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I Am Married

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    Eleni1179 Eleni1179 31-35, F 40 Responses 5 days ago

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    Never Thought It Would Happen...

    Really. For most of my life, I never thought I was desirable marriage material. But for some reason, a wonderful woman saw in me something that I still have yet to see in myself and agreed to be my wife. I'm only newly wed right now, and while the relationship itself hasn't...
    Tuva Tuva 31-35, M 15 Responses Aug 9, 2010

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    Will Never Forget It

    The day we promised that we would love each other, and stay with each other, poor or rich, ill or well. That day was about sixteen years ago. My bridesmaid was my own daughter, product of an unsuccessful marriage and then divorce. At the time she was five. Being divorced and...
    PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage PleaseSkipTheToddlerStage 41-45, F 11 Responses Apr 23, 2013

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    Obviously my profile isn't enough to convince

    some weirdo that I am married. my exact age is what it is.smh
    vanessamoomoo vanessamoomoo 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 11

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    Is it just me or does

    that very important piece of paper, change everything? Within 11 months of saying I Do, we were separated (albeit for only 7 months). We had both stopped trying to keep the other interested and stopped making an effort. It took those 7 months of on/off status and lots of talking...
    Bowlingdiva111 Bowlingdiva111 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am in a loveless marriage looking

    for the courage to find a way out. 💔
    heyitslucita heyitslucita 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want the type of marriage

    that anniversary cards are written for.
    Dreamgirl75 Dreamgirl75 36-40, F 15 Responses Aug 25

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    My husband and I have been together 9 years

    and he seems to be hiding things from me. He is a wonderful man but I am worried about his drinking habits (which I have caught him sneaking shots). I confronted him and he said he would stop. Me being snoopy... I saw his browser history and he only looks at **** all day and all...
    jhd522 jhd522 26-30, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    if you ever had a cheating wife

    and found it erotic message me.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    And I love it. I love the arguments,

    because love follows, I love the funny moments of early morning clumsiness, because love follows, I love the hours of silent treatment, then with a smile or a funny joke, love follows. I love laying next to her at night, knowing I am good husband, because she grabs and pulls me...
    Sheismybestfriend Sheismybestfriend 31-35, M 13 Responses Sep 16

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    I got married almost a month ago.

    We have disagreements often and I feel we don't deal with issues, we talk them over then sweep them under the rug. I'm almost regretting this marriage. He will promise to do things but hardly carries them out... Like getting my car fixed, our insurance on time, our marriage...
    kenztaylor kenztaylor 22-25, F 30 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think being married is a most difficult task.

    I am married to the same person for 27 years and know him for 29 years.He has many faults .I too have faults too.I think marriage is like walking on a high wall .If you don't balance yourself ,you will fall.If you nurture it ,you can reach great heights.
    booklover87 booklover87 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 3 Responses 23 hrs ago

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    NewlyMarriedMom123 NewlyMarriedMom123 18-21, F 23 Responses Sep 30

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    I THINK UNSOLICITED HONEY-DO LISTS SUCK!

    WARNING!!! What I am about to discuss below is controversial. It might offend some sensibilities. So if you read it brace yourself. WARNING!!!On many occasions, I have heard about the infamous honey-to-do or honey-do list. It usually consists of a list of projects that some wives...
    MarredMind MarredMind 36-40, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Protecting My Marriage & Reputation

    I recently write a story about women obeying men. My opinion on this is that I will not obey a man, ever. My husband and I have been married for sixteen years (fourteen dating exclusively), so a total of over 30 years. The reason are marriage works isn't just because we love...
    deleted deleted 26-30 25 Responses Oct 3, 2013

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 15 Responses Sep 8

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    Babydoll42 Babydoll42 41-45, F 26 Responses Mar 6

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    I've been married for almost a year now

    and it feels like we were just married yesterday. My husband is 25 and I'm 21 and we're very happy. I have hope for us, I have a gut feeling that we're going to do everything together and experience every bit of life together , I'm extremely elated about that. Every morning...
    greentearocks greentearocks 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 23, 2013

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Gettingout72 Gettingout72 41-45, F 14 Responses Jan 4

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    Married people, when people say communcation is

    key what does that exactly mean? When is talking to much? Lots of people say men hate nagging. But what if the wife is just trying to "communcate"? What do husbands like to hear from their wives? Do we tell our husbands everything? Do we tell eachother what is bothering us...
    tearsfalling89 tearsfalling89 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 1 Response 23 hrs ago

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    I always told myself I would never get married.

    I should have listened to myself.
    clover17392 clover17392 41-45, F 27 Responses Jun 10

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    Now! But where were all these wonderful men

    when I was single? 10 years of bad blind dates.
    JJjenniejones JJjenniejones 41-45, F 32 Responses Oct 11

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    My husband is the best!

    We still do what we used to do when we weren't married yet,our love is growing! Even if sometimes we are not in a good mood we look for something to make us feel better:3 We are really happy and we are a young marriage.
    HappyWife16 HappyWife16 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 27 Responses Jul 16

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    I am a female age 49

    and have been married twice. The first time I was married, it lasted for 12 years and ended upon my husband's death on 9/11/01 when his plane slammed into the Pentagon. My second marriage is still alive and well. I just delivered a child (son) three months ago.
    olderblondemom olderblondemom 46-50, F 8 Responses Dec 22, 2013

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    I do not understand my wife anymore,

    she is 42 and has regular temper tantrums, and expects me to know why, but won't explain when I ask, I'm so confused with her n wtf
    fortycreek fortycreek 46-50, M 12 Responses 5 days ago

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    When we got engaged I was given his

    grandmothers wedding set. However diamonds have fallen out of both rings despite me having then repaired numerous times. So I don't wear them anymore. I went two years without a ring I could wear. It didn't really bother me and it didn't bother him at all. He got me a ring...
    lovedaria lovedaria 26-30, F 6 Responses a week ago

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    I am from Mumbai India.

    Wanted to share something that has been taking me to ultimate limits of s****l satisfaction and at times sinking me into deep emotional depressive state. It all started maybe 6-7 years ago when i was browsing through some adult websites. During s** i introduced my fantasy very...
    MumbaiMember MumbaiMember 31-35, M 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    I overheard my husband yesterday,

    giving dating advice to a young man that is a friend of ours. He did not know I was able to hear him. He said, "My wife finds true joy and excitement in almost every detail of life. If you find a woman that consistently has that quality, catch her, and do everything you can to...
    Accebere Accebere 36-40, F 22 Responses Mar 15

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    So today is the first day in 5 months I have

    been truly happy. I have decided to give my ALL to husband. I thought my heart was lost and my head was here but have discovered it is opposite! Today I realized my husband has my heart and my mind is what was a stray! I am now able to channel myself and give my all and truly be...
    hbgirl24 hbgirl24 31-35, F 16 Responses Aug 14

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    My wife has affairs yet I say nothing.

    I get partly turned on.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 3 Responses a week ago

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    In September, me and my wife celebrated our

    17th wedding anniversary. We've been together 23 years. It's been a wild ride, NOT easy, but worth it.
    ceirdyrael ceirdyrael 46-50, M 2 Responses Oct 11

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    I'm married but lonely.

    My husband has no interest in spending time with me or having any meaningful conversations
    jacqueline3 jacqueline3 46-50, F 51 Responses Aug 30

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    After childbearing, it has been extremely hard

    to reach it again. Sometimes, I don't feel anything at all. Sometimes, I do feel it coming then it dwindles. What advice can u give me? I try to imagine and finger but it doesn't work.
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 9 Responses 2 days ago

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    Been wondering lately how to get my wife more

    interested in initiating sex and had a rather enjoyable evening yesterday. She wanted to know more about how I **** and then practice so she can do it better for me. Never expected it to work out that way. Definitely very pleased though. Surprising what a little confident...
    Kumaji Kumaji 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband has these moments I guess you can say

    where he has to take off drinking every once a month on a binge for atleast 2 or more days, this last time he went for 3 days and came home just for me to find a text of him texting his cousin asking about her gorgeous friend n if she's digging him, n he beat me up when he got...
    jsinclair21 jsinclair21 26-30, F 25 Responses 2 days ago

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    I got married today! I have a husband!

    Unfortunately no honeymoon can happen yet, but I am MARRIED! I've always wanted this day to happen, and now it has, and it's been and gone too quickly.
    timeline112 timeline112 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 2

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    I want a baby so bad.

    ...... I have been trying for 4 months now and I'm frustrated, sadden and disappointed. It's a great desire of mine to become a mother...sigh
    daintyterry daintyterry 31-35, F 49 Responses Jul 29

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    Early in the morning today I locked our bedroom

    door as we were about to have sex, about two minutes later our 12yr old son started knocking on the door as we were having sex (but we were not making any noise), he continue knocking and calling us until, our 3 year old woke up and we stopped. Now there are new rules for the...
    Akiragen Akiragen 36-40, M 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think my 8 year marriage to the love of my

    life is falling apart. It's tearing me up. Been taken by ambulence to the er after collapsing due to stress from the situation. My wife says she doesn't feel the intmacy anymore. We still get along and everything else seems the same. I am willing to do whatever it takes. She...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 15 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    ..........but not for much longer.

    I finally had enough. As I suspected, he did not come home until 630 this morning. Then the fights began. Unfortunately for him some witnessed our "disagreement" and the police were called. I pushed back my feelings of guilt and sent a statement to the police chief.I did not let...
    Lld84 Lld84 26-30, F 15 Responses 1 day ago

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 25 Responses Sep 25

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    My wife continues her affair

    and it turns me on.
    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Once We Were Sexless But Now We Are Sexy As

    I have already mentioned that I love my husband dearly and that we are happily married and have recently celebrated our 29th wedding anniversary.  In a nutshell, we have survived.  And I have also already mentioned that things weren't always as rosy as they are now and we have...
    perseverer perseverer 51-55, F 62 Responses Mar 8, 2011

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    I married a man who is not

    who I thought he was and now I feel completely trapped .... I need a break ... I don't think I was meant to be married ... I give too much of myself and them realize that I am being taken for granted ... And when I realise it's too late ... He doesn't care for me ... Just goes...
    season82 season82 31-35, F 23 Responses Aug 29

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    I really love my husband

    and he loves me back but sometimes he just ignores me and leaves me at my parents house for days and doesn't even checkup on me. I love him so much and can't stay a minute away from him but he doesn't understand all he has to do is work. It's been seven months now to our...
    lovelylady1234 lovelylady1234 26-30, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have a headache. It's 5am

    and I haven't seen my husband in 13hours. I'm frustrated and this is killing me. He's a workaholic who says he loves me every time I complain. He works everyday and leaves me alone. He's answer is just to read the bible. Help, how do I concentrate?
    lu123456789 lu123456789 31-35, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    There have been some truly awful times in my

    marriage and some that were so wonderful, I would have never imagined they could be real were I not living them. From the beginning, friends would tell my husband and me that we had the kind of relationship they wished to someday have. It was never perfect. But we were so in...