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I Am Missing My Deployed Husband

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

     By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or long letters or emails from...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M Jan 30, 2010

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    Deployed Navy Husband

    Hi Everyone, I thought I would join this group to gain support from other men and women that understand what I am going through. I miss my husband dearly. This is our first deployment (deployed last week). We're usually apart, I go to college and will join in May while he...
    fave0820 fave0820 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    It's so sad when her dad is away

    and she knocks on the door calling him hoping he will open the door and carry her like he always does :/
    armywife42 armywife42 18-21, F Jun 23

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    My Husband Just Left Here to Go Back to Afghan From R and T

    Here i am sitting here going crazy my hubby left here 2 days ago to go back to afghan and i am going crazy i have not heard a word from him and i think that is the hardest part if he was to call i would be ok but since he has not i have been losing my mind it feels like him...
    monabkr monabkr 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2009

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    Is Reenlisting Worth The Financial Perks?

    My husband is deployed. He has been with the Army for about five years and has to decide whether or not to re-up for another six. The benefit would be $10k tax free but also another deployment. There are many pros and cons. Money being the biggest pro and possibly losing his life...
    kd146 kd146 26-30, F Dec 8, 2012

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    My Husband Just Deployed To Iraq

    hi my name is joanne and i am trying to deal with my husband deploying. see i am in the army as well but we had a big suprise.....we are having a little girl!!! but i dont know how i am going to deal with everything i guess i am just nervous. but ill get to my point i just want...
    kentfamily113 kentfamily113 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Missing him a lot tonight, just read a chapter in my book about a wife who sent her husband gummy bears in all of his care packages because of an inside joke between them. I sent...
    callijojohnson callijojohnson 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    I've been with my husband since I was 18. We met our freshman year of college and have been together ever since. I love him, but I feel like the relationship has gone on longer...
    ejb245 ejb245 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    So my bf was deployed on Thursday, I had spent a rediculous amount of time making him "open when" letters since he had told me we wouldn't be able to talk while he was away. I went...
    callijojohnson callijojohnson 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Because we are going on vacation he has been working way more than usual and tonight he doesn't get off until way late. So now I'm stuck missing him :-(
    AmaiXAshuri AmaiXAshuri 26-30, F a week ago

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    I really can't explain how it feels to miss someone. I wouldn't explain it as a "hole in your chest" or a "a place missing from your heart" because it is not something you feel all...
    MRLittonPalmer MRLittonPalmer 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    or someone. when i'm leaving home i always had this feelng of emptiness, something's not with me that i should had, something's missing and i kept thinking what it is or is it...
    lachrymosejessa lachrymosejessa 13-15, F Jul 4

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    I feel I am missing something from life. I try to fill this empty void with a multitude of distractions but at the end of the day. The same feeling of emptiness. It makes me...
    anom33 anom33 16-17, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Missing someone... A lot ❤
    targetgurl targetgurl 13-15, F Jul 3

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    Not only can I not stop missing her... The lies and everything. I pit so much in the relationship just to have it torn apart. It was my last fight to change my life. I had...
    lostunit lostunit 26-30, M Jul 3

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    I love talking to him so much. It's like a high and a warmth and glow all at once. I smile uncontrollably when we talk. He just changes my mood for the better in an instant. But we...
    ImDeadSoon ImDeadSoon 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    hello my name is shamterius stubbs i have a cousin name kierra stubbs she 23 years old and she was kidnapped in april .Its goin on 3months now ... Im writing this to every person...
    lilbit18 lilbit18 18-21, F Jul 9

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    I am definitely missing my boyfriend! for some reason today i missed him a lot more than usual.. time please go by a lottle quicker!
    siimplyyliiz siimplyyliiz 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Can you feel me When I think about you When my whole being Is missing you Can you
    Lexi2014 Lexi2014 41-45, F Jul 12

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    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I am missing my new friend...
    sleria31 sleria31 22-25, F Jul 18

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    i felt so empty. i didn't know what was missing out of my life. i felt so lonely. I felt so different from everyone else because i see things so differently. i was ready to give up...
    bongripsandacidtrips bongripsandacidtrips 16-17, F Jul 18

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    I feel like something is missing from my life,I don't know if it's the warmth of a lover or am I craving for love..? For someone to tell me they love me and will never hurt me like...
    cocoastrawberry cocoastrawberry 18-21, F Jul 20

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    Ever wake up with a dream so real, it's like you can still smell him, still feel his touch lingering on you, only to look next you and find an empty bed, and you close your eyes...
    themarineproject themarineproject 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    The person I am missing is a wonderful human being. Her presence can brighten up my day. She is kind and has a big heart. We get along great. We are so much alike, but have enough...
    ArnoldTex ArnoldTex 22-25, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Times like these is when you understood me the most, I miss those days with you ..I had you as my diary, anything I want to say I'd come to you.. you had me the same way too.. we...
    Starz93 Starz93 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm missing you so much. You were my best friend, my confidante, you were my everything. I am thankful for the time I had you here and for all the important things in life you...
    greeneyedlady72 greeneyedlady72 41-45, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    It’s been 12 years since I married my Muslim husband and the road has truly been long and winding, but happy. At the time we got married I was Catholic and had no intention of...
    nuruldeen nuruldeen 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    WHY U ANGRY WITH ME MORE WHY U REMEMBER MY PAST U SAY TO ME FOR DELETE EVERYTHING BUT U ANGRY WITH TOMORROW HERE EID I DON'T KNOW WHAT I DO I WILL NOT CELEBRATE EID IF U WILL...
    AKIDIRANY AKIDIRANY 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Totally missing someone right now. Thought things were going well, but now not sure. Either way I wish her all the best.
    shygirl2014 shygirl2014 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    Really am missing someone.... Distance does make the heart grow fonder.. Just a little distance though. Too much distance makes the heart go yonder ;)
    Mysticme Mysticme 26-30, F 18 hrs ago

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    I don't even know where to begin. First of all me and my husband have 21 grandchildren and he is only partial to a few of them...the rest he is indifferent but to this one...
    LavondaCausey LavondaCausey 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 1

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    Well I flew to California to visit my parents. My mom threw me a baby shower. It was lovely . We didnt talk much about my husband...I didn't blame her. She wanted to keep the mood...
    melguzman21 melguzman21 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    I can't stand being apart from him, mostly when we are away from home. Him being at work doesn't bother me if I'm in the comfort of my own home. I don't particularly like going to...
    brittanys13 brittanys13 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    My husband is such a jerk .I I hate his sisters husband and so does everyone that I know this jerk is very disrepectful to me disrepectful twords my family , this thing is the...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    My mother-in-law recently became incapacitated. She is elderly and was just hospitalized. I spent three days with my husband and other family members at the hospital. I get along...
    kt65 kt65 46-50 1 Response Jul 7

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    I cheated on my husband, then i left him. He was mean, and I'm tired of repeating the details, but by mean I intend to say that he fits into many of the descriptors of an...
    Regrets472 Regrets472 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    I have to get this off my chest or I will explode. My husband and I have been married several years. I had a child from a previous relationship, and we had two together. I always...
    nwhermit nwhermit 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 2

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    My husbands affair last year has been the worst thing ever to happen to me. Even the loss of my dear lovely mum couldn't compare to his affair. You see he was the perfect husband...
    Mylifesover Mylifesover 46-50 3 Responses Jul 5

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    I just really need to get this off of my chest. My husband of four years and I recently switched to progressive insurance and signed up for snap shot. Little did I know that that...
    mills1126 mills1126 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 7

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    Today I got this really strange phone call from a woman and all she said was HAPPY BIRTHDAY. It was my husband's birthday yesterday. I think my husband might be cheating on me with...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    My name is Ryan, i love in a sexless marrage. If you havent guessed I'm gay and been arried for ruffly 5 months now and I have had sex just a gathering of 5 times since Feb 28th...
    RY0RY RY0RY 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 2

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    My husband and I have been married for 10 years but we've been together for 15. During our marriage, he cheated on me twice with two different women. The first woman he actually...
    futureexwife14 futureexwife14 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 3

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    Tonight is another example of how my husband is showing me that he does not want to be married and/or have a family. He was supposed to come home for dinner. Then he calls me to...
    wendymrtns wendymrtns 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Hi all. I'm just having a really hard time today- I normally just read and read on this site and it helps me alot. I decided to speak up today. I miss my husband so much I want...
    Racquel34 Racquel34 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Husbands sponsor just dropped him. We are super sad over this :( He dropped him because he told my husband they couldn't do step 5 until August! And he wanted to do it now, so he...
    wheelsxoxo wheelsxoxo 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    My husband and I have been in a relationship for ten years. I was 17 and he was 24. We have always been so attached to each and so much in love. We were best friends and told each...
    ramonap1990 ramonap1990 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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