I Am Married to a Twin

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    Married To A Twin As Well!

    I've been married my husband (an identical twin) for twelve years now. When we became engaged and decided to marry in less than a year, his brother tried convincing my husband to hold off and not to rush, although we had been together for about 5 years. The three of us moved in...
    vtpagirl vtpagirl
    7 Responses Apr 12, 2011

    Their Wife, Indeed!

    I have been married to a twin for 35 years. For more than 16 of those years, we have also housed his identical twin in our home. There are many times I think I'll go crazy, and only a few times that I am grateful that "the other twin" is there. Mostly I see that his...
    TheirWife TheirWife
    51-55, F
    13 Responses Apr 26, 2010

    Being Married To A Twin

    My wife and I got married nearly two years ago and there has always been a difficulty that I have had with her twin sister. I can't really explain it, but I remember that initially it was hard for me to accept her calling her sister so much and constantly wanting her sisters...
    portelli portelli
    23 Responses Jul 5, 2010


    My husband and I have been married for 3 months and because of financial and other reasons, we live apart. He lives with his sister, twin sister, and my kids and I live with my mom. His sister constantly checks in on him, calling him several times a day to see where he is what he...
    notwife notwife
    4 Responses Jan 30, 2013

    I am married to a 54 year old twin (4 years in

    a few days) and together for almost 9 years. We all share a house together ( the twins bought with another family member prior to me being around) and they have lived together for most of their lives. After reading different stories about the issues arising when you marry a...
    Robo71 Robo71
    46-50, M
    1 Response Mar 13, 2016

    I met my husband my senior year of high school.

    I worked with his twin, and his twin introduced us. We started dating shortly after, and things were great. My now husband and I had a great relationship, and so did myself and my future brother in law. Time passed and a few times over the next year things got rocky...
    derbygirl67 derbygirl67
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jul 18, 2014

    Swearing I Am Married To A Twin

    In my family, we have multiples and I am very aware of how to outwardly tell twins apart from each other (personality and minute differences, even when identical). For years, now,I have noticed very strange things with my husbandand I swear I must be married to a twin, but it...
    two41 two41
    Jul 27, 2012

    Husband Enables Twin

    I've been married to an identical twin for almost a year. 90% of our fights are about the twin. My husband has come a long way. When the twins lived together, he used to pay for everything for him. He reasoning behind this was because he made more money than the twin. Once we...
    ak379097 ak379097
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 28, 2013

    First Born Twin Must Take Care Of The Other?

    Is there some understanding with twins that the first born is generally the stronger of the two and that therefore the second born is 'weaker?' Is is common for twins to behave competitively with one another - for friends, attention, financial security and so on.
    PackageDeal PackageDeal
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Nov 11, 2012

    Trying To Make A Marriage To A Twin Work

    My husband of 14 years is an identical twin. I had always had some reservation about getting involved with a twin, but when I met him, his twin was in another state and they appeared to have a fairly regular sibling relationship. My uncles were twins and also appeared to have...
    dharmaperson dharmaperson
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Jun 16, 2012

    Three's A Crowd

    I have been with my soon to be husband and for five years. I love him so much. We have three year old fraternal twins but there is one problem, he is an identical twin! At first in the beginning I admit I was amused by the idea of hanging out with twins I mean they are six feet...
    Vinny29 Vinny29
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 10, 2013


    mY HUSBAND HAS A TWIN, They are identical and brother thinks he has to know all our buisness. He then takes this info and runs to mom and dad to tell all. How annoying. I thought when he got married this would stop but no such luck. We recently had to move back in with hubby's...
    bamela27 bamela27
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2009
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