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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

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    The Silence..

    I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had were dreams. Dreams of what marriage would be like, I even still have what I wrote at 14 of what I wanted (hoped) my...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Married But Alone

    I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to give him company where he works.  Now I came to my city and joined my previous job as my husband is disgusting, he...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him.

    I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me quit my job over 4 years ago to go out on the road with him and promised to take care of me. A year later he was unemployed and we were living on...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Same Here

    I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2 completely different people living different lives.   We got married at 21, we already had 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing??

    The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her, get her to school, pick her up, play all that goes into raising a child.  She is with me 90% of the time and wants not to be...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Im very sincere & kindhearted! I belong to decent,respectable & hardworking family..being overweight i had late marriage at 28 & have asymmetrical bust..it felt miracle when i got...
    notwitoutmyson notwitoutmyson 26-30, F a week ago

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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    Being lonely in a relationship is awful. I'd rather just be alone... Period. Then there would be no expectations of companionship. And it wouldn't hurt so freaking bad.
    JustJenn74 JustJenn74 36-40, F 37 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    2nd marriage. I am a REAL christian. I am alone in my marriage. Always being rejected. It has been almost 6 years. I tried to commit suicide 2 months ago. I took 50+ percocet. I...
    winterbutterfly winterbutterfly 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 21

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    I am married and my marriage is ending (posted a big long back story about my marriage) and currently I live about a good twelve hour drive from my nearest family member besides my...
    Virgo1981 Virgo1981 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 6

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    Three years ago I caught my husband texting younger women that he worked with. He said he sent some inappropriate text messages but never had a physical affair. He tried to...
    kelly121994 kelly121994 41-45, F 10 Responses Jul 27

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    And the other way around...married men should avoid other women, single or not.
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Married...That's a very loosely used term to describe what I have here! Lol. My grandson whom I love so much has gone home today after spending the past 6 weeks with me. My heart...
    MamaAbby MamaAbby 56-60, F 6 Responses Jul 31

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    I wish I could orchestrate a way to take a trip alone to sort my thoughts and gain some perspective.
    Dutchess68 Dutchess68 41-45 5 Responses Aug 5

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    I'm not even really sure how to tell my story or if I should. I'm trying to "find myself" so maybe a strangers opinion would help me see what I can't I've been married for over 2...
    twisten1329 twisten1329 41-45, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I thought about more that I could say and left off...I wake every morning smiling and singing. I care for him deeply, faithfully serving him. I keep an immaculate house. I cook...
    winterbutterfly winterbutterfly 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    Once again I sit alone on Friday night. It really wouldn't matter if he were here, I would still be alone.
    lonelyone80 lonelyone80 31-35, F 27 Responses Jul 26

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    I am a fifty year old man and my wife and I have drifted very far apart. The sad truth is that the responsabilty is mostly mine. I am guilty of ignoring her in every meaningful way...
    itsnevertoolateforlove itsnevertoolateforlove 46-50, M 6 Responses Aug 5

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    Being alone is scary but not as scary as feeling alone in a relationship.
    jjcairo jjcairo 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 12

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    I agree in principle but I think this is a very simplistic view on things, things are never that black and white...
    StoneWall77 StoneWall77 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I am so lonely. Too lonely and so sick. No one can help me. I wish I were dead. I wish I have cancer or heart attack. I live by myself for 14 years. My husband always in another...
    jackieLu jackieLu 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    My husband never loved me. He always listen to his sister, he always obey his sister, his sister wants us to separate. His sister said were not a family coz we dont have kids. He...
    yodatheching yodatheching 22-25, F 7 Responses Jul 31

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    I just want someone to share my life with, go on adventures, hang with friends and do domestic things! I am in a relationship where I love the person very much but his priorities...
    leahtard37 leahtard37 26-30, F 28 Responses Aug 4

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    Twenty-six years. 26. I feel like we are just roommates. But, he lives his life and I live his life. Not a typo. I sacrificed a lot to live the way he wanted. And over the years I...
    Ludavin Ludavin 46-50, F 9 Responses Aug 5

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    About 18 years ago, I met an amazing guy. We really connected & had amazing chemistry. At the time he had a set 3 mo old twin boys & I discovered that I was pregnant by my ex. So...
    Angeeb Angeeb 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    Hi , I am a married man from Singapore. I need to tell you how I feel. I am married. the thing is deep inside, I crave a macho man. I wish I have a man to love me and understand...
    gurchaaran gurchaaran 31-35, M Aug 7

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    Internet is full of stories of people falling in love with someone else while married to their husband or wife's. Most of the stories proclaim that their husbands or wives were...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I am married and lonely. My husband can't carry on an intelligent conversation with me. The sex now lasts 30 seconds. I had an affair once and had the best sex! He is now in...
    anavay anavay 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 22

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    I should be happy. My husband is genuinely a good guy. We've been together nearly six years, married for just one. I feel as though he's not in love with me. There's no passion. I...
    lovelywanderlust lovelywanderlust 26-30, F 11 Responses Jul 30

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    I swear there are times these days when I can't even remember why I married my husband. I can barely recapture that feeling of being in love and having him as the center of my...
    pinkpussycat4u pinkpussycat4u 51-55, F 8 Responses Aug 3

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    To all Lonely married Women. I have good news the NFL Football Season is about to start, and you will be joined by millions of Football Wives throughout the nation. Here's a tip...
    TxRocker TxRocker 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 5

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    Any married women feel like chating with a 39 m? Msg me
    beachdrinks beachdrinks 36-40, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    I have this amazing women in my life and things are very complicated as we are both married. My marriage is failing and is coming to an end please see my other post. The thing is I...
    Sirwithherkey Sirwithherkey 31-35, M 1 Response a week ago

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    we are married for last 20 yrs. my wife has superiority complex and i am an introvert. she enjoys insulting me in front of my children and relatives, she is a good orator and don...
    abren abren 51-55, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    In my younger years I was everyones friend or at least it seemed that way . Then when I owned a business I couldn't go out without running into someone I knew. Then I had a stroke...
    Irishdaddy5 Irishdaddy5 56-60 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hi, this is my first experience in any kind of "chat" or "talk forum", not sure what to call it. I have been married 26 years. I have know him since I was 11 years old. We were...
    Timetotalk Timetotalk 46-50, F 28 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been married for 19yrs in that time i have watched as my marriage went from one of romance and passion to a one sided affair. I have tried for the past 3 years everything...
    monty71 monty71 41-45, M 4 Responses Jul 30

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    My wife and I have been married for almost 12 years. We have had struggles, but are happy, nonetheless. However, since menopause, she has lost interest in intimacy, which I really...
    Boatdock61 Boatdock61 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    I am married and mother of 5 children, ages 8-7mths. I am very tired all day. One of my twin boys (33mths old) is severly disabled and I must always be there for him 24hrs. He...
    tran30 tran30 26-30 1 Response Aug 9

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    I'm 26 and so is my hubby. we got married last Summer after knowing each other for a while (since high sch) but had a cautious relationship (coz we're from old fashion backgrounds...
    Lexian Lexian 26-30 1 Response Aug 12

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    I'm having the hardest time in my marriage.... I'm been cheated on more than once and i'm trying to move past it but he still doesn't show me the love I need. I still feel like i'm...
    mixedfeelings2014 mixedfeelings2014 26-30, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    More of the same. Just more of the same. How does he think there's any room for a relationship when he walks in, says hi and heads straight to the study and his computer. He puts...
    starsarenotgreen starsarenotgreen 22-25 8 Responses Jul 21

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    My wife spends no time with since are child was born 7 years ago she still sleeps with her every night go to bed at 630 i have dinner on my own when i get back from work. i try to...
    shah0703 shah0703 41-45, M 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I sit at home all day we don't have many off together but he always find things to do rather than stay home or go somewhere with me. I know why he's not in love with me he would...
    devilseye1996 devilseye1996 36-40, F Jul 23

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    My husband ignores me and his depression has weighed me down for over a decade. I have never really had a sex life, and my self esteem is non existent. I am the chief breadwinner...
    teachemmom teachemmom 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 25

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    Loneliness has become the norm rather than the exception. I find myself trying to stay busy but it always catches me and surrounds me like a cloak of darkness. It sucks out the...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 4 Responses Jul 25

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    How quickly things can change.... I was very happy 2 years ago, but I had no idea what was going on behind my back. I have made the decision to try to stay in my 17 year...
    MrJedi MrJedi 36-40, M 5 Responses Jul 28

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