling so alone that I actually forgot for a...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 16 Responses Oct 20, 2011

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    We Never Had Sex - i never had sex with my husband. he never touched me in bed. whenever i ask for it, he just push me away and keep telling me that he's too tired and exhausted. i...
    mendu mendu 31-35, F 15 Responses Oct 18, 2010

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    Married 27 Years And So Alone - I have been married for 27 years 15 of those has been sexless but that is not the problem it seems like when the sex went so did the romance. We...
    starwalker1954 starwalker1954 56-60, M 3 Responses Jun 9, 2012

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    Being Alone In Your Marriage Feels Like Being A Houseplant - That's exactly how I feel. Because you don't bother to ask a houseplant how it feels, if it needs anything, if it...
    Minaarchangel Minaarchangel 26-30, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I'm Married And Alone - I got married at the age of 22 I moved from my childhood home to my bf home at the time 2yrs. Later we got married. We moved away from our home town and my...
    Loveuloveme Loveuloveme 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    Day By Day! :) - today is day two i'm not speaking to my mr. and I have moved into the spare room. I can't take any more of his disrespect. I am currently very excited about my...
    siema1201 siema1201 41-45 4 Responses May 6, 2013

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    Too Many Years - I have been married 15 years. Known him since I was 15. we do not have sex and tonight, I believe he does not love me anymore. not all his fault, but not all...
    Neerod65 Neerod65 46-50, F 8 Responses Oct 6, 2012

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    I've spend 25 years with someone who never adored me, who never appreciated me for what I am. Oh, in her way she does love me, but she was never in love with me, she never made me...
    BenXBrand BenXBrand 46-50, M Mar 3

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    Well I guess I can leave this group soon as I will no longer be married. The hurt is still unbelievable. She now said, "I can no longer love you like a wife should love her...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M Mar 23

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    Yep - About 95% of the time Im alone. Meaning without him. Im always with my kids, but not much time with what's supposed to be the, "other half". Amputation please! I guess I...
    soulrunher soulrunher 41-45, F 21 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Married And Living Separate Lives - My story is plain and simple. 2 gorgeous boys that I had through IVF and no support from my husband. Since the birth of my first son which was 5...
    Lostbooboo Lostbooboo 36-40, F 6 Responses May 7, 2013

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    Its Been So Long~ - its been so long since i really held my man-see hes been lock down for 23 years-so its just like im not married-plus he has 3 more, left to do- i promised him i...
    goodbuddy601 goodbuddy601 51-55, F 1 Response Apr 10, 2013

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    I am married. I am alone. My husband was never very nice to me (after our marriage),. We are now at the point that we are roommates who tolerate each other. My best friend ( who...
    Crittleames Crittleames 26-30 3 Responses Mar 1

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    Just A Little Experiment... - I am not in the same boat as many people here, my partner and I do still have sex. Just not that often, and never at his instigation. But wait you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Oct 28, 2010

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    In The Same Bed But In Seperate Worlds - My husband and I have been married almost 2 years, March 10,2011, and I have to hug myself to sleep almost everynight. I am so tired...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 25 Responses Nov 1, 2010

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    I Wonder If There Really Is Such A Thing As A "Soulmate"? - My wife and I married very young. Hormones and sexual desires probably had more to do with our attraction than love. I...
    shawshank68 shawshank68 41-45, M 4 Responses Apr 27, 2013

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    Just The Mother Of My Kids That'S It! - Tonight I had a discussion with my husband to try to sort out many of our marital problems. His answer was that he only looks at me as the...
    Lostbooboo Lostbooboo 36-40, F 4 Responses May 8, 2013

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    Is This Married Life? - My husband sleeps on the couch tonight.....again. So I EP. What a life!
    3tothemom 3tothemom 36-40 6 Responses Nov 21, 2013

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    Can't Remember The Last Time I Was A Human Instead Of A Shadow - I have been married for almost 3 years and we have been together for 5. He just turned 38 and I am 26. Saying all...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 9, 2011

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    Married But Still Lonely - I've been married for only a year and a few months but it feels like 10 yrs. My husband and I don't really have a relationship. We're not friends. Were...
    caramell77 caramell77 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Married And Alone Because Of Medical Circumstances - Believe me I am happily married and have been for many years. Unfortunately my wife has cancer and the prognosis does not look...
    gordonmj gordonmj 56-60, M 5 Responses Oct 10, 2012

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    Mister Mom - I am at wits end my wife works a lot so I am the one taking care of the kids and their needs I do most of the cooking, cleaning and laundry. I take the kids to most of...
    William949 William949 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 27, 2013

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    I'm Alone And Don't Know What To Do!! - Ok so it's always been this way but I'm seeig it more and it's getting worse all the time, don't get me wrong it's not all horrible just 90...
    GrooveyChick1 GrooveyChick1 22-25 2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Tired Of This Situation - I know I will calm down in a few hours or a few days, I will once again except the crap I am given. But I never forget, it gets heaped onto the pile of...
    blissfulmiss blissfulmiss 36-40, F 12 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    Married Singal - I get married in my childhood i dont know what when happened but m not happy with my life i need a true sweet heart
    manishfaujdar manishfaujdar 26-30 1 Response Jun 27, 2013

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    So Alone. - I don't know where else to turn. I am so alone. I had an affair two weeks ago and now I feel like I am falling in love with this person, I don't know if its just...
    allycat1129 allycat1129 36-40, F 23 Responses Jun 16, 2013

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I have been married for 5 years, together almost 10. I am 29 and met my husband the second day of college. I broke up with him several times before we got married but always went...
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    Hello to anyone who would read this... I am married and I would say happily. I've got 5 beautiful children. One is married and four live with me at home. My wife is as beautiful...
    Spanishfantasy Spanishfantasy 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    I'm so down right now so I thought id write on here... I just feel so alone and it hurts. I used to have a small group of friends but it's like everyone moved or found new friends...
    SouthernBe11e SouthernBe11e 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Even though i have a boyfriend for 2 years, i know that someday we might break up, you never know what can happen, and that i will never get married. He is the only guy i've ever...
    brunette993 brunette993 18-21 Mar 17