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I Am Married But Miss My Ex Boyfriend

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    I Miss Him

    This isn't going to be what it sounds like. My husband and my ex-boyfriend are the same person -- after all, that's what happens to the boyfriend who became your husband, right? He becomes a former boyfriend. And that former boyfriend was a different person, because the bond...
    auroramaru auroramaru 46-50, F Jul 19, 2011

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    My Fate

    Hi m not going to disclose my identity...well i recently got married few months back...but the prob is i still love my ex...we tried alot to get married but my parents refused...that was also my mistake  actually i was in love with other guy (my husband)it wasn't love actually...
    ulovemenot ulovemenot 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 16, 2011

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