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I Am Married to a Alcoholic

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 24 People

    I hate being near with drunk people.

    I find it annoying. Especially if it's my boyfriend. My bf soon to be husband like to get wasted. He's acting like some college boys. He'd acting very rude sometimes. And annoying. I don't drink at all. So can u imagine i have to deal with this **** every time we go out to...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 30, 2014

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    If you can't change someone.

    ..how are you supposed to just watch them self-destruct?
    Alfabitzz Alfabitzz 36-40, F Jan 21, 2014

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    My Husband the Alcoholic.

           My husband has been a alcoholic for at least 26 of his 46 years of life. I truly believe you can be born an alcoholic as his mother drank while pregnant with him. She passed many years ago due to her drinking. That hasn't slowed him one bit...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 26, 2008

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    I Don't Know What To Do

    My husband and I have been married for 7 years been together for 10. We met through friends and then he got a job at the same place I worked at. We started a relationship. Before I met him he was a coke addict. The reason he moved to the city I was living in, was for him to get...
    jsjabs2003 jsjabs2003 26-30, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2013

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    I Hate the Alcoholic.

    I am married to an active alcoholic who is getting considerably worse as time goes on.  He has been diagnosed with a fatty liver and has doubled his intake since being diagnosed with this condition. My biggest regret was not leaving him when are son was small.  My son...
    4Tess 4Tess 46-50 2 Responses Sep 25, 2009

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    Help

    Hi my name is Tina :   i have been married for twenty three years to a A ucoholic husband.  he drinks wild turkey 101 straight.  he has a good job.  he only has a year and half to go to retirement.  last feb. his job caught him drinking on job.  sent him to rehabe for three...
    eltontfe eltontfe 51-55 1 Response Jan 15, 2011

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    My husband is the most caring

    and loving husband to me and our daughter. He knows he has a drinking problem. When he drinks he always apologize the next morning for doing it and promises to quit. Last night was the last straw, He lied about having a business meeting and then he stopped picking up my calls...
    seashellaa seashellaa 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 18, 2014

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    I'm Going Crazy!

    I am going crazy. He has been laid off now for what 2 weeks. Drunk all but one night! Last night he was drunk and high, and had to be messing with things. He was doing something under the kitchen sink. Next thing I know he was out playing with his old broke down car and my...
    75Angels 75Angels 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2008

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    berrybeeyou berrybeeyou 31-35, F 2 Responses Jan 18

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    I was in a relationship for 10 years and was dumped 10 days before Christmas for a co-worker who held the job I was supposed to get before being laid off... To add insult to injury...
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    It was difficult for me to join this group. Sure it seems easy, just hit "join group" and you're in, right? The problem is, by joining this group not only am I acknowledging I have...
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    I did the marriage gig. Went into it with loyalty and great faith.Even trusted and didn't smother or get over jealous.All that got me was a cheating ex-wife and a bad divorce...
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    I have been married for almost 11 years. My father in law used to live with us when he was alive. He was a good man. My husband was not allowed to drink because of his issues with...
    hopelesswoman hopelesswoman 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    It was just my mom and me growing up. She had me when she was 19. We didn't have any family they moved to different states. My mom was pretty popular though and had a lot of great...
    sailorwinters sailorwinters 41-45, F 4 days ago

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    I'm in love with an alcoholic. I always have and always will love him.. despite the nasty things he said when drunk.. he done believe rumors.. I know he loves me I never question...
    missjdragon20 missjdragon20 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I have been without alcohol for 6 months now it's the hardest thing I have ever had to do, I have been an alcoholic since I was 14 it's what I did for fun what I did if I was happy...
    Jadeygirl88 Jadeygirl88 26-30, F 2 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    I really need some advice I have thought about my situation too much and I just keep getting stuck. I've had an alcoholic father and sister who have both recovered I know what it's...
    jeanie08 jeanie08 22-25 1 Response Jan 3

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    My environment created me. I wasn't always an alcoholic but when you grow up with an inconsiderate drunk for a father and a neurotic mother who always makes excuses for him, how...
    Alan132 Alan132 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 8

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    jameswertman12 jameswertman12 22-25, M 5 Responses Jan 11

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    It's not to the point of making me lose my job or anything like that, but I feel like I gotta have at least two shots of whisky a day. I seldom get slammed drunk. I don't really...
    cbcs cbcs 31-35, M 2 Responses Jan 12

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    At 24 I married my first wife since she was the mother of my child. This was the beginning of 20 years of hell, which I'll post as another experience. It was during this marriage...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I am married, but desire not to be; a man I married, but a woman I desire I am married but want to be free
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    Nyx1978 Nyx1978 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 29, 2014

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    susannayoga susannayoga 56-60, F Jan 1

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