I Am Married to a Soldier

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    Missing My American Hero!!!

    ok so veteran's day was a blower...no mail and no call from my hubby...i miss him so much and look forward to his letters and calls and didnt get either. im starting to not like the holidays haha jk...he comes home in 36 more days and i freaking cant wait...i know we all cant...
    cpurvey cpurvey
    26-30, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2009

    New

    Hey HOW IS EVERYONE DOING? WELL I JUST WANT TO TELL A LITTLE ABOUT MYSELF. MY NAME IS NICOLE ROTOLO ME AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 60 DAYS. HE JUST GOT DONE WITH IRAQ WE GOT MARRIED WHEN WE WAS HOME ON LEAVE. I LIVE IN FL MY HUSBAND IS IN GERMANY AND WE WILL BE MOVING TO...
    coleebabyxo coleebabyxo
    18-21
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

    New to This

    hello all! the names amber mccartney and my husband just graduated basic trainning from fort jackson and now he is starting AIT at fort jackson as well. we just had a son on sept.11 2009 and his daddy just got to meet him for the first time this last weekend. it was vary...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 5, 2009

    My Internet Romance Became My American Hero... My Soon To Be Husband!

    MyCAA offers Military Spouses a grant for $4,000 to attend schooling online. That's right; FREE on-line; All from the Comfort zone of your home at your own pace. E5 and below W1 to W2 or O1 to O2- if you Spouse is in this rank zone than this GRANT is FOR YOU. We have tons of...
    azgal2011 azgal2011
    18-21, F
    Mar 30, 2012

    Crazy Excited!! :)

    hey everyone!! so im getting so excited my husband comes home from AIT in just 16 days! yes yes yes!! its been a long five months with him being gone and our son is so ready to have his daddy home even tho hes just shy 3 months lol. im currently planning a huge welcome home...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2009

    What to Do

    my husband is currently deployed in Iraq and its killing me Im trying so hard to be strong but its hard I didnt talk to him for 5 days which is to be expected but when we finally talked it wasnt a good conversation and I think he hung up on me its not fair cause its not like I...
    armywife26 armywife26
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

    Yes Im Married to a Soldier...

    My story is simple: My husband was in the Marines Corps got out tried the civilian world for a while and it just wasn't cutting it. He decided to try to go back into the Marine Corps but they were dragging on taking prior enlisted so he went to the Army Recruiting office and...
    armywives101 armywives101
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2009

    IAM New to the Army

    IM A NEW WIFE TO THE ARMY AND HAS BEEN ALMOST A YEAR NOW AND IT HAS BEEN THE TOUGHEST JOB IN THE WORLD AND MY HUSBAND LEAVES FOR DEPLOYMENT FOR HIS 4TIME AND I AM SCARED TO DEATH THAT I AM NOT GOING TO MAKE IT THROUGH OR ANYTHING
    ArmyWifeNow ArmyWifeNow
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2009

    Crazy Excited!! :)

    hey everyone!! so im getting so excited my husband comes home from AIT in just 16 days! yes yes yes!! its been a long five months with him being gone and our son is so ready to have his daddy home even tho hes just shy 3 months lol. im currently planning a huge welcome home...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2009

    New To This Whole Experience...

    Hello everyone, i am married to an army soldier that is at BCT in Fort Sill,Ok. He left 10/14/2009 and is starting on his 3rd week in Phase I. I am so proud of him and cant wait til i see him again. I dont know any other military wives and would like to get to know some. I am in...
    cpurvey cpurvey
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 9, 2009

    No Stronger Love

    My husband is a soldier and so is my little sister. They both will be deploying to Iraq in January. My sister is a combat medic and my husband is in transportation. When the war first started, I would hear of soldiers dying all the time. I would feel sorry for their families, but...
    keke6285 keke6285
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 10, 2008

    Was Once A Soldier Myself

    I am married to a soldier in the US Army. We have two kids together. We have been married for 6 going on 7 years now! If anyone has questions on married life to a soldier please feel free to ask me. We have been through a lot together. I was on the soldier end myself till 2007...
    armyvetwolf armyvetwolf
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 15, 2011

    6 Yrs and 3 Deployments

    hi my name is stefanie, call me stef if you like, i'm married to a us army soldier (crewchief, uh60's). we're currently stationed in katterbach/ansbach, germany and have been married for almost 6 years now and are in our third deployment right now :-( of course this time we were...
    trisandkksmom trisandkksmom
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 4, 2008

    Wedding Planning

    my husband just got his first duty station in south korea at camp casey for an unaccompanied year. i am still in college working on getting my degree. he proposed to me right before he left for south korea, and we decided to get married before he left, just incase of a deployment...
    armywifelucas armywifelucas
    18-21, F
    Jul 19, 2009

    Miss My Baby!

    So my husband and I got married to days before he left for Afganistan actually...and I am about 2 months pregnant! I am devastated that he can't be here! Our first child and he can't experience any of it with me! I am so so sad about this and I know that it is affecting him more...
    bhertz88 bhertz88
    18-21
    1 Response Feb 20, 2009

    Hello :)

    I thought I'd introduce myself to the group. My name is Rachel and I am currently living in Colorado where my husband is stationed at Fort Carson. Our 1st anniversary is coming up on the 12th but he is at NTC and will likely not be home until a few days after. I'm currently...
    Emparatrice Emparatrice
    18-21, F
    Oct 30, 2012

    Hubby Left For Fort Benning Bct July 10th...

    Hello my name is tiffanie & I've been married to my husband for 3 years(together for 4)...he just left for basic training this past Tuesday...I miss him so much & I'm still fairly new to this lifestyle...if there is anyone who has had experience with Fort Benning please share:)
    Prdarmywife12 Prdarmywife12
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2012

    First Deployment

    hello we have just started our first deployment.  he just left a week ago. the only word i have heard so far is an email.  i cherish it.  i moved away from his duty station 2 months before deployment so i am kinda out of the FRG loop.  I feel so alone...
    jtcochran07 jtcochran07
    18-21
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2008

    ARNG Wife

      Happily married on April 17, 2005.. He is my best friend.. My heart and soul.. He makes me laugh and sometimes cry. In the end I couldn't imagine my life without him.. Being with him has made me the happiest girl in the world.. It sucks being away from him for 12- 15...
    DogTagKindaGirl DogTagKindaGirl
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

    My Crazy Military Life...

    Ok, so it has been forever since I have wrote on here or even logged in. In the past 9 months I have had some crazy twists and super lows. My husband is currently deployed and we almost divored over him having a affiar with my best friend. Wierdly after months of fighting and...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 27, 2011

    Crazy Excited!! :)

    hey everyone!! so im getting so excited my husband comes home from AIT in just 16 days! yes yes yes!! its been a long five months with him being gone and our son is so ready to have his daddy home even tho hes just shy 3 months lol. im currently planning a huge welcome home...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3
    18-21, F
    Nov 30, 2009

    New Wife...and Also Mother Of 2 Soldiers

    I recently got married and my new husband is deploying in next couple months. I already have a son currently deployed and another one in basic training....I feel very alone....worried....and over whelmed! This is alot to try and handle all at once.
    adahmen04 adahmen04
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 19, 2012

    Life As An Army Wife

    I've been married to my soldier for almost a year, although we've been together for over 4yrs. I have been through 2 deployments, and I am praying I won't have to do that anymore. Right now we are stationed at Ft.Lewis. He is working with the wounded soldiers and I am very proud...
    FtLewispuppyowner FtLewispuppyowner
    26-30
    4 Responses Jul 27, 2008

    I just got married to a Naval officer.

    married few days before he left to his new post. I love him and will always support. Though the distance we still talk on phone. can someone pls tell me how to cope cos I feel down sometimes.
    tobenia tobenia
    31-35
    Jul 4, 2015

    I Love My Soldier

    I remember the day my husband told me he wanted to join the Army. I had just gotten home from work, when i walked into our apartment he had cleaned the house, and was making dinner and on our coffee table i could see this packet ... and i knew the second i saw that packet our...
    ProudArmyWife2007 ProudArmyWife2007
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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