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I Am Married, Lonely And Crave Intimacy

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    Rescue Me! - I can't live without affection and attention for one more minute! A physical affair is out of the question, but maybe having an emotional connection again can fill...
    saphirah saphirah 41-45, F 11 Responses Jan 30, 2013

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    Light From A Dark Place - Pretty cool and completely unexpected thing happened tonight… I looked at my wife and was captivated by her beauty, all over again. It had been a long...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses Mar 7, 2013

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    Untouchable - Now I'm at the point where I can't even be in the same room with anymore. I find myself dreaming of a life without him and it excites me. Days spent doing what I want...
    baabes72 baabes72 41-45, F 8 Responses Jul 21, 2013

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    Is it really possible? - ...for a marriage to last with an unfulfilling sex life? I've shared couple of my writings about this. It's not that my husband and I don't have sex...
    gypsysoul08 gypsysoul08 22-25, F 6 Responses Sep 12, 2013

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    Some Days More Than Others - Today is definately one of those. Even though I've known this for a few years now, it is still hard when I'm reminded that I'm totally alone. At...
    jencpa jencpa 31-35, F 5 Responses Jun 5, 2013

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    Being practical, I don't believe a solution will be created to solve the feelings of emptiness that I seek to fill. The best possible outcome, is this would be an outlet to rant...
    ronniepaulmichigan ronniepaulmichigan 51-55, M 1 Response Feb 15

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    Is it possible to still be lonely even though I have a boyfriend and a husband but neither seem to have time for me which seems crazy cause I'm the one with two jobs and taking...
    Jessmesspen Jessmesspen 22-25, F 4 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    What About My Birthday...? - Well I've been married almost 2 years now and things have just been getting steadily worse in our marriage, sex, is almost nonexistent. I treat her...
    AZmichael21 AZmichael21 26-30, M 4 Responses Nov 22, 2013

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    rahulmahi rahulmahi 22-25, M Mar 29

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    I think the institution of marriage is very outdated and should be changed. Maybe have the option every ten years to renew the contract or just divide assets and go your separate...
    mwessley mwessley 41-45, M 4 Responses Feb 25

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    I am recently married, but our intimate moments are few and far between. I love to cuddle and be touched, but can't have sex because of ED. I suppose that I could solve this, but I...
    2tall4u2014 2tall4u2014 46-50, M 2 Responses Jan 15

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    Over - I'm over bein married it's over rated it really is I am drained emotionally physically and mentally I am in a marriage where I am the only adult and the only one fighting...
    mommaof3boys1girl mommaof3boys1girl 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 17, 2013

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    Perfect Endings? - I wanted a perfect ending, now I've learned, the hard way, that some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, or end. Life is about not knowing. It's about...
    southernbelle93126 southernbelle93126 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I have been married since I was 19. I married the woman of my dreams. We gave been married for almost 18 years. The only issue I have is my insatiable sex drive. She does not deny...
    Fixinsickies Fixinsickies 36-40, M 6 Responses Jan 13

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    I am craving attention from my husband or any other form of human reaction. I don't get out of the house because I can't drive and he is gone 5 days a week. I sit home 5 of those...
    mrcrackers mrcrackers 36-40 2 Responses Mar 1

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    I have accepted that our marriage was going to take the back seat over this past year as my husband tries to heal after the unexpected loss of his mother. I have accepted that my...
    TryAnStopMe TryAnStopMe 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Like Everyday - This morning I made a pot of coffee and poured your cup as I've done most every morning since we married. Last night I came to bed with you and put aside my...
    Elsiboney Elsiboney 46-50, M 5 Responses May 8, 2013

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    I Understand Now, But Struggling To Accept - The very condensed version - I was happily married and had a romantic intimate relationship with my husband. We were the world to each...
    baystar baystar 46-50, F 2 Responses May 19, 2013

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    I am hoping someone can understand and tell me how to deal with this. Now i might sound like being a wuss when i say leaving my wife is not an option as i have 2 beautiful and...
    manchalaladka manchalaladka 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 28

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    Why - Every day i start my day happy and positive while inside im lonely yet nobody knows, or would believe it. I have spent years covering it up with work, material things etc...
    liverpoolnut liverpoolnut 41-45, M 8 Responses May 9, 2013

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    Intimacy = In 2 Me See - Little bit about me. We got married in 2007 but been together since 2001. We have two kids together, and she has two more kids from other men that I have...
    boss21519 boss21519 31-35, M 5 Responses Jul 11, 2012

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    Do You Remember Having Butterflies? - Do you remember how you felt when you first met someone that you were overwhelmingly attracted to and they felt the same way? How amazing was...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 5, 2012

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    Me and my partner havnt had physical intamacy in 6 yrs + ...he insists on a hug and kiss ..peck kiss when he comes and goes and thats it and ED isnt the problem I can get it hard...
    xdanax xdanax 46-50, F 9 Responses Jan 16

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    I have been married for 21 years, the first 20 and 1/2 were awesome, but suddenly she has changed, I feel like a prisoner in my own home. I think she is pre-menopausal, I have...
    lonelyman46 lonelyman46 46-50, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2013

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    Hollow - I hate the feeling of being alone, really hate it sometimes. It seems like getting married should have guaranteed you'd have one person in your life, by your side, no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 3, 2012

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    I am so tired of this situation. My husband used to treat me so well before we were married, which was less than a year ago. We were rushed to get married so that he could live...
    allgirlsdont allgirlsdont 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 6, 2013

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    When Will It Be Enough? - I admit. I am guilty. I am guilty of withholding sex in order to "punish" my husband when he doesn't do what I want. I am guilty of being the one who...
    TryAnStopMe TryAnStopMe 26-30, F 4 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    I Am Married But I Am Always Lonely - I am in my 30's, married 6 yrs , 2 kids , great job but my life feels empty. I try to consume myself with projects, church, crafts and my...
    121berry 121berry 36-40 5 Responses Sep 27, 2013

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    Another night, wide awake , while she goes to bed early, rolls to her side as far from me as possible. Another night, like all the nights for the past 8yrs I crave to hold, touch...
    Jblonely1 Jblonely1 36-40, M 11 Responses Dec 28, 2013

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    Dinner Date - We don't go out much any more, mostly due to finances, but sometimes its nice... Last night was totally worth it, too! It was the usual, crowded room, her going on...
    2feetApart 2feetApart 36-40, M 3 Responses Jun 28, 2013

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    So, I speak up and say my thoughts and instead he's screaming and I am calm,too frightening, because for the 2nd time I didn't give a **** nor did I care I looked at him and said...
    Greneyes2148 Greneyes2148 41-45, F 2 Responses Feb 10

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    Final Curtain Call - If u have followed my stories i gave My husband an ultimatum . Either give me some physical release or i will find someone that will. After a 24 hour cold...
    selective82 selective82 46-50, F 8 Responses Aug 28, 2012

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    The first night I met her, I was doing the Wobble at a small bar and she was behind me. She said to her friend to check out my *** and I glanced back smiling. She then said, "Oh my...
    FiremanforYou FiremanforYou 31-35, M 1 Response Jan 28

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    I have been married for 27 years and want out! I married him because we had sex on our first date and I got pregnant. I was 15 and he was 18. I was too young to know what love was...
    ThatchickAMarie ThatchickAMarie 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 8

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    I have been married for only seven months but we dated for seven years we have always had a hard time communication but generally loved each other but things have changed I feel...
    Jessmesspen Jessmesspen 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 19, 2013

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    Friend With Benefits - I'm a married Canadian man looking for a female friend with benefits ! No drama, no commitments , just a friend for fun and sex ....
    Bhtfun Bhtfun 56-60 1 Response Oct 6, 2013

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    I am married but yet feel so alone, our sex life is very minimal and I have cravings that are so intense yet ignored.. I am a very sexual female and I live think and breathe it! I...
    TandT0420 TandT0420 36-40, F 24 Responses Mar 21

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    What happens when you ask 20 complete strangers to pair up and kiss for the first time? What this link. It is beautiful. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2014/03/11/tatia-pileva...
    OutOfPatience OutOfPatience 61-65, M 1 Response Mar 12

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    I crave to hold and kiss my wife, for the first time since being married, I am actively looking for the opportunity to have an affair . I do not condone an affair, but I really...
    Dowright Dowright 46-50, M 2 Responses Feb 16

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    Try Again Or Walk Away? - I am not one of these guys who has been cut off from sex; we have sex whenever I initiate it; she used to initiate sex but after turning her down a few...
    Blueeyedboy70i Blueeyedboy70i 41-45, M 5 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    If You Only Knew - After being married to the same person for almost 36 years I thought I knew my husband. Turns out everything I thought about my husband was all wrong. All these...
    teri58 teri58 51-55, F 15 Responses Jul 25, 2011

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    Together Yet Alone - Sitting in the silence, the years brought absence.Loves grown distant and cold. Two ships that pass in the night, one no longer aware of the other. As...
    Waymor Waymor 46-50, M 6 Responses Sep 24, 2012

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    I want to feel alive in the arms of a woman. Someone that cares about who I really am and not just what I can provide for her.
    mwessley mwessley 41-45, M 3 Responses Mar 24

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    I am trying to discover if I am indeed lonely or it is just me who expects too much from my relationship. I have a beautiful 3yo son and a partner who seem to put me - talk...
    nuduude nuduude 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    I love sex just as much as any man. I think a lot of men would agree thy after you get married the sex dries up and it shouldn't be that way.
    quintero86 quintero86 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 5, 2013

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    This Is A Classic Example Of "married, Lonely And Craving..." - My wife is not a monster. She is not evil. But she is terribly messed up and in her world of a huge pile...
    deleted deleted 26-30 23 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    Need To Be Held By My Wife In Bed - Well it's Tuesday we get along in all other catagories but our sex life is not to be found.I am needing the comfort of my wife but she is not a...
    allthefrills allthefrills 41-45, M 7 Responses Aug 9, 2011

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    There Is No Intimacy, In Any Form, In My Marriage - My husband and I have become no more than roommates. While he seems perfectly content this has made me incredibly unhappy and...
    Moonwillow85 Moonwillow85 41-45, F 21 Responses Sep 17, 2011

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    Not so much lonely for company as lonely for intimacy. My wife likes having me at home as much as possible, but she has little interest in being phsycial with me. She has an...
    LostInTheWoulds LostInTheWoulds 46-50, M 6 Responses Feb 8

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    The Conversation - Finally. A real honest to goodness conversation. One in which neither of them loses their temper and they both say what they want to say. She tells him about...
    backtovanessabet backtovanessabet 41-45, F 4 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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