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I Am Married and Having An Affair

Married but lacking love, commitment, desire, sex ....wanting to feel respected and wanted in the marriage. 369 People

    I ****** Two Men Last Friday And Neither Of Them Was My Husband

        So, I have a few different lovers since I decided to get sex from the outside. My husband is not interested in sex anymore, and I am hornier than ever and LOVE younger men.I met a new man who is 29 and we have been talking for a while online.  We made a plan to meet up and...
    Jezibell Jezibell 46-50, F Sep 8, 2013

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    Do I Choose My Husband Or My Ex? But My Husband Cheats...

    I am currently separated from my hubby for 4 months now. I want to start by saying first that I am confused and really need some help. I am 24 and got married at 20 and my hubby was 19.HubbyHe and I have been together for 4 years and married for 3 year. We dated fresh out of boot...
    HopeCake HopeCake 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 31, 2013

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    Totally Broken Hearted And It'S My Fault!!!

    Yesterday I broke off with a woman who is the love of my life. She's a widow and I'm married with children and when push came to shove I couldn't leave my 11 year old boy, who is the apple of my eye. She says she loves me but isn't prepared to wait for me and put her life on hold...
    MikeyBH MikeyBH 51-55, M 3 Responses Apr 11, 2013

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    To All My Sisters Of The Shadows.... Please Help

    Today, after 5 1/2 years of the most intense love story of my life, I decided to disappear from that relationship. No more explanations, no more lala-land dreams of a rosy future, no more pretending we're best friends, no more listening to his stories about his wife and their...
    marmelade marmelade 51-55, F 13 Responses Aug 26, 2012

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    I'M Not Okay With Being The OW

    Yesterday I had an emotional breakdown. As per usual. Having a tearless day is rare these days. Let me point out I am not looking for sympathy I am merely pointing this out in hopes that I can either help someone not feel alone or perhaps someone can help me. I feel very empty...
    mysecretworld mysecretworld 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 14, 2013

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    I have had some and got caught,

    it was and still brings drama w my husband but I never get any attention
    LM96753 LM96753 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am married but am loving one of my friend he

    is working with me.....he is very crazyyyy about me.He is making me serious.............. but i dont knw wht to do pls help me.....he is single.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 14, 2013

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    I have ended things today.

    I can't take the pain of being the other woman. Almost 4 years....
    mysecretworld mysecretworld 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    New Cheating Wives Group

    http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Love-Wives-Who-Cheat/654550
    comicgregjohnson comicgregjohnson 46-50, M May 3, 2013

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    The Second Encounter

    M and I had been exchanging really hot emails over the last week since our first encounter and decided we needed to hook up yesterday. So we met in a town in middle of us along the river in a park. M has the most amazing kissable lips and as soon as I climbed into her SUV or...
    nscappoose nscappoose 41-45, M 2 Responses May 30, 2013

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    I Dodnt Want To Lose Her

    Ok, Here's the situation. I'm a married man who's marriage is basically over. We have been married for 18 years and we have been arguing over and over and it's been getting worse. So bad that we are arguing over stupid stuff now. She's made a comment to me that has hurt me to my...
    project626 project626 36-40 3 Responses Oct 9, 2012

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    I ******* Made It Happen.

    I remember my wife telling me about her friend. How she was in a failing marriage, one that she already was unfaithful in. I pretended I didn't like her, but secretly I wanted her. My wife left me at a party one time and she was there. I decided to make "peace" with her. So we...
    pancho123 pancho123 26-30, M 1 Response May 31, 2013

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    Blissfully Happy

    If success stories about extramarital relationships aren't your thing, you should stop reading now.Because my guy and I are very happy.  Still.  After 3 1/2 years.  No plans to change our circumstances.  Sure, we think about it from time to time, wishing we could travel...
    muddywaters muddywaters 46-50, F 7 Responses May 2, 2012

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    Only 7months Married And Having An Affair

    I'm 24 and got married to my husband 7months ago, everything was great apart from maybe the odd money stress and things, I didn't have a job and he was working overtime to earn more so we started drifting a bit, I then got a job which I love and the man who I'm now having an...
    Roseprick Roseprick 22-25, F Dec 2, 2012

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    Could He Still Leave?

    I am almost 5 months NC after the MM I was involved with said he needed time to "get to a place to be with me." This followed him visiting & his W constantly calling & me asking him if this was just an affair. He says he wants to be with me but has to figure things out. I told...
    Urbancowgirl Urbancowgirl 36-40 3 Responses Mar 26, 2013

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    Need A Place To Share My Feelings About My Affair

    I am 39 years old, married to my husband for almost 17 years. I have two school aged children and I am a stay at home mom. I have been involved with a man who is also married for the past 3 months. This is not my first affair (you would think I had learned my lesson after the...
    Misspetals Misspetals 36-40, F 12 Responses Jan 12, 2011

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    Need Some Adivce

    I have been married for only 3 years,I am only 27 years old, and I have not been happy at all. My husband and I have 2 boys together. I have wanted to leave for so long but I cant support myself with my kids in the area I live, so I want to finish my degree so I can hopefully not...
    searider16 searider16 26-30 3 Responses Dec 28, 2011

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    Hopeless

    been married 10 years almost, had two affairs now, the first lasted about 3 years but only invovled physical love making on four occasions but plenty of text and phone sex. The second has been going on for 9 months and is still going on and I've had more sex with her than in my...
    bimorf bimorf 36-40, M 1 Response Mar 24, 2012

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    Married, Having An Affair!

    I've been married for many years to a good man. however, I'm also having an affair with a married man. He's older than me and has been married longer, and we both love our spouses and families, and have no plans or desire to end our respective marriages. Yet we can't stay away...
    muddywaters muddywaters 46-50, F 34 Responses Mar 31, 2009

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    Totally In Love; Now What Do I Do?

    As stated in some of my previous stories, I never intended to cheat on my husband. In hindsight, I now realize that I should have never have gotten remarried and that I should have listened to my intuition about the marriage instead of assuming that I merely had "cold feet". But...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    It's Not Right, But It's A Reprieve

    I'm 38, married 19 years with 3 kids. My husband is 23 years older than me and we met when I was 17. I had no family was young and homeless. We hooked up when I turned 18, I got pregnant at 19 and two weeks after giving birth to our first son we married... that was 19 years ago...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    I Have To Let It Out...

    I am 29 and my husband is 60...I met him when I was 20 and we fell in lust. We were inseparable for 6 months, and we ended up pregnant...at the time I was still living with my parents so he asked me to move in with him. Though I wasn't sure I loved him I moved in because I was...
    eduKted eduKted 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 17, 2012

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    Getting To Be More Than Sex

    My affair is quickly becoming more than just sex. We would like to be able to spend time with each other. I feel that she is getting very emotionally attached, and I am becoming that way too. At first, we just wanted the sex. She was in a bad marriage and so was I. However...
    gopherhorn gopherhorn 31-35, M 6 Responses Nov 27, 2010

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    I give up...may take a break from affairs.

    I have zero good luck with men...maybe I'll start dating women 😳 Lol! P.S Men suck! That is all ;-)
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Jul 4

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    Frequent Flier Miles

    I figured out how to escape with my MW girlfriend. We use our frequent flier miles to book getaways. So we apply the 500 mile rule and **** for 48 hours and then fly home to live the false lives we have grown into. So far we have New York, Chicago, LA, Anaheim, Atlanta...
    GrassIsGrner GrassIsGrner 36-40 May 20, 2013

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    It Is Great

    Yes I am married and having an affair with a married man. The married man is my brother in law. It has been going on for about 5 years. We both had something to fill in our lives and we were there for each other. The sex is absolutely amazing. I am going on 45 in the spring...
    suez68 suez68 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 4, 2013

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    Who The **** Do People Think They Are?

    They say that sticks and stones may break my bones but words can never hurt me, that might be true I am not sure but I do know that they can make you angry as hell. So I ask who the **** do people think they are? Who or what gives them the right to judge as if they are perfect...
    Daddyskitten21 Daddyskitten21 31-35, F Jun 29, 2011

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    Passion & Lust

    I've been married for 18 yrs and have 2 sons. I met this tall, dark & handsome guy at work and felt incredible sexual chemistry right away, ever since our first kiss. Its been going on now for 3 yrs. He has a live-in g/friend and also a daughter. I have no intention of...
    passion99 passion99 36-40 8 Responses Dec 30, 2008

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    A Tough Decision

    It's been 15 months that my affair has been going on... I'm madly in love with my MM, it's been a tough 15 months too, we love in two different countries... So we don't physically get to see each other often. We have had one private vacation together for 5 days and I have flown...
    Hopelessromantic0725 Hopelessromantic0725 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 2, 2013

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    Update On My Previous Story

    As an update to my previous story here goes. We went on the family vacation and everything was going good. I talked to the other guy once or twice before I left but nothing more. This past weekend my husband had one of his fits again and took off all night. He came home the next...
    sexylatina69 sexylatina69 26-30 11 Responses Jul 14, 2008

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    Reconnected With My X Fiancé From When I Was 18...

    I am married 25yrs and with my husband for 30. My first love has contacted me through Facebook. We have met and kissed and desire so much more. he is unhappily married as am I. My husband is a drunk, cannot have sex and doesn't even try to be intimate. I want so much to make love...
    Immessedup Immessedup 46-50, F 1 Response May 17, 2013

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    I've been married for 3 years this coming December and have been having an affair for over a year now. My husband was home when the affair started and then deployed for about 7 months of it. He's returning home and this crushing guilt is killing me. I don't know what to do. I'm...
    Scaredandalone32 Scaredandalone32 22-25, F 2 Responses Nov 11, 2013

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    Having A Affair And Scared

    Hi!  first off I am 38 years old and been married for 19 years to a wonderful husband but I guess we lack in the sex department and then I met this guy online and we talked for 3 months before meeting each we both want the same things for us its just sex he is married with two...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 13, 2011

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    Married And Having An Affair

    I have been married six years and have two young kids,5 and 2. My marriage is good for the most part. I untentionally meet someone through work.He is married, has two stepkids and they have one child together not quite two years. This is his second marriage. His first was ten...
    sexymama77 sexymama77 31-35 7 Responses Mar 27, 2011

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    Trust,love,and Grief

    I am new to this site and I'm happy that I found a outlet for my emotions.I am 30yrs old and I have been having an affair for 8 months with a married man. This isn't the first time I have had an affair.the last time was 9 yrs ago and I was very young.I ended the affair and its...
    hope30rn hope30rn 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 18, 2011

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    I feel enlightened. I feel like I am constantly

    learning from people in different ways. Every relationship is a learning experience, especially intimate ones. I am having an affair and it's as if I should feel ashamed but I don't. It's the most natural thing in the world and I feel understood for the first time in more years...
    Elizabethbchnn Elizabethbchnn 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 13

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    God, I love my boyfriend!

    He makes me feel so sexy! Kissing his full lips and feeling his huge hands caress me gets me so crazy! He takes his time, too, and when I wrap myself around his strong black body I forget about everything else because it's like I'm being swept away!
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 14

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    A Monogamous Affair

    I joined a gym 30 minutes away from my home in the persuit of a good bodybuilding coach and trainer.  My kids were young at the time so I took them with me when I trained, they enjoyed being there and I felt very much at home. It was a typical bodybuilding gym, everyone there...
    jesseGale jesseGale 41-45, F 6 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    The Most Amazing And Traumatic Experience Of My Life

    I am married to a great guy and started having an affair with a married co worker 5 weeks ago. We have known each other for three years and it came as a shock to both of us. It is a mind + body affair and I have never felt so loved or alive for years. Unfortunately, about two...
    macgirl14 macgirl14 36-40 5 Responses Sep 6, 2010

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    I'M Going To Cheat For A Second Time With A Different Guy

    So, last week I wrote about my first time cheating on my husband with a totally random guy. This week, I have plans to meet yet another random man and have hot sex with him! I loved the feeling that the last encounter gave me, and I know this one will be even better. I've been...
    Jezibell Jezibell 46-50, F 4 Responses May 6, 2013

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    He Loves My Body

    I am currently sleeping with a man that absolutely loves my body. It is such a turn on. It is so stress free. We see each other when we want to ****. Plain and simple. His goal is to please me. We are not in love. We like each other and enjoy each other's company. We meet...
    taurean513 taurean513 31-35, F 6 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    My World.....

    Hi I'm not sure where I should be going here.... I am 47 married with 3 kids. I'm married to a nice guy. But a few months ago a went online to find a emotional affair... I needed a connection I wasn't getting out of my marriage. I met a couple of guys who were the perfect...
    Emilybeale Emilybeale 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 25, 2013

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    Ok here it goes, nervous about

    even writing about it. I am married and have been for the past 10 years. i have been faithful and have done it all for my husband and family, when he decided to move to another country I quite my job and moved, when he decided to move back I once again quite my job and moved...
    Susan72721 Susan72721 31-35 5 Responses Apr 16

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    I Feel Alive Again!

    Well,I finally gave in to my own selfish needs and wants. After 15 years with a man that I do not fully love, after years of no passionate kissing, no public displays of affection, no women to fulfill my bisexual nature, I have been left numb, lonely and questioning my life. I...
    craZnaomi craZnaomi 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 24, 2013

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    My First Time With My New Lover

    If any of you have been following my stories, you will know that I am in a 13 year, unsatisfactory marriage. I recently decided that I wanted to have an affair to try to get what I am missing at home. So, I've been talking to this guy for a couple of months and we have gotten...
    Jezibell Jezibell 46-50, F 4 Responses May 10, 2013

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    Every woman should read the book "He's just not

    that into you"...of course it's not written for married people having affairs, but the basic rule still applies! I've been a fool especially the last 6 months. I started to chase him! Worse thing I did! He lost interest...the thrill of the chase. I don't know if I can get this...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Jul 1

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    Related Experiences

    I've posted my affair story, so not going to repeat. I've finished my Affair, which is why this title says, I HAD an affair. It's been 5 months since I was together with the...
    OnAlert OnAlert 56-60, M 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    NEVER thought I'd be in this position because I know it's wrong, but...I'm married & having an affair with a married man. It started out innocently enough---we just met standing...
    deleted deleted 26-30 55 Responses Jul 14

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    See Dreamgirl75,,,you had the affair,,with your co-worker,,now you ask a question ,,Can to married people (MM and MW) Who having affair with one another 1, Stop the sex ,, yes you...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Every woman should read the book "He's just not that into you"...of course it's not written for married people having affairs, but the basic rule still applies! I've been a fool...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    So this question is for married men having affairs. What conditions would make you go distant from your other woman? And would you end an affair with the other woman or would she...
    tc57 tc57 31-35, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Before I begin, let me first say there's no confusion here about whether or not to cheat. Can't handle the truth.... Having an affair is on my bucket list. Yeah, I said it! I...
    thatdresstho thatdresstho 41-45, F 13 Responses Jul 6

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