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I Am Married But Love Someone Else

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    I am 24 yr of age, I get married

    when I was 21 yrs old. I love my husband, I loved him and I fought for him,, my family doesnt want him but therefore, I tried to understand and accept him, we made a way to make us to be marry. And then, we got what we want, his parents went to us to ask my hands for him...
    redscorpion15 redscorpion15 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6

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    I am so lucky... I married an incredibly

    beautiful and amazing woman... I will love her forever... Yet it lacks that spark, that fire, that passion... Yes I have experienced that connection before... I guess I can live without it, but I'm drawn to it... I feel so alive when it burns from within... Lucky in so...
    AquaC69 AquaC69 41-45, M Aug 24

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    Living Two Lives

    I have been married for 4 years and although I love my husband after the first year or two I felt like something was missing like there was a void in my life. We moved often, I'd buy new cars, try to find any material thing to fill the void in my life. My husband has always been...
    Liz26 Liz26 26-30 1 Response Jun 18, 2013

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    Married But In Love With Someone Else Dont Know What To Do?

    Im married we've been together sixteen very long and rough years about three years ago we began to grow apart I believe it has alot to do with the fact that he drinks and I can't stand him when he does he isn't violent at least not to the point that he hits me he just likes to...
    oklagir oklagir 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 13, 2009

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    Classic

    I made the classic mistake of marrying the woman I got pregnant. Only to find out that my ex and me still click in all the ways, we were just in a difficult place to help each other when we broke up, we never stoped caring. But as fate would have it we "moved on" and I...
    melaometralha melaometralha 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 6, 2009

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    I Just Found Out, After All This Time, My Real Love Loved Me All Along

    I got married to my husband of 15 yrs after I had moved across the country-by myself. Then I found out i was pregnant.The father of my child THEN decided to move where I was and we married. We were both so young. Our child was born the day before my husband turned 21. Our first...
    lostnlonelyforRB lostnlonelyforRB 36-40 1 Response Oct 27, 2010

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    I Am Married But Love Another Woman.

    I am unhappily married man and in love with another woman, she is 26 yo and she loves me too much too, we never tell each other about our feelings but we have the feeling that we are in love. she is a temporary employer at the same company and from the first day we r always...
    a6110us a6110us 46-50 3 Responses Oct 18, 2011

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    Very Confused

    I still love my husband but I feel like the connection between us is crumbling. Aside from that I think I am falling in love with someone else. I hate that I feel this way, and I have no intention of cheating on my husband but I am coming to the realization that I would rather...
    brokencrown brokencrown 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 8, 2012

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    Me And Ec

    i have known him since he was in 9th grade and my oldest daughter was in 7th. i was married for 30 years to a person who after all of that time , emotions invested and 2 daughters,from him also, asked me what i did for him for 30 years. i am no longer with him, i will be married...
    patrea patrea 56-60 Dec 2, 2011

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    Life is Complicated

    I wish I didn't feel this way about this other person.
    isabella43 isabella43 26-30, F 3 Responses Oct 14, 2009

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    A Love That Will Never Be

    My husband and I have been married for 15 years. The first 5 years of our marriage was good. He used to be such a kind and considerate man and would put my needs above his. He was not perfect though by any means, but I loved him deeply. He was the youngest child in his family and...
    TnVolsGirl TnVolsGirl 36-40, F 1 Response Dec 27, 2011

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    Somethings Gotta Give

    I've only been married a short time, not even a year. I am unhappy with my marriage already and for many reasons. My husband and I have a son together, D (for short), who is almost 5 months old. We love him but I think he's the only reason we got married. He claims that he loves...
    ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola ImEndangeredGimmeYourCola 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 8, 2011

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    J

    More people than not will think I am wrong for doing this, even though I have been through so much.  The thing is I don't feel quilty for what I have done or what I will do  We just try to see each other when we can, and we talk almost every day.
    jslioness jslioness 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 27, 2009

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    It's Been Two Years

    I'll never be with the person I love, but still think about her every day. Hopelessly, give up everything, die the next day just to spend a night with her love. It's driving me nuts. I know it's messed up, and don't care for a morality lecture here. My question is, should I leave...
    JimGreen JimGreen 26-30, M 5 Responses Dec 16, 2011

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    The Woman Of My Dreams Is Not My Wife.

    I am currently in my second marriage.  After I seperated from my first wife, I met a wonderful lady online.  We talked a lot, then hung out together quite a bit, and ended up falling in love.  Our lives were headed in different directions, and I ended up...
    Griffin2020 Griffin2020 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2010

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    Am Married But In Love So Deeply In My Love

    hi i been with my boyfriend since am 15 year and we married for over five years now but am so in love with this guy for about four years now i love my husband a lot for being there in my life but the other guy i love him so much he make me feel happy my husband treated me so bad...
    gasbite gasbite 46-50, F Aug 2, 2012

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    Hi, im already in a relationship for almost 3 years actually. But there was this guy at work who really caught my attention. At first i really don't focus on it. I just like him...
    shinju03 shinju03 22-25, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    He'l never love me , not like he loves HER .. No matter how hard I try I will never be what he wants because I am just not that person. I can't be someone I'm not. I can't change...
    Purrkitty Purrkitty 31-35, F Nov 29

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    this is totally not true. bc i love him, and he "loved" me. but i guess it wasnt real love because love never goes away and it wouldn't be "loved". it'd just be, i love him and he...
    flawlxsskay flawlxsskay 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    I'm missing you like crazy today. I can feel it in every bit of my fibre. I'm missing you like crazy & the worst part is that there is absolutely nothing I can do about it. I could...
    kimberleyyy kimberleyyy 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I love my husband he works his *** off. I try to do what I can to help. I'm back in school to make a new career. I have been in situations where I have falling in love also with...
    kavett kavett 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Okay so, i pretend to be someone else on social media. i've been doing this for years. about a year ago, as this fake person, i met this guy. i fell in love with him. he made me...
    courtneythepizzaqueen courtneythepizzaqueen 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 18

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    My emotions are all over the page.. First thanksgiving I have been alone. The H has our son since I work all weekend. I'm trying to focus on myself and what will make me happy...
    kathryn30 kathryn30 26-30, F 2 Responses Nov 28

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    I wish I was a beautiful emo chick with beautifully straightened, dyed, and layered hair, perfect make-up, and straight pearly whites. I wish I had a petite figure with perfect...
    udamansteel udamansteel 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    Me and bf is going through a relationship for almost 5 months. I really love him and I know he really love me too. Me and him never have any fight or misunderstanding along this...
    hazyqa hazyqa 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    How can I feel alone when I sleep next to you every night. How can a love I have for you seems so distance sometimes. When I think of you why do I feel that I lost you and, your...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 23

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    I always felt that he left me for someone else because I wasn't good enough for him... but maybe the truth was that he didn't deserve my love, he didn't see my worth and he wasn't...
    missssyme missssyme 31-35, F 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I can't sleep and while my wife can I decided to come here. I'm not physically attracted to her anymore and it has been sometime since she and I were sexual with each other. I...
    WantsToBeADad WantsToBeADad 41-45, M 4 Responses Nov 21

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    Why couldent you tell me there was someone else and you just left me there wanting to die :,(
    Logic22 Logic22 13-15, M 2 Responses Dec 6

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    Well I'm not legally married but we been living together for over 3 years and it feels like I am. I have told him to leave but he doesn't understand. I feel so alone. it's like he...
    chococatalatte chococatalatte 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    I wasn't married but felt it. My bf and I lived together. Things started going wrong... He left me 3 days ago and brought pizza. Over pizza he was staring me on the floor crying...
    honeybee86 honeybee86 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 8

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    I would have never given this much thought until joining ep and making connections and friendships here. When you remove the physical part of getting to know someone your other...
    455cargirl 455cargirl 36-40, F 25 Responses Nov 24

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    Before I get hate, I want to start off by saying I am 14 only. I'm in high school so I may not know what love is but love is indescribable. His name is going to be changed to Noel...
    peachmilk peachmilk 16-17, F Dec 5

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    Ever wake up asking yourself, "How did I ever love someone that does not love me? How can that happen? One sided love??" and then you go back and analyze the past and say, "Damn...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I love someone that doesn't love me. It hurts so bad. I'm still not over him. I don't think I ever will be.
    Pereiranatalie Pereiranatalie 18-21, F Nov 17

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    So yeah I loved someone who didn't love me, I gave him my all, I loved him at his worst and tried to be the one to show him how great he really was, i always listened, and made him...
    Lai96 Lai96 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 22

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    I was with the same girl for three years and I love her so much. we broke up two months ago and she is with another girl. while we were dating I wasn't out yet so I kind of hid her...
    rachellynn99 rachellynn99 18-21, F Nov 30

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    I loved my ex and though we broke up and it was for many right reasons, I still care. The way she talked to me, the way she acted I now know she never loved me. Saying I love you...
    Calvexz Calvexz 26-30, F Dec 2

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    in truth, I've loved a lot of people who didn't love me back. I've also found myself unable to love someone that for all intents and purposes i should have...just didnt. I imagine...
    elly40 elly40 41-45, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    hilarycc12 hilarycc12 26-30, F 11 hrs ago

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    Many years ago I was dumb and naive. I never realized that there was a girl that wanted me. We were friends. I never realized what was in my subconscious. Looking back, I see all...
    ManinNY ManinNY 41-45, M 3 hrs ago

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    Guess this should be the forum to post my stories because I'm definitely not the Other Woman anymore. But I've fallen madly in love with a single guy (SG) but I'm still married :(
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    I'm married, 2 gorgeous and very little children. Last year I had an affair which ended 2 months ago after 14 months. We got very close and started to plan a life together, but...
    michaelsotherwoman michaelsotherwoman 36-40, F 8 Responses Nov 25

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    Hello everyone. I used to go by another name on EP but I had to get rid of that account and start this one. In short I married the wrong woman. I should have stayed with the one...
    Burai Burai 31-35, M 1 Response Nov 25

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    hi my name is doug I am a 43 year old man basically had to quit my jobs 3 years ago I was a licensed firemen and paramedics and I also worked on small engines and vehicles all my...
    1971douglas 1971douglas 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    Spent basically the entire weekend with him...off and on anyways...Then last night I saw him and spent the night with him and all day! Enjoyed every moment. Waking up having been...
    nolasanchez30 nolasanchez30 31-35, F Dec 7

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    There is this guy I had feelings for since I was 14. He used to throw rubber bands at me. I remember one time he told me " looked good". In high school, his friends would tell me...
    browntaurus browntaurus 26-30, F 4 hrs ago

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