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    Friday I was here complaining (

    while I was really in the dumps) about feeling lonely. I got some really good advice. I talked to my husband which led to very loud talking, well yelling. That led to some really great rough angry sex. That was a first for us. Did I mention it was great? Anyways in the morning...
    gingerlife gingerlife 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Should "maintaining attractiveness" be part of

    a marriage contract? After 7 years of marriage hubby has gained 25 pounds of fat and looks very different. After 2 kids I weigh the same because I run/strength train 5 times a week. We used to run together he now says he never liked working out actually and basically just gave...
    evolvinggirl evolvinggirl 36-40, F 65 Responses Jun 14

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    Tonight I could have grilled

    but this week i have already done pork chops twice, chicken thighs, and a New York ***** steak Wife is a vegetarian. She eats nothing that had a head, so all that meat was for moi. I feel grilled tuna steaks coming up. Tonight, Pizza!!!
    BuckeyeBill48 BuckeyeBill48 66-70, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My place in this alienated world

    I'm married and I don't live in a sexless marriage.I have a family and I'm happy with what I have.I'm not on EP to be anybody's father or mother ; don't need a romance or any kind of cyber sex.I can't help anybody who is too stubborn to accept the truth,no matter how brutal the...
    SaintMaj SaintMaj 36-40, M 26 Responses Aug 13, 2011

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    finally opened to my husband about how he made

    me feel about my weight. i told him that he stopped calling my beautiful and pretty. i missed the romantic part of him from when we were high school. i told him i didnt feel valued because sometimes. he would talk about a woman's booty and i can hide emotions so he couldnt tell...
    ladytasia92 ladytasia92 22-25, F 6 Responses 4 days ago

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    kevacy kevacy 46-50, M 6 Responses 1 day ago

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    Dear wife, I know your confused,

    I know your troubled, I know your not happy. I only wish I could fix it all for you. I wish I could get out my tools and make it all better. But I understand that I cannot. As much as it hurts my souls to know my angle is battling with such turmoil and uncertainty. The more...
    Troutflies Troutflies 41-45, M 14 Responses Oct 24, 2014

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    and also pregnant. I've lost my sex drive

    and I feel so bad for hubs. I just feel so unattractive right now.
    cutenameleon3 cutenameleon3 18-21, F 7 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    TooInnocent333 TooInnocent333 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I married the man of my dreams two years ago.

    It was perfect, honestly. We met in college when I was eighteen and he was twenty-three. We dated for two years before he finally popped the question. During that time, we bought a house together, graduated from college, moved our childhood pets into the house, discussed baby...
    lottisian lottisian 22-25, F 21 Responses Jul 16, 2014

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    I need someone to share things with.

    My husband has neither the time nor the energy - or inclination - to engage with me about the photos I take, songs I listen to, articles I read. I have an active inner life but need a partner, a sounding board, someone with whom I could have that intellectual back-and-forth that...
    katkinz katkinz 46-50, F 18 Responses Mar 5

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    There is nothing sexier

    than a man who knows when to be firm and when to gentle. A man who can still make you blush after 18 years together. A man who, no matter how busy and successful, still takes time to play Legos with the kids and snuggle with the wife. He finishes my sentences. He can read my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses May 1

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    me and wife been fantasizing about swinging

    from ten or more years. in those ten years she developed a habbit and she get addicted to role play where I have sex with her as some imaginary man. it could be doctor taxi driver etc etc etc. in role we imagine she having sex in front of me . but if we play role in which I am...
    canada7674 canada7674 36-40, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am happily married.

    I just really enjoy talking to people online because my anxiety prevents me from talking to new people in person. I feel more comfortable talking and being honest when it's not face to face.
    FantasyDreamerWriting FantasyDreamerWriting 26-30, F 21 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    There are numerous older men in the world

    who are single and seeking someone special in their life. For all such men, AgeMeet.com has been created as a reliable online platform to find women for dating and companionship. The spokesperson reports that many older men have started finding perfect companions through their...
    amelcc11 amelcc11 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am very much married

    for 12 years now! No kids and I don't know if it will happen soon to Have kids. Sexless? yes! Due of medication and our age gap. Do I mind? Sometime! But when you love someone! And you bow for marriage for better or worse till death do as part then do your promise. Unless your...
    Oceandock19 Oceandock19 41-45, F 25 Responses Jan 4, 2014

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    I just got married Saturday

    and I'm in Hawaii for a honeymoon. I hope I'm with my husband until death
    loveylaura loveylaura 26-30, F 31 Responses Sep 17, 2014

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    So sorry, babe. It MUST be my fault

    that we had to move the car at the drive-in theatre to the back row because it was too tall for the middle. You were surely in the right to take it out on me in front of our daughter. By all means, cool off with yet another double cheeseburger with fries for your 300 lb frame...
    danteflorz danteflorz 31-35, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    It's good. Been getting along pretty well

    lately. Sorry to busy for a whole story
    stufy stufy 46-50 1 Response 4 days ago

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    10 years today! Holy crap!

    What a trip! A few months ago I thought I was going to leave. I think staying was the best decision I could have made!
    saundra04 saundra04 26-30, F 11 Responses May 21

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    Update.. We talked and talked

    and talked and we have worked it out. We didn't have ground rules set for our experience and it caused problems. Now we know.... Thanks everybody!!!
    lovetolive1 lovetolive1 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    I love my husband so much.

    I love that he can sense my needs without me even saying a word. That he can look at me and make my heart flutter, even after 17 years. Love and instinct, a bond stronger than words. He is my soul mate, my lover, and my best friend. I thank God every day for him.
    deleted deleted 26-30 21 Responses Jan 27

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    I've just had the most amazing weekend with my

    husband. Like so many others on this site, I found myself spiraling in a direction I never thought possible. Our marriage had lost that excitement. We no longer had the passion, desire or intimacy. We got lost in the day to day stress of life. Work, bills, health problems...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jun 7

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    But unhappy. I told my husband today

    that I want to move out when the kids are grown. I want to live in my own place on my own. He said we can make it happen sooner if I want. Confirmation that this marriage is over.
    deleted deleted 26-30 38 Responses Jan 9

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    When I quit my career

    and became a full time wife (and then a mother a few years down the road), taking care of my husband an my home became my job. If my husband goes to work every day, 60-70 hours a week to provide for us, should i complain about doing it all at home? It is my job to cook, keep a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 27 Responses Jan 6

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    I married my prince charming yesterday!

    Today we travel to Houston and tomorrow morning we board a plane for the Caribbean. I jokingly said to my mother that I don't know what I'm going to do with my life now. For over a year I have been consumed with planning a wedding!
    OMGitsRiley OMGitsRiley 26-30, F 13 Responses 2 days ago

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    My wife asked me a while ago

    if I would've married even if my parents didn't like her. I said, "Yeah, I would. I follow my heart, not theirs." Then she said, "Okay, now ask me." So I asked her. She laughed dismissively and said, "Pff. My parents don't like you!" Turning the tables, I replied, "But you...
    KarlKadaver KarlKadaver 31-35, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I love my husband so much

    and I'm very glad that I married him last year.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty 31-35, F 15 Responses Feb 25

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    I told myself months ago

    that I would stop asking my husband to do things, the rejection became too much. I found out earlier today that our house would be kid free tonight. One more try I thought, for a date night. I have heard him make comments himself about how long its been. I should have known...
    txbtrfly txbtrfly 41-45, F 64 Responses Jul 3

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    Is it a bad sign that.

    ..My husband has been out of town for over a week and I am loving every minute alone with my 3 year old son and wish my husband could stay out of town longer? It's soooooo much less stressful with him gone.
    lifesgoodbut lifesgoodbut 36-40, F 25 Responses Sep 14, 2014

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    I am very sexual and like being around women

    who aren't afraid of expressing themselves.
    Onamission1962 Onamission1962 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Feb 5

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    2nd marriage..far harder then the first.

    lots of lieing, miscommunication or lack there of, disrespect, little sex and we don't sleep in the same bed. grass is not greener.
    raejoy raejoy 36-40, F 7 Responses 3 days ago

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    My wife and I have been married

    for 32 years and our relationship may be the best it's ever been. I had a friend say, not long ago, that I talk about my wife like we are newly weds (I guess I do). The thing I want people to understand is that while we enjoy a great marriage now, that has not always been the...
    Texaspumper Texaspumper 51-55, M 31 Responses Sep 25, 2014

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    Feeling alone & ignored!

    My husband's 1st wife cheated on him twice. After 3 short years as his wife I am starting to understand why. No one wants to feel alone in their marriage. I don't want to cheat. I just want affection & communication from my husband. Sigh
    gingerlife gingerlife 36-40, F 33 Responses 4 days ago

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    JennyTom JennyTom 36-40, F 11 Responses Mar 6

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    tx2stepper2013 tx2stepper2013 41-45, M 43 Responses Jul 5

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    I was always taught never to go to bed on a

    cross word. I haven't been married that long but I always tell my husband I love him and thank him for today before I go to sleep. Sometimes I haven't wanted to, sometimes he hasn't replied, sometimes I haven't even felt like I liked him, sometimes I have been hurting beyond...
    GalateaSpheres GalateaSpheres 36-40, F 24 Responses 1 day ago

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    I just discovered a vibrator today.

    Wow I've been missing a lot. I haven't felt like that in what seems like years. Kinda feel bad cause hubby don't want me to use it. But after 3Months of no sex, I bought it to pleasure myself. He doesn't know.
    nancylu1234567890 nancylu1234567890 26-30, F 24 Responses Feb 7

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    after I came back from my run,

    I asked my husband if he wanted to "fool around".. rarely is he up for it... but it turned out good!
    jbm1984 jbm1984 31-35, F 36 Responses Dec 11, 2014

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    bighurt1900 bighurt1900 26-30, M 9 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's a normal night here.

    Watching baseball on TV in the den. Playing on laptop. Wife is in sunroom watching one of her girly shows with her iPad in her hands. Shopping for comfortable shoes more than likely. Will be visiting her sister in NYC soon walking the city and museums. Any suggestions what I...
    BuckeyeBill48 BuckeyeBill48 66-70, M 3 days ago

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    But never know if I'm with the right person.

    I'm 40, actually. Be honest, how many people just tell themselves "I must be with the right person"
    cujo0807 cujo0807 31-35 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    So my wife and I have fought/debated about $ at

    different times throughout our relationship. Generally I'm rigid when it comes to a budget and monetary goals and she is really flexible. At the end of Last year I started a new job. In an effort to save more $, I decided to direct deposit a small amount of $, about $500/month...
    doc6294 doc6294 26-30, M 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    This crazy cat lady has a crazy cat man,

    just so there's no confusion
    7lulu 7lulu 41-45, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was just finishing up weeding the flower beds

    when my neighbor stopped by. Both of us are retired and both of our wives still work. We talked for a few minutes and I told him I still had some coffee left if he wanted some. We came into the house and he told me his wife had not spoken to him in 4 days. He was telling me his...
    marriedup marriedup 56-60, M 16 Responses Jun 25

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