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I Am Monogamous

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    What Is Right For Me - When I was very young, I almost had an affair with a married man, and I felt horrible. Afterward, I had a "relationship" with a man who was openly...
    Pidgie Pidgie 46-50, F Jun 1, 2009

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    A Dedicated Partner - Frankly, I don't think I could live with myself if I were any other way.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 7, 2011

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    True Love - I firmly believe that a truly loving, and sexually satisfying relationship can only be had within a monogamous relationship. This is the only kind of relationship in...
    candygurl81 candygurl81 26-30, F 2 Responses May 4, 2010

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    Always Faithful - I only sleep with one man at a time and I like to have a long period of time between the men in my life.  I have been with very few men in my life but had...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 25 Responses May 19, 2008

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    Of Course My Reason Will Make You Laugh.......... - I am a one man woman. Why? Because I can barely handle being in a relationship with one man let alone trying to carry on with 2...
    WynsHeart WynsHeart 36-40, F 2 Responses May 15, 2011

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    I can't finally say that I am FAITHFUL! My mind, body and soul is his šŸ’
    TinkOG TinkOG 18-21, F Mar 26

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    Its All Worth While. - It is all worth while. There is nothing like coming home to your partner (in my case wife of 29 years) and know they will be there for you as well as you...
    odfood odfood 56-60, M 2 Responses Jan 15, 2012

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    Set In My Ways,,, - I've dated 5 women in my life and subscribe to the ideal that I only date women that I would feel comfortable marrying. As a result they have been  few and...
    xerxes211 xerxes211 56-60, M 2 Responses Aug 6, 2008

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    Always Have Been - for one i love my husband to death and make the choice to truely love him everyday.... plus i cant even imagine myself getting it on with another person... but...
    sothisisme sothisisme 22-25, F 5 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    I am monogamous, not because of a religion, not because society says so (even though society seems more to be urging people to have sex with each other) but because I find it far...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr 22-25, F Mar 11

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    One On One - I have a wonderful boyfriend and don't need to go anywhere else. I am very fortunate! 
    soulshadow soulshadow 36-40, F Apr 20, 2010

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    I Only Have Eyes For You - I don't know what it is nowadays but it seems that you can't live your life without knowing someone who has cheated on their partner or was cheated on by...
    Mehameha Mehameha 51-55, M 8 Responses Sep 18, 2011

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    I Am - I've always been monogamous in all of my relationships. When I do fall for someone, I fall hard, and couldn't even dream of cheating. I'm bisexual, and this may be weird...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Oct 21, 2010

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    Monogamy .... The Only Way To Fly! - I am and always will beĀ monogamous. Ā I cannot imagine being any other way. Ā Besides, who would have the energy to be anything else!The...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy 51-55, F 1 Response Aug 3, 2011

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    Whichgamous? Wha-morous? - Okay, I'll nip.   I think it's kind of funny that some people ask if monogamy died.  People say things like being different because...
    hisloverface hisloverface 22-25, F Apr 29, 2010

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    What Happened... - Hmmm...It was the most unexpected thing to have happened to me. Of course who would seriously expect to win the lottery-in another country no less-no one expects...
    DLucky1 DLucky1 41-45, M 2 Responses May 15, 2011

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    Cos I Do It Right! - And if you are doing it right, then you should not have the desire, time or the energy for more than one person.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

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    No Matter What.... -    I have always been faithful. I'm definitely a one man woman. I have never liked the idea of cheating. If you find yourself straying from the one...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 17, 2009

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    He or no one. Only him. Sorry guys but none of you will ever be my second man. My body should be used only by one man
    azanun azanun 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 29

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    Has It Died? - I am 100% monogamous, I never cheat, and who I am with I am with them for life... unless they cheat on me or is abusive. In that case, I still won't cheat...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 5, 2008

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    Just Because. - I'm not morally against anything but monogamy.  I'm not only making myself available to one guy.  I don't believe that it's the only way to live your life...
    felinethespian felinethespian 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 7, 2008

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    I Don't Do Polyamory. - I'm in a relationship with a man who is polyamorous. It was never an issue until he fell in love with someone. Now I feel torn and hurt. I'm unsure whether...
    SheySix SheySix 18-21, F 7 Responses Oct 28, 2012

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    CONtrary to Potentially Popular Belief(e)... - I'm sure I've mispelled that word all week. And probably also all month. Anysnooch, Yes, I'm very monogomous, 'cuz I feel that if you...
    Maxine13 Maxine13 16-18, F 2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

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    Monogomy - I didn't use to be monogamous. I mean, I never cheated on anyone but I did go through a phase where I was dating around. All the boys knew I wasn't seeing them formally...
    SweetbriarPoet SweetbriarPoet 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

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    Not For Me -  I have tried monogamy, but find it difficult, due to trust issues of mine, to be monogamous. Actually, when I enter a relationship, I am more than capable of...
    LittleMonroe LittleMonroe 18-21, F Feb 1, 2009

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    I find it hard being a bi women :(
    girlauless girlauless 18-21, F Jan 12

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    I find I may be polyamorous "in some ways"--that is if I compare my definition and hopes for it with my currently, possibly flawed perception of the poly lifestyle. I believe that...
    Wonderatrix Wonderatrix 31-35, F 3 Responses Mar 29

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    I have been married once so I am familiar with monogamy. I know the downside and the upside of it very well. My curiousity in polygamy stems from the fact that our society is not...
    carlyistortious carlyistortious 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 20

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    It all came out. I think part of me wanted to be "caught." All I ever wanted was my husband's love and attention. I saw the heartbreak on his face and I owned my deception and lies...
    MissViolet711 MissViolet711 46-50, F 11 Responses Mar 24

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    Make that, that I used to live in a marriage that was becoming a sexless marriage. Today would have been our second anniversary. The story is complicated, but to make it short, she...
    soundtrackforantarctica soundtrackforantarctica 26-30, M 8 Responses Mar 25

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    I can't believe it. Over two years and a half years gone....And, let me tell you I have had more sex in these past two years then the twelve years of that relationship combined...
    rosedl rosedl 41-45, F Mar 26

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    I think knowing about sex is extremely important. I am sexually active. I protect myself with birth control pills. I don't use condoms for two reasons. The first being that my...
    fairytalesandspiderwebs fairytalesandspiderwebs 18-21, F Apr 4

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    A friend here pointed out that I seem to think that if all women were "un-fenced" or didn't have marriage vows to worry about they would think like me. He's right, I do think that...
    FrolickingFemale FrolickingFemale 36-40, F 11 Responses Apr 5

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    I dated a guy who was sleeping around with other girls and lying about using protection with them. Sadly, I can't be too sure if this is where I got it from or if it was the...
    rogue1313 rogue1313 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 6

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    Well its kind of an experience. ..the last 'confession' I wrote on here seems to have been lost...I dont even know where this will show up but why an advert for weddings? I cant...
    stargirl58 stargirl58 26-30, F Apr 7

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    1) I'm a dreamer 2) I'm a snoby virgin 3) I'm a teaser 4) I'm a joker 5) I'm a Christian and very religious 6) I'm TOO emotional 7) I'm single 8) I'm monogamous 9) I'm moral 10) I...
    azanun azanun 18-21, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    It's not complicated. "Cheating" is the act of sneaking around and doing something that you agreed not to do. So if you said that you would remain physically monogamous with your...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I will write about this. I actually kind of want to have at least one story for each experience I've got listed, but I doubt I will ever manage all of that. I will preface the...
    Lgl700 Lgl700 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    I feel like polygamy is more natural than being monogamous but I'm afraid of being the less loved partner. I asked my boyfriend how he feels about polygamy and he doesn't agree...
    alittlemoresonic42 alittlemoresonic42 18-21, F 12 Responses 2 days ago

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    I feel like everything in my life is a complete contradiction right now. Like - I'm attracted to guys who are 'badass' yet - I'm married to the biggest pansy ..... I'm pretty sure...
    teach82 teach82 31-35, F 1 day ago

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    God I hate when people find out that I like both men and women and immediately assume I like 3somes or am in a relationship with multiple people. Just because I'm attracted to...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 4 Responses 12 hrs ago

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    I have been in a relationship for 3 and a half years. My boyfriend does not believe in monogamy but is monogamous only for my sake. Whenever it comes up, I feel incredibly guilty...
    ErraticallyGrey ErraticallyGrey 22-25, F 1 Response 12 hrs ago

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    "Sinner" Forgive me Lord for I've sinned. I'm a natural flirt. I can love many people at once. I can keep two relationships at the same time. I always have lovers around me...
    FinnyFunny FinnyFunny 18-21, F 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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