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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing??

    The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her, get her to school, pick her up, play all that goes into raising a child.  She is with me 90% of the time and wants not to be...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him.

    I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me quit my job over 4 years ago to go out on the road with him and promised to take care of me. A year later he was unemployed and we were living on...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    The Silence..

    I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had were dreams. Dreams of what marriage would be like, I even still have what I wrote at 14 of what I wanted (hoped) my...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Same Here

    I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2 completely different people living different lives.   We got married at 21, we already had 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    Married But Alone

    I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to give him company where he works.  Now I came to my city and joined my previous job as my husband is disgusting, he...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Unhappily married but comfortable. I would leave in a heartbeat if not for my 3 young girls. I have no where to go with them. Really a sucky situation.
    Hotmessmama3 Hotmessmama3 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    Do any other married but lonely people here feel emotionally paralyzed by the loneliness in your marriage? I do. It is not every single day but often enough to be significant to me...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 15 Responses Jul 16

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    I am married but I often feel lonely in the marriage. I feel really misunderstood and emotionally rejected often. The emotional void pushes me further and further away to the...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 32 Responses Jul 1

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    I think that I am going to making more of my marriage posts in the "I am Married" group. I realized that although I feel lonely at times the general members that post in "Married...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    live a quiet peaceful lonely life, married but no spark
    johnboy4311 johnboy4311 61-65 3 Responses Jul 6

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    And the other way around...married men should avoid other women, single or not.
    staysecret staysecret 22-25, F 37 mins ago

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    2nd marriage. I am a REAL christian. I am alone in my marriage. Always being rejected. It has been almost 6 years. I tried to commit suicide 2 months ago. I took 50+ percocet. I...
    winterbutterfly winterbutterfly 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    August of 2014, will be 16 months since he walked out the door. Never leaving me with our boys to raise alone. Some ppl think I'm crazy for saying this, but I'm actually glad he...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 12

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    The reason I am alone is we are seperated. I think we really need to change marriage laws. First divorce is way too easy. The no fault divorce is an easy way out. People need...
    Dlgadlga Dlgadlga 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    Three years ago I caught my husband texting younger women that he worked with. He said he sent some inappropriate text messages but never had a physical affair. He tried to...
    kelly121994 kelly121994 41-45, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so alone. My wife doesn't seem to love me anymore. I know she does but I've put her through a lot and it's created a terrible rift between us. I used to do drugs. I would...
    ManifestJB ManifestJB 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I would love to have a with a married women I would give you suck a pleasure I'll give you everything you desire
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M Jul 4

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    First 4th in 8 years I spent alone, it's getting harder and harder to be a married yet single mom!
    LonelyLish LonelyLish 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 5

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    I have a bit of good news... First, I want to thank all of you that were kind, compassionate, friendly, and comforting to me. I appreciate ALL the advice and I seriously took it...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I have found that there is some misunderstanding about what married and lonely seems to mean. There are different ways a person can feel lonely in a marriage. It can be emotionally...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 10 Responses Jul 2

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    Well ladies and gentleman it blew up in my face. We get here and we had a nice afternoon of me giving him exactly what he wanted. We had fun and played. It was nice just the way he...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 4

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    It's been eight months since my wife told me about her affair and we are trying to work things out. She is distant and our relationship is rough. I know this is to be expected I...
    Rmoss73 Rmoss73 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    I thought about more that I could say and left off...I wake every morning smiling and singing. I care for him deeply, faithfully serving him. I keep an immaculate house. I cook...
    winterbutterfly winterbutterfly 41-45, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    Once again I sit alone on Friday night. It really wouldn't matter if he were here, I would still be alone.
    lonelyone80 lonelyone80 31-35, F 20 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate sitting at home alone when my husband goes out with friends or partying. Our two year old daughter is being babysat and I am sitting at home pregnant with our second while...
    blondie529 blondie529 22-25, F 9 Responses Jun 29

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    Tonight I medicated my self with booze and pills hoping to squash this feeling of loneliness. I lay here alone in the dark and I can hear him snoring in the next room. My head is...
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 8 Responses Jul 4

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    I pursued my husband when we started dating. He didn't want to ruin our friendship. But I persisted. I have always been the driving force in our sex life an I think it's safe to...
    gracefortoday gracefortoday 26-30, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I am 24. I've been married to my husband for just over 2 years. We have no children. We met in college, dated for only 6 months before getting engaged, and were married almost 2...
    swimcoachpro swimcoachpro 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 1

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    About 18 years ago, I met an amazing guy. We really connected & had amazing chemistry. At the time he had a set 3 mo old twin boys & I discovered that I was pregnant by my ex. So...
    Angeeb Angeeb 41-45, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Im so lonely even being married cos i married the wrong man, cos i wanted to have children so much. Now i have consequences of it. I live in loveless marriage. The only joy is my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 10

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    Well I have been married for 3 years.. Don't know why I married him I guess I loved him then, now u just feel like nothing. He doesn't pay attention to me, whenever I'm sad he...
    pzjekt pzjekt 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I would love to have a male friend ... Preferably married to share experiences with ... I'm 48 female looking for friendship and male perspective.
    SunniDaze SunniDaze 46-50, F 18 Responses Jul 3

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    I am looking for someone that's married and lonely Ias for me I'm going through the same thing the sexual feeling is that there no more she is always rejecting me
    dmedina513 dmedina513 36-40, M 3 Responses Jul 6

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    My wife touched my arm with her hand today for a second. Thats the first time she has touched me in two months. We've been through hell the last couple years. She's had a few...
    emmajames41 emmajames41 41-45, M 9 Responses Jul 7

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    Wtf?? What such irony........why would you think about loving someone else if the person you love is right there?? Honestly it wasn't love that brought you together, that's what's...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    I'm married to someone who will always choose his "music" and friends over his family. I'm constantly having inner conflict about our marriage.
    Mimi602 Mimi602 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    Happily married what F#@# oxymoron!
    ReallyBill ReallyBill 36-40, M 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I am married and lonely. My husband can't carry on an intelligent conversation with me. The sex now lasts 30 seconds. I had an affair once and had the best sex! He is now in...
    anavay anavay 41-45, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been married for almost 13 years, but it's technically been over for at least half of that. It really hit home to me tonight, how much I crave that bond that should be...
    PinkContessa PinkContessa 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 5

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    Hi again fellow married & lonely EP members, Well we are going to try it again. He (my husband) did not want to talk about last night. I did not press the issue. However, he was...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 5

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    I have been married to the same man for a little over Ten years. With dating and everything we've been together for almost 12. Problem is off and on I've always wondered if he was...
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 11

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    i found this site and wanted to know if my desires are normal. i have been married for ten years but we have sex once a week only, on certain rare occasions maybe twice. i have...
    remydodol remydodol 36-40, F 8 Responses Jul 16

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    I am married with 3 beautiful kids. For the past year my marriage has fallen apart and I don't know what to do. My husband is a functioning alcoholic and is also addicted to OTC...
    jah2798 jah2798 31-35, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Been separated for over a year, my husband lives with someone else but was over the other day, tells me he loves me over and over, refers to me as his wife, kisses me for 20 mins...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    My husband and I are very much in love but he works ALL the time because he feels like he is a bad husband if I make more money than him. I have two college degrees, and although...
    happybbw happybbw 41-45, F 6 Responses Jul 2

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    I want something totally different. I know many days he does as well. Yet there are these tiny strings of love that bind us. I have no sexual desire. Just these little strings of...
    sunny3875 sunny3875 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 4

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