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I Am Married to a Police Officer

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    This I Not What I Signed On For - I cannot be the only person that is married to a cop, and is now regretting it. Why should I feel bad that I don't want this life for me or my...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura 41-45, F 5 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Dating An Officer and Deciding If I Can Handle It - Recently I have been dating a deputy sheriff who is still under his probationary period.  Because he is still in...
    datinganddeciding datinganddeciding 22-25 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Swat Team Member - I'm married to a SWAT team member. Even though he can get a call any second of the day to be at work he is my hero! I know it sounds cheesy but he really is...
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    New Tv Show Seeking Police Wives Who Stick Together - A MAJOR CABLE NETWORK wants to salute the WOMEN behind the badge…. Are you the WIFE or GIRLFRIEND of a LAW ENFORCEMENT...
    cineflixcasting cineflixcasting 31-35 Oct 19, 2012

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    I'm really like police officers...
    lovelyjeni94 lovelyjeni94 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Well, Engaged To One Anyway = ) - When we first started dating, my Fiance's job was just as a reserve deputy sheriff so he only worked weekends & maybe a night here or there. But...
    Adaire89 Adaire89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    I Am Dating A Police Officer - From reading previous stories about experiences with being married to, and dating a police officer, let me go ahead and tell you there are exceptions...
    genlouboo genlouboo 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    A Cautionary Tale - its been a tiring existence with me juggling family life around all the shift patterns, taking any old job to try and raise a family. Often feel like a single...
    shallistay shallistay 46-50 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    I have always wanted to be a Police Officer. Ever since I was 5 years old I have known this is what I've wanted to do. But last night I came to a horrible realization. I realized...
    alyd473 alyd473 18-21, F Apr 5

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    Since I really like dogs I have been thinking about being a K-9 officer. K-9 units do a good job with tracking down the suspect.
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 1 Response Apr 4

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    I am a proud police wife. I love my husband insanely :) It isn't an easy lifestyle but I wouldn't change him for anything.
    ashleecakes ashleecakes 26-30, F Mar 18

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    I don't know why people do not like the Police. I understand that there are some police officers that go too far with resolving disputes, but if a group of officers do something...
    moose73630 moose73630 16-17, M 5 days ago

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    I hate this life. I have been married to a cop for almost 15 years. Ten of that he was military and he now been a police officer for 7 years. I have taken so much in this...
    julesbug julesbug 36-40, F Mar 27

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    My experience started a little over a year ago...my ex left me after 21 years of marriage and so with a hurt heart and a lonely disposition, I sought out a new mate...my addict. We...
    ACKKMK ACKKMK 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    This was something I thought was a phase, but the more I grow older, the more I realize that I truly would find more peace without being in a marriage. I'm going to turn 23. Today...
    franny21 franny21 22-25, F Apr 9

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    Why are police men so hot! It tortures me! I just want one so bad. when it's time for me to marry I really hope I find the perfect policeman. Where could I possibly find one!?
    Electricsmile Electricsmile 18-21, F Mar 31

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    A salesman, tired of his job, gave it up to become a policeman. Several months later, a friend asked him how he liked his new role. "Well," he replied, "the pay is good and the...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I just really really have a hard time taking orders from the Police. I don't feel a person who thinks taking a job requiring them to risk their lives for a mere 30grand a yr is...
    SweetSyrupOfSchadenfreude SweetSyrupOfSchadenfreude 22-25, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    To complicate matters, I am also married. But I am madly attracted to a male coworker. We are both married teachers and have adjacent classrooms. I've known him for four years and...
    Keeks1 Keeks1 41-45 Mar 26

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    I am married for 7 years with one lovely daughter. From day 1, I knew I can never give him the love that I had for my ex boyfriend whom I left because I thought he has someone. My...
    icanneverhaveu icanneverhaveu 26-30 Mar 27

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    My boyfriend of 3 1/2 years is married. Finally..finally...starting the divorce process. But I think its too late, I dont think I can deal with it anymore. So he was married...
    Marieflwr1 Marieflwr1 22-25, F Mar 25

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    my mom keeps on telling me that she wants a grandchild so she told me to get married.. my best friends who's married and have kids also keep on telling me to have my own family...
    mcindygrace mcindygrace 22-25, F Mar 31

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I married a man 24 years my senior. When we got married it was great at first. I was 20 and he was 44 years old. I felt very excited married to an older man. He treated me like his...
    Sexyshysweetie Sexyshysweetie 41-45, F 17 Responses Apr 5

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    I have a boyfriend of 7 years. He has cheated on my throughout our whole relationship. I stayed because I loved him. Recently I've been seeing someone else. It's been going on for...
    Tyrea31 Tyrea31 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    Hi all, apologies for my bad English, it's been a while. So my story is a bit different than most love affairs with married men here. I am now 30 years old. About 6 months ago I...
    highnlow highnlow 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 21

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      I'm a newbie here, however, while feeling lonesome once again on a weekend, I thought I'd see if there's someone else put there that share my problem. I have 3 older...
    Maurap Maurap 46-50, F Mar 22

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    I am 44 years old and I have never been married. I don't know if I have ever even been close. There have been relationships that I have been in that lasted a couple years but we...
    HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell HalfwaybtwnHeavenandHell 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    I am in love with a married man. Please no harsh judgements and just hear my side of the story. I am 21 years old (he is 45) and in college I met a guy 3.5 months ago and on our...
    sava1993 sava1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 30

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    I can't even watch commercials with proposals or wedding type shows or see pictures of people getting married or engagement photos without wanting to burst into tears. I have never...
    AshCatSilver AshCatSilver 31-35, F Apr 1

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    I rather get married in court because just the thought of standing in front of people and saying the wrong thing or something goes wrong scares me so much, almost scares me so much...
    Silverfeather1993 Silverfeather1993 18-21, F Apr 1

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    I wish women could propose to men for marriage. Because I know if I was the man in the relationship, I would've proposed already. Have you ever just hated yourself and wondered...
    GenineFilS GenineFilS 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    Been married for 2 years, together for 6. My husband and I separated in 2012 because of his drinking problem. During our separation, a friendship between me and another man...
    jcr0610 jcr0610 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    How is it possible to be surrounded by people every day and yet feel so lonely? I got married 6 years ago and as scary and sad as it is, when I look honestly deep within myself, I...
    Lonelyskeptic Lonelyskeptic 26-30, M 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm 24 and met my husband in college when I was 18. We got married, and we've been together for about 6 years total. I've had bad depression my whole life, and an obsessive...
    FeelsTooMuch FeelsTooMuch 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I met him 36 years ago, he was 17, I was 15. We dated a couple of years and broke up, went our separate ways. I got married when I was 27, had 2 kids. After 22 years of marriage...
    SweetPeaLove SweetPeaLove 51-55, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hi, i am 32 years lady.. i am just married, lately married.... i am afraid to know what should be the general size?????
    saroj321 saroj321 31-35, F 2 Responses Mar 18

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    I got married, had my daughter, got out of military active duty and started a job when I was 20 years old. Now, at 47 I realize I've been married and worked at this company for...
    KiddReaper KiddReaper 46-50, M 1 Response Mar 18

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    I am in love with my ex fiancee. we broke up back in 2012 and 3 months later he is married with a baby on the way. and now that we have both moved back to the same area and town he...
    hisbutterfly89 hisbutterfly89 22-25, F Mar 18

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    I had an affair with a Married Man. Its been an emotional roller coaster and I finally called it quits 3 months ago and I find myself missing him dearly. I was married as well...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 19

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    ***This is Long, Please be Warned!**** Well, I’m stumped. I have been trying to figure out what is going on inside my head and my heart for the last year now. I still can’t...
    MINWILD MINWILD 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    My husband is 20 years older than me. It was an arranged marriage between him and my father. I was married to him when I turned 18. I wasn't allowed to date anyone when I was a...
    Genae82 Genae82 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 19

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    I met my first true love in my second year of university. We dated for two years. He was wonderful, kind and thoughtful. I broke up with him, breaking his heart and mine in the...
    garcia78 garcia78 31-35 Mar 20

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    Iwas a virgin at 21 when i married my Husband. Also my Husband is the only man i have ever made love to. Before i met my Husband my friends were all having sex and telling me how...
    cavegirl123 cavegirl123 31-35, F Mar 20

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    I am happily married to my soulmate. We have been married 12 years. I am not interested in anyone else. I would NEVER forsake him for another.
    linusskoorb linusskoorb 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 20

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    Yes, I had an affair with married man. I was married at the time too. My marriage was already crumbling but his is still going strong and I couldn't be any happier for him. I...
    lovehimdeeply lovehimdeeply 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 20

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    Without a doubt in my life, I have married the love of my life. We have been happily married for 12 years now. He is everything I am not. We both compliment each other in...
    barbaratownsend barbaratownsend 31-35, F Mar 21

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    I am married too. After years of feeling neglected and resentful in my marriage, I set out to have some needs met and honestly, get some attention. But I had it in my head that I...
    newvome newvome 41-45, F 4 Responses Mar 23

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    Wondering if anyone else here is married, has a boyfriend and their husband knows about it? My "boyfriend" is married but she don't know about me.
    confusedinSC confusedinSC 41-45, F 1 Response Mar 23

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    i fell in love with a married man and he was my first. He was the one who initiated and i lied to him about my experience. He came to my house, we had sex, he said he was very...
    mayamasala mayamasala 26-30, F Mar 26

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    Next month will be a year I have been seeing my married man. Sometimes I go over the year and wonder how I really got here. Why am I dating a married man?? I never expected to fall...
    Lishadntplay Lishadntplay 26-30, F