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I Am Married to a Much Older Man

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    I am nineteen, married to someone

    who is 31 years older than me. I got married 3 years ago and have 2 children with him and pregnant with the third. His children from his first marriage are much older to me and hate me for taking their mothers place. But he's a nice person, having suffered and gone through 5...
    Mira97 Mira97 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 4

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    Surprised

    I didn't know there were so many other women married to much older men. It's good to know Im not the only one. I have been married for 6.5 yrs to my husband 26 yrs my senior. Im 24 he's 50. We were married when I was 18. So far things are ok. We have our ups and down like any...
    bv830 bv830 22-25, F 3 Responses Sep 13, 2012

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    Don't Want To Lose Him Too Soon

    I am 29 years old and my husband is almost 48. We have a 19 year age difference and it doesn't bother us at all. We have each other. We are best friends. Sometimes, I worry about him dying. Now, his health is fine and he is very active, but I realize by the time I am 40...
    feaugly feaugly 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I am loving a man and he is 15 years older

    than me. He is my relative. I love him so dearly and I want to marry him. My age is 19. Is this fine to decide my life partner at this age?? He loves me to death. His mom accepted our love, but my parents won't accept. Is it fine to marry him????
    uthayashree uthayashree 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 7, 2014

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    I'M 18 And In Love With A 42 Year Old Man.

    My name is Jess and I'm completely new to this. My other half is Chad. When I was 15, I lost my virginity to a man who was 9 years older than me, but that ended quicker than it started. When I was 17, I had already been with 8 guys in my life. Only two of them were my age. I...
    Spakrs Spakrs 18-21, F 11 Responses Mar 31, 2013

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.

    com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women. This will also set you free from the embarrassment and annoyance of general dating places. Here at...
    cheon cheon 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 22, 2014

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    i wanna marry 51 years old man,

    and I'm 26 now. he has 0 in his bank account. he has financial problem, he has 2 kids from his ex wife, and his kids don't want me to marry their dad. i fell in love with this guy, i got hurt many times before. n i hv good friend, she marry 55 years old man when she was 29. now...
    ajenkk ajenkk 26-30 3 Responses Aug 13, 2014

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    The premier younger women older men dating site

    - AgeMeet.com AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site for younger women seeking older men. It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for over 11 years and has achieved tremendous success bringing younger women and older...
    chriscc19 chriscc19 26-30, F Mar 6, 2014

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    Happily Engaged! Long Story, Worth Reading :) (31 year age gap)

    This may be 3 years late, and you may not see this response, but girls our age will see this when they google things like this to look for comfort. To any girl reading this, and they are doubting their relationship with their man thats 20-30+ years older than you, I have good...
    celestialskyy99 celestialskyy99 18-21 6 Responses Aug 30, 2013

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    Searching For An Older Man

    I want to have a relationshiop with a man who is older than me. Why? Because, I think that older men are wiser, more intelligent and gentle. Of course, I do not want any older man. I want the one that is good-looking and elegant,who loves sport, good music and film. But foremost...
    dominique83 dominique83 31-35, F 8 Responses Oct 19, 2013

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    I will miss him when he is gone.

    ... It's been 2 years since I wrote my first post. My husband and I are still together, still making our way through life. I'm now 38 and he is 80. There have been some changes that have made things on my side a little easier. Still yet, it has been through mutual agreement...
    mssjeb2000 mssjeb2000 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    Society has long become more open to the idea

    of older man - younger woman relationship and older woman - younger man relationship as well. Hollywood has brought in the practice of successful older men looking for younger women. With actresses such as Catherine Zeta Jones marrying Michael Douglas with an age gap of 25 years...
    angelacc11 angelacc11 26-30, F Jan 28

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    Im 23 And He'S 62, And Im Confussed :(

    I met Alan in a chat room 4 months ago and we became real close since.He is a very kind hearted gentleman.Even with our huge age gap, i feel like we understand each other and we respect each other values.I have dated guys my age, but when im with him, its different.I feel like we...
    marshmallow23 marshmallow23 22-25, F 20 Responses Apr 14, 2013

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    I am 21. My boyfriend is 36.

    I met him a year ago. As soon as i met him i had this immediate attraction to him that ive never had to anyone before. I was drawn to him like a magnet. For the first 2 months we saw each other as gym buddies. We worked out with each other nearly everyday of the week, but had...
    bigredapple bigredapple 22-25, F 2 Responses Mar 8, 2014

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    No Regrets But It Hasn'T Been Easy

    I am 36, he's 78. We've been married 12 years. I met him when I was 22, single mom and looking for some stability in my life. We met on a chat line and he immediately captured my attention. He was very upfront about his age and past. We really just enjoyed talking and...
    mssjeb2000 mssjeb2000 36-40, F 9 Responses Mar 12, 2013

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    Younger Women Looking For Older Men is

    because Older Men are more confident and generally more wise and intelligent, qualities ,Older men know how treat a woman better than younger men do.This all make younger women prefer older men than younger men . older man searches for a younger woman it's usually because he is...
    SkyCC11 SkyCC11 26-30, F Jul 21, 2014

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    I had an arranged marriage almost 5 years ago

    to a man almost 24 years older to me. In fact, the children from his first marriage are both older to me. His wife died after a long battle with cancer. I have 3 children with him and he wants more. But I can't complain.....I am not sure whether I love him....but for me, it was...
    Malloo Malloo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    Older Man

    I met my husband over the phone 3 yrs ago. we met in person 2 yrs after meeting on the phone. we got married last year september. I am 29 yrs old and he is 72 yrs old. before we met in person i had no idea how old he was because he never mentioned it. many persons think it wont...
    kariana kariana 26-30, F 10 Responses Nov 28, 2009

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    My husband is 15 yrs older

    than me I am 28 he is 43. We have been together 3 yrs and married almost 2 yrs. We have a 11 month old son. At first he thought he was too old to start again with a new baby. He has 3 other kids from another marriage. But now he loves his son so much. He takes him every where...
    sexywhw sexywhw 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2014

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    I Feel In A Self-imposed Solitary Confinment..

    My husband is 26 years older than me. He was so much in to me when I decided to marry him after a relationship of 4 years. Now I have a lovely daughter. But slowly life is becoming extremely dull. My hubby doesn't like to socialize with my friends, he feels odd and old. So...
    marriedtoanold marriedtoanold 41-45 5 Responses Apr 23, 2011

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    hi ! I came here looking

    for friends. iam 31 and iam married to my husband of 10 years. He is getting ready to turn 60. We have a 9 year old daughter. iam deeply troubled over our relationship. We used to be so in love but now he's more like a father to me instead. I still love him but he has become...
    miriam1984 miriam1984 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 7

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    I am 55 and not in the greatest of health.

    I am a medically retired US veteran. I am really pissed of at the US government for not doing more to prevent the progression of my health problems, which stem entirely and directly from my years of service. I don't know if I will live for another 5 or 25 years. I realized that...
    wellintent wellintent 56-60, M 4 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    Older Men Younger Women Dating Site - AgeMeet.

    com AgeMeet.com is the # 1 dating for Older Men Younger Women Dating Site, it offers a meeting place where younger women seeking older men and older men dating younger women. This will also set you free from the embarrassment and annoyance of general dating places. Here at...
    cheon cheon 26-30, F Apr 22, 2014

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    20 Years Apart & Closer Than Ever!

    I love my husband! He is quite an amazing individual. We enjoy every moment we have together and we both work very hard to ...in a way - make our relationship look easy. Relationships are hard - they require dedication, long hours, patience and a great sense of humor. But for...
    20isagoodnumber 20isagoodnumber 22-25 4 Responses Jun 8, 2012

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    My husband is 20 years older

    than me. It was an arranged marriage between him and my father. I was married to him when I turned 18. I wasn't allowed to date anyone when I was a teenager. I became pregnant with our son immediately after we were married. He is the only guy that I have been with.
    Genae82 Genae82 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2014

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    My husband has two boys from his first marriage

    who are older than me and by the time his wife became sick, they had left the house for studies and their jobs. So he started feeling lonely. He just loves children. So, this time he wants to have as many children as possible, so that the house remains full of laughter for a...
    Mira97 Mira97 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 5

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    I Regret Marrying My Husband!!

    I don't know what to do anymore after 1 year of marriage I feel like i am not in love with my husband and never been .. My marriage was a mistake that I made in a very difficult time I broke up with my fiancé 3 years together and mom was sick and I was so weak and tired he...
    Sara2310 Sara2310 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    Judyccaa Judyccaa 26-30, F Jun 7

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    AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site

    for younger women older men dating . It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for over 11 years and has achieved tremendous success bringing younger women and older men together! younger women looking for older men mainly...
    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 26-30, F Mar 20, 2014

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    How To Date A Younger Women

    Younger women are different from older women. If you want to date a younger women, you should know what the younger women want. Most of women like the maturity, stability, and sense of security that older men gives them. Older men are more thoughtful than younger ones. Older men...
    Cathy521 Cathy521 31-35, F Jun 21, 2013

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    He Is 14 Years Older Than I Am

    I am married to man 14 years older than me. He is an amazing guy. We share alot and have a wonderful relationship. I'm just so happy with him. My grand mother always ses: "rather an old man's darling than a young man slave." She's right, I have never been as happy with anyone...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe 31-35, F 11 Responses May 25, 2010

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    Hey to whoever took the time to read :) So I

    met my boyfriend online over a year ago. He's 19 years older then me. The first couple of months where amazing, then things got a bit rocky, we took a break now we're back on strong( about 7 months) we've spoken about kids and marriage, but i sometimes feel that he's only in...
    lovelyle0 lovelyle0 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 25, 2014

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    Old Men Partner

    I'm 23 and my partner is 48 years old He has 2 children's from his first marriage I don't have any child and want to have one In the future but I think it's going to be impossible because he had a vasectomy for more than 10 years. I love hem so much he love me too but I don't...
    Grande123 Grande123 22-25 3 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    I wonder if my senior husband believes I don't

    love him anymore because I don't ask him to make me love anymore. the truth is that he doesn't satisfy me anymore, only last 3 minutes with medication; and it makes me think I did I huge mistake. I never care for sex, and that's why I married a older man knowing what will happen...
    denisibarcena denisibarcena 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 13, 2014

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    The Risk Is Worth Taking

    I am married to someone who is 16 years older than myself, he is 71 and I am 55. We have been married for 13 years and lived together for 2 years before. I have never regretted marrying this marvelous person. He has humour, intelligence and sometimes extreme tolerance of my silly...
    darlinges darlinges 51-55, F 3 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Planning On Getting Married To A Man Who Is 15 Years Older Than Me.

    I have been in a relationship with this man for a year now. He has a 8 year old son whom i love to death. We plan on becoming a family soon, and as happy as that makes me, i also have my share of fears. I know age is just a number, but when we both start getting older i dont...
    alirocks alirocks 18-21 5 Responses Dec 9, 2010

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    Hubby Is 31 Years Older And We Have A Baby Boy!

    It was love at first sight. We saw each other at a party and couldn't take our eyes off one another, though we didn't say a word. I found him on facebook and we made a dinner date. Neither of us had a dime to our name. We got married 8 months later, drove to Las Vegas after he...
    MaryTess MaryTess 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 28, 2013

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    My husband isn't exactly

    so much older that it turns people's heads and definitely does not look much older. He is about 10 almost 11 years older. He often treats me in a strange way much like a daughter and has a lot to teach me. I feel like sometimes it is difficult to be in this kind of marriage...
    BrokenWander BrokenWander 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    Younger Women are more Willing to Marry Older

    Men. A recent survey measured people’s attitudes about marrying a partner either older or younger than themselves. The survey results showed that women were significantly more willing than men, to marry a partner who was 5 years older than they were. On the other hand, it also...
    Donnaccaa Donnaccaa 26-30, F Feb 3

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    sandycc11 sandycc11 26-30, F Sep 23, 2014

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    AgeMeet.com is the #1 Age Gap Dating Site

    for younger women older men dating . It is Free to post & browse 550,000+ active members. We have been in the online dating business for over 11 years and has achieved tremendous success bringing younger women and older men together! younger women looking for older men mainly...
    Junetangcc17 Junetangcc17 26-30, F Mar 20, 2014

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    With A Man 16 Years My Senior.

    I just want to share my experience after reading so many on this site and not feeling alone anymore. My boyfriend is 42 and I am 26 years old. We have been together for 4 years this coming May. He has 2 kids from previous marriage ages 18 (girl) 16 (boy). I am contemplating...
    mcubed31 mcubed31 26-30 10 Responses Jan 13, 2012

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    YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.

    com Focus on Connecting Younger Women with Older Men Recently launched online age gap dating site, YoungerWomenWithOlderMen.com, has become popular between young women and older men. It helps younger women seeking to date older men and helps older men looking for younger women...
    tessacc11 tessacc11 26-30, F Sep 22, 2014

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    Young and Confused, Or Mature and In Denial?

    I have a tendency to keep a journal but usually only write in it when I'm upset, so here's my journal entry from last night.  My husband is ~23 years older than me and a type II diabetic. I am 26 and he is 48. He owns a business and I see him in the morning before he...
    NotYoungForever NotYoungForever 26-30 13 Responses Sep 19, 2009

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    I Married A Man 22 Years Older

    My husband and I got together nearly 14 years ago when I was 18 and he was 40. We have now been married 10 years and have 2 wonderful daughters. we are still very much in love, we've had our bad patches but have come through them stronger for the experience. We laugh together...
    mumoftwo424 mumoftwo424 31-35, F 4 Responses Jan 8, 2013

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