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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I'm a 24 year old female. My story started a long time ago. I was a sophmore in high school, I think I was 15. I was in chemistry and my teacher made me partner up with a boy. I...
    Fantasybird Fantasybird 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    He's older then me. & it can't be lust. I wasn't immediately attracted to him. He hired me & I'm very grateful for the opportunity he gave me. I love him in a very special way...
    flamedvelvet flamedvelvet 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 7

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    So I guess I'm just like every other person here that says they are married but lonely. So to start, I have been with my wife for 20+ years, and married for almost 18. We met...
    dgob1 dgob1 41-45, M 6 Responses Feb 6

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    I had a girlfriend that always said she loved me and we would have some of the best times together. I never laughed so much or quit smiling. I did everything with her but we had...
    Muleboy Muleboy 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 17

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    Can someone please tell me what it's like to have a spouse who makes you feel loved and wanted on Valentine's Day? I need to at least live vicariously through someone else's...
    Mike405 Mike405 51-55, M 5 Responses Feb 14

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    When I was in high school, I was often bullied for not looking good enough. I was always picked on because I do not have redeeming qualities except for being able to pass pop...
    crisseysaurus crisseysaurus 18-21, F Feb 16

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    Hi, I'm Katie. I'm from California and I'm 26 years old. I have given myself up for someone else before. I was getting annoyed with the situation, and I just did it. I don't...
    ksmith0315 ksmith0315 26-30 5 days ago

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    So there's this guy I have been so attracted with. We get to see each other most of the time. I believe he knows I like him so much. We eat lunch together sometimes, I mean if we...
    supercalifrog supercalifrog 22-25 Feb 6

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    This is a statement that is a cause of great confusion. I believe it should read I Want To Be An Equal In Someone Else Life !A team together, in harmony, not someone, trying to do...
    AfanOfbigNaturals AfanOfbigNaturals 41-45, M Feb 20

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    Am I just being lazy, undisciplined, weak, cowardly, stupid, or self-pitying? I'm always worried that I'm making too big a deal out of things, or that maybe I'm not being strict...
    quirkygirl520 quirkygirl520 22-25, F Feb 17

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    Sometimes I think about you, The way you would look at me, Your daring eyes lock in mine. The way you would run your fingertips, across my hair, across my back, across my lips...
    Francoise25 Francoise25 18-21, F Feb 9

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    I fell so hard for this girl. We started talking online. And then I met her at the club. She does drag and she was performing that night and we talked and had a good time and for...
    Thatonegreyeyedgirl Thatonegreyeyedgirl 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I thought I was lonely before I got married, but now I feel lonelier being married because I feel like I can't socialize and enjoy things anymore without my wife getting on my case...
    Benster5 Benster5 36-40 5 Responses Feb 2

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    Since being on here. It is amazing how many people. Be it women or men. Who are in the same situation as me. Married but lonely. No affection. No attention. A bit uncomfortable...
    Leftyss Leftyss 46-50, M 4 Responses Feb 22

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    I'm not sure this fits me exactly, seeing as how I am still in this marriage But in many ways I think I fall into a different type of love I fall out of being "in love" with my...
    lu7998 lu7998 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    I loved someone that didn't love me.. Everyone has been through this before huh? I obviously loved a guy the very first minute I spoke to him... We didn't talk much but it was...
    yourxworstxblessing yourxworstxblessing 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 18

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    He told me he loved me constantly, and fairly (too) quickly, like at the very beginning of the relationship. I suppose when you physically hear "I love u", then respond back "love...
    Lthayer2011 Lthayer2011 22-25, F 6 Responses Feb 18

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    Loved someone that didn't love me.. sad, but he's definitely worth every pain... i miss you DB.... i hope you're happy and always safe..... :)
    TrueLove213 TrueLove213 26-30, F Feb 20

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    If you haven't loved someone who hasn't loved you then you're either lying for some strange reason or you're young or you have no love life.
    Johnviolinist823 Johnviolinist823 22-25, M 4 Responses Feb 21

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    So I have been dealing with severe depression since the age of four. I have spent years being told , and eventually believing, that I will beat this and live a long and happy life...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    There is a sad comfort in knowing I never meant anything to you really. I don't know how you could say you love someone and then not be there for them at the very moment they need...
    c0mah c0mah 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 14

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    I would love to love someone online preferably on EP!
    Jack1230 Jack1230 18-21, M 2 Responses Feb 22

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    I am a man of 44 years of age live in South Florida , but I'm not married and I'm far been tied to a complicated relationship that eventually it will end , the reasons for this...
    lance2014 lance2014 41-45, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I've been married for 39 years to a girl I met in high school. We married because she was going to have a baby...I dd the responsible thing at the time. We lost the baby at 6...
    linkbelt6335 linkbelt6335 56-60, M 2 Responses Feb 5

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    So my husband and I. We've been together for 12 years, married for 8. We have 2 kids together. We met when we were both abroad, and he pretty much moved to a different continent...
    quira00 quira00 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have been married for less than a year now. To be honest, I didn't want to get married at the time, I would have much preferred to wait a couple more years. However, I was...
    languishing languishing 26-30, M 5 Responses Feb 13

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    My wife and I have not had intimacy in years and are living like roommates. We have told each other that we are no longer in love with the other even though we treat each other...
    VoloProVeritasVV VoloProVeritasVV 56-60, M Feb 13

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