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I Am Misunderstood Alot

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    my friends ,my family,

    everyone misunderstood me when i try to explain something..i dont know why but i cant make myself clear to others..i m trying my best to change myself but still i fail alot...
    MysteriousLion MysteriousLion 22-25, M Mar 14

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    I Bet They're Deaf

    I don't know if I'm mad already or do I just talk with mad people. I like making fun of some things from time to time but I don't think I'm being offensive. But then, my friend and my mother take my words as I said something extremely bad most often and they don't ever bother to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 1, 2010

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    Even By Me

    I think I am most misunderstood by myself... I don't know who I am or what I want or where I'm going... just don't know... I need to stop thinking today...
    mysplitpersonality mysplitpersonality 36-40, F 2 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    Wondering Weirdness.

    This is not necessarily a bad thing to me, since I do not particularly... mind being the strange wall flower of the group. Though it is curious the amount of times people are taken aback by what I say, completely misinterpreting it or not understanding it what so ever. It makes...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 21, 2013

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    Creature Of Habit

    Mythological creatures. Death in one ear.Mythological creatures.Forgot how to swim.Mythological creatures.Living on dry land.Mythological creatures.Can't spell its name.Mythological creatures turn from equine to marmaid and back again.Mythological creatures.Are not nude but plan...
    lostentranslation lostentranslation 36-40 1 Response Jan 19, 2013

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    My Purpose

    I feel like i want to cry because of one ******* today. I know in this world we have to be strong, and confident but sometimes i just want to scream for help. Taking criticism and taking peoples hate, sometimes i want to share a peice of my mind with those jerks. The kindness in...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 Mar 26, 2013

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    Misunderstood

    I am constantly misunderstood by my co-workers and bosses.  This has never happened to me before in any previous jobs.  I know I could just change jobs, but I do not want to.  I really want to work where I am at, but this is getting in the way.  It happens in...
    QuestionMarks QuestionMarks 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 9, 2008

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    Aggressiveness Doesn't Come Across Well

    I've had a tough guy mentality since the 6th grade. I had friends at that time, but when I became the butt of jokes, I didn't know how to handle it. So I became that people who basically dramatically changed their attitude and learned to make fun of myself before others could...
    Andrew8022 Andrew8022 18-21, M Oct 12, 2013

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    Misunderstood.

    I have been working as a nanny for over 4 years now on and off. I decided to just do Nanny work 2 years ago. I have worked at a lot of places, but each one was a customer service or retail job. Now part of the problem is I have very little social skills. I can make it work with...
    Dollbaby03 Dollbaby03 26-30, F Oct 1, 2013

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    ...puzzled :(

    I just can't understand why i am the way i am. I can't seem to make friends. Nobody likes me. People think i'm so full of myself, but i'm not. I have feelings for men, i think i'm an introvert, my parents seem to not care about what happens to me, i've been bullied and tossed...
    enzer enzer 18-21 Dec 7, 2011

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    Misunderstood.

    I have been working as a nanny for over 4 years now on and off. I decided to just do Nanny work 2 years ago. I have worked at a lot of places, but each one was a customer service or retail job. Now part of the problem is I have very little social skills. I can make it work with...
    Dollbaby02 Dollbaby02 26-30 Aug 15, 2013

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    What Do I Want?

    Hey everyone. First time on so Ill be short and current...don't feel like digging. Lately i've noticed that even when i'm being 100% clear in expressing what I want or what I mean I am still misunderstood. It's like playing some type of sadistic guessing game with the people who...
    greymagik greymagik 21-25, M 13 Responses May 24, 2007

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    Understood .

    i wish i was understood , but im not. it seems like the only person who ever understood me was my best friend . we live very far from eachother now . it seems like at home im always doing something wrong . im never proud of myself and im so insecure , i hate looking in the...
    giraffe12345 giraffe12345 13-15 1 Response Sep 29, 2012

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    Only me out there? I explain

    and try my best, but something always end up wrong or in a negative way..
    lisachristensen lisachristensen 16-17, F Jun 13

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    I Am

    my problem is i get wods mixed up easily.and then people get the wroung idea.most who know me tell others that i am a good person who will do anything for my freinds.and i am.i am just not good with words.
    ghostofmyself ghostofmyself 36-40 2 Responses Apr 29, 2009

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    ...

    i think a lot of people perceive me as a *****. i dont intentionally try to be this way. but i'm very straight forward. i just dont believe in sugar coating anything to make someone more comfortable. this is life. it's the way it's going to be. why try to hide it? if you learn...
    gypsysoul gypsysoul 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 17, 2009

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    What I Really Mean Is..................

    Me and my friends love to hang-out doing sleep overs etc.. Well I must say that I am happy being with them but sometimes I don't know why we argue about somethings that we have opposite outlook we totally have different outlook in life and sometimes he MISUNDERSTOOD what i really...
    kulit kulit 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 9, 2008

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    Its a Real Exp at EP

    I think some people mistake me by my approach towards them. I had an experience recently where everything was so smooth and then my ship ran into bad weather ....i would say nasty weather. So, I think i m misjudged and misunderstood very easily may be i need to work on my style...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Oct 6, 2012

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    Stop, Understand Me!

    "I ain't afraid of losing face. Stop, Understand Me. I ain't afraid of ever losing faith in you." - TBC "Jealous Again" When I say "I love you", people flee. I can't take it anymore...so here is a few practical examples of what I mean, all laid out...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 17, 2008

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    No Matter What

    No matter how hard i try to make myself clear, no matter how hard i try to get  my point across, no matter how gentle i try to be, how diplomatic benign the topic, someone always sees it as something else. I can agree with them and still get my head bit off...
    tulick tulick 31-35, F 10 Responses Jun 9, 2008

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    Deliberately Misunderstood By Abusers

    I am often misunderstood , and abusive people do this to me as their only way of trying to cover up their abuse on me.... they play mind games and deliberately abuse me or get other people to abuse me.... it has affected my self esteem deeply. I don't like people making...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    Constantly Deliberately Misunderstood By People Who Take Me Down

    and I wish I knew why? I wish people could see what a mess of my life they have made I wish people would stop abusing me for no reason I wish people could feel my pain and drown in it !!!!! I don't know how it is that one person as I could be so misunderstood I don't...
    IceEntice IceEntice 36-40, F 1 Response Jun 28, 2012

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     Yes. ...

     Yes. People have such a tendency to group others into categories. Problem is, I don't fit into any of their categories. I'm Christian, but I'm not conservative. And I won't try to force my religion on you. I'm liberal, but I don't drink or use drugs. I hate America's...
    Manders Manders 18-21, F 2 Responses May 10, 2008

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    Misunderstood

    So last week just before half term I wanted to get my university application sent off so I told my teacher to write my reference. I was already annoyed by the fact it had take her 3 days to write it BUT when I saw what she wrote I got really angry. Bearing in mind that a...
    lildiamondintherough lildiamondintherough 16-17, F Oct 29, 2012

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    Solo

    I seem to have many stories..but the one that plays out the most at less this time around is my learning disability and the facted that I've been alone my whole life from childhood on its been an endless walk alone in the school house hullways standing in line bymyself on the job...
    lostentranslation lostentranslation 36-40 Jan 5, 2013

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    Related Experiences

    So today I was going to the Theatres, and I was waiting at the bus stop when this random creepy looking guy came around. I was leaning against one of the sides and this guy comes...
    lifetime201 lifetime201 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I fking hate being misunderstood. It makes my blood boil, and makes me want to cry. I'm a good person, I take the time to figure out what someone is trying to say. I hear them out...
    dat1kiid dat1kiid 16-17 Jul 24

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    What I really mean is that I think women are misunderstood in society(but there was no experience that I wish people would accept that women can do what men can do. Women arent...
    Dev4444 Dev4444 13-15, F Aug 3

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    Most of the time all of my comments are misunderstood, that makes us have a arguments! And its really sad.
    savvyflores savvyflores 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 7

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    Write more about this experience (optional)hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back...
    heartless2 heartless2 22-25, M Jul 22

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    I suppose when all logic and reason escape me, I escape myself. And so, in failing to comprehend myself, I'm left vulnerable to misunderstanding and perceptive disarray. I, of all...
    s0undgarden s0undgarden 16-17, M Jul 31

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    It's just not on at all.
    Quanitta Quanitta 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    So tired of it. I hate how people judge u so easily.
    Katmrl Katmrl 16-17, F 4 days ago

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    Some people Love you. Some dislike you. You cannot please all of the world. You can only please and love yourself first and foremost.
    braveywanes braveywanes 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    We pleasure ourselves on Functioning intimately with ur purchasers that can help them achieve their small business aims, and their lifetime plans.I also spend a very good...
    Anthony825d5cr0 Anthony825d5cr0 31-35, M 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    Anthony616q1zv3 Anthony616q1zv3 31-35, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Search engines like google and yahoo display Web sites which can be far more structured and contains substantive information about what a person is hunting for. It really is that...
    Anthony616q1zv3 Anthony616q1zv3 31-35, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Any one as disgusted as we have been by this evidence can be part of the international campaign to convey Rio Tinto to justice for its deplorable steps on Bougainville:The island...
    Madonnadz Madonnadz 31-35, M 1 hr ago

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    “Finish each day and be done with it. You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt crept in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day. You...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F Aug 1

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    ok... guys.. I won't say much... I told him that I am in love with him..and he said that it's cute etc.. but we shouldn't spoil our relationship..and I asked how he really feels...
    sparkydream sparkydream 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I have aspergers syndrome. Its a highly complicated, but relatively minor and often misunderstood disorder that essentially impairs social skills by making me unable to pick on on...
    Almostanonymous Almostanonymous 22-25, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I can never look into the past without going crazy, crying and constantly blaming myself. I know what I did. I knew it was wrong but did it anyway. I hurt people, I hurt a lot of...
    UltraCerulean UltraCerulean 26-30, F 5 Responses Jul 20

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    I'm a 19 year old college football player. I'm 6 foot 7, 230 pounds. My whole life I've grown up being told how much potential I have in athletics and other areas of life simply...
    dabah2014 dabah2014 18-21, M Jul 20

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    All the time as I am constantly misunderstood
    kittyluv78 kittyluv78 36-40, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    1. Smoked A Cigarette? Yes, just one, it was bloody awful. 2. Smoked A Cigar?....... Yes.. attempted this but thought it was equally as bloody awful as the cigarette LOL. 3...
    vequin vequin 41-45 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Bizarre Work Experiences Involving A Guy Named Dave About 25 years ago I worked for a small company that employed less than 10 people. Some of these people were full time or part...
    PastPilot PastPilot 51-55, M 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I feel unhappy I feel lost I feel stressed I feel angry I have anxiety I have regrets I feel mislead I feel misguided I feel depressed I feel misunderstood I feel so many...
    XOmysteriousgirlXO XOmysteriousgirlXO 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 22

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    There is a factory in Northern Minnesota which makes the Tickle Me Elmo toys. The toy laughs when you tickle it under the arms. Well, Lena is hired at The Tickle Me Elmo factory...
    Michael91142 Michael91142 70+, M 2 Responses Jul 23

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    Despite my friendly and nice guy image I show to people, I have always kept myself private that is why I'm actually misunderstood as an outgoing person. I'm actually shy and I don...
    luigigreene luigigreene 18-21, M Jul 23

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    "Lilt of the Pink Poppy" Small delicate petals stretching up To swing from a chandelier of stars. Although misunderstood from conception, Alive as a pink poppy with all my scars...
    weepingveil weepingveil 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 23