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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 78 People

    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 46-50, M Aug 24, 2014

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 2 Responses Dec 27, 2011

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2014

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 2 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    The hardest part of loving someone that doesn't love u back is having to see them everyday..... cant help but to look at her and have to look away cuz it Hurts so much u can't...
    dodgergirl1 dodgergirl1 31-35, F 1 Response 6 hrs ago

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    It always been my nightmare.. But its happening now.. How I wish i could stop this and go there Rather than faking the fact somehow Your everyweekend is my weakness Spending...
    nalbyan nalbyan 31-35, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I sometimes wonder how my whole life began to crumble. I have it all....money...nice cars....success.....trips...the whole thing but the most important part in life.....desire...a...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 11 Responses 1 day ago

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    Where do I start? 33 years ago when I met him? 18 years ago when I married him? 13 years ago when I was diagnosed with my illness? Or 2014 when everything I knew came to a...
    Rapunzel66 Rapunzel66 46-50 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Today in the wonderful world of wanting someone I can't have I was reminded of how painful it is to know the "other person" really does exist. He and I were joking, all day long...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I'm sorry for my bad grammar but here I go. Ok so I am in love with this amazing guy who is so sweet and gentle and the most beautiful blue eyes and basically loved him since I was...
    DeadDirection07 DeadDirection07 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    There are numerous older men in the world who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to...
    kimcc11 kimcc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Perhaps this experience explains it all. It also explains why I continue to come back to this site. Nights like these I crave for conversation. All my attempts to make...
    WifeInWaiting WifeInWaiting 36-40, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    It sucks being alone at night after a long day of work. I would kill to actually be able to sit down with someone every night and have dinner with them. Have a conversation, have...
    mustlovedogs99 mustlovedogs99 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Another story, this one is about something that happened today that made my heart go all a-flutter and make me feel like I was in a Jane Austin novel... Yesterday I treated myself...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    It has been a comfort, being a member of this EP group, there are so many people in a similar boat and sharing a similar pain it is truly comforting. Emotions are such a...
    RaiseYourWhat RaiseYourWhat 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I've been seeing a guy for 10 months who is newly divorced and he has talked about a future, I've never been so comfortable with someone before in every aspect of my life, except...
    mesarav mesarav 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    He works nights, coming home to an empty house is a nice saving grace; but I'd rather be coming home to someone who cares. I just want someone to be there for me. 😔
    mustlovedogs99 mustlovedogs99 26-30, F 14 Responses 3 days ago

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    This isn't really anywhere close to anyone else's experiences, most others dated or even married someone, only to have their heart broken. My experience isn't exactly like that...
    Venum21 Venum21 13-15, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I started writing to a man in prison after I read a book about his life and his crime. Our childhoods and upbringing were very similar so I could relate to him. We had similar...
    Daquiri928 Daquiri928 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    7 months ago, I met this guy and I felt like we clicked. Unfortunately, we had sex the first time we met. I learned that he was going through a divorce. We got close very quickly...
    EmberBishop EmberBishop 26-30, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I heard this old Queen song and it made me think of my own situation but without feeling bad.. I'm actually at the gym singing out loud lol. Boy I have a bad voice lol Anyway.. I...
    Paul47C Paul47C 46-50, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I was previously seeing someone who I fell for. Cut the long story short, he woo'd me and done everything to make me fall for him. I was in a really bad relationship before I met...
    cancerian19 cancerian19 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Thats me right now i liked this girl who liked someone else.
    Gavin788 Gavin788 13-15, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    And it made me never want to love someone like that ever again. I'd actually met this guy when we were both in first grade. He and I attended the same elementary school for a while...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    With limerence (which I have) there is a term called NC. It means having no contact with your limerent object (LO). I've been going NC for a few months now. But yesterday was a...
    SZPDiablo SZPDiablo 31-35, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    So, I have been struggling now with this same thing for a long time. Except now it has gotten to me very badly. I want to confess to the girl I have lied to for years, she thinks I...
    Scaredgirl22 Scaredgirl22 26-30, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    Many women seem to want the attention of married men over single ones...maybe it's the fact that they belong to someone else and that's a turn on, or maybe that they are good...
    Mg7785 Mg7785 26-30, M Aug 26

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    I loved her with all of my being... Every pain she ever experienced was like a knife in my heart. All I wanted to do was show her that she was so much more than what she believed...
    sunnydream24 sunnydream24 18-21, F Aug 25

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    He says he'll never not love me but goes 'home' like were breaking up, then 2 days later he will come crawling back with nothing but love and adoration, saying he's just scared...
    KellyS76 KellyS76 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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