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I Am Married and Looking

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 335 People

    Sexless In Illinois For Too Long

    Near Rockford Illinois and looking for a woman who is also not being sexually fulfilled in her marriage. Love to start with chatting and see where it leads. One thing is for sure I am over being sexless, I miss the passion!
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 28, 2012

    M&L In Alabama

    I have been married over 10 years and am bored.  Have had some same sex affairs (found them very satisfactory) and am now looking for a man to possibly start a new life with.  I feel I deserve more and have given a solid effort to live a normal married life.  It...
    2 Responses May 6, 2009

    Married And Looking In Chicago.

    Hey everybody! I could bore you with a lot of details of why.... My story is very similar to A LOT of other good people on this site. I am into year 2 of a sexless, loveless marriage drought with no end in site. Very Frustrated. I am not sure where my life is headed. I am a...
    JohnnyFun JohnnyFun
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Aug 28, 2011

    Good Looking, Laid Back Married Man Looking For Friends

    I doubt I am the only person in my situation Married and Looking. I am NOT looking to change your situation or mine just looking for what is missing at home. I am very laid back, easy going, and have a great personality and can say I am looking for quality and NOT quantity. I...
    cheetah911 cheetah911
    36-40, M
    Apr 11, 2012

    Married And Looking

    been in a loveless and sexless relationship for 10 yrs. Staying around for the kids and I know this is not the right thing to do but at this time that's where I stand. Looking in St. Louis, MO area if any ladies would like to talk Dennis
    1956dennis 1956dennis
    46-50, M
    Apr 29, 2011

    I am just looking....

    .......from a distance.....I would like someone to share emails with......along with life experiences......with no intention of a physical meeting......only a connection of the heart......thans for listening
    Grant52 Grant52
    61-65, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2014

    The Making Of A Natural Woman.

    if you've never had a large man that can give it to you slow and make you feel it in your chest than you've been missing out girl. Some women who've never gotten it good will say a big **** hurts and all but a good man knows how to tell if its ready for it and how to get you...
    clydedaglide clydedaglide
    26-30, M
    1 Response Aug 3, 2011


    I've been married 20 years and I'm still very close with my wife in every way except...Truth is, she doesn't really like sex! She doesnt seek it out or think about it much as far as I can tell. When we have sex, it's pretty good, but it isn't going to happen unless I pursue it...
    antsy11 antsy11
    46-50, M
    5 Responses Nov 10, 2009

    What Do You Think

    Anyone live near chicago? I am an attractive 25-year old married man looking for a married women. I am thinking about it, that's definite. I am also close to doing it. Would you like to share this adventure with me?
    deleted deleted
    Apr 21, 2012

    32 Male In Wisconsin Looking For Sex

    Hello group! Any ladies from Wisconsin and would like to have some fun? I have been in a sexless marriage for the last 3 years. My wife have no desire for sex, I love her very much but she just doesn't want to have sex. I am looking for no strings attached discreet sex. Anyone...
    31-35, M
    Aug 29, 2009

    We Meet At a Sports Bar!

      We met after work at a local sports bar. You looked sexy, I wanted to take you then and there but was patient. My hands were all over you. As I look over toward you, I can see the same thoughts are going through your mind. I place my hand, gently on your bare leg and you...
    aquaman44145 aquaman44145
    May 29, 2009

    Wanted: Date Nights

    I have been married for 15 years. We got married young. The last several years we don't get out for date night every week like we used too. We have not had sex in over a year. I am just frustrated that we lost connection. She told me that she is just not interested. I am still...
    Enjoy2cuddle Enjoy2cuddle
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 30, 2012

    Married 14 Years -- I Need a Nsa Friend

    39 year old man married 14 years been good   but I been denied to many times  I feel like I'm 17  my w... well doesn't have that drive like I do. I've been good for all these years thinking to myself thats just the way it is and I've come to realize it is...
    cony124 cony124
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2009

    50 Going On 21.

    It's the same old story. We all have listened to friends/ co workers ect. talk about there dead sex lives. I live in the crazy town of Las Vegas. To all you weekend invaders, it is a small town. 1.5 mil. in the valley give or take Henderson. I have stayed faithfull for the 20 yrs...
    sjr8208 sjr8208
    Feb 6, 2012

    Having Fun With Married Co-worker

    I have been married for 17 years. To say the least, sex has gotten boring and not enough.  A married co worker started flirting with me and I flirted back. We then started having little meetings at work and have some fun. I know I shouldnt but when he calls or comes looking...
    wantout65 wantout65
    41-45, F
    9 Responses Oct 3, 2008

    Wondering If I Am On the Right Path ?!?! Am I the Biggest Chump History ?!?!

    My story may have some differences than everyone else's.  I guess I will tell the whole thing, maybe that is why i decided to find a place to put this out there, maybe that is what I need, just to tell the whole thing at once in the same narrative, just to get it out there...
    DonaldD DonaldD
    Apr 28, 2009

    It's Just That...

    My story is a little different. We have been together for 8 years now. We have 2 beautiful daughters, and they are my whole life! My wife loves sex. Or rather, she loves to ****. I guess this is where the story changes a bit. I spend time wishing that she was more interested...
    thedudefromdallas thedudefromdallas
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 24, 2009

    Married But Looking

    hello out there! I am married but looking if U know what I mean
    kajunspice kajunspice
    51-55, M
    1 Response Aug 26, 2009

    In New England

    can any ladies help me out? i will travel all of new england (up to new hampshire) for this. let me know what you think. we start with exchanging pics?
    sparky694ume sparky694ume
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Dec 20, 2010

    Am In a Cyber Affair

    started out as penpals and has progressed to webcam sex and declarations of love
    bluboy2 bluboy2
    56-60, M
    1 Response Oct 21, 2007


    I'm really not sure yet that I want to go this route but I am tired of being ignored or at least disregarded.  I can't handle the fact that my husband cheats on me and then I have to role over and take it!  I know I want someone to talk to and maybe someday more but I...
    reederp reederp
    1 Response Jul 30, 2009

    Not Married But Am Looking For Unsatisfied Married Women.

    Married women that have been neglected and deprived of great sex with a man that will love them and give them what they have been missing is my forte. I love it and have made many friends over the years. I always play safe and always with the utmost respect for my lady friends...
    clydedaglide clydedaglide
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2011


    Years ago, maybe 8 or so, Yahoo Personals had a category called "Married but Looking".  I placed an anonymous ad and literally received hundreds of replies (from serious to seriously creepy).  I started chatting with a few people and became friends with 3 of...
    noexcuses noexcuses
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jun 14, 2008

    Tried Before But Going For a Second Time!

    I thought I had found something last year but it ended.  Then this past Sept. me and him met up again.  We only had sex once this past time and it was great.  But we talked about twice since that day and today marks 2 weeks without hearing from him.  So...
    crazyinlove88 crazyinlove88
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2008

    Looking In Florida

    I guess i am in the same boat... I am also looking... Pensacola to be exact... Looking for??? A friend and a lover.... Someone to talk to, someone to spent time with, someone to experience things with, someone to make love to, explore... etc... Why? I do not have what i...
    Maldini942 Maldini942
    31-35, M
    1 Response Feb 25, 2012

    Lonely In Sydney

    If there are any ladies in Sydney looking for a fun time together, please feel free to drop me a line. I've been married for almost ten years now and my wife is... well... let's just say it's not good.
    SteveIEd SteveIEd
    36-40, M
    Aug 11, 2013

    English Fun

     Hi All I regularly look for NSA fun just love to get my rocks off
    matthecat matthecat
    36-40, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2009

    No Luck

    i have been searching for a woman for ever, maybe my taste r to prohibiting, but I have had no luck.
    Lexman966 Lexman966
    51-55, M
    Jul 12, 2009

    Any ladies in nyc area.

    We can go to have some wine, share some secrets and maybe some kisses
    alexnyc alexnyc
    36-40, M
    Sep 21, 2015

    Lonely But Not Alone

    I've been married for 17 years and my wife and I have grown completely apart. We do not share any interest other than our kids. I always try to stay on top of things personally, i.e., health & fitness, intellect, contribute positively to society. But my wife has totally let...
    usearching4me usearching4me
    41-45, M
    Jul 14, 2012


    I've been married 20 years and I'm still very close with my wife in every way except...Truth is, she doesn't really like sex! She doesnt seek it out or think about it much as far as I can tell. When we have sex, it's pretty good, but it isn't going to happen unless I pursue it...
    antsy11 antsy11
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2009

    Discreet, Nsa, Socal

    I'm sure I'm not the only one here.  I love intelligent conversation and hot passionate sex.  I have been in a mostly sexless marriage for a very long time and it's time for a little fun.   Peace & Love!
    HeWhoPleasures HeWhoPleasures
    41-45, M
    12 Responses Jun 14, 2008

    I Never Planned This......

    Somehow it just happened.....I see a beautiful woman, she has a great body, I look and smile, she smiles back, I say "hi", she says "hi" back, I start to ride away, but something stops me.....maybe it's the longing just to see if I've still got it, I don't know....I stop turn...
    Jb4u Jb4u
    46-50, M
    2 Responses Sep 16, 2010
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