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I Am Married And Closet Lesbian

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    Attracted To Women?

    So I am married And I think That I may be attracted to women.... Although I have never been with a female intimately, I find that while watching...videos...I spend more time focused on the female and her features and it..makes me ...happy to say the least. Lol. But I think am...
    Neveragainsag Neveragainsag 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Where Do I Go From Here.?

    Hello. I'm a married 23 year old female who thought she had her life all figured out! All my life, I've been a bit codependent and pleasing others genuinely used to make me happy, lately that hasn't been enough! As a child, I was molested on three different accounts. The first...
    Crazygirl489 Crazygirl489 22-25 3 Responses May 26, 2013

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    Cleaning Out The Closet...Starting With His Stuff

    I always said when my mom dies I would become lesbian. Become! I really meant when she does I will have the courage to live openly as a lesbian. I can't do it with her ugly twisted mouth looking at me like I'm a dirty lezzie. My mom was terrified, when I was in my teens, that...
    christinacrawford christinacrawford 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Anyone Near 33541?

    I think I always knew that I liked women, so when I met my husband when I was 17 and he was starting his senior year of high school, I did not understand why I loved him so much. We lived together from 1992 to 1997 and got married in 1998. I have 20 + years of my life invested...
    deathsmiled deathsmiled 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Update: In A Closet No More!

    Well...God exists! My husband has decided it's better for us to just end the marriage. I'm very scared of what my future will be like without a provider but freedom comes with a price and I am willing to pay for it. It's been two weeks since he left and I have never felt better...
    turquoisehell turquoisehell 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    I am 36 and am coming to terms

    that I am gay. I've never had a relationship with a woman. I am married with two kids and I'm freaking out. I don't know what to do.
    robotprincess robotprincess 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    I Wanted You To Hear Me

    I wanted you to hear me out, To see things as I do, To understand things the way I did, I wanted us to talk out of the same mouth. Maybe I just really wanted to be understood by just one person in this world, I was confused you reminded me of a past lover who I never had the...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Chinese Gay Man Looking For Moc Marriage, Malaysia, Klang

    Hii, Simple intro. about myself. I am a gay man. Age 27. Chinese. Living in Malaysia (state- Selangor). I been thinking about my future a lot. Imagining the family and future that i would like to have. Going out of the closet is definitely not the choice that i will choose. This...
    readfile readfile 26-30 May 25, 2013

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    Sometimes I Wonder

    I am married with kids. My husband knows I am bisexual. I dated around before he and I met. It isn't about the sex for me so much as it is the personality and chemistry. I often wonder about the what ifs in life. This is one if those ifs. I have several friends that are lesbian...
    momof3yahoos momof3yahoos 36-40, F Sep 21, 2013

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    Hi I'M Kimmy

    I'm a lesbian and out, and I just wanted to offer my support and companionship to anyone who needs it :)
    BabyDyke BabyDyke 18-21, F Nov 26, 2013

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    I have been married to a man

    for over a year and I can't stop thinking of being with a woman again. I had my first lesbian relationship 5 years ago with this great girl and then wound up getting married to my husband which is a major mistake because I really want to be with a woman. I don't know what to do...
    omeyeliner omeyeliner 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    Married 30 Yr Old & In The Closet

    Hi there.. Im a 30 yr old mother of two and a closet lesbian. This has been a secret that Ive carried with me from my early teenage years. Let me start by saying I was raised by wonderful parents in a very conservative home and was taught that being "gay" meant that you were...
    janared janared 26-30, F 11 Responses May 1, 2012

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    What I've Always Known But Never Told

    I was always a little tom-boyish. I always felt different. Even though most of my friends were guys I always had very strong feelings for women. I became very good at hiding my true self from the real world, masking my feelings so I could fit in. I married my HS sweetheart, I've...
    PseudoLyfe PseudoLyfe 26-30 6 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    I am married to a man,

    but have recently realized I am a lesbian. I thought I was bi when we got married, but I think I was just in denial. A few weeks before my husband and I started dating my girlfriend of seven years left me. To say the least I was heartbroken and desperate to feel loved. Everyone...
    Onlyifyoucanguess Onlyifyoucanguess 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    Hi I been married for 10yrs an been with my

    husband since is was 18 now I'm 35. I just recently fell in love with a female an we been having a affair for a yr! I'm so stressed out an don't know what to do cause Im scared to leave my family but I can't let her go either!!:( this my first lesbian experience an I love it so...
    Nickyhoney Nickyhoney 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I am an attractive closeted gay man, looking for a closeted lesbian for marriage. I would prefer someone who can be my companion, my best friend and soul mate. I am not looking for...
    spartian spartian 26-30, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hi! I would really like to have a relationship leading to marriage and 2.4 kids with a closet Lesbian. Not everyone is comfortable about coming out and that is perfectly fine. I...
    thesignet thesignet 41-45, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I am a 24 year old lesbian African girl. I am well educated. I have a Masters degree and a full time career. I am also independent and support myself full time. My family is...
    marciade marciade 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    Not really......after all there isn't enough room for the two of us in my closet anyway. I guess I could get a bigger closet or just be out like I'm starting to be. Okay so long...
    ClaudNine ClaudNine 18-21, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    Um I don't really know where to start. I've been in the closet since 7th grade that's when I knew.I was afraid to come out because of my family,they are not homophobic to others...
    kenmic153 kenmic153 13-15, F Jun 28

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    Hello, I am 27 Years Old. Attractive and Feminine Lesbian already in a relationship with a girl who everyone knows as my "best friend". I am looking for a Closet Gay man who is...
    deelishh deelishh 26-30 4 Responses Jul 12

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    I'm not totally in the closet, some of my friends know and I told my parents that I'm confused about my sexuality but not that now I'm pretty sure I'm lesbian. I'm a little afraid...
    Ary33713 Ary33713 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    A year ago I found out I was a lesbian. I had feelings for women way before but never actually thought I would be gay. No one else thinks I'm gay either because I look straight...
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Hi! I'm 23 Asian closeted gay guy who studying in San Francisco. Due to the pressure from family, I gotta marry with a girl in the future, so I'm here for looking for MOC. Plz feel...
    edsonice edsonice 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Hihi, I'm a Malaysian lesbian from Kuala Lumpur. Just hope to know more lesbian friends, femme, age 26 - 40, preferably who is staying in Klang Valley ( KL or Selangor) Nickname...
    xiaobaozi xiaobaozi 26-30, F Jun 29

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    I have no idea where I can go from here. I know I like girls, that's not the problem. I joined this site because on here I can be myself. I can tell the truth about who I am, no...
    ae47 ae47 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    My 1st kiss was a girl. It's a secret that has been eating me alive since I was 8. I'm 23 now and I know since I was younger that I am a lesbian but all my life i have denied it. I...
    expuser1 expuser1 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I'm not as closeted as I was when I first added this experience some years ago. My mom now knows. I told her almost two years ago, Halloween, 2012. My one friend has known since I...
    lyricalongings lyricalongings 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Every time my parents bring up a conversation of someone being gay I get nervous. I know for a fact that I am a lesbian and I also know that my parents aren't against any LGBT...
    aurorad19 aurorad19 13-15, F 8 Responses Jul 1

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    I've known I like girls since I was little but I like boys too. It's still quite confusing to me if I actually 'like' boys I mean I'm physically attracted to men and women at the...
    msmika msmika 18-21, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Does anyone 13-15 wanna chat(;
    imaclosetlesbian imaclosetlesbian 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 25

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    I've been with man for 6 years. He's the father of my children. I'm completely unhappy. I want to be with a woman! L
    Secretlezzz Secretlezzz 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My parents don't know that im gay but im planning not to tell them for as long as i can keep it secret. (Dont want others to humiliate my parents)
    khulan03 khulan03 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    Hi :) I'm new to this and I wanna meet people that are like me! :D
    Yasmin8 Yasmin8 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 4

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    I hate using labels but it's safe to say for me , I perfer females physically , emotionally and sexually. I like tom boys also known as studs. I would love to have a female play a...
    Rainbowkissesxo Rainbowkissesxo 18-21, F Jul 5

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    no one even knows about this. but recently i've been developing feelings for my schoolmate and when i'm in the same room my friends notice i act funny. sometimes i just feel that...
    duhshi duhshi 13-15, F Jul 12

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    I really want sometimes tell her that i like some girl and maybe i have crush , she just think i support LGBTQ ! im so tired of it !
    Dasha93 Dasha93 18-21 1 Response Jul 13

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    People around me will never understand and accept it. I feel trapped and suffocated.
    PrayforParis PrayforParis 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 13

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    My mom just found out that I am in love with one of my best friends.. She was fuming mad at me. She said that I better stop seeing her... I could only cry. I wanted to tell her...
    Mikey022 Mikey022 18-21, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    Actually, I'm not a lesbian married to a man. Not anymore. But I wanted to share my story in this group so I can possibly give someone somewhere hope. Things can get better!!! I...
    thesupernurse thesupernurse 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 27

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    Oh yeah...I am still looking....Waiting for that lucky charm....someone who's just like me..in the same situation....Angels...Do something. I am so looking forward to connect with...
    platonix platonix 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    My name's Nicole, I'm 13, I live in the UK, and I'm a closeted lesbian. I'm looking for a long distance/short distance relationship that won't last five seconds but where both if...
    willowmystery willowmystery 26-30 1 Response Jul 1

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    Yeah, I'm a lonely closet lesbian 🙊 and I want a girlfriend/ bestfriend. Any takers? 😁 we can talk almost everyday about anything and everything and I will never judge you...
    SamanthaThizzle SamanthaThizzle 13-15, F Jul 10

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    I'm 27 Years old, looking for a closeted lesbian for an moc. I'm open minded, liberal etc. but just unable to come out to family and friends. I'm of Indian origin and hoping to...
    demonsofstupidity demonsofstupidity 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    There is simply no one in this world that does not have any complication in their life. Everyone has their own problem and they are handling as much they can. Although there are so...
    Akashamarnam Akashamarnam 22-25, M 6 hrs ago

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    I am a 24 year old lesbian African girl. I am well educated. I have a Masters degree and a full time career. I am also independent and support myself full time. My family is...
    marciade marciade 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I was raised a Jehovahs Witness. That proved be a hardship in my life when it came to accepting who i was as a person. From a very young age, I new I was gay. I used to get the...
    akg27 akg27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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