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I Am Married But Not to My Soul Mate

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    I Am Married Not To My Soulmate

    i've been marred for 2 years and i have a baby but i feel that i do not love him as it was my true love and i know that he is not my soul mate and it make me very sad i wish it was different !! i married him because my biological clock was ticking and wanted family and...
    poofsun poofsun 26-30, F 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    I had posted before about being in love with my

    ex husband. I am married and have been for almost 7 years now. We were together for 10 years before we got married. He had also been married before me, so both of us were reluctant to say the least. I had thought of my ex over the years. We were both young when we parted ways...
    flshhrt76 flshhrt76 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 24

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    It's soul destroying, having committed my everything to someone yet I feel so alone. How can it be that I feel more lonely married than if I was single??
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    i sent a letter through a pigeon wrote i have one heart other one is missing please report it tell me where is the other one cause i cant seem to find her yet i need her i want...
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    He works nights, coming home to an empty house is a nice saving grace; but I'd rather be coming home to someone who cares. I just want someone to be there for me. 😔
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    To me it seems that everywhere I go to look I'm searching for something just out of reach and it's frustrating cuz I can't find it. I just hope she's looking for me too
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    willb75 willb75 36-40, M 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    MarineWife1995 MarineWife1995 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    MarineWife1995 MarineWife1995 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    lustinforlove lustinforlove 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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