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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 60 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    Some men are just too selfish to let a woman go,

    especially if they consider her the only accomplishment in their lives cz they don't have any!
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 21

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    But unhappy. I told my husband today

    that I want to move out when the kids are grown. I want to live in my own place on my own. He said we can make it happen sooner if I want. Confirmation that this marriage is over.
    deleted deleted 26-30 38 Responses Jan 9

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    Well folks this is a story about a wife

    who wants to be her own person. She wants to do things on her own, since turning 30 she has been, well a lunatic. Anyway as I said she doesn't want me to do anything for her. She is working now after being a Full time stay at home mom for 5 years. So since we have been...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 7 Responses Jun 17

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 6

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    How do you show someone

    that you love that you love them when they clearly do not want to see? There is an overwhelmingly vast number of men who have severe issue with showing emotion. Sure, there are the time honored excuses we makes cling too, society, friends, family and being logical all as a way...
    tloving12 tloving12 31-35, M 2 Responses Jun 21

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 25 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 11 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    CountryMusicGirl85 CountryMusicGirl85 26-30, F 21 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I've just had the most amazing weekend with my

    husband. Like so many others on this site, I found myself spiraling in a direction I never thought possible. Our marriage had lost that excitement. We no longer had the passion, desire or intimacy. We got lost in the day to day stress of life. Work, bills, health problems...
    deleted deleted 26-30 14 Responses Jun 7

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    Hubby's going to go hiking with me in a bit.

    It's hard for me to feel anything but cautious & guarded.
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    I am married to a wonderful woman.

    We have two great kids and a nice life. She is still pretty and life looks good. We rarely have sex and it seems to not concern her. I have had affairs in recent years. I feel bad but not as bad as I should. I find that as I have gotten older and more successful, woman are...
    existiantiallycertain existiantiallycertain 46-50, M 11 Responses Jun 20

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    Anyone else have a significant other always

    cranky. Really puts s damper on things. I understand work life and daily stresses but life to short to me mad. Wish he could be less cranky.
    ag1981 ag1981 31-35, F 20 Responses 6 days ago

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    The last 14 months could jeopardize the balance.

    She more distant, I feel like a biz partner or work friend. Still trying to return to the inner circle. Get the closeness back. Gonna keep chasing her till she catches me.
    fr4aq33 fr4aq33 41-45, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    My life has been a lie.

    I don't know who to trust anymore or what to believe. I was just told that everyone outside but close is saying that he doesn't love me. This justifies what I'm feeling. He doesn't love me and I see it. I've been crying myself to sleep almost every night. He came up from the...
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 2 Responses Jun 20

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F 23 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    NewlyMarriedMom123 NewlyMarriedMom123 22-25, F 18 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    Hi I am a married guy

    but I have to be a secret lingerie dresser which is a bit of a problem so I can only dress up when my wife will not be home for some time. I kept my lovely silks and satins in the garage always on the ready I do take some of them to a sauna and slip into something nice and sexy...
    jason765496 jason765496 46-50, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I really dislike it sometimes.

    But there's nothing to do but escape here and fantasize.
    BlackCoffee73 BlackCoffee73 31-35, M 23 Responses Jun 19

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    I love my Husband - More

    than I can put into words. But, I'm rapidly approaching the limit of BS I can take from him. Trying to talk to him is like a nightmare. Nothing goes right and I just walk away crying and feeling like the biggest waste of space. Granted, holding my feeling back hurts like Hell...
    JM2014 JM2014 22-25, F 8 Responses Jun 20

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    let me tell you first about meyself i m 34

    married now for 9 years i think i m very demanding possessive and love to feel loved from my partner to the extreme, lately i ve been smoking hash regularly, i consider my self a mess when it comes to decision specially in personal life,a i live in an arab country and i m muslim...
    Kingnothing280 Kingnothing280 31-35, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 46-50, F 18 Responses Mar 5

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    I am married to the most awesome man u have

    ever met. I love him so much
    hornywife18 hornywife18 31-35, F 7 Responses Jun 22

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    Has anyone else had trouble in their marriage

    and fixed it somehow? And if you did, please share your secrets.
    skailor skailor 22-25, F 43 Responses 2 days ago

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    JennyTom JennyTom 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 6

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    I don't know what to do anymore.

    My husband of 26 years and that is 15 years older than me has been having ED problems for the last few years. Which is frustrating all in itself. He has gone to doctors, tried all the medications to no avail and is now so depressed it's driving me nuts. I've been begging him...
    frustratedinny frustratedinny 51-55, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    I love my husband so much

    and I'm very glad that I married him last year.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 14 Responses Feb 25

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 32 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Is it enough to love,

    and consider your spouse a friend? To not have the heat and passion? Should you stay because you could make it work, and "to not be a statistic". To grow old in the comfort of an attachment that does not satisfy the soul or stir your body. I don't know. It's no ones fault - and...
    Elbellzi Elbellzi 36-40, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    I am married and I feel like my wife has lost

    her passion for life and adventurous side and I hate that I'm starting to feel the need to look for someone to fill the void I've lived with my wife for 5yrs now and have been married for 1yr. I do love my wife very much but she is not as active as I wish she was. I enjoy...
    Timriddell Timriddell 26-30, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    It ceases to amaze me the capability we possess

    as spouses to rub each other's face in the dirt as quickly as we lift each other to the clouds. Is there possibly a tendency to take for granted the times that are spent in the clouds? Because it sure is a lot easier to remember getting knocked down and trying to crawl back out...
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 6 Responses Jun 22

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    Yes, I am very happily married.

    I have been married to one man for 23 years. From our union, we have produced seven children. Some of our children have moved out while some are still at home. A few of our kids are in college and single and others are college educated and married with their own children.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 13 Responses Jan 30

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 32 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    after I came back from my run,

    I asked my husband if he wanted to "fool around".. rarely is he up for it... but it turned out good!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 33 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I'm only 19 & my mother wants me to get married

    :( it sucks because I think it's too early & I'm not ready to commit
    xXsailorXx xXsailorXx 18-21, F 12 Responses 3 days ago

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    Should "maintaining attractiveness" be part of

    a marriage contract? After 7 years of marriage hubby has gained 25 pounds of fat and looks very different. After 2 kids I weigh the same because I run/strength train 5 times a week. We used to run together he now says he never liked working out actually and basically just gave...
    evolvinggirl evolvinggirl 36-40, F 71 Responses Jun 14

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    his alarm is going off,

    let's see how that goes lol
    yesitsme123 yesitsme123 31-35 1 Response Jun 19

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jan 27

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    My sister had been "dating" this guy

    who she would have to pull teeth to get him to come see her. He lives with a woman who he claims he's not with. His story is she financially provides for him until he can get on his feet. I know he's not for real and probably in a relationship, just not faithful. My sister kinda...
    AmayaHoo AmayaHoo 22-25, F 5 Responses Jun 22

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    I was in the middle of making some biscuits to

    take to Christmas dinner at my mom's and my husband came up to me and smiled, brushed some flour off my nose, and gave me a sweet but passionate kiss. I love him. I love that he is strong, committed, faithful, and hardworking. I love that he fulfills all of my needs and I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    I hate being down over a man.

    A total waste of Saturday and my work is so behind
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 3 Responses Jun 20

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses May 1

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    10 years today! Holy crap!

    What a trip! A few months ago I thought I was going to leave. I think staying was the best decision I could have made!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 11 Responses May 21

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    The experience of life seems to be constant

    learning and growing. Recently I've been super depressed making me very focused on my professional career. However even that is seeming to suffer. Many issues at home with a significant other that I feel does not care for me but wants me around to fulfill some twisted vow that...