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I Am Married To Schizoid Husband

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    Married 25 years. So I am trying to recognize

    that what he really wants is for me to "go away" and all I really want is to connect. Our ongoing battle has really been about my trying to spend time with him and connect emotionally and his rejection resulting in my expressing my pain and his becoming denigrating. And then...
    Sueg323 Sueg323 51-55, F 5 days ago

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    Need Advise Asap Please

    Ok Thank God there is some kind of way to meet others that are dealing with this. I met my husband over 2 years ago. upon our first meeting we talked for 3 hours straight. We fell in love quickly with his focus on the 'mystical'side of it all and how it was meant to be. I was...
    FrustratedFannie FrustratedFannie 51-55, F 4 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    My Boyfriend Is Schzoid

    I found this forum on the internet and wanted to join it. I have a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. And he is diagnosed with Schzoid. I am sure that you all know what exactly schzoid is. He had been married for 2 years and divorced. When ı met him ı do not know his...
    chipsahoy4 chipsahoy4 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 20, 2013

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    Understanding The Schizoid

    This might be a bit odd, but I felt the need for some outside opinion and this seemed like the best group to answer my questions. I don't personally fall into this group (not married, male, and I happen to be a schizoid); however, I feel like I should know more of how to explain...
    Inventive01 Inventive01 22-25, M 6 Responses Oct 2, 2011

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    Married To A Schizoid Partner

    I am married to a schizoid husband..with that comes a lot of challenges....I am not going to elaborate on what schizoid is, because I am sure if you got to this message, you have a good idea of what it entales. I want to find friends that are suffering because of their partners...
    puggy puggy 36-40 63 Responses Sep 15, 2010

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    I Am Married To A Schizoid Wife

    I know, not husband, but there don't appear to be as many spouses of schizoid wives for me to relate to, so I am posting under this group in hope of receiving some empathetic listening and maybe some suggestions. I have been married to my schizoid wife for 12 years now, but only...
    mikeispoly mikeispoly 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 7, 2013

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    So I am going through this nightmare right at

    this moment. Mine got caught after sleeping with a prostitute and getting chlamydia because he simply couldn't believe his sexual issue was his fault. He has had no libido for years. I tried to be understanding and backed off so he could work on the issue without me making...
    sickofthelies2 sickofthelies2 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 17

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    "My story of living and coping with a Schizoid Husband"

    SCHIZOID = RECLUSIVE,INDIFFERENT,DISTANT,APATHETIC,BORED, COLD. FEW OR NO FRIENDS. DETACHED FROM EVERYONE AND EVERYTHING.DOES NOT ENJOY PERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS, AND PARTAKES IN FEW ACTIVITIES.THE INABILITY TO REGULATE ONES EMOTIONS. My husband was diagnosed in September of 2011...
    defdevestated defdevestated 41-45, F 5 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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