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I Am Missing My Deployed Husband

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    Is Reenlisting Worth The Financial Perks?

    My husband is deployed. He has been with the Army for about five years and has to decide whether or not to re-up for another six. The benefit would be $10k tax free but also another deployment. There are many pros and cons. Money being the biggest pro and possibly losing his life...
    kd146 kd146 26-30, F Dec 8, 2012

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    My Husband Just Deployed To Iraq

    hi my name is joanne and i am trying to deal with my husband deploying. see i am in the army as well but we had a big suprise.....we are having a little girl!!! but i dont know how i am going to deal with everything i guess i am just nervous. but ill get to my point i just want...
    kentfamily113 kentfamily113 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    My Husband Just Left Here to Go Back to Afghan From R and T

    Here i am sitting here going crazy my hubby left here 2 days ago to go back to afghan and i am going crazy i have not heard a word from him and i think that is the hardest part if he was to call i would be ok but since he has not i have been losing my mind it feels like him...
    monabkr monabkr 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2009

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    Deployed Navy Husband

    Hi Everyone, I thought I would join this group to gain support from other men and women that understand what I am going through. I miss my husband dearly. This is our first deployment (deployed last week). We're usually apart, I go to college and will join in May while he...
    fave0820 fave0820 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    It's so sad when her dad is away

    and she knocks on the door calling him hoping he will open the door and carry her like he always does :/
    armywife42 armywife42 18-21, F Jun 23

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

     By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or long letters or emails from...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M Jan 30, 2010

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    I feel terrible. We have always had this weird tension...I've only been married for a couple years (we will call my husband A and his friend D) A and I had a good relationship at...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 14

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    This is seriously killing me. I love him so much. We talk every day. I have always thought he was the most handsome man ever. He asked me for pictures the other day and I sent them...
    voicelessallure voicelessallure 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 21

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    I cheated on my ex husband with a childhood boyfriend who has a habit of coming in and out of my life. He was my first kiss and a few other firsts... We did it at the bottle shop...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I haven't seen my love since March. He is deployed till next August. I'm falling apart. I have my kids, but they can't fill his place. I feel so alone and sad all the time. I don't...
    AirmanAcesGirl AirmanAcesGirl 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    My husband was in my first class ever in our clinical psychology masters program. I didn't actually meet him in class, but later on at a bar. I hadn't bought a car yet, having...
    MAT5629 MAT5629 41-45, F 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    I found out after I separated from my husband that he hit on my sister a few years earlier when she was 17 while I was at work and he was 'interview coaching' her for jobs in our...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    everyday a part of me is missing there is no joy, My ex husband keeps my kids from me, I now have had no contact in over a year and I am dying inside and I don't know how to make...
    anbirmingham anbirmingham 36-40, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Deployed horny guy looking to trade pics I take requests and open to showing anything I can
    intoeverything67 intoeverything67 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Oceans separate us, yet you are always on my mind My body yearns for you with no relief My heart feels empty without you near I'm missing you..... My days are long, time ticks...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F 4 days ago

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    Today, before I went to the rodeo, my boys and I stopped and visited my ole army friend. He passed this year in May, on the 23rd. My kids really liked him a lot. My youngest asked...
    EyeDontGiveAHoot EyeDontGiveAHoot 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 2

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    My wife and I love each other but we have not been physically intimate in five years. It began when my wife gave birth to our only son. She had preeclampsia and was very ill; our...
    AshInOakland AshInOakland 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 13

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    Not even sure where to start. I feel like I'm married to a stranger. To make the story shorter, we've been married for 4 years, 2 young girls, he's physically cheated on me and has...
    Wifeneedingimprovements Wifeneedingimprovements 22-25, F 3 Responses Aug 16

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    My Mam died ten years ago from 7years fighting cancer. I was 14 and the eldest girl of three siblings. None of my family speak about her. They find it easier not to but I miss her...
    hmjk hmjk 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Basically, I am missing my ex girlfriend that left me over 3 years ago, we were together for over 2 years. We were getting on well, no fall outs, she sent me a nice message, 7...
    gw2211 gw2211 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    My boyfriend has been on holiday visiting his family abroad I'm missing him terribly, feels as though he took my heart with him. Is anyone else feeling love sick? 💐
    butterflywings00001 butterflywings00001 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 5

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    When I was about 8, I went to a parade with my momma, her exfiancee , his kids and my brother and sis. It was so much fun so many dogs it's was great, that is until it came to an...
    CRizma7 CRizma7 18-21, F Aug 10

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    I hate missing someone who doesn't miss me back
    alyssabay alyssabay 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Missing someone isn't about how long it has been since you've seen them or the amount of time since you have talked.. It's about that very moment when you find yourself doing...
    shanaiya24 shanaiya24 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    Actually, there are a lot of people I am missing... Idk how my relationship with these gals and girls became blurry. I just hope that where ever they are they can be happy for...
    Wewerethereinthattime Wewerethereinthattime 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Ok to make this brief, my husbands stepsister is the person who introduced us. When I actually started going out with him she did a complete U-turn and became quiet nasty. By the...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 17

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    Missing him more and more with each passing day, can't wait to get to Germany and be with my best friend!! The army needs to get with the times and hurry the heck up! It's only...
    Lo2011 Lo2011 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 19

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    The missing Pandora-Bob with Pandora ring to marry him "Ha ha,,,,, Su! You do not bargain capital. Time is up, after an hour, I'll call you something to where." Wang Tong took...
    lilizhou lilizhou 26-30, F Aug 24

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    But I don't think he misses me so I wish I could stop missing him.
    Dovesery Dovesery 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    On September 1 my grandmother will have been gone 10 years. She was my best friend and closest relative. I was blessed to have all four of my grandparents until I was 21. I miss my...
    missquietriot missquietriot 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am really missing my ex girlfriend. We were together for over 2 years and we spent virtually all of our time together, she was my best friend. Then out of nowhere she finished me...
    gw2211 gw2211 22-25, M 4 days ago

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    missing u so much ..have no words to explain.
    poisonlady poisonlady 31-35, F 4 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am missing someone sooooo dam much i cant sleep. cant think. cant enjoy myself pleasurely. it makes me sad and i want that person so much. i want to hear their voice in my ear...
    sadhotgirl sadhotgirl 26-30, F 1 day ago

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    I am really missing someone right now. I've been messaging him since this afternoon and until now, I didn't receive any reply. :'( He's too busy. I understand because he's...
    JustOrdinaryGirl JustOrdinaryGirl 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    She introduced us when she started working at my workplace. later she told people that she only did that so that she made friends. then she told me that people told her i was...
    hopingformiracles hopingformiracles 22-25 1 Response Aug 11

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    Hello, My name is Amanda .G. and I have one daughter who is 2yrs old with my husband that I've been married to for 4yrs and together for 11yrs. It took us 7yrs to get married and...
    PraiseHimDaily PraiseHimDaily 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 14

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    Dear Future Husband, This isn’t the first letter I’ve written to you. This may be the first one I’m sharing with you (and others), but I want you to know I’ve been...
    Jessicamlee21 Jessicamlee21 18-21, F Aug 17

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    A window into the emotions of a couples counseling session as the betrayed wife...and those "AHAH!" moments. We are past a year since DDay. Our sessions back then were on coping...
    lillynfriends lillynfriends 46-50, F 1 Response a week ago

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    I hate my husbands dog. He's a 80+lb lab. The dog is actually very sweet but my husband take terrible care of him. He was never neutered or leash trained. As a result our backyard...
    sincitymom sincitymom 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    My husband, Mike, died on May 9, 2001. I was only 24 years old. He was only 26. There's never a day where I don't think about how much I miss him. I met my husband in high school...
    aladynamedkatie aladynamedkatie 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 17

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    My husband had a great paying, great benefits job in the Army & got out & took a job making less than half of what he was making. He works for his uncle & we moved into a house...
    Laurenannette Laurenannette 31-35, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    So, unfortunately as it is with so many of these stories, things are not going much better than when I found this page and started writing my experiences. Not much has changed...
    Cindermoon Cindermoon 26-30, F Aug 17

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    My life as I know it has been turned upside down. Two nights ago, my husband didn't come home after work. In the 7 years we've been together, this wasn't something uncommon. He has...
    ZeldaIV ZeldaIV 31-35, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I hate my husband of 20 yrs. I often wish he would just leave or even die, and then feel like a horrible person for wishing for him to die. Not because I would miss him, but...
    shazzy41498 shazzy41498 46-50, F 4 Responses Aug 3

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    My husband is the best. He was made for me. We met in high school but unfortunately did not get together until 25 years later. We married in 2007 in a Celtic ceremony. Each year I...
    robalsean robalsean 41-45, F Aug 8

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    My husband and I have been together for almost 13 years and married for 5. He has known since the beginning that I wanted children. I have a 17 y/o from a previous relationship and...
    gd78 gd78 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 9

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