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I Am Married

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    Husband doesn't love me anymore- he admitted it

    tonight. Sick of not mattering to him
    dhrRN dhrRN 36-40, F 13 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 64 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    Protecting My Marriage & Reputation

    I recently write a story about women obeying men. My opinion on this is that I will not obey a man, ever. My husband and I have been married for sixteen years (fourteen dating exclusively), so a total of over 30 years. The reason are marriage works isn't just because we love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    I have been married for 33 years.

    This man was full of love, fun and joy. Though he never wanted me to work, I have. He says" you treat your money like your money Andy money like your money.", this is not true. It all goes to the same thing, bills. He hasn't treated me like I'm anything special to him in years...
    islonely islonely 46-50, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 24 Responses Mar 6

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    Update: Therapy is going well

    for my husband and I. Communication is getting better and he is actively asking me about my feelings regularly now. I am feeling much less inclined to be fearful about bringing up emotions that may not be exactly what he feels are appropriate. Today, could have been difficult...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 11 Responses Jul 13

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    I am married over 10 years.

    I am what u call the responsible wife. (Financial,bills, house chores etc) Somewhere down the line I lost interest in my husband. I was unfaithful to him and he is hurting so bad. He loves me. He has forgiven me but I can't seem to move on in our marriage. He is a good man just...
    emma1429 emma1429 46-50, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    To a man that sleeps

    while i cry silent tears in the kitchen Please don't say it will be alright because i know better. No response needed. Just needed to say if aloud
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 12 Responses Aug 12

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    So today is the first day in 5 months I have

    been truly happy. I have decided to give my ALL to husband. I thought my heart was lost and my head was here but have discovered it is opposite! Today I realized my husband has my heart and my mind is what was a stray! I am now able to channel myself and give my all and truly be...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 18 Responses Aug 14

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    My Husband

    I'm married to a wonderful man, I really do love him with all my heart. We've had our problems lately (most of them caused by me, a few caused by him), but I think we really are gonna stick it out for the long haul.
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    I think being married is a most difficult task.

    I am married to the same person for 27 years and know him for 29 years.He has many faults .I too have faults too.I think marriage is like walking on a high wall .If you don't balance yourself ,you will fall.If you nurture it ,you can reach great heights.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 8 Responses Jul 14

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    My wife and I recently bought some restraints

    for us to use on her during sex. She has always had somewhat of a submissive side to her. Well, I have not seen her this turned on in many years. Ladies, if this is something you think you'd enjoy, I'd highly recommend you trying it! ;)
    TravisTx TravisTx 56-60, M 3 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    Ok I'm going to post some positive experience

    in here lol. Met my wife when I was in college, I was bboying(breakdancing) and I was so much into hip hop(old school hip hop). I always listened to everything but my main source of music was hip hop. That all changed, when I met her, I fell in love with a girl from Texas. She...
    thingy1jrc thingy1jrc 26-30, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am married on 2nd Sept.

    2011. Now coming our third wedding anniversary on coming 2nd. Still we are couples and nobody come to our life (Children). May be this is the last wedding anniversary like we two. So I would like to present her a nice gift on that day like new married couples. I wish it should...
    tanoos tanoos 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    My husband and I he been married 9 years

    together for 14 trying to spice things up with another female. I am 28 the hubbie is 39. If you looking for some fun hit me up.
    ryansplaygurl ryansplaygurl 26-30, F 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 28 Responses Jul 16

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    I got married today! I have a husband!

    Unfortunately no honeymoon can happen yet, but I am MARRIED! I've always wanted this day to happen, and now it has, and it's been and gone too quickly.
    timeline112 timeline112 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 2

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    I want the type of marriage

    that anniversary cards are written for.
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 36-40, F 16 Responses Aug 25

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    My wife is having an affair with an old

    boyfriend. I'm both mad & turned on.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    We have been married

    for 12years, some how I have to beg for sex as if she is doing me a favor or I am troubling her. Now I understand the guys who have girlfriends on the side but I am nog there yet. Sometimes I think women don't realise the power of sex especially where there are no conditions
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I married a man who is not

    who I thought he was and now I feel completely trapped .... I need a break ... I don't think I was meant to be married ... I give too much of myself and them realize that I am being taken for granted ... And when I realise it's too late ... He doesn't care for me ... Just goes...
    season82 season82 31-35, F 24 Responses 4 days ago

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    I have been married for 18 years

    and I love my husband.. He cares for me and I care for him.... I would be lost without him in my life
    saxappeal saxappeal 46-50, F 8 Responses Mar 2

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    Married for 6 years, together

    for 8. 3 children. Spark still there for me, but not for her. No intimacy from her physically or emotionally for past year or two. Do not want to be with anyone else. What to do?
    stigmatasteve stigmatasteve 26-30, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I have been a married wife

    for 28 years and has five children in my marriage with my wonderful husband.
    nicelookingmom nicelookingmom 46-50, F 13 Responses Feb 7

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    Never Thought It Would Happen...

    Really. For most of my life, I never thought I was desirable marriage material. But for some reason, a wonderful woman saw in me something that I still have yet to see in myself and agreed to be my wife. I'm only newly wed right now, and while the relationship itself hasn't...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 15 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    Intimacy is so important in a marriage /

    similar relationship. It keeps the passion and feelings alive.
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    Why is it that As soon

    as I get married some of the greatest men I have ever known are all now confession to me how much they wanted to be with me. An they are showing me that they want me more then my own husband is showing me :( it's hurting because they only man I want is my husband. Life is so...
    SpiritDancer4227 SpiritDancer4227 22-25, F 16 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 58 Responses 3 days ago

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    Will Never Forget It

    The day we promised that we would love each other, and stay with each other, poor or rich, ill or well. That day was about sixteen years ago. My bridesmaid was my own daughter, product of an unsuccessful marriage and then divorce. At the time she was five. Being divorced and...
    PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    What do u do when u have to beg

    for love, attention & intimacy from your spouse?
    tracer123 tracer123 46-50, F 115 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a female age 49

    and have been married twice. The first time I was married, it lasted for 12 years and ended upon my husband's death on 9/11/01 when his plane slammed into the Pentagon. My second marriage is still alive and well. I just delivered a child (son) three months ago.
    olderblondemom olderblondemom 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    My husband works pays

    for the bills I am a stay at home mom I take care of the kids n house work I feed em wash em teach em I cook and clean make sure he is also taking care of when he gets home but because I am not bring money to the table I shouldn't complain it's like it's only ok for working...
    faithtrustwishes faithtrustwishes 22-25, F 7 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses Jan 31

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    I want a baby so bad.

    ...... I have been trying for 4 months now and I'm frustrated, sadden and disappointed. It's a great desire of mine to become a mother...sigh
    daintyterry daintyterry 31-35, F 50 Responses Jul 29

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    We have been married

    for 16 years. We have been through a rough few years. My husband had a heart attack after we had sex 2 years ago and it threw us into a tail spin. Mostly on my side. I was freaked out but he wasn't. He wanted to have sex after his heart attack but lately he has stopped. He is...
    Candlebox Candlebox 41-45, F 13 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    I live in a sexless marriage.

    ....how do u cope with this
    tracer123 tracer123 46-50, F 18 Responses 1 day ago

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    (found this on a poster)My HUSBAND Has

    made me laugh. Wiped my tears.Hugged me tight.Watched me succeed. Seen me fail.Kept me strong.My HUSBAND is a promise that I will have a friend FOREVER. 
    CandyxCane CandyxCane 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 18

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    Legally

    I was married just last week.  Kris and I did it in  a town in a neighboring state where Lesbian and Gay marriages are legal... we had everything ready, Kris had researched this carefully.  We had waived the three-day waiting period. We got up early, showered and...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 45 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    I've been married for almost a year now

    and it feels like we were just married yesterday. My husband is 25 and I'm 21 and we're very happy. I have hope for us, I have a gut feeling that we're going to do everything together and experience every bit of life together , I'm extremely elated about that. Every morning...
    greentearocks greentearocks 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    Me and my husband been together do 13 years

    been married 7 and r now trying to spice up our relationship with another female
    ibelovinhimnher ibelovinhimnher 26-30, F 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    If you're told you only have six months to live.

    Immediately get married. It will make those six months seems like eternity.
    jojo0915 jojo0915 31-35, M 8 Responses Aug 22

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    JEEZ19 JEEZ19 41-45, F 14 Responses Jan 4

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    A lot of the time I feel like my husband is

    more like an over grown toddler that I have to raise. He never does anything that I ask him to do without me nagging him or losing my temper. I've been after him for a week to help me clean the house since I am pregnant right now and can't use certain cleaning products. So...
    Runningagainstthewind Runningagainstthewind 22-25, F 20 Responses 3 days ago

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    I always told myself I would never get married.

    I should have listened to myself.
    clover17392 clover17392 41-45, F 28 Responses Jun 10

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    weeshil weeshil 41-45, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Nothing like having dreams of being angry with

    your husband to wake up and still angry over just dreams! Ugh!
    evhutton evhutton 36-40, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    On December 31 2013 my wife of ten.

    Years ask for a separation only to find out days later she was having a affair fast forward 6 months we are struggling to save our marriage my wife has kept contact with the man but only because he owes her money which I dont feel comfortable with at all , I still love my wife...
    mrha14 mrha14 36-40, M 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    I overheard my husband yesterday,

    giving dating advice to a young man that is a friend of ours. He did not know I was able to hear him. He said, "My wife finds true joy and excitement in almost every detail of life. If you find a woman that consistently has that quality, catch her, and do everything you can to...
    Accebere Accebere 36-40, F 21 Responses Mar 15

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    Found out my husband has been lying to me

    for three months talking and texting his ex girlfriend. Confronted him months ago and wanted to go for counselling but he didnt want to then. He just laughed at me. Fast forward to sat aug 9th i came home early from an appointment and his ex girlfriend is at our house. Nothing...
    chandralee39 chandralee39 36-40, F 9 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Is your FAITH tested by way of your spouse's

    behavior? I want to divorce. I am in a passive aggressive relationship. I can't take being an option in my husbands life, when he is a priority in mine.
    Brandnue Brandnue 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a very responsible person

    but in everything I do my wife always look for things to criticize and forget the effort behind, as a result I expect her to criticize and her opinion is now irrelevant
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 3 Responses 26 mins ago

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    marabou31 marabou31 31-35, F 3 Responses