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I Am Married But Miss My Ex Boyfriend

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    I Miss Him

    This isn't going to be what it sounds like. My husband and my ex-boyfriend are the same person -- after all, that's what happens to the boyfriend who became your husband, right? He becomes a former boyfriend. And that former boyfriend was a different person, because the bond...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Jul 19, 2011

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    My Fate

    Hi m not going to disclose my identity...well i recently got married few months back...but the prob is i still love my ex...we tried alot to get married but my parents refused...that was also my mistake  actually i was in love with other guy (my husband)it wasn't love actually...
    ulovemenot ulovemenot 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2011

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    ....and it's a strange comfort to find so many others in similar positions... Looking for intimacy and fun- in the true senses of both words- any other UK based souls around?
    tryagainuk tryagainuk 46-50, M 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    One boring day after another....
    Bikinigardener Bikinigardener 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 21

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    Any girls from Ontario on here?
    Brentroberts1972 Brentroberts1972 41-45, M 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I completely agree with the below statement, just curious about how everyone feels about it?
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    oversimplification oversimplification 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    amie26 amie26 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 10

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    Reading all these stories of women who have stayed for 10+ years makes my heart ache. I don't want to put up with this emotional turmoil for that long. How did you ladies find the...
    Galaxystar25 Galaxystar25 22-25, F 1 day ago

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