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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I'm Married but the love seems to have gone , we sleep in separate rooms and hardly say a word to each other. I don't even get a hello how was your day after a long day at work...
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    it feels sad when you love someone but they dont love you back. its actually heartbreaking. I had a boyfriend. and I know I fell in love with him deeply but our relationship didnt...
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    Love can be the best and also the worst thing ever. For I have loved someone who doesn't love me back But I don't know how I'm still holding on... For he is the first and last...
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    first love never dies as they say. yeah maybe true but when you loved but never loved back youre heart becomes cold and unable to feel. maybe thats what hapened to me. i became...
    BuenRoed BuenRoed 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I must write this all down tonight while she is out with friends, before she comes back and tries something. I know what happens if she does... The mind games resume. I start...
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