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I Am Missing My Deployed Husband

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    My Husband Just Left Here to Go Back to Afghan From R and T

    Here i am sitting here going crazy my hubby left here 2 days ago to go back to afghan and i am going crazy i have not heard a word from him and i think that is the hardest part if he was to call i would be ok but since he has not i have been losing my mind it feels like him...
    monabkr monabkr 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2009

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

     By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or long letters or emails from...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M Jan 30, 2010

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    Deployed Navy Husband

    Hi Everyone, I thought I would join this group to gain support from other men and women that understand what I am going through. I miss my husband dearly. This is our first deployment (deployed last week). We're usually apart, I go to college and will join in May while he...
    fave0820 fave0820 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    My Husband Just Deployed To Iraq

    hi my name is joanne and i am trying to deal with my husband deploying. see i am in the army as well but we had a big suprise.....we are having a little girl!!! but i dont know how i am going to deal with everything i guess i am just nervous. but ill get to my point i just want...
    kentfamily113 kentfamily113 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    It's so sad when her dad is away

    and she knocks on the door calling him hoping he will open the door and carry her like he always does :/
    armywife42 armywife42 18-21, F Jun 23

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    Is Reenlisting Worth The Financial Perks?

    My husband is deployed. He has been with the Army for about five years and has to decide whether or not to re-up for another six. The benefit would be $10k tax free but also another deployment. There are many pros and cons. Money being the biggest pro and possibly losing his life...
    kd146 kd146 26-30, F Dec 8, 2012

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 21

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    I haven't seen my love since March. He is deployed till next August. I'm falling apart. I have my kids, but they can't fill his place. I feel so alone and sad all the time. I don't...
    AirmanAcesGirl AirmanAcesGirl 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    So I'm in the army and spent my summer deployed while my husband was back home. I keep getting flashbacks and nightmares from deployment, but I don't want to tell him about the...
    Cbryant25100 Cbryant25100 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    I'm scared of my husband... who stalks me all the time... It's almost like I have to be with him and for him all the time... Not even a mall visit on my own is ok... I have a kid...
    Sreeme Sreeme 31-35, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    I am writing in behalf of my sister.Her eldest son was missing for more than 2 weeks with the age of 25 and have a mental problem.My sister is been separated with her husband for...
    Fleurb Fleurb 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 6

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    everyday a part of me is missing there is no joy, My ex husband keeps my kids from me, I now have had no contact in over a year and I am dying inside and I don't know how to make...
    anbirmingham anbirmingham 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 28

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    Deployed horny guy looking to trade pics I take requests and open to showing anything I can
    intoeverything67 intoeverything67 18-21, M Sep 1

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    I've been with my husband for 13yrs and he's currently serving time in prison it's been 5 long months since he's been gone and I'm missing him so much it hurts my son asked me if...
    Igc123 Igc123 26-30, F 6 Responses Sep 4

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    Adobe After Effects is primarily used for creating motion graphics and visual effects. After Effects allows users to animate, alter and composite media in 2D and 3D space with...
    fxks323 fxks323 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Oceans separate us, yet you are always on my mind My body yearns for you with no relief My heart feels empty without you near I'm missing you..... My days are long, time ticks...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F Aug 28

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    Not even sure where to start. I feel like I'm married to a stranger. To make the story shorter, we've been married for 4 years, 2 young girls, he's physically cheated on me and has...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 4 Responses Aug 16

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    My Mam died ten years ago from 7years fighting cancer. I was 14 and the eldest girl of three siblings. None of my family speak about her. They find it easier not to but I miss her...
    hmjk hmjk 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Three weeks have passed and it feels like a decade has gone by. I can't believe that it is only three weeks since my twin sister moved to Argentina, where she will be staying for a...
    auem0312 auem0312 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Spent the day busy with relatives helping unpack and hubs had an attitude with me all day. I only know half of what he did. And there's several hours between each "thing he did...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 4 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    No one cares about me. No one loves me. No one understands me. No one even think about me. Only you does all those things. I know if you would have been here. Things would be...
    Life26 Life26 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    Basically, I am missing my ex girlfriend that left me over 3 years ago, we were together for over 2 years. We were getting on well, no fall outs, she sent me a nice message, 7...
    gw2211 gw2211 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    Actually, there are a lot of people I am missing... Idk how my relationship with these gals and girls became blurry. I just hope that where ever they are they can be happy for...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Missing him more and more with each passing day, can't wait to get to Germany and be with my best friend!! The army needs to get with the times and hurry the heck up! It's only...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    The missing Pandora-Bob with Pandora ring to marry him "Ha ha,,,,, Su! You do not bargain capital. Time is up, after an hour, I'll call you something to where." Wang Tong took...
    lilizhou lilizhou 26-30, F Aug 24

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    But I don't think he misses me so I wish I could stop missing him.
    Dovesery Dovesery 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    On September 1 my grandmother will have been gone 10 years. She was my best friend and closest relative. I was blessed to have all four of my grandparents until I was 21. I miss my...
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I am really missing my ex girlfriend. We were together for over 2 years and we spent virtually all of our time together, she was my best friend. Then out of nowhere she finished me...
    gw2211 gw2211 22-25, M Aug 29

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    missing u so much ..have no words to explain.
    poisonlady poisonlady 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 31

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    I am missing someone sooooo dam much i cant sleep. cant think. cant enjoy myself pleasurely. it makes me sad and i want that person so much. i want to hear their voice in my ear...
    sadhotgirl sadhotgirl 26-30, F Sep 1

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    I am really missing someone right now. I've been messaging him since this afternoon and until now, I didn't receive any reply. :'( He's too busy. I understand because he's...
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F Sep 1

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    Missing You In the ache of your absence I fill the void with the sweet noise you leave me. Shattered pieces of obsidian that reflects what your eyes see. My compass point spins to...
    PaintedPoemCpl PaintedPoemCpl 36-40 1 Response Sep 3

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    Last night while missing my baby I started doing my nails, got all proud of him and this was the result! I'm so thankful for each day that goes by because it's a day closer until...
    Faithfive Faithfive 18-21, F Sep 5

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    Something is definately missing yus. I feel I am searching for something without knowing what it is... but I hope i know when or if i find it. As i don't think my life ahs a...
    surfdas surfdas 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    The long and short of it, I was married 7 years to my alcoholic husband, divorced from him for 6 years and we recently remarried after he seemed to be clean and sober and dedicated...
    tracylpiatt tracylpiatt 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    My husband had a great paying, great benefits job in the Army & got out & took a job making less than half of what he was making. He works for his uncle & we moved into a house...
    Laurenannette Laurenannette 31-35, F 2 Responses Aug 30

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F Aug 17

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    I am very sad to be writing this.... because I never thought I was capable of feeling this way, but I have to face the truth of the matter. I love my husband, but not as my...
    oogabooga777 oogabooga777 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    When I was 18 I met my husband. As the course of my life went my husband and I didn't get together until I was 21. A few months after we started going out we ended up pregnant with...
    Blondie0912 Blondie0912 22-25, F Sep 7

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    Hi everyone, This is the first time I write about my feelings, but I found so many people in the same situation. I'm 28 years old, been married for less than a year and a half...
    soul1986 soul1986 26-30 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    I Love My Husband Shirt I believe it is important to acknowledge the love one has for their spouse, to share reasons why they love them, and to let others know of this great love...
    1991quangninh 1991quangninh 22-25, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I Love My Husband ShirtI believe it is important to acknowledge the love one has for their spouse, to share reasons why they love them, and to let others know of this great love. I...
    1991quangninh 1991quangninh 22-25, M 4 days ago

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