I Am Missing Intimacy and Romance

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 408 People

    On average would you say intimacy

    and romance lasts about a year or two from the beginning of a relationship? Once kids come along everything becomes a chore. All the romance fades into the distance never to be seen again. Isn't that why so many ppl have affairs to feel that passion again the spark the sweet...
    jakboom jakboom
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Jun 14, 2014

    I miss intimacy...I have a desire

    for every inch of you...the smell of your breathe on my needing lips,the taste of you under the covers,and your voice rummaging through every vein in my body!!! Romance...oh I miss your kind and gentle touch of you kissing my forehead...holding me as though you had to protect me...
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Oct 9, 2015

    Missing Half Of Me...

    i am looking for advice on how to deal with the lack of intimacy for the next year. Mark and I didnt, or dont need constant physical intimacy to know that we love the other person, but i have no clue how to deal with the loss of the physical, mental and emotional intimacy. It's...
    bjr331 bjr331
    1 Response Jun 26, 2010

    It's been two months,

    but in the meantime I will be just fine that time will come there's a season behind every reason to everything :) I know he's out there and he will romance until sunrise ahhhhhh!
    freespiritgal2777 freespiritgal2777
    26-30, F
    Feb 28, 2014

    I have been with my husband

    for 14 years married for 7 years and the romance has definitely gone. We do have sex probably 2-5 times a month but I long for something more. I blame both of us because it's so easy to just get comfortable and in a routine. I just miss that feeling you get in your stomach/chest...
    Slackergirl Slackergirl
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Feb 13, 2015

    Ever take a nap n all you can think about is

    who's not next to you? I can go get a woman to fill that space but I know she will leave me empty and more alone.....I just miss intimacy. Just staring into another set of eyes.....feeling her hair brush my neck.....Smell her fragrance n drift away........
    MostArdently MostArdently
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 4, 2014

    It's been a [long] while.

    I miss being held, told I'm beautiful, and the random acts of love. I miss it all 😔
    143ily 143ily
    26-30, F
    9 Responses Feb 28, 2014

    True enough. Moments shared.

    In jokes. Fingers entwined with yours. Loving touches in public. Intimate touches in private. The whispering of sweet nothing's and a nibble on the ear afterwards. A hand in the small of your back. The head on your shoulder at the end of a long day. The cuddles in times of...
    picklebobble picklebobble
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Feb 14, 2015
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