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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him.

    I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me quit my job over 4 years ago to go out on the road with him and promised to take care of me. A year later he was unemployed and we were living on...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    The Silence..

    I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had were dreams. Dreams of what marriage would be like, I even still have what I wrote at 14 of what I wanted (hoped) my...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing??

    The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her, get her to school, pick her up, play all that goes into raising a child.  She is with me 90% of the time and wants not to be...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    Same Here

    I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2 completely different people living different lives.   We got married at 21, we already had 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    Married But Alone

    I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to give him company where he works.  Now I came to my city and joined my previous job as my husband is disgusting, he...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    So I guess I'm just like every other person here that says they are married but lonely. So to start, I have been with my wife for 20+ years, and married for almost 18. We met...
    dgob1 dgob1 41-45, M 5 Responses Feb 6

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    I thought I was lonely before I got married, but now I feel lonelier being married because I feel like I can't socialize and enjoy things anymore without my wife getting on my case...
    Benster5 Benster5 36-40 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Since being on here. It is amazing how many people. Be it women or men. Who are in the same situation as me. Married but lonely. No affection. No attention. A bit uncomfortable...
    lefty67 lefty67 46-50, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Married for almost 8 years, moved out on New Years. Was unhappy for a while, I wanted to leave. Now here I am, hurt and alone. He was a giant jerk, controlling and verbally abusive...
    Taaaaaahny Taaaaaahny 31-35, F Feb 3

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    Hello, i need to share some things because i feel i would freak out soon :( So, i got married in november 2014 abroad with a local man after 4 years relationship i am alone in...
    Boredaway Boredaway 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    I've been married for several years, and thought we had the fairy tale marriage. The marriage that beat the odds, where love conquers all, until last week, when my husband was...
    Lanna40 Lanna40 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 17

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    I'm so sad that my marriage has turned into a lonely void. This is not my first rodeo. I'm 68 and married my husband 10 years ago after the breakup of my 28 year marriage. The...
    Sosad2015 Sosad2015 66-70, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    Here I sit alone in the dark...again. How did this day start off so right and end so miserably wrong? How have I arrived at this place in my life after 20 years? I remember a...
    Lanna40 Lanna40 36-40, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    My life is sooo miserable.... i stay days at home.... i just cook ... clean..... wash clothes.... i have no fun in my life.... today is satrday ... my husband is off.... intead we...
    sahanara sahanara 36-40, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    Well, been married almost two decades and I love my wife. The problem is that sexually we have dwindled away to nothing, for a variety of reasons, while my sex drive has increased...
    Dratdarn Dratdarn 41-45, M 8 Responses Feb 6

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    We got married last April. Yea, it's early in the marriage, but ever since that day things have gone straight downhill. We don't have sex, ever. Last time was December I think. She...
    firemedic12 firemedic12 26-30, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    Not really alone but I never do anything and I'm sick of it
    StephyLynnJoe StephyLynnJoe 18-21, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm so alone. I yearn and ache for a passionate kiss, a hug, a touch ...anything to show me he desires me. It never comes and it hurts. It makes me want to cheat just to have a...
    Malynda100 Malynda100 46-50, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    Surrounded by people every day, but feeling very alone. I want to feel like I am desirable, instead I just feel like I am being tolerated.
    Winterwolf1231 Winterwolf1231 46-50, M 9 Responses Jan 26

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    He's a good man, and I know we love each other in our way... But I'm just a passionate person with a pretty high sex drive and a need to talk and listen. He seems so content to go...
    katyebrooke katyebrooke 22-25, F 10 Responses Feb 13

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    Looks like another valentines day alone. We have been together 7 years and never have been able to have a Valentine's day together because of his job. Same with birthdays...
    kayroxyoursox kayroxyoursox 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 13

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    ️Iam 7 years no love life but I hope some day I will find the best one that can understand my situation .
    verlaidamendoza28 verlaidamendoza28 56-60, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    wait.....does that even make any since? anyways, there is a difference between love and marriage. i bet you've heard that one before too many times. Getting married has to be done...
    ThatOneSomaliGirl ThatOneSomaliGirl 13-15, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Hi, I don't know who yo turn to, so I decides to post in here because u can't talk about this with my husband. we got married last may after almost two years of dating, he's not...
    csa0883 csa0883 26-30, F 7 Responses Feb 8

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    I want to wake up next to the woman i married. Look at her, smile, kiss, make love! I want to go to bed, look at the one i married. smile, Kiss, make love! I know life isn't all...
    speedrcr67 speedrcr67 46-50, M 6 Responses Jan 26

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    I got married to get out of a ****** fishing town, to the first guy, on the Internet, who gave a crap about me. He's a dork, loser and insensitive to my many needs. Tenderness...
    mrsklemzak mrsklemzak 36-40, F Feb 6

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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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    Had already posted: I want to wake up next to the woman i married. Look at her, smile, kiss, make love! I want to go to bed, look at the one i married. smile, Kiss, make love! I...
    lefty67 lefty67 46-50, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Actually had another woman flirt with me and she knew I was married and my circumstances. Not sure how to feel now that it has happened.
    WantsToBeADad WantsToBeADad 41-45, M 5 Responses Jan 26

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    So what do you do when you come to the realization that the one you are married to will never be what you want them to be. I know that in today's society we tend to set up...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 12 Responses Feb 3

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    We're currently casting a new show looking for monogamous married couples to participate in a 21-day social experiment for a new series that will explore the boundaries of their...
    tinaeisnernews tinaeisnernews 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    I have been married to a woman for 30 years who was abused by a relative when she was young. She is now frigid, but we are good friends. What do you do in a situation like this...
    MRTKD1 MRTKD1 51-55, M 4 Responses Feb 5

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    I'm not actually married and don't plan to be, as I'm desperately unhappy and have no physical contact with my partner, marriage will complicate things even more. He is not...
    Loubelou30 Loubelou30 36-40, F 8 Responses Feb 5

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    Ever try to just have a friend to flirt with? Someone who won't judge and you can actually tell anything to? Oh yeah that person was my husband until we got married:(
    gypsie420 gypsie420 31-35, F 24 Responses Feb 17

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    Ok here goes. I am new here and this is my first post. I would just like to know how long is too long to wait for intimacy? My wife and I have been cold now for over 4 months...
    stronzo stronzo 46-50, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Its so shameful to say, but it is just the truth. Sometimes we go out on dates, like we will go have dinner and literally sit there and not say anything to each other. He is...
    aurismith aurismith 26-30, F 12 Responses 4 days ago

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    Im feeling lonely we married been with each other 9yr. Most time I spend lonely when Im home from work she spend all night talking to her friends on the phone. No time for me
    thatguyxx2 thatguyxx2 36-40, M 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I love my husband, I (mostly) love our life together. But I'm not happy. Our child and his job take up a lot of time. I pursue my own interests and hobbies, but he never has...
    CowgirlQT CowgirlQT 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    There is just something missing in my relationship. I love her and everything. But I have lost part of the connection. There are just a lot of things that are really bothering...
    Alston76 Alston76 36-40, M 8 Responses Jan 27

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    You ever want to do something crazy, with the spouse? Knowing it would never happen. Just thinking of all the white snow we had last night. Take them. Tell them to *****. Ran...
    speedrcr67 speedrcr67 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 2

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    I am also a mime, I live inside an invisible box. My gloved hands touch the invisible walls every day, they feel the dimensions, and they discover anew the boundaries of my...
    Halwende Halwende 61-65, M 3 Responses Feb 2

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    It's seems like my desires for sex and kissing are getting stronger. I am starting to have dreams about it more and more frequently. I used to watch **** but stopped doing that...
    Monty0809 Monty0809 51-55, M Feb 8

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    i have been in a deep state of contemplation all day. i truly feel it is time for me to file for divorce and move on. my only fear, worry and concern is that my husband will...
    ladydiva34 ladydiva34 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 8

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    I don't actually. But, I do need to, just... **** someone. I need to.
    AmberToes AmberToes 31-35, M Feb 13

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    Don't get me wrong I love my wife and my family, but when she's not around, when she goes out with friends I feel lonely. When I get lonely my mind worries bout what she's up to...
    stonecold31625 stonecold31625 26-30, M 7 Responses Feb 13