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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

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    Married But Alone

    I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to give him company where he works.  Now I came to my city and joined my previous job as my husband is disgusting, he...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Same Here

    I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2 completely different people living different lives.   We got married at 21, we already had 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    The Silence..

    I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had were dreams. Dreams of what marriage would be like, I even still have what I wrote at 14 of what I wanted (hoped) my...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him.

    I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me quit my job over 4 years ago to go out on the road with him and promised to take care of me. A year later he was unemployed and we were living on...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing??

    The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her, get her to school, pick her up, play all that goes into raising a child.  She is with me 90% of the time and wants not to be...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    I'm married. I went out last night with friends. I meet a beautiful and interesting girl. We talked for a while and was fun. Nothing happened. I didn't specifically say that I am...
    amIstarryeyed amIstarryeyed 36-40, M 3 days ago

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    Anyone also Married but Lonely ,its tough .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M 5 Responses Oct 3

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    Married but Lonely! I too deserve love and affection. Why the hell people don't understand a simple thing, Life is short and its must be lived to its fullest. Tried and still...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 4

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    Been married 35 years and feel so alone sometimes. Friendship is gone and sex is just a chore. Would love to chat with a female in the same situation
    citygolfer citygolfer 56-60, M 4 Responses Oct 10

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    It would be a lot to start from the beginning so I will try to hit some key points. I would hope that there might be others out there that will know how to deal with these issues...
    Mc71181 Mc71181 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    It's sad to be with someone but never be happy. Always longing for what your missing. Someone to cuddle with me during a movie, hold hands as we walk, little love letter with...
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    So why is it hard to leave but want to find someone to take that empty space. I want to find someone to care about me. I don't want to leave where I'm at because of my children.
    genoclearwater genoclearwater 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    I feel so alone. I am stuck in an unfulfilled marriage. I know it is the cliche thing for a man to say but it is true. I do love my wife, but I do not think the feeling is...
    tiredgoodguy tiredgoodguy 26-30, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am recently married, and have been with her for 2 1/2 years now. We have lived together for about a year and half. Prior to that we where in a long distant relationship and we...
    TEAVEE TEAVEE 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 10

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    I met my FF about five years ago through work, and now I consider her one of my best friends. I am happily married to a terrific woman, so felt no need to pursue a friendship with...
    regitca regitca 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    Married for 10 years but it has lost it's spark . Looking to have conversations with other married people in the same situation .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 29

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    I have been married for 10 years but has been feeling lonely . She has been like a best friend but now we barely even talk . Its sucks and feels like a single again .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M 5 Responses Sep 28

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    I'm married and curious about being with a man and would love to tell a woman about it to get her perspective
    ramsay20 ramsay20 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Married for 10 years has lost its spark . Looking to make new friends who are going through the same to talk about our situations .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M Oct 4

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    been married 18 years and a stay home dad for 16 years.. the last 10 years I told my wife I was unhappy and wanted out and she did very little to change and now that I got a job...
    azcat6969 azcat6969 41-45, M 6 Responses Oct 7

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    I have been married for 3 years and have been together for 9. This past year I have discovered his affairs, his alcoholism, his manipulation and many other things. We split over...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 29 Responses Oct 10

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    I have been married for 25 years, and just this year I have become more lonely than I ever imagined I could become. My wife and I had always been so close and treasured each other...
    747Diamond 747Diamond 46-50, M 3 Responses Oct 11

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    I've been married 15 years and it feels like I'm living in HELL! I am so lonely and need male attention and affection. At this point I don't really want to deal with my husband...
    Mcnikki Mcnikki 41-45 4 Responses Oct 11

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    I should be happy! I have an awesome husband (even though he is no where near perfect) who takes care of me very well. I'm so bored sexually I could pull my hair out. I resent him...
    zanyzoey zanyzoey 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    42 about to be 43 married man who is very depressed about being lonely. That explains it. Maybe not depressed just do not understand it. My wife started sleeping on the couch...
    bbaffert bbaffert 41-45, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Married to a good woman, 2 great kids. The passion is gone and I find we have nothing in common anymore. I get bored listening to her talk about her day. I've thought about leaving...
    Fogg111 Fogg111 36-40, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    I still consider myself to be young...ikr but I am at least to me. I have been married for 21 yrs. My husband is currently sick and yes I Love him deeply to my core. But he can't...
    LmC93 LmC93 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I still consider myself to be young...ikr but I am at least to me. I have been married for 21 yrs. My husband is currently sick and yes I Love him deeply to my core. But he can't...
    LmC93 LmC93 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Sometimes I feel disconnected from my husband and my heart begins to ache. Sometimes I feel foolish, like I rushed into marriage. I know it was God's timing and His timing is...
    watermelonbliss watermelonbliss 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 22

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    Wow. She just called. We spent about a half an hour talking about anything and everything. She talked a lot about college and her new job. She has no idea that I have this boyish...
    dcguy123 dcguy123 36-40, M 3 Responses Sep 24

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    Some of have no lack of sexual contact but without the love or connection. Others get no sex and know the other person cares for them but here is no connection. How come it...
    Jakomcbean Jakomcbean 46-50, M 4 Responses Sep 28

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    I want to be stolen. I can't justify leaving her yet. I'd have nothing. She would have nothing. It would just create a lot of pain and solve nothing. I don't hate her but we...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M Sep 28

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    I feel so lonely, I try to talk to my wife but I'm always shut down. Intimacy is something lacking but I can't seem to get her interested in building more. I need a friend.
    blackvolt blackvolt 26-30, M 3 Responses Oct 2

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    I love my husband, but I have no other friends here and I feel lonely a lot. I hate the city I live in and have nothing to do here but work at my horrible job. I have no social...
    papercastles papercastles 22-25, F 3 Responses Oct 5

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    I wish I could figure out how to "detach" emotionally so that I won't get so frustrated with my husband. I don't want to divorce but, I also don't want to be so mad and grouchy all...
    consciouslyinsightful consciouslyinsightful 31-35, F 6 Responses Oct 5

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    I thank you all for your help. I'm so confused and don't know what I want any longer. But I do know that loneliness is not it.
    Mcnikki Mcnikki 41-45 2 Responses Oct 12

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    I really want to have a divorce but cant afford one right now. I have been separated for 9 months. so ya whats up ya'll
    colorpurple33 colorpurple33 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    At what point do you just give up? I am already past that point. I'm unhappy and becoming more miserable. I told him today I want a divorce and he had to leave. He just laughed and...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I used to cry a lot cos I cared too much, and it hurt too much. But there comes a turning point where you decide that you deserve better, so hurt changes to anger and you just...
    sallycamel sallycamel 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Our 17 year wedding anniversary is today. We are both grieving for the loss of our beloved cat, Dunkin, but I still remembered..... He didn't. I didn't mention it, just let him...
    funlecy1 funlecy1 46-50, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    ....and it's a strange comfort to find so many others in similar positions... Looking for intimacy and fun- in the true senses of both words- any other UK based souls around?
    tryagainuk tryagainuk 46-50, M Sep 21

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    Laying on my bed, with the windows open listening to the sound of the rain.... The curtains blow about softly in the breeze as it escapes into my bedroom.... The dim lamp casting...
    veeshybi veeshybi 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 22

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    It's late and I'm lonely and want to feel love
    NJLonely NJLonely 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 27

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    I'm crushed and continue to be. Like an orphaned child who is reminded of his present situation in contrast to the potential of his new life only to awake and find it was a dream...
    ukblak ukblak 41-45, M 3 Responses Sep 27

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    I live in a marriage that has lost it's passion and that spark . more like just friends now . Looking to talk with someone who is in the same position .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 28

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    http://youtu.be/VS2Hp9Ck9mQ
    Inspireme1 Inspireme1 46-50, F 1 Response Sep 29

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    Why do we feel lonely when there are people around us?
    sad2014 sad2014 36-40, F 46 Responses Oct 6

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