I Am More of a Guy Than a Girl At Times

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    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll
    16-17, M
    Nov 17, 2014

    All of my cousins and their friends are guys,

    I only have a brother, and I don't have very many friends of my own, so it's hard to get in touch with me feminine side...
    Blujay02 Blujay02
    18-21, F
    Nov 16, 2014

    Im not girly, i hate girls stuff like makeup &

    shopping, usually or most of the time i hang out with guys bcs im into their stuff. And i hate it when people who dont know me well call me ****.
    flamedoll flamedoll
    18-21, F
    Aug 11, 2014

    Is that weird??......

    petitelady28 petitelady28
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Aug 11, 2014

    But I still act like a girl

    but most of my actions are boyish . I hate siting like girls . My soft voice is beautiful but I just use it in singing and all the time I talk not in a boyish voice but a bold voice . I hate wearing clothes like girls I love jeans and t-shirts . But in the end I'm a girl .
    Silentsuffer Silentsuffer
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 27, 2014

    For some reason, I always seem to get along

    with boys better than with girls. And it shows - absolutely everyone I regularly meet up with is male. In a way I feel like it's because men seem easier to predict than women - they don't seem to have as many of the sudden mood changes that a lot of girls seem to have, and I...
    LittleClouds LittleClouds
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 21, 2014

    Yeah.. I don't wear dresses,

    skirts, etc. I don't like dressing up and makeup and doing my hair. I like things like sports, sweatpants and sweatshirts, guy things. Idk I just don't really act like a girl..
    SmilesHideSecrets SmilesHideSecrets
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 25, 2014

    Pretty much why guys in my school don't see me

    as a romantic interest, which by all means is fine by me :3
    RealisticSmile RealisticSmile
    16-17, F
    Apr 24, 2014

    I confuse everyone because I dress girly

    and wear tons of makeup and I'm into fashion and looks and stuff but at the same time I'm the type of girl that loves anything sporty and likes doing crazy stupid ****
    sammylynn333 sammylynn333
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    I may not be sporty or particularly adore video

    games, but I'm rugged and intimidating. People underestimate my lanky figure as being bony and awkward but when I get mad, everyone in their right mind at least flinches. I love loose jeans and t-shirts, running and the outdoors, and being overall happy-go-lucky; like someone...
    Saudabell Saudabell
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 24, 2014

    I'm a tomboy. I've always been interested in

    boy/guy activities. I never really have been a fan of shopping for clothes. In fact, it gives me knots. I love food. I love jeans and tshirts. Getting dirty by going mudding with the guys, or working on cars and trucks with the guys. Fishing. Camping. Bonfires. Swimming in a...
    Philli8807 Philli8807
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 24, 2014

    I know I am a girl but I'm not into girly

    things like dresses, make-up, shopping, and shoes. I'm the type of person that likes video games, and action and horror movies my mom always tells me "why can't you be a normal girl." And I always tell her " you should be lucky that you don't have a daughter will eventually...
    AlwaysHaveDreams AlwaysHaveDreams
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 16, 2014

    Don't Know If This Really Counts.

    I mean I'm a girl inside and outside. I like make-up, high heels, and all that usual stuff. But my personality is really...aggressive. Like I'm really spontaneous and kind of aggressive at times. And REALLY blunt. Some guys have described me as a go-getter and a person who does...
    DrMeemersworth DrMeemersworth
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 30, 2013

    I recall mom was talking with someone about how

    often girls cry at this and that and I piped in, "Hey! I don't cry??" She brushes me off without thinking "Yes yes dear, we all know your a mans man." I just stood there gaping at her until she realized what she said and they began laughing. ...seriously..-.-' sadly however I...
    hitvl hitvl
    22-25, F
    Nov 28, 2013

    I Feel That I Am A Guy In A Girls Body

    Ive Always thought that I was bi I mean I like boys and girls but I feel uncomfortable when I date guys and I hardly ever kiss them but when its comes to girls I would be ok with kissing girls so then sometimes I think that Im lesbian but I still like guys and the thing is that...
    UnicornSprinkles UnicornSprinkles
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Oct 25, 2013

    "Can I Help You, Sir?"

    Walking though the shopping mall towards the market place with my study black boots that squeak on the polished shiny floors, baggy burgundy combats, padded rugby body warmer and my grade 3 brown hair wet with rain; I stride towards a stall none other than the sewing box. "Can I...
    elpatitofeo elpatitofeo
    18-21, F
    Jan 29, 2013

    Tell Me About It!

    I feel like I think like a guy all the time. My thoughts and I am so attracted to girls sometimes. It's so confusing!
    DeeTeen DeeTeen
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 3, 2012

    Pretty Much All The Time

    Actually i never been a girl.
    Tori1332 Tori1332
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    My Outsides Don't Match My Insides.

    Wanted to be a boy since I was 4 or 5 years old. I wanted to have a penis. When I was 11, I started growing breasts and I disliked them. I still wanted to be a boy. I dressed like a boy, complete with short hair. As I got older, I dressed like a girl and it's "easier". But I...
    leuba leuba
    1 Response Jul 18, 2012

    Wedding Suit

    So I was going to my cousins wedding. We went to go try on bridesmaid dresses and the woman gave each of the other girls their dresses to try on. We were supposed to have my cousins gay boy best friend come with us but he got a cold and couldnt come. The maid of honor called in...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2012

    Oblivious Friends, Oblivious Family, & Oblivious Me...

    I've been such a guy since i could walk, and after I could dress myself, I got even more so. Now, I had a tiny niggling at 10, in the back of my mind, but, as smart as I am, I didn't really figure it out til my freshman year in high school. I'm a senior now, and, at that point, I...
    BearSchuyler BearSchuyler
    18-21, T
    May 31, 2012


    I've always been boyish. I was the best pitcher at my school for baseball and kickball. Team captains fought over me in dodgeball. I like to rough house. I don't care if I get dirty or bloody. I'm a martial artist and a scientist at heart. I buy my clothes and shoes in the men's...
    Trinomial Trinomial
    26-30, F
    Apr 16, 2012

    I Have Had To Be As We Were Poor

    I never had much money to look a pretty girl in the first place and men don't do enough to impress much on me as being a prince of my dreams and until they do I don't bother.... As I have been sexually abused all my life I have learnt to dress less girl like to avoid mens...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Oct 7, 2011

    All The Time..

    well i dont dress like a man or anything but i act just like boys sometimess... Im all about sex, i like when girls lay on me or hold on to me. im really tall so its easy for them to hold on to me and i lovee that.! i really like ***..lol i look at them alot. iF i see an...
    InLoveWithJTL InLoveWithJTL
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 4, 2011

    Not Sure Why

    I don't know why but sometimes I do. Maybe it's because I spent alot of my childhood playing football and hanging around with guys so they rubbed of on me but I'm pretty tomboyish anyways but I can also be girly like when I were dresses to parties and stuff, hate it though. I...
    Icanthelpet Icanthelpet
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 4, 2011

    Serious Case Of Tomboy...

    I've got short hair, terrible table manners, some noticeable muscle on my arms (toned though), I dress in guy's clothes, and love sitting on my *** playing video games instead of out shopping for clothes. Yup, the only part of me that's girly is my height and voice. I'm kinda...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 25, 2011


    one of my best friends took me out a few weeks ago b/c she wanted to treat me ... being raised around man i just picked of the things man should do... so when she came and pick me up i could not help but open her car door. then when we went shopping i open the door held her bags...
    LadyE21 LadyE21
    1 Response Apr 28, 2011

    The American Imperialist Sitcom I-carly Made Fun Of This With An Episode Called I Make Sam Girlier ...

    The American Imperialist sitcom i-carly made fun of this with an episode called i make sam girlier ...Thankfully her want to be boy friend did not mind that she was not so girly.
    deleted deleted
    Mar 8, 2011


    i am not like either but i like to flex my muscles and smell my armpits i like to
    kevin5678 kevin5678
    Aug 14, 2010

    Love It

    My friends make fun of me sometimes..but i dont care:) Love fast cars Love showing off my athletic abilities Love money Love poker Like to brag, a lot Wear bagging pants sometimes Love hiking boots :) and outdoors equipment Love being in charge, calling the shots Play...
    deleted deleted
    Aug 14, 2010

    Simply Me

    My friend (T): How do I look in this new dress? Me: Umm...nice? T: Are you sure I don't look fat in it? Me: You look normal to me. Another Friend: DUDE, she looks horrible in blue! ARE YOU BLIND?! T: Is my eyeliner smudged? Me: It's fine. Another friend: You can't even see the...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 14, 2010


    If I'm not leaving the house, I'm not uber concerned about hygienics. I drink stuff straight from the carton when no one's looking. I'm not afraid of a little gore. I like "guy-flicks" and sometimes I'm just really in the mood for a nice violent fighting movie. I hate...
    golddust2009 golddust2009
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 23, 2009

    In Little Ways

    I'm not sentimental I don't leave the house smelling like a fruitcake I don't get my hair or nails done- but I still look nize:) I mostly like rock, especially loud punk music from forty years ago, and I never liked Britney or Christina I don't keep a diary of my "...
    Vancity89 Vancity89
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 4, 2009


    I don't carry a purse, I never wear heels or dresses or skirts. I wear jeans, flannels, and t-shirts. I am never caught without my worn out Chuck Taylor Converse sneakers. I like science and technology and wish I could work on cars. I like dirty jokes, beautiful women, and...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    1 Response Dec 3, 2009

    So True

    hahahaa nothign really to say, the title says it all
    xsk8r1212x xsk8r1212x
    13-15, F
    1 Response Dec 1, 2009


    I am too honest and direct for gils to enjoy my company. I like teasing people i like and have a dark and dry sense of humor. I appear cold most of the time.  I hate talking about everything in detail and endlessly.... Dont want to generalize, there ARE girls who are...
    paralelcorners paralelcorners
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2009


    I have always been quite a tomboy. Did all the things that boy's did, hung out with mostly boys even as a little girl, can't keep shoes on for anything in the world. I still wrestle them now, when I'm not pregnant that is. haha. But lately I have found myself to be turning...
    brwneyedbeauty brwneyedbeauty
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 14, 2009

    But So Not Butch

    I admit it.  I'm a board certified Tom Boy!  Proud of it frankly.  I just never wanted to be limited by societies stereotypes of what they say men can do over and above women (and visa versa).  Consequently, I've never been afraid to get my hands dirty...
    DrewBerry DrewBerry
    46-50, F
    16 Responses Mar 5, 2009

    I Can't Help It

    I enjoy the things guys enjoy. It's not my fault. Really. The things men like are often more fun.
    LylaRocks LylaRocks
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Feb 10, 2009

    More Like All the Time

    I love videogames, anime, martial arts and most of my friends are boys.I never got along with girls.I HATE shopping unless its for games or a cool Katana or other samurai sword.I HATE dresses, make up, most jewelery, salons, getting my nails done, heels, soap operas, sappy movies...
    boredkiller18 boredkiller18
    18-21, F
    Nov 17, 2008

    There Should Be a Reverse For This Too

    I mean I am a guy but I am "spiritually" or whatever word works for you (the reader) more a girl than a guy at times.  Or I could just say I'm really in touch with my feminine side. I'm straight (so gay guys don't message me - no offense to you) and I love girls...
    OctoberNights OctoberNights
    26-30, M
    4 Responses Aug 10, 2008

    How I know I'm actually a [gay] dude...

     Don't like dealing with people's feelings and problems and needs. Don't like to cry in front of people. Don't like to spend tons of time getting dressed. Don't like talking **** about the guys I date. Don't date much. Don't collect shoes or purses. Don't like kids...
    janebee janebee
    3 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    ahhhh, well unless my shorts are decieving me, which i have to say is entorely possible if my ex-partnris anything to go by....i'valways been a  guy so yeah....ha.
    foxtrotoscar foxtrotoscar
    36-40, M
    Jul 15, 2008

    i Can Be Very Much of a Tom...

    i can be very much of a tomboy...i am friends with a lot of guys, so it's sort of difficult not to act like them...
    thedreamisover thedreamisover
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    I Think I Understand a Lot ...

    I think I understand a lot more about how guys think and they're approach to life as opposed to womens.  I've never really been into very girlie stuff - the only doll I had when I was a kid was bigger than me and had metal joints because it walked and all I remember about it...
    ravensong ravensong
    46-50, F
    Jul 15, 2008

    Perfection Has Become a Contradiction

    I like sports, being outdoors, and I'm not afraid to mess up my hair and makeup. This makes me far more boy-like than girl-like, I know. However now and days it's so hard for a woman to really find her place in this world. Since when do we have to run to one extreme or another...
    InsanelyMe08 InsanelyMe08
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    Most of the Time Actually :d

    I don't like wearing skirts or dresses. And my trousers have to be a little baggy. I almost always buy my shoes in the men's section (My feet are big enough :D). I also like having short hair more than long hair. Even the way I behave can be pretty masculine sometimes :P And...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 15, 2008

    Just Plain Weird

    Yeah I do feel like that half the time. I love getting down and dirty, but I also love to wear makeup, and wear skirts.
    lovesearth92 lovesearth92
    18-21, F
    Jul 15, 2008


    Yes, I feel that I can safely say this.  Not always perhaps, but most of the time.  I'm glad to say I can hold my own in groups of either gender, and have worked in an otherwise-all-female office where I once heard the comment, "Oh, he's just one of us," but I...
    EBunbury EBunbury
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jul 15, 2008

    Although I Am Very Feminine

    Although most people think I am a girlie girl there are some things that are more like a guy than girla about me.  I love to wear jeans and a baseball cap turned backward.  I love basketball shorts; the long ones. I love spending time in the gym working out.  I...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    5 Responses Jul 15, 2008

    Not Now, But When I Was You...

    Not now, but when I was younger I was a right royal tom-boy and could mix it with the best.
    deleted deleted
    Jul 15, 2008


    i took a guy and girl trait quiz and it said i hav 19 guy traits and 5 girl traits not 2 mention i fit in better w/ them and dress lik them more [[the guys]]
    AwesomePerson AwesomePerson
    18-21, F
    Jul 6, 2008

    Tom Boy

    I used to be a tom boy, it was crazy, I hated the fact of being a girl. And now I still have some acts like boys. But I like myself like that.
    deadalive deadalive
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 4, 2008


    I can feel the "guy" in me sometimes. Just a general feeling of masculinity, a vague attraction to other females, aggression, a need to hide my emotions and "tough it out"....
    paperalias paperalias
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 7, 2008

    It's More Comfortable Wearing the Pants

    I've always thought about this topic at various times in my life. Sometimes it's just casual other times it's more indepth. I really am, for the most part, more masculine than feminine. I've been that way since I was a kid. I got along better with guys, since we had similar...
    inuratus inuratus
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jun 5, 2008

    Part Tom Boy Part Girlie Girl

    I'm weird.  I already know this and I embrace it.  I call myself "Part Tom Boy, Part Girlie Girl" because a lot of the things I do contradicts themselves.  I love watching boxing and basketball.  I know more about boxing then most guys and can argue...
    QueenD QueenD
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 31, 2008

    Men Are From Mars...women Are From Venus

    ...and I'm from somewhere in between.  Gee, I must be an earthling.  
    Lumpfish Lumpfish
    26-30, F
    2 Responses May 31, 2008

    Why I Say This Is True

    I am a girl but most people see me as a guy friend or not a true girl at all this is annoying just because i am not into most girly things like shoping,getting all dolled up,shoes,ect id rather be outdoors getting dirty,watching/playing sports,playing on the computer,videogames...
    wildernessangle wildernessangle
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 11, 2008

    Me Too

    Unless I see a big spider then I scream like a little girl. Cheers!  
    Nanoose Nanoose
    61-65, M
    May 11, 2008
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