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I Am Married But Not to My Soul Mate

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    I Am Married Not To My Soulmate

    i've been marred for 2 years and i have a baby but i feel that i do not love him as it was my true love and i know that he is not my soul mate and it make me very sad i wish it was different !! i married him because my biological clock was ticking and wanted family and...
    poofsun poofsun 26-30, F 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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