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I Am Married to a Homosexual Spouse

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    They say some girls you take home to mom, some girls you just take home. I'm 45 and have never gotten a marriage proposal. I finally put a "Do not disturb" sign on my pu**y and...
    sacredfire222 sacredfire222 41-45 2 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    Been married 18 years. My wife and I have no intimacy or much affection any more. Last few years I have felt trapped. She has had multiple affairs and has threatened my life. Years...
    budkelly budkelly 41-45, M 3 Responses 32 mins ago

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    Oh Thank God Above that I have found this page!! Where were you 3 years ago when the box was opened and my husband's childhood came crashing in? I have read so many books and gone...
    JaneEllenB JaneEllenB 51-55, F 2 Responses Mar 22

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    A marriage is like a job interview. When we are in desperate need of a job, and the best job you could ever imagine is offered to a number of applicants, and you are one of the...
    ApollosMuse ApollosMuse 31-35, F 7 Responses 4 days ago

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    Been married for almost 16 years, together for 22. 2 children together 10, and 14. And a step son who lives with my mom who is 21...they couldn't get along...feeling stuck and don...
    chevymom chevymom 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    My husband and I have been married for 6 weeks now. I've loved him for 19 years though. Still just as much as I did when we met. He's been an addict his entire adult life. I...
    kct0314 kct0314 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 26

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    I have been single for sometime now and would like to meet a nice fellow. For friendship first and then maybe more. I am looking for men in my age group, that are not married and...
    elainefw55 elainefw55 51-55, F Mar 27

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    Been in love with him since i was 12 years old and i cannot get him outta my blood. Never stopped loving him. I love my husband too. I am so confused. We use to talk occasionally...
    amazonwoman1 amazonwoman1 22-25, F Apr 9

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    anyone on here married over 30 years and lonely.. can make love but don't really like there spouse or feel connected with them? Nothing in common anymore and feel unloved out of...
    acountrylady acountrylady 51-55 11 Responses Apr 9

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    I've been on this site now for a little while and am trying to create a support group for people who are working to cope with chronic pain in their spouse. This site would help...
    JustKeepSinging JustKeepSinging 26-30 Mar 31

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    I'd be glad if some patient soul would care to read and help me disentangle my thoughts... as to how these issues may be perceived..... If your spouse loves you but chooses to...
    nik7891 nik7891 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Hello. I wrote a post in July about me and my husbands spiraling issue. His issue. I am so scared/worried because not much has changed since my last post. Things have taken a turn...
    roxio1983 roxio1983 22-25, F Mar 21

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    In high school I was a great student. ignoring the fact that I was undocumented and focusing on my studies. My dream was to go to a big name conservatory and create music and art...
    Arieamarxus1 Arieamarxus1 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    My wife and I were married for just over a year and our son was just not even a year old when my wife became severely disabled from an anoxic brain injury. She was non responsive...
    tstanley2014 tstanley2014 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I am freaking out right now. I can't take it anymore. I asked him to seriously leave. I think he finally sees how much pain I am in. But is this really what I want? I have been...
    confusedmajorly confusedmajorly 36-40, F 26 Responses Apr 3

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    In complete denial....... Hello all. I have read many posts of yalls dealing with this issue. I came searching for answers and help/support because I feel very alone and scared. I...
    ashoryb ashoryb 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 7

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    My husband of 19 years has always been difficult but I never suspected he may have Aspbergers until I had started therapy for myself to help me cope with a life I have lived since...
    artbabe artbabe 41-45, F Mar 25

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    Well I just want to post that some time has passed and I have learned a lot. First I wake up every morning and I love the person staring back at me. I have integrity and a life...
    Sugar973 Sugar973 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    my mom keeps on telling me that she wants a grandchild so she told me to get married.. my best friends who's married and have kids also keep on telling me to have my own family...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 31

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I am 44 years old and I have never been married. I don't know if I have ever even been close. There have been relationships that I have been in that lasted a couple years but we...
    HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I rather get married in court because just the thought of standing in front of people and saying the wrong thing or something goes wrong scares me so much, almost scares me so much...
    Silverfeather1993 Silverfeather1993 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I wish women could propose to men for marriage. Because I know if I was the man in the relationship, I would've proposed already. Have you ever just hated yourself and wondered...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Been married for 2 years, together for 6. My husband and I separated in 2012 because of his drinking problem. During our separation, a friendship between me and another man...
    jcr0610 jcr0610 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    How is it possible to be surrounded by people every day and yet feel so lonely? I got married 6 years ago and as scary and sad as it is, when I look honestly deep within myself, I...
    Lonelyskeptic Lonelyskeptic 26-30, M 13 Responses Apr 12

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    My experience started a little over a year ago...my ex left me after 21 years of marriage and so with a hurt heart and a lonely disposition, I sought out a new mate...my addict. We...
    ACKKMK ACKKMK 41-45, F Apr 12

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    I'm 24 and met my husband in college when I was 18. We got married, and we've been together for about 6 years total. I've had bad depression my whole life, and an obsessive...
    FeelsTooMuch FeelsTooMuch 22-25, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Without a doubt in my life, I have married the love of my life. We have been happily married for 12 years now. He is everything I am not. We both compliment each other in...
    barbaratownsend barbaratownsend 31-35, F Mar 21

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    I am married too. After years of feeling neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Wondering if anyone else here is married, has a boyfriend and their husband knows about it? My "boyfriend" is married but she don't know about me.
    confusedinSC confusedinSC 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F Mar 27

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    Married for 22 years....why? That is right, it is two primary reasons...1) Wonderful daughter and it is my responsibility to keep her world as healthy as possible. Her mother and...
    Therapy4therapist Therapy4therapist 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I am married to a functioning alcoholic. I'm 32 years old and have been married to my husband for 5 years. We have 3 kids (my son, his daughter, and our daughter). He has always...
    Jlk081981 Jlk081981 31-35 Mar 28

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    I had seen an old English couple hold hands and take walks together.They had come to India for some work and were friends of my dad.You hardly see any Indian couples,esp.married...
    mona87 mona87 46-50, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    My whole married life has been a challenge. I've been married for over 20 years and the urges to have a connection with another woman are consuming me.
    Kamon123 Kamon123 41-45, M 1 Response Mar 31

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    I am married to a great guy. He isn't perfect but who is. Anyways, he knows that I am more attracted to women than I am men and he knows that I have been with women in the past. I...
    Lanet809 Lanet809 26-30, F Mar 31

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    Sometimes I think marriage is not for me. I won't get into detail but just say I've been married 6 years and we have 1 child. My husband quit his jobs ago because he didn't like...
    sssy sssy 22-25 Apr 2

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    Ending my relationship With a married man. Feel like I'm getting my life back, never knew he was married until 2 years in . I was in love and stupid by then. I have a strong...
    charlotte61 charlotte61 51-55, F Apr 5

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    Yes, I am married and very happily married guys. I do not need attention from you trying to hit on me or try to pick me up. I am what P Galore said in Gold Finger. So think...
    femaleoncruiseship femaleoncruiseship 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 6

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    I am 23 and I used to work with this man, who I will call Todd, for over a year. I've known him for 2 years now. He is 35. Up until recently, he's been married for several years...
    ImJustMe81406 ImJustMe81406 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 7

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    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 10 years. We got together at a young age, and I have always wanted to be more financially stable, and have majority, if not all of my...
    cheetachicklet cheetachicklet 26-30 Apr 8

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