on 01:39PM at Feb 12th, 2009
Kind of new here to EP, but, I like what I have seen thus far. I am in a sexless, lovelss marriage, and was just curious if anyone has any good suggestions for coping mechanisms for this situation. I hate being unhappy, and just curious if anyone has any ideas I havent thought of.
on 02:06AM at Feb 24th, 2009
Never ever just cope. Try to change it or get out. That is my opinion. I tried to cope for four years. Every damn thing I could think of. In the end. I tried fixing. And now I realize I left it too late. So talk to her. If she leaves, thats that. But rather divorce, than a no marraige marraige. No matter what she did. No matter for how long or how bad. I did not stand up and try to correct the problem untill too late. I am as guilty as she is. So never just cope. Do something.
on 09:09PM at Feb 19th, 2012
don't overeat, over drink, do drugs, have an affair or feel its all your fault.
Try counseling, getting into better physical shape, asking what the issues are, finding private times when you're both not tired and won't be interrupted, try new lingerie or toys, bubble baths, new locations with the danger of being caught (not arrested), massage,......I'm looking for ideas too! I had a great sex life until I got married so I know I have some skills and I still have some guys flirting so it can't be just me. Both people need to open up and talk, be willing to fix things.
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