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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    I don't know what to feel anymore.

    Is it possible to live in a single married state forever? I care, but I don't care. We've been together for 30 years, about to married 29. It feels more like friendship love instead of married love. I know life happens, everyday stress, children. I'm out of town with my son and...
    ExecutiveAsst ExecutiveAsst 46-50, F 14 Responses 1 day ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Apr 23

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    And I don't know if I should keep doing this

    thing where I just don't say how unhappy I am... but he wouldn't care anyway so I don't bother. I don't want to leave but I don't see the point of trying so hard when its never going to be more than me trying.
    FluffyKat FluffyKat 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 21

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    I'm running out of motivation to work things

    out with my husband. A series of events lately have had a negative impact on our lives, and they are all due to poor choices on his part- driving intoxicated which led to him begrudgingly going to treatment (he claims he has been sober 8 months now, but he hid it from me for...
    danteflorz danteflorz 31-35, F 8 Responses Apr 19

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    He texted this: Things will never be just ok

    with us. Why? Because you wont ever let us just be ok. I cant even remember one time when we were just ok. You always have to have something or create something to make you feel like you are abouve me. Your not ok with us being equal. Did I give you **** when you write about our...
    memarried memarried 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    My partner has had an affair with a cousin of

    my, he says he is sorry but I'm heart broken Any advise...
    esthersita esthersita 26-30, F 24 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 24 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 44 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    And I have the sweetest husband.

    We met, dated seven weeks, and got married. This past year and a half has literally been the best of my life, even though I still have baggage from the past. My husband has taken over what I can't do for myself any longer. If he didn't enter my life, I would be dead right...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 28 Responses Jan 6

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    Hubby and I had a wonderful night last night

    and an amazing morning. Our anniversary was earlier this week but we celebrated last night. Kids went to stay the night at my mom's house. Hubby told me to get dressed and wouldn't tell me where we were going. He surprised me with dinner at one of my favorite restaurants in the...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 19

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    NewlyMarriedMom123 NewlyMarriedMom123 18-21, F 18 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Why is it always my fault?

    I'm 10 weeks pregnant, got the stomach flu, an ear infection, and a cold. My husband makes me drive with him to another state (5hrs, luckily it was pretty short) pulling over every half an hour so I can barf. And I drove for half of that trip. He tells me to go to work cuz we...
    sweeterthansugar95 sweeterthansugar95 18-21, F 48 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am a married female

    and a housewife of 13 years. I have five kids. My husband and I are very much in love with each other. My husband is the main breadwinner but I do help out too. I have a business at home.
    femaleinbackyard femaleinbackyard 31-35, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 24 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 25

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    I can't say anything

    that she doesn't want to hear without getting a blowup in return. Why do I bother saying anything at all?
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Apr 23

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    Yes, I am very happily married.

    I have been married to one man for 23 years. From our union, we have produced seven children. Some of our children have moved out while some are still at home. A few of our kids are in college and single and others are college educated and married with their own children.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 14 Responses Jan 30

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 32 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I just discovered a vibrator today.

    Wow I've been missing a lot. I haven't felt like that in what seems like years. Kinda feel bad cause hubby don't want me to use it. But after 3Months of no sex, I bought it to pleasure myself. He doesn't know.
    nancylu1234567890 nancylu1234567890 26-30, F 23 Responses Feb 7

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    starting to think that 7 year itch is real.

    or is it the 3 year glitch ???.. either or its apparent that it is a double whammy year for us. 7 together/3 married.... I should have known it was going to be a bad year. breathe. hold on. it'll pass???
    mrsskayl mrsskayl 26-30, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 60 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I love my husband so much

    and I'm very glad that I married him last year.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 16 Responses Feb 25

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 24 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    Communication......Merriam Webster tells us the

    following....": the act or process of using words, sounds, signs, or behaviors to express or exchange information or to express your ideas, thoughts, feelings, etc., to someone else: a message that is given to someone : a letter, telephone call, etc.communications : the ways of...
    2BlossomBlue 2BlossomBlue 51-55, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Unexpected date night--concert by the

    university's orchestra and then dinner at our favorite Greek place.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F Apr 23

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    There have been some truly awful times in my

    marriage and some that were so wonderful, I would have never imagined they could be real were I not living them. From the beginning, friends would tell my husband and me that we had the kind of relationship they wished to someday have. It was never perfect. But we were so in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 10, 2014

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    Today we tied the knot!

    We got married in Vegas!!! I'm so happy.
    Submissivebabe Submissivebabe 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    I made chili for dinner last night

    for the family. I very rarely cook actually but it goes ok when I do. I made sure not to overdo it with the spices this time. The last time no one would eat it because it was too spicy. They could smell it lol. So I took it easy this time. Everyone lived outside of the musical...
    donnys65 donnys65 46-50, M 4 Responses Apr 23

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    I was in the middle of making some biscuits to

    take to Christmas dinner at my mom's and my husband came up to me and smiled, brushed some flour off my nose, and gave me a sweet but passionate kiss. I love him. I love that he is strong, committed, faithful, and hardworking. I love that he fulfills all of my needs and I...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    CountryMusicGirl85 CountryMusicGirl85 26-30, F 22 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    JennyTom JennyTom 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 6

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    I find my wife's affair exciting.

    She has no idea I know.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's hard when you're married,

    but really like and care about someone who lives hundreds of miles away and is also married. Just sayin'. Some days... It's really hard.
    lacymom1 lacymom1 46-50, F 20 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    tonight a friend revealed to me the reason

    why she is getting divorced after 10 years of marriage...she told me she felt passionless and bored...I kind of kept quiet as this is something that I can relate to, but I immediately felt sad that they weren't going to do anything but just divorce. After everything was said...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 7 Responses Apr 11

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 21 Responses Jan 27

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    I'm married, I really love him a lot.

    We are very opposite in good ways, but it's difficult at times. We went though a very rough patch about six years ago and I didn't think I would make it through it alive. He made a lot of really big mistakes and took me for granted. However, he has really tried to make changes...
    grumpykittie13 grumpykittie13 31-35, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    So he's out of town at his parents again,

    and I'm pretty sure he's been drinking. Supposedly he's been sober 8 months now and he got upset with me when I told him I wanted him to leave the blow and go device in his jeep. He is a 4 hour drive away from me at my in-laws, went to a comedy club with his brother, then later...
    danteflorz danteflorz 31-35, F 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    I'm married, I really love him a lot.

    We are very opposite in good ways, but it's difficult at times. We went though a very rough patch about six years ago and I didn't think I would make it through it alive. He made a lot of really big mistakes and took me for granted. However, he has really tried to make changes...
    grumpykittie13 grumpykittie13 31-35, F 3 days ago

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    I rarely get to see my husband

    because of his work schedule. He works extremely hard so that I can be a stay at home mom for my boys. Most of the time I feel like a single parent. He is either sleeping, watching t.v. waiting to go to sleep or playing piano. I hate the loneliness, the disconnect. He comes off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 15

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    I wonder if my wife is wilder

    and does things with the men of her affairs than with me...
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 7 Responses Apr 19