I Am Married to a Much Older Man Forum & Chat Board | The reaons of an older man?

Hi there, everybody, I am Javier from Spain.

Sometimes I find fascinating the relationships between older men and younger girls, I guess there's a lot of energy and sexual tension in those type of relationships, or at least that's what I perceive from the outside. (I am 33, single)

But I ask, do women wonder about the reaons of the older men to date them?

I mean, an older man can think "this young lady wants an experienced secure man, a man who is secure about life, a man who knows how to please her, etc", but what kind of thoughts could a girl have about the possible reasons of why he dates her?

Is she self-conscious about her age? Is there some fear that he only wants her due to her youth? Does she wonder if he would still be  interested in her if she was 20 years older?

So basically this question is amined at you ladies dating older gentlemen, what do you think are the reasons of the older man you have a relationship with, what do you think he thinks about you?

Just asking, I guess each person is different and each case is individual, I'd like to hear your experience on the matter.

Thanks in advance.