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I Am Married Yet Sexually Frustrated

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 220 People

    How Does It Happen??

    How does a married couple end up no longer having sex? The lady has closed up shop now that her menopause has taken hold of her and quite frankly it gets me frustrated. Up until about two years ago we still enjoyed a roll on the bed every now & then. It seems the menopause has...
    madman13 madman13
    61-65, M
    2 Responses May 25, 2013

    It's Not Like It's Nonexistent

    ...our sex life that is. But first off, if anyone is reading this in hopes to start some sort of sexual fantasy with me or talk dirty, move right along. Not interested. I didn't come here for that or to mess around on him. I am merely letting my feelings out and possibly get...
    lucifette lucifette
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jul 1, 2012

    He Won't Let Me Tie Him Up

    I finally got serious about sharing this one fantasy about me tying him up and he was all "You're not tying me up." A few nights later I was like ok, then can I blind fold you and he scoffs and goes "No. Why you wanting to do that stuff?" So.....I guess I'll never have that...
    GoldenAmethyst GoldenAmethyst
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 23, 2012

    I'm happy if somebody can catch her attention &

    convince her to have fun & pleasure. Try your luck. Tips: she love bags ( Hermes) Pls. Don't put me on trouble. Pm me.
    azis23 azis23
    41-45, M
    Feb 21, 2015

    At The Risk Of Sounding Like An Emotional, Needy Wuus, Your Wife Not Being Interested In Sex Really Hurts

    I may be the only one who deals with this in this way. Days, weeks pass with no interest in sex from my wife. I think she could go months without missing it or even thinking about it. There was a time when we regularly rendevoud 2 and 3 times a day, every day. That time is...
    inNeedofYHWH inNeedofYHWH
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Oct 13, 2010

    Shes My Polar Opposite

    So me n my wife have been together for 8+ years married 2. Ive always had a very strong sexualdesire in general and for her. She could care less, id venture to guess she would still be a virgin if not for me courting her for 2 years then waiting eight months of dating before...
    cjmiller272 cjmiller272
    26-30, M
    1 Response Jan 25, 2013

    The Degeneration Of My Sex Life

    So.... My wife and I have been married almost 15 years. It's like any other marriage I suppose. Only sexless. We've not had sex in about a month. Of course, she and I both have been sick in that time. However, this not having sex for a month or more is a common pattern with...
    ClosetAtheist ClosetAtheist
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Dec 19, 2010

    On The Verge Of Commiting Adultery!

    I'm so tired of my husband lack of sexually heat in the bedroom. I know...the stats claim if a man doesn't want to have sex with his wife he's probably getting it somewhere else but in this case as far as I know he isn't . so what's the problem..hell I wish I knew but i'm losing...
    Beast75 Beast75
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2010

    It happened husb wanted me to drive

    his car and his keys were in his front jeans the flirty playful gal that I am offered to reach in grab them out..only to get a blank cold stare as I were crazy..used to work years sad...
    deleted deleted
    13 Responses Apr 22, 2015

    I think that I just had the first fight ending

    my marriage. I don't know if I'm upset or relieved? and then I am not sure which would be worse.
    sleepless4ny sleepless4ny
    46-50, F
    Dec 11, 2015

    Stupid Libido

    My husband and I have only been married for 5 months, but after the first week of marriage, we have only had sex maybe once a week or so, if that. My libido doesn't have an off switch, and his doesn't seem to have an "on". He swears that he is very attracted to me, and that it...
    catb6891 catb6891
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Mar 9, 2011

    It Will Never Change......

    So my wife and I have been together for 9 years now and our sex life has been an absolute rollercoaster ride. After being together for about 5 years we reached an all time low in our sex life. We would have sex maybe once every 3 weeks to once a month and it was driving me crazy...
    Edward321123 Edward321123
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 5, 2013

    If My Wife Was Willing I'd .........

    Start by throwing her down on the bed pull her clothes off her body and have her undress me at the same time. Kissing her body while exploring her brests and apple shaped *** with my hands and kiss her mouth. then slowly go down and begin kissing her virgina and then start...
    Hithere794 Hithere794
    31-35, M
    Jan 26, 2012

    First time in a really long time I touched my

    wife in bed last night, I gently ran my hand down her back..... Sadly she moved away & mumbled "get off" 😔 So I slept on my side, feeling alone as usual...
    Curiousmissy Curiousmissy
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 28, 2015

    i am engaged and am finding myself very

    sexually frustrated almost to the point where i might do something stupid. i have this issue of just not being able to stop or go soft and needless to say its frustrating i find my woman either going dry or tapping out all cuz i cant get off or i just keep going with no end in...
    saint0928 saint0928
    22-25, M
    May 4, 2014
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