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    10 years today! Holy crap!

    What a trip! A few months ago I thought I was going to leave. I think staying was the best decision I could have made!
    SaundraMae SaundraMae 26-30, F 11 Responses May 21

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 24 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    Issues33 Issues33 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Feb 5

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    My wife and i love each other

    but not in love anymore. I dont think we are attracted to each other anymore. I guess we stay together primarily for kids who are all in college know. We are just riding it out until they finish i think. She doesnt seem to be interested in having sex and i am.
    bdomino bdomino 46-50 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Did I miss the memo that EP was only

    for lonely, bored housewives and cheaters? Can people get any fuller of crap? A woman tells you she doesn't chat privately with me because she's happily married and you go off and accusing her of lying and cheating? Surely there's more than enough players on here that you don't...
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 31 Responses a week ago

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    Feeling alone & ignored!

    My husband's 1st wife cheated on him twice. After 3 short years as his wife I am starting to understand why. No one wants to feel alone in their marriage. I don't want to cheat. I just want affection & communication from my husband. Sigh
    gingerlife gingerlife 36-40, F 29 Responses Jul 31

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    I just discovered a vibrator today.

    Wow I've been missing a lot. I haven't felt like that in what seems like years. Kinda feel bad cause hubby don't want me to use it. But after 3Months of no sex, I bought it to pleasure myself. He doesn't know.
    deleted deleted 26-30 22 Responses Feb 7

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 6

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    I never really enjoyed sex with any of my ex,

    but lately having sex with my husband makes me feel disgusted, I feel like I'm being raped, and after we done I secretly go and cry in the bathroom. I don't know what's wrong with me. My husband is very gentle when we have sex, I just can't explain why I feel this way, I can't...
    blessmysoul blessmysoul 26-30, F 7 Responses 2 days ago

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    It's a dreary and stormy day out.

    The kids are working puzzles and coloring. I'm doing laundry and working out this semester's lesson plan for homeschool, which we're starting on Sept 8th. Then we'll watch a wholesome movie, have dinner and get ready for bed. And mommy will have a little time for herself while I...
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 9 Responses a week ago

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    I was just finishing up weeding the flower beds

    when my neighbor stopped by. Both of us are retired and both of our wives still work. We talked for a few minutes and I told him I still had some coffee left if he wanted some. We came into the house and he told me his wife had not spoken to him in 4 days. He was telling me his...
    marriedup marriedup 56-60, M 16 Responses Jun 25

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    Ahh.... How I wish for a gentle nibble on my

    neck as you rush home to see me. A nice embrace to compliment the passionate kiss. We tickle each other until we are crying from happiness. I jump on top of you and start wrestling like children. I'll end with a massage from me to you but you also reciprocate. I remember...
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 2 Responses 59 mins ago

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    Damn... this November will make it a full year

    since I complained about the lack of foreplay prior to s&x and hubby getting in the mood when I'm so sleepy. Btw it was 1am. Long story short, I was so turned off-no emotional connection, I wasn't wet. Of course no ******. I wanted it to stop. Okay vent over
    Cotton1234567890 Cotton1234567890 31-35, F 9 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    i am a bi married man .

    I guess ive known it all my life. I am not active in this matter. Any body out there have the same type experience. any advice would be helpful.
    gcmartin1 gcmartin1 51-55, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    Yes, I am very happily married.

    I have been married to one man for 23 years. From our union, we have produced seven children. Some of our children have moved out while some are still at home. A few of our kids are in college and single and others are college educated and married with their own children.
    middleagedfemalemom middleagedfemalemom 46-50, F 12 Responses Jan 30

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    FantasyDreamerWriting FantasyDreamerWriting 26-30, F 20 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Last night, during our date night,

    we saw my ex lover from afar and my husband and I had a conversation that went like this: Me: He used to call me "my princess". Why don't you call me princess? Him: *exasperated sigh* I do call you princess but in other ways. Me: Like what? Him: My Mulan Me: ..... fair enough
    givingtree13 givingtree13 26-30, F 10 Responses a week ago

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    Wouldn't change it for anything.

    I think we're both more in love now than before. We've had our bad times, certainly, but we always work things out before bedtime. I'm so very lucky.
    NerdModeActivate NerdModeActivate 31-35, F 2 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses May 1

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    He is mine and I am his on the good days,

    bad days and always. I can't remember life without him.
    SweetNatalie SweetNatalie 41-45, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Please tell me your ture honest opinion.

    I need feedback. I want to try to keep this short. I am gonna sum it all up. My husband and I have been married for 9 years now. I love him. He loves me. We have 2 kids together and I have 2 from a previous engagement. We have had one horrible thing after another happen to us...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 16 Responses 3 days ago

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    in the mood for something romantic kinky x rated

    but I know the truth will never happen so just a thought that pass thru my mind
    tsolos tsolos 26-30, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 21 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 30 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    I need some opinions here.

    . I text married ladies who are not in a healthy marriage and I sometimes feel guilty about it .. even thought they ask for it sometimes..
    pirlo07 pirlo07 22-25, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    But unhappy. I told my husband today

    that I want to move out when the kids are grown. I want to live in my own place on my own. He said we can make it happen sooner if I want. Confirmation that this marriage is over.
    deleted deleted 26-30 37 Responses Jan 9

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    A few days ago I wrote a post in group called,

    I Need to Vent because I really needed to express some frustrations about my husband and my marriage. It felt really good to express how I felt and get a lot of feedback from people here that had similar experiences, advice, general comments and so forth. A few of the comments...
    MrsKat78 MrsKat78 36-40, F 24 Responses 6 days ago

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    I told myself months ago

    that I would stop asking my husband to do things, the rejection became too much. I found out earlier today that our house would be kid free tonight. One more try I thought, for a date night. I have heard him make comments himself about how long its been. I should have known...
    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F 63 Responses Jul 3

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 31 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    When your husband says he's coming back late

    or sleeping over at a friend's place. I don't know what to make of this. Especially because two days ago I found chats between him and another girl. The confrontation went really bad. Him being defensive and spinning everything against me. I'm not even sure how I feel about him...
    Cocopunch Cocopunch 26-30, F 20 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    I've just had the most amazing weekend with my

    husband. Like so many others on this site, I found myself spiraling in a direction I never thought possible. Our marriage had lost that excitement. We no longer had the passion, desire or intimacy. We got lost in the day to day stress of life. Work, bills, health problems...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jun 7

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    I have been married for 2 years now

    and I love it! I know no relationship is perfect but I do not know where I'd be without him!
    liztee55 liztee55 22-25, F 3 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    Should "maintaining attractiveness" be part of

    a marriage contract? After 7 years of marriage hubby has gained 25 pounds of fat and looks very different. After 2 kids I weigh the same because I run/strength train 5 times a week. We used to run together he now says he never liked working out actually and basically just gave...
    evolvinggirl evolvinggirl 36-40, F 62 Responses Jun 14

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    I was always taught never to go to bed on a

    cross word. I haven't been married that long but I always tell my husband I love him and thank him for today before I go to sleep. Sometimes I haven't wanted to, sometimes he hasn't replied, sometimes I haven't even felt like I liked him, sometimes I have been hurting beyond...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 21 Responses Aug 3

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    I cannot wait to have a blissfully long weekend

    with my hubby. Yard work and swimming tomorrow, church picnic after services Sunday and then a cookout Monday. My husband is a honest to goodness, all-around family man. He loves spending time with his wife and children and doesn't let anything but get in the way of his role of...
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 4 Responses 42 mins ago

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 46-50, F 17 Responses Mar 5

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    tonight a friend revealed to me the reason

    why she is getting divorced after 10 years of marriage...she told me she felt passionless and bored...I kind of kept quiet as this is something that I can relate to, but I immediately felt sad that they weren't going to do anything but just divorce. After everything was said...
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    in 7 days I will be married to my beautiful wife

    for 23 years....damn good woman
    rumdrunk rumdrunk 41-45, M 15 Responses 4 hrs ago

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    I love it when he calls me just to hear my voice

    because he misses me. The way he holds me like he can't make himself let go. The kisses that are still as goosebump inducing as they were 18 years ago. I love that people ask us what our secret is to being perpetual newly weds, even after 15 years of marriage and 2 kids (and 2...
    TheLittleMrsRidesAgain TheLittleMrsRidesAgain 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 27

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    My other half was really tired last night (gets

    a droopy eye and is extremely grumpy). He was horrible to me all night, I haven't been feeling well lately and just wanted some re-assurance and some kind words. He sits watching the telly with the house a mess for hours. I come in from work and instantly have to start...
    knottyknitty knottyknitty 31-35, F 11 Responses 5 days ago

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    But probably not for much longer.

    I got in a small spat with my husband two nights ago, he hasn't talked to me since. Now I see on the find my friends app that he is staying at a hotel tonight, didn't bother to text that he wouldn't be home. He's a recovering alcoholic, and I know in my gut there's a bottle of...
    danteflorz danteflorz 31-35, F 4 Responses 22 hrs ago

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    I just want to put it out there.

    I am HAPPILY married to a very loving and supportive man. He is my rock, and my best friend. I would never even think of doing anything to hurt him. Others may not think he's attractive but he's hot and sexy in my eyes. Neither one of us would ever have eyes for another. We...
    Lotusflower80 Lotusflower80 31-35, F 11 Responses a week ago

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    "If you're not happy

    as an individual or satisfied with your inner self, then don't expect to be happy when you're married. It is most ignorant to expect a spouse to make you happy when you can't even find the sense of wholesomeness, joy and peace in your own heart." - A good friend
    givingtree13 givingtree13 26-30, F 16 Responses 6 days ago

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    Full moons were meant to be spent alone,

    I think. We couldn't sleep, so we started to talk about big, stupid, hypothetical questions, just to play with ideas until we felt tired. And things led, as they always did, to him getting withdrawn and hurt, me kicking myself for opening my mouth in the first place, and both of...
    Searchingformyshalom Searchingformyshalom 22-25, F 7 Responses 6 days ago