I Am More Comfortable Around Girls Than Guys

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    I was raised by a single mother Werth three

    brothers. I get along better with girls because I want to support them like I couldn't support my mom.
    CIlockwork CIlockwork
    22-25, M
    Dec 17, 2015

    I have been abused and bullied more by cis guys,

    and comforted more by women. Starting with my parents. To put it simply. I feel women are more understanding and compassionate, probably because they are taught and allowed to be.
    lightforged lightforged
    22-25, T
    1 Response Dec 18, 2015

    Either my inner lesbo likes what she sees,

    or I'm biased because my sister is my best friend.
    dat1kiid dat1kiid
    22-25
    Dec 8, 2014

    I work in a department with a staff of about 40.

    I'm the only man. They'd probably cry if I left- they tell me they love me very often, not that I'm going there with any of them. So, don't get any ideas. I'm strictly professional with them. I go days without speaking with another man. When I do, its often as a shock. When I...
    Mossonarock Mossonarock
    46-50, M
    1 Response Dec 17, 2015

    Talk More Easily When I Am Comfortable

    So... overall, I had a far more negative relationship with men in my life. Who was I more bullied by in high school?  Boys.  They would have hit me if I wasn't as aggressive (and still am) as I was.  They hit me?  I DEFINITELY hit the sorry milksops back...
    Sixband Sixband
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2010

    I dunno, I just feel calmer

    and more at ease when talking to girls. I feel like it's easier to make a legitimate conversation with girls rather than guys. I'm not gay or anything, though that's what people have called me for having more girl-friends (note the hyphen) than guy-friends. Also, I'm a little...
    notthatoneguy notthatoneguy
    16-17, M
    1 Response Dec 16, 2015

    I guess it's always been natural

    for me. It started back when I was little, and for some reason, the girls loved being around me and treating me like I was their brother. Later on in life, I realized that whenever I talked with people, I always had more success of having comfortable conversations with women...
    Cmoor007 Cmoor007
    22-25, T
    Jan 23, 2016

    I have some many of female friends people are

    asking if I'm trans because I'm starting to act like them
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Dec 17, 2015

    I'm a 20 year old guy

    and I'm more comfortable around women then men, but I get the impression that women think I'm hitting on them when I actually just want to be friends. I am not attracted to guys, but I do identify more with women. How do I make it obvious that I'm not hitting on a girl but...
    jtac1111 jtac1111
    22-25, M
    1 Response Jan 24, 2015

    It used to be the other way around

    when I was a kid. I had all guy cousins so that was just what I was used to and it reflected similarly in school. Then at some point guys got really annoying and kind of scary and girls were these exceedingly interesting creatures that I wanted to get to know better (and...
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    And oddly enough, it really bugs me sometimes.

    Why do I like being around women more than men? There are times when I think it would be a lot easier and less complicated if it was the other way around.
    mickitg mickitg
    46-50, T
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2015

    And With Reason, They're... Well, More Comfortable.

         For the most part.  It's not that they're easier to be around necessarily either, i want to point out right away. Women can be a lot of work. By "work", i mean difficult to read and interpret. they can be moody and not make sense (especially to a guy). But as far as...
    johnnybliss johnnybliss
    41-45, M
    Jan 17, 2011
    JacquelineJonez JacquelineJonez
    26-30, T
    Sep 15, 2015

    I Have a Guy Phobia

     Don't get me wrong I love boys but guys are different. I feel comfortable around women and females. But only boys not grown men. On this site I talk to people my age or closer to my age. I defintley don't talk to guys that are above my age. i like have a radar in my head...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    3 Responses Sep 9, 2009

    As judge mental as some women are,

    there isn't the whole sexual aspect that there is with guys.
    Mrskatearch Mrskatearch
    31-35, F
    Sep 7, 2015

    Mind You...

    ... It's always been like this, though I'm not really sure where it comes from. Most particularly in grade school, I was always drawn to female friends and always seemed to seek female approval and attention. I can't really say where that originated, and while some would say it...
    Tuva Tuva
    31-35, M
    Dec 2, 2010

    I Have a Guy Phobia

     Don't get me wrong I love boys but guys are different. I feel comfortable around women and females. But only boys not grown men. On this site I talk to people my age or closer to my age. I defintley don't talk to guys that are above my age. i like have a radar in my head...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Sep 9, 2009
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