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I Am Married and Have Fallen In Love With Someone Else

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    Going home for Thanksgiving.

    And the main thing on my mind is that I'll actually be in the same city as you but I can't be with you. I wish I could.
    Burai Burai 31-35, M Nov 26, 2014

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    Lost And Confused

    Here is my story. I am 45 years old, married 15 years with two amazing, brilliant, beautiful children. I own my own business and am a successful and well-known individual in my field. My wife is a very sweet person, incredibly smart. Every one loves her. She is the confidante...
    mo250466 mo250466 41-45 67 Responses May 7, 2011

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    I don't even know where to begin.

    I'm not even sure how it happened. I'm sure that is how must people feel. My husband and I have been together over 10 years. Married for 7. We have 3 beautiful children all under the age of 10. My husband has never been the kind of man who shares his feelings, which if course I...
    tippytoe1973 tippytoe1973 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 19, 2014

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    I Need To Stop This Madness.

    OK, here goes... I've been married 5 years and my marriage is on the rocks. It's pretty much a sex-free zone (at my wife's doing) and it's been on the decline for some time. I've finally got to the point where I know we need to fix it or end it. We are going to start counselling...
    MikeSaint MikeSaint 31-35, M 8 Responses Aug 1, 2013

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    I'm married, 2 gorgeous

    and very little children. Last year I had an affair which ended 2 months ago after 14 months. We got very close and started to plan a life together, but his wife discovered his affair and intentions and so he decided to end it. I was backing away myself as I wasn't sure I...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    I am frustrated that I have to write this.

    I feel that if I do not get these words down on something that they will burst out at the wrong time. I am thankful for the anonymity, because I can trust nobody with this secret that must be heard. I've only been married for two and a half years. We were both pretty young...
    ShootTheButterfly ShootTheButterfly 26-30, F 4 Responses Mar 17, 2014

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    Lost

    Tired of the deceit, dishonesty, secrets and all the other crap that comes with this exquisite, addictive and passionate relationship..I'm lost and can't find my way home.
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 3 Responses Apr 3, 2013

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    I am really torn and desperately need advice.

    I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for most of the years. But we met each other in college and have been together ever since. We know each other well. Our marriage greatly...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 12, 2014

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    Hi, I am new here and just needed to talk with

    people who would understand what I'm feeling! I love my husband, he is my true soulmate and greatest love, I never ever want to be without him. BUT, I have found myself falling for another man. We work together, and at first it was just harmless fun, a little cheeky joke here...
    Coco181225 Coco181225 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I need help!!!!! i met my husband in 2008.

    .. we were young, loving life and infatuated with eachother. we got married in 2012 and here it is 2014 and I have felt for a year and a half now that we have grown apart. I found out he was talking to a girl online. I had never been unfaithful and this hurt me even though it was...
    lovexlife lovexlife 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Married With 2 Kids But In Love With Someone Else

    Im married with two kids, but im in love with someone else. She is also married but she is getting a divorce. My wife found out that we have been talking, trying to do the right thing for my kids, i told my wife i would stop talking to her. The problem is i can't stop thinking...
    fos8 fos8 26-30, M 9 Responses Sep 29, 2013

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    This was not supposed to happen.

    But it did. I love my wife. She is the standard against which all women are measured. She is my soulmate and my best friend. Yet, I'm falling for another woman. Let us call her Two. At first I thought it was lust. But it isn't. I genuinely love spending time with Two. I tried...
    Ashman13 Ashman13 26-30, M 5 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    Tired

    Today I am just plain and simple tired. Tired of crying, tired of feeling lost, tired of wanting to do the right thing, tired of smiling when my heart is breaking. I need to take a step towards making some sort of decision. I've been stuck in one spot for months, and I need to...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 8 Responses Sep 15, 2013

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    ive fallen in love with someone else.

    . and is having a secret relationship..
    AmandaCxo AmandaCxo 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 27, 2014

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    Thinking about you tonight.

    Wish we could talk, just because. I miss you. I love you. You're gorgeous. You make me smile. You're my favorite person in the world. You light up my life. *sigh* I wish I could tell you those things. I wish you could just know them. Hope you're doing well, baby. Have a good...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F Sep 4, 2014

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    I know what I'm writing about is

    so wrong but here goes. I've been married 25 years to a great man in some respects. But he shows no affection toward me. He's only kissed me 3 times in the past 15 years. Walks 6 feet ahead of me when we go places instead of holding my hand or walking beside me. There is no...
    Janna66 Janna66 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 29, 2014

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    Not now, but I was once.

    I truly did love her and want to be with her. If only things were different. I still miss holding her, but I know it will never happen again.
    inlandsea inlandsea 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2014

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    I hoped to hide my affair from my H.

    Didn't want him to think that my wanting to leave him had anything to do with the affair. But my H found out somehow and he's hurting bad. I wish he had let me go when I asked him. Maybe I never should have asked him...should have left...but seeing him hurt so much breaks my...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2014

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    Wishing I Could Take All The Hurt For Both Of Them

    My husband is a wonderful guy, who doesn't deserve to be hurt. I love him, and we have a stable life together. I've fallen in love with my best guy friend. He knows how I feel, and he feels the same way, and we don't act on it because he values fidelity and the importance of...
    rosalind2288 rosalind2288 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 10, 2013

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    These feelings are really scary.

    ..is it normal to love someone this much? I guess it's how my husband feels about me. I hate this feeling. Love is amazing but honestly...it's scary all the possibilities :-(
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Peace

    A lot has happened since I last posted anything here. I have been on an emotional roller coaster the last few days. Tonight I feel like I have found a sliver of peace....at least for now. We finally had some time together to talk about everything! It felt good to get...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 30, 2013

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    Years Lost.....

    Hi, I am 41 years old and have been married for most of my life 24years this year. I have tried my best in keeping this marriage alive, full of passion and fun but GOD knows the man i am married to is as dead or cold as can be. I am dying inside, frankly i think i am already dead...
    avrill avrill 41-45, F 6 Responses Sep 6, 2012

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    I love my husband he works his *** off.

    I try to do what I can to help. I'm back in school to make a new career. I have been in situations where I have falling in love also with someone else. why can't I just have two men in my life. oh my hubby also has ED.... frustrating.
    kavett kavett 41-45, F 3 Responses Dec 15, 2014

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    Guess this should be the forum to post my

    stories because I'm definitely not the Other Woman anymore. But I've fallen madly in love with a single guy (SG) but I'm still married :(
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 4, 2014

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    The two hours I spent Facebook chatting with

    her has been better than any day my wife ignores me and talks to her family more than me.
    Burai Burai 31-35, M Nov 28, 2014

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    What A Year A Difference Can Make

    The recap: I started growing in attachment to a very good friend who backed away when we were getting too close. This happened in June 2012. When she stopped texting & calling as often, I went cold myself. I was deeply hurt. It was like my losing a loved one. But she was...
    darthstaff darthstaff 41-45, M 9 Responses Jul 6, 2013

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    Limbo Love

    So here we are, dancing in our predictable cycle. You're attracted to me, and I'm attracted to you. I married to a wonderful lady, and you're married to horny unfaithful teenager in men's clothes. Right now you don't talk to me as much because he's treating you well; he...
    darthstaff darthstaff 41-45, M 3 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    zoecc11 zoecc11 26-30, F Dec 24, 2014

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    Married But In Love With Another Man

    I am 32 yrs old, I have been married for 4yrs but with my husband for 8 years. Recently I have sought out another man, in which I have been friends with for over 3yrs. In my situation I have 2 children from a previous relationship and 1 child with my husband. The other man knows...
    momma03 momma03 31-35 76 Responses Jan 2, 2009

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    I don't know how I feel anymore.

    My life has gotten too complicated to even handle sometimes.
    LM96753 LM96753 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 25, 2014

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    Last night I was freaking out,

    thinking I may be reaching that point where I either need to say good-bye to my best friend or I'm going to make a huge mistake. Today though, I feel great. Like I can totally make this work. Yes, I am in love with a man who is not my husband, but I can keep those feelings in...
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 3 Responses Jul 29, 2014

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    I happen to love two men.

    Is that a crime? It's not like I have to act on it, right? Why do I feel so guilty at times? Is it wrong to be friends with someone? This is my dilemma.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 30, 2014

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    I think I've fallen so in love

    now that it's pretty much become an addiction. I've never longed for anyone so much. My heart is happy with him and so sad without him. I want to pull away but it's hard. Not the pull away because he isn't treating me right no not at all. He loves me so much too. I just want to...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 24, 2014

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    Yes. It really can happen.

    My marriage has been over for quite some time in my heart but separation/ divorce has been slow as we feel for the kids and are cautious of changing things. It's all slooooowly happening though and I think we are both just preparing on every level for what is to come. A few...
    lotusblossoms lotusblossoms 31-35, F 3 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    For over the last year I have been involved

    with an old friend who is married. We are having an affair, at least we were. A month ago his wife discovered his affair and he decided to end all contact, rejecting my calls and ignoring other lines of communication. We have argued on social media and the phone despite this...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Spent basically the entire weekend with him.

    ..off and on anyways...Then last night I saw him and spent the night with him and all day! Enjoyed every moment. Waking up having been cuddled in his arms all night long was the best. Our worse times are when we are apart. Such a sad situation to be this in love with someone and...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Dec 7, 2014

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    I want to believe that everything is going to

    work out for the best. But, how can the best be without him? We connected on so many levels. I believe he knows me and understands me like no one else, yet we cannot truly be together. Tonight I'm angry....I'm tired of his excuses. I'm mad at myself as well....why can't I...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 20, 2014

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    We had an eight month relationship despite of

    the fact that i'm married and he's in a relationship with another girl for 11yrs. He was so in-love with me back then. As for me, I'm a bit hesitant to give my 100% because of the situation although honestly, i really love him more than i loved anyone else. We broke up 4mos ago...
    burnsandbruises burnsandbruises 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 24, 2014

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    Married And In Love With Someone Else :(

    I have been married 6 years and from the start we were missing that spark. I tried to break it off several times, but he insisted it would work out. I never wanted to hurt him and thought well he is a good person and maybe in time the love will grow. Well I love him like a...
    kimjones9999 kimjones9999 41-45, F 4 Responses Nov 15, 2013

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    I am sitting here alone with my thoughts wishing

    that my someone would interrupt them with an unexpected good night message. It has been exactly one year since I got involved with my best friend. We started texting and sharing our thoughts and feelings. And I soon found myself falling in love, head over heels for this man...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 3 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    I am A God fearing woman,

    but right now I am so confused. I have been married for 18 years. My husband has beat me, cheated on me and put me threw hell. I have a daughter that's 22 from my first and only love but he is a lot older than I am. He left me and I never stopped thinking about him. He...
    Sweetestrose Sweetestrose 41-45, F 6 Responses Aug 18, 2014

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    If You Can't Get Someone Out Of Your Head, Maybe They Are Suppose To Be There?

    My first post....I apologize in advance this may turn out long :/ I have been with my husband (J) for 11 years married for 6 we have 3 children together. I have know the one that truly holds my heart (C) since we were practically in diapers. We lived houses down from each other...
    CrazySweetCakes CrazySweetCakes 26-30 5 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Another wonderful night with my man!

    ! Hung out, then slept (no sex) cause we were both soo tired. We cuddled the entire time. It was beautiful. I hate leaving him. We both get so sad but it is the situation right now so we just have to deal. I feel he's my other half. My soulmate. He makes me feel alive again! I...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 6, 2014

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    I Wish You Were Strong Enough

    So you said good bye in an email. You've said you are afraid that I love you too much, that I want a relationship you can't give. You've said you never meant to hurt me, yet here we are. Because of life pains I have walked with you through, you want to hide. I knew it would...
    darthstaff darthstaff 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19, 2013

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    I've read that it's just infatuation.

    I certainly feel that it is not. I know he's not perfect - hell neither am I. I love him just the way he is. I loved him at his darkest moments. I let him lean. He is my best friend. He is everything I want in a man. I'd gladly step in harms way for him. He stepped away. He said...
    secretsnvrtobetold secretsnvrtobetold 31-35, F 7 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    I have been married for over 10 years,

    and I havent felt attracted to my wife for about 5 years. In that time I have met women that seemed interesting, and even entertained cheating at some point, but I never brought my self to actually doing so. This has made me feel depressed for some time, I go up and down...
    willil willil 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    Tangled

    I haven't written anything here for quite awhile. I thought things were starting to untangle and become easier to deal with....but I was so so wrong! Things are still complicated... Maybe even more so than they were before. Nothing really has changed. My feelings are the same...
    Inlovebutmarried Inlovebutmarried 41-45, F 9 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Ugh....getting off of work soon.

    As tired as I am...I rather be at work. Home is so uncomfortable right now. Just passing by each other. No words...just stares...I get nervous and scared to walk by him wondering if he would snap. I really need to move out and move on with my life. So scared...but it has to be...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 28, 2014

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    Dreaming About You...

    Every night, when I go to sleep, I think about you. I think about how it'd feel to be in your arms; comforted by you. I try to think what you'd whisper in my ears as I drift into sleep. May be something funny. Like you always do. May be you'll want to do something. But don't...
    PolkaDotGirl PolkaDotGirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Dec 2, 2012

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    Hello everyone. I used to go by another name on

    EP but I had to get rid of that account and start this one. In short I married the wrong woman. I should have stayed with the one I met nearly a decade ago. A day hasn't gone where I haven't thought of her. She is the only woman I dream of, and they aren't even sexual dreams...
    Burai Burai 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 25, 2014

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    Married Still In Love With My Ex-Bf

    ive been married for 3 years but im still in love with my ex bf. i cant stop thinking of him since He sent message to me in facebook page. He find me in facebook and He sent friend request to me. and i accepted him there. After that we chatted everyday and we were talking about...
    guessvirgin guessvirgin 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 2, 2013

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