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I Am Married But Lonely and Lost

Still in love with my spouse but somewhere along the way we lost ourselves and each other. Most days it seems it feels like you are living with your bestfriend 215 People

    Not Sure If She Is In Love With Me Anymore - All of a sudden things changed for us.  She was becoming very standoffish so I confronted her in a nice way to ask her what was wrong...
    lostfather69 lostfather69 41-45 6 Responses Dec 21, 2011

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    Want My Best Friend and Husband Back - I have been married for 9 years and the first few years were wonderful and exciting.  I got ill and still am its hard for me to do most...
    Livinginpeace Livinginpeace 41-45, F 9 Responses Jul 18, 2008

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    I am at the point I am regretting not turning my back before! I am so lost on what course of action I should take! I feel very unappreciated, unloved, not cared for, and the last...
    Abrow032 Abrow032 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 13, 2013

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    Time To End It - After almost 36 years of marriage I honestly think it is time to end it. I have been a faithful, devoted wife all these years. I have always taken care of him...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 5 Responses Jul 15, 2011

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    The Secretary - I've been married to my husband for 4yrs and he is absolutely the love of my life, but he's has expressed a need for a "secretary". He says he's getting very...
    rwilliams356 rwilliams356 26-30, F Nov 18, 2013

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    Lonely As Ever - Im so lonely. My fience always always works long hours and I never see him. I've moved states so I have no friends. The area Im in is full of horrible people so...
    Jovalley Jovalley 22-25, F 9 Responses Oct 19, 2009

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    I'm Little Bit Confused - I'm married for 4 years now and everything is just perfect for first 3 years.Now my wife gets upset and complain for every little things.I'm still loving...
    prn56221 prn56221 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 17, 2012

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    How I Got Cancer And Still A Live But I Miss Your Hands In Mine - all a round me smoked but not i so i was thinking as they did i did for most of my life but on day i had a bump...
    lov2cum4u lov2cum4u 56-60, M Nov 19, 2013

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    I'm Lost He Makes Me Lonely - Which is weird because being married is where you are supposed to feel  safe and part of a team, the two of you becoming one, or perhaps I am...
    spiderb spiderb 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    I am so lost right now. I've had a crap weekend too.......... Sometimes I just want to find a corner to curl up and die in. The only thing keeping me going is my children......
    DailyEdition DailyEdition 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 19

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    I´m So Sick Of Feeling Alone - i got married 3 months ago, we lived together for 3 years before that.When i look back i just think i have made so many bad decisions that i am so...
    tampax4 tampax4 26-30 2 Responses Feb 17, 2011

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    Im Married And Lonely - I have been married to my wife for 4 years, today. She is not an affecionate person when we met. I developed that habit over it. The only tine she liked to...
    Willf289 Willf289 31-35 2 Responses Oct 3, 2012

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    Complicated - I am married for 3years now...while we had good harmony before marriage..things were not the same since day one...aside of the fact that he has low libido and...
    SoulMatee SoulMatee 31-35 2 Responses Mar 8, 2012

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    Lost in my own feelings and emotions!!!! If my wife still loves me she doesn't show it and I don't feel it. All I feel is that its not the same as it was and I'm not sure it ever...
    meme111111 meme111111 36-40, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Unbelievable Marriage - I am extremely lonely in my marriage and do not know which way to turn. She doesn't communicate her feelings with me and it is driving me up the wall. I...
    onelovin onelovin 41-45 1 Response Nov 19, 2011

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    I am a married and cannot get my husband to open himself up with me. He has so must bottled inside of him and it is visible but he just tries to hide himself from me. He has a very...
    conbit conbit 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    Newlywed & Lonely - I am 41 & he's 45. I first told him I loved him when I was 12 years old. Our lives took us in different directions & we traveled some very hard roads but...
    lovemyhusbandbutsolonely lovemyhusbandbutsolonely 41-45 5 Responses Sep 19, 2010

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    I Don't Know If I Ever Did - When I met my now husband I was 22 and inexperienced in life, love or anything for that matter. I was good at never saying no and always aiming to make...
    dp18 dp18 22-25 2 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    Merry Christmas to you and yours :) Today I gave a book to my husband. It's a book about some guy on Anchorman. His thing, not mine. But he opened it to read it. Yes I know what...
    dsuzy dsuzy 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2013

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    I've decided to treat this like my own anonymous journal you can all see. This relationship has eroded me. In fact, this place has eroded me a little. I had a person stop talking...
    sadhusband sadhusband 31-35 5 Responses Jan 20

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    Why Does He Always Do This To Me? - I awoke this morning to feel strong arms being wrapped around me. I could feel my husband snuggling against me. I then began to feel him...
    howsab howsab 31-35, F 5 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    I am brand new here. I'm not even sure what I'm doing.... but here is my first story. My "experience" is married but lonely and lost. I picked that from the list, but I suppose...
    ryderdarkfold ryderdarkfold 41-45, M 7 Responses Dec 18, 2013

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    A Lifeless Marriage - There are so many things that get into my head which I could not control. Now, that me and my husband where totally at lost of communication. There is nothing...
    Eureka85 Eureka85 22-25, F 1 Response May 16, 2013

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    4/15/13 - Today my husband and I had a fight over something super dumb witch I'm not going into the detailed event because its just dumb but the point is he made me feel so bad and...
    Love004 Love004 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Really! - Not sure I want to tell my whole story yet.I'm just frustrated because as a women I cant say certain things to my husband without him getting pissy or turning it all...
    Jeepergirl Jeepergirl 46-50, F 2 Responses Dec 20, 2011

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    Confused, hurt & scared currently... He claims he loves me, but his actions toward me & the children say otherwise. Now granted if there is an actual emergency he will "come to...
    tbzplayplace tbzplayplace 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 16

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    I Need Advice Badly! /; - I'm in a horrible situation. I've been married for two years with a beautiful daughter. I got married at a young age, I am 20 now. I recently ran into...
    Jessicalynn423 Jessicalynn423 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Made The Mistake Of Believing. - Once upon a time I lived in NYC, with a successful career and a relationship that was going well. Not fantastically but well enough. I stupidly...
    callisto99 callisto99 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 30, 2012

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    My husband of 8 years had an affair last year with a co-worker. He says it's over with her and that he wants to work on our marriage, but I always question if it is true or not...
    crowngirl54 crowngirl54 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    I Am Lonely, And Married To Someone Who Doesn'T Appreciate Me - I have been with my husband for 5 years. In those 5 years he has cheated on me. A little over a year ago, I left him...
    mommadukes30 mommadukes30 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 7, 2013

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    I've been debating on posting or questioning anything about my marriage. I've been married for over 17 yrs and I can't say that we've had a bad marriage. My husband is wonderful...
    busymomof3 busymomof3 36-40, F 29 Responses Mar 24

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    anyone on here married over 30 years and lonely.. can make love but don't really like there spouse or feel connected with them? Nothing in common anymore and feel unloved out of...
    acountrylady acountrylady 51-55 11 Responses Apr 9

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    My husband and I have been together for 21 years. He is a great man and I am truly blessed to have him in my life. I would be lost without him. But our life seems to be at a...
    UGonnaKissMeOrNot UGonnaKissMeOrNot 31-35, F 26 Responses 3 days ago

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    My husband is a high flying corporate lawyer. He works long hours and spends a lot of time away from home. I too work in the corporate world and we made the decision early in our...
    Annelle70 Annelle70 41-45, F 17 Responses Mar 31

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    The last 8 months, I have been separated from my husband. He left the house and lives at the station he's an EMT at. It really doesn't bother me he's gone, I just hate the feeling...
    OneWayHisWay OneWayHisWay 36-40, F 31 Responses Mar 20

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    I just want someone who will ask me about my day or my opinion on something. It gets so lonely sitting next to someone who doesn't engage with you.
    Mbyh20 Mbyh20 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 20

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    I knew marriage wasn't going to be all roses and sunshine. I wouldn't want it to either. That would be really boring. But I sure hadn't expected it to be so lonely. My husband...
    skidmom skidmom 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    I'm 16 years older than my wife and she acts as if she's older than i am...she's a great woman but a lousy wife...i'm tired of the empty days and lonely nights...
    ykaerfnam54 ykaerfnam54 51-55, M 2 Responses Mar 27

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    i could have writen this story several times maybe i did where to begin thers a lot of back ground and history but my wife acts a talks very violently divorce is to expensive it...
    sirpercival sirpercival 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 31

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    I AM SO SICK OF THIS. Talking about it. Thinking about it. I just want to love my life. I don't want marital problems. I don't want to be always thinking about the man I had an...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 15 Responses Apr 8

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    dont know who talk to, feeling very sad and lonely, i aready sleep sadness had wake me up fill with tears and emotion....happyness doenst know me, they didnt came to me... i always...
    sadmarrage sadmarrage 26-30, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I've been married to my high school sweetheart and I feel like I'm just going thru the motions. I am so sick and tired of coming in second to his cell phone where he's always...
    imnotjustamom imnotjustamom 41-45, F 10 Responses Mar 23

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    I have been married for 17 years and the spice has been out of out for 15 years....wish I had someone who was as in love as me
    jmp2014 jmp2014 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 27

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    My husband and I have been married quit a long time. I found out he has been lying to me since the first year of our marriage. Some of his lies have been HUGE. Others, just...
    TJlonely TJlonely 36-40, F 9 Responses Apr 1

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    I have been married for 19 years and have two kids. My husband has totally detached himself from me in the last few years. It all started when he meet this group of friends. He...
    MonaLeesa MonaLeesa 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 7

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    Married for 32 yrs. to a good man- but since we have been working together for 5 yrs. it is way too much time together and this has been very hard. I am very critical of him and we...
    irenei irenei 56-60, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am a marriage therapist. I am in individual counseling. I've tried couples counseling ( but he gets in a bad mood each time we go). I've read many books. Spoke to many friends...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 28

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    Well, more like an extended engagement - for two reasons, saving money for marriage, and his seemingly disinterest in planning for it. We've been together for 10 years (he ignored...
    irritatednutbar irritatednutbar 36-40 7 Responses Mar 31

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