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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 2 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2011

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    I'm 24 and met my husband in college when I was 18. We got married, and we've been together for about 6 years total. I've had bad depression my whole life, and an obsessive...
    FeelsTooMuch FeelsTooMuch 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am in a relationship. But I think, I'm still inlove with my ex. Who loves me back. But he also has a girlfriend. I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt my partner. I love...
    Ninaerindingle Ninaerindingle 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    As the title says...I recently fell in love with someone. Sparkles are in the air. He woos me and my feet is off the ground. I feel so excited to see him. Even talking to him gives...
    sleeplessin sleeplessin 31-35, F 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    For almost two years I have been in love with someone else. The first part of my story is at: EP Link That was in Sept 2012, I also posted an update to that part of the story in...
    browneyedgirl1234 browneyedgirl1234 31-35, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    My life has been a constant battle in so many ways and i feel i will always have to battle to keep as stable as i can and to stay away from toxic people. I don't hate people that...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I'm married but lonely. I have no friends, no one I can trust. There's something's I don't want to tell my husband but I have no one else to talk to. The next person I could talk...
    2O5E4 2O5E4 22-25, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    I do.. I really really do.. Well I know I'm this super awesome Mr. Epic Fantastic kind of guy (no not being conceited).. But sometimes I wish I can just be somebody else.. Like in...
    StevensTHEname StevensTHEname 26-30, M Apr 4

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    I finally was able to see my son today and she was keeping him from me for a reason until the courts stepped in. She's with someone else the whole time I was supporting her giving...
    Romans12 Romans12 41-45, M Apr 6

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    The guy that I really like has recently confessed his love for another girl. I really like him because he is easy to talk to (which I don't have with most people) and he is funny...
    lostandlonleysoul lostandlonleysoul 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I'm in love with my best friend. She's into someone else. Everyone says we're going to date eventually but I'm just not sure she wants to. She's not a lesbian and neither am I. I...
    Runnergirl4000 Runnergirl4000 26-30, F Mar 25

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    I adore having others shampoo my hair. It's my favorite part of getting my hair cut. I enjoy having someone else massage my scalp. It's great when they take there time rinsing...
    lucyyinthesky lucyyinthesky 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 9

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    I didn't realize it until last night I think I am in love with someone else. My mind often drifts to this person, and it's so wrong and would NEVER work ever. I have two kids a...
    funsnowgal funsnowgal 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I don't hate myself per-say but I do wonder what it's like to be someone else. Recently i've been wondering what it feels like to be Christopher Walken. I know it sounds silly...
    Monstermaster13 Monstermaster13 22-25, M Apr 5

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    She was amazing, and fun to talk to, and I fell in love, and I thought at the start so did she, but a few weeks later I knew she didn't. It was if I was there just because she was...
    Akwa57 Akwa57 18-21, M 2 Responses Apr 11

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    I meet this girl who I got so close to I began to breath the air she breathed. I wanted to be so close to her all the time and when she went out with her friends I use to get so...
    BrokenAngel35 BrokenAngel35 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    My husband of 8 years had an affair last year with a co-worker. He says it's over with her and that he wants to work on our marriage, but I always question if it is true or not...
    crowngirl54 crowngirl54 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 2

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    Those of you reading this post, I am just looking for advice. I feel I have tried so much(counseling, books, etc,etc) I am not looking to just chit chat with other lonely men...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 27 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    Recently in my life, I've been knocked back. Again. I love someone, yes love, who I've seen a lot of recently, it's hard anyway because they live near me. Awkward. So I've devoted...
    MRichie97 MRichie97 16-17, M Mar 29

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    I remember when I went through this the worst feeling ever. When you love someone and give them your all and the treat you like a piece of **** in return. I'm blessed that I have...
    jsabree18 jsabree18 18-21, F Apr 7

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    For any Demisexual people out there, you probably understand where I'm coming from when I say I've only truly loved someone once. I'm a Demisexual; and I can't fall in love without...
    SavedByMCR SavedByMCR 16-17, F Apr 10

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    To love someone is to entrust them with the power to crush your soul, your spirit and your heart, and trusting them not to do it. I guess I trusted the wrong person.
    NumbHearts NumbHearts 13-15, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I loved someone that didn't loved me. He used to chat on me everyday. He used to tell me 'goodnight' evernight. He played guiter for me. He gave the big doll to me. He talked to...
    preawsm preawsm 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Even til this day my feelings are so strong for him... I loved him, I love him but looking back it's pretty clear that the feelings are not mutual he must have stayed with me out...
    LadyMayah LadyMayah 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    It breaks my heart every time I see him. It just reminds me that he doesn't know me too well. I think I've always loved him, even when we were younger but I have never had the...
    InMybubble InMybubble 16-17, F Mar 26

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    I don't know why I hate people butt love people
    painfulwedgiegirl painfulwedgiegirl 13-15, F Apr 9

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    I've been with my husband for 8 years, we've been married for 3. We were high school sweethearts. He's a great guy, but not the most attentive... We don't share many interests or...
    oddbluebird oddbluebird 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I’m in my own personal hell. While S and I have managed to maintain a somewhat dignified plutonic relationship, my feelings for him remain unchanged. When we’re apart I...
    myownproblem13 myownproblem13 31-35, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    How could I ever have told you how much I love you with so many red lights. RED RED RED RED RED ******* lights. As though the mere mentioning of that word 'love' makes you want to...
    PansLabyrinth PansLabyrinth 70+ 1 hr ago

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    We sit next to each other everyday at work. It could be the loneliness of being in a hollow marriage but I can not stop thinking about this coworker. She is beautiful, elegant...
    Blindfoldeddance Blindfoldeddance 41-45, M Apr 9

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    Well, more like an extended engagement - for two reasons, saving money for marriage, and his seemingly disinterest in planning for it. We've been together for 10 years (he ignored...
    irritatednutbar irritatednutbar 36-40 7 Responses Mar 31

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    I have been married for 17 years and the spice has been out of out for 15 years....wish I had someone who was as in love as me
    jmp2014 jmp2014 46-50, M 5 Responses Mar 27

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    I am a marriage therapist. I am in individual counseling. I've tried couples counseling ( but he gets in a bad mood each time we go). I've read many books. Spoke to many friends...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 28

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    imagen someone going through their worst day of thier life they are just about to break and fall apart so they walk in the streets and look around.... nobody cares... but if the...
    butterflies1212 butterflies1212 16-17, F Mar 31

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    I have been married for 20 years now. I am the loneliest I have ever been in my life. My marriage started after I found out that my wife was pregnant with my oldest son, when I was...
    boatingJunkie boatingJunkie 46-50, M 6 Responses Apr 12

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    David, Sometimes I wonder what is is I’m supposed to do… what it is that would dull the pain I feel just being alive. It’s hard, going day to day without having the one...
    DancingWithFire DancingWithFire 16-17, F Apr 14