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I Am Married and Lonely Craving Touch and Communication

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 71 People

    So I never thought I would be in this position.

    I am actually craving deep and meaningful communication with a person who is not judgmental. I love people and love to affirm people. I have kids that I love which is the reason I stay in this relationship. I am looking for similarly situated person. I like nice people who are...
    HeartConnect HeartConnect 46-50, M a week ago

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    Married To The Wrong Person

    I sleep beside this woman every night but stay on my side of the bed. I don't want to be here I'm not in love with her or want to repair our marriage in any way. I crave a woman's touch the smell of her perfume, softness of her hair. HOW DO I GO ON LIKE ...
    hung4you hung4you 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 18, 2010

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    THE First

    I AM MARRIED BUT SOOOOO VERY LONELY...EVEN WHEN HE IS HERE, HES NOT HERE.. I REALLY WANT AFFECTION AND WOULD DIE FOR A HUG BUT DONT WANT TO TOUCH HIM.. I DONT BELIEVE IN CHEATING,SO I SIT HERE IN MISERY,IN MY TOWER LIKE RAPUNZEL..STUPIDLY AWAITING FOR A PRINCE TO...
    PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL 31-35, F 1 Response Jun 6, 2009

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    I have been married to my husband

    for 45 years. I am 65 years old and he is the only man I have ever been with. We gradually stopped being a "couple" some 15 years ago, when the kids were grown. We have not slept together or had sex, or even hugged or touched one another in those 15 years either. Neither of us...
    manikki manikki 61-65, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    To have someone to hold.

    Even if for a few hours to soak up the soul's anti-bodies against the pain of long term loneliness and heartbreak. Time spent kissing. Hugging. Dancing fingers across skin and through hair. Laughing. Talking about anything deep or shallow. Maybe someday soon.
    Bfinally Bfinally 51-55, M 1 Response Mar 14

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    THE First

    I AM MARRIED BUT SOOOOO VERY LONELY...EVEN WHEN HE IS HERE, HES NOT HERE.. I REALLY WANT AFFECTION AND WOULD DIE FOR A HUG BUT DONT WANT TO TOUCH HIM.. I DONT BELIEVE IN CHEATING,SO I SIT HERE IN MISERY,IN MY TOWER LIKE RAPUNZEL..STUPIDLY AWAITING FOR A PRINCE TO...
    PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL PRISONERLIKERAPUNZEL 31-35, F 9 Responses Jun 6, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Whether you are on the couch. Watching TV. Sitting next to the one ur married to. Wanting to cuddle up, hold hands. Tease with a kiss or two. Or your in bed sitting watching TV...
    Leftyss Leftyss 46-50, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Nothing like the warmth of a man. That electric feeling when he touches you. Knowing he needs and wants you just as much as you need him. You feel safe and happy. I need this...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 24 Responses Apr 30

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    I'm not attracted to my husband. He doesn't show me any affection. He doesn't even spend any time with me. We don't get along. It's not that I hate him. I would like to stay...
    trashclass trashclass 22-25, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    We got invited to a party as a couple. He asked me to go with him more than once. I just couldn't bring myself to go and watch him fake how happy he is with me. I couldn't watch as...
    WastedShadedDaylight WastedShadedDaylight 31-35, F 12 Responses May 2

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    Ugh...my neighbor is so damn hot!! But he's married too with kids. I can't just throw it out there and see what happens! I wish I could. His wife is nothing to look at, like I mean...
    lovinglife11 lovinglife11 31-35, F 6 Responses Apr 30

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    I have been married for almost 4 years and my wife and I have not been as intimate as I think we should. She is never in the mood for sex and I am ready 24/7
    dawg1994 dawg1994 36-40, M 3 Responses May 2

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    Married for 16 years with two girls, one 12 and one 8. Wife has no sex drive and she is pretty controlling. We can hangout and watch TV together or go places with the girls on...
    mousergoodwin mousergoodwin 41-45, M 5 Responses May 3

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    I've been married twice. And it's failed a second time, I want a divorce. I just want to be alone. I don't think my step children will ever forgive me, especially little red who...
    bipolarPeter bipolarPeter 31-35, M 2 Responses May 8

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    I'm a wedding videographer and I've filmed a lot of weddings.Being in a troubled marriage I used to be very envious of my clients but after years and years I've come to realize...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 21 Responses 1 day ago

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    Any Canadian women? Preferably in ontario
    MrOttawa MrOttawa 46-50, M May 1

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    Work has been pretty rough the last few weeks. A shoulder massage would've been nice last night, but the hockey game was on.
    andie2007 andie2007 41-45, F 24 Responses May 6

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    is it so ******* wrong that I would like some attention from the wife? I try and try and still get rejected, disrespected and pushed aside. This has been going on now for close to...
    JackRabbit77 JackRabbit77 36-40, M 3 Responses May 6

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    I am reading all of these posts and thinking wow there are other people like me. I want intimacy!!! Hell at this point a conversation over the dead silence. I miss those...
    KCecil73 KCecil73 41-45, F 13 Responses May 12

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    I have a great body,and used to post my pics online,just for some attention from someone.Most of the attention came from other guys though!
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 days ago

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    literally just got into an argument because I made him horny...FML
    mrsskayl mrsskayl 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Been married nearly 7.5 years and found out the 7 year itch is a real thing. Thankfully we are surviving it without either one of us straying - touch wood. Has anyone else run...
    Helena555 Helena555 36-40, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    Communication......Merriam Webster tells us the following....": the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to express or exchange information or to express your...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 10 Responses May 2

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    When I told my friends and family I was engaged they all told me to take it slow. I was 18 and would be getting married at 19, but I was "in love." 10 years later all of those...
    Adrianna7182 Adrianna7182 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 25

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    In 2009 I created a fun blog little did you know I came across this delightful young man. He was 4 years younger than I was. He was about 22 and I was 26. Something about his charm...
    zionmarket zionmarket 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Occasionally, I’ll suffer a “temporary” depression--usually at night when I’m alone in my room—because I’m lonely & not satisfied with my life (I’m 28). Almost...
    lovestarr lovestarr 26-30, F 5 Responses May 5

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    when me and my wife first got together 2 1/2 years ago, we had all these plans and everything was great so we got married. she got pregnant and we were very excited! but then i...
    darrickDrew darrickDrew 22-25, M 1 Response May 6

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    Please read this carefully and with an open mind...... I am currently living the worst life any person should be subjected to. To be honest I have never been happy in life. My life...
    Trust1993 Trust1993 18-21, M 4 Responses May 4

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    It was a Tuesday, I think…maybe a Thursday I can’t remember. At the time, I was content with where I was in life. Single…healthy, happy, no debt, free to live life as I chose...
    1StateAway 1StateAway 36-40, M 3 Responses May 5

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    I Need to Decide If I'll Stay In My Marriage I have been in a relationship for 4 years plus with my bf 4 years younger than me. my question to him back then was that i wanted to...
    tinggal123 tinggal123 26-30, F 23 hrs ago

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    It is a strange to be Married and yet feel lonely . It is like I am living with a roommate instead of a Friend and a lover. I do not want to leave but I am tired of this lonely...
    Mattracer Mattracer 36-40, M 6 Responses May 12

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    My conscience is clear. Yes.... I look outside for little brief encounters with strangers that I happen into or with recurring ladies, such as a mom or two at the school...
    mydreamsonly mydreamsonly 31-35, M 5 Responses Apr 23

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    I have been married for almost 10 years. My husband works very hard for our family. but, he tend to get tunnel vision and i seem to go unnoticed. i do everything i can, it doesn't...
    calimama27 calimama27 31-35, F 26 Responses May 9

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    I am lonely. I sit and wait for you, I know you text. I know you can't call yet I wait for you. I remember the way it felt when u touched me for the first time. I remember the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses May 11

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    I am extremely frustrated with my marriage. I know that all relationships go through up and downs. But we have been on a down far to long. My husband hasn't said I love you...
    brittloves brittloves 26-30, F 5 Responses May 11

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    She don't love you, she's just lonely She wasn't once upon a time She used to dance when the band played She used to be the trustin' kind She's no stranger to the leaving She's...
    SoConflicted233 SoConflicted233 46-50, F 5 days ago

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    Lately I've been going through a series of events in my life that have been really hard. I haven't had anyone to talk to about it either so I guess I could just let it out on this...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 3 Responses May 12

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    I'm not even sure where this all began, or how I even got in this space... It was just a friendship. I was in a long term relationship when we met...but I was drawn to him. I knew...
    detailsinthefabric detailsinthefabric 22-25, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    Depressed is not just a feeling, after awhile it becomes your way of life, sure i get excited about things i enjoy, sure i'm not moping around all day... but the sparks are gone...
    griff11b griff11b 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 23

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    I am married to a black man and have biracial children. When I am out I love seeing other mixed race couples. It is so natural when that happens. I normally smile at them as my...
    momlovesoutdoors momlovesoutdoors 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    Im here because Im so torn. Im having an emotional affair with a friend I've known for over ten years. He is also married. I love my husband and we have a young child. I dont plan...
    salvi56 salvi56 36-40, F 4 Responses May 8

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    I'm not married but I still feel lonely lol how weird is that lol anyone want to chat?
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 31-35, M 4 days ago