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I Am Married But Not to My Soul Mate

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    I Am Married Not To My Soulmate - i've been marred for 2 years and i have a baby but i feel that i do not love him as it was my true love and i know that he is not my soul mate...
    poofsun poofsun 26-30, F 5 Responses May 5, 2010

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    Well, E.P., this is not your average story and it is one that I'm extremely embarassed by and do not speak of to anyone- while at the same time being the most beautiful thing I...
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    LocketRainbow LocketRainbow 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 26

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