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I Am Married

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 31,840 People

    Now! But where were all these wonderful men

    when I was single? 10 years of bad blind dates.
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 32 Responses Oct 11

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    I married a man who is not

    who I thought he was and now I feel completely trapped .... I need a break ... I don't think I was meant to be married ... I give too much of myself and them realize that I am being taken for granted ... And when I realise it's too late ... He doesn't care for me ... Just goes...
    season82 season82 31-35, F 23 Responses Aug 29

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    No, I'm not. But I want to know what are the

    cons and pros? If you got married and divorced, will you still do it again?
    Bumblebeat Bumblebeat 61-65, F 17 Responses a week ago

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    It's been a great day,

    woke up and had morning sex with my beautiful wife. Then got up and spent the whole day with her!!.
    will269 will269 41-45, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Protecting My Marriage & Reputation

    I recently write a story about women obeying men. My opinion on this is that I will not obey a man, ever. My husband and I have been married for sixteen years (fourteen dating exclusively), so a total of over 30 years. The reason are marriage works isn't just because we love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    W..."I have to trim this big butt down you

    know" H-"great" W-"you saying I have a big butt? you should say it's big but beautiful" H-"I didn't say anything" W"That's just it you never say anything" H-"You mean about your butt being big or beautiful? I never..." W-"Now you think it's big ? you saying I'm fat?" H-"Do you...
    Mrperfectstranger Mrperfectstranger 51-55, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am changing every day,

    evolving, trying to get better. Material things and happiness are a state of mind. I can't be obsessed about money the way my husband is. Finances and religious views are the biggest bone of contention between us. I accept him the way he is, if only he would also let me be. At...
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    My husband and I had a fight about sex again.

    ..He said that he is moving out now. I'm in such a bad place right now. I never thought that he would do this!! He's looking for places to stay now and hopes to be out within the month. I'm worried that we're divorcing, but he said that he wants a separation for now. I'm...
    AriaShakti AriaShakti 31-35, F 16 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well here I sit have about 30 minutes till I

    get out of work. In about a hour I will be climbing into bed with her. Things seems somewhat normal today. I have a funny feeling that she's questioning herself and her actions. I don't think she expected me to take her wishes so seriously and actually give her space. Last night...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses Oct 22

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    Intimacy is so important in a marriage /

    similar relationship. It keeps the passion and feelings alive.
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 28

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 24 Responses Sep 25

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    Time. What a interesting

    and madding thing. You can give time, make time,take time, you can be on time, overtime, under time but you can't go back in time to change the things that brought you to today. Nor can you go ahead in time to see where the things you decided to change brought you. And when...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 28 Responses Sep 14

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    I love my wife with every drop of my soul.

    If I had to choose between her and the universe I would laugh at the universe. She is my everything, my stars, stripes, reds whites and blues.
    TheUnitedStates TheUnitedStates 41-45, M 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    I'm writing an lighthearted erotic short story

    for my wife. It features us as a couple. I hope she'll like it.
    Notsoidealhusband Notsoidealhusband 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 22

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 26 Responses Mar 6

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Gettingout72 Gettingout72 41-45, F 15 Responses Jan 4

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    NewlyMarriedMom123 NewlyMarriedMom123 18-21, F 22 Responses Sep 30

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    There have been some truly awful times in my

    marriage and some that were so wonderful, I would have never imagined they could be real were I not living them. From the beginning, friends would tell my husband and me that we had the kind of relationship they wished to someday have. It was never perfect. But we were so in...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 10

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    A lot happened this weekend.

    For the first time in a long time, my husband and I really started to open up and communicate. Since attending therapy, I've realized that I've been hiding pieces of myself from my husband. I've been afraid of being too needy. I've been afraid of being honest about my fears...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    Legally

    I was married just last week.  Kris and I did it in  a town in a neighboring state where Lesbian and Gay marriages are legal... we had everything ready, Kris had researched this carefully.  We had waived the three-day waiting period. We got up early, showered and...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 46 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    It's all good,.......

    ......then BAM! We argue over the absolute dumbest things. But guys, there is one act that will prove that you are actually a man. When your wife or girlfriend is having a hormonal fit of rage where she wants to argue about the color of the wall, or she complains about the...
    iamokaynow iamokaynow 31-35, M 36 Responses a week ago

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    I always told myself I would never get married.

    I should have listened to myself.
    clover17392 clover17392 41-45, F 26 Responses Jun 10

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    And I love it. I love the arguments,

    because love follows, I love the funny moments of early morning clumsiness, because love follows, I love the hours of silent treatment, then with a smile or a funny joke, love follows. I love laying next to her at night, knowing I am good husband, because she grabs and pulls me...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M 13 Responses Sep 16

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    I am attracted to spirituality in people.

    I am attracted to godly men especially. i'm very happy today to see that my husband is showing me that side of himself. Even if its a small bit of it in him i know like a mustard seed it grows bigger than anything! I'm so excited! XD
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 2 days ago

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    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    So today is the first day in 5 months I have

    been truly happy. I have decided to give my ALL to husband. I thought my heart was lost and my head was here but have discovered it is opposite! Today I realized my husband has my heart and my mind is what was a stray! I am now able to channel myself and give my all and truly be...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 17 Responses Aug 14

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 51 Responses Aug 30

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    Tell me what you think!

    "Marriage doesn't take away our loneliness. To be alive is to be lonely. It's the human condition. Marriage doesn't change the human condition. It can't make us completely unlonely. And when it doesn't, we blame our partner for doing something wrong, or we go searching for...
    Rheasdream Rheasdream 36-40, F 17 Responses Oct 20

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    These stupid semi panic attacks are killing me.

    I know I know. But my mind wanders sitting at work alone for ten hours a night. Things seem better but I get those bottom falling out of my stomach moments. And I have to try and settle myself down. In contrast part if me wants to say. How can you be doing this to me? Do...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 3 Responses Oct 23

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    I am a married wife

    and mom. I have been married for 23 years.
    gloriahughes gloriahughes 41-45, F 1 Response 24 mins ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 16

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    Excited and terrified,

    I'm meeting the baby who will change my world in almost 1 month <3
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Is your wife doing you a favor

    when you get sex as a husband. Please Ladies and Gents advise ?
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I hate being judged by people saying we fight

    like children - hey! At least were trying and not quitting like over 50% of marraiges not to mention the unmarried. :P I say to them - your quitting like children!
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Will Never Forget It

    The day we promised that we would love each other, and stay with each other, poor or rich, ill or well. That day was about sixteen years ago. My bridesmaid was my own daughter, product of an unsuccessful marriage and then divorce. At the time she was five. Being divorced and...
    PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    It's hard when you're married,

    but really like and care about someone who lives hundreds of miles away and is also married. Just sayin'. Some days... It's really hard.
    lacymom1 lacymom1 46-50, F 26 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear husband Sorry that I asked you a simple

    question. Sorry that I'm a piece of crap. Sorry God didn't create me perfect. But I just don't know why you need to know every movement that I make. But oh hell freezes if I ask you one stupid question. Just wish it will be my time to say bye to this amazing life.
    tearsfalling89 tearsfalling89 22-25, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 62 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I overheard my husband yesterday,

    giving dating advice to a young man that is a friend of ours. He did not know I was able to hear him. He said, "My wife finds true joy and excitement in almost every detail of life. If you find a woman that consistently has that quality, catch her, and do everything you can to...
    Accebere Accebere 36-40, F 23 Responses Mar 15

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    To a man that sleeps

    while i cry silent tears in the kitchen Please don't say it will be alright because i know better. No response needed. Just needed to say if aloud
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 10 Responses Aug 12

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 15 Responses Sep 8

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    I want a baby so bad.

    ...... I have been trying for 4 months now and I'm frustrated, sadden and disappointed. It's a great desire of mine to become a mother...sigh
    daintyterry daintyterry 31-35, F 50 Responses Jul 29

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 41 Responses Sep 17

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    Marriage is harder than I ever imagined.

    Some days I wonder why did I decide to do this. Today is one of them. I don't think she cares about me. I'm sitting here waiting for her and she got off work at 5. It's now 940. I swear some days I just want to be out. It feels pointless.
    ray23002 ray23002 41-45, M 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    ROWELLLISA421 ROWELLLISA421 22-25, F 8 Responses 2 days ago

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    Been married 20 years.

    we've had our ups and downs. But it's been a good 20 years. I'm glad I've had this beautiful woman to spend my life with!!
    will269 will269 41-45, M 4 Responses Oct 21

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    Marriage is when a man loses his bachelors

    degree and the woman gets her masters degree. ;)~
    texan75 texan75 36-40, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Married women are always more exciting mmm

    and naughty married ladies wanna chat talk to me x
    TeddyboyUK72 TeddyboyUK72 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    My husband and I completely love Chevy Trucks,

    he is buying me a new one today to my mom's phase, if I have to go somewhere with the baby we will go really confortable :3
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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