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I Am Married

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    whoreallycares85 whoreallycares85 26-30, F 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    But I am in love with my friend.

    She is everything I could want in a woman; funny, beautiful, and makes my life brighter to be around. All the same qualities that made me fall for my wife, whom I also still love just to be clear. Nothing will ever come of this, I know she has zero interest in me. I'm 15 years...
    funskrinmi funskrinmi 36-40, M 4 Responses Sep 23

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    Update: Therapy is going well

    for my husband and I. Communication is getting better and he is actively asking me about my feelings regularly now. I am feeling much less inclined to be fearful about bringing up emotions that may not be exactly what he feels are appropriate. Today, could have been difficult...
    Olivia2014 Olivia2014 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 13

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    I always told myself I would never get married.

    I should have listened to myself.
    clover17392 clover17392 41-45, F 27 Responses Jun 10

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 30 Responses 2 days ago

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    How do i know if im steel in love

    or happy? Some times I am but some times I hate it I see so much on life and couples the I see I don't have ****!! But I love to see my little thing the we have as a family
    Marialz Marialz 22-25, F 4 Responses Sep 19

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    I am married, but I am afraid

    for my relationship. My husband is not a happy person and has high expectations and is very negative. I think in his perfect world I would have the house spotless all the time, care for the kids full time, work and bring home more money, get all the house chores done and take...
    peacefulrocker peacefulrocker 31-35, F 4 Responses 16 hrs ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 28 Responses 6 days ago

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    And I'm not sure if my husband still loves me.

    It's like everytime I think we're a team and on the same page he does something that let's me know I'm on my own, and before I know it I feel alone and my trust fades. The thing is we're still married w/ kids but he often leaves my heart hurting
    ChynaWhite4 ChynaWhite4 22-25, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    I have been married twice

    and I have seven kids. My first husband died of cancer. I have been married to my second husband for 6 years and we have three kids together. My kids ages 1, 3, and 6.
    debbielovescruises debbielovescruises 41-45, F 6 Responses 5 days ago

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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 63 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    And I love it. I love the arguments,

    because love follows, I love the funny moments of early morning clumsiness, because love follows, I love the hours of silent treatment, then with a smile or a funny joke, love follows. I love laying next to her at night, knowing I am good husband, because she grabs and pulls me...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M 13 Responses Sep 16

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 16

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    I love my husband! We have been together

    for 11 years. We have known each other for 18 years! We have been through hell and back. We will probably have to take a few more trips too.
    mmissy1012 mmissy1012 31-35, F 7 Responses Sep 21

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    My wife was cheating this weekend.

    I found it kinda hot.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got married today! I have a husband!

    Unfortunately no honeymoon can happen yet, but I am MARRIED! I've always wanted this day to happen, and now it has, and it's been and gone too quickly.
    timeline112 timeline112 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 2

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    Legally

    I was married just last week.  Kris and I did it in  a town in a neighboring state where Lesbian and Gay marriages are legal... we had everything ready, Kris had researched this carefully.  We had waived the three-day waiting period. We got up early, showered and...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl 26-30, F 45 Responses Jul 27, 2010

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    I want a baby so bad.

    ...... I have been trying for 4 months now and I'm frustrated, sadden and disappointed. It's a great desire of mine to become a mother...sigh
    daintyterry daintyterry 31-35, F 50 Responses Jul 29

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 52 Responses Aug 30

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    I married a man who is not

    who I thought he was and now I feel completely trapped .... I need a break ... I don't think I was meant to be married ... I give too much of myself and them realize that I am being taken for granted ... And when I realise it's too late ... He doesn't care for me ... Just goes...
    season82 season82 31-35, F 23 Responses Aug 29

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 27 Responses Mar 6

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    DTF7 DTF7 26-30, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    I don't get it. Y'all can read all the other

    experiences..I shower naked, I want a baby, etc. But then you ask me if I'm single and it's like I'm dropping a bomb on you. It's there..just like all the others. Talk about selective vision... Side note: did I just say "y'all"?
    ThisIsMe83 ThisIsMe83 31-35, F 10 Responses Sep 20

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    Never Thought It Would Happen...

    Really. For most of my life, I never thought I was desirable marriage material. But for some reason, a wonderful woman saw in me something that I still have yet to see in myself and agreed to be my wife. I'm only newly wed right now, and while the relationship itself hasn't...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 15 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Gettingout72 Gettingout72 41-45, F 14 Responses Jan 4

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    I overheard my husband yesterday,

    giving dating advice to a young man that is a friend of ours. He did not know I was able to hear him. He said, "My wife finds true joy and excitement in almost every detail of life. If you find a woman that consistently has that quality, catch her, and do everything you can to...
    Accebere Accebere 36-40, F 23 Responses Mar 15

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 28 Responses Sep 14

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    My wife was with a well endowed guy

    while we were separated.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 11 Responses Sep 21

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    So today is the first day in 5 months I have

    been truly happy. I have decided to give my ALL to husband. I thought my heart was lost and my head was here but have discovered it is opposite! Today I realized my husband has my heart and my mind is what was a stray! I am now able to channel myself and give my all and truly be...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 17 Responses Aug 14

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 15 Responses Sep 8

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    Intimacy is so important in a marriage /

    similar relationship. It keeps the passion and feelings alive.
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 12 Responses Aug 28

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    2 years of being marriage.

    but still i don't feel like we are having our life on our own. all decisions and the way our life right now are based on his decision and his family especially his mom. we are living with his parents. i feel like i am living a life he choose me to live into not the life that i...
    fean fean 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 20

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    10 years ago, I was able to manage

    and tackle anything that came my way. I was a single young mother, owned my own home, had a great career and was able to care for my family and with no support whatsoever from anyone. We were happy, my kids were happy. Of course, the only thing missing was a companion at...
    Jenn7791 Jenn7791 36-40, F 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    Any woman have advice

    for a married man with kids who is not very happy and I don't think she is either!I love my children so much even when I can't stand my marriage when the thought of giving up on it I look at my children and just have to let it go. I just can't stand the thought of not seeing...
    Jamesmadison402014 Jamesmadison402014 36-40, M 7 Responses a week ago

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    I've been married for 10 years,

    & I feel more alone than I've been. We have 3 children, & I pretend to be happy for their sakes. The way I look at it, I have only 2 options. Stay & be miserable, or leave & live with the guilt of having broken up am allegedly happy home, for my children. My husband is a good...
    NubianQueen15 NubianQueen15 36-40, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 17 years

    and have three kids but my love life is kinda crap and I am having a affair with a very hot women and I don't know what I am gonna do.
    MrMan67 MrMan67 36-40, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 22 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've been married for almost a year now

    and it feels like we were just married yesterday. My husband is 25 and I'm 21 and we're very happy. I have hope for us, I have a gut feeling that we're going to do everything together and experience every bit of life together , I'm extremely elated about that. Every morning...
    greentearocks greentearocks 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    There have been some truly awful times in my

    marriage and some that were so wonderful, I would have never imagined they could be real were I not living them. From the beginning, friends would tell my husband and me that we had the kind of relationship they wished to someday have. It was never perfect. But we were so in...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 8 Responses Sep 10

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    I have been married for almost 15 years.

    I wish I could say that I was happy in my marriage. The only reason that I stay is for my son who is 12. Hopefully, after the first of the year, I will have enough strength to end this disaster and move on with my life and show my son what it's like to be happy.
    wantafriend70 wantafriend70 41-45, F 5 Responses a week ago

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 42 Responses Sep 17

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    My wife's back to her cheating ways again.

    I keep quiet since I secretly get a thrill from it.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 27 Responses Sep 18

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    So I just got back home from a 3 week holiday

    away from my husband. It's amazing what time apart can do. I took the time to reflect of our relationship and realized that I am very lucky yo have a man like him. Takes care of baby, tells me I'm beautiful, buys me flowers and gifts, cooks, cleans, puts me first, the list is...
    twaj612 twaj612 26-30, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    So my husband can THANK me

    for taking the trash out when he's working but can't THANK me for making him dinner every night?!! PRIORITIESSSS!!!!!!!! Maybe some laxative will teach him a lesson(Joking)
    Maliagirl Maliagirl 26-30, F 36 Responses Sep 22

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    Will Never Forget It

    The day we promised that we would love each other, and stay with each other, poor or rich, ill or well. That day was about sixteen years ago. My bridesmaid was my own daughter, product of an unsuccessful marriage and then divorce. At the time she was five. Being divorced and...
    PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    m14daclub m14daclub 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    How can one be lonely

    while married? Isn't one of the "joys" of marriage is so loneliness will cease to exist? ***YOU CAN GET LONELY SINGLE & GET LONELY MARRIED*** WTFFF!!!! P.S - This is not an invitation for all you pervs to PM! Ha! Sorry, I couldn't resist! :)
    Maliagirl Maliagirl 26-30, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I have been married for 17 years

    and have three kids but my love life is kinda crap and I am having a affair with a very hot women and I don't know what I am gonna do.
    MrMan67 MrMan67 36-40, M 9 Responses 1 day ago

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    Hi there,I'm new member here

    and I would like to share with you about my life with my wife,I lover my wife but every time we having sex we talk about sharing my wife with a stranger and I just turn on when she start telling me what she gonna do and how I gonna help her to open her legs so he can **** her...
    Moliverpool Moliverpool 31-35, M 9 Responses 6 days ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Every day and night sooo i am

    so bored with my husband I could die and be ok with that. He is sooo boring!!!
    Lisaczh Lisaczh 46-50, F 20 Responses 3 days ago

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    To a man that sleeps

    while i cry silent tears in the kitchen Please don't say it will be alright because i know better. No response needed. Just needed to say if aloud
    bethany444 bethany444 46-50, F 11 Responses Aug 12

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