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I Am Married to a Police Officer

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    I'm married to a SWAT team member. Even though he can get a call any second of the day to be at work he is my hero! I know it sounds cheesy but he really is! Love you babe!
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    New Tv Show Seeking Police Wives Who Stick Together

    A MAJOR CABLE NETWORK wants to salute the WOMEN behind the badge…. Are you the WIFE or GIRLFRIEND of a LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER? Do you deal with EVER-CHANGING SCHEDULES, ODD HOURS, and often have to celebrate holidays or birthdays WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER? Are you constantly...
    cineflixcasting cineflixcasting 31-35 Oct 19, 2012

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    I Am Dating A Police Officer

    From reading previous stories about experiences with being married to, and dating a police officer, let me go ahead and tell you there are exceptions. I have been dating a police officer for going on four years, and I adore this man! Is he human? Yes. Are there downfalls to...
    genlouboo genlouboo 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    A Cautionary Tale

    its been a tiring existence with me juggling family life around all the shift patterns, taking any old job to try and raise a family. Often feel like a single parent. But its the emotional loneliness that gets me and the fact that he works longs hours and i get the scrap of the...
    shallistay shallistay 46-50 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    This I Not What I Signed On For

    I cannot be the only person that is married to a cop, and is now regretting it. Why should I feel bad that I don't want this life for me or my kids? He's never home, and when he is I wish he'd just go back to work. If he's not a self absorbed piece of @$#%, them he's in a bad...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    lovelyjeni94 lovelyjeni94 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2

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    Dating An Officer and Deciding If I Can Handle It

    Recently I have been dating a deputy sheriff who is still under his probationary period.  Because he is still in rookie status he gets pulled for overtime constantly and sometimes we go 4-5 days without even seeing eachother.  I am a pretty independent woman but...
    datinganddeciding datinganddeciding 22-25 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Well, Engaged To One Anyway = )

    When we first started dating, my Fiance's job was just as a reserve deputy sheriff so he only worked weekends & maybe a night here or there. But now he just took a full time position with the Police Dept on the Biltmore Estate & is also starting more hours with the sheriff dept...
    Adaire89 Adaire89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    Okay I live in Michigan and the age to consent to sex is 16 I'm guessing that's with any age but below 16. Anyways this 42 year old police officer who lives in Canada came over the...
    cupcakes38 cupcakes38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Okay I live in Michigan I was 17 now 18 at the time and the age to consent to sex is 16 I'm guessing that's with any age but below 16. Anyways this 42 year old police officer who...
    cupcakes38 cupcakes38 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 19

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    Traffic officer in Quebec, Canada
    cparker7789 cparker7789 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 24

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    I took a long vacation in the autumn of 1999. Upon my return, the manager of the bed & breakfast rooms called me for my professional services. She said that there had been thefts...
    jonquil323 jonquil323 56-60, M Jul 5

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    Called the police last night. This day has been coming since 2 weeks after I married this "perfect" man. It started out with him getting "hung up" on little things. The sort of...
    DebC75 DebC75 36-40, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    I have served as a sworn Officer in California, Nevada and with the military
    pakettle pakettle 66-70, M Jul 15

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    My husband has been diagnosed with PTSD (twice, the first time he refused to believe it). He is a very intelligent, very emotional and creative man. A good father and, at heart...
    madam99 madam99 36-40, F 3 days ago

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    This one police is trying to make me confess to doing something I never did. He was like "We have a witness that says you were involved now tell us who helped you." and then I said...
    LandonS LandonS 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 3

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    I am a Police Explorer with Oberlin Police Department in Oberlin, Ohio 44074 and I am with one of the only two in Lorain County.
    MatthewWolf MatthewWolf 13-15, M Jul 15

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    The Case has Just Been Opened, I Feel raw With Pain. My Wounds are Still not Healed Over my Body, 10 Days in Prison After They Assaulted me in a Police Station Because I Would not...
    AeroWhiteDelite AeroWhiteDelite 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    I've been with my bf for 6.5 years now and we recently watched a documentary where this guy who filmed all these weddings goes back to the people years and years later and...
    danielle1423 danielle1423 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    On 17th of April I met a guy on the street I was driving my car with my cousin and he was in his car beside me on the traffic stop sign , he asked me to stop and we started...
    sisikuci sisikuci 26-30, F Jul 11

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    I was posting in the "Married but Lonely" section and have several posts there that give my perspective on my marriage. After being in that group for a while I realized through...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 7

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    I am married and I have this theory. My theory is that the longer two people are married, the more likely they are to have different sex drives, causing a great influx of "I live...
    MarcRider MarcRider 46-50, M 11 Responses Jul 8

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    Marriage is a curse. That's what it seems like now a days. As soon as you get married it seems all this fun and love just dies. You're bound by the law. I have no problem staying...
    WintersSoldier WintersSoldier 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I know I'm young, but my mom got married younger than me and I want to engaged now for a few years and get married like 22 or 23. Then have a kid at 28 and one at 30. I know things...
    EvelynElf EvelynElf 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    If you are married and try to flirt with me or whatever that is inappropriate keep it moving. I will not talk to a married man that made a sacred vowel before God, I feel like its...
    bootsie85 bootsie85 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Looking back at my life, I'm very surprised I never made the "mistake" of getting married and/or having kids too early on in life. I call it a mistake because, for me, it would...
    TrailrunnerMN TrailrunnerMN 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    Before married him, I accepted that he was likely to get bigger. I admitted to myself, and then to others (especially his mom) that I was not responsible for his weight and I never...
    biali biali 31-35 Jul 2

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    Every time I meet someone new...whether it be someone I'm interested in or just a guy meet, they think I'm married. Even when I tell them I'm not they don't believe me. I don't...
    Beautysedge420 Beautysedge420 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    About 18 years ago, I met an amazing guy. We really connected & had amazing chemistry. At the time he had a set 3 mo old twin boys & I discovered that I was pregnant by my ex. So...
    Angeeb Angeeb 41-45, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    This is a long story so please bear with me if you can. I met a man back in 2008 through his sister who was a good friend of mine at the time. I knew he was married from the start...
    plmagnet29 plmagnet29 36-40, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I met my wife through a Christian dating service called "Equally Yoked." I wanted to meet someone who had the same beliefs and values as I did. She and I hit it off from the first...
    ludix ludix 41-45, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been married 20 years in August 2014 ! I met my husband back in 1994 on a blind date . On my first date with him I looked at him and just new this was the guy for me to...
    Nature1968 Nature1968 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I find it weird how people put so much value towards marriage and love and relationships. I say I don't want to get married and people lecture me about how there's someone waiting...
    PurpleHart PurpleHart 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 5

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    Met her in March 1975 at a home of a friend that was conducting a bible study...about 30 people were present. Married her in December 1975.... 3 children, 4 (and counting...
    Alan493 Alan493 56-60, M 2 Responses Jul 6

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    I think that I am going to making more of my marriage posts in the "I am Married" group. I realized that although I feel lonely at times the general members that post in "Married...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 7

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    I was raised a Jehovahs Witness. That proved be a hardship in my life when it came to accepting who i was as a person. From a very young age, I new I was gay. I used to get the...
    akg27 akg27 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 8

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    Well tonight I was drunk and my married man came to watch me shoot pool. (I'm I a pool league) of course his wife came with him since I'm friends with his wife. We were all talking...
    justthewayilikeit justthewayilikeit 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    Im so lonely even being married cos i married the wrong man, cos i wanted to have children so much. Now i have consequences of it. I live in loveless marriage. The only joy is my...
    angel8i angel8i 31-35, F 19 Responses Jul 10

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    August of 2014, will be 16 months since he walked out the door. Never leaving me with our boys to raise alone. Some ppl think I'm crazy for saying this, but I'm actually glad he...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 7 Responses Jul 12

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    I am married for 11 years now and have 4 beautiful children. Everyone who knows me thinks i have a perfect life.. and i do.. except of being MADLY in love with another man!! He...
    solo1411 solo1411 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 12

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    Well I have been married for 3 years.. Don't know why I married him I guess I loved him then, now u just feel like nothing. He doesn't pay attention to me, whenever I'm sad he...
    pzjekt pzjekt 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 12

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    I can understand how people romanticize marriage and build it up with words like commitment, faithfulness, loyalty, etc. A marriage in itself doesn’t actually have the power to...
    GiantKaiju GiantKaiju 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 12

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    Hi I find folks who say they are ' single ' and are divorced or even widowed. Where I come from single means one thing: never married. A person says they're single and divorced...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 1 Response Jul 13

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    When one sets morals and goals in someone, the search gets narrowed down, and even helps deter those that are not the match interfere with your search for someone that you will...
    lon3lygam3r lon3lygam3r 26-30, M Jul 14

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    I am a very happily married wife and mom. I have been married for 23 years now and have 7 kids from our marriage. We have a great marriage and work at it every day. Even after...
    nudistfamilyonbeach nudistfamilyonbeach 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I think being married is a most difficult task.I am married to the same person for 27 years and know him for 29 years.He has many faults .I too have faults too.I think marriage is...
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 8 Responses Jul 14

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    Before I start, this is going to be long. You have to know the beginning before you can understand the end. KARMA is a big word here so pls keep that in mind while reading...
    arwhap13 arwhap13 31-35, M Jul 17

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