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I Am Married

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 12 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Hubby has a long weekend

    which includes his birthday. So excited to get to spend lots of downtime and relax as a family.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Married for 4 1/2 months!

    We were in a distant relationship for 7 yrs.
    LoveKKSP LoveKKSP 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am a truck driver (owner-operation) I took

    two years off and went to college. My first day I met the most beautiful and amazing girl she was 29 and me 48 but we become great friends and study partners.then we fell in love with each other. She was at the end of probation and got put in prison on a (PV) I went to the jail...
    rlb66 rlb66 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    after I came back from my run,

    I asked my husband if he wanted to "fool around".. rarely is he up for it... but it turned out good!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 33 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 60 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 28 Responses Jan 6

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    tonight a friend revealed to me the reason

    why she is getting divorced after 10 years of marriage...she told me she felt passionless and bored...I kind of kept quiet as this is something that I can relate to, but I immediately felt sad that they weren't going to do anything but just divorce. After everything was said...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 5 Responses Apr 11

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    The feeling of gaining control over a situation

    that controlled you is satisfying, liberating and kinda sad.
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    I'm in a sexless marriage.

    I don't even know if it works any more!!! I have thought about cheating just so I can have some contact...some emotion, other than anger and resentment. It wasn't always this way and that's the hard thing to accept. But I'm not dead... I still have emotional and sexual needs...
    Milfloverou812 Milfloverou812 41-45, M 8 Responses May 14

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 44 Responses Aug 30, 2014

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    My husband gets off work early this afternoon.

    Nothing on our schedules. Rain and storms heading our way. Sounds like the perfect night for homemade pizzas, family movies, popcorn and games. I'm so blessed that my husband's heart is at home. I never have to wonder where he is or what he's doing. He is a true family man, a...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 4 Responses May 15

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 24 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    I have come to a point

    where I just want out now. I think I'm headed for divorce. I can't take the possessiveness the controlling behavior ... As well as his anger is just over the top. I'm So done. I refuse to live this way. Anymore
    sassygirl42 sassygirl42 41-45, F 6 Responses May 12

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    My husband & I have amazing sex.

    When he isn't deployed, we have frequent, incredible sex. But he's still addicted to ****. Why?
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 41-45, F 23 Responses Mar 6, 2014

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 20 Responses Jan 27

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    Today we tied the knot!

    We got married in Vegas!!! I'm so happy.
    Submissivebabe Submissivebabe 18-21, F 11 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    It's our 20th anniversary today!

    I'm so lucky, after 20 years we're still in love, and are acting like a couple much younger than ourselves! I wanted to say here's to 20 more, but my gender issues will probably prevent that from happening.
    tpoh tpoh 46-50, T 2 Responses May 13

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    Even tho wife and i lack any kind of intimacy

    at all. My kids are awesome!! To go watch them dance! So proud of them and wouldn't trade them for anything! Great job girls!!
    Leftyss Leftyss 46-50, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Haha. My wife off for a couple.

    I asked her. You kno i cud xome home at lunch? Flat out NO THANKS! Funny, it doesn't even bother me!
    Leftyss Leftyss 46-50, M 4 days ago

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    But unhappy. I told my husband today

    that I want to move out when the kids are grown. I want to live in my own place on my own. He said we can make it happen sooner if I want. Confirmation that this marriage is over.
    deleted deleted 26-30 41 Responses Jan 9

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    JennyTom JennyTom 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 6

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    10 years today! Holy crap!

    What a trip! A few months ago I thought I was going to leave. I think staying was the best decision I could have made!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 15 Responses 2 days ago

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    Everyone knows about me following healthy tip

    #19...park further from the door. I parked out enough so no one was near me but a corvette a couple spots over. My wife and I went to Wegmans to get a couple things. She bought a few instant tickets and was scratching on the way out to my truck. I have a dark grey Nissan Titan...
    donnys65 donnys65 46-50, M 2 Responses May 14

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    But I hate my husband,

    he's angry and miserable all the tome
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses a week ago

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    I rarely get to see my husband

    because of his work schedule. He works extremely hard so that I can be a stay at home mom for my boys. Most of the time I feel like a single parent. He is either sleeping, watching t.v. waiting to go to sleep or playing piano. I hate the loneliness, the disconnect. He comes off...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 15

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    On mothers day we went out to eat

    and took along a elder friend of the family. The elder went to the bathroom and came back complaining about how someone had mopped the floor and left it wet. What if someone older than me walls in there and falls because of the wet floor? Me being the smart *** that I am...I don...
    donnys65 donnys65 46-50, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    Stumbled on this article thought I'd share.

    For those of you who are dealing with a separation or your trying to heal yourself https://beingabeautifulmess.wordpress.com/the-180/
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    And I'm missing my husband right now!

    This is his second Saturday working because a coworker is on her honeymoon so he's helping cover her accounts. I'm so glad this is his last Saturday!! This stinks!
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    This is my husband to the letter.

    I'm so blessed to have a true family man, a Godly husband and father to our children. http://matthewljacobson.com/2014/11/02/really-take-family-man/
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 1 Response May 12

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    For all our flaws, sometimes I see moments

    that remind me of why I like being married occasionally. Like when he gets home from work and I've got wine and hors d'oeuvres ready and we watch Bill Nye in our sweatpants. #marriagedoneright
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    NewlyMarriedMom123 NewlyMarriedMom123 18-21, F 18 Responses Sep 30, 2014

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    CountryMusicGirl85 CountryMusicGirl85 26-30, F 21 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 24 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    My husband is kind of a neat freak.

    Very tidy. He and I had a big fight a few weeks back. After the fight I was still feeling mad at him. So I did the mature thing. After washing/drying my clothes, I threw them all over my side of the room. Leaving them for days just to drive him crazy. He never said a word about...
    tornadowinds tornadowinds 46-50, F 13 Responses 2 days ago

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 41-45, F 18 Responses Mar 5

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    It's hard when you're married,

    but really like and care about someone who lives hundreds of miles away and is also married. Just sayin'. Some days... It's really hard.
    lacymom1 lacymom1 46-50, F 19 Responses Oct 28, 2014

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 33 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Well, I was. I couldnt decide

    if I wanted to remove the group, or present an explanation. I was married. Once the gavel fell no more. While I have half the reasons while it didnt work, she was a lousy woman. Looking for another however. Maybe just rebound, time will tell.
    xxorama xxorama 46-50, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    I would just like to clarify

    because it's not readily evident. I am married, and I am happy to be so. Sometimes we have our differences. But that's marriage. It's no cakewalk, and that's what makes it special; that's what keeps it strong. So yes, I'm happily married. In the politest way possible...
    quirkygirl520 quirkygirl520 22-25, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 32 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    TheLittleMrs TheLittleMrs 36-40, F 13 Responses May 1

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    Took my stepdaughter to the therapist then to

    the doctor now I'm home alone :(.
    angelove777 angelove777 41-45, F 6 Responses