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I Am Me, Deal With It

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    Finally!

    It has taken me a long time to be happy with who I am - and I still have days where I struggle with it...I see all of my flaws and I see where I am not good enough...when people dont treat me right I have always assumed that it was a fault in me. Friends disappear and I wonder...
    Flugelblues Flugelblues 31-35, F 5 Responses Dec 5, 2008

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    This Is Me

    I am a true Scorpio woman. I am out going, easy gong natured, but with a cold edged side. I can be colder than ice if crossed, if angered, it is raw, cold and scary. i am out spoken, not scared to speak my mind, stand up for ones who cannot do it for them selves, protect the...
    SassyBabe39 SassyBabe39 41-45, F May 10, 2012

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    I Stand Alone

    In my battle of life, I constantly battle my families past. No matter where I go my past comes back to haunt me. People always come to me for help, I honestly don't know why. I'm just another teenager trying to figure out who I am, so why do people expect me to help them with...
    Methos4000 Methos4000 13-15, M Feb 11, 2013

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    Im Still Standing

    I feel like everyday i'm attacked with waves of homework, drama, Judgement, Ridicule, and abuse. Even after these constant waves of attacks... I'm still standing. I feel like I'm barely scratching the surface. I'm succeeding for ow. My girlfriend and I's relationship is improving...
    Methos4000 Methos4000 13-15, M Feb 15, 2013

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    What Did You Expect?

    Was I supposed to be something I'm not?
    Ichilicious Ichilicious 22-25, M Nov 30, 2011

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    Me Is The Only Way To Be

    I am me and that's never going to ******* change.  I swear a lot, I drink a lot and I can be rather rude at times.I'm not about to change for anyone, I shouldn't have to.   I'd never ask someone to change for me.I don't get it when people comment on how anyone is acting.I...
    RagingSkillet RagingSkillet 31-35, M 2 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    I Am Me

    I am me People have nothing good to say about me People are afraid of me I don't know what my girlfriend sees in me I don't know what people hate about me I don't know what I hate about me When people need advice or help they come to me When "Queen" sings the song "Who wants to...
    Methos4000 Methos4000 13-15, M Feb 7, 2013

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    For Better Or For Worse

     I think that this group's name works in two ways while still dealing with the same person. I am me. Others have to deal with it, and so do I. So I think this group isn't necessarily just for people who are happy with themselves all the time, but for those who accept that...
    Jenniedvm Jenniedvm 18-21, F Dec 5, 2008

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    Tough Luck

    The stories and blogs you read here on EP, in my profile, are pure me. If you're one of the narrow minded bigots I rant against, tough ****. I don't like bigots, racists, sexists or wife beaters. If you're a wife beater, and I see you doing it, I won't just stand there. Oh, no...
    IanMatthew IanMatthew 56-60, M Oct 28, 2010

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    Never Fake

    I might be out there but Im real. If you dont like me without knowing me you did me a favor by weeding yourself out of my life right away. I dont care what people think as long as I know Iv done the right things and been a good person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 16, 2011

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    I'm Me

    There is nothing wrong with someone being themselves.Thats the greatest beauty.
    kime kime 16-17, F Dec 4, 2008

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    I Am Me..

    In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me - everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone choose it - I own everything about me - my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or to myself - I own my...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Oct 9, 2013

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    It's All About Me

    I Am Me, Deal With It!Just Sayin'
    JimMorrisonRocks JimMorrisonRocks 26-30, M Sep 18, 2012

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    I Am Me !!!

    I am unique, an irreplaceable human being. The first me and the last. I am God's creature, no one will ever replace me. I'm not wealthy but guess what, i'm happy because God takes care of me. You may hate me, but it makes no difference to my life because You are not my Maker and...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M Oct 9, 2013

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    Me..

    Im  me  yes very true about  any one  but still many  wont realise  it however  i m  totally  satisfied  with  what  i m   .
    shap36 shap36 41-45, M 1 Response Jan 24, 2011

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    I'm Tired Of People Telling Me To Change...

    If I wanted to change don't you think I would've done it a long time ago! People are just mad because I have a backbone and that's something they fear from me because they know I'm not afraid of them or afraid to speak up about something they've done to wrong me. I don't change...
    Val3ntine Val3ntine 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 31, 2010

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