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I Am Married But Am Very Alone

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    The Silence..

    I never thought I'd be saying it; marriage was supposed to be the most amazing thing ever. I grew up in an abusive home(s), abuse in so many ways, and all I had were dreams. Dreams of what marriage would be like, I even still have what I wrote at 14 of what I wanted (hoped) my...
    MzAmphetamineSpeed MzAmphetamineSpeed 26-30, F 2 Responses May 25, 2013

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    Alone Even When I Am In The Same Room With Him.

    I hate my husband. He annoys me. He never stops talking. He farts all the time (I'm not joking). He is disrespectful. He made me quit my job over 4 years ago to go out on the road with him and promised to take care of me. A year later he was unemployed and we were living on...
    Lifestorm Lifestorm 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 10, 2010

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    Same Here

    I don't think I can really shed any light on your situation, but I can sympathize.  I have been married for 8 years and we have 3 kids.  We are practically 2 completely different people living different lives.   We got married at 21, we already had 2...
    pheonix69 pheonix69 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 10, 2009

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    Married But Alone

    I am married to man just a year back. He is ceramic engineer, used to work in a reputed company. me as well a working lady in a IT firm. But I gave up my job to give him company where he works.  Now I came to my city and joined my previous job as my husband is disgusting, he...
    mona2002 mona2002 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 21, 2010

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    Am I Hanging On to Nothing??

    The key to this whole marriage is my 8 yr old daughter, who is a daddys girl.  I am the mother and father of the relationship.  I dress her, get her to school, pick her up, play all that goes into raising a child.  She is with me 90% of the time and wants not to be...
    BASEBALL26 BASEBALL26 36-40 1 Response Dec 10, 2008

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    I'm not married but I still feel lonely lol how weird is that lol anyone want to chat?
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 31-35, M May 19

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    I'm new here. I need a place to vent. I have been married for 16 years. I love him very much and I know many women would feel lucky to have him. But here is/are the problem/s. I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses May 10

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    I have been married for 3 years and have already strayed what does that say about me? I sometimes wonder why I got married and I think its cause I didnt want 2 be alone and I...
    alknisely34 alknisely34 31-35, F May 5

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    Its funny that everyone around me thinks I'm in this great marriage based on the material things that I have. Yes, my husband is a great provider and father. But, he is a horrible...
    kimberlycook kimberlycook 46-50, F 6 Responses May 3

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    Make no mistake. I am still married and I still feel isolated in my marriage. But things have gotten better. Not because my husband has matured as a person or become compassionate...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 1 Response May 13

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    I spend most of the time home alone. My wife and I work different shifts, so we don't get to spend too much time together. I get up in the morning and she is working. I get...
    happilymarriedguy happilymarriedguy 51-55, M 4 Responses May 5

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    Every time something upsetting or traumatic has happened to me since my husband and I became a couple, he has managed to **** on me. Make me feel worse. Upset me and find a way to...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 4 Responses May 14

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    I want to feel loved. I feel so alone in this world, I have no one to turn to about the pain I feel inside because I'm embarrassed of what they will think and say. Everyone thinks...
    1disguise 1disguise 22-25, F 7 Responses May 18

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    my husband likes to drink on the weekends leaving me to feel alone and less than his drinking. we've discussed his excessive drinking but it seems he doesn't care or truly realize...
    r3dclover r3dclover 26-30, F 3 Responses May 2

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    Feeling extremely alone my husband has abandoned me in more ways then one. He won't sleep in bed with me he's not there for me emotionally . We have had marriage counseling . He...
    itsme29 itsme29 26-30, F 11 Responses May 3

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    Anymore things just don't seem right, the fluid emotions and attractions that i once had have faded away. Routines have set in and i just don't even know if its worth trying or...
    TimeTwistedSoul TimeTwistedSoul 26-30, M 3 Responses May 5

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    I was talking or texting rather to a lady on here today about never saying I'd never cheat on my wife or cheat in general because it will come back and bite you if you was to tell...
    homealone70 homealone70 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I have been married for almost 10 years. My husband works very hard for our family. but, he tend to get tunnel vision and i seem to go unnoticed. i do everything i can, it doesn't...
    calimama27 calimama27 31-35, F 26 Responses May 9

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    In 2009 I created a fun blog little did you know I came across this delightful young man. He was 4 years younger than I was. He was about 22 and I was 26. Something about his charm...
    zionmarket zionmarket 31-35, F 2 Responses May 12

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    Hi im married with kids but i think im married to myself. My don't want me to work but rather me stay at home while he works, socialize with friends, and then by the time he gets...
    rawwx rawwx 31-35, F 9 Responses May 19

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    when me and my wife first got together 2 1/2 years ago, we had all these plans and everything was great so we got married. she got pregnant and we were very excited! but then i...
    darrickDrew darrickDrew 22-25, M 1 Response May 6

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    Well, I'm new here, but thought what the heck. I don't really like talking to close friends or family about my marital problems, because I feel it could create an unfavorable...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses May 11

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    It is a strange to be Married and yet feel lonely . It is like I am living with a roommate instead of a Friend and a lover. I do not want to leave but I am tired of this lonely...
    Mattracer Mattracer 36-40, M 6 Responses May 12

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    Giving EP another try I was silly and closed my account after thinking possibly all my problems would be solved after having a good week. course there are ups and downs and I know...
    midlifeknot midlifeknot 36-40, M 3 Responses May 15

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    I'm married, all in all its been a pretty good twenty years, two kids, two dogs, house in the suburbs, the standard middle class story I suppose. But over the past several years...
    wisurf wisurf 46-50, M 7 Responses May 19

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    I really don't know what to do. I think since I've been married my husband hasn't been into me. I catch him looking at other women, ****, and recently I caught him sending...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser 31-35, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    My story is long but in a nut shell, I made a very poor choice when i got married in Sept. I used a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Now I feel like nothing I say is...
    phonegirl79 phonegirl79 36-40, F 6 Responses May 11

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    Happily married "straight" guy but... I've always had curious urges. I've recently had a couple trans experiences and I'm hooked. I've also still got the itch to be with a manly...
    TXDTC TXDTC 31-35, M 3 Responses May 17

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    Is anyone on here young and married with children? I would just really like advice from someone going through the same thing. Message me
    Amg1001 Amg1001 18-21, F 4 Responses May 19

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    My marriage lacks intimacy and sex and I long for the affection of a woman... I've been married for 6yrs and 10months and I am 29yrs old. I told her so many times that is a problem...
    anomaly29 anomaly29 26-30, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Hello everyone I know how all of you feel. I have been married for 23 years and I am bored with my husband. He is a good man, but he has always had problems letting go with me...
    fullfigured7 fullfigured7 41-45, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been Married for almost 2 decades, yet, I feel like we are strangers. He has his own life, and I really don't know that I have mine, At least I know this is not what I had...
    Jenna1972 Jenna1972 41-45, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    I recently met and fell in love with someone other than my wife. She and I are both in decent but wholly unfulfiling marriages of 10+ years. We both have two young children...
    kydadof2 kydadof2 41-45, M 1 Response May 1

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    When did it happen? 15 years of marriage. Sounds nice and sounds like an achievement that I should be proud of. Yes I am proud of it and surprised too. How did I pull it along for...
    livinglifetoday livinglifetoday 36-40, M 2 Responses May 1

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    because he does not want to talk about responsibilities like paying bills etc. we lost everything last year but he is still boastful to other people that we are doing ok. he has no...
    mas4074 mas4074 36-40, F 11 Responses May 3

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    I am extremely frustrated with my marriage. I know that all relationships go through up and downs. But we have been on a down far to long. My husband hasn't said I love you...
    brittloves brittloves 26-30, F 5 Responses May 11

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    I am deeper in love with my lower than ever before. It's been almost 8 months. We are so alike, text all day, always find the time to see one another...He fills my needs...He...
    sweetfreespirit sweetfreespirit 31-35, F 6 Responses May 19

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    you don't realize how lonely your are until it's the end of the day and you have a bunch of things to talk about, but no one to tell them
    choko0541 choko0541 26-30, M 1 Response May 20

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    So I had a pretty good day. Finally got some time to do things I enjoy. Had a nice sleep. All those things. Then my husband comes home.... and while backing into his parking spot...
    SnowflakeWonder SnowflakeWonder 31-35, F 3 Responses May 20

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    I am not new to this site but I guess new to the fact I have become in touch with reality....for years I have surpressed the feelings of lonliness, no desire from my husband but...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 9 Responses 3 days ago

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    How can you live with someone for 25 years and they just don't even show that they care if your sad, sick or unhappy. I just need someone to hug me and notice that something is...
    Tdisney Tdisney 46-50, F 35 Responses 2 days ago

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