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I Am Missing My Deployed Husband

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 13 People

    It's so sad when her dad is away

    and she knocks on the door calling him hoping he will open the door and carry her like he always does :/
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jun 23, 2014

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    My Husband Just Deployed To Iraq

    hi my name is joanne and i am trying to deal with my husband deploying. see i am in the army as well but we had a big suprise.....we are having a little girl!!! but i dont know how i am going to deal with everything i guess i am just nervous. but ill get to my point i just want...
    kentfamily113 kentfamily113 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 24, 2009

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    Is Reenlisting Worth The Financial Perks?

    My husband is deployed. He has been with the Army for about five years and has to decide whether or not to re-up for another six. The benefit would be $10k tax free but also another deployment. There are many pros and cons. Money being the biggest pro and possibly losing his life...
    kd146 kd146 26-30, F Dec 8, 2012

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    Intimacy And Warrior/lovers

     By Lori Buckley, Psy.D., CST. Military Intimacy Tip: Be creative.Frequently send fun, and playful care-packages. Even in a war zone, boredom can be a problem. Ask what your spouse or friend needs to fill time such as books, DVD’s or long letters or emails from...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M Jan 30, 2010

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    Deployed Navy Husband

    Hi Everyone, I thought I would join this group to gain support from other men and women that understand what I am going through. I miss my husband dearly. This is our first deployment (deployed last week). We're usually apart, I go to college and will join in May while he...
    fave0820 fave0820 18-21, F Jul 16, 2012

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    My Husband Just Left Here to Go Back to Afghan From R and T

    Here i am sitting here going crazy my hubby left here 2 days ago to go back to afghan and i am going crazy i have not heard a word from him and i think that is the hardest part if he was to call i would be ok but since he has not i have been losing my mind it feels like him...
    monabkr monabkr 18-21, M 1 Response Sep 22, 2009

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    My husband of 5 years has never changed in his whole life. He's still a huge kid who runs to mommy every time something happens. He doesn't play it even acknowledges our child, let...
    KindaKinky30 KindaKinky30 26-30, F 16 hrs ago

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    I often wake up in the night with mixed feelings. One ais being relieved of not being with the one I have been for years. And second is missing someone.. to be with in absolute...
    Eriane Eriane 26-30, F 17 hrs ago

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    If he is secretive all the time but I have no proof, do I worry? 23 years into this and his behavior is so odd now. Used to be an open book, but now? His father is a mysoginist...
    bluegirl43 bluegirl43 41-45, F 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    I'm not missing my old life, but I am missing my friend that moved away. The one I used to have girls nights with. We could walk around at night for hours, just talking and joking...
    serenewinds serenewinds 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    Hi I'm new to the group. I don't even know where to begin or how to even start. My emotions are all over the place. My husband has 8 long years(2024) and I don't know how to cope...
    lovinHim2015 lovinHim2015 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    My husband and I have been together for 6 plus years. I was able to tolerate his family until after I had my 1st child. Been worse now that I'm with my second. His parents doesn't...
    Darkshadows02 Darkshadows02 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Just need to vent for a minute... I met my Soldier knowing that he was going to PCS in 6 months. That was fine. We stayed together. He visited on leave and he proposed. The next...
    LovingCatLady LovingCatLady 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    LOST ... need help plz, I'm ashamed and I hate seeing him hurt. We have been married for 8 faithful years. I have been unhappy with him for awhile. He has had 7 knee surgerys in 3...
    shygirl1986 shygirl1986 26-30, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    This might sound a little odd to some but not to those who know real love. My ex wife passed away this past December. And I'm missing her a lot. Yet we hardly saw each other...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    I've known my husband for almost 5 years now and I can honestly say that I am pushing him away. It's not that I don't love him, it's that he hurts me so much that I am trying to...
    MiserableMama26 MiserableMama26 26-30, F 5 days ago

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    I re-read our conversations thinking it would alleviate the suffering of missing you...but it only makes me miss you more. 💔
    mstud17 mstud17 22-25, F 6 days ago

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    My husband excludes me from his friends. My husband goes out mainly to one of his friend's homes where many families hang out however I am never invited to join. People ask him...
    JessicaEmily JessicaEmily 26-30, F 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    I literally just realized that I don't love me husband anymore. We have two children and have been married 2 years but together for 10, he was 27and i was 19. Our relationship...
    idhaun idhaun 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I do indeed believe this principle...and sometimes it is so hard! We recently have had a major change in our lives....our son and his children are now living with us. Our empty...
    soulbabble soulbabble 51-55, F 2 Responses Feb 6

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    I have been with my husband since high school, and love him more and more every day. I am sick of being asked if he knows I am on here. I am not looking to date you or even looking...
    JennyTom JennyTom 41-45, F 9 Responses Feb 5

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    I am so SICK and tired of people asking me if my husband knows I am on here, first of all we have been together since high school, and I LOVE him more and more every day, and he...
    JennyTom JennyTom 41-45, F Feb 5

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    I had been married once before I met my husband. my first husband was both verbally and physically abusive. For years after our divorce I was broken. Then I met my soul mate. our...
    WittyTwit WittyTwit 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I can 't stand my husband I can't stand my husband etcetera....So i married a jerk .he only cares about themselves if i say anything about how i feel i get screamed at he actually...
    pink26 pink26 41-45, F Feb 4

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    4 years ago i caught my husband sex texting a co-worker. it was only one night he said , it meant nothing and he didnt know why he did it apart from he was drunk. Fast forward to...
    MrsF25 MrsF25 41-45, F 4 Responses Feb 3

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    I think I have already met my future husband heheh... he currently my boyfriend of course but he is most certainly husband material in my eyes.... :P
    ragd0ll ragd0ll 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 3

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    My name is May. Here i want to share a little story of experience with the world on how i got my husband back when i almost lose him. Well i'm not a big talker so i'm just going to...
    may19191 may19191 31-35, F Feb 3

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    I know that most adults do not believe in fairy tale endings, but I beg to differ! When I met my husband, he made me feel like a princess, and he still does. When we met, I had...
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    I know that most adults do not believe in fairy tale endings, but I beg to differ! When I met my husband, he made me feel like a princess, and he still does. When we met, I had...
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch 31-35, F Feb 1

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    I have always dreamed of having one of those husbands that would die for me. That loved me so much and had nothing but nice, beautiful things to say about me. To be my knight in...
    Scarletcharlotte Scarletcharlotte 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    That being said it's a fact my husband intentionally interferes with our attendance. He throws a fit sometimes before, during or after we get there. He finds something to...
    Elsi3 Elsi3 41-45, F Jan 31

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    My husband and I have had a terribly rocky last three years together. He's cycled, going from adoring me to blaming me; he's begged me to stay and he's insisted I leave. He's...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F Jan 29

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    Well can things get any worse. Can a person feel any more broken and when you feel like it cant get any worse...it does! My husband wasn't just having an affair... It was with a...
    Mostfabdon Mostfabdon 36-40, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    1st let me say (as stupid as it is) that I don't want to leave my husband. I just want to talk about it and have support because I don't right now. we have been together 11 years...
    myworld930 myworld930 31-35, F 5 Responses Jan 28

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    More than one love letter to my Twin Flame. Written traditionally with pen and paper and are in the envelope. There is no other man, who I picture to see my future husband to be...
    DragonSheep DragonSheep 22-25, F Jan 28

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    I lost one best friend this week, and, like the title says, I feel like part of me is missing. I might be losing another friend due to some mistakes that were made and I feel like...
    jaks26 jaks26 16-17, F Jan 28

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    I can't say I hate his family. But there's a few I truly dislike that I don't want to be around them. His mother and sister...Mostly his sister. She's nothing but a hot head and...
    simplyme12345 simplyme12345 18-21, F Jan 27

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    so i havent been on here in a while so this is a status update...ever since my husband got moved from county to prison i hadn't been able to see him. Where he's at they only do...
    kianalove3 kianalove3 18-21, F Jan 26

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    I love my husband. He is my best friend and love of my life. There is nothing I don't tell him and I share everything with him. From stories and secrets to girlfriends. I can't...
    redhot1221 redhot1221 41-45, F 4 Responses Jan 26

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    My husband and I have been married for 3 years now. We love each other dearly. There is some behavior I'm worried about though. He has always been a little on the antisocial side...
    scruffynerf scruffynerf 22-25, F Jan 26

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    I picked up my husband's smartphone last night to pull up a vacation picture in his gallery to send to myself. I was surprised to find a picture of our neighbor flashing her...
    Jill1957 Jill1957 56-60, F 10 Responses