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I Am Married to a Younger Man

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    I Love My Younger Husband

    I was never interested in younger men, I thought they were so immature. I think mostly this was due to my younger brother teasing me endlessly like all younger brothers do. I always looked to older men they seemed to have it all together. Then I met my husband who is about 6...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 6, 2013

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    I was married to a man nearly 17 years my junior. We were together for 7 years and married for four. Unfortunately it didn't work out for a variety of reasons, one of these being that we couldn't have kids although biologically it was still possible especially early in our...
    shs0701 shs0701 46-50 2 Responses Jan 6, 2013

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    Marrying A Younger Man

    This is the most happiest time in my life. I am 56 years old woman and I do not look my age. My husband to be is 33 years old and vey mature. At first I thought he was crazy because of our age difference. We fell in love with each other, and its more than infatuation. We talk...
    suavacita9 suavacita9 70+ 5 Responses Dec 22, 2011

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    I too am married to a younger man.

    I am 42 and he is 24. We will be celebrating our one year anniversary in Jan 2014. I had a previous marriage with a man 12 years older than me but he was a gambler and a philanderer. I have 3 children with him and I also have one adopted daughter. I almost had a child with my...
    sufia111 sufia111 41-45, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2013

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    New Life

    I'm a veterinarian and met my fiancé when he called me to see and have some tests taken from the horses of the mounted police of my city. He is a leutenient and also veterinarian. We had a nice work session so he asked me to test more horses from other city near, with him. In...
    Mvpauline Mvpauline 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 27, 2012

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    Happy Together

    I am 9 years older than my husband of 18 1/2 years. It isn't always easy, but what marriage is? We are still in love after all these years. I use to feel insecure about our relationship. I use to think he would leave me for a younger more attractive woman. I trust him...
    stevi8 stevi8 51-55, F 2 Responses Jul 26, 2013

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    He Is Amazing!

    I have been with him (14 years younger) I am 43, he is 29, for 2 years. Nobody has ever loved me so much, so perfectly, so truly, so amazingly. Yes I ahve to agree that sex is beyond belief, amazing. I too worry what will happen in 30 years. He asked me to marry him, and I really...
    tizistella tizistella 36-40 9 Responses Jan 14, 2011

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    I Am In Love With A Younger Man

    Hi all just thought I would share my experience of what it is like being with a younger man.  First of all I was in a relationship for 15 years which after having our second child things deteriated rapidly, we fell out of love basically it had been a hard battle for a good few...
    Kirsten75 Kirsten75 36-40 1 Response Oct 12, 2011

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    I Am Married to a Younger Man

    I am married to younger man . Its has its ups and downs just like any other married couple . Im 45 and he is 32 we have been together for 8 years and have a wonderful 4year old girl . ( she was a surprise baby ; i kept thinking i was premenopausal not pregant ! The hardest thing...
    annabug45 annabug45 41-45 9 Responses Jul 18, 2009

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    He's 14 Years Younger And My Hero

    My husband and I have only been married a few weeks.  I am 35 he is 21!  He is the love of my life, my bestfriend.  We share so many things in common, like our love for life. I too am affraid of how things will go when i am 50 and hes only 35 but only time will tell.  The age...
    king76 king76 31-35 2 Responses Sep 22, 2011

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    But He Can Be Very Shallow

    My husband is four years younger than I am.  People can't believe it when I am with my 11 year old grandaughter.  They always assume she is my daughter and when she calls me they always ask "What did she call you"?.  It is a great feeling. But...
    findinme findinme 46-50, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2008

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    Married to a Younger Man Seriously Damages Your Mental Health

    My husband is 14 yrs younger than me, e have been married 6 years together for 8, initially it was great, made me feel wonderfull. It still is mostly good but the drawbacks outweigh it. I find he is not mentally equipped enough to see any other view point other than his own, he...
    muldoon muldoon 41-45, F 12 Responses Apr 4, 2008

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    I Am A 26 Years Old Man Want To Marry 40+ Aged Open-Minded Liberal Woman. I Will Respect Her In All Means. Is There Any 40+ Aged Woman Who Is Looking For A Good Looking Younger Guy To Get Married.?

    This is just a very normal happy person. I am unmarried very good looking tall very fair and submisstive man. Here I am looking for a Decent, Understanding, Open-minded, Liberal and at least 40+ aged woman who can be fine and comfortable with a very loyal and honest very younger...
    cdhousewife cdhousewife 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 2, 2013

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    My Life Has To Decide By Ur Ideas....

    im 24 yrz gal...and ma lover is 25yrz..can we marry each oter?????is tat crct or wrong?????plz give me solution....
    speeddeeps speeddeeps 22-25 5 Responses Dec 4, 2012

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    vicckycc18 vicckycc18 22-25, F Mar 19

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    Dating Younger men

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    zaracc11 zaracc11 26-30, F Jun 23, 2013

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    Younger Man Doubts

    MY STORY IS I HAVE BEEN WITH A MAN WHO IS 18 YEARS YOUNGER..HE TREATS ME VERY WELL AND CARES FOR ME. BUT MY DOUBT IS THAT HE IS FROM ANOTHER COUNTRY AND WILL REQIURE MY HELP TO TO BECOME A CITZEN IN U.S. AND I OFTEN WONDER IF ONCE ALL THIS IS DONE. WOULD HE ME DONE WITH ME...
    Serrena Serrena 46-50 3 Responses May 21, 2012

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    Married to Am Man 16 Years Younger

    I am 50 years old and we started dating right before I turned 48. We just celebrated our 1st anniversary. I am very much in love with him and I believe he is me. I've been married 3 times and he is the first man my mother ever approved of. She adores him. He waits on me hand and...
    cjfran cjfran 46-50 3 Responses May 11, 2009

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    Life With A Younger Husband

    The decision to marry a man 12 years my junior was not easy, I weighed the pros and cons , the what ifs , the omg 's all very painstaking truth be told. Then there is the issue of parenthood, hmmm, he never raised either of his two kids and mine were intow. At the same time I was...
    flafreckles flafreckles 51-55 Jul 4, 2011

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    My Husband Os 13 1/2 Years Younger

    We married this April 2013 and this my second marriage. He is the best. Thing to ever. Happen to me he loves my children and has taken care of us even during my divorce. He is 23 I am 37 he has a great job and has an healthy obsession with me. At first my family was skeptikal but...
    6packmom 6packmom 36-40, F 2 Responses May 24, 2013

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    I Married A Man Half My Age

    I am a 46 year old woman. My husband is 20. Big age difference huh. When I met him I was working in a homeless shelter I saw him several times over the course of a year. We were just friends but, I felt this pull in my spirit every time we were near each other. This wasn't like a...
    missiongurl missiongurl 46-50, F 12 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    Loving A Decade Apart!?

    An instant attraction...as we sipped our wine and talked about food and travel. It was a one of those intrinsic steps I was taking after a rocky 2 year separation and divorce. I was meeting a man on an online date, 15 years younger. What the hell, right? Wrong! It was a step...
    Kalima66 Kalima66 46-50, F Nov 20, 2013

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    I Married A Younger Man Too

    I am 61 and my husband is 48, he just had his birthday recently. I was married before with children and he has been married 3 times, with children to his first wife. We have known each other for 41 years, and know a lot of the same people. We got married in 2010, we've had our...
    proudnana7 proudnana7 61-65 2 Responses Mar 11, 2012

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    I Am Married To A Man 12 Years My Junior.

    I wanted to also share my story,  the stigma attached to us older ladies marrying younger than ourselves still sticks in society.   Other way round is fine it seems.My first marriage ended after 10 years and 2 children.  I brought them up alone whilst working, and did what any...
    jennie46 jennie46 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 17, 2012

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    I am an 24 year old typical south Indian.

    And she's 26 year. We work in the same office. I have no reasons why i got attracted to her. I thought it wont work out between us, keeping in mind about our families. We had to work in a same project at some point. I got to be her friend. We both hail from the same hometown, we...
    sribigguy sribigguy 22-25 1 Response Apr 8

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    My Love Story

    I am now 45 and he is 23 It all started when I was I was 39 and he was 18 I'm here into knowing him we became a real close we hung out together with my family it started with one kiss that lead into nine months of loving each other ifunny didn't understand I have stopped going...
    Rodriguez13 Rodriguez13 46-50, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    He Is Eight Years Younger

    My husband is eight years younger than I. We have been married for more than 25 years. We have had rough patches but he has always been a wonderful husband and friend. We always have fun together. I am still very much in love with him. We say 'I love you' many times a day.
    Catslove Catslove 51-55, F 2 Responses Oct 8, 2012

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    I'm 39 And He's 27...

    I've only been married to my soul-mate for 8 months, after only knowing him for 3 months. It was truly love at first sight, which I never believed before until I met him. He's mysterious, mature for his age, a gentleman, philosophical, and very very handsome. He used to be a...
    39italy 39italy 36-40 2 Responses Mar 30, 2012

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    Long Term Marriage: Older Woman And Younger Man

    I was once a 24 year old man in love with a 46 year old woman, but that was a long time ago. Today I’m 50 and she’s 72. Its been a long and interesting road. Regrets? I’ve had a few, but if I had it to do all over again, I know I’d still marry her again. As a younger...
    dogpaw dogpaw 51-55, M 6 Responses Aug 15, 2013

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    Yes, it is true I married a younger man.

    I am about 30 days older than my husband is. I love to brag on him and how I married a younger man. His ego is sky high just like his jet is. I will tell you that. So ladies go for it and marry a younger man.
    momanddaughteratbeach momanddaughteratbeach 36-40, F May 4

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    I'm not saying don't do it

    but be prepared for the additional challenges you will face. It's like a bi-racial couple. It can work and be wonderful but you are going to have that issue in addition to all the normal problems of marriage. My husband is nine yrs. younger than me. When he was 19 and I was...
    oldladyclag oldladyclag 56-60, F Apr 26

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    Soul Mates

    I'm married to someone 17 years younger. He's the best thing that's ever happen to me besides my children. I was in a 23 year relationship with a man who was abusive. I finally left him .. A. Couple years later after finally being independent for the first time in my life. I...
    ellen1968 ellen1968 41-45, F 2 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    You Needz To Chillz

    Why you all tripping over if a man is a little fresher when dem ladies don't peak till ther primes' lol . Tony in NCal
    smoothsuckies smoothsuckies 26-30, M Dec 28, 2012

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    There Is 18 Years Difference Between Us

    I'm 51 and he's 33.  we met 7 years ago on line. I wasn't looking for anyone in fact we met quite by accident or fate as we see it. I never in my life ever considered ever looking into a younger man, in-fact I was thinking I needed an older man over all the bullshit in...
    machinegunmomma machinegunmomma 51-55, F 6 Responses Sep 14, 2008

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    Love Being Married to a Younger Man

    I am married to a man 11 years my junior.  I would have to say it has been the best experience of my life.  We have one child together and I have 2 from a previous marraige.  This man definately helps keep me young!  
    luvmyman luvmyman 41-45, F 10 Responses Jan 9, 2008

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    Only Three Years, Though.

    The only thing that bugs me about it is right now he is still in his 30's and I am in my 40's. I will be glad when his 40th birthday comes up next year. Most people when they look at us think I am the younger one, since he has salt and pepper hair now. :)
    caramelappledreams caramelappledreams 41-45, F Nov 7, 2012

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    Never Thought This Would Be Me!

    I am 56 he is 24. We met when I was doing voluntary work in a Muslim country, he is Muslim and I am a non-believer. He was drawn to my kind and caring nature. He watched me, and in his words, fell in love with me. Ridiculous!!!! How many times did I repeat this word? But...
    BellaRosalea BellaRosalea 56-60, F 10 Responses Aug 4, 2012

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    I Miss My Husband

    I am 50, and my husband is 28. I do not know how he got me to marry him other than deep love because I am sure this has not been easy on either one of us. We both crossed Oceans to be able to marry. We were able to be together three months, but then my family really caused us too...
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    I'm 39 And He's 19. I am angle an Indian

    citizen. I get married to a man who was 19 year Younger to me I am truly very happy with the most wonderful man . We married in October 2000 .It is amazing. he is just perfect. I have thought about when I get older and that he may leave me, but he is same as earlier . In...
    papapapapapapapa papapapapapapapa 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 2

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    Married To A Man 16 Years Younger

    I am 45 married to a 29 year old. We will be married for 7 years in July. We have a 5 year old son together. I am always scared to death that he is going to cheat and find someone younger and more attractive. It eats me up all of the time. He assures me that he loves me...
    hangpaw hangpaw 41-45 8 Responses Feb 24, 2012

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    My Husband Is 19 Years Younger

    I am truly very happy with the most wonderful man. I am 46 he is 27. I have two children from a previous marriage...they get on, all is very good. We met online and chatted every day......for about 3 months. He lived 330 miles away but we decided to meet up as friends. On...
    chapps67 chapps67 46-50, F 4 Responses Mar 21, 2013

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    My Man Is 14 Years Younger

    my man is 14 years younger than I am but we dont' have much of gaps and we are doing just fine so far (we live together for more than 8 years)
    julialilli julialilli 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 14, 2009

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    Not all men and women have the same romantic needs in life. Some prefer the member of the opposite sex to be of the same age, some prefer individuals older to them, while some...
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    Called the police last night. This day has been coming since 2 weeks after I married this "perfect" man. It started out with him getting "hung up" on little things. The sort of...
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    mbennett1984 mbennett1984 26-30, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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