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I Am Married and Lonely Craving Touch and Communication

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    I AM MARRIED BUT SOOOOO VERY LONELY...EVEN WHEN HE IS HERE, HES NOT HERE.. I REALLY WANT AFFECTION AND WOULD DIE FOR A HUG BUT DONT WANT TO TOUCH HIM.. I DONT BELIEVE IN CHEATING,SO I SIT HERE IN MISERY,IN MY TOWER LIKE RAPUNZEL..STUPIDLY AWAITING FOR A PRINCE TO...
    PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    THE First

    I AM MARRIED BUT SOOOOO VERY LONELY...EVEN WHEN HE IS HERE, HES NOT HERE.. I REALLY WANT AFFECTION AND WOULD DIE FOR A HUG BUT DONT WANT TO TOUCH HIM.. I DONT BELIEVE IN CHEATING,SO I SIT HERE IN MISERY,IN MY TOWER LIKE RAPUNZEL..STUPIDLY AWAITING FOR A PRINCE TO...
    PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    Married To The Wrong Person

    I sleep beside this woman every night but stay on my side of the bed. I don't want to be here I'm not in love with her or want to repair our marriage in any way. I crave a woman's touch the smell of her perfume, softness of her hair. HOW DO I GO ON LIKE ...
    hung4you hung4you 56-60, M 1 Response Jan 18, 2010

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    I miss a mans touch. It's no wonder I'm a Virgo. I crave passion and intimacy. It's lonely without my soldier. I hate how he chose this path. I need a man.
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 18-21, F 1 Response 22 hrs ago

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    My husbands been gone for four months now. My son keeps me occupied but I'm emotionally deprived. I hate being alone. I know no one in this military hell hole. My husband won't...
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 18-21, F 4 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Hello Everyone, My first post here, and the first time I've ever expressed this to anyone. I've been going crazy inside for years now and feel like I'm going to explode if I don...
    theunfree theunfree 41-45, M 6 Responses a week ago

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    Yes I do. I have been married for 9 yrs and seem to have lost that should have been there. I crave intimacy and don't know if I am going to get it.
    sweetgal42 sweetgal42 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 30

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    I was in the same situation. Married for too many years without sex and intimacy. One day I just decided that life was too short and I deserved to be happy. It was difficult and...
    Sinfulkisses869 Sinfulkisses869 41-45, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Hi looking for someone to chat to in the same position as me. If your interested please pm me
    andy8669 andy8669 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    I want to walk out on my marriage of 32 yrs.
    Roseahome Roseahome 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 26

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    On the one hand I feel bad that Jennifer Lawrence's privacy was invaded, but on the other hand........well that hand is pretty busy......
    LoneRider72 LoneRider72 36-40, M 2 Responses Sep 3

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    So... Weeks without sex at this point. We are emotionally closer than when we were sexless, but the sex is tapering off again... The odd part is that per counseling, it is my...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 7 Responses Sep 6

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    http://youtu.be/56UYMpmrEro
    tristaspuella tristaspuella 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 7

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    Here is a kind of poem or set of thoughts I wrote and I can still relate....thought I would share with others who have probably been there before or are there now! I am bitter and...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My wife's not here and I really want someone to talk to right now
    JDSHELLEY JDSHELLEY 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    I have these issues with my wife, but where in the world are you women finding MEN that don't want to have sex with you?!?! My wife has never ever ever been turned down about sex...
    Thediary Thediary 26-30 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    There's nothing better than being so close to another. To know there wants and needs and be able to make them happen. Want to make them happen. It's sad when it's one sided...
    Hm3454 Hm3454 41-45, M 1 day ago

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    Even though we've been together for 8 years, he forgot about our 1 year marriage anniversary. ;( 9/16/13
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 18-21, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    So long Ages Former I crave I lono I desire A glance A touch A smile Hand held Tender kiss A hug A glance A caress Longing gaze What bliss Joy Wonder Electrifying How I long for...
    thebigtexrock thebigtexrock 41-45, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I just feel so lonely. I'm married, my husband is downstairs. I have friends, not many but a few and I have a people orientated job but I still feel do lonely I could cry. I am...
    illneverbenormal illneverbenormal 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    i had 2 out of wedlock pregnancies and almost thrown out of the morman church. as soon as i was 18 i got married and moved to geogia contryside and been married 11years
    hannah25luv hannah25luv 26-30, F 6 hrs ago

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    So I just talked to the cousin of the MM and was relaying to her what it was like seeing him the other day. I told her I felt rude bcuz he was literally 3 feet behind me and I...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    So I just talked to the cousin of the MM and was relaying to her what it was like seeing him the other day. I told her I felt rude bcuz he was literally 3 feet behind me and I...
    nvragain1024 nvragain1024 31-35, F 6 days ago

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    like i have plenty of friends & family that i'm around 24/7. but i'm lonely, that have no one to be cute with, get goodmorning texts from, make me smile constantly kind of lonely...
    summasun summasun 18-21, F 5 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I'm a physical girl, and that’s not code for "I love sex." I'm a hugger, a toucher, I'm prone to running my fingers through his hair or down his arms, tracing his every scar and...
    hankpalmer hankpalmer 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    I'm very lonely, but I try to force myself to reason that it is a good thing and that I should be separate from people because people just see me as a character or even an...
    chips24 chips24 18-21, M Sep 7

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    Feeling a little low today. Was a gorgeous day out and I observed a lot of couples enjoying each other's company. I started to recall the feeling I once had. You know....the...
    InTheShadowsAgain InTheShadowsAgain 41-45, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been so lonely. I do not even have any friends. People think I am strange because sometimes I cannot stop touching them, just to feel a little bit of warmth and flesh.
    msharleenquinzel msharleenquinzel 18-21, F 20 Responses 2 days ago

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    "I want my time to be taken up by chores, errands, appointments, and arguments. In other words, I want to get married." - Jarod Kintz But not just anyone will do...it has to be...
    Quentine Quentine 22-25, F 4 hrs ago

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    I Don't Think I've Ever Felt So Lonely... I Just Want One Person To Talk To. But I Also Just Want To Be Left Alone. I Don't Want To Do Anything Anymore...
    Eriannaa Eriannaa 13-15, F 3 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I am lonely to an extent. I don't like going to the movies by myself or out to eat by myself, etc. I have my kids & my mom & a sister are around as well...but it's not the same...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I am recently married. Not even a year now. My wife won't reach out to me. She won't hold me, she won't kiss me and she won't make love to me. I haven't had sex in over a year. We...
    crono84 crono84 26-30, M 7 Responses Aug 21

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    I'm lonely and long to feel a connection. I want to feel a woman's touch again.
    mook1977 mook1977 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 24

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    Coping with Social Anxiety: #1: Challenge negative thoughts Social anxiety sufferers have negative thoughts and beliefs that contribute to their anxiety. If you have social...
    InhuldibleCrelk InhuldibleCrelk 36-40 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I don’t know why I’m posting here but arrived via a Google search on “lonely but married.” I’m tempted by the cheating sites that showed up but old enough to know they...
    MakaWoksapa MakaWoksapa 51-55, M 6 Responses Sep 2

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    You walk down the mall or street, hand in hand with your lover or wife. Such is the intimacy of love and touching and in Public too. When will holding hands be banned?
    Thesoutherner Thesoutherner 66-70, M 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Typing with my right hand touching myself with my left - that's me now, that's me whilst I chat with you on EP. Join me!!
    Inspector999 Inspector999 46-50, M 1 Response 55 mins ago

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    Married 15 years, very happily, but craving more. Once a week is not enough. Bedtime I am tired (I start work very early in morning, she wakes up 2 hours later.) How to resolve...
    jeepin54321 jeepin54321 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 25

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    Though I am married, I have a terrible life in terms of romance, sex and intimacy. I am one of 'I live in a sexless marriage' community which surprisingly growing here on EP. I...
    philophil philophil 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I am married and was lonely, but I have met someone on here that has made me rethink the lonely. Not as lonely as I was by far.
    oriolesfan464 oriolesfan464 46-50, M 5 Responses a week ago

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    I have always been a lonely person since i was little. Being the only girl i had to play alone, in middle school i had "fake friends" you know...those that will stab in you in the...
    TheTurtleDove TheTurtleDove 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have two kids that are grown and never put me in their life. The married out of their race and they go to their family only. The grandkid are grown and they have never called me...
    Suzzieq69 Suzzieq69 66-70 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I badly want someone to touch me intimately
    kissme01 kissme01 18-21, F 7 Responses Aug 28

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    My body craves your touch. My lips long to feel your sweet kisses over every inch of my body. Every touch is electric......
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 14 Responses Sep 1

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    Have you ever been next to the person you love more than life it self, wanting affection and touch so bad it hurts. But you know that they will be mad or ignore you. I have gone...
    Darkpriest85 Darkpriest85 26-30, M 13 Responses Sep 4

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    Hi everyone, I don't know if my post gets any attention at all, but I just want to share how lonely I am right now. Back in 2012, I was fighting depression from my broken...
    Iamlonelyinside Iamlonelyinside 18-21, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    I got shot down for date night. Technically I guess I got downgraded for date night. I was trying to plan a date night with my wife for not this Saturday but next Saturday. I...
    LifeinWoodinville LifeinWoodinville 41-45, M 11 Responses a week ago

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