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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 78 People

    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    Well, I suppose it really just depends on how you see it. Yesterday, I told my boyfriend I loved him--I told him, but I had a feeling he wouldn't say it back, and I was right...
    PseudoNymph PseudoNymph 22-25, F 1 hr ago

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    So were going to start the next part. So after that, McDonald's episode. Everything went back to normal or as normal as things can be when you're in love with a guy, you can't...
    MissOreoX MissOreoX 18-21, F 1 hr ago

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    so I am married 4 years this coming Thursday and almost 9 years together. at first there was a connection so strong we j couldn't keep our hands off each other. he moved in day...
    LoveMeTender220 LoveMeTender220 26-30, F 5 hrs ago

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    This is one of life's most painful experiences and it has only happened to me once. She and I had an intense love affair that lasted about 6 months. There were warning signs that...
    blueskyforgood blueskyforgood 51-55, M 7 hrs ago

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    For a long time, I was in love with one of my classmates. We had grown up together and we're best friends up until around third grade, then we drifted apart. Over the years he's...
    ksandd ksandd 13-15, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I love someone that didn't love me, it was the worst relationship I had ever had and somewhere deep inside me I still loved her. I put up with all her disrespect and lying and the...
    talaunanna talaunanna 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I've been with a my husband for a total of 7 years. He would be perfect, but he's shorter than me and although he does everything right, even in the bed he's a great lover, i still...
    meoun1986 meoun1986 26-30, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    Ok so I will acknowledge that this is way weird, but here it goes. I met a guy here on ep who turned my world upside down. He pursued me after seeing a few of my experience posts...
    bellyluv3478 bellyluv3478 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    You tell me that you care for me and that I am the most important person in your life, but why do you still speak with so much passion about someone else? I don't understand what I...
    TheRainSong TheRainSong 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    You just know when you love someone and they don't feel the same for you. It just sucks because you are left alone with all of these feelings.
    Livelife0532 Livelife0532 22-25, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been married for four years, we have been together for 6. We initially met when I was separated from my ex-husband, which was a very abusive unhealthy marriage. When my...
    Notintomyelf Notintomyelf 26-30, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's funny where life takes you sometimes. You can meet one person who can change the entire course of your life. Would you be willing to give up your future goals, give up seeing...
    Milesaway3 Milesaway3 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am married but lonely. I feel unwanted.
    bb1976 bb1976 36-40, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am a 58 year old woman who is married to a, ah, how do I describe him. Nice guy when you meet him in a bar, where he spends most of his time if he doesn't find a 'jack of all...
    Debneedshelp Debneedshelp 56-60, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I have been in a merry go round relationship with the father my children for over 7 years now. we break up and he goes back to his ex and then once they are not in a good place he...
    Hilltrini Hilltrini 31-35, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    Are there any pretty women out there (age irrelevant) who'd like to meet an erudite, highly-educated, (very) well-preserved guy (58) with a wicked sense of humor? The man to whom...
    JimmyLonesome JimmyLonesome 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I loved someone that didn't love me
    Ryderz Ryderz 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Love is an addiction. I agree. But "love addiction" is a totally different matter. When you're so madly in love to someone who cannot & absolutely will NOT be able to fully commit...
    MorningRose10 MorningRose10 31-35, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    No contact with other guy in a week and I'm truly ok with it. I've taken a long hard look at the situation and can no longer deny that for him I was just filling in the gaps in his...
    Queenbee1960 Queenbee1960 51-55, F a week ago

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    Reading so many of these stories.....so many marriages lacking for one reason or another. As we grow older and life changes us, sometimes we can no longer be the person we were and...
    sillysoo sillysoo 46-50, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    I am a married girl to a guy I love... I only ask him to show me that he loves me and cares about me. I do not ask for anything he is to far away, cold and careless! It's hurting...
    layalshannak layalshannak 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 24

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    I am in a committed, long term relationship with my girlfriend of 6 years. But Lately I have strong feeling for someone else. She's probably out of my league but I still can't get...
    itissatis itissatis 36-40, M Jul 21

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    I miss him so much... For about two and a half years I've tried so hard to keep up the charade of there being nothing there outside of me and my boyfriend of a year less than I've...
    Luca0 Luca0 18-21, T Jul 20

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    I love this guy I went to k-4th grade together.. I moved away when we were 13 and have seen him about 8 times since I moved.. 5 being since February. We're 27 now. I like him a lot...
    surioregon surioregon 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    I am married and I feel like my husband will do anything for anyone else but me. Everyone thinks hes this great guy and lately he will do anything to prove that. Yesterday a female...
    bluegirl12 bluegirl12 41-45, F 75 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm a noob on this site (just joined to type this) so I'm not sure how this works or what an appropriate length for a post should be so I'll try to keep this short and sweet. I'm...
    internalpuppetshow internalpuppetshow 18-21, M Jul 19

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