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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

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    Same Here - I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    The Silence.. - I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Married But Alone - I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing?? - The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him. - I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Ok I had a story here but deleted it stupidly. I won't delete this one. I am married but its not that great right now. Often I feel ignored. I do not blame him though because...
    charmedrainbow charmedrainbow 41-45, F 9 Responses Mar 17

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    Well I guess I can leave this group soon as I will no longer be married. The hurt is still unbelievable. She now said, "I can no longer love you like a wife should love her...
    Brianst Brianst 41-45, M Mar 23

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    It feels like Im a single mom. We live in seperate houses right now. Not by choice. We own a chicken house and since theres a new disease going around that kills chickens he had to...
    momof3grls2014 momof3grls2014 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    Well, more like an extended engagement - for two reasons, saving money for marriage, and his seemingly disinterest in planning for it. We've been together for 10 years (he ignored...
    irritatednutbar irritatednutbar 36-40 7 Responses Mar 31

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    My husband of 8 years had an affair last year with a co-worker. He says it's over with her and that he wants to work on our marriage, but I always question if it is true or not...
    crowngirl54 crowngirl54 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I am almost in 17 years of my marriage with two angle girls. My husband is a nice man but has never been able to touch my feelings. He says there is no problem... I passed a 2years...
    Motheroftwoangles Motheroftwoangles 36-40, F 21 Responses Apr 4

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    I have more than 120 characters to ask this question. How do you know if your sig.other uses his/her mental illness/learning disability as a crutch-excuse-learned helplessness OR...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    I met my first true love in my second year of university. We dated for two years. He was wonderful, kind and thoughtful. I broke up with him, breaking his heart and mine in the...
    garcia78 garcia78 31-35 Mar 20

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    I have been married for 17 years and the spice has been out of out for 15 years....wish I had someone who was as in love as me
    jmp2014 jmp2014 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 27

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    My husband and I have been married quit a long time. I found out he has been lying to me since the first year of our marriage. Some of his lies have been HUGE. Others, just...
    TJlonely TJlonely 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1

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    Hi! I am Sharmeen Im 28 Years Old and I have a son he is 6. Ive been Married for 7 years. I Loved My bestfriend since 16 years old. He went a different path and we separated. i...
    pinkielips22 pinkielips22 26-30, F Apr 7

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    anyone on here married over 30 years and lonely.. can make love but don't really like there spouse or feel connected with them? Nothing in common anymore and feel unloved out of...
    acountrylady acountrylady 51-55 11 Responses a week ago

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    I've been married to my high school sweetheart and I feel like I'm just going thru the motions. I am so sick and tired of coming in second to his cell phone where he's always...
    imnotjustamom imnotjustamom 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 23

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    I've been debating on posting or questioning anything about my marriage. I've been married for over 17 yrs and I can't say that we've had a bad marriage. My husband is wonderful...
    busymomof3 busymomof3 36-40, F 29 Responses Mar 24

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    I am a marriage therapist. I am in individual counseling. I've tried couples counseling ( but he gets in a bad mood each time we go). I've read many books. Spoke to many friends...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 28

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    My husband is a high flying corporate lawyer. He works long hours and spends a lot of time away from home. I too work in the corporate world and we made the decision early in our...
    Annelle70 Annelle70 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 31

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    I have been married for 19 years and have two kids. My husband has totally detached himself from me in the last few years. It all started when he meet this group of friends. He...
    MonaLeesa MonaLeesa 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 7

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    I have been married for 20 years now. I am the loneliest I have ever been in my life. My marriage started after I found out that my wife was pregnant with my oldest son, when I was...
    boatingJunkie boatingJunkie 46-50, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Married for 32 yrs. to a good man- but since we have been working together for 5 yrs. it is way too much time together and this has been very hard. I am very critical of him and we...
    irenei irenei 56-60, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    My husband is actually 12 years older than me. He treats me with no respect, constantly playing head games and even had an affair with a coworker recently. I tried counseling with...
    chrissyd72 chrissyd72 41-45, F 16 Responses Mar 17

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    So I had a dream last night that was I getting ready to cheat on my husband - like actually have sex with another man. (Apparently naughty me had two boyfriends in the dream, but...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 4 Responses Mar 18

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    The last 8 months, I have been separated from my husband. He left the house and lives at the station he's an EMT at. It really doesn't bother me he's gone, I just hate the feeling...
    OneWayHisWay OneWayHisWay 36-40, F 31 Responses Mar 20

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    Lost in my own feelings and emotions!!!! If my wife still loves me she doesn't show it and I don't feel it. All I feel is that its not the same as it was and I'm not sure it ever...
    meme111111 meme111111 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Most of my posts are sad or of melancholy (did I say that right LOL). This is a happier story. Not of my wife or marriage, god no, but of life. I went out of town for the...
    Blueeyedboy70i Blueeyedboy70i 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    Grrrrr. It is so hard to talk to my husband! Last night I got a total of about 2 hours sleep! He has sleep apnea, and has used a c-pap machine at night for a out 8-9 years. When...
    Mom321 Mom321 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 23

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    I knew marriage wasn't going to be all roses and sunshine. I wouldn't want it to either. That would be really boring. But I sure hadn't expected it to be so lonely. My husband...
    skidmom skidmom 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm 16 years older than my wife and she acts as if she's older than i am...she's a great woman but a lousy wife...i'm tired of the empty days and lonely nights...
    ykaerfnam54 ykaerfnam54 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    Sometimes I log on here hoping to see I've got a message or anything but of course nothing. Not surprised I guess.
    Tonyg199 Tonyg199 36-40, M 4 Responses Mar 27

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    My wife has had 3 affairs in as many years. We have had arguments over Facebook. I know she enjoys having an account very much and has a lot of fun cuttin' it up with her...
    DennisMenace99 DennisMenace99 31-35, M 9 Responses Mar 29

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    I tried again today to talk to my husband about our life. We are trying to move. I have looked for months now for the perfect house for us. Finally today I told him to remove...
    misticraine misticraine 56-60, F 4 Responses Mar 30

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    lauracc13 lauracc13 26-30, F Mar 31

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    i could have writen this story several times maybe i did where to begin thers a lot of back ground and history but my wife acts a talks very violently divorce is to expensive it...
    sirpercival sirpercival 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Marriage is work. But it shouldn't be draining and exhausting. Everyday I expect to be there emotionally for my children and my job ( I am a psychotherapist) but I cannot keep...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 18 Responses Apr 2

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    I am almost to nine years of marriage and 19 years in my relationship with my wife. We have two beautiful and amazing children together (ages 4 and 2). My wife recently expressed...
    Allboutmykids Allboutmykids 31-35, M 7 Responses Apr 3

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    I am freaking out right now. I can't take it anymore. I asked him to seriously leave. I think he finally sees how much pain I am in. But is this really what I want? I have been...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 26 Responses Apr 3

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    I lost my job 3 years ago and went back to school to change my career. During the process my husband said he was lonely, but I didn't know what that meant. I found out he needed...
    lonligirl lonligirl 41-45 5 Responses Apr 4

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    I would love to interact with an interesting person of the opposite sex. I enjoy stimulating conversation and the intimate sharing that can come when people trust and respect each...
    erednecsa erednecsa 41-45, M 2 Responses Apr 5

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    My husband is lying right here...he is so disengaged that he pays 0 attention to what I do. I barely say two words to him because all requests for conversation, intimacy, outings...
    Hedoesnotloveme Hedoesnotloveme 36-40, F 49 Responses Apr 6

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    I wrote recently about the problems my husband was having in coming to terms with my rather creamy bowel movements. Thanks to everyone who responded and offered their help and...
    JennyFilth JennyFilth 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    I AM SO SICK OF THIS. Talking about it. Thinking about it. I just want to love my life. I don't want marital problems. I don't want to be always thinking about the man I had an...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 15 Responses Apr 8

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    We love each other but my interests are not his. I just wish I had someone to talk to about creation, evolution, etc. He would rather talk cars and guns...
    Leighway Leighway 31-35, F 13 Responses Apr 8

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    My husband and I have been together for 21 years. He is a great man and I am truly blessed to have him in my life. I would be lost without him. But our life seems to be at a...
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 26 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm tired of being walked all over and lied to. Pick up your own dirty clothes and wash them. Make your own dinner. When you are home I always make u breakfast a along with mine...
    whatevernobody whatevernobody 31-35, F 1 Response 16 hrs ago

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    How do you know if it's love or just friendship love? Really confused...
    Shortie82 Shortie82 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 17

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    Don't ask me why I'm crying,don't ask me why I'm sad! Just take my hand and hold me tight and I will b so glad!
    Sandyshaw13 Sandyshaw13 36-40, F 10 Responses Mar 18

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    i need a pretty & sexy women...for fun :)
    yug007 yug007 26-30, M 1 Response Mar 18