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I Am Married

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    Issues33 Issues33 41-45, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    tonight my husband and I had a romantic evening

    talking and kissing. we made love and it was wonderful for the first time in 6 years. it was sensual and our connection was amazing. I felt so loved and wanted. appreciated and acknowledge. he went slowly savoring everything. he is amazing. I love him so much.
    smashmouth4eva smashmouth4eva 31-35, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    OUR STORY, PART TWO At this point it was summer

    1999 and both of our divorces had been finalized. Because we worked together, I have to admit I was a little nervous at the thought of dating M. I had seen many office romances go south in a fast and furious fashion, and I wasn't sure I should take the risk. You know what they...
    BellaLocura BellaLocura 41-45, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    I used to have another profile on here

    but I deleted it because I felt like I needed to at that time. This was almost 3 months ago. My old stories a lot of them are based on my husband, our arguing, resentfulness, fantasizing about hooking up with other people, I even kissed and touched someone else. I was sure I...
    stlmya stlmya 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Gallantio Gallantio 36-40, M 4 Responses Jan 30

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    I love my husband so much

    and I'm very glad that I married him last year.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 13 Responses Feb 25, 2015

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    This is my second marriage & I'm really happy

    with him. My kids adore him & I'm glad he's a better father figure than my first husband was. My first marriage was abusive & violent. The only good thing that came out of it was 4 children. How can I move on? I'm sick of dwelling in the past & being bitter about it. I don't...
    selina1986 selina1986 26-30, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    Feeling alone & ignored!

    My husband's 1st wife cheated on him twice. After 3 short years as his wife I am starting to understand why. No one wants to feel alone in their marriage. I don't want to cheat. I just want affection & communication from my husband. Sigh
    gingerlife gingerlife 41-45, F 24 Responses Jul 31, 2015

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    This is only partly about me,

    and my marriage. More importantly it's a summary of info that my wife and I stumbled upon a few years ago and it has been very helpful to us, and many of our friends that we have shared it with. I hope it helps you and your marriage, too. There is a book, a teaching, called the...
    bbbboink bbbboink 56-60, M 6 Responses Jan 29

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    I was always taught never to go to bed on a

    cross word. I haven't been married that long but I always tell my husband I love him and thank him for today before I go to sleep. Sometimes I haven't wanted to, sometimes he hasn't replied, sometimes I haven't even felt like I liked him, sometimes I have been hurting beyond...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 17 Responses Aug 3, 2015

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    Long story short, I flat out asked my hubby

    what's going on, does he have someone else... well we talked and I told him he keeps going into a shell and locks me out... he didn't know he was doing that.... one of our probs solved... he's actually talking to me, making jokes and being affectionate.... let's hope it stays...
    Samy27 Samy27 26-30, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    OUR STORY, PART ONE I first laid eyes on M in

    1994 while working my first job after graduating college. I only saw him on occasion because he was a film supplier for the company, but I do remember taking notice of him. Dark complexion, dark brown eyes, jet black hair. He was nice looking, but I was happily married at time...
    BellaLocura BellaLocura 41-45, F 7 Responses a week ago

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 28 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    Hi are the any fun busty ladies reading this

    thread wanna chat? If so fancy messaging me back?
    teddyboylovesboobs teddyboylovesboobs 41-45, M Feb 1

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    It says "If you Hold a Hand of Right Person,

    life will be like a Heaven on Earth" But "if you Hold a Hand of Wrong Person, Life will be like a Hell on Earth" In Fact "In the Initial years , life always find hiccup, issues, road blocks, If you hold on Strong, Life will be smoothest ahead and the person will be the Right...
    wintersecret wintersecret 36-40, M 2 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Hi, I need some advice.

    .. Basically, we don't have a sexual relationship & I'm OK with that because this guy is everything I thought I could never have. He has a really tight foreskin & he's saying he wants to get circumcised. He's Hindu & I don't think it's acceptable in his religion. He's 39 & I don...
    selina1986 selina1986 26-30, F 8 Responses 6 days ago

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    Almost everytime I read a "I'm married"

    experience, it's a negative one ! People, why do you get married ? I would say that it is to spend your life next to the person of your choice ? No ? I am married for 23 years and am now more convinced about my wife than ever. Coming home, after a 13 hour workday, makes me happy...
    AdBlue AdBlue 46-50, M 22 Responses Dec 9, 2015

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    Did I miss the memo that EP was only

    for lonely, bored housewives and cheaters? Can people get any fuller of crap? A woman tells you she doesn't chat privately with me because she's happily married and you go off and accusing her of lying and cheating? Surely there's more than enough players on here that you don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 24 Responses Aug 27, 2015

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    But am really tired of his "maybe" comments

    when I ask about doing something. It's getting old. He has suggested earlier this week about going to the movies this weekend. Now it's just "maybe".. When I ask if he wants to even have some fun with me.. Its" maybe"... That doesn't do my self esteem any good.
    tamanne tamanne 41-45, F 19 Responses Jan 30

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 28 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    I told myself months ago

    that I would stop asking my husband to do things, the rejection became too much. I found out earlier today that our house would be kid free tonight. One more try I thought, for a date night. I have heard him make comments himself about how long its been. I should have known...
    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F 59 Responses Jul 3, 2015

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    PoetPrincess85 PoetPrincess85 26-30, F 20 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Tonight me and emily set aside time to do each

    other's make up. Of course she did the better job but we had fun. She was able to give me pointers and she got to learn how to hide berd shadow. It was such fun I posted pics up of the finished jobs. Then we watched lord of the ring and held hands until she passed out. Tomorrow...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife 26-30, T 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 46-50, F 16 Responses Mar 5, 2015

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    A perfect date night last night.

    Dinner, movie and great sex. Followed by a huge fight today. What the heck, we rarely fight and this one really came out of no where. While things seem to have calmed now, I still feel a little uneasy and upset. Can't wait until these feeling pass.
    GirlGonePostal GirlGonePostal 36-40, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I've just had the most amazing weekend with my

    husband. Like so many others on this site, I found myself spiraling in a direction I never thought possible. Our marriage had lost that excitement. We no longer had the passion, desire or intimacy. We got lost in the day to day stress of life. Work, bills, health problems...
    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Jun 7, 2015

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    My wife cheated on her business trip.

    Truth is a big part of me was turned on.
    txpawglvr txpawglvr 41-45, M 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    *this post relates to my last post on this same

    experience* Well I was holding off talking to my husband about moving for a little bit, but I can't do that now. First thing he did when he came home tonight was mention a apartment that he wants to check out, and we are apparently going Wednesday night to do it. He is in over...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jan 31

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    Yesterday my wife got three bags of clothes

    have to her. So we picked though them and tried on what we liked than passed the rest to my sister. We kept two bags of some truly beautiful things.we were so glad our wardrobe had never been updated in four years. To be honest 8000 per year don't leave much for parents to get...
    SolayTranswife SolayTranswife 26-30, T 1 Response Feb 1

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    Sacrifices I've made to be a mother.

    I had alone time, to craft my goals. I had fun. I loved to sew. I loved my work. I loved people. I danced and enjoyed all kinds of music. I was a health nut, wanted to be better. I went out to enjoy arts, social events ect.... Simply, I loved myself. Well the good news is...
    nancycandy1234567890 nancycandy1234567890 31-35, F 8 Responses 4 days ago

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    OUR STORY, PART THREE After the movie,

    we went back to my house to have a drink and hang out. As much as I wish I could remember our first kiss that night, it is a blur. I do know that we spent the whole night alternating between talking, laughing and making out. We did not make love that night, but fell asleep in...
    BellaLocura BellaLocura 41-45, F 8 Responses 3 days ago

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses May 1, 2015

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    Celebrating 33 years today.

    33 years ago, I was getting back from Mexico about now. Pretty wasted as I remember. A lifetime of pure dumbass mistakes ahead.....but hours away from the best decision I ever made in my entire life. There's a million things I'd change about my life if I could go back...
    Extant1 Extant1 51-55, M 16 Responses Sep 25, 2015

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    But marriage is work.

    Love is an action verb. You get out what you put in. If we stopped dating each other, if we allowed each other to drift apart without noticing because we were preoccupied and, in our minds, "secure" in the fairytale idea that love just exists and lasts forever like some...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Nov 13, 2015

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    I fear my husband might be starting to resent

    me. He spends all of his time and energy working and making money (which he doesn't have to, we have never even come close to danger with our finances; plus, I work). He may resent me because I want to stay in the small town we live in now, but he wants to move to the cities...
    deleted deleted 26-30 30 Responses Jan 28

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    got married a bit over two years back to a

    fantastic older lady who proved to me she wasnt going any where and didnt care if i had or didnt have . she does a job she loves working with kids something i could not do . and thank God for her and those like her , who teach and help raise kids the riht way
    randall1954 randall1954 56-60 2 days ago

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Jan 27, 2015

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 24 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    Effie1991 Effie1991 22-25, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    You know how 'back in the day' they would show

    a couple sitting at the table, him reading a newspaper and her reading a magazine. Both having coffee, not saying a word to each other. Basically, we do the same thing. Except, my Hsbn is using his tablet and I am using my mobile.
    Loren1977 Loren1977 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Looking to chat and waste some time with wife's

    in similar circumstances Wife at work I'm at home. Look forward to hearing from those. 😄
    Curioushubby1 Curioushubby1 36-40, M Jan 29

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    Should "maintaining attractiveness" be part of

    a marriage contract? After 7 years of marriage hubby has gained 25 pounds of fat and looks very different. After 2 kids I weigh the same because I run/strength train 5 times a week. We used to run together he now says he never liked working out actually and basically just gave...
    evolvinggirl evolvinggirl 36-40, F 57 Responses Jun 14, 2015

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    Islander1432 Islander1432 41-45, F 19 Responses Jan 29

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    If you're considering getting married,

    think about this.... When the police are investigating a homicide, they ALWAYS investigate the spouse first..... .....and that pretty much tells you everything you need to know about marriage. :)
    NotHisBabydoll NotHisBabydoll 46-50, F