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I Am Married But Not to My Soul Mate

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    I Am Married Not To My Soulmate

    i've been marred for 2 years and i have a baby but i feel that i do not love him as it was my true love and i know that he is not my soul mate and it make me very sad i wish it was different !! i married him because my biological clock was ticking and wanted family and...
    poofsun poofsun 26-30, F 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    I had posted before about being in love with my

    ex husband. I am married and have been for almost 7 years now. We were together for 10 years before we got married. He had also been married before me, so both of us were reluctant to say the least. I had thought of my ex over the years. We were both young when we parted ways...
    flshhrt76 flshhrt76 36-40, F Jun 24

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