I Am Monogamous

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 417 People

    Always Faithful

    I only sleep with one man at a time and I like to have a long period of time between the men in my life.  I have been with very few men in my life but had lots of sex.  I love deeply when I am in love and never want to hurt the man I am with by sleeping with or giving...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    25 Responses May 19, 2008

    Whichgamous? Wha-morous?

    Okay, I'll nip.   I think it's kind of funny that some people ask if monogamy died.  People say things like being different because monogamy seems so rare these days.  It's really all a matter of perspective.  When I was polyamorous, it seemed like...
    hisloverface hisloverface
    22-25, F
    Apr 29, 2010

    Relationship is based on loyalty,

    trust and most importantly love. Call me old fashioned or boring, I don't give you a ****.
    deleted deleted
    Jan 28, 2016

    CONtrary to Potentially Popular Belief(e)...

    I'm sure I've mispelled that word all week. And probably also all month. Anysnooch, Yes, I'm very monogomous, 'cuz I feel that if you love someone, they're the only one you'll want to be with. Hopefully, they view it the same way, if not...I guess that just sucks, and it's your...
    Maxine13 Maxine13
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 14, 2008

    True Love

    I firmly believe that a truly loving, and sexually satisfying relationship can only be had within a monogamous relationship. This is the only kind of relationship in which true, unconditional love can be experienced. All other kinds I believe are just selfish , and wanting to...
    candygurl81 candygurl81
    26-30, F
    3 Responses May 4, 2010

    And I feel like there's something wrong with

    that when I'm on here because the majority seem to think infidelity and open relationships are amazing. I'm just not built that way. I just want a meaningful relationship with one person; one where I'm all my partner needs, and she's all I need. I have no problem with...
    deleted deleted
    May 10, 2015

    Cos I Do It Right!

    And if you are doing it right, then you should not have the desire, time or the energy for more than one person.
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Feb 16, 2011

    Always Have Been

    for one i love my husband to death and make the choice to truely love him everyday.... plus i cant even imagine myself getting it on with another person... but secondly... there are way tooooooooo many germs out in the world ... ewww
    sothisisme sothisisme
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    I want one man and one man only.

    I don't do breaks. Either you're with me or not.
    deleted deleted
    May 19, 2015
    girlauless girlauless
    22-25, F
    Jan 12, 2014

    Its All Worth While.

    It is all worth while. There is nothing like coming home to your partner (in my case wife of 29 years) and know they will be there for you as well as you are there for them. Not having been throwing your bits all over the town. It shows that you are a couple and love each other...
    odfood odfood
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Jan 15, 2012


    I didn't use to be monogamous. I mean, I never cheated on anyone but I did go through a phase where I was dating around. All the boys knew I wasn't seeing them formally and I actually had a great time playing the field for awhile. But now I've found the love of my life and don't...
    SweetbriarPoet SweetbriarPoet
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 26, 2008

    I Am

    I've always been monogamous in all of my relationships. When I do fall for someone, I fall hard, and couldn't even dream of cheating. I'm bisexual, and this may be weird, but if I am with a woman, I usually feel a much stronger emotional connection with her, and so if she is...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    Oct 21, 2010

    We're monogamous but he did try being poly

    for a short time. It didn't pan out for a variety of reasons but I'll admit, that includes my being jealous and hating every time he saw her. That's why I prefer being monogamous and I know poly isn't for me.
    MrsRusty MrsRusty
    36-40, F
    Jul 22, 2015

    Has It Died?

    I am 100% monogamous, I never cheat, and who I am with I am with them for life... unless they cheat on me or is abusive. In that case, I still won't cheat, but will dump them right away! BUT, many others have told me (over and over) that my way of being loyal and...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2008

    a feminist said Slutshaming contributes to rape

    culture, where its ok to rape a woman. The message slutshaming is sending to girls is "sex is bad. Sex can never be good. And having sexmore than once is the worst thing you can do and everyone is going to hate you for it. The message its sending to men is "girls who have sex...
    ivemetyou ivemetyou
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    Set In My Ways,,,

    I've dated 5 women in my life and subscribe to the ideal that I only date women that I would feel comfortable marrying. As a result they have been  few and very far between- I believe in quality- not quantity. Although I was burned by a user that couldn't commit some months...
    xerxes211 xerxes211
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Aug 6, 2008

    Monogamy .... The Only Way To Fly!

    I am and always will be monogamous.  I cannot imagine being any other way.  Besides, who would have the energy to be anything else!The intimacy required in a committed relationship cannot survive betrayal.  Intimacy is fostered by truth, understanding and fidelity...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy
    56-60, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2011

    You understand that word?

    Read that again....... I AM MONOGAMOUS. Go creep around someone else. Yuk.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 21, 2016

    I Don't Do Polyamory.

    I'm in a relationship with a man who is polyamorous. It was never an issue until he fell in love with someone. Now I feel torn and hurt. I'm unsure whether to continue the relationship or not. I love him so much and it would kill me to have to end anything. And I know it would...
    SheySix SheySix
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Oct 28, 2012

    A Dedicated Partner

    Frankly, I don't think I could live with myself if I were any other way.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 7, 2011

    I can't finally say that I am FAITHFUL!

    My mind, body and soul is his 💍
    TinkOG TinkOG
    22-25, F
    Mar 26, 2014

    What Is Right For Me

    When I was very young, I almost had an affair with a married man, and I felt horrible. Afterward, I had a "relationship" with a man who was openly polyamorous, and that felt horrible (I really couldn't handle it and behaved badly). And finally, I have been cheated...
    Pidgie Pidgie
    46-50, F
    Jun 1, 2009

    Just Because.

    I'm not morally against anything but monogamy.  I'm not only making myself available to one guy.  I don't believe that it's the only way to live your life.  I just...am. I don't really think, given the opportunity, I'd date more than one person at a time, but at...
    felinethespian felinethespian
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 7, 2008

    Most of girls I know had several boyfriends

    and started dating early, while I was always single. I wasn't really religious, but I wanted to be with only one person during lifetime because I thought I'm too sensitive and dating multiple people might affect me badly, especially because I was depressed. Now I do have a...
    NarcissaBlack NarcissaBlack
    18-21, F
    Nov 11, 2014

    Of Course My Reason Will Make You Laugh..........

    I am a one man woman. Why? Because I can barely handle being in a relationship with one man let alone trying to carry on with 2 or more. lol. I mean seriously, you can pull sh*t like that off?Furthermore, I'm a jealous & insecure lover so there is NO WAY in hell that I'd be able...
    WynsHeart WynsHeart
    36-40, F
    1 Response May 15, 2011

    I am monogamous, not

    because of a religion, not because society says so (even though society seems more to be urging people to have sex with each other) but because I find it far more stable and enriching than polygamous relationships. I have many reasons for being monogamous. Not only do I know...
    Lunarflowerrr Lunarflowerrr
    26-30, F
    Mar 11, 2014

    What part of that is unclear?

    That's in real life, online, verbally, emotionally, physically, mentally..... Seriously idiots, go try find your sad little boy kicks elsewhere. It's pathetic.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 20, 2016

    I Only Have Eyes For You

    I don't know what it is nowadays but it seems that you can't live your life without knowing someone who has cheated on their partner or was cheated on by their partner. It is all the norm from your teachers to the tabloids. But for me it is not something I would ever do. I've...
    Mehameha Mehameha
    51-55, M
    7 Responses Sep 18, 2011

    One On One

    I have a wonderful boyfriend and don't need to go anywhere else. I am very fortunate! 
    soulshadow soulshadow
    36-40, F
    Apr 20, 2010

    I am married to the most Wonderful Woman on the

    face of the planet. I am totally and strictly monogamous, we have been married for over twenty-five years and we courted for three years before that. We have an excellent marriage in EVERY respect, everything we need outside of physical sustenance we find in one another and...
    pdqsailor1 pdqsailor1
    51-55, M
    Nov 6, 2015

    I am a Monogomous Single White Male Searching

    For Open Minded Female In Tampa Bay, Fl . I am a single white male age 58 searching for an open minded female in tampa bay, florida. if you are out there give me a line or two so that we can chat?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 3, 2013

    I am painfully monogamous.

    ... I get bitchy when anyone else even says "Hi" sometimes lol
    Lilyhammer420 Lilyhammer420
    26-30, F
    Aug 10, 2015

    No Matter What....

       I have always been faithful. I'm definitely a one man woman. I have never liked the idea of cheating. If you find yourself straying from the one you are suppose to love, then you need to move on because you can't love that person enough.      I'm...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Feb 17, 2009

    Telling my Dom all about the idiotic morons

    that message me on a daily basis, he said to change my status to something that tells people to make it clear immediately why they are messaging me. I told him it probably wouldn't even slow them down, but I did it if course. He agreed, but said at least it's out there to see...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Mar 18, 2016

    What Happened...

    Hmmm...It was the most unexpected thing to have happened to me. Of course who would seriously expect to win the lottery-in another country no less-no one expects good things to happen like this. She came to me like a bolt out of the clear blue sky. To say that I was caught off...
    DLucky1 DLucky1
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 15, 2011

    if you met an Armenian,

    you understand that monogamy is in our blood.
    mariyaarmenia mariyaarmenia
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 27, 2015

    Not For Me

     I have tried monogamy, but find it difficult, due to trust issues of mine, to be monogamous. Actually, when I enter a relationship, I am more than capable of being monogamous, but... I feel much more alive, if I am free and, capable of keeping my relationships casual. It's...
    LittleMonroe LittleMonroe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2009
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