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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 41-45, M Aug 24, 2014

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I'm torn. I am going through a divorce that has been a long time coming and is for the best. I've been separated for 7 months and the D should be finalized in a couple of months...
    DrHowl DrHowl 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    I loved him. But then I realized I loved him enough to let him be happy, even if it meant giving up mine😔
    ElissaAcosta ElissaAcosta 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Been there!! It's horrible!!!!!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jan 11

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    I hold on to him more than I should. I tried really hard to move on I started a relationship with someone else, but he is the one I think of every night and day. I couldn't get him...
    ruthm ruthm 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    I gave you my heart, I gave you my soul, I gave you my life, my love, you stole. I never poured my heart out to anyone as much as I did for you. I did things for you, I said things...
    LonelyAJ LonelyAJ 18-21, M 11 Responses Jan 11

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    It's strange. There are far too many ways that we get on each other's nerves. He's crazy. I'm serious. He's worried about being "cool"....I couldn't care less. I've been pretty...
    MercedesK MercedesK 22-25, F Jan 2

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    Hopelessness is swallowing me. For all my life I've been it's prey. Sometimes strong, sometimes weak, I've always managed to hold on, but my grip is loosening. My dreams have been...
    zainshah1 zainshah1 26-30, M Jan 17

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    I use to talk to this kid I knew for a couple years now. We've been on and off since the beginning of October and he's been messing with my head. One day in crying over him and...
    Angelmariexo Angelmariexo 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 30, 2014

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    I would put myself in danger and yes die to save someone else . Isn't that what we are here for to help one another no matter what the cost .
    Wildman43055 Wildman43055 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    No matter the cost. No matter the risk. I'm willing to take it to save someone else.i don't care if I die trying, as long as the other can live on.
    DarkSecret62 DarkSecret62 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 5

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    if i want to someone else, i would like to be a total stranger in a foreign land where nobody knows who i am.
    absinthe79 absinthe79 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    I miss my ex girlfriend. She was my first love and we haven't spoken in over a year. I find it pretty so heartbreaking that I'm so young and already feel that she is going to be...
    smokebombtom smokebombtom 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 3

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    Two semesters ago, there was this boy and this girl that always shared a seat on the bus. They would share food and their drinks together every morning. I thought it was sweet...
    BITTERandNAIVE BITTERandNAIVE 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Would you say you contributed to the situation resulting in 'I am married but lonely'? I know I have (although I tend to feel wronged). There is pain in realising that I have a...
    BonneNouvelle BonneNouvelle 41-45, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    This is particularly interesting, when I was of 17 I loved someone. That someone dumped me. Again when I was 21 I loved another one, that another one also dumped me :p, I fought...
    mike15121 mike15121 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 11

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    Diary of a Sad Man Day One “Please let me be your friend. I promise to be a good one.” And she was. The best. Ever. We’re a continent away, but from the very beginning, there...
    SadMan2015 SadMan2015 51-55, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It hurts to know that you love someone for 3 yrs but knew it's impossible cause it's one sided....
    ThunderManami ThunderManami 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 4

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    WWW is a media to interact ..people control the machines which help them interact so how can human emotions be hidden or false if the intent is correct..we meet wrong people in...
    romel4747 romel4747 41-45, M Jan 17

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    if you truly love someone well then the distance will not matter what counts is where your heart is at true love will over look any distance and make it work
    phoenixprince15 phoenixprince15 13-15, M 4 Responses Jan 17

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    If we get what we want And still are unfulfilled, The question becomes did we really get what we want? I suppose I satiated my desire But in that satiation there was no...
    myvoyce2 myvoyce2 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    I hate my mom at certain times, but love her other times. I called her just now and casually asked, "Can I dye my hair?" and she said, "Yeah, sure." :D
    queenettejeanette queenettejeanette 13-15, F Jan 9

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    I am married to a woman whom i love. I care very deeply for her. However, we make love approximately three times a year. This has gone on for the past several years now. I simply...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 6

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    For a long time I was in love with someone who wasn't in love with me but now I'm over it, I have learned that people who act like they don't care about you it's because they truly...
    Marlenyfl83 Marlenyfl83 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    My 4 month affair ended suddenly when his wife discovered he had been chatting online with other people, mostly from Craigslist personals. I too found this out and confronted him...
    catsanddogs25 catsanddogs25 31-35, F Jan 13

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    I have been married for 7 years going on 8. We joke a lot and I think it's just our way of making the bad things ok. Because for the past little over year my husband has been...
    qjwoody06 qjwoody06 26-30, F Jan 6

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    I loved him way before we got married to other people and i still cant seem to stop loving him and he loves me too i know but cant say it for obvious reasons . We met as teenagers...
    solongago2 solongago2 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 21

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    paulacc11 paulacc11 26-30, F Jan 3

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    vanessacc11 vanessacc11 26-30, F Jan 4

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    Okay, well I was starting to know this guy and on New Years we spend it together and it was the first time I kissed him and we ended having sex. But before all of that happen I...
    ddanniiella ddanniiella 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 7

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    We just had a weekend trip to Sweden with my husband. I wasn't too excited about it, but since he was eager to visit some music shops there, I thought why not... I could do...
    Piscesrose Piscesrose 46-50, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    We were both attached to other people (not married). It started out as a casual affair but ended up going on for 1.5years until he ended it with me for another girl. She demanded...
    mydarksidenow mydarksidenow 26-30 3 Responses Jan 7

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