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I Am Married And Closet Lesbian

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    I have been married to a man

    for over a year and I can't stop thinking of being with a woman again. I had my first lesbian relationship 5 years ago with this great girl and then wound up getting married to my husband which is a major mistake because I really want to be with a woman. I don't know what to do...
    omeyeliner omeyeliner 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 7

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    Attracted To Women?

    So I am married And I think That I may be attracted to women.... Although I have never been with a female intimately, I find that while watching...videos...I spend more time focused on the female and her features and it..makes me ...happy to say the least. Lol. But I think am...
    Neveragainsag Neveragainsag 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Hi I'M Kimmy

    I'm a lesbian and out, and I just wanted to offer my support and companionship to anyone who needs it :)
    BabyDyke BabyDyke 18-21, F Nov 26, 2013

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    Cleaning Out The Closet...Starting With His Stuff

    I always said when my mom dies I would become lesbian. Become! I really meant when she does I will have the courage to live openly as a lesbian. I can't do it with her ugly twisted mouth looking at me like I'm a dirty lezzie. My mom was terrified, when I was in my teens, that...
    christinacrawford christinacrawford 46-50, F 1 Response Nov 13, 2013

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    Hi I been married for 10yrs an been with my

    husband since is was 18 now I'm 35. I just recently fell in love with a female an we been having a affair for a yr! I'm so stressed out an don't know what to do cause Im scared to leave my family but I can't let her go either!!:( this my first lesbian experience an I love it so...
    Nickyhoney Nickyhoney 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    Update: In A Closet No More!

    Well...God exists! My husband has decided it's better for us to just end the marriage. I'm very scared of what my future will be like without a provider but freedom comes with a price and I am willing to pay for it. It's been two weeks since he left and I have never felt better...
    turquoisehell turquoisehell 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Chinese Gay Man Looking For Moc Marriage, Malaysia, Klang

    Hii, Simple intro. about myself. I am a gay man. Age 27. Chinese. Living in Malaysia (state- Selangor). I been thinking about my future a lot. Imagining the family and future that i would like to have. Going out of the closet is definitely not the choice that i will choose. This...
    readfile readfile 26-30 May 25, 2013

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    Married 30 Yr Old & In The Closet

    Hi there.. Im a 30 yr old mother of two and a closet lesbian. This has been a secret that Ive carried with me from my early teenage years. Let me start by saying I was raised by wonderful parents in a very conservative home and was taught that being "gay" meant that you were...
    janared janared 26-30, F 11 Responses May 1, 2012

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    Where Do I Go From Here.?

    Hello. I'm a married 23 year old female who thought she had her life all figured out! All my life, I've been a bit codependent and pleasing others genuinely used to make me happy, lately that hasn't been enough! As a child, I was molested on three different accounts. The first...
    Crazygirl489 Crazygirl489 22-25 3 Responses May 26, 2013

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    Anyone Near 33541?

    I think I always knew that I liked women, so when I met my husband when I was 17 and he was starting his senior year of high school, I did not understand why I loved him so much. We lived together from 1992 to 1997 and got married in 1998. I have 20 + years of my life invested...
    deathsmiled deathsmiled 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    What I've Always Known But Never Told

    I was always a little tom-boyish. I always felt different. Even though most of my friends were guys I always had very strong feelings for women. I became very good at hiding my true self from the real world, masking my feelings so I could fit in. I married my HS sweetheart, I've...
    PseudoLyfe PseudoLyfe 26-30 5 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    I am married to a man,

    but have recently realized I am a lesbian. I thought I was bi when we got married, but I think I was just in denial. A few weeks before my husband and I started dating my girlfriend of seven years left me. To say the least I was heartbroken and desperate to feel loved. Everyone...
    Onlyifyoucanguess Onlyifyoucanguess 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    One of a kind closeted gay man looking for his soul mate, a closeted lesbian. 100% discreet and 100% masculine. I am handsome, physically fit, athletic, genuine, outgoing, career...
    joesmithnyc joesmithnyc 36-40, M 1 Response Apr 6

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    I'm a closet lesbian and even telling a bunch of strangers on the internet makes me feel a little better :). I grew up in a very close minded homophobic church (more like a very...
    AmeliaTimeLord AmeliaTimeLord 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm gay (lesbian) and married into the military. I got married to get away from a bad situation and I am in a *better situation but I'm still gay on a straight/christian-y military...
    KLynnMarie KLynnMarie 18-21, F Apr 7

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    This is my first time even writing the words "I am a lesbian," so this is a big step for me. I think I've always known (very very deep down, so far down that the thought never even...
    anonymous0987654 anonymous0987654 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    Gay Christian based in Europe seeking a Lesbian for a MOC. PM me if you are serious and want to know more!
    Studio54 Studio54 31-35, M Mar 30

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    Well, i hate to write everytime that i am a closeted, because its just stress full. I told one friend about it, she looked me in the eyes and asked if I was sure. No Iam that...
    NYSL NYSL 13-15, F a week ago

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    Once when I accidentally got drunk at home I told my parents (they already knew I was intoxicated by then) that I liked boys and girls (even tho I don't really like boys it just...
    foreverasuperhero foreverasuperhero 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 10

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    It's hard especially when your own family does not about it... You can't go out of the closet because of fear of rejection...
    graceyflux graceyflux 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    My girlfriend and I broke up because she admitted she was falling really hard for me and I just didn't feel the same way. I really liked her, don't get me wrong. She was such a...
    UniqueToTheCore UniqueToTheCore 22-25, F Mar 24

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    I'm in the closet. I haven't told anyone, not even my best friend that I've been close to for 6 years! I'm just so scared! Hopefully I can over come this and tell everyone the...
    HMWard HMWard 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I'm in a long term relationship with a man but over the past few years have come to realise I am attracted to women. I don't know if I was always a lesbian really and suppressed it...
    EllisRose EllisRose 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 24

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    I'm a teen lesbian living in a narrow minded society
    weirdo333 weirdo333 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    I'm 13 but I've always known I'm a lesbian. I've started to come out to some friends and family but i realised just how many people I need to come out to. Any tips on how to come...
    Aliensrreal Aliensrreal 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am in a relationship with a kind and loyal man but have been repressing the fact I'm a lesbian since I was 14. I think I've really messed myself up by denying this part of me for...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 5 days ago

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    So I came out to my husband and kids 10mths ago. Of course things changed but never did I expect to b where I'm now this fast. At 1st my husband was like ok we'll nothing has to...
    cronin43 cronin43 46-50, F Apr 11

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    Hey. I'm 21 y.o. girl from NY, looking to moc with gay for different reasons. Will help you with your situation too! ASAP please!
    anna135790 anna135790 22-25, F Mar 22

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    I'm from Bombay .. I'm a pure punjabi boy .. 24 yrs and very good looking as people say and well read and educated , done my masters in business management .. Working in the...
    anishsawhney anishsawhney 22-25, M Mar 25

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    I'm from Bombay .. I'm a pure punjabi boy .. 24 yrs and very good looking as people say and well read and educated , done my masters in business management .. Working in the...
    anishsawhney anishsawhney 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 25

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    I am a christian guy from Jakarta, Indonesia, looking for Indonesian Christian les girl for MOC. Discreet.
    1983niceguy 1983niceguy 26-30, M Apr 2

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    i was sixth grade when i had my first girl crush,i have never been attracted to boys since then. i have been in denial for a few years and realized i was and am gay when i was 15...
    unicornsarerad unicornsarerad 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    I would like to meet a REAL woman to chat with, not someone who wants to **** over the internet and leave haha there has to be someone real out there lol
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 22

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    I am 16 and I first had the thought that I was gay when i was 12 but I just blocked it from my head because my parents always came across as homophobic but I finally came to terms...
    CherelleTorrens CherelleTorrens 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 22

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    99 problems and getting pregnant aint one :p
    unicornsarerad unicornsarerad 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    do you guys ever just *chuckles awkwardly* whenever your parents make a homophobic statement :/
    unicornsarerad unicornsarerad 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 25

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    hey x wanna make some new internet buds we can be friends or more than that *coughs* just kidding (or not :p) my name's kath shortened for katherine im 16 turning 17 this year...
    unicornsarerad unicornsarerad 16-17, F 2 Responses Mar 29

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    I think I am straight but I can't stop thinking about having sex with a woman. Am I BI?
    stormymorning stormymorning 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    There are only 2 more months left until I graduate high school, with so many obstacles ahead of me. One of them being that I'm attracted to women and men, more specifically, so far...
    agirlwithcurlyhair agirlwithcurlyhair 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    i have a secret relationship with my co worker she has a long term girlfriend.. accidentally, we've fallen for each other and we've been like this for 8 mos secretly dating she...
    chie0429 chie0429 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    hey i have something to tell you, its exciting actually. i told my mom today that i am gay. first of all she was in a verry good mood, and i told her to listent and i ask her if...
    lovefemales lovefemales 22-25, T 1 Response Apr 3

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    I'm so confused right now. Is it normal to want to kiss your best friend? God she's just so sexy she constantly has guys all over her & I don't know if I'm jealous because of all...
    Wetgirlxo Wetgirlxo 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    I want to come out but fear keeps me locked inside
    Maddya Maddya 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 5

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    hello i am sanjana(20years) bisexual. from hyderabad,AP.looking for a MOC partner from A.P..coming to me...i am a girl wid loving caring sharing friendly and some times funny :P...
    sanjana424 sanjana424 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 7

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    My friend just texted me saying omg I forgot to wear a bra! This text got me so tingly I wanna see her!
    Wetgirlxo Wetgirlxo 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm laying in bed tryna do my HW when I zooned out and had a sexy dream that I was making out with this girl in my class that I checked out today. But now I can't focus 😔
    Wetgirlxo Wetgirlxo 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 9

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    Many of the homosexual people just go with the 'bisexual' things just because they don't wanna be hated by other people. It may be not happen to you, but it happens to most of us...
    itsjennyjaa itsjennyjaa 18-21, F Apr 10

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    I live in a very homofobic country and my family is a very catholic. I just wanna get this feeling out. Nobody knows what I am and I am afraid to tell them. (english is not my...
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 11

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    I'm chatting with my friend (the one who invited to the movies) and she's talking about how boring is her life and how she wants more emotion in her life. Like feeling the...
    OrangeCaramel OrangeCaramel 18-21, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I want a girlfriend to be out and open with. I can't wait to walk down the street hand in hand with a girl and feel normal.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    My friend that I mentioned in my previous stories were having a random/funny convo though text when she said "I need your opinion" she then sent me two pictures of her; 1 in a...
    Wetgirlxo Wetgirlxo 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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