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I Am Missing My Deployed Husband

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    Deployed Navy Husband

    Hi Everyone, I thought I would join this group to gain support from other men and women that understand what I am going through. I miss my husband dearly. This is our first deployment (deployed last week). We're usually apart, I go to college and will join in May while he...
    fave0820 fave0820 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    Is Reenlisting Worth The Financial Perks?

    My husband is deployed. He has been with the Army for about five years and has to decide whether or not to re-up for another six. The benefit would be $10k tax free but also another deployment. There are many pros and cons. Money being the biggest pro and possibly losing his life...
    kd146 kd146 26-30, F Dec 8, 2012

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    My Husband Just Deployed To Iraq

    hi my name is joanne and i am trying to deal with my husband deploying. see i am in the army as well but we had a big suprise.....we are having a little girl!!! but i dont know how i am going to deal with everything i guess i am just nervous. but ill get to my point i just want...
    kentfamily113 kentfamily113 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

     By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or long letters or emails from...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M Jan 30, 2010

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    My Husband Just Left Here to Go Back to Afghan From R and T

    Here i am sitting here going crazy my hubby left here 2 days ago to go back to afghan and i am going crazy i have not heard a word from him and i think that is the hardest part if he was to call i would be ok but since he has not i have been losing my mind it feels like him...
    monabkr monabkr 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2009

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    Well sentencing is Friday. They took him back into custody last Wednesday. I'm scared to death! He has done a few jail runs, but now he is facing 18-22 months. I know that's...
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    My husband just deployed recently. I'm worried sick and miss him so much. I have so many fears like what if he doesn't want me when he comes back? What if something happens to him...
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    ok, am so relieved i have a space where i can share my story without any fear. i haven't shared any bit of it ever since the beginning. we have been married for 8 yrs and have a 2...
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    My husband has been drinking every single day for the last 17 years. I can count on one hand the number of days he has gone without drinking in the last 10 years. Two months ago I...
    MrsElizabeth MrsElizabeth 31-35, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I want to start out saying that I love and care about my husband, but he has been driving me crazy with what I consider selfishness lately. We have been together for 7 years and...
    cmsjay cmsjay 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 5

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    Why do I still try??? I catch him in lie after lie. He won't confess to anything unless he can see I'm not going to get over it, then he confesses to the minimum necessary to shut...
    Mrs1105 Mrs1105 18-21, F 32 Responses 3 days ago

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    "Missing You" Every time I think of you I always catch my breath And I'm still standing here and you're miles away And I'm wondering why you left And there's a storm that's...
    jml2000 jml2000 56-60, M 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Arrested For An Abduction That NEVER Happened-My mother split from my stepfather after ten years almost 15 years ago. A custody battle ensued. Not between the two of them though...
    DiamondsEldest DiamondsEldest 26-30 Mar 25

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    I hear all of these ladies talking bout their men in county jails for months and they are about to be released later this yr or next and my baby had been in there for...
    leilainwaiting leilainwaiting 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 2

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    Our anniversary is Tuesday, and we can't see other, so I am missing him. I remember the doctor telling him that he is dying, and even through his pain, he was smiling at me. I...
    Steph0415 Steph0415 41-45, F 3 Responses Apr 13

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    Hello you guys so I'm LeeAnn and I'm new to this whole blog thing. But I found out I was pregnant on 4/2/14 and my boyfriend went to Jail yesterday 4/3/14 for possibly 6 years. I...
    LeeAnn254 LeeAnn254 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Somethings just ... wrong. I feel like a huge chunk of my life is missing and my heart has a huge flipping hole in it. I go day to day feeling so sad. Lonely, even. I feel like I'm...
    Silv3rstarz Silv3rstarz 26-30, F Apr 5

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    Have you ever wonder what would it feels like to miss someone today and everyday? Like this time it's not just today you will miss him/her. It's going to be everyday from now...
    Mininyaa Mininyaa 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Lately I feel like I am just missing out some something. Life. Adventure. Happiness. Something. And its killing me. I just feel empty and I just need something to distract me...
    quinnandsuch quinnandsuch 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My second year of college is coming to a close and I feel like I still haven't started the college experience. As far as academics goes, yes of course but the personal side has...
    Shygirl917 Shygirl917 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 27

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    I'm not really stressed but I feel like I am. Changes are on-going and I'm dealing with them like a child. I'll skip the details, I just want to let this out. Again, I am missing...
    kixisback kixisback 22-25 Mar 30

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    i cannot remember the last time i woke up and not having to desperately figure out whats missing. its exhausting.
    delacruz88 delacruz88 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 30

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    So sad....Cant take the pain of missing someone...Cant take to tear up whenever I think of something we usually do...Cant smile fully because everything has change...Cant take...
    drose01 drose01 13-15, F Apr 3

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    We met because I started working at a university in a new city and he was my supervisor. After two weeks there we slept together and I became pregnant with twins. When I told him...
    valkyriebird valkyriebird 36-40 Apr 3

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    It's missing from our union. I finally admitted to myself last night that I had done all I could do to make it work. What a sad, yet absolutely necessary release. Not going to...
    lostludite lostludite 31-35, F Apr 3

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    Hey found this accidentally....would love to chat. 25th birthday was yesterday. Still feels like there's still lots missing in my life. Is this how it always is gonna be?
    stephens1989 stephens1989 22-25, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    For the past few years now, well ever since I was a child, I was too mature for my age, and was always around people older than me. I felt like I've always been empty. I was...
    MaisieM MaisieM 13-15, F Apr 5

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    Her name is Alice. I live in Albuquerque,NM area code 87114. She's deathly allergic to chicken. She went missing out of my backyard yesterday morning (4/4/14). She's technically a...
    JayyPsythe JayyPsythe 13-15, M Apr 5

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    I feel like a part of my passion is gone. I feel something missing... someone I really cared about blocked me out of their life. I don't feel the same. I feel angry. I feel...
    wackywoman wackywoman 26-30 1 Response Apr 7

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    No matter, what I am doing with my life, or who is in my life, I always feel like there is something missing, or something holding me back from doing something great. I can't shake...
    NYSlilAngel NYSlilAngel 26-30, F Apr 7

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    Not all the time but sometimes I do feel like something is missing
    carolinam96 carolinam96 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 8

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    I live in a pretty good family. But i allways feel like im missing something. My mom is the nicest human being. My dad helps me and buys me things that I want, but somehow i still...
    alexandra1539 alexandra1539 13-15, F 5 Responses Apr 9

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    I KNOW a part of me is missing, and I'll tell you why. Here's to anyone who has ever dealt with loss of a family member or loved one through death. I know 3 out of 5 people will...
    Jockey0321 Jockey0321 22-25, F Apr 9

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    I've had someone with me for a majority of my life, which can be a good thing or bad thing, I think. Well, duh. But, when bad things happen and you lose that person for awhile or...
    Ecarie Ecarie 22-25, M Apr 11

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    I am missing all the people that I normally would chat with on here! I haven't been on in a while, and now I can't seem to find any of them =( Need some new messaging buddies!!
    Lea109 Lea109 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    I love him and I miss him. I knew long distance relationship wasn't my thing yet I pushed myself to try because I really couldn't let go of him. I planned to visit him end of this...
    cha84 cha84 26-30, F Apr 13

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    I always get these feelings; it's a feeling of missing something, but I don't no what.
    J3ssii3 J3ssii3 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    I have to admit that I miss someone. After all these years it is very hard not to miss her. I tried very hard to make it work, I needed to make a choice. It does not make the...
    Leavinstevin Leavinstevin 41-45, M 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    so, i get the feeling that most people are using this experience title for something emotional or a little more "deep". i wasn't sure how to categorize what im missing, so if i...
    cassandrastwrt cassandrastwrt 18-21, F 5 days ago

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    I wish I could stop missing someone who doesn't miss me. I can almost accept him with someone else, but I lost my best friend too.
    ashez2ashes ashez2ashes 26-30, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    My husband has been battling depression for our entire 10-year relationship. It's become a third member of our marriage; a wedge pushing us apart. And I don't know what to do. I...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 5 Responses Mar 24

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    I met my soul mate when I was dating my husband. An instant connection unlike anything I ever felt before. It sounds like bullshit from some cheesy movie but, this is real. My...
    forevercursed14 forevercursed14 26-30 1 Response Mar 28

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    As usual I don't know where to start this, but I have to find relief somehow and writing always seems like the best solution. My husband and I have been married for 7 years (it'll...
    factsarefacts factsarefacts 26-30 2 Responses Mar 30

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    I am a stay at home mom that was by my husbands side before we had anything at all. We were once sitting in a park eating out of plastic disposable containers with our kids asking...
    linda233 linda233 36-40, F 6 Responses Apr 1

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    Ten days before Christmas my husband of almost 12 years at the time (together almost 18) gave me a kiss, told me he loves me and left to go shopping for me. It was a Sunday night...
    brokenbecauseofhim brokenbecauseofhim 31-35, F 3 Responses Apr 1

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    Your husband doing you are out cheating on him,, Is he cheating on you to? Some husband go to the bar,, some just go on a fishing or hunting trip,, Did you every wondering he...
    pullupgirl103 pullupgirl103 31-35, F Apr 6

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    I'm a 24 year old married, full time student and full time employee. I'm going to school to become a music teacher and am fortunate enough to have a job that works around my school...
    birdyhouse birdyhouse 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 10

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    I am newly married (6 months) and feel I was completely fooled by my husband. My husband and I went to high school together and back then I always knew him and his friends fooled...
    scretsmiles91 scretsmiles91 22-25, F 2 Responses Apr 12

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    My husband childhood wasn't as loving as mine and how I treat my son with love. He has a son and I love him very much but my family always showed love and no difference between...
    richellew richellew 41-45, F a week ago