I Am Married, Lonely And Crave Intimacy

My husband and I have become no more than roommates. While he seems perfectly content this has made me incredibly unhappy and sad to the point I am considering leaving. I don't want to live like this any longer. For many years we couldn...

how can I tell you ,about years of pain?,pain and love ,just the same ,child born felt stuck and fried ,only just learning that my ch. priest lied ,
I for sure love her but ,I must be honest,i hold her tight and get no charge ,intimacy...

The very condensed version - I was happily married and had a romantic intimate relationship with my husband. We were the world to each other. He died suddenly. I was so alone. I dated, but still felt very alone. I did finally accept...

I wanted a perfect ending, now I've learned, the hard way, that some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing. It's about having to change. Then taking the moment and making the best of it, without...

I have been married for 19 years and at times I have felt more like a roommate, then his mate.  We  have shared the house, the kids but not not much more.  Over the past year or so it seems like the only time we have sex is if I...

Hi everyone. New too this just wanting to know how does one go through a relationship without having love in a marriage

I find that while at work in the oilfield, my mind wanders to what if stories. Like what if a beautiful woman walks onto location and is stranded and offers a bj for a ride back to town, or wants to have sex in the work truck.

Sitting in the silence, the years brought absence.Loves grown distant and cold.
Two ships that pass in the night, one no longer aware of the other.
As something misplaced, but no longer sought,
who would had known, who would had thought...

I working on the sofa, we hae not passed a word. I have doen everything for her tonight like most nights. No thanks, she takes advantage of me evryday. I know it but i think if i do stuff one day she will notice my acts.

I need some...

My story should have been the stuff of movies and romance novels. But, life has a way of twisting the things we want most.

Growing up, I was raised in a very disfunctional environment. My father was a drunken, abusive tyrrant, and...

I don't even know where to begin. I'm 30 years old, 2 beautiful children and married to a man who has become to "lazy" to be bothered with me. I have been with my husband for almost 14 years, married for 5. We were best friends growing...

Pretty cool and completely unexpected thing happened tonight… I looked at my wife and was captivated by her beauty, all over again. It had been a long while since I looked at her that way. I had target fixation. I couldn’t turn...

I have been married for 5 years, we had our first child a year ago. I love my wife (I think) and she loves me, yet every time we try to do something together, even watch a movie at home or go out for dinner at the local club, I shut...

After being married to the same person for almost 36 years I thought I knew my husband. Turns out everything I thought about my husband was all wrong. All these years I really thought he loved me and now I really believe that he never...

do you hug your sp[ouse and shudder?well I do

So If you read my other post you know my situation and lack of intimacy in all ways with my other half. So anyway I just sat down with my husband and started off the conversation by saying "Hey I want to have a conversation about...

Today is definately one of those. Even though I've known this for a few years now, it is still hard when I'm reminded that I'm totally alone. At least in my marriage. When I have a bad day the only thing I can count on is him making...

How do you stop the tears from falling?How do you stop the heart from crying?How do you fill your arms with the love and warmth from someone who wants to be in them?This is how I am feeling now as I write this. My marriage has been...

My wife is not a monster. She is not evil. But she is terribly messed up and in her world of a huge pile of mentally debilitating s*** she has brought on herself, one of the things that crops up in her life almost every day is paranoia...

I hate the feeling of being alone, really hate it sometimes. It seems like getting married should have guaranteed you'd have one person in your life, by your side, no matter what. I hate how hollow it makes me feel, the empty look in...