I Am Married to An Addict

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    Hi everyone. This is my first time doing

    something like this but I'm in need of support, help, and opinions. I've been with my fiance now for over a year now and my spouse is addicted to pain killers. He has been taking them for ten years or so, well since he was in a bad car accident. He has pinched nerves in his back...
    concernedfiance2 concernedfiance2
    22-25, F
    5 Responses May 27, 2014

    I Can't Do This Anymore

    I had been happily married for 6 years. 4 years ago my Husband got a back injury and has been on pain pills. He abused them and was trying to quit, at times he wouldn't even admit to having a problem. Then I found him unconscious last year, he almost died. He promised me it...
    ritycan ritycan
    26-30, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2012

    I am sick and tired of all the drama

    that comes with addiction. It is hard enough being married to an addict, but now his friend (well more than friend) is adding more drama to our life. Isn't sleeping with my husband enough? Hasn't she done enough damage? Now her husband is sticking his nose in my life. I was at...
    Tess6 Tess6
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jun 30, 2014

    My husband got a hold of pills.

    We are on vacation at the grand del mar in CA. He some how found a doctor that would prescribe him whatever he wanted. I gave up on saying anything and let him do it. I give up. We had to go to a dinner with many of his co workers. Total embarrassment. Well, to everyone else he...
    hm3mac hm3mac
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 12, 2015

    Married To A Meth Addict

    I really just don't know what to say anymore, it is  recurring cycle.  We have nothing the only thing that he has accomplished is giving me my 4 sons. I HATE METH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm angry. Sorry I'm a good person just a prisoner in my own house, not a home.
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds
    36-40, F
    5 Responses Mar 2, 2012

    The Cold Hard Truth

         Addicts don’t love themselves...how in the world do you think they could love you? Addicts chose drugs vs. sobriety, not drugs vs. "you." A "true drug addict" has already found the love of his/her life - and it's not you. Bullshit. A true addict has found a...
    ncirishchic1 ncirishchic1
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Aug 7, 2011

    Today is a good day with my husband.

    He's sober. He's going to talk to a psych doctor tomorrow. I hope it helps in some way. His friend of 25 years came over last night to show his support in my husband trying to recover. My husband found out that all of his friends he grew up with are either dead or in prison. One...
    hm3mac hm3mac
    26-30, F
    Feb 5, 2015

    So my husband thinks

    that I have no idea he's cutting his pills up to shoot up. It's almost 2:00am and he's sweating his butt off telling me he has shortness of breath. I tried to ask if he took more of his pain medication than he was supposed to, but he automatically denied. (Of course he never...
    sadmami sadmami
    31-35, F
    1 Response Mar 1, 2015

    Married To A Meth Addict

    I really just don't know what to say anymore, it is  recurring cycle.  We have nothing the only thing that he has accomplished is giving me my 4 sons. I HATE METH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm angry. Sorry I'm a good person just a prisoner in my own house, not a house.
    kimintheclouds kimintheclouds
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Mar 2, 2012

    My husband is addicted to pain killers.

    We have to kids together. The past couple have been insane. At least to me. I don't even know where to begin on how I feel about this. Last November he got in a car wreck and the police found medication in is possession. They are going to charge him with a DUI. He hasn't...
    hm3mac hm3mac
    26-30, F
    1 Response Feb 4, 2015

    The past 4 yrs have been a nightmare!

    I've never felt more alone in my entire life! We live in separate homes and have for several yrs I just can't be around him. I have had no physical contact w him in two years either I just can't! It's awful to say but it disgust me and I feel as if he chose drugs over me n...
    SkylaBW SkylaBW
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Aug 4, 2014

    Today feels so very lonely.

    Why I wonder. He's been clean and sober for 42 days now and doing so well with it. It is what I have prayed so long for. I have believed God for this miracle. It is here and yet all I can feel is sadness lonliness and even grief. Now that I can finally stop pouring 1000% of my...
    Lisajo50 Lisajo50
    51-55, F
    1 Response Jul 28, 2014

    When all that comes out of his mouth is a lie,

    when do stop 2nd guessing the little things? When you spend every waking moment playing "detective" to try to piece together the reasoning behind his actions, when do you find time for yourself? When you start thinking "maybe if i did this, or didnt do that, maybe im just...
    megan777 megan777
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 18, 2014

    Fiance Addicted To Spice...

    I've been stressing for the last year about my fiance smoking spice, and now I see i'm not alone.  It hurts me everyday to see him do this to his self and knowing he might not ever quit.  He started smoking spice when he could not smoke weed anymore. I did not no much about...
    butterflykitty07 butterflykitty07
    7 Responses Mar 6, 2012

    I am married to a man

    that is addicted to pain meds. We have 2 beautiful girls, they're 1 and 2 yrs old. We have been married for 4yrs and he's been on pain meds for the past 2 1/2 yrs for a continuous knee pain. He's had 5 knee surgeries, 2 out of the 5 he's gotten an infection(he didn't take the...
    sadmami sadmami
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jan 22, 2015

    I know what you mean.

    I am very stress right now cuz my husband have been recovering but the sexless and passionless relationship still there. It's hard to support somebody else but it's also selfish from them. This is painful. Those things are also important in the relationship. They were important...
    cidi3922 cidi3922
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2014

    Spice Ruined My Marriage

    I was so glad to find some of these stories on here about women trying to cope with husbands who are addicted to spice and to know that i am not alone in what i have been through. My soon to be ex-husband started smoking spice because he could not smoke weed while he was in the...
    whitp1 whitp1
    19 Responses Apr 4, 2012

    Where to begin.. im a mother to 3 amazing boy

    (4, 18mos, & 5mos) been married for going on 8 years.my husband is a disabled vetran, & a pain pill addict. He was medically retired in 2011, due to a shoulder injury shortly after his 2nd surgery which he was prescribed vicodin. I had mixed feelings about the RX bc he had told...
    megan777 megan777
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 18, 2014

    My husband and I have been married over a year,

    and I've known him all my life! I love and honor my husband! But here lately this stress is over whelming and I fell like soon I'm gonna crack! I'm overwhelmed, and losing hope and faith fast!
    wifey628 wifey628
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2014

    Well the time has finally come.

    DIVORCE. And the sad thing is it wasn't her addiction that caused the divorce nor was it my choice, AA has taken my wife. And I don't have clue what to do. Her sponsor is giving her relationship advice and its destroying everything and anything we had together.🙈😕
    loveisalwaysthecure loveisalwaysthecure
    46-50, M
    Oct 22, 2015

    I hate insurance companies!

    !! My husband finally took the step to come off painkillers back in February of this year. He has been on suboxone ever since and was working toward weaning off of them. We got a letter in the mail yesterday that stated he would need to be officially diagnosed and in outpatient...
    asterinight asterinight
    31-35, F
    Jul 27, 2014

    We have been married

    for 12 and together for 21. He has been injecting drugs for 5 years. He has been through rehab 3 times in the last 5 years. The last time was an absolute joke. He didn't even try to hide the fact that he was using while he was there and got thrown out. He now has started...
    raeanne77 raeanne77
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2014

    Your Love Is A Rollercoaster - Oxycodone Story #3

    So my first post was about my husbands 2 year oxycodone addiction, my second post was my happiness in his decision to come off the oxycodone and start the suboxone on his "road to recovery"....now in my 3rd post I'm back to square 1 again. He did well from what I know the first 5...
    ofcd24 ofcd24
    5 Responses Dec 1, 2011

    i have been married 6 months

    but been with my husband 3 years. i knew he had a drug problem but since he had no family i could give him enough love he needed to be sober. yes we got into fights but he has never hit or hurt me. never has cheated on me he really is a good man but he was sober for 6 months and...
    jessicaxa jessicaxa
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 5, 2014

    Hes The Most Loving Man, But....

    He's addicted to pain pills! I've been married to the most wonderful man for 16 years! We have 2 wonderful children who love and adore their dad. He's my best friend. My everything. I never thought I would have to envision my future without him. We have so many hopes and dreams...
    Lori1118 Lori1118
    36-40, F
    1 Response Oct 15, 2013

    I married An alcoholic,

    addict and she has left me once again, she has cheated on me numerous times stole from, lied to me and yet stood at the alter and said I do, I believe there is a part of her that wants this marriage to work but when will she see that, she has told me on many occasions that she...
    loveisalwaysthecure loveisalwaysthecure
    46-50, M
    Sep 1, 2014

    Ive been married to my husband

    for almost 7 years, we have 2 beautiful children together. I've always know he had a problem when it comes to drugs, but I guess I never realized how bad it was. Just recently I witnessed it first hand. I was updating our iPad and un-intentionally left his phone number...
    LuckyStina LuckyStina
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 7, 2014

    Me and my husband have been married

    for 7 years for the past 2 years he has struggled with a meth addiction he has lied to me about it cheated on me bc of the drugs and lost jobs and got in trouble with the law I'm trying to do all that I can to help him he wants to stop but it's hard on him he can go about 3...
    magen89 magen89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 12, 2015

    Spice, aka synthetic marijuana,

    is ruining my marriage. My husband started using it about 4 months ago, and he is totally addicted to it. Our budget has always been tight, but he is now $300/month on it, and we are behind on our mortgage payment. I am so disgusted by him. Our sex life has dwindled, and for...
    Sadwife334 Sadwife334
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2014

    I Cant Handle It Anymore

    my husband is also addicted to this crap now it was called scooby snax and he started smoking everyday allday litterally from the time he opened his eyes till they are closed. i cant handle it anymore you see we have two beautiful children together both under 3 and i have already...
    wreckedmarriage wreckedmarriage
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Jun 27, 2012

    I have been with my husband

    now almost 6 years. I have a daughter from a previous relationship and another daughter with him who will be 2 in May. Seems our relationship has only gotten better over the years it's funny we started at our worst. I am proud for all that he has accomplished and how hard he try...
    deleted deleted
    Jan 29, 2016

    The Brady Bunch

    Long story, only the brave should start this ha! Ok my parents did their best to bring me up and I was a model daughter till I hit 15 when I lost my way. From 15 to about 20 I was a nightmare of a daughter, I smoked, had too many boyfriends. At 16 I ran moved in with my...
    Mrsnotsoperfect Mrsnotsoperfect
    31-35, F
    Sep 9, 2013

    He Chose Getting High Over Our Happily Ever After

    I found the love of my life two years ago. We fell fast and hard and got engaged only 8 months after dating. I loved this man with all my heart. He was kind, funny, and my best friend. When we got together it was no secret he smoked what they call "mojo" or "spice", legal weed...
    GivinguphopeAPG GivinguphopeAPG
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    Husband Addicted To "spice"

    My husband is addicted to smoking this legal "incense" called Spice (it goes under lots of other names).  He's been smoking for over a year.  He started smoking it because he couldn't smoke weed due to his job.  This substance is much worse than weed: it's more...
    HRobsonGriffin HRobsonGriffin
    233 Responses Aug 1, 2010

    Fighting For My Husbands Life

    My husband is addicted to smoking spice, the synthetic marijuana that is sweeping the nation. The first thing I have to say about this drug is it is pure evil; it will entrap you, suffocate you, and destroy you. For over a year now I have been faced with the horrid evils that...
    AmbNatureslove AmbNatureslove
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 4, 2013

    Baby And An Addict

    I married my high school sweetheart about two years ago. When I was 8 weeks pregnant he told me that he had a cocaine addiction. Now 13 months later he has relapsed multiple times, his longest time clean was 6 months. I recently kicked him out of the house, and my daughter and I...
    fisheyesblue fisheyesblue
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 26, 2013

    Update: I Hate Oxycodone

    After letting my husband take control of his pill bottle, I think he finally realized what a problem this has become. He took his first step to getting off them and is now starting suboxone with his pain management dr. I know it's still going to be a long and bumpy road but i'm...
    ofcd24 ofcd24
    1 Response Sep 8, 2011

    Well my husband is addicted to his mobile phone

    , he never ever puts it down ? He very rarely makes eye contact as he is always looking at his phone . He disappears halfway through a conversation and stares into his phone . He gets uptight when he doesn't know where it is . It's really depressing, I know he will never change...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2015

    I sit alone tonight. I wonder

    why my love is never enough. Logically I know its really not me. He simply loves the drugs more. But somehow, my heart can't quite grasp the truth. Not the full truth. That voice so deep inside doesn't want to be pushed aside. It taunts me. You are not enough. I turn to my...
    Lisajo50 Lisajo50
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Jun 15, 2014

    Its Hell

    My husband has a pain pill addiction. At his worst he was taking upwards of 50 pills a day. Over a year ago he got out-patient help and hasn't touched the pills since. The problem is the dr gave him a medication to take away withdrawal symptoms - suboxone. Suboxone is just a...
    marriedintx marriedintx
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 18, 2010

    I have been married to my husband

    for 15 years. I was in a very abusive marriage b4 this one that I was luck to get out alive and when I met my husband I fell madly in love with him. He use to be my best friend and my soul mate but he became addicted to drugs and it has went down hill from there. I just couldn't...
    crphillips74 crphillips74
    41-45, F
    2 Responses May 4, 2014

    tonight was the last straw.

    I'm so done with him. He's been abusing his suboxone for months and lately he's started up abusing benedryl. Around 7pm I left with my daughter to go get his phone repaired. When I returned at 9pm he asked me where I had gone. It was weird because we had a long talk before I...
    marriedintx marriedintx
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Aug 15, 2015

    What Makes It Easier

    I woke up this morning and felt sad. Then while having my coffee I realized I slept all night. I was not driving around looking for him. I was not up all night waiting for a call. Or cleaning him up taking care of him like a baby. I do still worry about him but he walked out. And...
    mendydee mendydee
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jul 20, 2013
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