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I Am Married to a Police Officer

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 26 People

    lovelyjeni94 lovelyjeni94 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2014

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    This I Not What I Signed On For

    I cannot be the only person that is married to a cop, and is now regretting it. Why should I feel bad that I don't want this life for me or my kids? He's never home, and when he is I wish he'd just go back to work. If he's not a self absorbed piece of @$#%, them he's in a bad...
    funnyhahalaura funnyhahalaura 41-45, F 6 Responses Jan 16, 2012

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    Dating An Officer and Deciding If I Can Handle It

    Recently I have been dating a deputy sheriff who is still under his probationary period.  Because he is still in rookie status he gets pulled for overtime constantly and sometimes we go 4-5 days without even seeing eachother.  I am a pretty independent woman but...
    datinganddeciding datinganddeciding 22-25 2 Responses Jul 9, 2009

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    Well, Engaged To One Anyway = )

    When we first started dating, my Fiance's job was just as a reserve deputy sheriff so he only worked weekends & maybe a night here or there. But now he just took a full time position with the Police Dept on the Biltmore Estate & is also starting more hours with the sheriff dept...
    Adaire89 Adaire89 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 6, 2010

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    Swat Team Member

    I'm married to a SWAT team member. Even though he can get a call any second of the day to be at work he is my hero! I know it sounds cheesy but he really is! Love you babe!
    JennStone JennStone 26-30, F 1 Response May 4, 2013

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    New Tv Show Seeking Police Wives Who Stick Together

    A MAJOR CABLE NETWORK wants to salute the WOMEN behind the badge…. Are you the WIFE or GIRLFRIEND of a LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER? Do you deal with EVER-CHANGING SCHEDULES, ODD HOURS, and often have to celebrate holidays or birthdays WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER? Are you constantly...
    cineflixcasting cineflixcasting 31-35 1 Response Oct 19, 2012

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    I Am Dating A Police Officer

    From reading previous stories about experiences with being married to, and dating a police officer, let me go ahead and tell you there are exceptions. I have been dating a police officer for going on four years, and I adore this man! Is he human? Yes. Are there downfalls to...
    genlouboo genlouboo 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 21, 2013

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    A Cautionary Tale

    its been a tiring existence with me juggling family life around all the shift patterns, taking any old job to try and raise a family. Often feel like a single parent. But its the emotional loneliness that gets me and the fact that he works longs hours and i get the scrap of the...
    shallistay shallistay 46-50 1 Response Sep 8, 2012

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    for the last few years since my wife agreed to spread her married legs for any mans she has a desire to do so.has made our marriage so much stronger and has made me fall more in...
    karpaul karpaul 51-55, M 3 hrs ago

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    My husband has no genuine interest in me :/ He still guesses at gifts and is completely dumbfounded by meaningful gestures. We met in 2003 and married in 2008...it really shouldn...
    Kettei Kettei 31-35, F 7 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I sometimes wonder how my whole life began to crumble. I have it all....money...nice cars....success.....trips...the whole thing but the most important part in life.....desire...a...
    excessbaggage excessbaggage 41-45, F 6 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I am very passionate about Law Enforcement! Police is my everything. I am respectful to Police Officers. I don't understand why people hate the police. They protect and serve...
    Jgummy123 Jgummy123 13-15, F 3 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Police Lives Matter. Police are human too, they just where a uniform. Police don't wake up wanting to kill people. My cousin's a police officer and he doesn't want to hurt anyone.
    Damocles19 Damocles19 13-15, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Been on the job a month and I love it!
    Emiliexo Emiliexo 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    I am 30 years I am a Black man i have had both positive as well as negative experiences with police. At this point in my life I am no longer afraid to say that police are the worst...
    saint1123 saint1123 31-35, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    **** police, **** police, **** police BRUTALITY!!
    TrappedOrphan TrappedOrphan 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    One in particular actually. If anyone has ever seen the show, COPS, it is absolutely HILARIOUS. Watching that show actually taught me a lot about officer safety and I'm starting to...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Anyone who is crazy enough to put their lives on the line daily, leave their families behind just to be shot at, rush into deadly situations that a normal person wouldn't dare...
    Curlatte3845 Curlatte3845 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    One of my favorites. The police: trust one with your life, but not your wife!
    fr34qee fr34qee 51-55, M 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    Why do all married men, and I mean ALL, lie about the most basic of things? I've met and had affairs with a few married men and friends with some. Each and everyone lied about...
    tinkerbell71 tinkerbell71 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Full moons were meant to be spent alone, I think. We couldn't sleep, so we started to talk about big, stupid, hypothetical questions, just to play with ideas until we felt tired...
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    ever since I can remember I've always wanted to become a police officer. my uncle is a police officer that is how I got the idea. it's been my dream for a very long time and I'm...
    epsarah94 epsarah94 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I just want to put it out there. I am HAPPILY married to a very loving and supportive man. He is my rock, and my best friend. I would never even think of doing anything to hurt...
    Lotusflower80 Lotusflower80 31-35, F 12 Responses 6 days ago

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    I actually want to be a Police Officer later in life. my plan is to go into the navy and then get on the local police force after I serve. I really want to support this great...
    Andyg99 Andyg99 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Yep been married since 07. waited till it was three days before I turned 30 and got married. She is a great mom to my kids, I have awesome kids.
    cruise77 cruise77 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 25

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    I have been married for 16 years, together 17. We married fairly young, and quickly. My husband is a good guy (overall)and there is no abuse or red flags. Though, there are...
    emk38 emk38 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 25

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    It isn't that I don't think I'll ever get married, it is that I don't think I'll ever want to get married. With divorce rates over 50% and a biased divorce court, I don't want to...
    AdArbitrium AdArbitrium 18-21, M Aug 25

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    It happened about 30 years ago. I was a white middle class young man and was badly beaten up in Hampstead Police Station of all places! I was told that there was absolutely nothing...
    markdaniels58 markdaniels58 56-60, M Aug 24

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    When they come near, I get scared. One time, a big scary police man pulled me over because one of my car lights was broken. I started crying as he approached my car. When he came...
    ChelseaMonroe ChelseaMonroe 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 24

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    I have been married 41 years. The first 15 were good. I stayed married for many reasons. Always the children or what I had accomplished. One thing then the other. Time went on and...
    Christmas74 Christmas74 56-60, F 3 Responses Aug 22

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    its my dream also.. at my age im still single and never been married. its not too late for me to dream..hope i will find the right man for me..coz i wanna get married once and be...
    empire28 empire28 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I know many people will make judgmental comments. I don't really care. I just need to get this out. My relationships in the past have always ended with me hurt due to infidelity...
    BrittBratz BrittBratz 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 21

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    Here's my story: I grew up in a tiny, deeply Southern town. With a small, close minded, religious family. Being different was difficult and coming out as gay was downright...
    lovelyconflict lovelyconflict 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 20

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    I think I have come to the realisation that my husband may be a narcissist. I have been gradually becoming more and more unhappy, and started researching the types of behaviours he...
    iamnoonyouknow iamnoonyouknow 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I would love to get married one day and have a beautiful baby. my bf said that he is open to getting married again and having more kids. maybe one day he will ask and give me his...
    LadyLyric311 LadyLyric311 22-25, F Aug 19

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    I'm a 47 yr old Bi male soon to be married to the lady of my dreams. She knows I'm bi and supports me 100% she to is Bi. We have been known to enjoy a 3 some or 4 some with...
    WillieGMan WillieGMan 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 19

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    I married my hus cos i was scared to end up forever alone. Now i have a daughter but i dont love my hus. I paid the price for a child, but im not happy inside now. I married him...
    lonely4560 lonely4560 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 18

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    This is my 2nd marriage we were engaged at 5 years and married after 8. We've been married 6 months and it's been hell. As soon as I said "I do" I became his unpaid personal...
    earsore earsore 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 17

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    Growing up, (as I still am) when I think of getting married and becoming an adult.. I tend to imagine something like.. Getting married before 25 but no younger than 18. To a guy...
    angela1125 angela1125 13-15, F Aug 16

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    So here is my story... I am in love with a married woman. I don't know what to do. Let me tell you a back story. The woman I am in love with used to be my wife. When we first...
    KHD77 KHD77 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    I joined EP almost 2 months ago now and boy a lot has not happened since joining. The first thing I did after joining was wrote a post about my marriage. I am another person in...
    Paul47C Paul47C 46-50, M 5 Responses Aug 15

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