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I Am Married and Bi-curious

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    Very Curious

    I am maried now for over 15 years. I love my wife, our sexlife is still ok. But there is always that feeling that i miss something. I've always been attracted to guys too. Since childhood i loved looking at my friends bodys when swimming, sporting and aspecially showering after...
    freeballdre freeballdre 36-40, M 9 Responses Sep 4, 2012

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    Bi And Married And Loving It!

    I am a 30 year old bi happily married man. I am also a father of 3. I have had experiences with both men and women and I am finally accepting this part of me. I am writing a blog about my experiences, coming out to my wife and some friends, and other advise for bi married men...
    812nola 812nola 26-30 2 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    I'm A Sissy Who Wants To Explore Being Used As A Girl.

    My wife knows about me crossdressing and is really good about it. When I have broached the subject of her using me like I used to use her, she backs off and says that would be dirty. I have tried inserting things like paint brush handles, but doing it myself is not what I imagine...
    malecynthia malecynthia 70+, M Nov 28, 2012

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    I Know Nothing About Me!

    I m 32M, married since 5 years, n lately, I am kind of very curious to touch a man. My partner doesnt know this, n I am so sure that she will b hurt very much, if I express her my curiosity. I am so confused, I dont even know, how am i gonna feel and my first experience can...
    sweetnature sweetnature 31-35, M 10 Responses Jul 28, 2013

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    The Urge Swells And Ebbs Like Waves

    That feeling to have that bi-experience just comes in waves. It builds up and becomes a constant thought and craving, crashing on the beach.  And then as time passes, it becomes passe and diminishes, washing back out to see.  When I am stressed, I just want to push everything...
    woodworkingjoe2002 woodworkingjoe2002 46-50, M 6 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    Hetrosexual....pretty Much

    Women only for me apart from my PVC fetish. I'd love to play with another man in PVC mac and pants.
    peeveesee peeveesee 41-45, M 2 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    Curiosity Satisfied

    Where to begin? If you've checked out my experiences and stories then you will know that I have been bi-curious for about 15 - 20 years. Well....I suppose I can no longer make that claim. I am no longer curious but experienced! Here's my story and it is all true. I have a gay...
    frnkdracman frnkdracman 46-50, M 7 Responses Aug 23, 2013

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    Wishing And Hoping For The Experience...

    So... I know I posted this story under another experience... but I just have to put this out there for my other bi-curious friends: I have always found the female body to be very attractive. I am married, have a child and I do love having sex with my husband, but I feel there is...
    kittytail625 kittytail625 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 15, 2012

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    Married 20+ Years, Curious 10+ Years

    I have been bi-curious for about half of my married years. I NEVER had any bi-curious thoughts until I was around 35 years old. I am still not sure what triggered my curiosity, maybe looking through a playgirl magazine that my wife had only because her sister got her a 1 year...
    frnkdracman frnkdracman 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 5, 2012

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    Bi Marriage

    My husband came out to me and told me he is bi. I accepted him and told him so. We struggled for a little bit because this adds a whole different level to our marriage. We have become very comfortable talking about him being with another man or us being with another man. When we...
    gidget696 gidget696 26-30, F 5 Responses Oct 4, 2013

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    I'M Bi Curious Now A Woman Made An Advance Towards Me

    I,m a 53 year old woman married with 3 children that have all left school and are all independent. I had met a woman in her early 30s we became friends after we had to work together on a project. She made an advancement towards me and And said she was attracted to me and said she...
    Julias8 Julias8 51-55 5 Responses May 26, 2013

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    Curious About Sex With A Guy

    I am happily married to a good-looking woman 10 years younger than me. I had sex with around 100 different women before I married my current wife. I love women and love to have sex with my wife. However, lately I keep thinking about sex with a guy. I have never had sex with a man...
    1dbcooper 1dbcooper 51-55, M 34 Responses Jan 29, 2013

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    MMF...Maybe!

    My wife and I have been thinking about hosting a 3-way with another fellow. She knows that I have a lot of curiousity about sharing a guy with her, and she told me recently that she thought that the idea of her and me blowing a guy was super-hot...I'm dying here!! That's been a...
    cumluvrs90 cumluvrs90 46-50 6 Responses Apr 18, 2013

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    I Cannot Believe It

    I have been married over 15 years now, but husband has known for a while that I am bi-curious.  He told me that he has been in touch with a female friend from college.   He said they were real close in college, nothing ever happened because she is gay...
    funwife funwife 31-35 8 Responses Feb 23, 2009

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    Wonderment

    I've been sat at my desk for the last few days wondering where my life is actually going. I hardly share a bed with my wife now, and to be honest we hardly talk. My head is always dreaming about some sort of kinky sexy time or another. knowing that I ain't gonna get it at home...
    joeybuck joeybuck 31-35, M Jan 25, 2013

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    Am I Ready?

    I recently confessed to my husband of 4 years that I'm bi-curious. Ive always been amazed by the female body. Ive had crushes on a couple of my friends but have always hid my feelings. Now that I told my husband he wants me to explore so I know who I truly am. He just wants me to...
    behindtheseyes behindtheseyes 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 19, 2013

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    Dessert

    My wife had made plans to visit her Mom and Dad during the Labour Day holiday and planned on staying over the entire weekend. As Labour Day fell on a Monday, I was scheduled to work so I could not go with her. My wife was leaving on Friday which meant I had the weekend off to...
    shelbakk shelbakk 36-40, M 3 Responses Nov 27, 2012

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    Where Do I Begin?

    Although I have enjoyed manual and oral **** play with another man, I still classify myself as "bi-curious" because it's not something I can get interested in with just any man. When the right combination comes along, it can be some nice, hot fun!  For instance, one of our...
    SwGaMan SwGaMan 61-65, M Dec 8, 2012

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    Married and Bi-curious

    I am a man, married to a woman.  I am very curious about being with a guy, and I suspect that I'm probably bisexual.  I haven't ever acted on it,  and I won't cheat on my wife, so I guess I never will act on it.
    bcg56 bcg56 36-40, M 27 Responses Aug 13, 2008

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    Bi-Curious With a Narrow Focus.

    I've always thought about it, but never acted on it. It's strange. I'm not really attracted to a man's body per se. I just have this fascination with *****. Big ones especially.
    TheGreatPan TheGreatPan 51-55, M 2 Responses Aug 3, 2009

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    Married But Bi-active

    I love women, I love to tongue them until they shiver and moan and contract, it's the greatest feeling in the world...my brother and I had experimented as kids, preteens, so I have always felt somewhat comfortable in that situation...then college, all women relationships, then...
    jhyde801 jhyde801 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2012

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    I Want To Try This

    Hello, I am 39, married almost 15 yrs, have 4 children. I have been bi-curious since college when my roommates would undress in front of me in our room. I have never acted on it, but I would LOVE to now. I mean I really really want to try this!!! I mentioned my curiosity once...
    NightOwl39 NightOwl39 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 9, 2013

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    Curious More And More

    Been married for 10 years but have never been with a man. As every year that passes I think about it more and more. Are these thoughts and fantasies similar to anyone else?
    iwcima iwcima 36-40, M 5 Responses Dec 28, 2012

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    Bi-Curious Guy Ready To Meet In Houston

    I have decided to try oral sex with a guy. If you are around Houston, Texas, I would be interested in talking to you about getting together for me to suck your ****. It will be my first. No strings attached. I have a pretty nice **** if you want to suck me, but you do not...
    1dbcooper 1dbcooper 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 23, 2013

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    Just Been Let Down By A Man!

    So I arranged to meet a guy in a bar near a gay sauna. The idea was to have a quick drink, make some conversation so we both felt relaxed, then get a private room in the sauna and suck each other etc. but he didn't show up. Turns out, men a bastards!!! Funny really, but I'm now...
    NSW2000 NSW2000 36-40, M 3 Responses Mar 4, 2013

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    I have reached the point where,

    although I love my life, I'm not content to let new experiences pass me by. I've spoken for a while with my husband about how I wonder what it would be like to be with a woman. He is very supportive. We want to open up our relationship and try new things anyway so he wants only...
    nottoooldfornewthings nottoooldfornewthings 31-35, F 8 Responses Feb 21

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    Youth And Curiosity

    I have been married for almost 10 years, living together over 18. Early in our relationship, I told my hubby that I had feelings for women but he is not into that so I buried the feelings. But now, our relationship is stable, I don't know, we just co-exist. We have 4 kids...
    ssythea ssythea 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2009

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    Married And Bi-curious

    I have had my desires for so long I feel I might go insane. I fantasize about being on my knees for another married bi-curious man, and maybe take it further. I feel all giddy about it. This feeling is not fleeting it has been here for a long time. I wish an opportunity would...
    curiouschris77 curiouschris77 31-35 16 Responses Mar 30, 2011

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    Bi Curious Christian

    I really want to explore this side of my sexuality with another guy. Is there anyone else out there like me?
    WBMcA WBMcA 46-50, M 4 Responses Jul 12, 2013

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    Wish I Could Tell My Wife

    I'm going to act on my fantasies of getting some ****, and the wife has no idea I even want it. One thing I really like are bisex videos where a couple give head together, and share a **** with no shame. I think her watching me would be the most exciting part. Her with a **** in...
    mwmohio mwmohio 51-55, M 3 Responses Jul 18, 2013

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    I Am Married But Unhappy And Conflicted As To My Desire To Be With A Woman

    I have been married to my husband for five years, we have been together for thirteen years, we have one child. Our sex life has been an issue for quite some time now, he has no drive, or desire and views it as a chore, up until recently we had not had sex for almost five years...
    ScarletFlamingBeauty ScarletFlamingBeauty 31-35, F 2 Responses May 3, 2013

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    My Journey

    I am married and definitely bicurious. My wife knows about my curiosity and is okay with it. In junior high, I *********** with one friend and rubbed ***** with another (later I would find out that this was frottage). Fast forward through high school, college and the early...
    idahocurious idahocurious 46-50, M 3 Responses Jan 30, 2012

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    I Am Married But Getting My Bi Feelings Again...

    I have been married for 12 years and have 2 kids.  However, from a young age I explored with other curious  male friends.  I never wanted to date men but enjoyed exploring with them. I love my wife but I feel te need to feel a man inside my mouth and other areas.  So confused...
    curiousm4m curiousm4m 36-40, M 14 Responses Apr 6, 2012

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    I am very curious and have never acted on this

    i would love to though at some point but would need someone either like me married and curious to explore together or someone who would take the lead with me and help me explore this side of my sexuality
    imacuriousguy imacuriousguy 46-50, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Happily Married Bi Guy

    My wife and I recently discovered that we're both bi. At least we dicovered it about each other. I've always known I was bi but never really worried about it. Life was good and I was happy with my life and our relationship in and out of bed. After we found out about our bi sides...
    danforme danforme 46-50, M Aug 31, 2012

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    Bi_curious Guy

    I'm a happily married guy, with the best wife the world could offer, but I can't stop thinking about been used by a married couple. I have these urges about a woman seducing me then taking me back to hers. Stripping me down, turning me on and strapping me to her bed, so I can be...
    joeybuck joeybuck 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 22, 2013

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    I have posted on this topic previously

    but the longer time goes, the more men I've chatted too, the more pictures of ripped torso's, the more gay **** I've watched, it's all culminating in one thing. I have an uncontrollable desire to be with another man. To touch n feel their body and to pleasure each other. I...
    Curiousboy007 Curiousboy007 36-40, M 12 Responses Feb 21

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    Lately we've been talking

    so much about having another woman join us... I have never experimented with women... I got married very young and come from a conservative religious background.  Experimenting with girls was not something that girls did back then, at least where I lived.  But I've always...
    milfhotforhubby milfhotforhubby 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 2

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    Bi Curious Male In New Jersey

    Married and very bi curious and looking to act on it. Let me know if anyone is interested in my area.
    newjerseyhunterdoncounty newjerseyhunterdoncounty 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28, 2013

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    First Encounter

    I'm no writer but thought i would try and share my story with you. I have had two encounters in my life so far but neither planned or expected. The following is the story of my first. The second i will share if anyone wants to hear it later. At around 19 i moved to Milan and i...
    Maethwynn Maethwynn 36-40, F 33 Responses Feb 6, 2011

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    I See I'm Not Alone...

    Thanks to ep and the Internet, glad to see I'm not alone in my tribulations... I've been lusting after women since I was a young teen - nothing new there ofcourse - but after I turned 25 I had a couple of stress full moments (life) where the only way I could distress was by...
    jlife00 jlife00 36-40 Nov 26, 2012

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    **** Wife In Mil's Clothes

    this is a weird story but once my wife and i were house sitting at my mother in law's house. now my wife knows that i sometimes like to wear her clothes while we ****, i love the feeling of ******* wearing her bra and panties so i asked if i could try her mom's on. amazingly she...
    md111980 md111980 31-35, M Nov 8, 2013

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    The Moment I Realized It - I Am Attracted To Women!

    I NEVER thought of being with a woman until I was about 30. Absolutely out of the question. I wouldn't say I was homophobic because I was ok about it with for other people but it had nothing to do with my sex life, I was happy with men. Then....I was having an affair with a...
    bertswork bertswork 41-45, F 4 Responses Apr 5, 2011

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    My bicuriousity has been pretty intense lately.

    I would love to have a shared bi experience together with my wife (both of us having a bi experience). Has anybody done this with any success? Or does anybody else desire this?
    333justme 333justme 41-45, M 6 Responses Feb 24

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    Jolar Theater

    This is a true story, just so you all know.I also want to clear something up. I love ***** and ****. There's no substitute. However, when it comes to blow jobs, I won't turn one down from either woman or man.So, last Tuesday I decided that instead of going straight home from work...
    Bootydude Bootydude 56-60, M 4 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    Curious And Would Love To Chat With Other Curious Guys

    I have been bi curious since my teens but it seems the older I get the more curious I am. My wife knows about my curiosity and is very sportive, probably because she is also bi curious. I haven't had much experience with guys but fantasize about it a lot. Anyone else in a...
    slobbernut slobbernut 41-45, M Aug 26, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm bi curious and I am mainly attracted to girls. But one of my best friends has a brother that I've been kinda attracted to for a while. But recently I've realized that I'm very...
    Can1mex Can1mex 13-15, M Apr 6

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    Well um where to begin. I like woman a lot I mean I really like woman but I been curious as to what it would be like to be with a boy. I have tried a few times but well they were...
    scottazard scottazard 18-21, M a week ago

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    I love women very much and turned on by them very much. I know that I could never fall in love with another man either. I am however very curious to know what it is like to perform...
    milkman59 milkman59 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 6

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    I'm 16 and very bi curious and have been looking online for another guy as I don't want anyone to know yet but have had no luck. I'm in west london, does anyone know where I can go...
    datguyjack datguyjack 16-17, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have begun the process of coming out to people in my life. Most people seem to except a bi woman very easily. But a few people have actually told me they don't believe that...
    thegirlWHOwait3d thegirlWHOwait3d 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I am and have been curious for a long time but always get nervous and scared to put my feelings into action. I am hoping there are others here that will talk me through this.
    alexed65 alexed65 46-50, M 8 Responses Mar 20

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    Looking to have some fun with another woman. Ever done that before but always been interested. From the DMV area and would love to give myself that great birthday gift! If your...
    prettya90 prettya90 22-25, F Mar 23

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    I'm 17 I'm very turned on by girls and I want to have sex with a girl but I don't know where to go from there? Please ladies help me by in boxing me with stories or advice thank...
    Volleyball2000 Volleyball2000 16-17, F Mar 25

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    I want to know how it feels to love a girl... To make love to a girl... To be loved by a girl
    TinkOG TinkOG 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I imagine the tenderness. Soft supple curves that I can touch, play with and taste (yum) ! Hearing a soft voice whisper and moan. I have never but really would want to be held by a...
    xMissTix xMissTix 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 27