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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 39 People

    The Silence..

    I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had were dreams. Dreams of what marriage would be like, I even still have what I wrote at 14 of what I wanted (hoped) my...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Same Here

    I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2 completely different people living different lives.   We got married at 21, we already had 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing??

    The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her, get her to school, pick her up, play all that goes into raising a child.  She is with me 90% of the time and wants not to be...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him.

    I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me quit my job over 4 years ago to go out on the road with him and promised to take care of me. A year later he was unemployed and we were living on...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Married But Alone

    I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to give him company where he works.  Now I came to my city and joined my previous job as my husband is disgusting, he...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    I've been married for 5 years now.

    We separated for a whole year but of course nothing has changed. It never does. He comes home after 9 every night and when he is home, he doesn't want to spend any real time. Talking is out of the question. We just start arguing over anything. We could be talking about bath...
    LIlypad30 LIlypad30 26-30, F 1 Response Jun 16, 2015

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    Related Experiences

    After 20 years. I can't help but think what it would be like to be with a girl 20 years or younger then me
    azcat6928 azcat6928 46-50, M 4 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    My husband is a good man, his job is 24/7 on call plus scheduled 8 hr days. I never know when he will be home, change plans, or show up for our child. I chose to marry him at 18...
    Ineedlovetoo Ineedlovetoo 31-35, F 6 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this. The title says it all. I love my wife but if you are in this group you understand my reasons for being here. Chances are if...
    andyreed andyreed 51-55, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Thought my husband was going to finally spend time with us..... yeah..... he's currently sleeping on the couch.... asked why he doesn't want to sleep next to me.... apparently he...
    Samy27 Samy27 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    So, I need to vent a little. My husband didn't sleep in our bed again last night. I was apparently rude to him. Wonder what tonight's excuse is going to be. I don't know where...
    Samy27 Samy27 26-30, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    I married too soon...I should have experienced life a little more before settling down...is it so bad to want to FEEL something? Is it so bad to fantasize about all of those sexy...
    HowDeepIsYourLove HowDeepIsYourLove 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    I came on here feeling really bad about everything until I read others post .I have it bad but there is so many people on here that are going through worst . I just want to say I...
    lilmousey1 lilmousey1 36-40, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    i really hate this happen in my marriage . i dont dream a perfect man with handsome face, unlimited money, showering me with fancy stuff. no no no what i want is a man who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I woke up sick. But it was my baby niece's birthday so with a pounding head and I got m three kids up, fed, dressed and off to her two birthday parties. I took them to the first...
    dzse dzse 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    My husband ran out to get cigarettes 4 hours ago. I hope I don't have to bail him out of jail again, from another DUI.. What a fun life....
    KISSB00TS KISSB00TS 46-50, F 13 Responses Jan 31

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    It's a horrible feeling! I hate it.
    pdm01215 pdm01215 26-30, M Jan 30

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    What is reset sex? Does it last ?
    ttsj0120s ttsj0120s 56-60, F 3 Responses Jan 30

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    I told him I want a divorce. Scariest moment of my life. But I'm tired of dangling from his string.
    dzse dzse 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 29

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    I hate going to bed alone every night. I hate sitting in this house day after day watching my husband play his stupid games or watch his movies. I numb myself. I numb myself with...
    Freckles1969 Freckles1969 46-50, F 13 Responses Jan 29

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    I would never leave my wife, no matter what goes on we still love each other but...... This afternoon I got so tired of all the negativity she tosses out. I struggle a lot with...
    boldtimer boldtimer 66-70, M Jan 29

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    Hi are there any fun busty ladies reading this thread wanna chat? if so Pm me back......
    teddyboylovesboobs teddyboylovesboobs 41-45, M Jan 29

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    Ok here goes....I used to be on here years ago but decided to quit because I thought I would be able to sort out my life ...but seemingly to no avail. So here is my story. I am...
    worldtravels123 worldtravels123 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    Most of the time we don't talk much. He assumes I know his feelings. Still it would be great to hear him say it or to want to do things with me.
    tamanne tamanne 41-45, F 8 Responses Jan 27

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    I will be there in Mumbai for few days any one there to have fun
    priyanujdev priyanujdev 26-30, M Jan 27

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    Slowly but surely fading into the background, and no one is noticing. Efforts to get attention, to actively be and feel a valued part of this family, of this marriage, have failed...
    isanisland isanisland 41-45, M 2 Responses Jan 26

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    Not sure why I stay.. Maybe I like the hurt. I filed for divorce and he convinced me to stay just to ignore me. I think he knows how bad I want to be a family for our child.
    cat0814 cat0814 26-30, F 22 Responses Jan 25

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    I haven't been married for a long time but I feel alone even when he's here. He doesn't understand my struggle with addiction and thinks that just because I crave it that means I...
    justme081 justme081 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I've been married for quiet some time, couldn't get over him cheating but tried to make it work for our daughter. Now I just feel so alone.
    cat0814 cat0814 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    Snowed in with my estranged husband. He asked for a divorce 6 months ago and has yet to file for even a legal separation. He moved out but comes home daily supposedly to see the...
    dzse dzse 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I feel like having someone to stand me against the wall and look at me directly in my eyes very closely and tell me how much he loves me. In a very passionate manner, from deep of...
    Diego79 Diego79 36-40, F Jan 25

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    Hello. It seems like so many people have similar experiences to mine.. I want to say I feel reassured but that's not right I guess. I'm a 46 year old man, my wife is 43. We've been...
    therainhorse therainhorse 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 25

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    Funny how things change...for 19 Years much was a refuser....self centred....mean....cruel and due to his sexual neglect I strayed from the marriage. My friends that are following...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 9 Responses Jan 24

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    As I sit alone again today as my husband is busy helping other people, I wonder why I am so unhappy... Crazy thing is when I ask him for something or to go out and do some with me...
    Thatsodd35 Thatsodd35 41-45, F 7 Responses Jan 23

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    I cry most nights and take my antidepressants at night just so i can fall asleep. Why does he hate me so much but still here. I think he's here for the kids and not me. He won't...
    rosiebonilla rosiebonilla 31-35, F 7 Responses Jan 21

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    I am a married man from Philippines. Any female takers? Lol
    citygensan citygensan 41-45, M Jan 21

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    I never thought my life would feel this way.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 21

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    I am a married man, another fact would be that I am 25 and have been married since I was 18. I have 3 beautiful, smart, wonderful children. 2 are mine, and is my step daughter. My...
    hypnoticman2627 hypnoticman2627 22-25, M Jan 21

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    I've been married for 5 years now and I love my wife but we are more like roommates then husband and wife. We haven't had sex in over two years. I love conpanionship and im missing...
    piercedsoul piercedsoul 31-35, M 5 Responses Jan 21

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    Today again. After a busy day for both of us, now it's 12:30 at night. We were at bed since 11. She is sleeping from then on.....but unfortunately I am still awake.
    ess2md ess2md 36-40, M Jan 21