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I Am Married And Closet Lesbian

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    I am 36 and am coming to terms

    that I am gay. I've never had a relationship with a woman. I am married with two kids and I'm freaking out. I don't know what to do.
    robotprincess robotprincess 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    What I've Always Known But Never Told

    I was always a little tom-boyish. I always felt different. Even though most of my friends were guys I always had very strong feelings for women. I became very good at hiding my true self from the real world, masking my feelings so I could fit in. I married my HS sweetheart, I've...
    PseudoLyfe PseudoLyfe 26-30 6 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Update: In A Closet No More!

    Well...God exists! My husband has decided it's better for us to just end the marriage. I'm very scared of what my future will be like without a provider but freedom comes with a price and I am willing to pay for it. It's been two weeks since he left and I have never felt better...
    turquoisehell turquoisehell 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Attracted To Women?

    So I am married And I think That I may be attracted to women.... Although I have never been with a female intimately, I find that while watching...videos...I spend more time focused on the female and her features and it..makes me ...happy to say the least. Lol. But I think am...
    Neveragainsag Neveragainsag 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I Wanted You To Hear Me

    I wanted you to hear me out, To see things as I do, To understand things the way I did, I wanted us to talk out of the same mouth. Maybe I just really wanted to be understood by just one person in this world, I was confused you reminded me of a past lover who I never had the...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Jun 1, 2013

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    I am married to a man,

    but have recently realized I am a lesbian. I thought I was bi when we got married, but I think I was just in denial. A few weeks before my husband and I started dating my girlfriend of seven years left me. To say the least I was heartbroken and desperate to feel loved. Everyone...
    Onlyifyoucanguess Onlyifyoucanguess 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    Where Do I Go From Here.?

    Hello. I'm a married 23 year old female who thought she had her life all figured out! All my life, I've been a bit codependent and pleasing others genuinely used to make me happy, lately that hasn't been enough! As a child, I was molested on three different accounts. The first...
    Crazygirl489 Crazygirl489 22-25 3 Responses May 26, 2013

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    I have been married to a man

    for over a year and I can't stop thinking of being with a woman again. I had my first lesbian relationship 5 years ago with this great girl and then wound up getting married to my husband which is a major mistake because I really want to be with a woman. I don't know what to do...
    omeyeliner omeyeliner 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Hi I'M Kimmy

    I'm a lesbian and out, and I just wanted to offer my support and companionship to anyone who needs it :)
    BabyDyke BabyDyke 18-21, F Nov 26, 2013

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    Married 30 Yr Old & In The Closet

    Hi there.. Im a 30 yr old mother of two and a closet lesbian. This has been a secret that Ive carried with me from my early teenage years. Let me start by saying I was raised by wonderful parents in a very conservative home and was taught that being "gay" meant that you were...
    janared janared 26-30, F 11 Responses May 1, 2012

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    Sometimes I Wonder

    I am married with kids. My husband knows I am bisexual. I dated around before he and I met. It isn't about the sex for me so much as it is the personality and chemistry. I often wonder about the what ifs in life. This is one if those ifs. I have several friends that are lesbian...
    momof3yahoos momof3yahoos 36-40, F Sep 21, 2013

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    Hi I been married for 10yrs an been with my

    husband since is was 18 now I'm 35. I just recently fell in love with a female an we been having a affair for a yr! I'm so stressed out an don't know what to do cause Im scared to leave my family but I can't let her go either!!:( this my first lesbian experience an I love it so...
    Nickyhoney Nickyhoney 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Cleaning Out The Closet...Starting With His Stuff

    I always said when my mom dies I would become lesbian. Become! I really meant when she does I will have the courage to live openly as a lesbian. I can't do it with her ugly twisted mouth looking at me like I'm a dirty lezzie. My mom was terrified, when I was in my teens, that...
    christinacrawford christinacrawford 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Chinese Gay Man Looking For Moc Marriage, Malaysia, Klang

    Hii, Simple intro. about myself. I am a gay man. Age 27. Chinese. Living in Malaysia (state- Selangor). I been thinking about my future a lot. Imagining the family and future that i would like to have. Going out of the closet is definitely not the choice that i will choose. This...
    readfile readfile 26-30 May 25, 2013

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    Anyone Near 33541?

    I think I always knew that I liked women, so when I met my husband when I was 17 and he was starting his senior year of high school, I did not understand why I loved him so much. We lived together from 1992 to 1997 and got married in 1998. I have 20 + years of my life invested...
    deathsmiled deathsmiled 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    Hi! I would really like to have a relationship leading to marriage and 2.4 kids with a closet Lesbian. Not everyone is comfortable about coming out and that is perfectly fine. I...
    thesignet thesignet 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    I am a 24 year old lesbian African girl. I am well educated. I have a Masters degree and a full time career. I am also independent and support myself full time. My family is...
    marciade marciade 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Not really......after all there isn't enough room for the two of us in my closet anyway. I guess I could get a bigger closet or just be out like I'm starting to be. Okay so long...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 17

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    Hello, I am 27 Years Old. Attractive and Feminine Lesbian already in a relationship with a girl who everyone knows as my "best friend". I am looking for a Closet Gay man who is...
    deelishh deelishh 26-30 6 Responses Jul 12

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    To be honest I don't know if I'm lesbian, straight, or bi. I've never had a girlfriend or anything but I have had a few boyfriends in the past none of the relationships lasted very...
    MJtheatregirl MJtheatregirl 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am a Saudi lesbian looking for a moc marriage to a Saudi gay guy. you can contact me via Twitter @bleu_sarah
    bleusarah bleusarah 22-25, F a week ago

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    I am a Saudi lesbian looking for a moc marriage to a Saudi gay guy. you can contact me via Twitter @bleu_sarah
    bleusarah bleusarah 22-25, F a week ago

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    A year ago I found out I was a lesbian. I had feelings for women way before but never actually thought I would be gay. No one else thinks I'm gay either because I look straight...
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Hello there fellow Lesbians! My name is Alexus Patricia Linn, and I am here to share on my behalf of me being a Lesbian. Once Upon A Time, I wad born in Rialto, a city known to be...
    MissLex69 MissLex69 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi! I'm 23 Asian closeted gay guy who studying in San Francisco. Due to the pressure from family, I gotta marry with a girl in the future, so I'm here for looking for MOC. Plz feel...
    edsonice edsonice 22-25, M Jul 21

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    I need to find the person who can understand my situation , be in closet is so hard , I have a lot of pressure for family and friends ... and this is my solution ...I live in Los...
    der8811 der8811 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I have no idea where I can go from here. I know I like girls, that's not the problem. I joined this site because on here I can be myself. I can tell the truth about who I am, no...
    ae47 ae47 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    My 1st kiss was a girl. It's a secret that has been eating me alive since I was 8. I'm 23 now and I know since I was younger that I am a lesbian but all my life i have denied it. I...
    expuser1 expuser1 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm not as closeted as I was when I first added this experience some years ago. My mom now knows. I told her almost two years ago, Halloween, 2012. My one friend has known since I...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Every time my parents bring up a conversation of someone being gay I get nervous. I know for a fact that I am a lesbian and I also know that my parents aren't against any LGBT...
    aurorad19 aurorad19 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 1

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    I've known I like girls since I was little but I like boys too. It's still quite confusing to me if I actually 'like' boys I mean I'm physically attracted to men and women at the...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 21

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    Hey, I'm Emma and I'm 16. I never really accepted it until yesterday. I got really drunk and I told a friend that I might be lesbian. I always knew it but it's really hard to...
    emchoc emchoc 16-17, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I've been with man for 6 years. He's the father of my children. I'm completely unhappy. I want to be with a woman! L
    Secretlezzz Secretlezzz 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My parents don't know that im gay but im planning not to tell them for as long as i can keep it secret. (Dont want others to humiliate my parents)
    khulan03 khulan03 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Hi :) I'm new to this and I wanna meet people that are like me! :D
    Yasmin8 Yasmin8 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    I hate using labels but it's safe to say for me , I perfer females physically , emotionally and sexually. I like tom boys also known as studs. I would love to have a female play a...
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo 18-21, F Jul 5

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    no one even knows about this. but recently i've been developing feelings for my schoolmate and when i'm in the same room my friends notice i act funny. sometimes i just feel that...
    duhshi duhshi 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I really want sometimes tell her that i like some girl and maybe i have crush , she just think i support LGBTQ ! im so tired of it !
    Dasha93 Dasha93 18-21 1 Response Jul 13

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    People around me will never understand and accept it. I feel trapped and suffocated.
    PrayforParis PrayforParis 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    My mom just found out that I am in love with one of my best friends.. She was fuming mad at me. She said that I better stop seeing her... I could only cry. I wanted to tell her...
    Mikey022 Mikey022 18-21, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I love girls but I have a soft spot for some guys. I want to tell people but it's not that easy. as everyone knows. girls message me ;)
    loveandles loveandles 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    I just like to play with women in the bedroom, but my relationship has to be with a man. 💁
    NicoleMeagan NicoleMeagan 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's so hard to be in this situation. I know that my family will be disappointed if they will know about my gender preference. I've been in a girl-to-girl relationship twice. The...
    thelastheroine thelastheroine 18-21 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I Am Indonesian Closet Gay Looking For Closet Lesbian For Marriage (moc) Dear All... I'm closet gay looking for closet lesbian for marriage. I am Indonesian and living in Germany...
    Ijustwannabehappy84 Ijustwannabehappy84 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    Oh yeah...I am still looking....Waiting for that lucky charm....someone who's just like me..in the same situation....Angels...Do something. I am so looking forward to connect with...
    platonix platonix 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My name's Nicole, I'm 13, I live in the UK, and I'm a closeted lesbian. I'm looking for a long distance/short distance relationship that won't last five seconds but where both if...
    willowmystery willowmystery 26-30 1 Response Jul 1

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    Yeah, I'm a lonely closet lesbian 🙊 and I want a girlfriend/ bestfriend. Any takers? 😁 we can talk almost everyday about anything and everything and I will never judge you...
    SamanthaThizzle SamanthaThizzle 13-15, F Jul 10

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