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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 78 People

    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    So sad... My crush loves someone... I hate it but it's okay because God has prepared a better guy for me ;) i deserve someone better ;)
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    we would have been perfect together. It's been 2 years we know each other, separated physically for 1 year, so far but yet we became closer and closer each day until i fell in love...
    Sting23 Sting23 18-21, M May 23

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    I love my boyfriend so much, but I don't know what is happening. He moved to another city and I started to feel really lonely... So, I started classes in another city (not the same...
    DreamyMermaid DreamyMermaid 16-17 1 Response May 3

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    I don't know how I'm supposed to go on. Knowing that there's always going to be that part of me that is completely, madly in love with someone who didn't even care enough about me...
    antihero98 antihero98 16-17, F 3 Responses May 8

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    I really don't know what to do. I think since I've been married my husband hasn't been into me. I catch him looking at other women, ****, and recently I caught him sending...
    ClickCloser ClickCloser 31-35, F 9 Responses May 22

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    I have never felt reciprocated love. I don't mean like the friends and family package deal that everybody gets, I mean romantically. It's not from a lack of trying, but as I look...
    monkey0506 monkey0506 26-30, M 1 Response May 9

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    Giving EP another try I was silly and closed my account after thinking possibly all my problems would be solved after having a good week. course there are ups and downs and I know...
    midlifeknot midlifeknot 36-40, M 3 Responses May 15

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    I have loved the same person for I don't even know how long. To be fair, she doesn't actually know, so I guess there will always be that big "what if" that is killing me. The issue...
    BowtiesRcool BowtiesRcool 22-25, M 2 Responses May 2

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    I am NOT who i wanna BE . I wish I never exist. I don't want to be who I am. I just nee to forget life . I want to run away and be with my friends . I just want something good to...
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 1 Response May 5

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    Feeling extremely alone my husband has abandoned me in more ways then one. He won't sleep in bed with me he's not there for me emotionally . We have had marriage counseling . He...
    itsme29 itsme29 26-30, F 11 Responses May 3

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    I need to get this off my chest, and since I can't say this to him I will here... Am I a terrible person? This is what I keep asking myself as the thoughts in my mind twist and...
    LonelySnake LonelySnake 18-21, F 4 Responses May 11

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    you took my heart you broke it i only heard a sound sometimes i cry when no one is around a scream comes from inside it says why she doesnt loves me with tears in my eyes but...
    deleted deleted 26-30 May 16

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    i feel as if i have experienced both ends of the spectrum in this field. I have been the one unloved and did not love....many....I'm not sure where this all came about and honestly...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response 6 days ago

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    because he does not want to talk about responsibilities like paying bills etc. we lost everything last year but he is still boastful to other people that we are doing ok. he has no...
    mas4074 mas4074 36-40, F 11 Responses May 3

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    When I was married I loved my husband with every fiber of my being. He didn't love me.. But time heals all wounds. To an extent.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 4

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    I stupidly believed a guy who was visiting the country on holiday that he loved me because he told me he loved me.. Only when he left the country he suddenly didn't love me and was...
    immortellecapture immortellecapture 31-35, F 3 Responses May 5

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    When you love someone beyond the limits you could have ever imagined. When nothing or no one else can compare. When you want the best for them, no matter what. When you are...
    Stickwithmebaby Stickwithmebaby 36-40, F May 5

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    I hate that I've fallen in love again... But the hardest part is that he has someone else. And is fine with me being alone and slowly breaking.
    MxJ97 MxJ97 16-17, F 2 Responses May 12

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    I was twenty two and I believed it was me he wanted when we first got together. I trusted him enough to give him his own keys to my place; he robbed me of everything I had, even my...
    misskelz90 misskelz90 22-25, F 2 Responses May 17

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    I know exactly how you're all feeling. My man who I have 2kids with & I'm 18weeks pregnant has been sent to prison for taking the wrap for someone elSe because he isn't a grass...
    andreatyler andreatyler 22-25, F 2 Responses May 7

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    What hurts the most is that he moved on with someone else and I am left wondering where I failed. It's been 6 weeks and he is happy and I was left heartbroken. Where is that fair...
    Oliviaa92 Oliviaa92 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    i am happily married but i have been having sex with another married male and no one knows. meet him at a local park in his service van where i give him adult service.
    stlguy45 stlguy45 41-45, M 15 hrs ago

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    I'm not married but I still feel lonely lol how weird is that lol anyone want to chat?
    riderz4christ riderz4christ 31-35, M May 19

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    I loved someone who didn't love me... I still love someone who doesn't love me. It's gotten easier though because I accepted the fact that we will never work. He's a great friend...
    kristen1993 kristen1993 22-25, F 3 Responses May 6

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    I know that in most cases it's hard for males to reciprocate most feelings and 9/10 the woman falls in love much quicker.. but I never understood how you as a woman could feel like...
    asiabeautyxo asiabeautyxo 22-25, F 13 Responses May 21

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