I Am Married to a Much Older Man

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    I'M 18 And In Love With A 42 Year Old Man.

    My name is Jess and I'm completely new to this. My other half is Chad. When I was 15, I lost my virginity to a man who was 9 years older than me, but that ended quicker than it started. When I was 17, I had already been with 8 guys in my life. Only two of them were my age. I...
    Spakrs Spakrs
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Mar 31, 2013

    Surprised

    I didn't know there were so many other women married to much older men. It's good to know Im not the only one. I have been married for 6.5 yrs to my husband 26 yrs my senior. Im 24 he's 50. We were married when I was 18. So far things are ok. We have our ups and down like any...
    bv830 bv830
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2012

    Young and Confused, Or Mature and In Denial?

    I have a tendency to keep a journal but usually only write in it when I'm upset, so here's my journal entry from last night.  My husband is ~23 years older than me and a type II diabetic. I am 26 and he is 48. He owns a business and I see him in the morning before he...
    NotYoungForever NotYoungForever
    26-30
    13 Responses Sep 19, 2009

    The Risk Is Worth Taking

    I am married to someone who is 16 years older than myself, he is 71 and I am 55. We have been married for 13 years and lived together for 2 years before. I have never regretted marrying this marvelous person. He has humour, intelligence and sometimes extreme tolerance of my silly...
    darlinges darlinges
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    I am 55 and not in the greatest of health.

    I am a medically retired US veteran. I am really pissed of at the US government for not doing more to prevent the progression of my health problems, which stem entirely and directly from my years of service. I don't know if I will live for another 5 or 25 years. I realized that...
    wellintent wellintent
    56-60, M
    4 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    I Feel In A Self-imposed Solitary Confinment..

    My husband is 26 years older than me. He was so much in to me when I decided to marry him after a relationship of 4 years. Now I have a lovely daughter. But slowly life is becoming extremely dull. My hubby doesn't like to socialize with my friends, he feels odd and old. So...
    marriedtoanold marriedtoanold
    41-45
    5 Responses Apr 23, 2011

    Planning On Getting Married To A Man Who Is 15 Years Older Than Me.

    I have been in a relationship with this man for a year now. He has a 8 year old son whom i love to death. We plan on becoming a family soon, and as happy as that makes me, i also have my share of fears. I know age is just a number, but when we both start getting older i dont...
    alirocks alirocks
    18-21
    5 Responses Dec 9, 2010

    Hey to whoever took the time to read :) So I

    met my boyfriend online over a year ago. He's 19 years older then me. The first couple of months where amazing, then things got a bit rocky, we took a break now we're back on strong( about 7 months) we've spoken about kids and marriage, but i sometimes feel that he's only in...
    lovelyle0 lovelyle0
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Mar 25, 2014

    I Regret Marrying My Husband!!

    I don't know what to do anymore after 1 year of marriage I feel like i am not in love with my husband and never been .. My marriage was a mistake that I made in a very difficult time I broke up with my fiancé 3 years together and mom was sick and I was so weak and tired he...
    Sara2310 Sara2310
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

    I am loving a man and he is 15 years older

    than me. He is my relative. I love him so dearly and I want to marry him. My age is 19. Is this fine to decide my life partner at this age?? He loves me to death. His mom accepted our love, but my parents won't accept. Is it fine to marry him????
    uthayashree uthayashree
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2014

    Im 23 And He'S 62, And Im Confussed :(

    I met Alan in a chat room 4 months ago and we became real close since.He is a very kind hearted gentleman.Even with our huge age gap, i feel like we understand each other and we respect each other values.I have dated guys my age, but when im with him, its different.I feel like we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    17 Responses Apr 14, 2013

    My husband isn't exactly

    so much older that it turns people's heads and definitely does not look much older. He is about 10 almost 11 years older. He often treats me in a strange way much like a daughter and has a lot to teach me. I feel like sometimes it is difficult to be in this kind of marriage...
    BrokenWander BrokenWander
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 20, 2015

    i wanna marry 51 years old man,

    and I'm 26 now. he has 0 in his bank account. he has financial problem, he has 2 kids from his ex wife, and his kids don't want me to marry their dad. i fell in love with this guy, i got hurt many times before. n i hv good friend, she marry 55 years old man when she was 29. now...
    ajenkk ajenkk
    26-30
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2014

    I am nineteen, married to someone

    who is 31 years older than me. I got married 3 years ago and have 2 children with him and pregnant with the third. His children from his first marriage are much older to me and hate me for taking their mothers place. But he's a nice person, having suffered and gone through 5...
    Mira97 Mira97
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 4, 2015

    Happily Engaged! Long Story, Worth Reading :) (31 year age gap)

    This may be 3 years late, and you may not see this response, but girls our age will see this when they google things like this to look for comfort. To any girl reading this, and they are doubting their relationship with their man thats 20-30+ years older than you, I have good...
    celestialskyy99 celestialskyy99
    18-21
    6 Responses Aug 30, 2013

    I Married A Man 22 Years Older

    My husband and I got together nearly 14 years ago when I was 18 and he was 40. We have now been married 10 years and have 2 wonderful daughters. we are still very much in love, we've had our bad patches but have come through them stronger for the experience. We laugh together...
    mumoftwo424 mumoftwo424
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Jan 8, 2013

    hi ! I came here looking

    for friends. iam 31 and iam married to my husband of 10 years. He is getting ready to turn 60. We have a 9 year old daughter. iam deeply troubled over our relationship. We used to be so in love but now he's more like a father to me instead. I still love him but he has become...
    miriam1984 miriam1984
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jun 7, 2015

    My husband went to sleep early last night.

    Again. Does anyone else have this problem while being married to an older man? My husband is 14 years my senior. He works 6 out of 7 days, so understandably he's tired, but then again that's time we don't get to spend together even when he's gone all week. I'm so frustrated...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Jan 15

    Don't Want To Lose Him Too Soon

    I am 29 years old and my husband is almost 48. We have a 19 year age difference and it doesn't bother us at all. We have each other. We are best friends. Sometimes, I worry about him dying. Now, his health is fine and he is very active, but I realize by the time I am 40...
    feaugly feaugly
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Dec 1, 2013

    Older Man

    I met my husband over the phone 3 yrs ago. we met in person 2 yrs after meeting on the phone. we got married last year september. I am 29 yrs old and he is 72 yrs old. before we met in person i had no idea how old he was because he never mentioned it. many persons think it wont...
    kariana kariana
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Nov 28, 2009

    I had an arranged marriage almost 5 years ago

    to a man almost 24 years older to me. In fact, the children from his first marriage are both older to me. His wife died after a long battle with cancer. I have 3 children with him and he wants more. But I can't complain.....I am not sure whether I love him....but for me, it was...
    Malloo Malloo
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2015

    I guess i should start of by saying I am 46

    and my husband is 65. we have 6 beautiful children ( we both always wanted a big family) 4 boys and 2 girls. I Loved being barefoot and pregnant . He is the love of my life and a great father to our children. The funny part about it was I, never in a million years would have...
    Jenniferw1 Jenniferw1
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2015

    Searching For An Older Man

    I want to have a relationshiop with a man who is older than me. Why? Because, I think that older men are wiser, more intelligent and gentle. Of course, I do not want any older man. I want the one that is good-looking and elegant,who loves sport, good music and film. But foremost...
    dominique83 dominique83
    31-35, F
    7 Responses Oct 19, 2013

    My husband is 15 yrs older

    than me I am 28 he is 43. We have been together 3 yrs and married almost 2 yrs. We have a 11 month old son. At first he thought he was too old to start again with a new baby. He has 3 other kids from another marriage. But now he loves his son so much. He takes him every where...
    sexywhw sexywhw
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

    Agegapmatch.org Is Now Connecting Single Younger Women With Older Men Online

    As the #1 Age gap dating service, AgeGapMatch.org helps younger women looking for older men or vice-versa.A survey of 2000 adults showed that only one percent of women preferred a relationship with a younger men. In fact a whopping forty percent of respondents said they would be...
    dateoldermen dateoldermen
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2013

    I will miss him when he is gone.

    ... It's been 2 years since I wrote my first post. My husband and I are still together, still making our way through life. I'm now 38 and he is 80. There have been some changes that have made things on my side a little easier. Still yet, it has been through mutual agreement...
    mssjeb2000 mssjeb2000
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 30, 2014

    My husband has two boys from his first marriage

    who are older than me and by the time his wife became sick, they had left the house for studies and their jobs. So he started feeling lonely. He just loves children. So, this time he wants to have as many children as possible, so that the house remains full of laughter for a...
    Mira97 Mira97
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 5, 2015

    Its A Little More Than A Lifetime!

    So this guy is 55 yrs. my senior and I have some serious feelings for him.We have a lot in common we actually met because we both enjoy the artform of opera.I find myself feeling very comfortable with him and I can be myself.We have endless conversations and there is never a dull...
    cimorelli cimorelli
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Sep 9, 2013
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 1, 2015

    No Regrets But It Hasn'T Been Easy

    I am 36, he's 78. We've been married 12 years. I met him when I was 22, single mom and looking for some stability in my life. We met on a chat line and he immediately captured my attention. He was very upfront about his age and past. We really just enjoyed talking and...
    mssjeb2000 mssjeb2000
    36-40, F
    10 Responses Mar 12, 2013

    Old Men Partner

    I'm 23 and my partner is 48 years old He has 2 children's from his first marriage I don't have any child and want to have one In the future but I think it's going to be impossible because he had a vasectomy for more than 10 years. I love hem so much he love me too but I don't...
    Grande123 Grande123
    22-25
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2013

    He Is 14 Years Older Than I Am

    I am married to man 14 years older than me. He is an amazing guy. We share alot and have a wonderful relationship. I'm just so happy with him. My grand mother always ses: "rather an old man's darling than a young man slave." She's right, I have never been as happy with anyone...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe
    31-35, F
    12 Responses May 25, 2010

    For Younger And Older Dating

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    saracc11aol saracc11aol
    26-30, F
    Sep 5, 2013

    I just reinstalled the EP app on my phone again.

    It's safe to say I reread all of my experiences & how sad I was/am! 2015 has been a crazy, hectic year. My significant other, Chad and I just recently had our three year anniversary about a week ago. Yes, we're still going. We bought a house in February of this year and I love...
    Spakrs Spakrs
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 22, 2015

    Him 67 Me 38. Happily Married 10 Years And Counting!

    We have been married 10 years, have two kids who are the center of our world. My husband is the most kind and generous person I have ever met. He is not perfect (arrogant tone of voice sometimes) but he is a real gentleman, a handson father and is an adventurous 67 years old man...
    mycutepup mycutepup
    36-40
    3 Responses May 20, 2012

    I wonder if my senior husband believes I don't

    love him anymore because I don't ask him to make me love anymore. the truth is that he doesn't satisfy me anymore, only last 3 minutes with medication; and it makes me think I did I huge mistake. I never care for sex, and that's why I married a older man knowing what will happen...
    denisibarcena denisibarcena
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

    20 Years Apart & Closer Than Ever!

    I love my husband! He is quite an amazing individual. We enjoy every moment we have together and we both work very hard to ...in a way - make our relationship look easy. Relationships are hard - they require dedication, long hours, patience and a great sense of humor. But for...
    20isagoodnumber 20isagoodnumber
    22-25
    4 Responses Jun 8, 2012

    My Step Daughter Is 7 Years Younger Than Me.

    My husband and I have been together on and off for 5 years. I am 30 and he is 45. We really love one another, but his daughter is not accepting of our marriage. I am not trying to be a "mother" figure to her, because I know that is not likely. However, I do want to have a better...
    nyjael nyjael
    31-35
    Jun 11, 2013

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    tongcc11 tongcc11
    26-30, F
    Aug 13, 2013

    I'm In Love With A Guy Who Is 12 Years Older Than Me

    Hi, I am a a student who has never been in love before because I could never find the right guy, till last month that I met this guy in our university, we see each other pretty much everyday within a group that we have, he is a PHD student and i'm studying medicine, my parents...
    violingirl1990 violingirl1990
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2013

    28 years older to be exact.

    We have a wonderful marriage. I do worry sometimes that he'll die sooner than me and I'll be left alone... I saw it in my parents age gap marriage... But I'll save that worry for another day. We have so much in common, and have so much respect and love for each other, and the...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 18

    Hubby Is 31 Years Older And We Have A Baby Boy!

    It was love at first sight. We saw each other at a party and couldn't take our eyes off one another, though we didn't say a word. I found him on facebook and we made a dinner date. Neither of us had a dime to our name. We got married 8 months later, drove to Las Vegas after he...
    MaryTess MaryTess
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Sep 28, 2013

    I am 21. My boyfriend is 36.

    I met him a year ago. As soon as i met him i had this immediate attraction to him that ive never had to anyone before. I was drawn to him like a magnet. For the first 2 months we saw each other as gym buddies. We worked out with each other nearly everyday of the week, but had...
    bigredapple bigredapple
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 8, 2014

    I Married A Older One

    i just got 20 yrs old 2 months ago, my husband is 59 y/o . and were just married 5 months ago we never really got serious problem with age , because we became friends before we settled, but i get to know him more when we started living together. . he works overseas and i am a...
    mmidzean mmidzean
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2013

    I Think I'm Attracted To An Older Man

    I am 36 yrs & an I lost my partner & fiancé of 14 yrs almost a year ago to a tragic accident. My fiancé was my age & I have never man that is older than me. But the past month or so I found myself attracted to a much older man- he is 21 yrs my senior. I work as a nurse in a...
    Goldie76 Goldie76
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Jan 2, 2013
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