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I Am Married and Bi-curious

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    I'M Bi Curious Now A Woman Made An Advance Towards Me

    I,m a 53 year old woman married with 3 children that have all left school and are all independent. I had met a woman in her early 30s we became friends after we had to work together on a project. She made an advancement towards me and And said she was attracted to me and said she...
    Julias8 Julias8
    4 Responses May 26, 2013

    My bicuriousity has been pretty intense lately.

    I would love to have a shared bi experience together with my wife (both of us having a bi experience). Has anybody done this with any success? Or does anybody else desire this?
    333justme 333justme
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Feb 24, 2014

    Where Do I Begin?

    Although I have enjoyed manual and oral **** play with another man, I still classify myself as "bi-curious" because it's not something I can get interested in with just any man. When the right combination comes along, it can be some nice, hot fun!  For instance, one of our...
    SwGaMan SwGaMan
    61-65, M
    Dec 8, 2012

    **** Wife In Mil's Clothes

    this is a weird story but once my wife and i were house sitting at my mother in law's house. now my wife knows that i sometimes like to wear her clothes while we ****, i love the feeling of ******* wearing her bra and panties so i asked if i could try her mom's on. amazingly she...
    md111980 md111980
    36-40, M
    Nov 8, 2013

    Sharing Pics With Christian Friend...

    I had a friend with a conservative shy churchgoing wife like mine...we shared about our marriages as friends. We found out we both wanted them to be more adventruous in their dress, like skinny dipping, etc. and expressed frustrations about somewhat straight down the line sex. Of...
    sketch1951 sketch1951
    56-60, M
    1 Response Apr 23, 2012

    My Journey

    I am married and definitely bicurious. My wife knows about my curiosity and is okay with it. In junior high, I *********** with one friend and rubbed ***** with another (later I would find out that this was frottage). Fast forward through high school, college and the early...
    idahocurious idahocurious
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Jan 30, 2012

    Wishing And Hoping For The Experience...

    So... I know I posted this story under another experience... but I just have to put this out there for my other bi-curious friends: I have always found the female body to be very attractive. I am married, have a child and I do love having sex with my husband, but I feel there is...
    kittytail625 kittytail625
    31-35, F
    1 Response Nov 15, 2012

    I'm A Sissy Who Wants To Explore Being Used As A Girl.

    My wife knows about me crossdressing and is really good about it. When I have broached the subject of her using me like I used to use her, she backs off and says that would be dirty. I have tried inserting things like paint brush handles, but doing it myself is not what I imagine...
    malecynthia malecynthia
    70+, M
    Nov 28, 2012

    I Cannot Believe It

    I have been married over 15 years now, but husband has known for a while that I am bi-curious.  He told me that he has been in touch with a female friend from college.   He said they were real close in college, nothing ever happened because she is gay...
    funwife funwife
    7 Responses Feb 23, 2009

    Married and Bi-curious

    I am a man, married to a woman.  I am very curious about being with a guy, and I suspect that I'm probably bisexual.  I haven't ever acted on it,  and I won't cheat on my wife, so I guess I never will act on it.
    bcg56 bcg56
    36-40, M
    23 Responses Aug 13, 2008

    Bi_curious Guy

    I'm a happily married guy, with the best wife the world could offer, but I can't stop thinking about been used by a married couple. I have these urges about a woman seducing me then taking me back to hers. Stripping me down, turning me on and strapping me to her bed, so I can be...
    joeybuck joeybuck
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2013
    2heavennb 2heavennb
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Oct 9, 2015

    The Urge Swells And Ebbs Like Waves

    That feeling to have that bi-experience just comes in waves. It builds up and becomes a constant thought and craving, crashing on the beach.  And then as time passes, it becomes passe and diminishes, washing back out to see.  When I am stressed, I just want to push everything...
    woodworkingjoe2002 woodworkingjoe2002
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Sep 13, 2012

    Curious More And More

    Been married for 10 years but have never been with a man. As every year that passes I think about it more and more. Are these thoughts and fantasies similar to anyone else?
    iwcima iwcima
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    Jolar Theater

    This is a true story, just so you all know.I also want to clear something up. I love ***** and ****. There's no substitute. However, when it comes to blow jobs, I won't turn one down from either woman or man.So, last Tuesday I decided that instead of going straight home from work...
    Bootydude Bootydude
    56-60, M
    5 Responses Jun 12, 2012

    I have posted on this topic previously

    but the longer time goes, the more men I've chatted too, the more pictures of ripped torso's, the more gay **** I've watched, it's all culminating in one thing. I have an uncontrollable desire to be with another man. To touch n feel their body and to pleasure each other. I...
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses Feb 21, 2014

    I See I'm Not Alone...

    Thanks to ep and the Internet, glad to see I'm not alone in my tribulations... I've been lusting after women since I was a young teen - nothing new there ofcourse - but after I turned 25 I had a couple of stress full moments (life) where the only way I could distress was by...
    jlife00 jlife00
    Nov 26, 2012

    I have been happily married 45 years,

    I am a CD almost women, but here of late I am looking at both straight and gay BJ **** and getting excited thinking about me being the giver right up to the explosive end.
    CdKimmi CdKimmi
    66-70, M
    6 Responses Dec 5, 2014

    I Am Married But Unhappy And Conflicted As To My Desire To Be With A Woman

    I have been married to my husband for five years, we have been together for thirteen years, we have one child. Our sex life has been an issue for quite some time now, he has no drive, or desire and views it as a chore, up until recently we had not had sex for almost five years...
    ScarletFlamingBeauty ScarletFlamingBeauty
    36-40, F
    2 Responses May 3, 2013

    Curious And Would Love To Chat With Other Curious Guys

    I have been bi curious since my teens but it seems the older I get the more curious I am. My wife knows about my curiosity and is very sportive, probably because she is also bi curious. I haven't had much experience with guys but fantasize about it a lot. Anyone else in a...
    slobbernut slobbernut
    46-50, M
    1 Response Aug 26, 2013

    Okay trying to get some opinions here.

    For those of you who have a spouse opposite sex and parter of same sex, vise versa, whatever. If you HAD to choose one of the other, what would you do? I thought I always knew what I would do. But sometimes I find myself thinking the other way...someone here on EP suggested that...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 17, 2014

    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    coryleecc11 coryleecc11
    26-30, F
    Oct 10, 2015

    The Moment I Realized It - I Am Attracted To Women!

    I NEVER thought of being with a woman until I was about 30. Absolutely out of the question. I wouldn't say I was homophobic because I was ok about it with for other people but it had nothing to do with my sex life, I was happy with men. Then....I was having an affair with a...
    bertswork bertswork
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Apr 5, 2011

    First Encounter

    I'm no writer but thought i would try and share my story with you. I have had two encounters in my life so far but neither planned or expected. The following is the story of my first. The second i will share if anyone wants to hear it later. At around 19 i moved to Milan and i...
    Maethwynn Maethwynn
    36-40, F
    33 Responses Feb 6, 2011

    Married But Bi-active

    I love women, I love to tongue them until they shiver and moan and contract, it's the greatest feeling in the brother and I had experimented as kids, preteens, so I have always felt somewhat comfortable in that situation...then college, all women relationships, then...
    jhyde801 jhyde801
    46-50, M
    Sep 17, 2012

    Bi Curious Christian

    I really want to explore this side of my sexuality with another guy. Is there anyone else out there like me?
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Jul 12, 2013

    Bi And Married And Loving It!

    I am a 30 year old bi happily married man. I am also a father of 3. I have had experiences with both men and women and I am finally accepting this part of me. I am writing a blog about my experiences, coming out to my wife and some friends, and other advise for bi married men...
    812nola 812nola
    2 Responses Oct 3, 2011

    I Am Married But Getting My Bi Feelings Again...

    I have been married for 12 years and have 2 kids.  However, from a young age I explored with other curious  male friends.  I never wanted to date men but enjoyed exploring with them. I love my wife but I feel te need to feel a man inside my mouth and other areas.  So confused...
    curiousm4m curiousm4m
    36-40, M
    12 Responses Apr 6, 2012

    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    hilarycc12 hilarycc12
    26-30, F
    Dec 17, 2014

    My wife doesn't know about my desires

    for a man. I have been with a few and I enjoy it a lot. I love women and I love my wife but I find myself wanting to have a man in every way possible. Sometimes I wish my wife had a little something extra
    Crossdressermatty Crossdressermatty
    31-35, M
    9 Responses Sep 10, 2015

    Just Been Let Down By A Man!

    So I arranged to meet a guy in a bar near a gay sauna. The idea was to have a quick drink, make some conversation so we both felt relaxed, then get a private room in the sauna and suck each other etc. but he didn't show up. Turns out, men a bastards!!! Funny really, but I'm now...
    NSW2000 NSW2000
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Mar 4, 2013

    Bi Marriage

    My husband came out to me and told me he is bi. I accepted him and told him so. We struggled for a little bit because this adds a whole different level to our marriage. We have become very comfortable talking about him being with another man or us being with another man. When we...
    gidget696 gidget696
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Oct 4, 2013

    My wife was bi also. We belonged to a small

    group with two other couples who we'd spend time with enjoying same sex enjoyment in the same room. Had many wonderful times.
    ErosRising07 ErosRising07
    56-60, M
    1 Response Sep 30, 2015


    My wife and I have been thinking about hosting a 3-way with another fellow. She knows that I have a lot of curiousity about sharing a guy with her, and she told me recently that she thought that the idea of her and me blowing a guy was super-hot...I'm dying here!! That's been a...
    cumluvrs90 cumluvrs90
    4 Responses Apr 18, 2013


    I've been sat at my desk for the last few days wondering where my life is actually going. I hardly share a bed with my wife now, and to be honest we hardly talk. My head is always dreaming about some sort of kinky sexy time or another. knowing that I ain't gonna get it at home...
    joeybuck joeybuck
    31-35, M
    Jan 25, 2013

    Anyone else in a similar situation

    as mine in the Toronto area looking to make friends? Potentially to meet up?
    EazyZen EazyZen
    46-50, M
    Dec 16, 2014

    Wish I Could Tell My Wife

    I'm going to act on my fantasies of getting some ****, and the wife has no idea I even want it. One thing I really like are bisex videos where a couple give head together, and share a **** with no shame. I think her watching me would be the most exciting part. Her with a **** in...
    mwmohio mwmohio
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jul 18, 2013

    I Know Nothing About Me!

    I m 32M, married since 5 years, n lately, I am kind of very curious to touch a man. My partner doesnt know this, n I am so sure that she will b hurt very much, if I express her my curiosity. I am so confused, I dont even know, how am i gonna feel and my first experience can...
    sweetnature sweetnature
    36-40, M
    8 Responses Jul 28, 2013

    Youth And Curiosity

    I have been married for almost 10 years, living together over 18. Early in our relationship, I told my hubby that I had feelings for women but he is not into that so I buried the feelings. But now, our relationship is stable, I don't know, we just co-exist. We have 4 kids...
    ssythea ssythea
    31-35, F
    Dec 30, 2009

    Hetrosexual....pretty Much

    Women only for me apart from my PVC fetish. I'd love to play with another man in PVC mac and pants.
    peeveesee peeveesee
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Dec 2, 2012

    Am I Ready?

    I recently confessed to my husband of 4 years that I'm bi-curious. Ive always been amazed by the female body. Ive had crushes on a couple of my friends but have always hid my feelings. Now that I told my husband he wants me to explore so I know who I truly am. He just wants me to...
    behindtheseyes behindtheseyes
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Jun 19, 2013

    Married And Bi-curious

    I have had my desires for so long I feel I might go insane. I fantasize about being on my knees for another married bi-curious man, and maybe take it further. I feel all giddy about it. This feeling is not fleeting it has been here for a long time. I wish an opportunity would...
    curiouschris77 curiouschris77
    13 Responses Mar 30, 2011


    My wife had made plans to visit her Mom and Dad during the Labour Day holiday and planned on staying over the entire weekend. As Labour Day fell on a Monday, I was scheduled to work so I could not go with her. My wife was leaving on Friday which meant I had the weekend off to...
    shelbakk shelbakk
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Nov 27, 2012
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