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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I've been married a long time now with my high school sweetheart. Although people may think I'm a jerk for longing to be with someone else, it is I that has always worked to keep...
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    I met my husband five years ago and married him a year ago. We worked together and when we first met I was instantly attracted but was in a relationship at the time as was he. A...
    chrissy0516 chrissy0516 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 12

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    THIS IS A TRUE STORY ABOUT ME, PRETENDING TO BE SOMEONE ELSE. BEFORE YOU START READING IT, I'D LIKE TO SAY THE GUY IN THIS STORY IS THE REASON WHY I DECIDED TO FINALLY TELL THE...
    anzenyan anzenyan 70+, M 6 days ago

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    It's one of those lonely nights again. As I sit here having a one sided conversation with my husband, I'm getting very little response in return. Then I wonder why I constantly...
    Macy21 Macy21 36-40, F 24 Responses 3 days ago

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    Well, just like what the title says... I'm pretending to be someone else, a girl that I'm not. :') Basically I'm a 19 year old boy and I met this amazing guy on an online game...
    rsjrj12 rsjrj12 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    For you IF you are A Female: In " relationship" Already with someone else; and Feeling Unappreciated OR Unloved BY THEM ? If I Write you, Under such conditions, I Am SORRY you are...
    desireindisguise desireindisguise 61-65 Mar 4

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    I hate being me most of the time and if I could I'd be someone else. Someone better with a clear mind and a bright future.
    Insanity404 Insanity404 18-21, F Mar 18

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    Honestly,I don't feel that I'm worth the dirt off of someone's shoe. I'm a worthless piece of garbage. I wouldn't think twice about giving up my life to save someone else's.
    DarkSecret62 DarkSecret62 18-21, M 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I'm in a complicated situation. I'm not in love but I've met someone, but he has a girlfriend and that's complicated too so we started seeing each other and a few months go by and...
    Toniommi Toniommi 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Hello, this is my first post here in Experience Project and I apologize that it's going to be a rather depressing first post. I don't really like myself. I often daydream that I'm...
    WanderingMind752 WanderingMind752 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    Why does someone makes you fall, but has no intention to catch you!! So weird.. Did I misinterpreted the signs/words.. Was it just for fun.. Or was he shaken by his own words...
    MaggieQra MaggieQra 36-40, F 2 Responses Mar 3

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    I am a massive idiot. I joined the "crazy guy that went half way around the world and blew his money for a girl who in the end didn't give a **** about him" club. A few months ago...
    Sheiskeepingmetogether Sheiskeepingmetogether 18-21, M 6 Responses Mar 11

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    How can you love someone with all your heart then have it turn into this! stranger living in the same house!!
    clduffy clduffy 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 13

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    I thought I could be strong enough,and when I heard your voice,I cried like a little kid,can't talk with you but keep crying.i may never see you again in the rest of my life,but...
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    said it once and il say it again im married but lonely as times goes by problems I dont confrot just get worse mariage is not punishment allways oposition allways agrersive...
    sirpercival sirpercival 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 10

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    I am married but lonely as my teen ager kids are getting wilder and harder trampling over borders broken by their mother being dramatic
    sirpercival sirpercival 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 10

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    It's heartbroken .when you loved someone by heart,it turned out he didn't.
    lesliechen lesliechen 22-25, F 8 Responses Mar 17

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    I love someone who has cancer and she talks about dying and I fall apart trying not to break and cry If i could id take her cancer so shed live shes beautiful and amazing and im...
    lostbrokeheart lostbrokeheart 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yes, I am married, with children, and have fallen in love with someone on the side. My new male lover makes me feel so wonderful and loved when we are together. We have so much...
    maryannelamb maryannelamb 46-50, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    I met him a year and a half ago and my world changed. I am married and he is 14 years younger. There was an instant connection, literal sparks. We have been seeing each other on...
    Kristen2331 Kristen2331 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I realise that this is quite a long post for anyone to have to read though; essentially I am asking for advice on a somewhat unusual situation. My stepdaughter Emma has recently...
    LouiseBainbridge LouiseBainbridge 66-70, F 4 Responses Mar 3

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    I didn't know I could so easily be moved to fall in love with her. It wasn't planned. I simply was looking for a lonely soul on EP who lived in the same state, was from the same...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 56-60, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    she is upstairs i am down here.if it were not for our boys we would go our separate ways. anyone else trapped and need someone to talk to.
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Mar 10

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    I feel isolated from women. Even though I'm married. It started after 3rd grade when I was taken out of my mixed primary school and sent to all boys schools for 9 years, but I do...
    Mrjones169 Mrjones169 46-50, M Mar 17

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    I am married with children and concidered attractive. Lately my husband has had other interests. I am feeling lonely and left out and thinking of cheating...Anybody else had this...
    MsTDawn MsTDawn 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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