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I Am Married

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 33 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 44 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 28 Responses Jan 6

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 23 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    The feeling of gaining control over a situation

    that controlled you is satisfying, liberating and kinda sad.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses May 16

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    any women want to skype with me ?

    if yes , send me a msg here in EP or send me a contact request in skype .... to iba.daggie
    boxersoff4u boxersoff4u 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 20 Responses Jan 27

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    But I hate my husband,

    he's angry and miserable all the tome
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 16

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 24 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    But unhappy. I told my husband today

    that I want to move out when the kids are grown. I want to live in my own place on my own. He said we can make it happen sooner if I want. Confirmation that this marriage is over.
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses Jan 9

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    Yes, I am very happily married.

    I have been married to one man for 23 years. From our union, we have produced seven children. Some of our children have moved out while some are still at home. A few of our kids are in college and single and others are college educated and married with their own children.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 41-45, F 13 Responses Jan 30

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    I just discovered a vibrator today.

    Wow I've been missing a lot. I haven't felt like that in what seems like years. Kinda feel bad cause hubby don't want me to use it. But after 3Months of no sex, I bought it to pleasure myself. He doesn't know.
    nancylu1234567890 nancylu1234567890 26-30, F 23 Responses Feb 7

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    I rarely get to see my husband

    because of his work schedule. He works extremely hard so that I can be a stay at home mom for my boys. Most of the time I feel like a single parent. He is either sleeping, watching t.v. waiting to go to sleep or playing piano. I hate the loneliness, the disconnect. He comes off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 15

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    Should I ask for sex

    or wait till she's asleep and arouse he in Her sleep??
    Milfloverou812 Milfloverou812 41-45, M 3 Responses May 18

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    Married for more than 25 years.

    Wonderful woman. Just one problem: she is not affectionate, and that includes in the bedroom. Her not being into "public displays of affection" has turned into less and less private displays as well over the years. On her birthday tonight, we went out, had a great time, but...
    KnightMoves KnightMoves 46-50, M 7 mins ago

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    Daughter: Mom, What is Marriage?

    Mom: Marriage is just a fancy word of adopting an overgrown male child who cannot be handled by his parents anymore. I just saw this one on Facebook a kind of funny, but I want to hear your thought. Agree or disagree? :-)
    Lakee112812 Lakee112812 41-45, F 14 Responses 2 days ago

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    My husband and I is seeking a relationship with

    a older male or a older couple
    patty666 patty666 18-21, F 22 Responses 1 day ago

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 13 Responses May 1

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    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My husband is kind of a neat freak.

    Very tidy. He and I had a big fight a few weeks back. After the fight I was still feeling mad at him. So I did the mature thing. After washing/drying my clothes, I threw them all over my side of the room. Leaving them for days just to drive him crazy. He never said a word about...
    tornadowinds tornadowinds 46-50, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    Married for 4 1/2 months!

    We were in a distant relationship for 7 yrs.
    LoveKKSP LoveKKSP 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    Stumbled on this article thought I'd share.

    For those of you who are dealing with a separation or your trying to heal yourself https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response May 18

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    For all our flaws, sometimes I see moments

    that remind me of why I like being married occasionally. Like when he gets home from work and I've got wine and hors d'oeuvres ready and we watch Bill Nye in our sweatpants. #marriagedoneright
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    10 years today! Holy crap!

    What a trip! A few months ago I thought I was going to leave. I think staying was the best decision I could have made!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 14 Responses a week ago

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    We think we have are normal ups

    and downs like all couples. We don't have sex much (really not much) and I've accepted that that's the way it is now. I'm hopeful it will change eventually. I know she loves me...the thing is I think she is having and emotional affair with another woman. I'm not sure how I...
    westhills248 westhills248 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 24 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I would just like to clarify

    because it's not readily evident. I am married, and I am happy to be so. Sometimes we have our differences. But that's marriage. It's no cakewalk, and that's what makes it special; that's what keeps it strong. So yes, I'm happily married. In the politest way possible...
    quirkygirl520 quirkygirl520 22-25, F 3 Responses May 18

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    Haha. My wife off for a couple.

    I asked her. You kno i cud xome home at lunch? Flat out NO THANKS! Funny, it doesn't even bother me!
    Leftyss Leftyss 46-50, M 1 Response May 19

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    Taking the kids away on a wee break

    for 4 days, a wee haven holiday.... I wish I could run away with them... I ****** WISH THAT BLOODY HUSBAND OF MINE WOULD JUST **** RIGHT OFF AN LEAVE ME TO IT.... HATE BEEN AROUND HIM... AND NOW HES COMING WITH US... AAAAAAAGGGGGHHHHHH SO ANRGRY RIGHT NOW I COULD BURST.....
    IrishLass89 IrishLass89 26-30, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm married now but I used to be involved with

    lots of women before marriage. I still crave the thrill of 'new' sex at times though. Is that normal?
    lifeinvader lifeinvader 31-35, M 6 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    after I came back from my run,

    I asked my husband if he wanted to "fool around".. rarely is he up for it... but it turned out good!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 33 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    CountryMusicGirl85 CountryMusicGirl85 26-30, F 21 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    On mothers day we went out to eat

    and took along a elder friend of the family. The elder went to the bathroom and came back complaining about how someone had mopped the floor and left it wet. What if someone older than me walls in there and falls because of the wet floor? Me being the smart *** that I am...I don...
    donnys65 donnys65 46-50, M 1 Response May 18

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    Well, I was. I couldnt decide

    if I wanted to remove the group, or present an explanation. I was married. Once the gavel fell no more. While I have half the reasons while it didnt work, she was a lousy woman. Looking for another however. Maybe just rebound, time will tell.
    xxorama xxorama 46-50, M 1 Response May 19

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    I am a truck driver (owner-operation) I took

    two years off and went to college. My first day I met the most beautiful and amazing girl she was 29 and me 48 but we become great friends and study partners.then we fell in love with each other. She was at the end of probation and got put in prison on a (PV) I went to the jail...
    rlb66 rlb66 46-50, M 1 Response May 16

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    While working with the sewing jobs,

    she asked me to come out to help her for a while, I went to the kitchen and there was a bowl of hot and sour soup. Without her, there is no hot and yummy meal for everyone. Everytime we are about to argue about something, I try to remember all the things she has done for our...
    Violet302 Violet302 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 41-45, F 18 Responses Mar 5

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    I love my husband so much

    and I'm very glad that I married him last year.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 25

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    I was in the middle of making some biscuits to

    take to Christmas dinner at my mom's and my husband came up to me and smiled, brushed some flour off my nose, and gave me a sweet but passionate kiss. I love him. I love that he is strong, committed, faithful, and hardworking. I love that he fulfills all of my needs and I...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 7 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    "Marriage is a miracle

    that transforms kissing from a pleasure into a duty."
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    Hubby has a long weekend

    which includes his birthday. So excited to get to spend lots of downtime and relax as a family.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    So I'm annoyed . Why do I let someone have

    so much power over the way I feel? Why do I allow someone to change my mood. Conflicting , contrasting, confusing , and did I mention annoying . Please give me the strength to do exactly as I wish , to feel nothing but bliss. To e