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I Am Missing My Deployed Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 14 People

    My Husband Just Deployed To Iraq

    hi my name is joanne and i am trying to deal with my husband deploying. see i am in the army as well but we had a big suprise.....we are having a little girl!!! but i dont know how i am going to deal with everything i guess i am just nervous. but ill get to my point i just want...
    kentfamily113 kentfamily113 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    My Husband Just Left Here to Go Back to Afghan From R and T

    Here i am sitting here going crazy my hubby left here 2 days ago to go back to afghan and i am going crazy i have not heard a word from him and i think that is the hardest part if he was to call i would be ok but since he has not i have been losing my mind it feels like him...
    monabkr monabkr 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2009

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    Deployed Navy Husband

    Hi Everyone, I thought I would join this group to gain support from other men and women that understand what I am going through. I miss my husband dearly. This is our first deployment (deployed last week). We're usually apart, I go to college and will join in May while he...
    fave0820 fave0820 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

     By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or long letters or emails from...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M Jan 30, 2010

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    Is Reenlisting Worth The Financial Perks?

    My husband is deployed. He has been with the Army for about five years and has to decide whether or not to re-up for another six. The benefit would be $10k tax free but also another deployment. There are many pros and cons. Money being the biggest pro and possibly losing his life...
    kd146 kd146 26-30, F Dec 8, 2012

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    It's so sad when her dad is away

    and she knocks on the door calling him hoping he will open the door and carry her like he always does :/
    armywife42 armywife42 18-21, F Jun 23, 2014

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