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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2011

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 2 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Related Experiences

    Pretty self-explainitory. It is probably the worst pain I've ever felt. Well, it is. But I have to stay stong because she is struggling with these feeling for this other person who...
    pmjstubbs11 pmjstubbs11 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    Hi all my ep friends, My story in this group "She loves someone else and I know, I still love her" got me responses which were heart wrenching. I have observed that there are so...
    anuragch11 anuragch11 18-21, M Jul 14

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    Wtf?? What such irony........why would you think about loving someone else if the person you love is right there?? Honestly it wasn't love that brought you together, that's what's...
    XannaleiseX XannaleiseX 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    This is what I would like to ask God: Why can't I, just ONE damn time in my life, have the man I want? Not the nice guy that I date for awhile because he's the best of a bad lot...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    This is what I would like to ask God: Why can't I, just ONE damn time in my life, have the man I want? Not the nice guy that I date for awhile because he's the best of a bad lot...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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    I never meant to start having feelings for you. I already had strong feelings for someone else. I guess they weren't strong enough, huh? You could have told me you were in love...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 10

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    I always wished I could be someone else. I always figured someone else had it easier. Someone else has it better. Someone else has more to offer, more to give, more to live... I...
    Shoutittotheworld23 Shoutittotheworld23 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    Been separated for over a year, my husband lives with someone else but was over the other day, tells me he loves me over and over, refers to me as his wife, kisses me for 20 mins...
    Guavajelly Guavajelly 36-40, F 4 Responses Jun 29

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    More of the same. Just more of the same. How does he think there's any room for a relationship when he walks in, says hi and heads straight to the study and his computer. He puts...
    starsarenotgreen starsarenotgreen 22-25 6 Responses a week ago

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    I don't know what to do, can someone please just talk to me. I was with her until two months ago now she is with someone else. I am in pain.
    badgoodguy badgoodguy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 29

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    Has anyone else just lost all faith in finding someone else? Is it just me that just gets to scared to trust anyone else
    BTID BTID 18-21, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 15 years old, and I hate to admit it, but pretending to be someone else online & hiding behind someone else's looks kind of comfort me. It sounds horrible, I know. But I'm so...
    bekoveranything bekoveranything 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was a straight woman who fell in love with a lesbian BPD almost 2 years ago, deeply and madly in love. Last spring, she "needed space," announcing this days before an...
    Dim485 Dim485 51-55, F 21 hrs ago

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    Sometimes I wish I was someone else. I'll get an urge to be a completely different person. I really should love me for me, but I really hate me sometimes. My emotions get the...
    UniqueFemale UniqueFemale 22-25, F Jul 5

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    I've said this a few times before but I'll say it a couple more. If I saw someone's life in danger I'd easily take the punch, hit, bullet, etc. for them in a heartbeat. I hate...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I have a crush on someone that has a crush on someone else. I dont even know why I was crushing on him in the first place.
    sukkiteiinayo sukkiteiinayo 13-15, F 2 days ago

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    I'm married, but have feelings for someone from my past that is in prison for another year and a half. I broke off my relationship with him, because I thought I realized I wanted...
    Gdsgirl Gdsgirl 31-35, F Jul 10

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    When I first met him. I fell for him little by little. He was my air that I need to breathe. He was my heart that I wanted to love. He was the man in my dreams that I wanted to...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Jul 17

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    I'm almost 16 years old, and I've been pretending to be several people for over 5/6 years. I don't do it for fun, I don't do it to hurt others, I don't like that I do it. I've had...
    everydayregret everydayregret 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 18

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    So here is my story .. My first story on here in fact ... So i was on instagram. A weird way to meet someone but yeah instagram. He liked all of my pictures all 100 when i had...
    Nayaaa Nayaaa 16-17, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Hi guys this may be embarrassing but I pretend to be someone else in my mind creating a story in my mind but I'm the hero or the evil person but I'm always daydreams. Thank you for...
    mehdiamiri mehdiamiri 16-17, M 2 days ago

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    I was alone and bullied all the time but one of the things I know about me is that I'm afraid I reality and I choose to create a story in my head and I pretend to be someone else...
    mehdiamiri mehdiamiri 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    She did love me for a while. Then she said she didn't. Then she did, but as friends. Then, slowly she drifted away. One intimacy, one level of connection at a time. Shut off. Given...
    anyoldrobert anyoldrobert 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 28

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    I fell in love with the guy of my dreams. I've fought every single day to keep him, my parents hated him and nothing I did changed their minds... So he left, he went into the...
    MEGANELIZABETH716 MEGANELIZABETH716 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 7

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    One of those unrequited love situations, i had a crush on the typical kind polite funny popular girl at school who everyone liked. I genuinely liked her but also so did my mate and...
    DatRandomGinger DatRandomGinger 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    He was a year younger than me. We didn't know each other. I'm very shy so I never talked to him. I got his number and talked to him but he said he didn't like me back. He liked...
    adrianacecilia14 adrianacecilia14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I've been married for a few years now and have a wonderful husband. He's a good guy, has never mistreated me, my family loves him, and together we're the poster family for our...
    JaySurge JaySurge 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Well ladies I've ended things with my boyfriend. 13 months of him being inside with another 3-4 years has finally taken it's toll on me... I've started falling for someone else...
    Catmando05 Catmando05 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I am married but I often feel lonely in the marriage. I feel really misunderstood and emotionally rejected often. The emotional void pushes me further and further away to the...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 32 Responses Jul 1

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    I think that I am going to making more of my marriage posts in the "I am Married" group. I realized that although I feel lonely at times the general members that post in "Married...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    live a quiet peaceful lonely life, married but no spark
    johnboy4311 johnboy4311 61-65 3 Responses Jul 6

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    Do any other married but lonely people here feel emotionally paralyzed by the loneliness in your marriage? I do. It is not every single day but often enough to be significant to me...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 15 Responses Jul 16