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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 61 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    i am married...but i too feel alone.

    i went seeking passion and i found it in a younger woman....now she has gotten herself a younger man than i. now i feel alone again..hurt...sad. this is all my making i do know this. how can i become content with discontent?
    ruxlall ruxlall 41-45, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just want a decent male friend I can talk to

    and share my funny and maybe not so funny stories with. Anyone?
    banana0001 banana0001 36-40, F 6 Responses Dec 19

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 25 Responses Mar 6

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    So today is the first day in 5 months I have

    been truly happy. I have decided to give my ALL to husband. I thought my heart was lost and my head was here but have discovered it is opposite! Today I realized my husband has my heart and my mind is what was a stray! I am now able to channel myself and give my all and truly be...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 17 Responses Aug 14

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    I wish I had never gotten married.

    I thought when I was alone I was lonely, but I've been lonelier the last few years than ever before in my life. I do love him, but I question whether or not anything was worth all I've given up. I would never ever want to get married again, I don't think I'd even want to be in...
    whoreallycares85 whoreallycares85 26-30, F 3 Responses Dec 18

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    I'm thinking about a dress like this

    for our vow renewal ceremony this spring in our backyard garden.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    So today I went to t mall to exchange the bag

    that my H gave me and I came home with 3 of them! I took advantage of the today sales!! I might didn't like what he got me but at least he got me an expensive one hohoho!
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    I don't know how this works butt here it goes

    my husband was texting someone and I was pregnant and I found out about it he said they didn't do anything and he knows I would not stay if it did and the story goes on just want to see if there is anyone out there to talk to that dose not judge thank you not sure if this is the...
    jbritz jbritz 36-40, F 9 Responses Dec 19

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    Tonight the narcissist personality revealed

    itself. My wife and I were cooking dinner and she mentioned something about Ebola used in context with a humorous situation. Afterwards, I started to tell her about a news story this morning where the reporter revealed the CDC is not posting any current cases in the USA on the...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's hard when you're married,

    but really like and care about someone who lives hundreds of miles away and is also married. Just sayin'. Some days... It's really hard.
    lacymom1 lacymom1 46-50, F 21 Responses Oct 28

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    NewlyMarriedMom123 NewlyMarriedMom123 18-21, F 20 Responses Sep 30

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    LoveMusicDreams LoveMusicDreams 26-30, F 24 Responses Nov 15

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    Sooo, yesterday was kind of really bad.

    I was at work and we got into an arguement. He tripped me again when it was lunch time and I told him I was staying in with co workers to go to the holiday luncheon at work. He started going off on me that I'm not going to ear but going to see my " boyfriend" and text and talk...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 38 Responses Dec 17

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24

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    My wife and I are so different.

    It takes a lot of work to keep our marriage alive. I'm hoping to graduate it to a good marriage with a little more effort.
    UniversalRespect UniversalRespect 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    I lied to someone on EP

    and said I wasn't married. I am. 34 years now. Sorry for the lie.
    CJEdwards CJEdwards 61-65, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    So I've been sick for a week

    and half (coughing, wheezing, normal upper respiratory stuff). Today my wife got annoyed at my texts (mainly for sympathy) and decided I had to go to the urgent care center. They announced there was a 2 hour wait and I could see a waiting room full of people. I mentioned that I...
    foolface foolface 36-40, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    carry11 carry11 26-30, F 4 days ago

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    And I love it. I love the arguments,

    because love follows, I love the funny moments of early morning clumsiness, because love follows, I love the hours of silent treatment, then with a smile or a funny joke, love follows. I love laying next to her at night, knowing I am good husband, because she grabs and pulls me...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M 13 Responses Sep 16

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    Haven't been happy with my wife

    for a long time. Lately I've been about at my breaking point. Within the last couple weeks I started talking to a beautiful woman I met on here. She's 10yrs younger and lives almost 900miles away. We have a great connection and want to meet to see if that chemistry is the same...
    viperman viperman 31-35, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 24 Responses Sep 25

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    I married a man who is not

    who I thought he was and now I feel completely trapped .... I need a break ... I don't think I was meant to be married ... I give too much of myself and them realize that I am being taken for granted ... And when I realise it's too late ... He doesn't care for me ... Just goes...
    season82 season82 31-35, F 19 Responses Aug 29

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    Legally

    I was married just last week.  Kris and I did it in  a town in a neighboring state where Lesbian and Gay marriages are legal... we had everything ready, Kris had researched this carefully.  We had waived the three-day waiting period. We got up early, showered and...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 46 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    zoecc11 zoecc11 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Marriage is when a man loses his bachelors

    degree and the woman gets her masters degree. ;)~
    texan75 texan75 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 28

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    I kinda sobbed in the morning

    and my husband asked me what is wrong..I told him that there are times that I feel he doesn't want to spend time with me or just touch me. He told me it wasn't true and cuddled saying that I was the one for him and that I have to think beyond the lack of sex. He later came...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 4 Responses Nov 30

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    I was in the middle of making some biscuits to

    take to Christmas dinner at my mom's and my husband came up to me and smiled, brushed some flour off my nose, and gave me a sweet but passionate kiss. I love him. I love that he is strong, committed, faithful, and hardworking. I love that he fulfills all of my needs and I...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 31-35, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well I am still trying to make sense of it all.

    Maybe that's my problem. Because it makes no sense at all. My beautiful 30 year old wife is progressing through her self proclaimed mid-life crisis. Kind of bringing selfishness to a whole new level. What I don't get is how we sleep in the same bed, we still kiss hello and...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I bought nutty lingerie

    for tonight. My husband was on t bed responding posts on his stupid lifting website when I started to his him down. He got upset so I stopped and went to watch movies... What kind of man reject sex!?!??!? I keep trying but this man and I we are really on different pages in life...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 24 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am so in love (and lust!

    lol) with my husband. he is just a beautiful, sexy guy all around. I may be biased because I've never been intimate with another man (for reals!) But honestly if your starter car was a revved up, souped up muscle car, would you look around for a replacement. didn't think so...
    bfwife2 bfwife2 31-35, F 12 Responses Dec 5

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    So all my fellow EPers

    who have followed my story. To all those who think I don't deserve what I'm getting. To all those who think my wife is crazy. Is there anyway we can get you all together to do an intervention with my wife. And get her to smarten up?
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Played hookie from work tonight to stay home

    and watch hallmark Christmas movies with my wife. Yes people the one that's running me in circles. Maybe it's proof that hallmark Christmas movies make some women Looney tunes A good amount if ladies who have messaged me over the last few months about my marital challenges...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I overheard my husband yesterday,

    giving dating advice to a young man that is a friend of ours. He did not know I was able to hear him. He said, "My wife finds true joy and excitement in almost every detail of life. If you find a woman that consistently has that quality, catch her, and do everything you can to...
    Accebere Accebere 36-40, F 23 Responses Mar 15

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    Confession: not excited about spending

    Christmas with my in-laws. They are very nice people, but I don't really feel like they treat me as a part of their family. Oh well, I love Christmas so I will focus on that!
    thevioletblue thevioletblue 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Tell me what you think!

    "Marriage doesn't take away our loneliness. To be alive is to be lonely. It's the human condition. Marriage doesn't change the human condition. It can't make us completely unlonely. And when it doesn't, we blame our partner for doing something wrong, or we go searching for...
    Rheasdream Rheasdream 36-40, F 14 Responses Oct 20

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    What blows my mind are the things she blurts out

    and then not understand why they bother me. Joking or not after all that has gone on of course I'm sensitive. Of course I over think things. You know as the days go by and I have time to step back from it all. I wonder is this what I want? Is it time for me to say you wanna...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Gettingout72 Gettingout72 41-45, F 18 Responses Jan 4

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    i feel like. my wife is lying to me aboutwhat

    she. is doing online and possibly an affair. plz help
    justatease86 justatease86 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 14 Responses Sep 8

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    Younger women dating older men mainly

    because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These younger women are looking for their age gap love romance.For older men, Younger women older men relationships will surely make an older man...
    adeleccaa adeleccaa 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 27 Responses Sep 14

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    So, married folk. How often do you an your

    spouse have intercourse? Do not count your extramarital affairs, if you have them.
    sugarbabysub sugarbabysub 31-35, F 12 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Maybe I'm reading too much into this.

    History first: about 3 years into our marriage my wife wanted to start decorating the Christmas tree in white lights and very monochromatic ornaments, it was a pretty tree but plain. Fast forward to today, after 17 years of marriage and her father says our tree needs color...
    dynamic71 dynamic71 41-45, M 7 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    after I came back from my run,

    I asked my husband if he wanted to "fool around".. rarely is he up for it... but it turned out good!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 30 Responses Dec 11

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    I now know why it's called "the institution of

    marriage " because thats where you are going to end up.
    meme111111 meme111111 36-40, M 6 Responses Nov 9

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    Interesting article I thought was worth a share

    about lasting happy marriages based on science. http://m.huffpost.com/us/entry/6302554
    moonmaiden69 moonmaiden69 31-35, F 1 Response Dec 18

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 50 Responses Aug 30

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    I love to dance bachata

    and salsa! My husband don't like to dance , no offense but he is american and have 2 left foot. So I will go n find me a parent to learn to dance!
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 5 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 35 Responses