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I Am Married To Schizoid Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 36 People

    I Am Married To A Schizoid Wife

    I know, not husband, but there don't appear to be as many spouses of schizoid wives for me to relate to, so I am posting under this group in hope of receiving some empathetic listening and maybe some suggestions. I have been married to my schizoid wife for 12 years now, but only...
    mikeispoly mikeispoly 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    Need Advise Asap Please

    Ok Thank God there is some kind of way to meet others that are dealing with this. I met my husband over 2 years ago. upon our first meeting we talked for 3 hours straight. We fell in love quickly with his focus on the 'mystical'side of it all and how it was meant to be. I was...
    FrustratedFannie FrustratedFannie 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    Married To A Schizoid Partner

    I am married to a schizoid husband..with that comes a lot of challenges....I am not going to elaborate on what schizoid is, because I am sure if you got to this message, you have a good idea of what it entales. I want to find friends that are suffering because of their partners...
    puggy puggy 36-40 63 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    My Boyfriend Is Schzoid

    I found this forum on the internet and wanted to join it. I have a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. And he is diagnosed with Schzoid. I am sure that you all know what exactly schzoid is. He had been married for 2 years and divorced. When ı met him ı do not know his...
    chipsahoy4 chipsahoy4 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Understanding The Schizoid

    This might be a bit odd, but I felt the need for some outside opinion and this seemed like the best group to answer my questions. I don't personally fall into this group (not married, male, and I happen to be a schizoid); however, I feel like I should know more of how to explain...
    Inventive01 Inventive01 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    "My story of living and coping with a Schizoid Husband"

    SCHIZOID = RECLUSIVE,INDIFFERENT,DISTANT,APATHETIC,BORED, COLD. FEW OR NO FRIENDS. DETACHED FROM EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING.DOES NOT ENJOY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, AND PARTAKES IN FEW ACTIVITIES.THE INABILITY TO REGULATE ONES EMOTIONS. My husband was diagnosed in September of 2011...
    defdevestated defdevestated 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    So I am going through this nightmare right at

    this moment. Mine got caught after sleeping with a prostitute and getting chlamydia because he simply couldn't believe his sexual issue was his fault. He has had no libido for years. I tried to be understanding and backed off so he could work on the issue without me making...
    sickofthelies2 sickofthelies2 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    Married 25 years. So I am trying to recognize

    that what he really wants is for me to "go away" and all I really want is to connect. Our ongoing battle has really been about my trying to spend time with him and connect emotionally and his rejection resulting in my expressing my pain and his becoming denigrating. And then...
    Sueg323 Sueg323 51-55, F Sep 11

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    Related Experiences

    I have read so many of your experiences it's like a mirror to my own life. Who knew 21 years ago when I married my husband I would suffer like this daily! I didn't know my husband...
    Niff73 Niff73 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Please someone help, I married my husband 8 years ago been together 10 years I just don't love him, haven't done for a while now, here is the hard bit, he's great a good dad too...
    zoesou zoesou 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    I have tried so hard to convince myself otherwise. It is literally ripping me apart. He has no idea. No one does. Everybody thinks we live this fairy tale, but it's not. How can I...
    ShimmerSquirrels13 ShimmerSquirrels13 22-25, F 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Part 1: A good friend of my husband and myself is a avid mountainbiker. A while ago he asked my husband and me to join him on his daily trip. My husband is not keen on cycling but...
    adventure12 adventure12 41-45, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My husbands kids want to eat all day long. I know they are young and growing but every five minutes I hear I want nummies coming from a five yr old daughter and a two yr old little...
    hart1012 hart1012 31-35, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    I am married to a wonderful husband and father of my children. I couldn't ask for more. But I am madly in love with another man. He's been an acquaintance of ours for over 20 years...
    rysgirl rysgirl 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 9

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    My life is not perfect but then what is a perfect life. It would be perfect enough for me if i just lived the life i wanted, I am married, i have children, but it took me this long...
    womenneeded womenneeded 41-45, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    I was married for 13 years to the man I believed would be with me forever. For the first 5 years, everything was good - I practically fell at his feet every single day out of my...
    kmdogmom kmdogmom 46-50, F Sep 13

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    I married the favorite in his family. Favorites have one thing going for them non-favorites miss...they have a family cheerleading squad behind them and a family fan club! The...
    ObiOneyouremyonlyhope ObiOneyouremyonlyhope 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Well someday I hope to be married :3 I haven't really planned anything yet though. Im a tad bit too young for that. I want to become a responsible individual before I tie the knot...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 9 hrs ago

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    I am very sad to be writing this.... because I never thought I was capable of feeling this way, but I have to face the truth of the matter. I love my husband, but not as my...
    oogabooga777 oogabooga777 36-40, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I'm 24 years old, married, and have 3 kids. My children are my life, there all I have left in this world. I'm married to a guy that drinks every other day. He suffers from anxiety...
    Precious2009 Precious2009 22-25, F Sep 9

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    My husbands been gone for four months now. My son keeps me occupied but I'm emotionally deprived. I hate being alone. I know no one in this military hell hole. My husband won't...
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 18

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    My husband and I dated for almost 2 years before we got married. When we were dating, he wanted to spend every waking minute of the day with me. We even gave our virginity to each...
    MStinson713 MStinson713 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 22

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    I had an affair with mm before I met my husband. I was 19 and an absolute rebellious party girl. My family and I were going to a high profile society event and I went to get my...
    Ladygrey79 Ladygrey79 31-35, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    I really do! He is PERFECT!!! and I am so in love with my husband in every way possible!
    somedobutsomedont somedobutsomedont 36-40, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I just need somewhere to get this out. I moved house with my family, a long way from where we were, new life started very excited. I started to live, previously I had been very...
    Frankjoon Frankjoon 31-35, M 3 Responses Sep 5

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    ** first, sorry it's so long. I have been waiting to stumble upon a place I could tell my story!! Yes, if that's possible, I am happy in my marriage just missing one piece and...
    LittleTarheel14 LittleTarheel14 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I have only been married a mere 4 months and already I am feeling out of my comfort zone. I'm 33 and have one child from a previous relationship but this is my first marriage. My...
    Piperlou Piperlou 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 17

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    I have been married twice and I have seven kids. My first husband died of cancer. I have been married to my second husband for 6 years and we have three kids together. My kids...
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    PART 1 I plan to write several posts about this. Its quite a story, and I just have to tell it. I'll call him Lou. We found each other by accident. I was in an abusive marriage...
    NCheartinNY NCheartinNY 36-40, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    The long and short of it, I was married 7 years to my alcoholic husband, divorced from him for 6 years and we recently remarried after he seemed to be clean and sober and dedicated...
    tracylpiatt tracylpiatt 41-45, F 2 Responses Sep 14

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    Hi I am a 28year old woman married to a 50 year old man that I do not love or have sex with neither does he have any feelings for me. I was a good girl when we got married while he...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Sep 16

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    I would like to tell my story and see what you think of it. Been married for 7 years. My husband is an expat living in my country. My father gave us an apartment free to live in so...
    Gretasun Gretasun 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    My husband booked a room to take me on a sex filled romantic getaway. When we arrived at the lodge it was really nice and very quiet. No one around. After we checked in we headed...
    glittergirl19 glittergirl19 36-40, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    Why is it that As soon as I get married some of the greatest men I have ever known are all now confession to me how much they wanted to be with me. An they are showing me that they...
    SpiritDancer4227 SpiritDancer4227 22-25, F 30 Responses Sep 2

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    My husband is a great man and an all around great catch he is a hard working war hero and good father. But but but he has a 4" penis the man I was with before him was nearly 10...
    killakelley killakelley 26-30, F 31 Responses Sep 6

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    Been married for twenty four years. That is more than half my life. Things were okay until the kids moved out to make lives of their own. Maybe our marriage has always been this...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Sep 11

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    Ok. All of the previous experiences sound way too familiar, i can no longer live in denial. I have been with my husband for 11 years now, the last 4 been married. I have never...
    mayooya mayooya 26-30, F 3 Responses Sep 17

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    I have only been with my husband for 4 years... 2 years married. Ever since we got married, he's become anti social. It has really became a huge stress in my life. We argue about...
    onelove2755 onelove2755 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 22

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    So a little over 2weeks ago, my husband said he wanted "space". Our therapist ( really his), suggested I go to a hotel. On a Friday night in the middle of the night, he woke me up...
    mariondavies mariondavies 31-35, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate being married to my husband he is a big disappointment. I can't believe I have wasted 13 years of marriage and over 18 years with him. We have 4 children who are embarrassed...
    SkylarPeach SkylarPeach 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I am married, but I am afraid for my relationship. My husband is not a happy person and has high expectations and is very negative. I think in his perfect world I would have the...
    peacefulrocker peacefulrocker 31-35, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I've been reading, posting, and commenting on this group for awhile. I notice a lot of women come here asking what they can do to improve their marriages or make their husband...
    JacobsGirl360 JacobsGirl360 31-35, F 3 Responses Sep 1

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    When I was 18 I met my husband. As the course of my life went my husband and I didn't get together until I was 21. A few months after we started going out we ended up pregnant with...
    Blondie0912 Blondie0912 22-25, F Sep 7

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    There have been some truly awful times in my marriage and some that were so wonderful, I would have never imagined they could be real were I not living them. From the beginning...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 10

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    Hi everyone, This is the first time I write about my feelings, but I found so many people in the same situation. I'm 28 years old, been married for less than a year and a half...
    soul1986 soul1986 26-30 2 Responses Sep 10

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    Hello Everyone, My first post here, and the first time I've ever expressed this to anyone. I've been going crazy inside for years now and feel like I'm going to explode if I don...
    theunfree theunfree 41-45, M 6 Responses Sep 12

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    I've been married for 10 years, & I feel more alone than I've been. We have 3 children, & I pretend to be happy for their sakes. The way I look at it, I have only 2 options. Stay...
    NubianQueen15 NubianQueen15 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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