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    I just discovered a vibrator today.

    Wow I've been missing a lot. I haven't felt like that in what seems like years. Kinda feel bad cause hubby don't want me to use it. But after 3Months of no sex, I bought it to pleasure myself. He doesn't know.
    deleted deleted 26-30 23 Responses Feb 7

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    Last night, during our date night,

    we saw my ex lover from afar and my husband and I had a conversation that went like this: Me: He used to call me "my princess". Why don't you call me princess? Him: *exasperated sigh* I do call you princess but in other ways. Me: Like what? Him: My Mulan Me: ..... fair enough
    lpch lpch 26-30, F 10 Responses 3 days ago

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    tonight a friend revealed to me the reason

    why she is getting divorced after 10 years of marriage...she told me she felt passionless and bored...I kind of kept quiet as this is something that I can relate to, but I immediately felt sad that they weren't going to do anything but just divorce. After everything was said...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 6

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    i am married. the third marriage

    for me. maybe threes a charm.
    gcmartin1 gcmartin1 51-55, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    10 years today! Holy crap!

    What a trip! A few months ago I thought I was going to leave. I think staying was the best decision I could have made!
    SaundraMae SaundraMae 26-30, F 11 Responses May 21

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    I told myself months ago

    that I would stop asking my husband to do things, the rejection became too much. I found out earlier today that our house would be kid free tonight. One more try I thought, for a date night. I have heard him make comments himself about how long its been. I should have known...
    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F 62 Responses Jul 3

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    My husband recently took a job at a bigger

    corporation. Better pay, benefits, and hours but further away from home. I love that he's less stressed and gets to see the kids more now. We're very blessed.
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 25 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    jacklebon jacklebon 41-45, M 5 Responses 1 day ago

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    Feeling alone & ignored!

    My husband's 1st wife cheated on him twice. After 3 short years as his wife I am starting to understand why. No one wants to feel alone in their marriage. I don't want to cheat. I just want affection & communication from my husband. Sigh
    gingerlife gingerlife 36-40, F 31 Responses Jul 31

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    i am a bi married man .

    I guess ive known it all my life. I am not active in this matter. Any body out there have the same type experience. any advice would be helpful.
    gcmartin1 gcmartin1 51-55, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    in the mood for something romantic kinky x rated

    but I know the truth will never happen so just a thought that pass thru my mind
    tsolos tsolos 26-30, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 21 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    I was always taught never to go to bed on a

    cross word. I haven't been married that long but I always tell my husband I love him and thank him for today before I go to sleep. Sometimes I haven't wanted to, sometimes he hasn't replied, sometimes I haven't even felt like I liked him, sometimes I have been hurting beyond...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 21 Responses Aug 3

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    He is mine and I am his on the good days,

    bad days and always. I can't remember life without him.
    SweetNatalie SweetNatalie 41-45, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    Been 22 years since my lovely penny died.

    Leaving behind out 3 children. You'd be so proud my love. Hope you and our eldest are making up for old times. Tell Amanda that katie is doing fine though I'm positive you are watching over us both. Yours and yours only Tom
    MisterThomasN MisterThomasN 61-65, M 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    It's a dreary and stormy day out.

    The kids are working puzzles and coloring. I'm doing laundry and working out this semester's lesson plan for homeschool, which we're starting on Sept 8th. Then we'll watch a wholesome movie, have dinner and get ready for bed. And mommy will have a little time for herself while I...
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    "If you're not happy

    as an individual or satisfied with your inner self, then don't expect to be happy when you're married. It is most ignorant to expect a spouse to make you happy when you can't even find the sense of wholesomeness, joy and peace in your own heart." - A good friend
    lpch lpch 26-30, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 46-50, F 17 Responses Mar 5

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    gcmartin1 gcmartin1 51-55, M 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    lonely anyone want to chat just want have adult

    convo. That don't have to be with kids or bills or somethings has broken
    tsolos tsolos 26-30, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    He just came home 1hr ago

    and is cooped in basement doing work related stuff. NO TIME FOR FAMILY/ME. Our small Kids are eating dinner alone as usual. Do u think they will remember the good ole times with dada? I'm starting to resent you...smh Workaholic alert......
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 17 Responses 5 days ago

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jan 27

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    Do any of you fine people out there in EP Land

    have an issue with a clingy spouse? I feel like my time is not really my time, you know what I mean? After my wife falls asleep is when I really get to have some ME time, but by then I'm too tired to do anything. My wife may say "But you get your me time whenever you grab that...
    CJRed73 CJRed73 41-45, M 14 Responses 6 days ago

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    Whenever I push myself to do something

    and I accomplish that task I feel amazing. And I want to share those good feelings. So I'll tell my husband. Then he will bring it up in a fight of the past and how I use to be, forgetting that I told him that I accomplished a task and I'm taking steps in the right direction...
    Sophia117 Sophia117 22-25, F 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've just had the most amazing weekend with my

    husband. Like so many others on this site, I found myself spiraling in a direction I never thought possible. Our marriage had lost that excitement. We no longer had the passion, desire or intimacy. We got lost in the day to day stress of life. Work, bills, health problems...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jun 7

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    I was just finishing up weeding the flower beds

    when my neighbor stopped by. Both of us are retired and both of our wives still work. We talked for a few minutes and I told him I still had some coffee left if he wanted some. We came into the house and he told me his wife had not spoken to him in 4 days. He was telling me his...
    marriedup marriedup 56-60, M 16 Responses Jun 25

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    I love my husband so much

    and I'm very glad that I married him last year.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 14 Responses Feb 25

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    A few days ago I wrote a post in group called,

    I Need to Vent because I really needed to express some frustrations about my husband and my marriage. It felt really good to express how I felt and get a lot of feedback from people here that had similar experiences, advice, general comments and so forth. A few of the comments...
    MrsKat78 MrsKat78 36-40, F 24 Responses 2 days ago

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    We just celebrated our 2nd anniversary!

    Hoping to make it to 50 if we live that long!
    asell15 asell15 26-30, F 10 Responses 6 days ago

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    after I came back from my run,

    I asked my husband if he wanted to "fool around".. rarely is he up for it... but it turned out good!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 35 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    Yep been married since 07.

    waited till it was three days before I turned 30 and got married. She is a great mom to my kids, I have awesome kids.
    cruise77 cruise77 36-40, M 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    i am a practical husband.

    What does this mean in logical terms?
    gcmartin1 gcmartin1 51-55, M 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Yes, I am very happily married.

    I have been married to one man for 23 years. From our union, we have produced seven children. Some of our children have moved out while some are still at home. A few of our kids are in college and single and others are college educated and married with their own children.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 46-50, F 12 Responses Jan 30

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    Please tell me your ture honest opinion.

    I need feedback. I want to try to keep this short. I am gonna sum it all up. My husband and I have been married for 9 years now. I love him. He loves me. We have 2 kids together and I have 2 from a previous engagement. We have had one horrible thing after another happen to us...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 13 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    My other half was really tired last night (gets

    a droopy eye and is extremely grumpy). He was horrible to me all night, I haven't been feeling well lately and just wanted some re-assurance and some kind words. He sits watching the telly with the house a mess for hours. I come in from work and instantly have to start...
    knottyknitty knottyknitty 31-35, F 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I couldn't sleep last night,

    then I went through my husband's cellphone since he gave me the access to it. Then I found a girl commented one of his posts of food in a restaurant "why don't you take me with you?" and his reply was four smiling faces. Back then I was on a trip for one month, leaving him alone...
    RedrosesChris RedrosesChris 26-30, F 62 Responses 5 days ago

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    Should "maintaining attractiveness" be part of

    a marriage contract? After 7 years of marriage hubby has gained 25 pounds of fat and looks very different. After 2 kids I weigh the same because I run/strength train 5 times a week. We used to run together he now says he never liked working out actually and basically just gave...
    evolvinggirl evolvinggirl 36-40, F 62 Responses Jun 14

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 31 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Did I miss the memo that EP was only

    for lonely, bored housewives and cheaters? Can people get any fuller of crap? A woman tells you she doesn't chat privately with me because she's happily married and you go off and accusing her of lying and cheating? Surely there's more than enough players on here that you don't...
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 32 Responses 4 days ago

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses May 1

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