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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    Ive been married about 7 years.

    At first things were great. He wanted to be around me a lot, seemed to care about my feeling, was empathetic towards me and others and appeared to accept me for who I am. This changed after a year when I got pregnant. He became controlling, insensitive and passive aggressive...
    LoveMyLifeWithThem LoveMyLifeWithThem 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 41-45, M a week ago

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 18-21, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2011

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    In Love With Another Teacher

    Since being on maternity leave in 2009, I have stopped loving my husband. He was really cruel to me during this time and started verbally and emotionally abusing me. He has since changed the intimidation and name calling but his abusive tendencies come out sometimes. My love for...
    1 Response Feb 17, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    First off please excuse the grammar and puncuation. Im writing this from an outdated and slow tablet. This is my first post and I'm not sure if im telling you all this for advice...
    Whatstruggle Whatstruggle 26-30, M Aug 3

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    It's been a long time for me not posting anything on this wall. I'm quite busy now since I've got this new job. This new office is also where I met him. Before I start the story...
    NevaWhite NevaWhite 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    i used to love my dreamboy that was my classmate;all the time i was searching for his attention;in our institute all the boys were looking forward to even just talking with me,and...
    knowmeevery knowmeevery 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    Well it sucks!! having an infatuation feeling with someone else it feels good. great actually, but I really don't understand, why?! is when you confess your feelings to the"person...
    jayperez89 jayperez89 22-25, M 2 hrs ago

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    Hi hope someone can help I'm married but I have fell in love with someone I don't love my husband the only thing is the person I fell in love with deleted me as a friend on...
    Zoe86 Zoe86 26-30, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I'm listening to a love song normally listen to Rap and just because I love someone that done't know it Anyone can relate
    MilesMathers MilesMathers 13-15, M 7 hrs ago

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    My wife no longer loves me, no matter what I do she always see problems with everything. Besides, she has someone else to love now... I love my kids and I still love her, but...
    xmhm xmhm 31-35, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Im very sincere & kindhearted! I belong to decent,respectable & hardworking family..being overweight i had late marriage at 28 & have asymmetrical bust..it felt miracle when i got...
    notwitoutmyson notwitoutmyson 26-30, F Aug 14

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    I want to be someone else. My life is functioning on pure envy. Being angry at pretty girls is actually the only thing keeping my energy up. and I stress over it constantly. Seeing...
    battlefighter battlefighter 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I am in love with someone who's in love with someone else, who is in love with someone else. Can't you see I am in the same boat? I'd be there for you but I get it. They're the...
    LoverOfAllSouls LoverOfAllSouls 13-15, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I really hate what my life has become. It seems like every time I gain something, every time I take a step further, its only so I can fall back farther. I can relate only to the...
    ArisaM ArisaM 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    Im a 16 year old girl who pretends to be someone else in my mind. I started doing this when I was like 12 or 13. I pretend to be this really beautiful girl named Lily who has...
    ABB98 ABB98 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    I feel like such a ****** person. I was pretending to be someone else and met a really nice guy. I just blocked him on everything because I have to stop. It's like I'm addicted to...
    Knope77 Knope77 18-21, F Aug 16

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    I think it pretty much started when my girlfriend died. I was driving and fell asleep at the wheel. A friend of mine, who I met online and have continued to talk with really helped...
    JTC888 JTC888 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I had a first love when I was 14 with a boy. But then I had my first love with a girl. I thought she loved me. I should have known she would never choose me when she would get mad...
    brejack07 brejack07 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 6

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    I see him and her and theyre happy together He makes her happy She makes him happy Its like i dont even cross him mind Hes respectful I appreciate that She a good person I despise...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 16 hrs ago

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    Title:Song For You By:GingerSlim (Chorus) I just can't get passed the fact that I lost you Knowing how d*** hard that I tried I would have been there for you baby I blew it and...
    GingerSlimSTL GingerSlimSTL 18-21, M Aug 4

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    Well I met this guy online he seemed so nice so we went and met each other and I found out he was nice hot and all that but after 10 minutes of being with him we did a few things u...
    JC6596 JC6596 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 6

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    About 80% of the time I act and feel like someone else(more often than not when I'm alone). Its normally a celebrity or a character in a tv show, film, book etc. I find a few...
    moondancee moondancee 13-15, F Aug 16

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    I've kept a secret from you. You thought that I was perfect, but I'm far from it. I know I'm young and human, but that's no excuse. You my not understand. I don't know if this was...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    So I'm a 17 year old guy who was pretending to be a girl that I know in real life. I really don't know why I did it, I guess I wanted attention, because she's really cute looking...
    GuyHOLLER GuyHOLLER 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 23

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    Well it really hurts to share... I was with this girl for 3 years and I don't memeber when she started to pull away... I tried so hard to get things back on the track again..but...
    atarod atarod 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 5

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    His name was Levi. And man, he was so gorgeous. He felt it, the compassion I had for him. The love i was willing to give him, and the care. Yet he acted as although he was...
    caminut caminut 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 12

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    Once I'm free to date, will I? Yes. Until and unless the man I really want makes a commitment to me - I will not tie myself down or make promises. My brain says, "Date other...
    TheTruthIfItKillsMe TheTruthIfItKillsMe 46-50, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Who hasn't? i could count...but then i couldn't... But then i have fallen for hot dudes on a tv or laptop screen, and rewind or pause and stare at the pic and sigh, until my heart...
    suziewuzie suziewuzie 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    I love someone who don't love me. I fell in love when I am 14. I love her madly. She was my classmate who cheeled up with frnds an also popular in the school. At first I hate her...
    paulsneha paulsneha 18-21, F 6 days ago

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    How awful to love someone who doesn't love you back, at least not in the way you want her to. You are best friends, and you're always there for her her, but she has told you that...
    logic93 logic93 18-21, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I love someone who I can't have
    Universal3xpression Universal3xpression 18-21, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I loved someone who wasn't ready to be in love. We were young and I totally understand it now. At the time I felt so empty and I let it all take over my life. I dislike how I dealt...
    InfiniteSunshine InfiniteSunshine 26-30, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I hate having to stand outside the bar but love being young and taken care of
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Aug 6

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    I am really torn and desperately need advice. I have been married to my husband for 8 years. We have two kids together. Our relationship has always been rocky and I was unhappy for...
    ok4u ok4u 31-35, F 2 Responses