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I Am Married And Closet Lesbian

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 181 People

    What I've Always Known But Never Told

    I was always a little tom-boyish. I always felt different. Even though most of my friends were guys I always had very strong feelings for women. I became very good at hiding my true self from the real world, masking my feelings so I could fit in. I married my HS sweetheart, I've...
    PseudoLyfe PseudoLyfe 26-30 8 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Well....just home from a night out & it always

    happens to me ! There's always 1 girl I cnt take my eyes off... Perfect in every way only problem is I'm 'straight' so prob didn't even tough her radar...! She was out with us & we danced a lot im happy with that cos I didn't freak her but I'd have loved a kiss...
    Phoebe888 Phoebe888 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 7

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    Hi I been married for 10yrs an been with my

    husband since is was 18 now I'm 35. I just recently fell in love with a female an we been having a affair for a yr! I'm so stressed out an don't know what to do cause Im scared to leave my family but I can't let her go either!!:( this my first lesbian experience an I love it so...
    Nickyhoney Nickyhoney 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    I am 36 and am coming to terms

    that I am gay. I've never had a relationship with a woman. I am married with two kids and I'm freaking out. I don't know what to do.
    robotprincess robotprincess 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 13, 2014

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    Chinese Gay Man Looking For Moc Marriage, Malaysia, Klang

    Hii, Simple intro. about myself. I am a gay man. Age 27. Chinese. Living in Malaysia (state- Selangor). I been thinking about my future a lot. Imagining the family and future that i would like to have. Going out of the closet is definitely not the choice that i will choose. This...
    readfile readfile 26-30 May 25, 2013

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    Cleaning Out The Closet...Starting With His Stuff

    I always said when my mom dies I would become lesbian. Become! I really meant when she does I will have the courage to live openly as a lesbian. I can't do it with her ugly twisted mouth looking at me like I'm a dirty lezzie. My mom was terrified, when I was in my teens, that...
    christinacrawford christinacrawford 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    I am married to a man,

    but have recently realized I am a lesbian. I thought I was bi when we got married, but I think I was just in denial. A few weeks before my husband and I started dating my girlfriend of seven years left me. To say the least I was heartbroken and desperate to feel loved. Everyone...
    Onlyifyoucanguess Onlyifyoucanguess 26-30, F 8 Responses Jan 10, 2014

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    I Wanted You To Hear Me

    I wanted you to hear me out, To see things as I do, To understand things the way I did, I wanted us to talk out of the same mouth. Maybe I just really wanted to be understood by just one person in this world, I was confused you reminded me of a past lover who I never had the...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Sometimes I Wonder

    I am married with kids. My husband knows I am bisexual. I dated around before he and I met. It isn't about the sex for me so much as it is the personality and chemistry. I often wonder about the what ifs in life. This is one if those ifs. I have several friends that are lesbian...
    momof3yahoos momof3yahoos 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 21, 2013

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    Update: In A Closet No More!

    Well...God exists! My husband has decided it's better for us to just end the marriage. I'm very scared of what my future will be like without a provider but freedom comes with a price and I am willing to pay for it. It's been two weeks since he left and I have never felt better...
    turquoisehell turquoisehell 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Where Do I Go From Here.?

    Hello. I'm a married 23 year old female who thought she had her life all figured out! All my life, I've been a bit codependent and pleasing others genuinely used to make me happy, lately that hasn't been enough! As a child, I was molested on three different accounts. The first...
    Crazygirl489 Crazygirl489 22-25 4 Responses May 26, 2013

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    Hi I'M Kimmy

    I'm a lesbian and out, and I just wanted to offer my support and companionship to anyone who needs it :)
    BabyDyke BabyDyke 18-21, F Nov 26, 2013

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    Anyone Near 33541?

    I think I always knew that I liked women, so when I met my husband when I was 17 and he was starting his senior year of high school, I did not understand why I loved him so much. We lived together from 1992 to 1997 and got married in 1998. I have 20 + years of my life invested...
    deathsmiled deathsmiled 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    I have been married to a man

    for over a year and I can't stop thinking of being with a woman again. I had my first lesbian relationship 5 years ago with this great girl and then wound up getting married to my husband which is a major mistake because I really want to be with a woman. I don't know what to do...
    omeyeliner omeyeliner 26-30, F 7 Responses Jan 7, 2014

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    Married 30 Yr Old & In The Closet

    Hi there.. Im a 30 yr old mother of two and a closet lesbian. This has been a secret that Ive carried with me from my early teenage years. Let me start by saying I was raised by wonderful parents in a very conservative home and was taught that being "gay" meant that you were...
    janared janared 26-30, F 11 Responses May 1, 2012

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    Attracted To Women?

    So I am married And I think That I may be attracted to women.... Although I have never been with a female intimately, I find that while watching...videos...I spend more time focused on the female and her features and it..makes me ...happy to say the least. Lol. But I think am...
    Neveragainsag Neveragainsag 22-25, F 10 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    So I haven't come out yet to my parents or anyone else except for two people. Yes I know it's important to do this, but it's so stupid. My parents already suspect me of being...
    Madamoiselle1 Madamoiselle1 16-17, F 5 Responses Apr 30

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    I am hoping to chat to Asian lesbians/bisexuals (closeted or not) here in the UK. I'm hoping there's another woman who understands how it feels to close yourself up and not be able...
    sara0088 sara0088 22-25, F May 10

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    Kinda, but I am still. I have told three people who are my best friends. The people I trust with my darkest secrets. I just told one of them today, and I wasn't sure how she would...
    Madamoiselle1 Madamoiselle1 16-17, F May 6

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    I'm just stressing out about coming out of the closet to someone close to me. I want to tell my brother first since we are really close, and I had originally made plans to tell...
    buddytori buddytori 18-21, F 4 Responses May 9

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    This has been rough. A couple days ago my boyfriend of 3 years broke up with me because I'm a lesbian. He told me he's known that I'm a lesbian for the past 2 years, but he thought...
    Crystalbot Crystalbot 22-25, F May 12

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    I am a 22 year old female who has been in three long-term relationships with men. I am currently on my third one, and it is to that same point it was at with any other male I have...
    kaylabean92 kaylabean92 22-25, F 4 Responses May 3

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    I want to come out because im not fully lesbian, im bi but I feel like people and my family will look at my differently and not accept me. Can anyone relate? How can we overcome...
    sexysoutherngirl24 sexysoutherngirl24 22-25, F 2 Responses May 6

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    I want nothing more than to help other fellow lesbians get off! Please add me on snapchat @ sleepystoney69
    babylips666 babylips666 18-21, T May 8

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    I am in a long term relationship with a man...I have a daughter, who is not his but he has been involved most of her life. We live together and I figured out I was a lesbian about...
    Baldbeauty Baldbeauty 26-30, F May 8

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    I come from a RELIGIOUS background. I got a good reputation and have a lot of good friends and love to hangout with people. My family and friends loves me and i obviously love them...
    L4Love L4Love 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    I don't know what to say. I have been in the closet most of my life and I'm still in. I don't know how to come out. I am scared that my family and IRL friends, my URL friends...
    TheMadHatterWasHere TheMadHatterWasHere 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    Any bisexual/lesbian girls living in the UK? Preferably London or who won't mind travelling to London. Under the age of 19 as well :)
    rainbowgirl07 rainbowgirl07 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    Hi, any closer lesbians in the UK wanna chat? Message me xxx preferably under 20
    rainbowgirl07 rainbowgirl07 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    My friend thinks my crush and I should be travel partners when I told her about our two-week trip together. It was fun and we had a great time. We have made plans to go on a day...
    whentostop whentostop 22-25, F Apr 22

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    hi girls feel free to message me :)
    elle0489 elle0489 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I am currently writing a play about coming out stories that I hope will educate and remind people of the difficulties faced by people coming out every day and how people react but...
    Kayceyy Kayceyy 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Yes. Yes, I am. But most of the girls I'm attracted to that I eventually befriend actually friendzone me so I am here...getting on my own nerves while binge watching Orange is the...
    alltimestrokes alltimestrokes 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 29

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    We were best friends. For five years I have gotten to know her. I grew up with her. Now, she's a stranger. When we got into the same college it seemed the only choice was to room...
    redefiningjane redefiningjane 18-21, F 1 Response May 4

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    I did the stupidest thing ever. I pushed away the girl that I liked so much and said mean things to her. Idk why I always tend to push away ppl that gets close to me. Now tht I...
    flowerbedxxx flowerbedxxx 18-21, F 1 Response May 6

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    so a few people know about me but im terrified to come out. the thought shakes my whole world up.
    comeonoutgirls comeonoutgirls 18-21, F 1 Response May 8

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    Well, I'm out now. Happy Mother's Day, I'm gay! Well, that's not exactly how it came out. She didn't say much, it was kind of awkward. But it's done.
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F 2 Responses May 10

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    HEYYY guess what?! Im gay!🌈 But dont tell my family 😢😢😢
    L4Love L4Love 18-21, F May 11

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    I have a girlfriend right now and i'm so scared to death if I come out to my parents. They're ******* religious and our religion is pretty different among the others like they dont...
    poqari poqari 18-21, F 2 Responses May 11

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    Do you ever feel like you have so much love to give - you could care for them, ask them about their day, listen to their stories, hug them, kiss them, tell them how great they are...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 1 Response May 13

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    I'm 50, married with teenage kids. Always thought I was straight. Ten years ago, an old friend came to visit. We'd been very close and had lost touch. Over the course of her visit...
    saruchan saruchan 46-50, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    I do want to come out, I do so here in the hope that it will make coming out later on a little easier. I'm married, and hiding the truth about my attraction to men from my wife...
    mizmaid mizmaid 36-40, M 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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