I Am Married To Schizoid Husband

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    So I am going through this nightmare right at

    this moment. Mine got caught after sleeping with a prostitute and getting chlamydia because he simply couldn't believe his sexual issue was his fault. He has had no libido for years. I tried to be understanding and backed off so he could work on the issue without me making...
    sickofthelies2 sickofthelies2
    46-50, F
    1 Response Feb 17, 2014

    Understanding The Schizoid

    This might be a bit odd, but I felt the need for some outside opinion and this seemed like the best group to answer my questions. I don't personally fall into this group (not married, male, and I happen to be a schizoid); however, I feel like I should know more of how to explain...
    Inventive01 Inventive01
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Oct 2, 2011

    I Am Married To A Schizoid Wife

    I know, not husband, but there don't appear to be as many spouses of schizoid wives for me to relate to, so I am posting under this group in hope of receiving some empathetic listening and maybe some suggestions. I have been married to my schizoid wife for 12 years now, but only...
    mikeispoly mikeispoly
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2013

    I was married to covert schitzoid

    for 20 years and did not even know it. Still in love with him yet divorced him. Boy it was a Hideous experience. For they are very vengeful when crossed. He was able to sexual experiences with me not often He had many affairs one night stands probably prostitires...
    Pugster123 Pugster123
    61-65, F
    Feb 29

    My Boyfriend Is Schzoid

    I found this forum on the internet and wanted to join it. I have a relationship with my boyfriend for 4 years. And he is diagnosed with Schzoid. I am sure that you all know what exactly schzoid is. He had been married for 2 years and divorced. When ı met him ı do not know his...
    chipsahoy4 chipsahoy4
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Mar 20, 2013

    Need Advise Asap Please

    Ok Thank God there is some kind of way to meet others that are dealing with this. I met my husband over 2 years ago. upon our first meeting we talked for 3 hours straight. We fell in love quickly with his focus on the 'mystical'side of it all and how it was meant to be. I was...
    FrustratedFannie FrustratedFannie
    51-55, F
    5 Responses Sep 6, 2013

    Married To A Schizoid Partner

    I am married to a schizoid husband..with that comes a lot of challenges....I am not going to elaborate on what schizoid is, because I am sure if you got to this message, you have a good idea of what it entales. I want to find friends that are suffering because of their partners...
    puggy puggy
    36-40
    67 Responses Sep 15, 2010

    Married 25 years. So I am trying to recognize

    that what he really wants is for me to "go away" and all I really want is to connect. Our ongoing battle has really been about my trying to spend time with him and connect emotionally and his rejection resulting in my expressing my pain and his becoming denigrating. And then...
    Sueg323 Sueg323
    51-55, F
    1 Response Sep 11, 2014

    me & my husband have been married

    for almost a yr. in August we found out he was a schizoid. He always accused me of sleeping around with his co workers. in February he received a medical retirement from the Army & we planed to move to SC together. the day the movers came i guess he had a episode & decided to...
    ohdeein ohdeein
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 29, 2015

    I'm new and feel so lonely.

    .. I'm not technically married to a schizoid man, but we have been dating for 18 months. He's nice when he feels like it, notices me when he feels like it, and very seldom shares any physical attention. Last night was New Year's Eve and it was a disaster. It seems like he gets...
    Chartreuze Chartreuze
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 1

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