I Am Married to a Police Officer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 29 People

    Dating An Officer and Deciding If I Can Handle It

    Recently I have been dating a deputy sheriff who is still under his probationary period.  Because he is still in rookie status he gets pulled for overtime constantly and sometimes we go 4-5 days without even seeing eachother.  I am a pretty independent woman but...
    datinganddeciding datinganddeciding
    22-25
    2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

    This I Not What I Signed On For

    I cannot be the only person that is married to a cop, and is now regretting it. Why should I feel bad that I don't want this life for me or my kids? He's never home, and when he is I wish he'd just go back to work. If he's not a self absorbed piece of @$#%, them he's in a bad...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura
    41-45, F
    6 Responses Jan 16, 2012

    Swat Team Member

    I'm married to a SWAT team member. Even though he can get a call any second of the day to be at work he is my hero! I know it sounds cheesy but he really is! Love you babe!
    JennStone JennStone
    26-30, F
    1 Response May 4, 2013
    lovelyjeni94 lovelyjeni94
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 2, 2014

    I Am Dating A Police Officer

    From reading previous stories about experiences with being married to, and dating a police officer, let me go ahead and tell you there are exceptions. I have been dating a police officer for going on four years, and I adore this man! Is he human? Yes. Are there downfalls to...
    genlouboo genlouboo
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jun 21, 2013

    I have been married for a little over a year.

    My husband became an officer about 3 months before we got married. I was already concerned with his new job and hours, but he always promised that "he would still be around" and "things won't change that much". I didn't agree with him, but I loved him so I went with it...
    Lincolnafire Lincolnafire
    36-40, F
    Nov 22, 2015

    A Cautionary Tale

    its been a tiring existence with me juggling family life around all the shift patterns, taking any old job to try and raise a family. Often feel like a single parent. But its the emotional loneliness that gets me and the fact that he works longs hours and i get the scrap of the...
    shallistay shallistay
    46-50
    1 Response Sep 8, 2012

    Well, Engaged To One Anyway = )

    When we first started dating, my Fiance's job was just as a reserve deputy sheriff so he only worked weekends & maybe a night here or there. But now he just took a full time position with the Police Dept on the Biltmore Estate & is also starting more hours with the sheriff dept...
    Adaire89 Adaire89
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

    New Tv Show Seeking Police Wives Who Stick Together

    A MAJOR CABLE NETWORK wants to salute the WOMEN behind the badge…. Are you the WIFE or GIRLFRIEND of a LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER? Do you deal with EVER-CHANGING SCHEDULES, ODD HOURS, and often have to celebrate holidays or birthdays WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER? Are you constantly...
    cineflixcasting cineflixcasting
    31-35
    1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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