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I Am Married But Lonely

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    Have you ever felt like every single thing u do

    is wrong....it's always your fault no matter how hard u try?
    Wonderwoman25 Wonderwoman25 36-40, F 87 Responses Dec 1

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    we should talk...me and you.

    ..I could make you forget just how lonely you are.
    sunny3875 sunny3875 36-40, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    I consider myself a strong independent woman,

    but tonight is hard. Not for any reason out of the ordinary. Maybe it's because he is away tonight. Maybe it's because I just made myself a drink. Maybe it's because it the holidays. Maybe it's because I know my life is about to get very difficult once the divorce process starts...
    Luckymomof2boys Luckymomof2boys 31-35, F 21 Responses Dec 6

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    My husband only spends time with friends

    and no time with my baby and me. The time he is home, he is working on the computer and does not like to be bothered at all. As soon as a friend calls to do something, he drops everything and runs to go out with them. You should see the excitement and desperation. I do not mind...
    runninggal runninggal 31-35, F 52 Responses Jun 24

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    Should There Be Something Special ?

    I don't ask for too much from what can be offered. My marriage is purely a facade of few simple beautiful things. But inside, there is always the hunger for true companioship between married couples. I long for a good conversation. Something that would add up to spice an endowing...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 55 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    I do not feel wanted

    or enjoy being around my wife anymore it actually feels like hell some days but she will not get a divorce
    anton88 anton88 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 14

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    I am married, lonely

    and drunk....anybody wanna make out....
    Wonderwoman25 Wonderwoman25 36-40, F 44 Responses Dec 12

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    My Wife Shows No Affection

    I am a 39 year old man in pretty good shape, 6'2" and fairly good looking.  I am a very affectionate and loving person, but my wife is not.  I am always the one to initiate sex, hugs, kisses, or any type of physical contact.  I don't understand why she's so...
    raptor660 raptor660 36-40, M 263 Responses Nov 18, 2009

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    So, my wife is a drunk.

    She is on a week long bender. She's been to rehab, we see how effectual that was. I've fought with her, hid her keys because she will drive drunk to get more, I park in the way so she cant leave, she runs into my truck, disabke her car, she walks to the store, called the cops on...
    Luchs Luchs 41-45, M 71 Responses Dec 7

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    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F 1 Response a week ago

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    animalbuck animalbuck 26-30, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    my husband wants a separation 2 decide

    if he wants 2 be married 2 me. I been emotional every day crying and sad. so I then became angry and lonely cause he doesn't spend time with me anymore. so I got on a few dating sites 2 talk 2 guys I never pretended to be single. I mostly was just looking 4 convo friends. my...
    martino25 martino25 31-35, F 8 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Why Oh Why...

    Here I am lying in bed writing this and another night by myself. where's my husband? He's asleep in a single bed with our 9 year old daughter. It started a few months ago and our daughter asked my husband (h) and her father to sleep in her bed with her. That was on a friday...
    UnhappySmiles UnhappySmiles 36-40, F 41 Responses Aug 4, 2013

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    so what is it when your husband doesn't want to

    give you none ... he don't even ask for some. ...& when i ask for some he says he's tired
    confused7years confused7years 36-40, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    carry11 carry11 26-30, F 28 mins ago

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    So excited...if anyone has read my story you

    know my husband and I are like strangers in our home. Wellllllllll yesterday he took me out on a date ...dinner and a movie still not much conversation but hey it was nice and I really felt like he was trying. Then this morning he offered to take me to the park where I typically...
    Hedoesnotloveme Hedoesnotloveme 36-40, F 19 Responses May 4

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    Good day! ....skiving today.

    Anyone care to help me waste some time?
    ThisCharmingManUK ThisCharmingManUK 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Tell me about it ,...

    ,............
    geronimooo geronimooo 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Time Wasted

    I married way too young, at the age of 19. I was an insecure, scared child at the time, and all I knew was that I loved this fun-loving guy and I was comfortable and safe with him. So when he proposed, I said yes, even though I knew I wasn't ready. I didn't want to hurt him, and...
    infinitedreamer infinitedreamer 26-30, F 90 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    So, I've been trying to get the wife to go see

    Christmas lights with me and the kids for the last couple weeks. She's declined every time I ask her. It then her friendcalls wanuts her to see the Christmas light boat parade, and off she goes,with one of the kids.....oh and by the way, no guys allowed. I also took the day...
    WtfAmIHearing WtfAmIHearing 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 14

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    I do love my husband.

    He is a great guy, and a wonderful father to our 2 children. He and I have a lot of fun when we're together. Yet when it comes down to the hard stuff, when someone has to step up and be an adult to handle a hard situation it always falls to me. The worst part is that he will...
    LadyLuxury LadyLuxury 41-45, F 33 Responses Nov 19

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    I wish I could be held.

    I wish I could cuddle. I wish I had someone to tell me it's all going to be alright.
    MikeMachinist MikeMachinist 61-65, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel like we are more roommates

    than husband and wife :(
    143ily 143ily 22-25, F 48 Responses Feb 12

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    i live in spain, but i am in canada

    for few weeks now drinking a beer, feeling lonely anybody wanna chat?
    nuki212 nuki212 36-40, M Dec 12

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    Considering Divorce. I just need someone to

    care. I just want him to want to be with me. I want the fairytale. Even if it was just for a night.
    WantNeedMore WantNeedMore 26-30, F 7 Responses Dec 14

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    We all have different reasons

    for being in this situation...but it's hard regardless of why. I long for affection and a wife who wants all a marriage should include. I have a lot to offer...I'm honest, well-educated with a great job, I love my kids, and I just want to feel loved. I could write a book.
    Mike405 Mike405 46-50, M 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    adeleccaa adeleccaa 26-30, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am so lonely, I try

    so hard to talk to my husband but he doesn't want to communicate anymore because we can't do it without arguing. He wants to pray before and after saying anything to each other which I don't mind, but this morning I just wanted to small talk with him and he basically ignored me...
    love2hrd love2hrd 26-30, F 49 Responses Nov 14

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    Hi!!! My name is Rebecca!

    ! I'm married!! I'm actually 18 going on 19!!! Um... I'm pregnant and it's going to be a GIRL!! :D my husband hasn't really touched me since i got pregnant :/ I have 'friends' but I'm too scared to do anything more than what i have!! It sucks!! :/ I love my husband... But a woman...
    Sexyhousewife69 Sexyhousewife69 16-17, F 7 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I slept on the couch last night

    because I could not sleep and I needed some time to myself. This morning he pouted and left with out a word. I don't know how to make it work or even if I want to.
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 29 Responses Aug 11

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    Once again I sit alone on Friday night.

    It really wouldn't matter if he were here, I would still be alone.
    lonelyone80 lonelyone80 31-35, F 29 Responses Jul 26

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carecc13 carecc13 26-30, F a week ago

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    41 male from near London would like to chat to

    any married women also from the UK
    Philip624 Philip624 41-45, M 5 days ago

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    I think my husband is a cheater.

    He spends all his free time away from home. When I confront him about it, he gets overly angry. I wish I could just catch him in the act!! Then I could easily leave him. I should not be this lonely and starved for attention and be married!! In plain English I said to him...
    kekelt kekelt 31-35, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    Marriage = Loneliness = Divorce?

     He is a great man, kind, easy going, funny, intelligent but I do not respect him, I am not in love him nor do I want be intimate with him. We haven't been together intimately since Aug 19/2008. It was his birthday and well, I felt guilty. And prior to that, we had sex maybe...
    wickedties wickedties 41-45, F 77 Responses Jan 12, 2010

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    I'm just so lonely at night.

    My husband and I don't even like each other we barely talk all we do is argue.im sad I was give anything to feel better.
    candyone candyone 41-45, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    of course i'm lonely!

    I come second to video games!That's why i'm on ep:(
    1prettygirl 1prettygirl 36-40, F 51 Responses Nov 8

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    Hi, this is my first experience in any kind of

    "chat" or "talk forum", not sure what to call it. I have been married 26 years. I have know him since I was 11 years old. We were actually divorced, then we remarried, lol. We were quite young in our marriage I suppose. Thing is, I am just a much more "intimate" person than he...
    Timetotalk Timetotalk 46-50, F 25 Responses Aug 19

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    It is tedious with my spouse she doesn't want

    to find a job she wants my attention all the time and never wants me to do anything on my own but wants me to watch her so everything she finds fun. Sex is a chore now I have to guilt her into it now.
    anton88 anton88 26-30, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    "I've got the feeling the feelings gone,

    my heart has gone to sleep, one of these mornings I'll be gone, my heart belongs to me.....can we believe in fairy tales, can love survive when all else fails....."
    Wonderwoman25 Wonderwoman25 36-40, F 27 Responses Nov 14

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    I love my husband, but sometimes I feel like

    the small dog who is circling around, jumping at the big dog saying "HEY! HEY! HEY! HEY! HEY! LOOK AT ME! HEY!" I'm exhausted. I just want his attention. :( Why am I not good enough?
    isoanything isoanything 36-40, F 57 Responses Nov 17

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    Hello good people. I'm new to this

    so bare with me. I married my best friend...a 400lb big guy( I mention this for reason). I have been married for almost 13 years. The first 3 years were great then in 2005, he broke his kneecap & became disabled. He's not able to get knee surgery because of his weight. insurance...
    ValleyAnn ValleyAnn 36-40, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    I've been married 24 yrs this year.

    During this time, I totally devoted my life to being a loyal wife and a good mother. Now that my baby is 17, we finally have time for us. But we have nothing in common. Being total opposites has helped us in the past. We kind of leveled each other out. Now, it's working against...
    wantingattentionbad wantingattentionbad 46-50, F 23 Responses Jun 25

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    I think I am ready to ask my husband

    for a separation. I wanna be free to do the things I want to do. I want to fall in love with myself...I don't need him pulling me down anymore!!!#
    Wonderwoman25 Wonderwoman25 36-40, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I want something totally different.

    I know many days he does as well. Yet there are these tiny strings of love that bind us. I have no sexual desire. Just these little strings of love that hold on.I feel selfish butI want to be playful again. And optimistic. And silly. 
    sunny3875 sunny3875 36-40, F 9 Responses Jul 4

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    Isn't it ironic that the only person

    who can make you really happy in the same person who makes you sad and lonely.
    jjcairo jjcairo 36-40, F 16 Responses Aug 26

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    me and my wife both work,

    I work 4 nights Thurs - sun, my wife can work up to 6 days. when she works on a sat or Sunday she automatically thinks I will take care of the kids while I've just done an 8 hour shift. when I say something about it. she just tells me to deal with it almost. between Thurs...
    stonecold31625 stonecold31625 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 10

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    "It's raining, it's pouring.

    ...my love life is boring me to tears, after all these years"
    Wonderwoman25 Wonderwoman25 36-40, F 18 Responses Nov 7

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    I married a bipolar man,

    I feel so lonely and depressive now. I was so happy before and I'm not stronger woman that I used to be!
    LatinWoman1 LatinWoman1 31-35, F 15 Responses Dec 9

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    I Asked For A Hug

    This morning, the need to be held was so overwhelming, I didn't think I could bear it. I kept looking at my husband, wondering if I should ask for a hug. There is no physical contact between us for years, and it does my self esteem no good, when I have to ask my own husband to...
    Carissimi Carissimi 56-60, F 103 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I am married with 4 kids 5,

    4, 2 & 14 weeks. I live a life like a single parent. I get the kids up dressed and fed, I do all school work with them, I run them around clubs and parties. I run the house doing all the "chores" and now manage all finances. I also or will go back to work soon on top of all that...
    myownbox myownbox 26-30, F 18 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I'm married but lonely.

    It's complicated. I hate looking across the room at a man I feel nothing with anymore. I love him as a man that has always been there for me and taking me place I would have never dreamed of going. He's a great father. He would make a great husband for someone else just not for...