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I Am Married And Closet Lesbian

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    I Wanted You To Hear Me

    I wanted you to hear me out, To see things as I do, To understand things the way I did, I wanted us to talk out of the same mouth. Maybe I just really wanted to be understood by just one person in this world, I was confused you reminded me of a past lover who I never had the...
    indigowitch indigowitch 22-25, F Jun 1, 2013

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    Hi I'M Kimmy

    I'm a lesbian and out, and I just wanted to offer my support and companionship to anyone who needs it :)
    BabyDyke BabyDyke 18-21, F Nov 26, 2013

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    Where Do I Go From Here.?

    Hello. I'm a married 23 year old female who thought she had her life all figured out! All my life, I've been a bit codependent and pleasing others genuinely used to make me happy, lately that hasn't been enough! As a child, I was molested on three different accounts. The first...
    Crazygirl489 Crazygirl489 22-25 3 Responses May 26, 2013

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    I have been married to a man

    for over a year and I can't stop thinking of being with a woman again. I had my first lesbian relationship 5 years ago with this great girl and then wound up getting married to my husband which is a major mistake because I really want to be with a woman. I don't know what to do...
    omeyeliner omeyeliner 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    I am 36 and am coming to terms

    that I am gay. I've never had a relationship with a woman. I am married with two kids and I'm freaking out. I don't know what to do.
    robotprincess robotprincess 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 13

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    Cleaning Out The Closet...Starting With His Stuff

    I always said when my mom dies I would become lesbian. Become! I really meant when she does I will have the courage to live openly as a lesbian. I can't do it with her ugly twisted mouth looking at me like I'm a dirty lezzie. My mom was terrified, when I was in my teens, that...
    christinacrawford christinacrawford 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 13, 2013

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    Hi I been married for 10yrs an been with my

    husband since is was 18 now I'm 35. I just recently fell in love with a female an we been having a affair for a yr! I'm so stressed out an don't know what to do cause Im scared to leave my family but I can't let her go either!!:( this my first lesbian experience an I love it so...
    Nickyhoney Nickyhoney 36-40, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    Sometimes I Wonder

    I am married with kids. My husband knows I am bisexual. I dated around before he and I met. It isn't about the sex for me so much as it is the personality and chemistry. I often wonder about the what ifs in life. This is one if those ifs. I have several friends that are lesbian...
    momof3yahoos momof3yahoos 36-40, F Sep 21, 2013

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    Update: In A Closet No More!

    Well...God exists! My husband has decided it's better for us to just end the marriage. I'm very scared of what my future will be like without a provider but freedom comes with a price and I am willing to pay for it. It's been two weeks since he left and I have never felt better...
    turquoisehell turquoisehell 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Attracted To Women?

    So I am married And I think That I may be attracted to women.... Although I have never been with a female intimately, I find that while watching...videos...I spend more time focused on the female and her features and it..makes me ...happy to say the least. Lol. But I think am...
    Neveragainsag Neveragainsag 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    I am married to a man,

    but have recently realized I am a lesbian. I thought I was bi when we got married, but I think I was just in denial. A few weeks before my husband and I started dating my girlfriend of seven years left me. To say the least I was heartbroken and desperate to feel loved. Everyone...
    Onlyifyoucanguess Onlyifyoucanguess 26-30, F 3 Responses Jan 10

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    Chinese Gay Man Looking For Moc Marriage, Malaysia, Klang

    Hii, Simple intro. about myself. I am a gay man. Age 27. Chinese. Living in Malaysia (state- Selangor). I been thinking about my future a lot. Imagining the family and future that i would like to have. Going out of the closet is definitely not the choice that i will choose. This...
    readfile readfile 26-30 May 25, 2013

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    What I've Always Known But Never Told

    I was always a little tom-boyish. I always felt different. Even though most of my friends were guys I always had very strong feelings for women. I became very good at hiding my true self from the real world, masking my feelings so I could fit in. I married my HS sweetheart, I've...
    PseudoLyfe PseudoLyfe 26-30 6 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Anyone Near 33541?

    I think I always knew that I liked women, so when I met my husband when I was 17 and he was starting his senior year of high school, I did not understand why I loved him so much. We lived together from 1992 to 1997 and got married in 1998. I have 20 + years of my life invested...
    deathsmiled deathsmiled 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 21, 2013

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    Married 30 Yr Old & In The Closet

    Hi there.. Im a 30 yr old mother of two and a closet lesbian. This has been a secret that Ive carried with me from my early teenage years. Let me start by saying I was raised by wonderful parents in a very conservative home and was taught that being "gay" meant that you were...
    janared janared 26-30, F 11 Responses May 1, 2012

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    I Am Bi. I...

    I am a 25 year old bisexual woman from US. I discovered that I was bi-curious when I was 17. I went out looking for one thing and found another. It took me a long time to come to terms with the fact that I am bi. After one experience with a woman (she was hot, passionate and...
    bisexuallucy bisexuallucy 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 4, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    About me: 24 year old closeted lesbian from Amman -Jordan. I am good looking, feminine, well-educated, financially independent and have a professional job. I studied abroad and...
    ammanmoc ammanmoc 22-25, F Sep 2

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    22 lesbian girl from saudi looking for a moc. I live in Riyadh. The guy has to be saudi with a good job. He doesn't have to be gay but there will be no sex at all. Massage me if...
    bleusarah bleusarah 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    Okay so, I'm lesbian and I have been for a while, peoples opinions don't bother me it's just that my parents are huge homophobics and my older brother has already came out of the...
    supernichole supernichole 13-15, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm a lesbian. I'm too scared to come out because people will judge me. My parents won't accept me. Everyone will laugh at me. I figured out I was a lesbian about a year ago. All...
    penguins2346 penguins2346 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    It's so hard for me. Honestly. It's hard to tell people that I'm a lesbian. It's so hard for me to openly state that I am a lesbian. I like girls. Not guys. And...I feel so tired...
    minyoungismine minyoungismine 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    So today i went to a gay parade near my town, i go there every year with my two best friends. Last year we got into a conversation about out of the three who would be the least...
    Girlm35 Girlm35 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    So... I have never been with a girl but I love to check them out secretly. Most girls like being friends with me because I act very friendly when I like a girl, but they think that...
    Joojo3 Joojo3 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 1

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    Funny thing... I have a lesbian best friend and last time we talked she said "I know for sure you do not like girls, you just love men too much and I would never imagine you with a...
    Joojo3 Joojo3 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I don't know if I am a lesbian but I love women with big breasts. And I haven't had a real relationship with a woman i have sucked and groupe my friends breasts. Whenever I see a...
    dreasboobs dreasboobs 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    I want to experience lesbian sex
    cittykatluv cittykatluv 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Well this is my first time to post this so anyway, I was so confused with my sexuality since I was 8th Grade, it's been horrible years ever I have. So after That I lost...
    awolfgirl9 awolfgirl9 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 9

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    I am, no one knows & I don't want to tell anyone one. It also makes me really uncomfortable thinking about having to talk to anyone about it. Help?
    haleydev haleydev 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I just want to be able to be who I really am. This is killing me & I feel completely alone.
    LMonique LMonique 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    Next week I'll be 27. On my 23rd birthday I went out with some friends, one of them was the new girl at work who I was so certain was gay. That night I realized that I had feelings...
    louef louef 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 26

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    Lez be honest, mang. Girl on girl is a whirl and man on man I can't stand.
    thelonerinyourbed thelonerinyourbed 70+, T Aug 27

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    I'm in love with one of my closest friend. We flirt a lot.... so much so that sometimes it really freak out people around us. She cares about me as a friend, but i don't know if...
    blasphemy666 blasphemy666 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    I am 99% sure I fancy girls over boys but i really don't dare / want to tell anyone because of the reactions I will get and all of that. Sometimes I think "i'm just going to marry...
    miserebro miserebro 18-21, F 3 Responses Sep 6

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    Hey, so I first posted on here almost a year ago (22/09/13) Back then, I was confused, I was lost, I was in need of help and advice and most off all, kind words and healthy...
    Rach130 Rach130 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 8

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    im just confused about my sexuality like sometimes im like "omg i want her" then sometimes im like "yeah hes cute" im just in need of help(im 14 btw)
    riley1220 riley1220 13-15, F 4 Responses Sep 8

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    Been like this my whole 25 years of life. Just feels good to get out in the open. Im still terrified someone i know might see this. I just want to be with women. Beautiful smart...
    Maine12 Maine12 22-25, F Sep 9

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      ┬ásaid:I am 28 well settled , gud looking ,academically strong,family oriented hindu guy looking for an MOC for the lifetime with a decent girl from similar backgroud n...
    vikas09 vikas09 26-30, M Sep 10

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    I'm thinking about coming out now. I want to come out. I'm just not sure about how to go about coming out.
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    I'm thinking about coming out now. I want to come out. I'm just not sure about how to go about coming out.
    SeaOfMonsters SeaOfMonsters 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Ok so I have finally decided to come out to my best friends, any tips on how to tell them? All tips are welcome!!!
    irisjuuu irisjuuu 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    About me: 24 year old closeted lesbian from Amman -Jordan. I am good looking, feminine, well-educated, financially independent and have a professional job. I studied abroad and...
    ammanmoc ammanmoc 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5

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    I am 29, gay, straight-acting, well educated, Hindu and I live in Delhi. I am looking for a MOC with a feminine and closeted lesbian. If anyone is interested, then please mail me...
    seekingmoc28 seekingmoc28 26-30, M Sep 5