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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 79 People

    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 26-30, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    But will change username To cope with crap on ep Or in real life
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    My husband is a good man, his job is 24/7 on call plus scheduled 8 hr days. I never know when he will be home, change plans, or show up for our child. I chose to marry him at 18...
    Ineedlovetoo Ineedlovetoo 31-35, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    The hardest thing I had to do, was watch the person I loved the most, love someone else.
    Awkwarddddddd Awkwarddddddd 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Forbidden Fruit I loved someone. For the first time in my life i could actually say i loved someone. He....he was what i was looking for. Someone honest, someone who had felt the...
    PanPagan PanPagan 16-17, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I married too soon...I should have experienced life a little more before settling down...is it so bad to want to FEEL something? Is it so bad to fantasize about all of those sexy...
    HowDeepIsYourLove HowDeepIsYourLove 31-35, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    hello...i don't know where to post this exactly, sorry if it ends up in the wrong category/group. i have a situation that i cannot discuss with anyone, but i need some feedback...
    mommajllc mommajllc 36-40, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I was seeing this guy for almost a year. We were never a couple, just really close friends. But the time we spent together, and the way we connected grew into a deep love and...
    Niknak9225 Niknak9225 22-25, F a week ago

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    I cared for him when everyone else rejected him. I told him I was here for him when he was truly and utterly alone. He told me I was the most precious thing he had in his life. He...
    Iluvbeingme Iluvbeingme 18-21, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    was 1st marriage..dated 6yrs, married 6mos. She broke my heart and trust in future relationships.
    RedMaster19 RedMaster19 51-55, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    hi i am pankaj,iam 26 year old and unmarried. i wants to share my little love and break up story. i work in a limited firm , there are no girls working here, i operate computers...
    sensitive2 sensitive2 26-30, M 2 Responses Feb 3

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    i really hate this happen in my marriage . i dont dream a perfect man with handsome face, unlimited money, showering me with fancy stuff. no no no what i want is a man who...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Feb 3

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    It seems like a lot of grownups don't respect us teenagers and think that we are spoiled rotten and only think of ourselves. That may be true for some teenagers but not for me. I...
    xtrasillygirl xtrasillygirl 13-15, F Feb 2

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    I woke up sick. But it was my baby niece's birthday so with a pounding head and I got m three kids up, fed, dressed and off to her two birthday parties. I took them to the first...
    dzse dzse 36-40, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    Imagine: loving everyone about someone. Head to toe, loving their hair and their eyes, their nose, mouth ears. Their neck and shoulders. Arms, hands, fingers. Back and stomach...
    Thelostsoulslasthope Thelostsoulslasthope 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 30

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    I came close a few times in my life already. But if I knew I could get someone, especially a woman or a child out of harms way, but knowing that I wouldn't be able to save myself...
    Pilotbob75 Pilotbob75 36-40, M 2 Responses Jan 29

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    Ok here goes....I used to be on here years ago but decided to quit because I thought I would be able to sort out my life ...but seemingly to no avail. So here is my story. I am...
    worldtravels123 worldtravels123 36-40, F 5 Responses Jan 29

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    I loved someone , but he did not love me ! I thought he would love me tho , but we even not a match ! I think I did not see through myself , it was a blurred line of me , I just...
    NoneEver NoneEver 22-25, F Jan 29

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    I have risked my own life to save the lives of others several times - and I would do it again in the blink of an eye. I'd rather be the one to get hurt than allow anyone else to...
    LoneSouls LoneSouls 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    I haven't been married for a long time but I feel alone even when he's here. He doesn't understand my struggle with addiction and thinks that just because I crave it that means I...
    justme081 justme081 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 25

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    I've been married for quiet some time, couldn't get over him cheating but tried to make it work for our daughter. Now I just feel so alone.
    cat0814 cat0814 26-30, F 4 Responses Jan 25

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    I feel like having someone to stand me against the wall and look at me directly in my eyes very closely and tell me how much he loves me. In a very passionate manner, from deep of...
    Diego79 Diego79 36-40, F Jan 25

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    It is now 4 am while im writing this. My first love left my home ten hours ago but it still feels like two minutes ago that he told me that he asked someone else out. My heart was...
    poomiepoom poomiepoom 18-21, M Jan 24

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    Sometimes it's just wonderful to have someone scrub all your parts in a bath or showr
    donontario donontario 61-65, M 1 Response Jan 24

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    I really like this guy. He makes me feel better than anyone when we are togather. He makes me feel safe. He's there for me and can make me smile just like that. But... He led me on...
    Thelostsoulslasthope Thelostsoulslasthope 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 23

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