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I Am Married to a Soldier

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    Crazy Excited!! :)

    hey everyone!! so im getting so excited my husband comes home from AIT in just 16 days! yes yes yes!! its been a long five months with him being gone and our son is so ready to have his daddy home even tho hes just shy 3 months lol. im currently planning a huge welcome home...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30, 2009

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    My Crazy Military Life...

    Ok, so it has been forever since I have wrote on here or even logged in. In the past 9 months I have had some crazy twists and super lows. My husband is currently deployed and we almost divored over him having a affiar with my best friend. Wierdly after months of fighting and...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 27, 2011

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    Miss My Baby!

    So my husband and I got married to days before he left for Afganistan actually...and I am about 2 months pregnant! I am devastated that he can't be here! Our first child and he can't experience any of it with me! I am so so sad about this and I know that it is affecting him more...
    bhertz88 bhertz88 18-21 1 Response Feb 20, 2009

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    Missing My American Hero!!!

    ok so veteran's day was a blower...no mail and no call from my hubby...i miss him so much and look forward to his letters and calls and didnt get either. im starting to not like the holidays haha jk...he comes home in 36 more days and i freaking cant wait...i know we all cant...
    cpurvey cpurvey 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 12, 2009

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    6 Yrs and 3 Deployments

    hi my name is stefanie, call me stef if you like, i'm married to a us army soldier (crewchief, uh60's). we're currently stationed in katterbach/ansbach, germany and have been married for almost 6 years now and are in our third deployment right now :-( of course this time we were...
    trisandkksmom trisandkksmom 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2008

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    IAM New to the Army

    IM A NEW WIFE TO THE ARMY AND HAS BEEN ALMOST A YEAR NOW AND IT HAS BEEN THE TOUGHEST JOB IN THE WORLD AND MY HUSBAND LEAVES FOR DEPLOYMENT FOR HIS 4TIME AND I AM SCARED TO DEATH THAT I AM NOT GOING TO MAKE IT THROUGH OR ANYTHING
    ArmyWifeNow ArmyWifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 4, 2009

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    What to Do

    my husband is currently deployed in Iraq and its killing me Im trying so hard to be strong but its hard I didnt talk to him for 5 days which is to be expected but when we finally talked it wasnt a good conversation and I think he hung up on me its not fair cause its not like I...
    armywife26 armywife26 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 26, 2009

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    Hubby Left For Fort Benning Bct July 10th...

    Hello my name is tiffanie & I've been married to my husband for 3 years(together for 4)...he just left for basic training this past Tuesday...I miss him so much & I'm still fairly new to this lifestyle...if there is anyone who has had experience with Fort Benning please share:)
    Prdarmywife12 Prdarmywife12 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2012

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    New

    Hey HOW IS EVERYONE DOING? WELL I JUST WANT TO TELL A LITTLE ABOUT MYSELF. MY NAME IS NICOLE ROTOLO ME AND MY HUSBAND HAS BEEN MARRIED FOR 60 DAYS. HE JUST GOT DONE WITH IRAQ WE GOT MARRIED WHEN WE WAS HOME ON LEAVE. I LIVE IN FL MY HUSBAND IS IN GERMANY AND WE WILL BE MOVING TO...
    coleebabyxo coleebabyxo 18-21 2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Yes Im Married to a Soldier...

    My story is simple: My husband was in the Marines Corps got out tried the civilian world for a while and it just wasn't cutting it. He decided to try to go back into the Marine Corps but they were dragging on taking prior enlisted so he went to the Army Recruiting office and...
    armywives101 armywives101 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 30, 2009

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    I Love My Soldier

    I remember the day my husband told me he wanted to join the Army. I had just gotten home from work, when i walked into our apartment he had cleaned the house, and was making dinner and on our coffee table i could see this packet ... and i knew the second i saw that packet our...
    ProudArmyWife2007 ProudArmyWife2007 22-25, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2009

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    First Deployment

    hello we have just started our first deployment.  he just left a week ago. the only word i have heard so far is an email.  i cherish it.  i moved away from his duty station 2 months before deployment so i am kinda out of the FRG loop.  I feel so alone...
    jtcochran07 jtcochran07 18-21 3 Responses Sep 9, 2008

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    Wedding Planning

    my husband just got his first duty station in south korea at camp casey for an unaccompanied year. i am still in college working on getting my degree. he proposed to me right before he left for south korea, and we decided to get married before he left, just incase of a deployment...
    armywifelucas armywifelucas 18-21, F Jul 19, 2009

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    I Love My Soldier!

    He is going to Afghanistan this summer and I will miss him terribly. I'm so sad that he will miss his son's 1st birthday.
    micahmae micahmae 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 1, 2009

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    My Internet Romance Became My American Hero... My Soon To Be Husband!

    MyCAA offers Military Spouses a grant for $4,000 to attend schooling online. That's right; FREE on-line; All from the Comfort zone of your home at your own pace. E5 and below W1 to W2 or O1 to O2- if you Spouse is in this rank zone than this GRANT is FOR YOU. We have tons of...
    azgal2011 azgal2011 18-21, F Mar 30, 2012

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    Hello :)

    I thought I'd introduce myself to the group. My name is Rachel and I am currently living in Colorado where my husband is stationed at Fort Carson. Our 1st anniversary is coming up on the 12th but he is at NTC and will likely not be home until a few days after. I'm currently...
    Emparatrice Emparatrice 18-21, F Oct 30, 2012

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    Life As An Army Wife

    I've been married to my soldier for almost a year, although we've been together for over 4yrs. I have been through 2 deployments, and I am praying I won't have to do that anymore. Right now we are stationed at Ft.Lewis. He is working with the wounded soldiers and I am very proud...
    FtLewispuppyowner FtLewispuppyowner 26-30 4 Responses Jul 27, 2008

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    New to This

    hello all! the names amber mccartney and my husband just graduated basic trainning from fort jackson and now he is starting AIT at fort jackson as well. we just had a son on sept.11 2009 and his daddy just got to meet him for the first time this last weekend. it was vary...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3 18-21, F 3 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Not For Much Longer

    This armywife is no more! My husband and I have split - so I'm guessing we'll be divorced by the end of the year. I'm not sad - it was on the cards for a while and I think it's what both of us want, there is some bitterness and at the moment we don't speak at all. Still it's for...
    AWUK AWUK 26-30, F 8 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    ARNG Wife

      Happily married on April 17, 2005.. He is my best friend.. My heart and soul.. He makes me laugh and sometimes cry. In the end I couldn't imagine my life without him.. Being with him has made me the happiest girl in the world.. It sucks being away from him for 12- 15...
    DogTagKindaGirl DogTagKindaGirl 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 23, 2009

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    Was Once A Soldier Myself

    I am married to a soldier in the US Army. We have two kids together. We have been married for 6 going on 7 years now! If anyone has questions on married life to a soldier please feel free to ask me. We have been through a lot together. I was on the soldier end myself till 2007...
    armyvetwolf armyvetwolf 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2011

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    New To This Whole Experience...

    Hello everyone, i am married to an army soldier that is at BCT in Fort Sill,Ok. He left 10/14/2009 and is starting on his 3rd week in Phase I. I am so proud of him and cant wait til i see him again. I dont know any other military wives and would like to get to know some. I am in...
    cpurvey cpurvey 26-30, F 7 Responses Nov 9, 2009

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    Crazy Excited!! :)

    hey everyone!! so im getting so excited my husband comes home from AIT in just 16 days! yes yes yes!! its been a long five months with him being gone and our son is so ready to have his daddy home even tho hes just shy 3 months lol. im currently planning a huge welcome home...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3 18-21, F Nov 30, 2009

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    New Wife...and Also Mother Of 2 Soldiers

    I recently got married and my new husband is deploying in next couple months. I already have a son currently deployed and another one in basic training....I feel very alone....worried....and over whelmed! This is alot to try and handle all at once.
    adahmen04 adahmen04 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 19, 2012

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    Crazy Excited!! :)

    hey everyone!! so im getting so excited my husband comes home from AIT in just 16 days! yes yes yes!! its been a long five months with him being gone and our son is so ready to have his daddy home even tho hes just shy 3 months lol. im currently planning a huge welcome home...
    landonsmom3 landonsmom3 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 30, 2009

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    No Stronger Love

    My husband is a soldier and so is my little sister. They both will be deploying to Iraq in January. My sister is a combat medic and my husband is in transportation. When the war first started, I would hear of soldiers dying all the time. I would feel sorry for their families, but...
    keke6285 keke6285 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 10, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Unlike a ton of people I know I haven't been married as of yet. Two of my closest friends are married. I feel like if I was in a much better financial situation than my life has...
    eartheyes82 eartheyes82 31-35, M 2 hrs ago

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    I've been with my boyfriend for a little over 2 and a half years; 3 years in May of 2015. We plan to be engaged before he leaves for his duty station at the end of May and then i...
    AlexBlair AlexBlair 18-21, F Jan 1

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    My husband and I just got married on the 30th. He is taking the asvab this month and is hoping to get military police. Since the only base to train is in Missouri fort Leonard wood...
    WynonnaMarye WynonnaMarye 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 6

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    I respect all military soldiers nothing more to say
    never0empty never0empty 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 31, 2014

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    My soldier left a little bit ago for his first duty station overseas. He'll be gone for a year. It's gonna be a journey that's for sure. But I've got school and a wedding to plan...
    Armyfiance2007 Armyfiance2007 18-21, F Jan 2

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    Depression is something I've struggled with for pretty much my whole life. I was raised in a very catholic home, with very emotionally detached parents. They fought a lot, and my...
    lauralovesu lauralovesu 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    Met my husband a year after my divorce prayed the whole time for a long list of things I wanted in a man, if I was allowed to ever marry again. After meeting 2 losers, I almost...
    Myslice2small Myslice2small 56-60, F 1 Response Jan 8

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    To shorten the story, I have an ex fiance from 2004. My father died and he walked away due to my father's death. You know why as good as I do. I ended up having an emotional...
    DarkwingGoslyn DarkwingGoslyn 31-35 6 days ago

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    I was already "married but lonely" for quite some time but this past year put a brand new spin on it for me. Due to a job loss and relocation, my wife and I ended up physically...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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    I know two wrongs Don't make a right. But since I am stuck in a loveless Marriage until I build my evidence and feel so undesired and unloved, I went on a date with a guy I met a...
    michellegh michellegh 36-40, F 10 Responses Dec 27, 2014

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    I met my special friend on the Internet. It began with a simple message he sent to me requesting to be friends and email pals. For privacy and discretion I will refer to my...
    BeautifulButterfly68 BeautifulButterfly68 46-50, F Jan 4

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    At 24 I married my first wife since she was the mother of my child. This was the beginning of 20 years of hell, which I'll post as another experience. It was during this marriage...
    Jonny1959 Jonny1959 51-55, M 1 Response Jan 4

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    I am married, but desire not to be; a man I married, but a woman I desire I am married but want to be free
    Literally3872 Literally3872 36-40 3 Responses Jan 5

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    I know there is no such thing as a perfect marriage but what if you can't get over thinking you married the wrong person? My Wife can never respond with anything genuine only...
    midlifeknot midlifeknot 41-45, M 10 Responses Jan 7

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    Need attention from married women. No singles please. Married on Married. Discrete lunches please St. Louis area narcman1@yahoo.com
    narcman narcman 56-60, M Jan 10

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    Moments to remember... I have asked my attorney to file. Although we have been married 26 years almost, he had me sign a prenup I did not understand. She has been researching...
    frspch frspch 51-55, F 10 Responses Jan 11

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    Short version I married my high school sweetheart(more like sweet-tart). We have been married for 10 years and the parents of two. In the beginning of our marriage he wasn't...
    HeartbrokenATL HeartbrokenATL 31-35, F Jan 13

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    i want to get married, because i want to have kids. both of my sister have children/are having children, and neither one of them is married. i want to have children, but i look at...
    anneloves anneloves 18-21, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    this police officer and me have known each other forever now. we weren't so close at the beginning when we first met, I was 7 years old and he was 40 years old. he was my dare...
    IrishGirl428 IrishGirl428 18-21, F 4 days ago

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    Hello.. The reason for this post is basically to vent since for obvious reasons I can't talk to anyone about it. I have been married for almost 16 years… To a man that I met...
    40sandfab 40sandfab 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    My parents are married. Their relationship is about as stale as prisoners' food. I've seen what marriage did to them and I have no intention of going down that route. I have read...
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M 4 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    My husband decided two years ago to get back into law enforcement after being out of it for many years. He wasn't a cop when I married him. I fully supported his decision to go...
    tulippilut tulippilut 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 26, 2014

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