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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2011

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    J

    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 41-45, M Aug 24

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I just found out my girl crush has a girlfriend I'm so disappointed right now like why couldn't it be me.
    ThaQueen2 ThaQueen2 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    I am recently married, and have been with her for 2 1/2 years now. We have lived together for about a year and half. Prior to that we where in a long distant relationship and we...
    TEAVEE TEAVEE 31-35, M 4 Responses Oct 10

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    ive fallen in love with someone else.. and is having a secret relationship..
    AmandaCxo AmandaCxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I was in love with this guy, Brandon, and at first, he loved me back. We used to imagine what our life would be like together when we were older, what college we would go to, where...
    auram59993 auram59993 13-15, F Sep 22

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    itโ€™s been exactly one year since i wrote that first poem about you. i sat in bed and started thinking about what happened at sandy hook, and how fragile life is, and how much i...
    maddisonn maddisonn 16-17, F Oct 2

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    I'm 47. I was abused as a child - sexually, physically, emotionally, spiritually. The way I got through it was by pretending to be someone else - characters from TV, movies, books...
    SheppiesMom SheppiesMom 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 12

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    He was my best friend. The greatest friend anyone could ever have. And even while he cared deeply for me, he was in love with one of his closest friends, who was also a friend of...
    classicminx classicminx 18-21, F 4 Responses Sep 28

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    I fell in love with everything about her. Infatuated with her and she friend zoned me. Finally I broke out I was free I was there for her she loved it. She changed her mind and...
    locoladel locoladel 16-17, T 1 Response Oct 2

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    I miss our chats a lot . Its going to be a year now, chatting with you for the first time. So much crazy i was, but now everything is changed. I feel glad to unfriend you. Atlast...
    misstensed misstensed 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 8

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    What started out as an amazing love for one another ended with him falling in love with another. My heart doesn't work like that. If I committ and give my heart to one person it is...
    passionate4you passionate4you 46-50, F 5 Responses Oct 13

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    I have been with my partner for nearly 3 years. He is a wonderful guy but for the last two years the relationship hasn't been great. Hes never cheated on me or physically hurt me...
    HMM11 HMM11 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    This may sound weird but ever since I was 12 (I'm 15 now) when I'm alone I pretend to act like I'm someone else (usually a anime character or a character from a movie) when I watch...
    xxYukixx xxYukixx 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    So at this school i go to its my first year of sixth (its post high school in England) no one really knows who I am. Its been 5 weeks. I've managed to keep low. But recently i've...
    YamiKaze YamiKaze 18-21, M Oct 2

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    My most recent ex....I guess it was my fault that I'm hurt. I knew he was out of my league. I knew that he still had feelings for someone else. I knew that interracial...
    nikkiiic nikkiiic 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 11

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    Married but Lonely! I too deserve love and affection. Why the hell people don't understand a simple thing, Life is short and its must be lived to its fullest. Tried and still...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 4

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    I'm married. I went out last night with friends. I meet a beautiful and interesting girl. We talked for a while and was fun. Nothing happened. I didn't specifically say that I am...
    amIstarryeyed amIstarryeyed 36-40, M 4 days ago

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    Anyone also Married but Lonely ,its tough .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M 6 Responses Oct 3

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    loving someone without expecting anything is good thing but loving someone who dont even love you back is a **** thing for me
    naraleon naraleon 16-17, F 1 Response Oct 10

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    It just hit me all of a sudden. I'm in love with someone who can't love me back. Its Ok though. I will get through this. Just not as soon as I like. I knew that I shouldn't have...
    Dezarre Dezarre 16-17, F a week ago

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    You can ๐Ÿ˜ I loved my last girlfriend more than anything. But she found someone better than me. But now I have the best person out there and I met her online and she's my world...
    uselessperson64 uselessperson64 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I loved someone who did not love me at all. I experienced this several times. But, what did I win? A huge nothing. Now, I cannot fall in love anymore.
    sumela sumela 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I started crushing on my friend a year after we met. High school approached and it made my life drop. I began falling into the deep darkness of the world. He would ask why I was so...
    CurvyBones17 CurvyBones17 16-17, F Sep 29

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    I think love someone doesn't always mean keeping them; sometimes it also means you have to let them go. Giving up doesn't always mean you are weak; sometimes it means that you are...
    Lily710 Lily710 31-35, F Oct 8

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    I currently love someone who is three years older than me and only sees me as a very good friend. We also have a great distance between us and his brother is one of my best friends...
    TeresaChanaki TeresaChanaki 13-15, F 5 Responses Oct 11

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    Oh, this is rich. I have fallen in love with words on a screen, thousands of virtual exchanges and looking into the eyes of digital photographs. He only lived four hours away, but...
    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    This situation is a rather horrible one to be in and I'm sorry to anyone who is feeling this way. But with this experience comes beauty, and that is you loved someone. You sent out...
    damnflanders damnflanders 16-17, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I met my girlfriend on here and she's so perfect and I love her so much so yes. It's possible to love someone you only know online. She makes me the happiest person alive and helps...
    uselessperson64 uselessperson64 13-15, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    i love him but he is straight
    jacob7777777 jacob7777777 13-15, M 1 hr ago

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    He was quite easy on the eyes. Immediately, my body's chemical reaction took the reigns of what little self control I had at that time in my life. For weeks, I admired from afar...
    dancingsunz dancingsunz 36-40, F 2 Responses Oct 3

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    Looking to talk with someone in the same position .
    lotusfan5 lotusfan5 36-40, M 3 Responses Oct 5

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    Let me start by saying that I love him, I really do. More than anyone else, except for our kids of course. I'm 26, we have been together 8 years and married for 5 of those. It's...
    Env06 Env06 26-30, F 7 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Not now, but I was once. I truly did love her and want to be with her. If only things were different. I still miss holding her, but I know it will never happen again.
    inlandsea inlandsea 41-45, M 1 Response Sep 22