I Am Married to a Passive Aggressive

After reading through everyone's posts, it has confirmed my suspicious that my soon-to-be XH is a passive aggressive. My main question is: How can he (and people like him) remain "content" with living life in that fashion? I don't...

Seriously, I just found out that all the distrust, regrets, sneaky suspicions, lack of intimacy among everything else is because he is passive aggressive. I have become unhealthy with "bad dieting", obsessing over...

My husband has thrown "passive aggressive" around in around in arguments with me for years. I finally started looking up info about it... We're trying, trying to work on our marriage, and frankly, if I'm the "problem," I want to know...

I'm disappointed not to see a group on EP called "I am Married to a Passive Person". Anyone in this same boat? My husband is by nature a very passive, reticent person. Pleasant, accommodating, agreeable to a fault. He avoids...

After beng groomed to spend my life being tortured by a PA husband. I realize they are the world's greatest salesmen. They love to romance, dazzle, amaze, and "please".. Oh but wait into they get you trapped, dependent, vulnerable in...

On one hand, it was fantastic to learn that most of the troubles in my marriage had nothing to do with me.  On the other hand it was overwhelming to learn that there really isn't that much I can do to help or change the...

During another explosive fight with my husband, my son interjected for the first time and screamed repeatedly, "STOP! JUST STOP!". After that fight and 15 years of marriage, I decided I had traumatized my children enough and checked...

Before I go on, allow me to to write a brief history and disclaimer:
Having a Co-Dependency nature has led me into the love/hate life I lead today. Since marrying my spouse (and finding a personal relationship with God), my life has...

I answered a question tonight- I got swung on and I flinched and he missed- I left the light on- hes stomping around… I cooked a good dinner- wasn’t good enough- getting punished ( Its either rage for hours or silence and attitude...

I'm married to a person who is passive aggressive. They may or may not admit that they are, but, there is a lot of control and power issues that are difficult to miss.

•A spouse who stonewalls your attempts to communicate. My ex...

I've been married for nearly 25 years before I left my PA husband. I married him after only knowing him for 3 months and I was pregnant. I was young and naive. I truly believed "love" will get us through anything. Maybe I thought...

Actually, I am attempting to divorce from a PA.
Learning the hard way that...
"The first rule for dealing with a passive-aggressive personality is to refrain from getting into a power struggle. They have had a lifetime of practice in...

I might as well post this before i croak, I've been trying to compensate and stay on track as I remain in marriage to a female passive aggressor.
Common Passive Aggressive Behaviors referenced from About.com with my insights...

In about a month, my 2 daughters and myself will be able to experience peace, harmony, and freedom from fear.She bought herself a 1 way ticket out of the country - LOL!

I am married to a PA! This is a second marriage for me. I am a widow. I am 44, my first husband passed away almost 9 years ago of cancer and I have 2 children from him, 2 boys ages 16 and 18. My marriage to my first husband was...

I have been married to my husband for almost two years, we have a beautiful daughter together. At first I was so impressed with him always being "fine" with everything. Now I am starting to feel more alone in the relationship. He has...

Married for the 2nd time at age 52 (55 now).  I knew before we married that he was PA.  Played head games with myself ("But he's great 85% of the time.  He loves me.  We have fun together.")  85% great is awesome, but when that 15...

So, since I've decided to divorce my PA husband and have largely disconnected from him emotionally, I've become able to look at his behavior in new light. We had some friends over the other night. He did his regular freak out about...