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I Am Nervous About Getting Married

For Brides or Grooms whose nerves are starting to show... 73 People

    I recently have been with My girlfriend

    for about a month now. I love her dearly with all my heart and soul. She is 32 and I'm 35. We are slowly getting to know each other. Slowly but surly I'm getting to know her and love her. She keeps bringing up the subject of getting married. I have no objection marrying...
    AVeryNiceguy34 AVeryNiceguy34 36-40, M Jan 15, 2014

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    I Am 9 Days Away...

    This is the biggest day of my life so far and I am terrified!  I really don't know if I have everything together!  I feel so out of control right now and so so so scared!  I love my fiance and know in my heart he is my soul mate but the day is so important and I...
    hippiepixie hippiepixie 26-30, F 2 Responses Aug 14, 2008

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    Reality Setting In.

    Yesterday was the one year mark to my wedding. Now it is really starting to sink in and I'm scared. I think I've finally chosen a venue, next month I'll be reserving it. I'll also be dress shopping soon. The main thing I'm nervous about is walking down the aisle and saying...
    urbrandofheroin urbrandofheroin 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 14, 2011

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Mar 7, 2014

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    New Fiance!

    Well, my name is Angel and I'm pretty young, not going to lie, I turn 19 this July. I've been dating this guy for coming up on 2 years now and it's perfect, I've never been more sure about someone in my life. He tried going into the army before we got together but certain things...
    loveebuggy loveebuggy 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 8, 2013

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    Went to Wedding This Weekend... Now Very Nervous

    My fiance and I are planning to get married in May of 2010. This past weekend I was in a wedding for a very dear friend of mine, the day was beautiful...... but now I have a problem.... months and months ago, the grooms brother voiced that he liked me to my friend ...
    nancym nancym 26-30 2 Responses Jun 29, 2009

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    Second Time, Same Ol' Feelings

    So I am 30, a single mom to a great little guy, and getting married in April. April 18th to be exact.  Just writing that makes me feel ill.  I have my dress and I cry when I see it. I have the ring for him and seriously  put it in the top of my jewelery box so I...
    pinkigirl pinkigirl 26-30 4 Responses Jan 11, 2009

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    Wedding planning is STRESSFUL.

    My fiance is a wonderful man and I am so glad to have him in my life. However, his family is another matter particularly his aunt. She had bombarded the both of us with all kinds of things ranging from who is in the wedding party to who we are inviting to where the wedding is...
    VoodooChild9302 VoodooChild9302 22-25, F Jul 29, 2015

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    Is it normal to question your decision the

    closer you get to your wedding?
    Tiffanyportelli Tiffanyportelli 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 10, 2015

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    30 Days To Go... Yikes!

    It's beginning to seem unreal. In 30 days, I'm going to be married! I am not having second thoughts, but it is a strange feeling knowing that my name is going to change forever. It is as if my identity is going to be different. That is the biggest thing that I've been thinking...
    MrsKateBrown MrsKateBrown 36-40, F 1 Response May 11, 2010

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    Six Weeks Away!

    I know I am making the right decision, because when I look at my love, I know there's no one else I would be happy with for the rest of my life, but that doesn't change the feelings I have about never having another relationship. Something about that finality, I find myself...
    Shift7 Shift7 22-25 1 Response Mar 10, 2013

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    I was nervous until I embraced his love

    and realized that I now get to focus all my love into him. My 'ball and chain' will free me. This didn't happen until we renewed our relationship through Dr. Chapman's 5 love languages.
    random2awkward random2awkward 31-35 Mar 21, 2014

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    DefiantRed DefiantRed 66-70 Aug 1, 2010

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    Very Nervous

    My female family members always tell me that when I get married I'm going to get "my *** beat " by my husband , And wait on him hand and foot. I'm not sure if that's true , I hope not . I'm engaged and getting married in 7 months . So far so good ; but people change and things...
    marchbaby0329 marchbaby0329 16-17, F Nov 27, 2013

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    4 Months To Go And I'm Feeling Very Nervous!

    I've been engaged to Matt for 3 years now and I remember his proposal like yesterday. He took me to an Indian restaurant at first and showed up looking so incredibly smart. After that, he wanted to go for a walk in the park (in February!) so reluctantly I agreed. It was cold and...
    CorruptedAngel CorruptedAngel 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 7, 2013

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 7, 2014

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    Hello. I'm really nervous about getting married

    at age 18. I love my girlfriend, she's 21. I need advice on marriage. If anyone who is married, is getting married good?
    Jashinism Jashinism 18-21, M 1 Response May 10, 2015

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    Fearful!

    Hello everyone, I Am getting married on friday July 2nd and I almost feel like I want to back out of it! I need some help from someone pleeease! I have never been with my husband sexually  and I am nervous about that too. I am terrified!
    sushi4 sushi4 31-35 1 Response Jun 29, 2010

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    I Am Not Nervous About Marriage... It's the Wedding!!

    I must be the least prepared Bride ever.  It is 7 months, 4 days before my wedding date.  I don't have a church, hall, photographer, a chef, or my dress in hand.  I have an idea for a dress and my girlfriend will be bringing hers down to see if it will work for...
    kritterbug kritterbug 31-35, F 2 Responses Feb 21, 2008

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    It Puts A Knot In My Tummy

    I am afraid to get married, we have had engagement rings for a year now, today is the first day I have actually worn mine out of the house. She wears hers daily. I am trying to make this happen, but im freaked out of my face. I have told her that I am afraid but not how much...
    darkrid3r darkrid3r 36-40, M 1 Response Sep 17, 2013

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    89 Days Left!!

    Matt and I marry in 89 days and suffice t say..I am blomin' nervous!! I'm not worried one bit about the marriage, not at all, no doubt in my mind that Matt is not my Mr Right. We've been together for 8 years and despite all the ups and downs we've gone through we just..work...
    CorruptedAngel CorruptedAngel 26-30, F Feb 16, 2013

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    Weddings By Onje.....

    WeddingsbyOnje Wedding coordinator specializing in wedding dreams for all couples. We help to create weddings for traditional and non traditional, multi cultural, and LGTB. Seeing that we all have a unique vision for our big day, no vision is to unique. We do have a web page but...
    WeddingsbyOnje WeddingsbyOnje 31-35, F Sep 8, 2012

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    Weddings By Onje.....

    WeddingsbyOnje Wedding coordinator specializing in wedding dreams for all couples. We help to create weddings for traditional and non traditional, multi cultural, and LGTB. Seeing that we all have a unique vision for our big day, no vision is to unique. We do have a web page but...
    WeddingsbyOnje WeddingsbyOnje 31-35, F Sep 8, 2012

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